October 1, 2025 • 45 mins
Marriage is hard enough—but what happens when in-laws, exes, and unspoken expectations start to pile on? In this installment of Our 2 Cents, we’re breaking down relationship dilemmas that push boundaries to the limit.
From wild in-law visit requests to uncomfortable co-parenting situations and permanent reminders of old relationships (yes, the ex-wife tattoo situation is real), we’re talking through the real-life messes that test communication, loyalty, and respect.
With personal stories, raw reactions, and some laughs along the way, this episode brings real insight into how couples can navigate life’s most awkward moments.
Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://linktr.ee/lifeafteridopodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.
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SPEAKER_03 (00:00):
He was furious.
SPEAKER_01 (00:01):
Crazy.
SPEAKER_03 (00:01):
He said, You think we're finna be in this in this
place?
No, babe.
We're leaving with the kitten.
We're going to the Airbnb.
My parents are going to stayhere in our bed.
And then we're going to comeback every morning to cook them
breakfast.
Yeah.
Clean up after them.
Cook their dinner.
And then we're going to go backto the Airbnb.
(00:54):
I think at this point you'rejust trying to test your lung
capacity.
SPEAKER_02 (00:58):
I do it for the people.
They come for thedoo-doo-doo-doo-doo.
SPEAKER_03 (01:02):
Welcome back to another episode of the Life
After I Do podcast, guys.
Thank you for joining us today.
Whether you're driving in yourcar, just waking up, if you're
around the house cleaning.
SPEAKER_02 (01:12):
If you brush your teeth or not yet, we appreciate
you for tuning in.
SPEAKER_03 (01:16):
With another episode of the Life After I Do podcast.
SPEAKER_02 (01:20):
Delay podcast.
SPEAKER_03 (01:21):
Of the laid podcast with Mo Kai.
SPEAKER_02 (01:25):
I'm Messy Mo.
Oh, yeah.
I come for the mess.
Yeah.
SPEAKER_03 (01:32):
Yeah, drama.
SPEAKER_02 (01:34):
I I come here to spend time with you.
SPEAKER_01 (01:36):
Do you?
SPEAKER_02 (01:37):
I do.
Oh.
Because on my normal schedulethroughout the week, I see all
of two hours and ten minutes ofyou a day.
Because when I come home fromwork and I and that eye mask is
down.
SPEAKER_03 (01:51):
It's done deal.
SPEAKER_02 (01:52):
She's not talking about talking.
SPEAKER_03 (01:54):
Done deal.
And you already know this.
And like three nights in a row,you thought you were finna come
into that bedroom and have sexytime.
And I said, you didn't get herebefore the face mask.
That's crazy.
That's wild.
SPEAKER_01 (02:09):
It's crazy that I had to work.
SPEAKER_03 (02:10):
It's it's crazy.
It's crazy.
Crazy the other time you didn't.
You were in your room playing amission.
And what did you say?
This game is too good.
SPEAKER_02 (02:19):
I had to play my mission.
SPEAKER_03 (02:19):
And I said, okay, well, I can't stay up no longer
because my eyelids.
SPEAKER_02 (02:23):
You could have said that.
SPEAKER_03 (02:24):
My eyelids were head.
SPEAKER_02 (02:25):
You said that the next morning, not that night.
SPEAKER_03 (02:27):
No, I did.
It was like my eyelids werelike.
Hey Booskies.
Hey Booskies.
Hi.
SPEAKER_02 (02:31):
How's your week?
How's you been?
Tell the people about your week.
Let me.
I got time to get something todrink.
SPEAKER_03 (02:36):
Y'all be back.
Let me start it off like you do.
Okay.
It was an uneventful week.
You know, it's same old, sameold, nothing too exciting.
Baby girl had her mock meet thispast weekend or this past week.
Yes.
(02:57):
So, you know, there was therewas that.
She's got a little work to workon.
You know, I'm here's the thing.
One thing I have learned aboutmy child is that she does not
shy away from a little bit ofspotlight.
So when when she knows thatthere is like when it's time to
turn it on, she turns it on.
SPEAKER_02 (03:16):
I'm gonna offer her.
And that's I'm going to offerher$100 for every nine.
SPEAKER_03 (03:23):
You shouldn't bribe children.
For every nine children thisyear, I don't think that's
great.
SPEAKER_02 (03:30):
She can get a hundred.
That means think about it.
SPEAKER_03 (03:32):
She has the potential to earn$400 a meat.
SPEAKER_02 (03:34):
A meat.
$400 for every nine.
$100.
And if she gets a 10, she'sgoing to Disneyland.
SPEAKER_03 (03:45):
Okay.
Anywho.
SPEAKER_02 (03:46):
I gotta motivate this baby somehow.
SPEAKER_03 (03:48):
Um you should continue to motivate her that
her hard work can pay off.
SPEAKER_00 (03:54):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_03 (03:54):
So, and it's not just with the money.
Goodbye.
Anywho, um, I think she was, I'mnot saying like she didn't try,
because obviously I know shetried.
But I just feel like because shealso knows that it wasn't like a
real, like a real meet.
So she was like, you know, likeI'm gonna show you what I got,
but I'm not gonna show you whatI got.
SPEAKER_02 (04:15):
You show up, you practice how you show up.
SPEAKER_03 (04:17):
And that's what I told her.
But anyway, you know, it wasfun.
It was cute.
It was cute, it was fun.
She did, she actually did reallygood.
I'm very proud of her.
That was good to you.
SPEAKER_02 (04:28):
I guess we just got different standards.
SPEAKER_03 (04:30):
Demel, what you're not gonna do with it, perfect.
What you're not gonna do is shiton my kids.
SPEAKER_02 (04:35):
I was about to hit it with the Denzel speech from
River Titan.
SPEAKER_03 (04:37):
Okay, goodbye.
SPEAKER_02 (04:38):
We will be perfect in every aspect of the game.
You miss a cue, you run a mile.
SPEAKER_03 (04:45):
No, it's fine.
SPEAKER_02 (04:46):
Your legs are bendy on that vault, you run a mile.
SPEAKER_03 (04:48):
No, because I've I've seen her.
SPEAKER_02 (04:49):
If you fall off that bar, I break my foot off in your
John Brown hind parts, and thenyou run a mile.
SPEAKER_03 (04:56):
Bye.
No, I've I've seen her, so Iknow I know I know what she can
do.
Now it'd be a difference if Ididn't know her, like the level
in which I see I have seen herperform.
So I've seen her perform at herlike high level.
So that's why I was not tryingto be that parent when I got the
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scorecard back.
You know, I was trying not to bethat parent, but then I also had
to let her know, you know, thatwasn't what that that wasn't
what we come here for.
And I just, you know, thatwasn't what we come here for.
Um I paid that judge anadditional$50, and um, I'm I'm
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kind of wanting it back.
SPEAKER_02 (05:40):
You know, I I I hit her with the Jalen Hurts.
SPEAKER_03 (05:42):
I said, um and it was a mock meet, so I know that
kind of sounded bad.
We didn't pay a judge.
Like we did pay a judge, but thejudge comes in.
You pay the judge to be there tojudge her.
Yeah, to judge her so that shecould um point out the
weaknesses and what she needs towork on before we go to
competition.
SPEAKER_02 (05:57):
You're supposed to be trained to go.
SPEAKER_03 (06:00):
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (06:00):
Rain, sleep, or snow?
You supposed to be trained togo.
SPEAKER_03 (06:03):
Okay, so anyway, that happened.
And um, yeah, that's pretty muchit.
I didn't have yeah, I didn'thave anything.
SPEAKER_02 (06:09):
Oh wow.
Eventful for eventful, huh?
Just nothing.
What about the gym?
SPEAKER_03 (06:14):
Oh, um deadlifts.
I did 325 for five and dead.
Okay.
That was pretty good.
SPEAKER_02 (06:20):
And still brought in no boxes from samples.
SPEAKER_03 (06:22):
And still didn't bring down any laundry, didn't
carry any groceries, and don'tplan on.
She barely carried a one.
What have I complained aboutthis week already that I feel
like I've been doing too muchof?
Putting gas in.
Putting gas in my car.
So we're we're almost to we'realmost to that to that limit
where I'ma just have to leave iton E, and you ain't gonna have
no choice but to just go put thegas in there yourself.
SPEAKER_02 (06:44):
It's because you've been driving more.
So I used to put gas in your caron on um like Thursdays.
Yeah, but I can't do that nomore.
Yeah, it needs to it needs to beI I had to start doing it on
Wednesdays.
SPEAKER_03 (06:59):
Yeah.
I mean, you know, I mean, I'vebeen I've been doing it.
But you know, and every everyweek I'm out there risking my
life at the pump and riskinggetting kidnapped or risking
somebody running a scam on me,or you know, like I'm just the
girl.
Just a girl.
I'm just out there.
(07:19):
I'm just the girl.
Okay, Gwen.
What to tell you?
I'm just okay, Gwen.
But yeah.
And I think the groceries arestill very heavy.
Still very heavy.
Laundry baskets are still veryheavy.
SPEAKER_02 (07:32):
Crazy.
SPEAKER_03 (07:34):
It's not okay, listen, it's not in the shape of
uh a barbell, so it's different.
SPEAKER_02 (07:38):
Okay.
SPEAKER_03 (07:39):
Okay?
SPEAKER_02 (07:39):
Just hip thrust it into the house.
SPEAKER_03 (07:43):
So dumb.
Just hip thrusted into thehouse.
No.
SPEAKER_02 (07:48):
Just hip thrust into the house.
SPEAKER_03 (07:49):
That's not a thing either.
How was your week, baby?
SPEAKER_02 (07:51):
Um my week was a week.
SPEAKER_03 (07:52):
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (07:53):
That's all I'm gonna say.
SPEAKER_03 (07:54):
Can I go ahead?
Because you got this.
SPEAKER_02 (07:56):
I know, you're jealous of it.
SPEAKER_03 (07:58):
And this, he's got this one eyebrow that's longer.
SPEAKER_02 (08:03):
Ten times longer than don't ahead of my eyebrows
because it's luxurious.
Okay.
Luxurious?
Okay.
My week was a week.
I got it done.
What can I say?
SPEAKER_03 (08:16):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (08:16):
I I I said, look here.
SPEAKER_03 (08:18):
You said look here a week.
SPEAKER_02 (08:20):
I gotta lock in.
I had enough of you.
I gotta lock in.
Life is life and these terror isabout to hit.
SPEAKER_03 (08:28):
Wait a minute.
Why did I go to old Navy today?
And um Oh, you did?
Yeah, I did.
I went to Old Navy today, anduh, because all the active wear
is on sale.
And then the clearance.
So all the like the old activewear that I bought all last
season, all that went toclearance, and then the new
stuff is on clearance.
Not my not my clearance price,like not my my good sweater
(08:50):
price, but still.
SPEAKER_02 (08:50):
I thought I thought you were done.
SPEAKER_03 (08:52):
Um, anywho, well, you were just we were just
talking.
Um, but there's a lady, she waslooking at the pants and she was
like, I swear I bought these forlike four dollars the year
before last.
And she was like, and it's crazybecause these pants are$42
already, these tariffs.
And I was like, I don't thinkthat's how that works.
I was like, I was like, oh girl.
(09:13):
I was like, it's crazy out here,right?
I was like, I don't think, Idon't think that's how that
works, but okay.
So that was your week.
SPEAKER_02 (09:22):
Yeah, you know, and this it's it's about to be
October.
Well, I mean, it'd be Octoberwhen y'all hear this.
SPEAKER_03 (09:29):
The best part about this is again, I I went to uh
Hobby Lobby today becauseOctober is coming.
SPEAKER_02 (09:36):
It's out there, huh?
SPEAKER_03 (09:38):
Because October is coming.
So October is when Christmasstuff starts to come out.
So, you know, Hobby Lobby, youknow, they're on it.
They are on it with theChristmas decor.
And so I went looking at rugsand stuff today because I think
I want to switch out the rugsfor the front porch this season.
They had a lot of good options.
And then um, I want to go backto at home because I think I
(10:02):
want to get, I can't decide if Iwant to get new Christmas
pillows or if I just want tomake Christmas pillows.
What do you think?
Really?
You're gonna space out while I'mtalking?
Wow.
Wow, just rude.
I'm not spacing out.
I'm asking a question.
You think I should just makesome pillows?
I could make some pillowsbecause because fabric was also
(10:24):
50% off.
SPEAKER_02 (10:25):
I'm gonna give you the answer that every husband
gives his wife.
There's nothing wrong with theones we have.
SPEAKER_03 (10:32):
There's nothing wrong with the ones we have now.
So we don't need that.
We've had them for like fouryears.
It's time to like freshen up,switch some stuff out.
Like, I want to switch up thedecor for Christmas.
SPEAKER_02 (10:41):
Wow, I'm happy you don't feel that way about your
marriage because I'd be swappedout already.
SPEAKER_03 (10:46):
You really should be happy.
I don't feel that way about mymarriage.
Because you're not a pillow.
That's why.
You call me a teddy bear.
Okay.
Bye to me.
I thought I was just stuffy.
Anywho, now that now that I'vesaid it out loud, I know what
I'm gonna do.
I'm gonna I'm gonna make somepillows.
I'm gonna make some pillowsbecause the Christmas fabric is
(11:08):
50% off.
SPEAKER_02 (11:09):
So it's not.
No, it's not.
No, it is.
No, it's gonna be 50% off theday after Christmas.
SPEAKER_03 (11:17):
No, it was 50% off today, but I couldn't decide
what I wanted to make with it.
So I left it there, but it'sgonna be that way for the rest
of the weekend.
SPEAKER_02 (11:24):
This is my weekend.
SPEAKER_03 (11:25):
Oh, damn, that would mean today would be the last
day.
Oh because they're not open onSunday.
SPEAKER_02 (11:30):
Play yourself.
SPEAKER_03 (11:31):
Damn.
Hopefully it's still there.
Even if it's not 50%, it'llstill be 30 on Monday.
So, I mean, that's fine.
I only need like two yards.
What?
Why are you looking at me likethat?
I think I can get it done inlike two weeks.
I'll get some.
SPEAKER_02 (11:47):
What we got today?
SPEAKER_03 (11:48):
Um, it's everyone's favorite.
Our two cents.
SPEAKER_02 (11:51):
I don't say anything.
It's your it's your favorite.
SPEAKER_03 (11:54):
Wow, why would you say that?
SPEAKER_02 (11:56):
Because I don't want something right now.
SPEAKER_03 (11:57):
I could go for some gra.
But you know what?
Instead, no, I'm gonna make I'mmaking spring rolls.
I'm gonna make homemade springrolls.
SPEAKER_02 (12:03):
If you're eating them like gra pa?
SPEAKER_03 (12:05):
No, no, we eat egg rolls from grapa.
I'm making spring rolls.
SPEAKER_02 (12:09):
Not the same.
SPEAKER_03 (12:10):
My gosh.
Okay, you just keep that sameenergy when your daughter and I
are sitting here having a wholespread.
Okay.
The kid asked for a pho fordinner tonight.
And I don't know why, but lastweek I had got the grand idea to
want to make pho from scratch.
And so I was like looking uprecipes and everything.
And long story short, it takesabout two days to really make
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like pho from scratch.
And I was like, well, I don'thave that type of energy right
now.
And so I figured out like aquick two-hour type deal with
pho.
So that's what we're gonna do.
SPEAKER_02 (12:43):
Two hours.
SPEAKER_03 (12:43):
Two hours compared to two days, it's it's it'll
work.
SPEAKER_02 (12:46):
I still feel like you should be making red beans
and writing to the pho.
SPEAKER_03 (12:49):
Okay, well, you put it you've made your request and
I've made your request.
This is the request she's made.
So when I'm done with herrequest, then you can request
it, you can put in anotherrequest.
If you want to put in a requestafter pho is done, you put your
request in, put it on the familyuh list right there, and I will
let you know what day it shallbe prepared for you.
SPEAKER_02 (13:07):
I feel like my request should be at the top, no
matter what.
SPEAKER_03 (13:09):
Okay.
Well, what what's your request?
SPEAKER_02 (13:12):
I want red beans and rice.
SPEAKER_03 (13:13):
Okay, again, okay.
SPEAKER_02 (13:14):
I want some chili beans.
SPEAKER_03 (13:15):
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (13:16):
I want some salmon croquettes.
SPEAKER_03 (13:17):
Okay.
For breakfast or for dinner?
SPEAKER_02 (13:19):
All day.
We're homemade biscuits.
Okay.
Uh, I think some appleturnovers.
SPEAKER_03 (13:23):
Uh-huh.
SPEAKER_02 (13:24):
And um I really none of which you can eat.
And I want a peach cobbler too.
SPEAKER_03 (13:30):
Okay.
I could, I could make you, Icould uh make you uh a lighter
version of peach cobbler thatcould probably fit into your
macros.
SPEAKER_02 (13:37):
No, I don't.
SPEAKER_03 (13:38):
But everything else.
SPEAKER_02 (13:40):
I can't wait.
I'm cutting.
Oh, when this cut is over, I'mfucking with me.
I'm making me, I'm I'm making asoul food dinner.
Do you think I'm playing?
SPEAKER_03 (13:48):
I don't think you're playing.
I'll I'll probably make it foryou.
SPEAKER_02 (13:50):
Yeah, I'm I'm ribs, greens, uh yams, mac and cheese.
SPEAKER_03 (13:55):
All that.
SPEAKER_02 (13:55):
I don't need the mac and cheese.
SPEAKER_03 (13:56):
Oh, I need them.
I need the mac and cheese, butwhatever.
Um, so yeah, so we are gonna hopright into it because, like I
said, guys, I have I have fun tobake.
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (14:07):
Oh wow.
Let's hurry.
Let's let's hurry up, people.
Let's not waste her time.
SPEAKER_03 (14:12):
That's not what I meant.
You're such a buckle.
SPEAKER_02 (14:15):
Let's go.
You're such a buckle.
I'll keep my responses short.
SPEAKER_03 (14:18):
You don't have to keep your responses short.
I'm just saying.
Oh, okay.
Like, you know, the kid is gonnaget hungry.
Yep.
Um, let's see.
Am I the asshole for refusing tohave my sister-in-law service
dog at my wedding?
SPEAKER_02 (14:31):
Okay.
SPEAKER_03 (14:32):
I once put um, oh, sorry, no.
I'm getting married in fivemonths with my fiance, and we
set our we sent our invitationsout last week.
For context, my sister-in-law,my husband's brother's wife, um,
has a medical dog since she'shad brain cancer around five
years ago.
She has seizures where she feelsdizzy 20 seconds beforehand and
then goes unconscious for a fewminutes.
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This happens three to four timesa week.
She has a dog who senses theseizures one to two minutes
beforehand, and it gives hertime to lay down in a safe space
and warn people that a seizureis coming.
The dog, which is a Labrador, isan angel, but sister-in-law, not
so much.
She is not a good person.
She claims wrong facts about myfiance and I's respective
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fields, medical and biologyenvironment, and screams at us
when we politely call her out.
We don't like her, but we arecivil because she loves him.
She loves her brother.
My own sister, on the otherhand, is my favorite person on
earth.
She is my maid of honor.
She's a very angelic persontowards dogs.
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If she's in the same room, hereyes get red and very, oh,
sorry.
She's very allergic, notangelic.
She's very allergic to dogs.
If she's in the same room as adog, her eyes get very red and
itchy, and she sneezesconstantly, and she has a little
asthma attack.
Um, antihistamines don't work onher.
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She isn't an entitled person,preferred to sacrifice herself
to penalize the person with theservice dog.
But in the same closed room withthe dog for five hours, she will
obviously have a strong asthmaattack.
Me and my fiance want my maid ofhonor to be comfortable in our
wedding.
And it's shallow, but I want herto feel pretty in the pictures
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and not to have swollen redeyes.
And we want our sister-in-law tobe safe.
But we thought that with herhusband always around her, she
would have someone to lean on.
We even proposed bringing a plusone to be there for her at all
instances.
And the venue is a 50-personroom, so it's not possible to
have them spread out enough andno backyard wedding in the
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winter.
So I guess like room for the forthe dog.
We wanted to announce thesepropositions face to face, but
my sister-in-law canceled ourlunch together last minute and
the invites needed to be sentout.
So we wrote to her on Messengerall of our points and our
propositions.
And we thought it was a goodidea because it gave her time to
think about it and to not feelpressured to answer all of our
(17:04):
invites at the immediate moment.
She called me and screamed thatI was an ableist and that I was
an asshole for suggesting toremove her from her medical help
and that I want to, and that Iwant her to create a scene at
our wedding and get a concussionfrom falling.
Brother-in-law just said whatshe says goes.
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So he's basically siding withhis wife.
Like whatever she says goes.
Um, and we don't know what hethinks.
My mother-in-law is furious andstarts to say that she won't
come to the wedding if thesister-in-law can't bring her
dog.
I know I'm biased because I'mobviously preferring my sister,
and because I myself also haveallergies, like food allergies,
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and believes allergies should beaccommodated in my wedding.
But um, what should I do?
Am I the asshole?
Is it an asshole move for me tosuggest for her not to bring her
dog?
SPEAKER_02 (17:58):
No, it's not.
It's not.
Here's why I say that.
unknown (18:04):
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (18:05):
It's your day.
That is true.
It's your day.
And if you if you want yoursister to not have a swollen
face in your pictures, becauseshe's your maid of honor, it's
your day.
And uh your sister-in-law willlet her, her husband, and your
mother-in-law have a good timewatching it via a live stream.
That's all I'm gonna say.
SPEAKER_03 (18:24):
I mean, I don't necessarily disagree with you.
SPEAKER_02 (18:26):
Hold on, and let's just be honest.
Oh gosh.
She said that she's not a niceperson to start with, so she
knew that she wasn't gonnaacquest it.
SPEAKER_03 (18:34):
She knew that she wasn't gonna take it easy.
SPEAKER_02 (18:36):
She wasn't gonna acquiesce to any of her
suggestions, even though she'strying to make it work for
everybody.
SPEAKER_03 (18:40):
Right.
SPEAKER_02 (18:41):
So again, it's not about her, it's about you.
And I I guarantee you thatmother-in law talking shit,
she'd be there.
SPEAKER_03 (18:47):
And and I do, I can appreciate that she was
basically saying, like, excuseme, we'll even allow you to have
an extra person there if youneed to.
But she's thinking if yourhusband is gonna be there
anyway, right, and you're gonnabe around like everybody, you're
gonna be in a safe space.
SPEAKER_02 (19:05):
I think the extra person was because the husband
is probably part of the weddingparty.
SPEAKER_03 (19:08):
Oh, okay.
Because it's I mean, but in anycase, like she's saying, like
we're gonna have we're gonnamake sure you're safe.
Even if your dog is not there,you're still gonna be with
family, you're still gonna bewith enough people so that we
can ensure your safety becauseobviously you have a condition
that you can't control, right?
And it says that she gets likeshe gets the warnings, like what
is it, 20 minutes or 20 seconds?
SPEAKER_02 (19:28):
How bad is this brain cancer?
SPEAKER_03 (19:30):
Bye, Marie.
Stop it.
Stop it.
It doesn't matter.
It does not matter.
Because if she's havingseizures, yeah, she has
seizures, but that's why she hasthe service dog because the
service dog senses when theseizures are about to happen.
Yeah, how bad is it?
Okay, I'm not doing this withyou this evening.
Nope.
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I'm not doing it.
No, I'm not falling for it.
Nope.
Ready?
All right, yeah, well, sure.
Am I the asshole for refusing tochange my wedding guest list
after my parents demanded it?
SPEAKER_02 (20:01):
Okay.
SPEAKER_03 (20:02):
I'm a 25-year-old female and my partner who's 31
and I are getting married in thefall of 2026 after almost four
wonderful years together.
Doubtful.
My relation, my relationshipwith my parents have always been
on the rockier side, and myfiance has little to do with my
parents because of comments thatwere made to me in the past
about threatening to make mehomeless, etc.
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All this before we bought ourfirst home together.
After I moved out, myrelationship with my parents had
improved, and I was lookingforward to having a small,
intimate wedding with myparents, his parents, and some
of our closest friends.
We've planned a 25 to 30 personum guest list for a church
ceremony, followed by a meal.
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On my side, the guest listincludes my parents, my brother,
my grandmother, and two of mydad's childhood friends who are
like uncles to me.
My bridal party consists ofthree women I'm close to, and I
was considering asking a closemale friend to be a bridesman.
The issue began when I asked oneof my close friends, someone I
met at work in the early 2000s,um, and have stayed very close
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with ever since, to be abridesmaid.
She's been a consistent supportin my life and has been involved
in my journey with my fiancefrom the very, very early start.
She's the reason we met.
My mom objected, claiming that Ididn't know her quote unquote
deeply enough, despite the factthat she has been a major part
of my life for many years.
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From there, things escalated.
My parents demanded I invite alist of people that I don't even
speak to and haven't hadmeaningful contact with in
years, just so they would havemore people on their side
present on the day of mywedding.
These people who are thesepeople have added nothing to our
wedding day, and I do notenvision them being present when
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I think of my dream wedding day.
So naturally I refused, andtheir behavior became extreme.
Calling me pathetic, threateningto invite people, threatening to
invite these people behind myback just to make sure that I
get upset on my wedding day,publicly posting online that my
fiance and I are awful and thatthey would not attend.
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And my dad even called thewedding a sham.
Oh, okay.
Am I under the belief that theguest list should mine and my
fiance alone and that we get tohave the final say in who we
want to invite to our wedding,especially a wedding of this
size?
I don't think that I'm beingunreasonable, but my parents are
making me feel like it's abattleground.
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Also, for added context, we havepaid for this wedding entirely
out of our own pockets, which isfine, and I didn't mind doing,
but I know some people will havea view if my parents were
paying.
unknown (22:50):
Fuck them.
SPEAKER_02 (22:51):
I don't give a fuck.
You were already rocking withthem.
And they look, you don't needthem.
They threatened to make youhomeless.
You found you found a young manand you guys are making a life
together.
Yeah.
And this friend, it sounds likethis friend has been more
supportive of your relationshipthan your parents.
Than your own parents.
Yeah.
Fuck them.
SPEAKER_03 (23:09):
Yeah, I have to agree.
SPEAKER_02 (23:11):
And first of all, look here.
They lost my support when theywent online bad mouthing you
because you don't actually haveto date demands.
That's crazy.
Crazy work.
That's crazy work.
I don't I don't know that'scrazy work.
I don't know what it is whenpeople you you you think you're
finna guilt me or talk and or ormake me look bad that make you.
Yeah.
SPEAKER_03 (23:27):
And wait, and the button.
I'm gonna double down.
SPEAKER_02 (23:29):
Hold on, baby.
Personally, you do I'm when youdo some shit like that to me,
I'm doubling down.
Of course.
SPEAKER_03 (23:35):
Of course.
And I think that's what she'sdoing.
SPEAKER_02 (23:37):
Because my but I'm gonna be petty with mine,
because I'm about to make I'mgonna make videos responding to
you.
SPEAKER_03 (23:42):
Oh wow.
And then post them.
SPEAKER_02 (23:44):
And then post them.
That's it.
And I'm and I'm going below thebelt.
SPEAKER_03 (23:47):
You going to hell.
They go low.
SPEAKER_02 (23:50):
Go to hell.
SPEAKER_03 (23:51):
We go to where well Cardi say we go to where the
lava at.
Okay.
She said, I understand you beingnice, Michelle.
That's nice, but that's not whatwe do.
That's not what we're doing.
That's crazy work.
That's not what we do here.
Yeah, I I I would have to agree.
Like you're paying for thewedding.
It's your wedding day.
It already sounded like you guyshad a rocky relationship to
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begin with.
It seems like, you know, I Iwould probably have to tell
them, look, you you know, y'allain't gotta be there.
SPEAKER_02 (24:21):
I would no longer want to.
SPEAKER_03 (24:22):
You're gonna be uninvited.
Actually, actually, now that Ithink about it, there's gonna be
even less people on my side,which I'm perfectly fine with.
Because now I don't want youthere.
Because now I don't even wantyou there.
Because we just got back onspeaking terms.
Because like she said, theydidn't have a really good
relationship until you know shemoved out, her fiance were
together, their relationship wasstarting to even out a little
bit.
And now it seems like mom andpop is back to their old
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bullshit.
SPEAKER_02 (24:45):
It's just like and there it goes.
I don't know what it is aboutthat generation of parents who
they feel like no matter whatthey did or matter what your
upbringing was.
SPEAKER_03 (24:54):
What your age is.
SPEAKER_02 (24:55):
Right.
That they that they justsupposed to be uh that they have
final say.
They have they have final say,and they're supposed to be
looked at as some high regard nomatter how they treated you or
how you're man, you better sityour ass down.
Yeah, look at that.
SPEAKER_03 (25:05):
Like you got you got final say, but you literally
tried to kick me out.
SPEAKER_02 (25:08):
It's crazy work.
If you hear this, you DM me,I'll slap your daddy for you.
Bye Maurice, you will not.
SPEAKER_03 (25:13):
Um, okay, here we go.
Am I the asshole for not pickingup my ex's daughter from school
when I picked up our son?
SPEAKER_02 (25:21):
Yes.
SPEAKER_03 (25:23):
You sure about that?
SPEAKER_02 (25:23):
I don't know, Gigo.
SPEAKER_03 (25:25):
Okay.
Um X cheated on me when I waspregnant with our son, who's now
eight.
And because of this, he now hasa daughter who's also eight with
his affair partner, who's nowhis wife.
We are not on good terms, and Ido not have a relationship with
my ex's daughter.
I have never spoken a word toher or spent any significant
time in her presence.
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Ex and I split custody 50-50with our son.
Two weeks ago, I got a call fromthe school during custody time,
uh, her ex's custody time.
So he should have been pickingthe son up from school.
So two weeks ago, I got a callfrom the school during his
custody time stating nobody hadpicked our son up from school
and was asking if I would comeand get him.
When I got to the school, myex's daughter was also there and
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the teacher was with her.
She told me I was on theapproved list to pick up my ex's
daughter and that I would needto take the both them both.
I said, no.
And I told her that I did notwant to be on that list, as I
would never pick this child upfrom school.
She told me that she would passalong the word and that it would
be uh taken care of, but I wouldhave to call and follow up to
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make sure that it was taken careof.
My ex never told me or his wife,um, or his wife never told me to
that I was an authorized pickupperson for the daughter.
When he realized that I didn'tpick up his daughter with our
son, he was furious.
He asked me how I could leaveher behind when I have our son
unplanned anyway.
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I told him via our parenting appthat I picked up our son as I
would always do if needed, buthis daughter is not my child,
and I will not be theiremergency pickup contact.
According to my ex's daughter,she was there until seven
because I refused to pick her upwith our son.
She is a child and I understandthat it's not ideal.
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I don't feel bad per se, but Iwonder if I would be considered
an asshole for being unwillingto do this just this once.
This is not something I want tobe a regular that I want to be a
regular thing, and it's thefirst time it ever happened.
My ex's wife was apparentlydelayed from getting out of
town, and my ex was working.
But am I the asshole?
SPEAKER_02 (27:35):
I'm gonna say yes or no.
I'm gonna say no because it'snot your child.
It's not your responsibility,but at the same time, that's his
sister.
SPEAKER_03 (27:44):
That's his sister, but yeah, I know, but and not
only that, you also put my nameon paperwork that I didn't
authorize.
SPEAKER_02 (27:51):
I understand that.
So I understand that.
SPEAKER_03 (27:53):
But again How bold of you to do such a thing?
SPEAKER_02 (27:56):
As a parent, sure.
Every year we get that form,who's authorized to pick your
kid up?
Do we always uh verify withthese?
I do.
Ah, we know we don't.
I do.
SPEAKER_03 (28:05):
Well first of all, I had to because I had to switch
because the verified person wasmy best friend and they no
longer live in the same state.
SPEAKER_02 (28:11):
Okay, first of all.
First of all.
SPEAKER_03 (28:13):
But yes, they know that they're authorized to pick
our child up.
SPEAKER_02 (28:16):
Yeah, there's only two people authorized to pick
up.
SPEAKER_03 (28:18):
But they they are very much aware that they're
authorized to pick up our child.
As a one-time thing, I don'tthink I like you mean she could
have just done it, and then whenshe did it and said this can't
happen again.
SPEAKER_02 (28:27):
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, but it probably wasn't.
But I understand why she didn't.
SPEAKER_03 (28:30):
Yeah.
She said they're not even ongood speaking terms.
SPEAKER_02 (28:32):
Because you gotta set you gotta set precedent.
SPEAKER_03 (28:33):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (28:34):
I get that.
SPEAKER_03 (28:34):
She said, I picked up my child.
SPEAKER_02 (28:36):
But I do feel like some of that is pettiness
towards him.
So absolutely.
Because he cheated.
SPEAKER_03 (28:43):
Absolutely.
SPEAKER_02 (28:43):
So a sense of the father.
That that that baby girl ain'thad nothing to do with her
decision her daddy made.
SPEAKER_03 (28:48):
Listen, none of not listen, unfortunately, see, all
of us are paying in some shapeor form from what our parents
have done.
SPEAKER_02 (28:56):
Go ahead.
SPEAKER_03 (28:58):
Unfortunately.
But no, I do get what you'resaying.
She's a child.
She doesn't know what's goingon.
She's a kid.
Yeah, she's eight, and now shehad to be at school till 7 40.
So you wouldn't feed her either?
She was that baby was hungry.
I mean, if I had some extrasnacks in my car, look here.
I'm just teasing.
Look here.
SPEAKER_02 (29:15):
I let me put it this way.
I am, there is no part of methat is responsible for your
niece.
Right.
I'm not gonna just leave hersomewhere when I know I could
take her.
Right.
And I'm gonna feeder too.
SPEAKER_01 (29:27):
Are you gonna feed her?
SPEAKER_02 (29:28):
Yes.
Just the way I fed and took careof uh my sweet Kaya when she
blew that damn diaper out herfirst time meeting me.
SPEAKER_03 (29:37):
That was hilarious.
SPEAKER_02 (29:39):
I'm not gonna just like come on now.
I didn't have to.
I could let you I could let hersit right there and have blown
out diaper until her mama gotback.
SPEAKER_03 (29:46):
I see what, I see what you're mean.
I see what you're saying.
Yes, it's a kid because the kidhas nothing to do with it.
Right.
She has nothing to do with it.
Because then what happens?
What happens if like literallynobody could come get her?
SPEAKER_00 (29:58):
See, because
SPEAKER_03 (30:00):
Eventually you but eventually you would have broke
down and been like, you knowwhat, I'm gonna just go get her.
But then you're gonna hear it.
You're like, she would make sureher ex heard it.
This could never happen again.
Like you and your wife, get ittogether.
SPEAKER_02 (30:13):
I get it.
You and that skeezer, you know.
SPEAKER_03 (30:16):
Right.
Because the kids are the sameage, they both ate.
So they was pregnant at the sametime.
Crazy work.
And then he marries her.
Crazy work.
Maybe she wasn't.
That's because she didn'tprobably want them or something.
Okay.
Ready?
Am I the asshole for suggestingmy in-laws stay at an Airbnb
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instead of us leaving our homewith our kitten?
Okay.
My parent-in-laws are visitingus for a week because our space
is so small, they would have tosleep on the couch, which they
would not like.
So I suggested booking them anAirbnb.
The way they could spend thethat way they could spend the
day with us, enjoy homemademeals.
Um, maybe my husband, she waslike, oh, her husband can cook
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and stuff, enjoy homemade meals,then go out and return for
dinner at our place beforespending the night at their
Airbnb comfortably.
My husband hated the idea andwas furious that I even
suggested it.
He wants us to leave ourapartment for them and for us to
stay at the Airbnb ourselves,taking our three-month-old
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kitten with us, then come backevery single morning to prepare
their meals, do the house toursfor them, and then spend the day
with them.
Am I crazy for thinking thatthis sounds unreasonable?
No, no, no.
The fuck?
SPEAKER_02 (31:37):
What type of parents would want to displace you that
like that anyway?
That's wild.
SPEAKER_03 (31:43):
She said they wouldn't like sleeping.
SPEAKER_02 (31:45):
They must be from the Caucas Mountains.
SPEAKER_03 (31:47):
They would not like it.
Here's the thing I can I canunderstand when you have like
family or like parents who comefrom um maybe like a different
country or something, they don'tcome very often and they're
gonna be staying the week.
Of course, you want them to beas comfortable as possible.
Like, I don't wouldn't want youto travel all this way for you
to be uncomfortable in my housefor a whole week.
But um I just don't know that Imean that I feel like that kind
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of falls in with like gettingaway from the city.
SPEAKER_02 (32:11):
When they booked the trip, they knew you had a one
bedroom.
So when they booked the flight,they should have booked the
Airbnb.
They should have booked theAirbnb over the room.
SPEAKER_03 (32:20):
No, they left that, they left that for you to come
up with.
SPEAKER_02 (32:23):
Again, I say, when you book the flight.
SPEAKER_03 (32:25):
But see, that also means, okay, if we're leaving,
because if the only other bedthat's up, if the only bed
that's available is ours,because otherwise they would be
sleeping on the couch, thatmeans you want, I can't have
them sleeping in my bed.
I can't have nobody elsesleeping in my bed.
That's where I draw the line.
I'm gonna tell you right now.
SPEAKER_02 (32:40):
I'm gonna tell you right now, I draw the line of
people sleeping in my bed.
The only person, the only twopeople that I can't do that.
The only two people that cansleep in my bed, that's not me
and you, is in is in heaven.
I can't, I can't do that.
I can give my bed up for nobodyelse.
SPEAKER_03 (32:54):
I can't do that.
That's too much.
SPEAKER_02 (32:55):
That's wild.
SPEAKER_03 (32:56):
Yeah, that's wild.
He's he said, he was furious.
Crazy.
He said, You think we finna bein this in this place?
No, babe.
We're leaving with the kitten.
We're going to the Airbnb.
My parents are gonna stay herein our bed, and then we're gonna
come back every morning to cookthem breakfast, clean up after
them, cook their dinner, andthen we're gonna go back to the
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Airbnb.
SPEAKER_02 (33:19):
I'm out.
Yeah, it's a lot.
I didn't sign up for that.
SPEAKER_03 (33:23):
That's a lot.
All right.
Am I the asshole for beingfurious that my cousin dragged
her stupid kid on our Italytrip?
SPEAKER_02 (33:32):
Okay, come on.
SPEAKER_03 (33:33):
We planned a family trip to Italy, six adults.
Should have been easy, shouldhave been fun, but my cousin
decided to bring her 10-year-oldson.
Big mistake.
Honestly, I hate that she didthis because that kid
single-handedly ruined ourFlorence day.
We checked out of our Airbnb at10 a.m.
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Flight wasn't until evening.
I did the smart thing, bookbounced luggage storage near
Santa Maria, so we didn't haveto haul suitcases, drop bags,
get the QR code, smooth asbutter for about five minutes.
I thought, great, this is gonnabe a great chill day.
Then the kid happened.
First stop, Piazza.
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Signoria, street performerpainted head to toe in silver,
standing still like a statue.
The demon child stares for aminute, then walks up to him and
pinches his leg.
Not a light pinch, a fool-onpinch, like he's testing the
guy's paint job.
The silver man jumps, kidscreams, crowd laughs, performer
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yells in Italian, my cousin'sfalling over herself,
apologizing.
Meanwhile, I'm standing herethinking, Effing hate this.
We finally drag him away, andI'm praying we can salvage the
day.
Nope.
He runs straight to the Neptunefountain and climbs it like it's
a juggle gym.
A guard blows his whistle soloud that the entire piazza
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stops.
My cousin's face is purple, theguard is pissed, the crowd is
staring, and I'm just done.
By the time we picked up ourluggage that night, everyone was
silent.
No talking, no laughing, justsix adults completely drained by
one kid who managed to turnFlorence into his personal war
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zone.
On the train to the airport, Ikept thinking I paid for storage
so we could enjoy Florence lightand Caffrey uh carefree.
Instead, we got cardio,humiliation, and babysitting
duties.
I'll admit it, I muttered stupidkid more than once.
I hate it the entire day.
And honestly, I hate that mycousin thought it was a good
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idea to drag him along in thefirst place.
Am I the asshole for being soangry?
Or is it fair to say that herkid ruined Florence and I'm not
obligated to pretend otherwise,stupid kid?
SPEAKER_02 (35:54):
Both.
He's 10.
SPEAKER_03 (35:56):
He's 10, but I also think it's crazy that you're be
the only person who brings a kidon a vacation where it's all
adults.
SPEAKER_02 (36:03):
Here's what I think will happen.
She paid, she really wanted togo.
She didn't want to give up, shedidn't want to let the trip go,
and she couldn't find a probablyright.
SPEAKER_03 (36:11):
There was nowhere for him to go.
SPEAKER_02 (36:12):
So she brought the kid hoping for the best.
Now, unfortunately, it didn't goas well as she hoped it would
do, but he's 10 though.
SPEAKER_03 (36:20):
You would think it would be the behavior would be a
little better, but it's a10-year-old boy.
Okay, I'm done with you.
So done with you.
SPEAKER_02 (36:32):
You gotta watch the video, see what I did.
Um she knew what kind of catkind of kids she had.
SPEAKER_03 (36:37):
Oh, yeah.
Parents know they're children.
SPEAKER_02 (36:39):
So, like my kid, no, I would have just pushed her ass
in that pond.
SPEAKER_03 (36:43):
Bye.
SPEAKER_02 (36:43):
You're not gonna embarrass me in front of all
these people.
SPEAKER_03 (36:46):
You're not gonna push her in a pond.
SPEAKER_02 (36:48):
I'm gonna embarrass you when you embarrass me.
That's how we go.
Um First of all, don't call akid stupid.
That's not nice.
SPEAKER_03 (36:56):
I know that's that's so that's so playground.
That's not nice.
SPEAKER_02 (37:00):
I mean, I I'm gonna let the demon slide because
after I saw what he, after y'allread, after I heard what he did,
I understand that.
You're not wrong for being madat him because he did ruin your
day.
SPEAKER_03 (37:10):
Yeah, he did.
SPEAKER_02 (37:10):
Right?
He did.
But I do believe that yourcousin was trying to make the
best out of a situation that shecould.
Yeah.
I don't know what her dynamic isas far as this child's father,
but maybe this is the only wayshe can make it work where she
can go on the trip.
And unfortunately for peoplewith kids, that tends we turn
down a lot of invitations.
SPEAKER_03 (37:27):
Yeah, we do.
But it's not, but I feel likealso with us, it's not
necessarily because we can'tfind shut up.
Not necessarily that we can'tfind somewhere where she needs
to be.
But it's also because I I don'tbe like letting my kid be going
like a lot of places to be likeovernight with people.
(37:49):
You know what I'm saying?
You know, what?
Why?
Because that's your number oneexcuse all day.
We ain't got nobody to watch,baby girl.
So we can't go.
Can't do it.
Can't do it.
Damn, play yourself.
No, but I mean, but that is thetruth sometimes.
Like it very much is the truth.
Like a lot of the time it is thetruth.
But we do have, you know, thingsin place where she can go.
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But I don't always like, I'mjust not, I'm not one of those
parents that's very free andwilly-nilly when it comes to my
kid being overnight anywherewithout me.
Like, that's just that's justwhere I am.
Maybe as she gets older, it'llI'll relinquish a little bit
more, but that's just not, it'snot what I'm what I'm down with,
you know?
Um, okay, so last one.
(38:33):
Let's get one more in.
Okay.
Um, am I the asshole for tellingmy fiance that I won't marry him
unless he removes his ex-wife'sname tattooed across his chest?
Okay.
I'm a 28-year-old female and I'mengaged to my fiance who is 32.
He was married before, and whileI understand people do have
past, there's one thing that Ican't get over.
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He still has his ex-wife's nametattooed in big letters across
his chest.
I assumed he'd get it removedeventually, but when I brought
it up, he shrugged it off andsaid that it was just ink and
that it doesn't mean anythinganymore.
To me, it absolutely does.
The thought of walking down theaisle and starting a new life
together while he literally hasanother woman's name written
across his chest over his heartmakes me feel disrespected and
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humiliated.
I told him that I won't marryhim unless he covers it up.
He didn't like, he didn't likeit and said, uh, mind my own
body and told me to be uh thatnot to be shallow and to focus
on the present, not the past.
But every time I see him with not-shirt on, I see the name of
his ex-wife, and that hurts me.
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And he's refusing to evenconsider it.
So am I the asshole for makingthis a condition before we get
married?
SPEAKER_02 (39:44):
Yes, his body, his choice.
SPEAKER_03 (39:45):
Oh, I I knew that's where you were gonna take this.
SPEAKER_02 (39:49):
Look here.
In y'all's quest for equality,it gotta be across the board.
His body, his choice.
You know, maybe uh I don't Idon't know how he uh Yeah no, I
don't know how they separated,but maybe it wasn't maybe it was
on good terms.
They just did see I die.
And she was the one he let go.
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But you you hear now.
SPEAKER_03 (40:12):
You hear it now.
You hear it now.
Okay, so What's her name?
I don't know.
She didn't say what her namewas?
No, but she said it's in bigletters across the hard to get
removed and cover up.
You could black it out.
SPEAKER_02 (40:27):
Nah.
SPEAKER_03 (40:28):
She just don't want to see it.
So don't look.
Because, like, and here's thething I can I can understand it
from both sides.
I totally see his point, and Ican also see her point because
I'm also thinking like yougetting out the shower, your
shirt is off.
So if I had you turn to me.
If I have Maya written righthere, and you turn towards me,
and all I have to see is Mayaall the time, all the time, or
when I'm like on top and I'mlooking down at you, and all I
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see is your ex-wife's name,that's probably gonna be a hard
note for me.
SPEAKER_02 (40:54):
She had a career.
Bye, Maurice.
SPEAKER_03 (40:56):
That but I can that's why I said I can
understand, I can understandboth.
Like uh imagine if it was theother way around.
Like, what if she had, I don'tknow, Brandon in big old English
across her chest, and youstanding at the altar.
Are you really gonna want tohave to stare at Brandon across
your wife's chest for the restof your life?
SPEAKER_02 (41:13):
I just nickname my penis Brandon from that day
forward.
SPEAKER_03 (41:15):
Okay, okay.
I see, I see.
I see what type of time you'reon.
I see what type of time you'reon.
His body is choice.
And it you listen, he told her,mind your own body.
SPEAKER_02 (41:33):
So why why why are you threatened by somebody
that's not around?
SPEAKER_03 (41:36):
I mean, but here's the thing, too.
Uh this is what I would alsosay.
Don't make threats that you'renot gonna follow through with
either.
Because you also told him thatyou are refusing to marry him
until he covers it up.
So what if he tries to call yourbluff and be like, I have no
plans on covering this up?
So I guess we're either gonnadate indefinitely or I guess
there's the door.
It was nice.
(41:56):
And maybe I'll still have achance to reconnect with this
one right here.
SPEAKER_02 (42:00):
The one that has my heart.
SPEAKER_03 (42:02):
Wow, really?
Scandalous.
Scandalous.
If he said some crap like that,that's how your tires get
slashed.
Oh, wow, crazy, huh?
It's crazy.
Crazy that's crazy.
Because tires get slashed, tiresget slashed, like you know, I
don't know, like slippery stuffat your front door when you walk
out and bam.
SPEAKER_02 (42:21):
I'm sorry, what?
SPEAKER_03 (42:22):
Huh?
What did you say?
You said something?
Wow.
All right, what do we have forthe comment of the week, baby?
SPEAKER_02 (42:29):
The comment of the week uh is from the reaction
about the the boyfriend thatupgraded his seat and left.
SPEAKER_03 (42:35):
Oh, and it didn't update.
Okay, so if you guys are we hadthere was a uh gosh, I just went
all over the place.
A gentleman went on a trip withhis girlfriend, and when he got
together, but they bought it.
SPEAKER_02 (42:46):
They each bought their own ticket.
For some reason that'simportant.
I don't know why.
SPEAKER_03 (42:54):
She paid for her ticket, but he ended up getting
an offer to upgrade to firstclass on the same flight that
they were going on together,because this is a trip together
as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Um, so he upgrades to firstclass and tells his girlfriend
as she's walking back to coach,I'll see you when we get there.
SPEAKER_00 (43:14):
Yep.
SPEAKER_03 (43:14):
He does not offer to upgrade her.
He doesn't offer to decline theupgrade that that was given to
him.
He was like, I'm sitting infirst class now and I don't have
to deal with that coach life,but I'll see you when we land.
And so this is a response tothat video.
SPEAKER_02 (43:29):
Her comment was, he's not for her.
He's for them seats.
SPEAKER_03 (43:35):
And then she put the seat emoji, the airplane seat
emoji, with three laughing,rolling on the floor emojis.
He's not for her.
SPEAKER_02 (43:43):
He's for I will say that when I read this, I started
crying laughing.
This was this really took meout.
SPEAKER_03 (43:49):
That took you out?
SPEAKER_02 (43:50):
It took me out.
I can't.
I had a full face of tears.
SPEAKER_03 (43:55):
Really?
SPEAKER_02 (43:55):
I y'all understand.
I live for the comments.
SPEAKER_03 (43:58):
Oh my gosh.
And who did this come from?
I'm not gonna but uh Shaima73.
SPEAKER_02 (44:04):
I don't know.
I you know, I don't butcherpeople's name.
I can't say words.
You know, it's funny.
It was funny.
SPEAKER_03 (44:10):
Yeah, that was really funny.
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Peace, Booskies.
Peace, Booskies.
He was furious.
SPEAKER_01 (00:01):
Crazy.
SPEAKER_03 (00:01):
He said, You think we're finna be in this in this
place?
No, babe.
We're leaving with the kitten.
We're going to the Airbnb.
My parents are going to stayhere in our bed.
And then we're going to comeback every morning to cook them
breakfast.
Yeah.
Clean up after them.
Cook their dinner.
And then we're going to go backto the Airbnb.
(00:54):
I think at this point you'rejust trying to test your lung
capacity.
SPEAKER_02 (00:58):
I do it for the people.
They come for thedoo-doo-doo-doo-doo.
SPEAKER_03 (01:02):
Welcome back to another episode of the Life
After I Do podcast, guys.
Thank you for joining us today.
Whether you're driving in yourcar, just waking up, if you're
around the house cleaning.
SPEAKER_02 (01:12):
If you brush your teeth or not yet, we appreciate
you for tuning in.
SPEAKER_03 (01:16):
With another episode of the Life After I Do podcast.
SPEAKER_02 (01:20):
Delay podcast.
SPEAKER_03 (01:21):
Of the laid podcast with Mo Kai.
SPEAKER_02 (01:25):
I'm Messy Mo.
Oh, yeah.
I come for the mess.
Yeah.
SPEAKER_03 (01:32):
Yeah, drama.
SPEAKER_02 (01:34):
I I come here to spend time with you.
SPEAKER_01 (01:36):
Do you?
SPEAKER_02 (01:37):
I do.
Oh.
Because on my normal schedulethroughout the week, I see all
of two hours and ten minutes ofyou a day.
Because when I come home fromwork and I and that eye mask is
down.
SPEAKER_03 (01:51):
It's done deal.
SPEAKER_02 (01:52):
She's not talking about talking.
SPEAKER_03 (01:54):
Done deal.
And you already know this.
And like three nights in a row,you thought you were finna come
into that bedroom and have sexytime.
And I said, you didn't get herebefore the face mask.
That's crazy.
That's wild.
SPEAKER_01 (02:09):
It's crazy that I had to work.
SPEAKER_03 (02:10):
It's it's crazy.
It's crazy.
Crazy the other time you didn't.
You were in your room playing amission.
And what did you say?
This game is too good.
SPEAKER_02 (02:19):
I had to play my mission.
SPEAKER_03 (02:19):
And I said, okay, well, I can't stay up no longer
because my eyelids.
SPEAKER_02 (02:23):
You could have said that.
SPEAKER_03 (02:24):
My eyelids were head.
SPEAKER_02 (02:25):
You said that the next morning, not that night.
SPEAKER_03 (02:27):
No, I did.
It was like my eyelids werelike.
Hey Booskies.
Hey Booskies.
Hi.
SPEAKER_02 (02:31):
How's your week?
How's you been?
Tell the people about your week.
Let me.
I got time to get something todrink.
SPEAKER_03 (02:36):
Y'all be back.
Let me start it off like you do.
Okay.
It was an uneventful week.
You know, it's same old, sameold, nothing too exciting.
Baby girl had her mock meet thispast weekend or this past week.
Yes.
(02:57):
So, you know, there was therewas that.
She's got a little work to workon.
You know, I'm here's the thing.
One thing I have learned aboutmy child is that she does not
shy away from a little bit ofspotlight.
So when when she knows thatthere is like when it's time to
turn it on, she turns it on.
SPEAKER_02 (03:16):
I'm gonna offer her.
And that's I'm going to offerher$100 for every nine.
SPEAKER_03 (03:23):
You shouldn't bribe children.
For every nine children thisyear, I don't think that's
great.
SPEAKER_02 (03:30):
She can get a hundred.
That means think about it.
SPEAKER_03 (03:32):
She has the potential to earn$400 a meat.
SPEAKER_02 (03:34):
A meat.
$400 for every nine.
$100.
And if she gets a 10, she'sgoing to Disneyland.
SPEAKER_03 (03:45):
Okay.
Anywho.
SPEAKER_02 (03:46):
I gotta motivate this baby somehow.
SPEAKER_03 (03:48):
Um you should continue to motivate her that
her hard work can pay off.
SPEAKER_00 (03:54):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_03 (03:54):
So, and it's not just with the money.
Goodbye.
Anywho, um, I think she was, I'mnot saying like she didn't try,
because obviously I know shetried.
But I just feel like because shealso knows that it wasn't like a
real, like a real meet.
So she was like, you know, likeI'm gonna show you what I got,
but I'm not gonna show you whatI got.
SPEAKER_02 (04:15):
You show up, you practice how you show up.
SPEAKER_03 (04:17):
And that's what I told her.
But anyway, you know, it wasfun.
It was cute.
It was cute, it was fun.
She did, she actually did reallygood.
I'm very proud of her.
That was good to you.
SPEAKER_02 (04:28):
I guess we just got different standards.
SPEAKER_03 (04:30):
Demel, what you're not gonna do with it, perfect.
What you're not gonna do is shiton my kids.
SPEAKER_02 (04:35):
I was about to hit it with the Denzel speech from
River Titan.
SPEAKER_03 (04:37):
Okay, goodbye.
SPEAKER_02 (04:38):
We will be perfect in every aspect of the game.
You miss a cue, you run a mile.
SPEAKER_03 (04:45):
No, it's fine.
SPEAKER_02 (04:46):
Your legs are bendy on that vault, you run a mile.
SPEAKER_03 (04:48):
No, because I've I've seen her.
SPEAKER_02 (04:49):
If you fall off that bar, I break my foot off in your
John Brown hind parts, and thenyou run a mile.
SPEAKER_03 (04:56):
Bye.
No, I've I've seen her, so Iknow I know I know what she can
do.
Now it'd be a difference if Ididn't know her, like the level
in which I see I have seen herperform.
So I've seen her perform at herlike high level.
So that's why I was not tryingto be that parent when I got the
(05:16):
scorecard back.
You know, I was trying not to bethat parent, but then I also had
to let her know, you know, thatwasn't what that that wasn't
what we come here for.
And I just, you know, thatwasn't what we come here for.
Um I paid that judge anadditional$50, and um, I'm I'm
(05:37):
kind of wanting it back.
SPEAKER_02 (05:40):
You know, I I I hit her with the Jalen Hurts.
SPEAKER_03 (05:42):
I said, um and it was a mock meet, so I know that
kind of sounded bad.
We didn't pay a judge.
Like we did pay a judge, but thejudge comes in.
You pay the judge to be there tojudge her.
Yeah, to judge her so that shecould um point out the
weaknesses and what she needs towork on before we go to
competition.
SPEAKER_02 (05:57):
You're supposed to be trained to go.
SPEAKER_03 (06:00):
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (06:00):
Rain, sleep, or snow?
You supposed to be trained togo.
SPEAKER_03 (06:03):
Okay, so anyway, that happened.
And um, yeah, that's pretty muchit.
I didn't have yeah, I didn'thave anything.
SPEAKER_02 (06:09):
Oh wow.
Eventful for eventful, huh?
Just nothing.
What about the gym?
SPEAKER_03 (06:14):
Oh, um deadlifts.
I did 325 for five and dead.
Okay.
That was pretty good.
SPEAKER_02 (06:20):
And still brought in no boxes from samples.
SPEAKER_03 (06:22):
And still didn't bring down any laundry, didn't
carry any groceries, and don'tplan on.
She barely carried a one.
What have I complained aboutthis week already that I feel
like I've been doing too muchof?
Putting gas in.
Putting gas in my car.
So we're we're almost to we'realmost to that to that limit
where I'ma just have to leave iton E, and you ain't gonna have
no choice but to just go put thegas in there yourself.
SPEAKER_02 (06:44):
It's because you've been driving more.
So I used to put gas in your caron on um like Thursdays.
Yeah, but I can't do that nomore.
Yeah, it needs to it needs to beI I had to start doing it on
Wednesdays.
SPEAKER_03 (06:59):
Yeah.
I mean, you know, I mean, I'vebeen I've been doing it.
But you know, and every everyweek I'm out there risking my
life at the pump and riskinggetting kidnapped or risking
somebody running a scam on me,or you know, like I'm just the
girl.
Just a girl.
I'm just out there.
(07:19):
I'm just the girl.
Okay, Gwen.
What to tell you?
I'm just okay, Gwen.
But yeah.
And I think the groceries arestill very heavy.
Still very heavy.
Laundry baskets are still veryheavy.
SPEAKER_02 (07:32):
Crazy.
SPEAKER_03 (07:34):
It's not okay, listen, it's not in the shape of
uh a barbell, so it's different.
SPEAKER_02 (07:38):
Okay.
SPEAKER_03 (07:39):
Okay?
SPEAKER_02 (07:39):
Just hip thrust it into the house.
SPEAKER_03 (07:43):
So dumb.
Just hip thrusted into thehouse.
No.
SPEAKER_02 (07:48):
Just hip thrust into the house.
SPEAKER_03 (07:49):
That's not a thing either.
How was your week, baby?
SPEAKER_02 (07:51):
Um my week was a week.
SPEAKER_03 (07:52):
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (07:53):
That's all I'm gonna say.
SPEAKER_03 (07:54):
Can I go ahead?
Because you got this.
SPEAKER_02 (07:56):
I know, you're jealous of it.
SPEAKER_03 (07:58):
And this, he's got this one eyebrow that's longer.
SPEAKER_02 (08:03):
Ten times longer than don't ahead of my eyebrows
because it's luxurious.
Okay.
Luxurious?
Okay.
My week was a week.
I got it done.
What can I say?
SPEAKER_03 (08:16):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (08:16):
I I I said, look here.
SPEAKER_03 (08:18):
You said look here a week.
SPEAKER_02 (08:20):
I gotta lock in.
I had enough of you.
I gotta lock in.
Life is life and these terror isabout to hit.
SPEAKER_03 (08:28):
Wait a minute.
Why did I go to old Navy today?
And um Oh, you did?
Yeah, I did.
I went to Old Navy today, anduh, because all the active wear
is on sale.
And then the clearance.
So all the like the old activewear that I bought all last
season, all that went toclearance, and then the new
stuff is on clearance.
Not my not my clearance price,like not my my good sweater
(08:50):
price, but still.
SPEAKER_02 (08:50):
I thought I thought you were done.
SPEAKER_03 (08:52):
Um, anywho, well, you were just we were just
talking.
Um, but there's a lady, she waslooking at the pants and she was
like, I swear I bought these forlike four dollars the year
before last.
And she was like, and it's crazybecause these pants are$42
already, these tariffs.
And I was like, I don't thinkthat's how that works.
I was like, I was like, oh girl.
(09:13):
I was like, it's crazy out here,right?
I was like, I don't think, Idon't think that's how that
works, but okay.
So that was your week.
SPEAKER_02 (09:22):
Yeah, you know, and this it's it's about to be
October.
Well, I mean, it'd be Octoberwhen y'all hear this.
SPEAKER_03 (09:29):
The best part about this is again, I I went to uh
Hobby Lobby today becauseOctober is coming.
SPEAKER_02 (09:36):
It's out there, huh?
SPEAKER_03 (09:38):
Because October is coming.
So October is when Christmasstuff starts to come out.
So, you know, Hobby Lobby, youknow, they're on it.
They are on it with theChristmas decor.
And so I went looking at rugsand stuff today because I think
I want to switch out the rugsfor the front porch this season.
They had a lot of good options.
And then um, I want to go backto at home because I think I
(10:02):
want to get, I can't decide if Iwant to get new Christmas
pillows or if I just want tomake Christmas pillows.
What do you think?
Really?
You're gonna space out while I'mtalking?
Wow.
Wow, just rude.
I'm not spacing out.
I'm asking a question.
You think I should just makesome pillows?
I could make some pillowsbecause because fabric was also
(10:24):
50% off.
SPEAKER_02 (10:25):
I'm gonna give you the answer that every husband
gives his wife.
There's nothing wrong with theones we have.
SPEAKER_03 (10:32):
There's nothing wrong with the ones we have now.
So we don't need that.
We've had them for like fouryears.
It's time to like freshen up,switch some stuff out.
Like, I want to switch up thedecor for Christmas.
SPEAKER_02 (10:41):
Wow, I'm happy you don't feel that way about your
marriage because I'd be swappedout already.
SPEAKER_03 (10:46):
You really should be happy.
I don't feel that way about mymarriage.
Because you're not a pillow.
That's why.
You call me a teddy bear.
Okay.
Bye to me.
I thought I was just stuffy.
Anywho, now that now that I'vesaid it out loud, I know what
I'm gonna do.
I'm gonna I'm gonna make somepillows.
I'm gonna make some pillowsbecause the Christmas fabric is
(11:08):
50% off.
SPEAKER_02 (11:09):
So it's not.
No, it's not.
No, it is.
No, it's gonna be 50% off theday after Christmas.
SPEAKER_03 (11:17):
No, it was 50% off today, but I couldn't decide
what I wanted to make with it.
So I left it there, but it'sgonna be that way for the rest
of the weekend.
SPEAKER_02 (11:24):
This is my weekend.
SPEAKER_03 (11:25):
Oh, damn, that would mean today would be the last
day.
Oh because they're not open onSunday.
SPEAKER_02 (11:30):
Play yourself.
SPEAKER_03 (11:31):
Damn.
Hopefully it's still there.
Even if it's not 50%, it'llstill be 30 on Monday.
So, I mean, that's fine.
I only need like two yards.
What?
Why are you looking at me likethat?
I think I can get it done inlike two weeks.
I'll get some.
SPEAKER_02 (11:47):
What we got today?
SPEAKER_03 (11:48):
Um, it's everyone's favorite.
Our two cents.
SPEAKER_02 (11:51):
I don't say anything.
It's your it's your favorite.
SPEAKER_03 (11:54):
Wow, why would you say that?
SPEAKER_02 (11:56):
Because I don't want something right now.
SPEAKER_03 (11:57):
I could go for some gra.
But you know what?
Instead, no, I'm gonna make I'mmaking spring rolls.
I'm gonna make homemade springrolls.
SPEAKER_02 (12:03):
If you're eating them like gra pa?
SPEAKER_03 (12:05):
No, no, we eat egg rolls from grapa.
I'm making spring rolls.
SPEAKER_02 (12:09):
Not the same.
SPEAKER_03 (12:10):
My gosh.
Okay, you just keep that sameenergy when your daughter and I
are sitting here having a wholespread.
Okay.
The kid asked for a pho fordinner tonight.
And I don't know why, but lastweek I had got the grand idea to
want to make pho from scratch.
And so I was like looking uprecipes and everything.
And long story short, it takesabout two days to really make
(12:32):
like pho from scratch.
And I was like, well, I don'thave that type of energy right
now.
And so I figured out like aquick two-hour type deal with
pho.
So that's what we're gonna do.
SPEAKER_02 (12:43):
Two hours.
SPEAKER_03 (12:43):
Two hours compared to two days, it's it's it'll
work.
SPEAKER_02 (12:46):
I still feel like you should be making red beans
and writing to the pho.
SPEAKER_03 (12:49):
Okay, well, you put it you've made your request and
I've made your request.
This is the request she's made.
So when I'm done with herrequest, then you can request
it, you can put in anotherrequest.
If you want to put in a requestafter pho is done, you put your
request in, put it on the familyuh list right there, and I will
let you know what day it shallbe prepared for you.
SPEAKER_02 (13:07):
I feel like my request should be at the top, no
matter what.
SPEAKER_03 (13:09):
Okay.
Well, what what's your request?
SPEAKER_02 (13:12):
I want red beans and rice.
SPEAKER_03 (13:13):
Okay, again, okay.
SPEAKER_02 (13:14):
I want some chili beans.
SPEAKER_03 (13:15):
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (13:16):
I want some salmon croquettes.
SPEAKER_03 (13:17):
Okay.
For breakfast or for dinner?
SPEAKER_02 (13:19):
All day.
We're homemade biscuits.
Okay.
Uh, I think some appleturnovers.
SPEAKER_03 (13:23):
Uh-huh.
SPEAKER_02 (13:24):
And um I really none of which you can eat.
And I want a peach cobbler too.
SPEAKER_03 (13:30):
Okay.
I could, I could make you, Icould uh make you uh a lighter
version of peach cobbler thatcould probably fit into your
macros.
SPEAKER_02 (13:37):
No, I don't.
SPEAKER_03 (13:38):
But everything else.
SPEAKER_02 (13:40):
I can't wait.
I'm cutting.
Oh, when this cut is over, I'mfucking with me.
I'm making me, I'm I'm making asoul food dinner.
Do you think I'm playing?
SPEAKER_03 (13:48):
I don't think you're playing.
I'll I'll probably make it foryou.
SPEAKER_02 (13:50):
Yeah, I'm I'm ribs, greens, uh yams, mac and cheese.
SPEAKER_03 (13:55):
All that.
SPEAKER_02 (13:55):
I don't need the mac and cheese.
SPEAKER_03 (13:56):
Oh, I need them.
I need the mac and cheese, butwhatever.
Um, so yeah, so we are gonna hopright into it because, like I
said, guys, I have I have fun tobake.
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (14:07):
Oh wow.
Let's hurry.
Let's let's hurry up, people.
Let's not waste her time.
SPEAKER_03 (14:12):
That's not what I meant.
You're such a buckle.
SPEAKER_02 (14:15):
Let's go.
You're such a buckle.
I'll keep my responses short.
SPEAKER_03 (14:18):
You don't have to keep your responses short.
I'm just saying.
Oh, okay.
Like, you know, the kid is gonnaget hungry.
Yep.
Um, let's see.
Am I the asshole for refusing tohave my sister-in-law service
dog at my wedding?
SPEAKER_02 (14:31):
Okay.
SPEAKER_03 (14:32):
I once put um, oh, sorry, no.
I'm getting married in fivemonths with my fiance, and we
set our we sent our invitationsout last week.
For context, my sister-in-law,my husband's brother's wife, um,
has a medical dog since she'shad brain cancer around five
years ago.
She has seizures where she feelsdizzy 20 seconds beforehand and
then goes unconscious for a fewminutes.
(14:54):
This happens three to four timesa week.
She has a dog who senses theseizures one to two minutes
beforehand, and it gives hertime to lay down in a safe space
and warn people that a seizureis coming.
The dog, which is a Labrador, isan angel, but sister-in-law, not
so much.
She is not a good person.
She claims wrong facts about myfiance and I's respective
(15:17):
fields, medical and biologyenvironment, and screams at us
when we politely call her out.
We don't like her, but we arecivil because she loves him.
She loves her brother.
My own sister, on the otherhand, is my favorite person on
earth.
She is my maid of honor.
She's a very angelic persontowards dogs.
(15:39):
If she's in the same room, hereyes get red and very, oh,
sorry.
She's very allergic, notangelic.
She's very allergic to dogs.
If she's in the same room as adog, her eyes get very red and
itchy, and she sneezesconstantly, and she has a little
asthma attack.
Um, antihistamines don't work onher.
(15:59):
She isn't an entitled person,preferred to sacrifice herself
to penalize the person with theservice dog.
But in the same closed room withthe dog for five hours, she will
obviously have a strong asthmaattack.
Me and my fiance want my maid ofhonor to be comfortable in our
wedding.
And it's shallow, but I want herto feel pretty in the pictures
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and not to have swollen redeyes.
And we want our sister-in-law tobe safe.
But we thought that with herhusband always around her, she
would have someone to lean on.
We even proposed bringing a plusone to be there for her at all
instances.
And the venue is a 50-personroom, so it's not possible to
have them spread out enough andno backyard wedding in the
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winter.
So I guess like room for the forthe dog.
We wanted to announce thesepropositions face to face, but
my sister-in-law canceled ourlunch together last minute and
the invites needed to be sentout.
So we wrote to her on Messengerall of our points and our
propositions.
And we thought it was a goodidea because it gave her time to
think about it and to not feelpressured to answer all of our
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invites at the immediate moment.
She called me and screamed thatI was an ableist and that I was
an asshole for suggesting toremove her from her medical help
and that I want to, and that Iwant her to create a scene at
our wedding and get a concussionfrom falling.
Brother-in-law just said whatshe says goes.
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So he's basically siding withhis wife.
Like whatever she says goes.
Um, and we don't know what hethinks.
My mother-in-law is furious andstarts to say that she won't
come to the wedding if thesister-in-law can't bring her
dog.
I know I'm biased because I'mobviously preferring my sister,
and because I myself also haveallergies, like food allergies,
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and believes allergies should beaccommodated in my wedding.
But um, what should I do?
Am I the asshole?
Is it an asshole move for me tosuggest for her not to bring her
dog?
SPEAKER_02 (17:58):
No, it's not.
It's not.
Here's why I say that.
unknown (18:04):
Okay.
SPEAKER_02 (18:05):
It's your day.
That is true.
It's your day.
And if you if you want yoursister to not have a swollen
face in your pictures, becauseshe's your maid of honor, it's
your day.
And uh your sister-in-law willlet her, her husband, and your
mother-in-law have a good timewatching it via a live stream.
That's all I'm gonna say.
SPEAKER_03 (18:24):
I mean, I don't necessarily disagree with you.
SPEAKER_02 (18:26):
Hold on, and let's just be honest.
Oh gosh.
She said that she's not a niceperson to start with, so she
knew that she wasn't gonnaacquest it.
SPEAKER_03 (18:34):
She knew that she wasn't gonna take it easy.
SPEAKER_02 (18:36):
She wasn't gonna acquiesce to any of her
suggestions, even though she'strying to make it work for
everybody.
SPEAKER_03 (18:40):
Right.
SPEAKER_02 (18:41):
So again, it's not about her, it's about you.
And I I guarantee you thatmother-in law talking shit,
she'd be there.
SPEAKER_03 (18:47):
And and I do, I can appreciate that she was
basically saying, like, excuseme, we'll even allow you to have
an extra person there if youneed to.
But she's thinking if yourhusband is gonna be there
anyway, right, and you're gonnabe around like everybody, you're
gonna be in a safe space.
SPEAKER_02 (19:05):
I think the extra person was because the husband
is probably part of the weddingparty.
SPEAKER_03 (19:08):
Oh, okay.
Because it's I mean, but in anycase, like she's saying, like
we're gonna have we're gonnamake sure you're safe.
Even if your dog is not there,you're still gonna be with
family, you're still gonna bewith enough people so that we
can ensure your safety becauseobviously you have a condition
that you can't control, right?
And it says that she gets likeshe gets the warnings, like what
is it, 20 minutes or 20 seconds?
SPEAKER_02 (19:28):
How bad is this brain cancer?
SPEAKER_03 (19:30):
Bye, Marie.
Stop it.
Stop it.
It doesn't matter.
It does not matter.
Because if she's havingseizures, yeah, she has
seizures, but that's why she hasthe service dog because the
service dog senses when theseizures are about to happen.
Yeah, how bad is it?
Okay, I'm not doing this withyou this evening.
Nope.
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I'm not doing it.
No, I'm not falling for it.
Nope.
Ready?
All right, yeah, well, sure.
Am I the asshole for refusing tochange my wedding guest list
after my parents demanded it?
SPEAKER_02 (20:01):
Okay.
SPEAKER_03 (20:02):
I'm a 25-year-old female and my partner who's 31
and I are getting married in thefall of 2026 after almost four
wonderful years together.
Doubtful.
My relation, my relationshipwith my parents have always been
on the rockier side, and myfiance has little to do with my
parents because of comments thatwere made to me in the past
about threatening to make mehomeless, etc.
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All this before we bought ourfirst home together.
After I moved out, myrelationship with my parents had
improved, and I was lookingforward to having a small,
intimate wedding with myparents, his parents, and some
of our closest friends.
We've planned a 25 to 30 personum guest list for a church
ceremony, followed by a meal.
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On my side, the guest listincludes my parents, my brother,
my grandmother, and two of mydad's childhood friends who are
like uncles to me.
My bridal party consists ofthree women I'm close to, and I
was considering asking a closemale friend to be a bridesman.
The issue began when I asked oneof my close friends, someone I
met at work in the early 2000s,um, and have stayed very close
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with ever since, to be abridesmaid.
She's been a consistent supportin my life and has been involved
in my journey with my fiancefrom the very, very early start.
She's the reason we met.
My mom objected, claiming that Ididn't know her quote unquote
deeply enough, despite the factthat she has been a major part
of my life for many years.
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From there, things escalated.
My parents demanded I invite alist of people that I don't even
speak to and haven't hadmeaningful contact with in
years, just so they would havemore people on their side
present on the day of mywedding.
These people who are thesepeople have added nothing to our
wedding day, and I do notenvision them being present when
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I think of my dream wedding day.
So naturally I refused, andtheir behavior became extreme.
Calling me pathetic, threateningto invite people, threatening to
invite these people behind myback just to make sure that I
get upset on my wedding day,publicly posting online that my
fiance and I are awful and thatthey would not attend.
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And my dad even called thewedding a sham.
Oh, okay.
Am I under the belief that theguest list should mine and my
fiance alone and that we get tohave the final say in who we
want to invite to our wedding,especially a wedding of this
size?
I don't think that I'm beingunreasonable, but my parents are
making me feel like it's abattleground.
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Also, for added context, we havepaid for this wedding entirely
out of our own pockets, which isfine, and I didn't mind doing,
but I know some people will havea view if my parents were
paying.
unknown (22:50):
Fuck them.
SPEAKER_02 (22:51):
I don't give a fuck.
You were already rocking withthem.
And they look, you don't needthem.
They threatened to make youhomeless.
You found you found a young manand you guys are making a life
together.
Yeah.
And this friend, it sounds likethis friend has been more
supportive of your relationshipthan your parents.
Than your own parents.
Yeah.
Fuck them.
SPEAKER_03 (23:09):
Yeah, I have to agree.
SPEAKER_02 (23:11):
And first of all, look here.
They lost my support when theywent online bad mouthing you
because you don't actually haveto date demands.
That's crazy.
Crazy work.
That's crazy work.
I don't I don't know that'scrazy work.
I don't know what it is whenpeople you you you think you're
finna guilt me or talk and or ormake me look bad that make you.
Yeah.
SPEAKER_03 (23:27):
And wait, and the button.
I'm gonna double down.
SPEAKER_02 (23:29):
Hold on, baby.
Personally, you do I'm when youdo some shit like that to me,
I'm doubling down.
Of course.
SPEAKER_03 (23:35):
Of course.
And I think that's what she'sdoing.
SPEAKER_02 (23:37):
Because my but I'm gonna be petty with mine,
because I'm about to make I'mgonna make videos responding to
you.
SPEAKER_03 (23:42):
Oh wow.
And then post them.
SPEAKER_02 (23:44):
And then post them.
That's it.
And I'm and I'm going below thebelt.
SPEAKER_03 (23:47):
You going to hell.
They go low.
SPEAKER_02 (23:50):
Go to hell.
SPEAKER_03 (23:51):
We go to where well Cardi say we go to where the
lava at.
Okay.
She said, I understand you beingnice, Michelle.
That's nice, but that's not whatwe do.
That's not what we're doing.
That's crazy work.
That's not what we do here.
Yeah, I I I would have to agree.
Like you're paying for thewedding.
It's your wedding day.
It already sounded like you guyshad a rocky relationship to
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begin with.
It seems like, you know, I Iwould probably have to tell
them, look, you you know, y'allain't gotta be there.
SPEAKER_02 (24:21):
I would no longer want to.
SPEAKER_03 (24:22):
You're gonna be uninvited.
Actually, actually, now that Ithink about it, there's gonna be
even less people on my side,which I'm perfectly fine with.
Because now I don't want youthere.
Because now I don't even wantyou there.
Because we just got back onspeaking terms.
Because like she said, theydidn't have a really good
relationship until you know shemoved out, her fiance were
together, their relationship wasstarting to even out a little
bit.
And now it seems like mom andpop is back to their old
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bullshit.
SPEAKER_02 (24:45):
It's just like and there it goes.
I don't know what it is aboutthat generation of parents who
they feel like no matter whatthey did or matter what your
upbringing was.
SPEAKER_03 (24:54):
What your age is.
SPEAKER_02 (24:55):
Right.
That they that they justsupposed to be uh that they have
final say.
They have they have final say,and they're supposed to be
looked at as some high regard nomatter how they treated you or
how you're man, you better sityour ass down.
Yeah, look at that.
SPEAKER_03 (25:05):
Like you got you got final say, but you literally
tried to kick me out.
SPEAKER_02 (25:08):
It's crazy work.
If you hear this, you DM me,I'll slap your daddy for you.
Bye Maurice, you will not.
SPEAKER_03 (25:13):
Um, okay, here we go.
Am I the asshole for not pickingup my ex's daughter from school
when I picked up our son?
SPEAKER_02 (25:21):
Yes.
SPEAKER_03 (25:23):
You sure about that?
SPEAKER_02 (25:23):
I don't know, Gigo.
SPEAKER_03 (25:25):
Okay.
Um X cheated on me when I waspregnant with our son, who's now
eight.
And because of this, he now hasa daughter who's also eight with
his affair partner, who's nowhis wife.
We are not on good terms, and Ido not have a relationship with
my ex's daughter.
I have never spoken a word toher or spent any significant
time in her presence.
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Ex and I split custody 50-50with our son.
Two weeks ago, I got a call fromthe school during custody time,
uh, her ex's custody time.
So he should have been pickingthe son up from school.
So two weeks ago, I got a callfrom the school during his
custody time stating nobody hadpicked our son up from school
and was asking if I would comeand get him.
When I got to the school, myex's daughter was also there and
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the teacher was with her.
She told me I was on theapproved list to pick up my ex's
daughter and that I would needto take the both them both.
I said, no.
And I told her that I did notwant to be on that list, as I
would never pick this child upfrom school.
She told me that she would passalong the word and that it would
be uh taken care of, but I wouldhave to call and follow up to
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make sure that it was taken careof.
My ex never told me or his wife,um, or his wife never told me to
that I was an authorized pickupperson for the daughter.
When he realized that I didn'tpick up his daughter with our
son, he was furious.
He asked me how I could leaveher behind when I have our son
unplanned anyway.
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I told him via our parenting appthat I picked up our son as I
would always do if needed, buthis daughter is not my child,
and I will not be theiremergency pickup contact.
According to my ex's daughter,she was there until seven
because I refused to pick her upwith our son.
She is a child and I understandthat it's not ideal.
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I don't feel bad per se, but Iwonder if I would be considered
an asshole for being unwillingto do this just this once.
This is not something I want tobe a regular that I want to be a
regular thing, and it's thefirst time it ever happened.
My ex's wife was apparentlydelayed from getting out of
town, and my ex was working.
But am I the asshole?
SPEAKER_02 (27:35):
I'm gonna say yes or no.
I'm gonna say no because it'snot your child.
It's not your responsibility,but at the same time, that's his
sister.
SPEAKER_03 (27:44):
That's his sister, but yeah, I know, but and not
only that, you also put my nameon paperwork that I didn't
authorize.
SPEAKER_02 (27:51):
I understand that.
So I understand that.
SPEAKER_03 (27:53):
But again How bold of you to do such a thing?
SPEAKER_02 (27:56):
As a parent, sure.
Every year we get that form,who's authorized to pick your
kid up?
Do we always uh verify withthese?
I do.
Ah, we know we don't.
I do.
SPEAKER_03 (28:05):
Well first of all, I had to because I had to switch
because the verified person wasmy best friend and they no
longer live in the same state.
SPEAKER_02 (28:11):
Okay, first of all.
First of all.
SPEAKER_03 (28:13):
But yes, they know that they're authorized to pick
our child up.
SPEAKER_02 (28:16):
Yeah, there's only two people authorized to pick
up.
SPEAKER_03 (28:18):
But they they are very much aware that they're
authorized to pick up our child.
As a one-time thing, I don'tthink I like you mean she could
have just done it, and then whenshe did it and said this can't
happen again.
SPEAKER_02 (28:27):
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, but it probably wasn't.
But I understand why she didn't.
SPEAKER_03 (28:30):
Yeah.
She said they're not even ongood speaking terms.
SPEAKER_02 (28:32):
Because you gotta set you gotta set precedent.
SPEAKER_03 (28:33):
Yeah.
SPEAKER_02 (28:34):
I get that.
SPEAKER_03 (28:34):
She said, I picked up my child.
SPEAKER_02 (28:36):
But I do feel like some of that is pettiness
towards him.
So absolutely.
Because he cheated.
SPEAKER_03 (28:43):
Absolutely.
SPEAKER_02 (28:43):
So a sense of the father.
That that that baby girl ain'thad nothing to do with her
decision her daddy made.
SPEAKER_03 (28:48):
Listen, none of not listen, unfortunately, see, all
of us are paying in some shapeor form from what our parents
have done.
SPEAKER_02 (28:56):
Go ahead.
SPEAKER_03 (28:58):
Unfortunately.
But no, I do get what you'resaying.
She's a child.
She doesn't know what's goingon.
She's a kid.
Yeah, she's eight, and now shehad to be at school till 7 40.
So you wouldn't feed her either?
She was that baby was hungry.
I mean, if I had some extrasnacks in my car, look here.
I'm just teasing.
Look here.
SPEAKER_02 (29:15):
I let me put it this way.
I am, there is no part of methat is responsible for your
niece.
Right.
I'm not gonna just leave hersomewhere when I know I could
take her.
Right.
And I'm gonna feeder too.
SPEAKER_01 (29:27):
Are you gonna feed her?
SPEAKER_02 (29:28):
Yes.
Just the way I fed and took careof uh my sweet Kaya when she
blew that damn diaper out herfirst time meeting me.
SPEAKER_03 (29:37):
That was hilarious.
SPEAKER_02 (29:39):
I'm not gonna just like come on now.
I didn't have to.
I could let you I could let hersit right there and have blown
out diaper until her mama gotback.
SPEAKER_03 (29:46):
I see what, I see what you're mean.
I see what you're saying.
Yes, it's a kid because the kidhas nothing to do with it.
Right.
She has nothing to do with it.
Because then what happens?
What happens if like literallynobody could come get her?
SPEAKER_00 (29:58):
See, because
SPEAKER_03 (30:00):
Eventually you but eventually you would have broke
down and been like, you knowwhat, I'm gonna just go get her.
But then you're gonna hear it.
You're like, she would make sureher ex heard it.
This could never happen again.
Like you and your wife, get ittogether.
SPEAKER_02 (30:13):
I get it.
You and that skeezer, you know.
SPEAKER_03 (30:16):
Right.
Because the kids are the sameage, they both ate.
So they was pregnant at the sametime.
Crazy work.
And then he marries her.
Crazy work.
Maybe she wasn't.
That's because she didn'tprobably want them or something.
Okay.
Ready?
Am I the asshole for suggestingmy in-laws stay at an Airbnb
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instead of us leaving our homewith our kitten?
Okay.
My parent-in-laws are visitingus for a week because our space
is so small, they would have tosleep on the couch, which they
would not like.
So I suggested booking them anAirbnb.
The way they could spend thethat way they could spend the
day with us, enjoy homemademeals.
Um, maybe my husband, she waslike, oh, her husband can cook
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and stuff, enjoy homemade meals,then go out and return for
dinner at our place beforespending the night at their
Airbnb comfortably.
My husband hated the idea andwas furious that I even
suggested it.
He wants us to leave ourapartment for them and for us to
stay at the Airbnb ourselves,taking our three-month-old
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kitten with us, then come backevery single morning to prepare
their meals, do the house toursfor them, and then spend the day
with them.
Am I crazy for thinking thatthis sounds unreasonable?
No, no, no.
The fuck?
SPEAKER_02 (31:37):
What type of parents would want to displace you that
like that anyway?
That's wild.
SPEAKER_03 (31:43):
She said they wouldn't like sleeping.
SPEAKER_02 (31:45):
They must be from the Caucas Mountains.
SPEAKER_03 (31:47):
They would not like it.
Here's the thing I can I canunderstand when you have like
family or like parents who comefrom um maybe like a different
country or something, they don'tcome very often and they're
gonna be staying the week.
Of course, you want them to beas comfortable as possible.
Like, I don't wouldn't want youto travel all this way for you
to be uncomfortable in my housefor a whole week.
But um I just don't know that Imean that I feel like that kind
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of falls in with like gettingaway from the city.
SPEAKER_02 (32:11):
When they booked the trip, they knew you had a one
bedroom.
So when they booked the flight,they should have booked the
Airbnb.
They should have booked theAirbnb over the room.
SPEAKER_03 (32:20):
No, they left that, they left that for you to come
up with.
SPEAKER_02 (32:23):
Again, I say, when you book the flight.
SPEAKER_03 (32:25):
But see, that also means, okay, if we're leaving,
because if the only other bedthat's up, if the only bed
that's available is ours,because otherwise they would be
sleeping on the couch, thatmeans you want, I can't have
them sleeping in my bed.
I can't have nobody elsesleeping in my bed.
That's where I draw the line.
I'm gonna tell you right now.
SPEAKER_02 (32:40):
I'm gonna tell you right now, I draw the line of
people sleeping in my bed.
The only person, the only twopeople that I can't do that.
The only two people that cansleep in my bed, that's not me
and you, is in is in heaven.
I can't, I can't do that.
I can give my bed up for nobodyelse.
SPEAKER_03 (32:54):
I can't do that.
That's too much.
SPEAKER_02 (32:55):
That's wild.
SPEAKER_03 (32:56):
Yeah, that's wild.
He's he said, he was furious.
Crazy.
He said, You think we finna bein this in this place?
No, babe.
We're leaving with the kitten.
We're going to the Airbnb.
My parents are gonna stay herein our bed, and then we're gonna
come back every morning to cookthem breakfast, clean up after
them, cook their dinner, andthen we're gonna go back to the
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Airbnb.
SPEAKER_02 (33:19):
I'm out.
Yeah, it's a lot.
I didn't sign up for that.
SPEAKER_03 (33:23):
That's a lot.
All right.
Am I the asshole for beingfurious that my cousin dragged
her stupid kid on our Italytrip?
SPEAKER_02 (33:32):
Okay, come on.
SPEAKER_03 (33:33):
We planned a family trip to Italy, six adults.
Should have been easy, shouldhave been fun, but my cousin
decided to bring her 10-year-oldson.
Big mistake.
Honestly, I hate that she didthis because that kid
single-handedly ruined ourFlorence day.
We checked out of our Airbnb at10 a.m.
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Flight wasn't until evening.
I did the smart thing, bookbounced luggage storage near
Santa Maria, so we didn't haveto haul suitcases, drop bags,
get the QR code, smooth asbutter for about five minutes.
I thought, great, this is gonnabe a great chill day.
Then the kid happened.
First stop, Piazza.
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Signoria, street performerpainted head to toe in silver,
standing still like a statue.
The demon child stares for aminute, then walks up to him and
pinches his leg.
Not a light pinch, a fool-onpinch, like he's testing the
guy's paint job.
The silver man jumps, kidscreams, crowd laughs, performer
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yells in Italian, my cousin'sfalling over herself,
apologizing.
Meanwhile, I'm standing herethinking, Effing hate this.
We finally drag him away, andI'm praying we can salvage the
day.
Nope.
He runs straight to the Neptunefountain and climbs it like it's
a juggle gym.
A guard blows his whistle soloud that the entire piazza
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stops.
My cousin's face is purple, theguard is pissed, the crowd is
staring, and I'm just done.
By the time we picked up ourluggage that night, everyone was
silent.
No talking, no laughing, justsix adults completely drained by
one kid who managed to turnFlorence into his personal war
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zone.
On the train to the airport, Ikept thinking I paid for storage
so we could enjoy Florence lightand Caffrey uh carefree.
Instead, we got cardio,humiliation, and babysitting
duties.
I'll admit it, I muttered stupidkid more than once.
I hate it the entire day.
And honestly, I hate that mycousin thought it was a good
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idea to drag him along in thefirst place.
Am I the asshole for being soangry?
Or is it fair to say that herkid ruined Florence and I'm not
obligated to pretend otherwise,stupid kid?
SPEAKER_02 (35:54):
Both.
He's 10.
SPEAKER_03 (35:56):
He's 10, but I also think it's crazy that you're be
the only person who brings a kidon a vacation where it's all
adults.
SPEAKER_02 (36:03):
Here's what I think will happen.
She paid, she really wanted togo.
She didn't want to give up, shedidn't want to let the trip go,
and she couldn't find a probablyright.
SPEAKER_03 (36:11):
There was nowhere for him to go.
SPEAKER_02 (36:12):
So she brought the kid hoping for the best.
Now, unfortunately, it didn't goas well as she hoped it would
do, but he's 10 though.
SPEAKER_03 (36:20):
You would think it would be the behavior would be a
little better, but it's a10-year-old boy.
Okay, I'm done with you.
So done with you.
SPEAKER_02 (36:32):
You gotta watch the video, see what I did.
Um she knew what kind of catkind of kids she had.
SPEAKER_03 (36:37):
Oh, yeah.
Parents know they're children.
SPEAKER_02 (36:39):
So, like my kid, no, I would have just pushed her ass
in that pond.
SPEAKER_03 (36:43):
Bye.
SPEAKER_02 (36:43):
You're not gonna embarrass me in front of all
these people.
SPEAKER_03 (36:46):
You're not gonna push her in a pond.
SPEAKER_02 (36:48):
I'm gonna embarrass you when you embarrass me.
That's how we go.
Um First of all, don't call akid stupid.
That's not nice.
SPEAKER_03 (36:56):
I know that's that's so that's so playground.
That's not nice.
SPEAKER_02 (37:00):
I mean, I I'm gonna let the demon slide because
after I saw what he, after y'allread, after I heard what he did,
I understand that.
You're not wrong for being madat him because he did ruin your
day.
SPEAKER_03 (37:10):
Yeah, he did.
SPEAKER_02 (37:10):
Right?
He did.
But I do believe that yourcousin was trying to make the
best out of a situation that shecould.
Yeah.
I don't know what her dynamic isas far as this child's father,
but maybe this is the only wayshe can make it work where she
can go on the trip.
And unfortunately for peoplewith kids, that tends we turn
down a lot of invitations.
SPEAKER_03 (37:27):
Yeah, we do.
But it's not, but I feel likealso with us, it's not
necessarily because we can'tfind shut up.
Not necessarily that we can'tfind somewhere where she needs
to be.
But it's also because I I don'tbe like letting my kid be going
like a lot of places to be likeovernight with people.
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You know what I'm saying?
You know, what?
Why?
Because that's your number oneexcuse all day.
We ain't got nobody to watch,baby girl.
So we can't go.
Can't do it.
Can't do it.
Damn, play yourself.
No, but I mean, but that is thetruth sometimes.
Like it very much is the truth.
Like a lot of the time it is thetruth.
But we do have, you know, thingsin place where she can go.
(38:13):
But I don't always like, I'mjust not, I'm not one of those
parents that's very free andwilly-nilly when it comes to my
kid being overnight anywherewithout me.
Like, that's just that's justwhere I am.
Maybe as she gets older, it'llI'll relinquish a little bit
more, but that's just not, it'snot what I'm what I'm down with,
you know?
Um, okay, so last one.
(38:33):
Let's get one more in.
Okay.
Um, am I the asshole for tellingmy fiance that I won't marry him
unless he removes his ex-wife'sname tattooed across his chest?
Okay.
I'm a 28-year-old female and I'mengaged to my fiance who is 32.
He was married before, and whileI understand people do have
past, there's one thing that Ican't get over.
(38:55):
He still has his ex-wife's nametattooed in big letters across
his chest.
I assumed he'd get it removedeventually, but when I brought
it up, he shrugged it off andsaid that it was just ink and
that it doesn't mean anythinganymore.
To me, it absolutely does.
The thought of walking down theaisle and starting a new life
together while he literally hasanother woman's name written
across his chest over his heartmakes me feel disrespected and
(39:17):
humiliated.
I told him that I won't marryhim unless he covers it up.
He didn't like, he didn't likeit and said, uh, mind my own
body and told me to be uh thatnot to be shallow and to focus
on the present, not the past.
But every time I see him with not-shirt on, I see the name of
his ex-wife, and that hurts me.
(39:38):
And he's refusing to evenconsider it.
So am I the asshole for makingthis a condition before we get
married?
SPEAKER_02 (39:44):
Yes, his body, his choice.
SPEAKER_03 (39:45):
Oh, I I knew that's where you were gonna take this.
SPEAKER_02 (39:49):
Look here.
In y'all's quest for equality,it gotta be across the board.
His body, his choice.
You know, maybe uh I don't Idon't know how he uh Yeah no, I
don't know how they separated,but maybe it wasn't maybe it was
on good terms.
They just did see I die.
And she was the one he let go.
(40:10):
But you you hear now.
SPEAKER_03 (40:12):
You hear it now.
You hear it now.
Okay, so What's her name?
I don't know.
She didn't say what her namewas?
No, but she said it's in bigletters across the hard to get
removed and cover up.
You could black it out.
SPEAKER_02 (40:27):
Nah.
SPEAKER_03 (40:28):
She just don't want to see it.
So don't look.
Because, like, and here's thething I can I can understand it
from both sides.
I totally see his point, and Ican also see her point because
I'm also thinking like yougetting out the shower, your
shirt is off.
So if I had you turn to me.
If I have Maya written righthere, and you turn towards me,
and all I have to see is Mayaall the time, all the time, or
when I'm like on top and I'mlooking down at you, and all I
(40:49):
see is your ex-wife's name,that's probably gonna be a hard
note for me.
SPEAKER_02 (40:54):
She had a career.
Bye, Maurice.
SPEAKER_03 (40:56):
That but I can that's why I said I can
understand, I can understandboth.
Like uh imagine if it was theother way around.
Like, what if she had, I don'tknow, Brandon in big old English
across her chest, and youstanding at the altar.
Are you really gonna want tohave to stare at Brandon across
your wife's chest for the restof your life?
SPEAKER_02 (41:13):
I just nickname my penis Brandon from that day
forward.
SPEAKER_03 (41:15):
Okay, okay.
I see, I see.
I see what type of time you'reon.
I see what type of time you'reon.
His body is choice.
And it you listen, he told her,mind your own body.
SPEAKER_02 (41:33):
So why why why are you threatened by somebody
that's not around?
SPEAKER_03 (41:36):
I mean, but here's the thing, too.
Uh this is what I would alsosay.
Don't make threats that you'renot gonna follow through with
either.
Because you also told him thatyou are refusing to marry him
until he covers it up.
So what if he tries to call yourbluff and be like, I have no
plans on covering this up?
So I guess we're either gonnadate indefinitely or I guess
there's the door.
It was nice.
(41:56):
And maybe I'll still have achance to reconnect with this
one right here.
SPEAKER_02 (42:00):
The one that has my heart.
SPEAKER_03 (42:02):
Wow, really?
Scandalous.
Scandalous.
If he said some crap like that,that's how your tires get
slashed.
Oh, wow, crazy, huh?
It's crazy.
Crazy that's crazy.
Because tires get slashed, tiresget slashed, like you know, I
don't know, like slippery stuffat your front door when you walk
out and bam.
SPEAKER_02 (42:21):
I'm sorry, what?
SPEAKER_03 (42:22):
Huh?
What did you say?
You said something?
Wow.
All right, what do we have forthe comment of the week, baby?
SPEAKER_02 (42:29):
The comment of the week uh is from the reaction
about the the boyfriend thatupgraded his seat and left.
SPEAKER_03 (42:35):
Oh, and it didn't update.
Okay, so if you guys are we hadthere was a uh gosh, I just went
all over the place.
A gentleman went on a trip withhis girlfriend, and when he got
together, but they bought it.
SPEAKER_02 (42:46):
They each bought their own ticket.
For some reason that'simportant.
I don't know why.
SPEAKER_03 (42:54):
She paid for her ticket, but he ended up getting
an offer to upgrade to firstclass on the same flight that
they were going on together,because this is a trip together
as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Um, so he upgrades to firstclass and tells his girlfriend
as she's walking back to coach,I'll see you when we get there.
SPEAKER_00 (43:14):
Yep.
SPEAKER_03 (43:14):
He does not offer to upgrade her.
He doesn't offer to decline theupgrade that that was given to
him.
He was like, I'm sitting infirst class now and I don't have
to deal with that coach life,but I'll see you when we land.
And so this is a response tothat video.
SPEAKER_02 (43:29):
Her comment was, he's not for her.
He's for them seats.
SPEAKER_03 (43:35):
And then she put the seat emoji, the airplane seat
emoji, with three laughing,rolling on the floor emojis.
He's not for her.
SPEAKER_02 (43:43):
He's for I will say that when I read this, I started
crying laughing.
This was this really took meout.
SPEAKER_03 (43:49):
That took you out?
SPEAKER_02 (43:50):
It took me out.
I can't.
I had a full face of tears.
SPEAKER_03 (43:55):
Really?
SPEAKER_02 (43:55):
I y'all understand.
I live for the comments.
SPEAKER_03 (43:58):
Oh my gosh.
And who did this come from?
I'm not gonna but uh Shaima73.
SPEAKER_02 (44:04):
I don't know.
I you know, I don't butcherpeople's name.
I can't say words.
You know, it's funny.
It was funny.
SPEAKER_03 (44:10):
Yeah, that was really funny.
All right, guys.
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If you are not doing so already,you already know the drill.
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OnlyPans.
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SPEAKER_02 (44:49):
But until next time, tell a friend to tell a friend
to telephone.
SPEAKER_03 (44:52):
Right.
And you get a new episode everyWednesday, so don't forget.
Okay.
Until next time.
Peace, Booskies.
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