Own your Problems

To really change things in your life you must accept them, you must take responsibility for your problems, own them.

Episode Transcript

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Who do you blame for your misfortune?
Who do you blame for your current situations?
Who are you blaming for the factthat you're broke or that bad
things are happening to you? You know, the deal about the
blame game is that you never really own up because it's not
your fault. It's not your problem.

(00:20):
You know, let's let's let me give you an example.
Now let's see, people usually say my bad character is from my
parents, like my friends gave memy bad character.
And for the most part, when you see that you're not going to
improve that bad character was not like it's not my problem.
They give it to me. It's like they handed it to me.
So it's not like I see this is my fault that I ain't, you know,

(00:41):
this is happening. And the idea of the situation is
that if you cannot take ownership of your problems, you
cannot take ownership, ownershipof what's happening to you, you
are not going to be responsible for it.
And if you're not responsible for it, you're not going to
change it. Like the the situation with the
bad character. Now you know what the gonna

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actually for the fact that you have a bad character because
just passed down to you from your mom or from your dad.
And if you don't take ownership of it, you're not going to be
responsible for that bad character.
If you're not responsible for that bad character, you're never
going to change. You're never going to see like,
OK, this is my problem and how can I solve this problem?
How can I change myself? How can I become better?

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So in everything that we're doing, in everything that we're
doing in life, we need to look at who are you blaming for your
situation? What are you blaming for your
problems? Because at the end of the day,
you can only blame yourself. You are the one responsible for
your own actions. For everything you do in this
world, you're responsible for it.
All the mistakes you make, all the actions you take, all the

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steps I take, everything, you are responsible for it.
And when you enter my mindset that I'm responsible for my own
life, we start to take actions, start to take precautions.
You start to be proactive in thedecision making of your life
itself. You know, you don't want to be
that guy that passes down your future to someone.
It's your friends, your peers, and it's not my it's not my

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problem you grab. So you need to you need to
identify who you're blaming yoursituation, your life, your
current pretty comment. And you must take ownership of
them. And when you take ownership of
those problems or just situations, that's when you can
now improve yourself. I think that's it.
I don't want to say too much. I think.

(02:28):
I think that's the whole script.I guess.
Stay with how long? So yeah.