July 16, 2025 • 47 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I know you're old.
I know you're old, that's whatI said.
Or be too Like you, you knowyou have a favorite oldies group
.
You don't, you don't just haveone, I do have one.
Five heartbeats.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
That's not a real group.
That's not.
That's not a real group.
That's just a movie.
That's not a real group.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
That's not the real group hey everybody and welcome
(00:45):
back to your weekly dose of Life.
After I Do podcast, You'regoing to be kicking it for the
next 45 minutes to maybe an hourwith me, Kynesha and my bestie
slash husband.
Bestie with the mesty, molitoBestie with the mesty.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Mo Get it Mesty, I'm messy.
Oh gosh, I like the mess.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Hey Booskies, hi, how are you Great, how are you.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Tired.
I'm all fun tired.
We are back from camp.
Camp was great.
It was hot.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Very hot.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
I'm happy that Airbnb had a pool Very great.
But it's hot.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
The kid loved it.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
The people who stay out there and that I don't know
how they do it.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
They're probably used to it.
I mean, it's just like theVegas people, they're used to it
.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
It was weird because after last week's episode and
then I saw all those half-nakedwomen in the gym, I didn't know
whether I could.
I was trying to double tap.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Okay, okay, you're such a muddle.
I was trying to double tap.
You're such a muddle, how?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
was your week.
A lot of double tapping in thegym, a lot of double tapping.
I was air double tapping.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Oh God.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So that way, instagram one, I like that one,
so special you're so I like thatone special.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Don't want to switch on me.
Oh my gosh, other than that,how was your week?
It was good, I'm on my new um.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Why?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
are you drinking right now like?
People don't want to hear youswallow and they're not.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
They're not gonna hear that they do you do
goodness gracious, I'm doinggreat.
I started my new mesocycle, mytraining, so my training's a
little different now.
It's not, I'm getting used toit, it's not, it's not.
I'm not on a what you wouldcall traditional.
Now I'm more um, I'm more areafocused, so I'm more I'm like
(02:39):
officially in my um, my bodyrecomp era.
Try to get this chest pokingout, get these quads a little
bigger.
It's been going, it's great.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
A good transition.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I might have to add some cardio, though, because
I've scaled back on my cardiosince I got, ever since I hit
the low 200s.
I've scaled back on my cardio.
I might increase it.
I hit the low 200s.
I've scaled back on my cardio.
I might increase it because II'm really feeling like I need
to be like 190 195 to really getthe look I'm looking for.
Oh, you know, okay, I want tobe thick, fit.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I don't think 190 is thick, fit yeah thick fit.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
I want to be like like I got to get down to 190.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Oh, you're talking about, so you can re-bolt.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
So I can bolt back up .
Oh okay, yeah.
Yeah, I thought you meant like,just be 190.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
No, I got to get down to 190.
I was like that's slick.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
I want to get down to 190, like bolt back up to about
215, and then cut.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Yeah, it's not too bad if you like, if you do a
good, good bulk.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Oh, I'm doing it.
I'm doing a dirty bulk.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Oh no, don't do a dirty bulk, I'm doing Oreos, no.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Okay, cheesecake.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I don't think that's what you want to do.
Peach cobbler Fat cells arereal.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Greens Smothered potatoes.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Smothered pork chops.
I'll make them myself.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
First of all.
Look here.
I'm happy you said that becausethis goes into what we're doing
today.
I know my wife can't makesmothered pork chops.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
I can make smothered pork chops.
I'm just not going to buy apack of pork chops.
When have you ever seen mepurchase a pack of pork chops?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
You can suffocate some pork chops that.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Are you really trying to play that game?
Because you remember whathappened the last time you tried
to play that game.
You ain't never.
You will be.
You will be hungry for a week.
I know how to smother a porkchop.
I don't even.
I don't even buy pork chops.
I'm a buy them.
Remember I bought those porkchops in good and free, like a
couple weeks ago.
Yeah, and that was the, and weboth agreed that was the first
time we in how many decades Imissed them.
(04:42):
How long has it been since?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
we ate a pork chop.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
You know the last time I remember eating pork
chops was when I lived at homeas a teenager.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Look here your boy, because I had really been on my
no pork thing for so long and Iwould occasionally eat bacon.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
That's no.
You were not on a no pork.
I was on a no pork.
I would on a no pork.
I was on a no pork.
I would occasionally eat baconbecause he was still eating pork
.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I don't know where he got that from I was still
eating bacon from time to timebecause the one thing I look
I've tried.
I've tried turkey bacon, beefbacon that's what we eat turkey
bacon don't nothing tastes likebacon, but bacon, everybody
knows that.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
that's why my old boss used to say when I, when I
used to tell her, oh I, I maketurkey bacon.
She was like that's turkeystrips.
I said it's turkey bacon.
She said that's not bacon,that's turkey strips.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
But you know, growing up you know I was raised by
country folks we ate the pig.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
That's what I'm saying, Like my mama used to
make them pork chops with themac and cheese and the homemade
mashed potatoes.
Lord, have mercy.
I'm going to call her and askher.
I'm going to say you can goahead and make that for me.
You can make that for mebecause I literally could.
The last time I remember havingpork chops was when I lived at
home.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
You know who probably made some fire ass pork chops,
who Miss Annie Miss.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Annie From.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Sinners.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Bye, maurice, because she'll't use no stale grease.
Bye, why are you so special?
Because she don't use no stalegrease.
You and that stale grease you aliar.
She immediately shut that down.
She was like you is a cold liar, I do not use no stale grease.
(06:22):
How was your week, boosie?
It was a cold lie.
Week was good.
It was um.
You know, it was nice to get achange of scenery to be in a
different, be in a different uma different state.
You know that was really fun, uh.
So yeah, I really can'tcomplain.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Gym was good, yeah what was good about it?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
seeing different people, you know, seeing the,
the, the different, the way gymsare set up.
You know that was fun, you knowso you make the looks and the
stares that you get.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
You want to show off for other men okay, no one.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
That's what.
No one's show, no one's goingback to last week's episode.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Oh my gosh, you were trying to get people to double
tap your pictures I don't try toget people to do anything you
don't really post.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
No, I don't this is I said I said that I was gonna
get better, though I I mean, Iam gonna get better, and thank
you to those who have startedfollowing me, even without new
content.
You guys are great, awesome, um, but yeah, I am gonna get
better about posting.
I is you know what's crazy is?
I have all of my content on topof me and do her business, Shut
up, I have all my content in myphone.
(07:26):
I just literally need to postit, Like I have finished videos
and everything in there, andsometimes I'm just like, once I
do the post, like for likeTikTok and stuff like that, I'll
be like, whew, that's a lot.
That's the one thing.
I've been Right, I ain't got nomore energy.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
No, I understand, because you like trying to reply
to like the podcast commentsand posts.
I ain't got time to do my ownstuff.
I got to go to work.
People, I still work.
Okay, look here, I still go towork.
I can't say I work at the job,bye, but I still go to work.
Goodbye, goodbye, and I'll bethere, at least.
I try to do 40.
Most times I do like 44, butthere's months on weeks, I've
(08:07):
done 26, but it don't matter,don't judge me, I still have
somewhere to be um and on top ofthat shit to do on top of that,
you know.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
But we love all the support and we love the
engagement, guys a daughter ittakes.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
My daughter takes a big chunk of my time as well,
which I love her, that's my, butwe love she was, she told me
the other day.
She said, dad, are you happythat I look like you?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
I said I'm ecstatic for now ecstatic for now, but
she's getting older and she'sstarting to look like me, so I
told her.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I said phoenix, you know what you could look like,
your mom, if you just had mypersonality?
Oh gosh, the problem is thatyou have your mom's personality.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
No, she has your no she don't.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
She too bubbly, she too friendly.
I'm not friendly.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
No, she has your personality.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Like my boys say.
Like my boys say I ain'tfriendly, I'm polite.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Those are two different things.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
My grandma told me to speak to everybody.
I ain't trying to be friendswith you, but yeah.
So it was a good week.
It was yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
You're not going to tell people how you went down on
a whole dress size.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
What, how you down on ?
Speaker 1 (09:06):
a whole size.
I've been down.
No, come on, Would you put allof them, it's not just one.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Oh good, talk your shit.
How many is it?
It's two.
Oh shoot, thank you, sir, butI'm currently on a maintenance
right now, which is like I'mlike my brain is finally kind of
like settling into, like justbe comfortable with where we are
(09:31):
right now.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Okay, we ain't losing , we ain't gaining, we're not
doing none of that, we justgoing to be right here.
Like I fluctuate between, youknow, like three pounds up,
three pounds down, three poundsup, three pounds down, but like
I'm in a maintenance so I haveto like I'm staying here, um,
until about november.
So you know, that's been somedays.
I'm like, yeah, like this islike this is yeah I'm not.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
I'm not this.
Is it like I don't mind it?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
I don't mind it, and then other days I'm like damn,
if I could just go ahead anddrop this 20 pounds, I feel like
life would be.
Life would be a little bit,just a little bit better.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
I mean if you drop it , it'd help me, because you know
my goal is to be able to squat,bench and then lift your weight
and I can do two of the three.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
So you can't squat my weight I can't.
Okay, which one can't you?
Oh, you can't bench my weight,not yet, not yet.
Oh no, that's not good.
Damn, I'm there already.
I've never seen you bench myweight, I have.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
I video.
Okay, because you know I'mgoing to show you, you know, if
it's not on video, then you know.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
But yeah, like benching that you mentioned that
I've been trying to manifest mybenching and I know like when
you say like you can't manifestsomething that's like physical,
you got to work for it but it'spart of it.
So I've been manifesting it andworking towards it.
So doing my 225 holds, you know, like it, it it.
Once I started holding 225 onbench I feel like half of the
(10:58):
anxiety of it kind of like wentaway, and then the longer I'm
under the 225, the more I'm justlike I can't wait till I'm at
that point where I'm like downand pushing it.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Let me tell you something, though, holding it
here.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Oh, I know it's different.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
I know.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Then when you're trying to control it coming down
, I know but I'm saying likeThen you gotta pause it here.
But the intimidation of justunracking 225, I was like, oh, I
don't want to sit here and makea fool of myself.
You know like I I'm.
I felt comfortable enough toknow that I was strong enough to
unrack and you know, I told youabout the last uh, couple weeks
(11:36):
ago.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
Huh, I told you what the message a couple weeks ago
well, what?
You just mumbled.
I told you what my dumb ass dida couple weeks ago what did you
drop the bar the?
Bar.
I went over to the seatedshoulder press and I said let me
put these 45s on here.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
This can't be that heavy On the seated shoulder
press.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Yeah, you special.
I said, this can't be thatheavy.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Okay, so 135 overhead yes, when you've never done it.
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
I've never overhead You're so funny.
I've never over here.
You're so funny, I've neverover here, you're hilarious.
I said I can like bench 135 forlike 50 reps.
This is nothing.
I got this, not shit.
I went like this I brought itdown and I pushed it back up and
I racked it and I said, let mesit my stupid ass down.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
That's just like.
So my coach shout out to JosephPatino body that's just like so
my my coach shout out to josephpatino um, when, like when he
was looking at my numbers and Ihad did the 105 uh overhead, I I
have I haven't done it sincethe first time I did it and he
was like what has happened?
I said I can't tell you I thinkthat was just a good day
because I have not overheadpressed 105 since the day I
(12:44):
overhead pressed 105.
Good thing I got it on video.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
I will say this Now I got to try 105.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
But I do think Now I got to try 105.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
But I do think that standing is a lot easier than
sitting.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
You think it is because you think.
Because I can use my legs youcan, because you can use your
legs, but I'm not using my legs.
And that's the first thing thetrainer, paul, at the gym, asked
me when I was telling him how Idon't like doing standing
overhead press and he was likewhy?
I said because I don't like.
I don't like the movement, Idon't like the like, the range
of motion, I don't know.
I was like I've tried tocorrect my form, I've done it
(13:19):
many different ways and he waslike the first thing he said was
are you using your legs?
Like, do you use your legs forlike a little bit of momentum or
anything?
And I was like no, I stand asstill as possible and I'm just,
it's like all shoulder, you know.
And he was like oh, okay, andit's.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
It's very much different when you're not using
your bottom half, because evenin seated, even in seated, when
I've done it seated, you'reusing leg drive.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
Yeah, seated.
When I've done it seated, youcan plant.
You're using leg drive, butit's not the same.
Yeah, it's not the same.
You're using leg drive, yeah,so when?
Speaker 2 (13:52):
you're doing standing and you're just straight up and
you're doing that motion, yeah,I said.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
I said, yeah, I'd be like 85 is good for me.
I said yeah, because if I don't, if I want to be able to rotate
my arms in the morning, I'mgonna go ahead and put this I'm
gonna go ahead and I had.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Immediately I thought right, I had to look at my
shoulder and say stay strong,stay strong because, like right
now, all this is like sore you,you worried everything gonna be
okay.
I think we'll be okay, juststay strong, stay strong because
what is?
Speaker 1 (14:18):
this your front, right, yeah, like, yeah, well,
we got the nail biscuits.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Uh, how well do you know me?
I don't know you at all.
You change every week.
This is true Every week.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
But we're going to see.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Every week I got to prove my love.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
Every week.
You told Harpo to beat me.
Shut up, maurice, you're sosilly.
How well, how well do you knowme, how well do you know your
partner?
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Do, do, do, do, do do .
Speaker 1 (14:48):
This is whack, your mom's whack.
You have like one blonde hair.
That's like that's crazy.
I think it was like a gray hair, that like turned or something,
I don't know.
But yeah, so we'll go back andforth, we'll take turns, all
right, asking each other aseries of questions to see how
well we know each other rightnow.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
All right, I see, okay, I see how this is going to
go.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
Okay, ready.
Yeah, I'll start off with aneasy one.
Okay, sure, how do I make mycoffee or tea?
Speaker 2 (15:18):
That's two different things.
And then hold on.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
First of all, how do I make my coffee or tea?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
What kind of coffee, what kind of tea, because it
depends.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
Maurice, how do I make my coffee If I'm drinking
coffee?
Speaker 2 (15:29):
You like your tea.
You like your tea, two tea bags, one honey.
But you want your honey in thecup before the water, and then
you want honey, then you wantthe water, then the tea bags,
then a little lemon.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
You missed a step, okay, but yes, that's generally.
Yes, the honey, the Splenda.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Yeah, Splenda.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
The tea bags, the water, the lemon, yeah, yes, and
my coffee recently.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
For this past year.
How have I been drinking mycoffee?
Oh, you just won't.
Decaf shots in a protein drinkwith some caramel drizzle.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
That's it.
See, that was easy, babe.
I gave you an easy one.
I'm going to give you an easyone then, I think.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Do I prefer sweet snacks or salty ones?
Sweet.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Sweet Because last night you was jonesing, jonesing
.
He was jonesing.
He said babe, he was scratching.
He was like babe, I said what?
You got some snacks, okay,first of all I don't even know
how to react to that that everytime he wants something sweet,
instead of going like bringwhatever he brought with him, or
like if we're at home goingdownstairs and getting something
(16:35):
out of the cabinet, heautomatically assumes I mean,
maybe rightfully so, but heautomatically assumes that I got
a sweet treat in my nightstandor my closet somewhere.
And if I keep telling him yes,then he so, but he automatically
assumes that I got a sweettreat in my nightstand or my
closet somewhere.
And if I keep telling him yes,then he you know, then he knows
I keeps a sweet treat.
But no, I didn't have.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
She knows that.
I know that she hides snacksand I'll be trying to figure out
if she hides them.
That's what she knows.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Because between him and my daughter I could never
keep anything.
So listen, here there's theselicorice that I like to eat.
They're called Willie.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Wilde, hold on hold on, hold on hold on that.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
We like to eat oh see , now it's a we thing.
It wasn't a family thing untila mommy started eating them and
they're like this vegan licorice.
We have to put this on.
They're like a vegan and fat,but they're really good.
And they come in differentflavors.
I don't have to pause.
They come in different flavorsand I like the green apple
flavor, the green apple, thewatermelon and the regular, you
(17:31):
know, traditional, whateverstrawberry.
And so I would get like acouple of packs.
I would keep, you know, onepack on day.
You know three, three pieces isone serving 90 calories.
If I'm feeling, you know, ifI'm feeling spicy, I'll have two
servings 180.
If I'm feeling, you know, ifI'm feeling spicy, I'll have two
servings 180.
You know what I mean.
And it's, and there's only likethree and a half servings in
each pack.
Why did I let these cats have apiece of licorice?
Speaker 2 (17:55):
monday the sprout because she's a modern servant.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
I'm killing the pack and that's what I tell them.
I'm like give me the pack.
Why are you finishing the pack?
So instead of, instead ofbeginning like the big
resealable pack, I go to theDollar Tree and I buy like 12 to
15 packs at a time becausethey're the only place that I
can find like that flavor that Ireally like.
But I go when they stock itbecause it goes so fast, like
(18:20):
now.
Everybody named Mama apparentlylikes licorice, so but I go and
like last time.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
I think they've only been selling licorice for
hundreds of years, but now it'sjust they've only been selling
licorice for hundreds of years.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
But now it's like I went.
Last time I went it was Ibought 15 packs.
I bought 15 packs, 50.
Listen to what I say.
I bought 15 packs of licorice.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
Well, you know, just like Audacity, they'll sell it
in bulk.
15 packs.
Don't judge us.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
That bag of licorice that I purchased between myself,
my husband and ourseven-year-old Hold on.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
No, and your mama and your sister no.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
No, we all primarily ate it.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Don't come for me.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
Lasted like a week.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Hold on and, primarily, ate it.
Okay, for me Lasted like a weekHold on and then the cold part
is now they make a sour version.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Oh yeah, now those, and they're small.
Oh my gosh, they are so good.
Oh, can we?
Speaker 2 (19:12):
sound so fat, go ahead and ask me a question.
But they're really good.
Okay, I promise y'all.
We're still on our fitnessjourney.
We just be.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
let's see what color do I wear the most black what
kind of?
Question is that black?
I don't wear black as much as Iused to.
No, okay, maybe that's not yourexperience I'm wearing gray to
the gym today I wear black.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
What color are your bottles right now?
Black, okay.
Color your glasses what okay?
But I'm wearing gray, sowhatever um how do I show love
without using words?
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Touch, physical touch .
All the time I'm on that ass,all the time I'm on that ass,
I'm on that ass.
Bye, let's see.
I'm on that ass what is my mostused phrase or thing.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
I know you fucking lying or played yourself.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Played yourself, you played yourself.
Look at you, you looked up.
Or played yourself, playedyourself, you played yourself.
Look at you, you look dumb.
You played yourself, you lookdumb.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
What is something that I'm surprisingly
sentimental about.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Something that you're surprisingly sentimental about.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
Yeah, I've been crying a lot lately too.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
That you're sentimental about therapy makes
me cry probably our timetogether.
I would say that's a goodanswer probably our time
together that's not what I wouldsay.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
My time alone, that's a good answer let's see what is
.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
Something small that instantly annoys me the way that
you go gosh, that's not a smallthing.
What like?
Just like, sometimes, just youjust you like, over the pack you
masticating.
Sometimes it's just in general.
(21:16):
Okay, I just can't Like.
I just don't understand why ithas to be All right.
Why should I hear you acrossthe room?
Okay?
Speaker 2 (21:24):
yeah, we're done with this.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
This is crazy.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
This is going to be a short episode, guys.
What's my ideal weekend withyou?
What would my ideal weekendwith you look like?
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Oh, somewhere away in a hotel or the balcony.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
There has to be a balcony.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
If y'all know me, that's pretty easy, as long as
there's a balcony.
It's high up.
It's a private room.
We can make do In late eveningA little bit of wind, early
morning yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
That's ideal for him.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
Takes me back.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
What's something I do when I'm mad but not saying it?
Speaker 2 (22:05):
You don't talk when you mad.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
And what else?
I rage clean, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
It's funny.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
I need to make you more mad.
You tried it.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
You tried it, you tried it, you tried it.
Who was my childhood hero orfavorite athlete?
Kobe Kobe's my all-timefavorite athlete.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Yeah, kobe, that's an easy one.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
And all the Mamba slander.
Oh gosh Needs to stop.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Y'all niggas couldn't stop Kobe.
What scent or perfume Do Ialways reach for?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I don't know what it's called, but it's the one I
just recently purchased for you.
You know, I don't know the nameof this shit.
That's cheating.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
Donna and Rome.
Speaker 2 (22:51):
Is that what it's called, donna, and Rome?
Is that the Versace one, orwhatever?
Speaker 1 (22:56):
No, that's the Valentino.
Whatever, I don't know, that's,my favorite Was that the
Versace one or whatever?
Speaker 2 (22:58):
No, that's the.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
Valentino.
Oh, whatever, I don't know,that's my favorite, it do smell
good, I can't lie.
That's my favorite.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
When was the last time I really surprised you, and
how?
Speaker 1 (23:05):
The last time you really surprised me?
Well, the most recent that Ican think of was when you bought
me a summer cup Unprovoked.
That was a surprise, becausefor so long you were against.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
No, I'm still against it.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
It's funny because you say you're against it, but
then when you're out and you seesomething you'd be like, oh,
but I think she would reallylike this and he brought me home
a Stanley unprovoked and I waslike okay, I was like you really
didn't have to.
And he was like okay, I waslike you really didn't have to.
And he was like well, she saidit was the new one and she said
it was gonna sell out.
So I was like okay, I didn'twant to give it up.
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I was like, well, just know, letthe record show I wasn't gonna
buy this cup?
Look here let the record show Iwas not in the market for this
cup, but I'm going to accept thegift, because that would be
rude.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
I don't know why I do this thing.
Where I go against my own, youcomplain.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
Yeah, it's just like when I bought you that Skoroski
Crystal damn Starbucks cup,mm-hmm.
I was like, well, that's a nicecup, I want that cup.
I was like let me get that cup.
And then when she told me theprice, I said for what?
Speaker 1 (24:13):
For a cup.
It's like one of a thousand andit has seroski crystals on it.
Yeah, it does.
That's actually one of my mostpriced, one of my most priced
cups.
Yeah, I'm part of the problem.
So you know, if anything everhappened and we were really down
hard, I could probably sell it.
Okay, I probably wouldn't, butwe couldn't.
Um, what's, uh, what's myfavorite body part of yours?
(24:37):
My hands.
Yes, I've loved his hands since, since I was a young girl.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
Y'all know why.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
That's not why I just oh my gosh, why, why do you
have to make?
Speaker 2 (24:52):
What's, uh, what's my favorite part of your
personality?
Speaker 1 (24:56):
What's my, what's your favorite part of my
personality?
What's your favorite part of mypersonality?
Oh, that I can talk to almostanybody.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
That's not my favorite.
You always say that no, that'sthe part that irritates me the
most.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Oh my gosh.
You have always said I justlove how you can just talk and
relate to anybody.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
No, that because you won't shut up.
Speaker 1 (25:11):
Okay, lies, that's not what you said, but what is
it?
It's that ass of my personality.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
My ass is not personality when they see you
okay you sound silly, you soundsilly no, it's like you're a
really loving and caring person.
Okay, that's so generic, no, no, but but it's real, though to a
fault like you, really, peoplebe playing you, okay do?
Speaker 1 (25:34):
I prefer cuddling or my space in bed?
Speaker 2 (25:38):
space.
It depends on the night, itdepends on the night 90 of the
time I prefer what space?
Speaker 1 (25:44):
yes space I need space.
First of all, I need spacebecause of how I, how I sleep.
I require a lot of space.
Okay, I sleep with about sixpillows um.
I sleep at an angle.
I sleep with my heating pad, myshe goes restrained.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
She looks like my hair bonnet, my eye mask.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
She looked like there there's a lot that happens when
I sleep and I have to.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
I have to get to her before the eye mask comes on.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Once my eye mask is on, it's a wrap I'm done if I
got my right pillow under myright arm like this and I'm
already sitting up while I'masleep and then I pull it out,
because what I do is I put itaround the bonnet and then you
might watch a little TV orsomething.
But when I do one of thesenumbers and I slowly pull it
down over my eyes, that meansshe's done for the evening.
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But he sleeps with the damn fanstraight in his face.
So I always have to create abarrier between us because I
can't sleep.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Don't come for me.
I can't sleep with air blowingup my damn nose all night.
My fellow fan sleepers willcome to my defense, okay, and
that's why y'all allergies areterrible, but we so, and that's
why you got terrible allergiesbecause you sit there and let
the damn dust fly under yournose all night.
What I was saying is that Iunderstand that I have.
If it's just a bonnet, I stillgot a shot.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
Yes, You'll tune it up, but if the eye mask comes
out, it's over.
And then, even if I'm not allthe way to sleep, but my eye
mask is down and I'm trying tosleep, I will snore Because you
know the eye mask is down.
And then she hits you with oneof these.
I peek from underneath it.
I'm like what are you trying todo?
(27:24):
The eye mask is down.
My goodness.
What's one thing that instantlyturns me on One thing that what
?
Speaker 2 (27:32):
Instantly turns me on Me.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Facts Me.
Just look at you and be likecome here Me, you know me.
Facts me.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Just look at you like come here Me.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
If I, if I touch your shoulder like this, hold on,
we'll cut it short.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
We'll cut it short.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Wait a minute.
What did Ron's wife say whenshe was asking Tyrese?
She was like do you why?
Do you know why you never seelike public affection and
anything from us?
And he was like no, why.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
And she said said because, if I just if I just
like touch him like this hethinks it's an invitation.
Okay, that's not an invitationlet's get to it.
Speaker 1 (28:05):
It's not an invitation, okay, um, what was I
wearing on our first date?
Speaker 2 (28:12):
I don't know.
Yeah, you do.
You're wearing blue jeans and awhite top.
You were in a blue jeans, theblue cut up jeans, with the
white top, and you had a bluebeanie on.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
No, the beanie was white because it matched my
sweatshirt, my sweater.
It was like these sky bluepants that had like whitewash in
the front and we saw brownsugar.
And I wore a white long sleevesweater with, like my crochet
little beanie and I thought Iwas the cutest thing ever.
No, you was pretty hot andtempting.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
thank you, thank you um what's my dream date night
with you?
So you get two questions.
Oh sorry, no, it's fine.
I know it's what you do um yourdream date night with you?
Some lobster bis sounds good bythe water, probably.
I'm up there and then you woulddo like the music outside if
the temperature is right.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
Yeah, because if I'm distracted by me being too hot
or too cold, count me out.
Count me out, it's got to be.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
But it'd be like something like that and
something where we can it's likereal intimate one-on-one and we
can have a good, decentconversation uh-huh, okay, I
like that, that is me yeah, Iknow, um, um.
What's my go-to excuse when Iwant to get out of something?
(29:36):
Let me ask my wife no with youwhat I tell you when you ask me
something.
What's my go to excuse when Iwant to get out of something?
Let me ask my wife no with youwhat I tell you.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
When you ask me something, what's my excuse I
give you when you want to getout of something?
Yeah, I don't know.
You never really give me toomany excuses.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
Like when you're like , babe, let's go to my mom's
this weekend, I'd be like what,what'd I say?
Speaker 1 (29:55):
what I say, what I say, no, I don't know, I can't
think of it well, you know Igotta work, so even on a day
that he don't have to work, likewhen we went to my cousin's.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
Well, I had to work the next day, later that day I
had to be home by a certain timebecause the gym let's see if I
could travel anywhere certaintime because I had to go to the
gym.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Let's see If I could travel anywhere tomorrow.
Where?
Speaker 2 (30:22):
would I want to go?
You would want to go back toEurope yes, or Thailand Yep, or
Japan Yep.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
Yep Got to make that happen, Captain.
I'm just debating whether ornot I want to take the little.
I think I do, though I thinkshe's old enough.
No, she's not.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
What's a hobby or a skill?
I've always wanted to try, buthaven't yet.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
A hobby or a skill.
Oh, but you haven't, because Imean, you did try it, you got
into it a little bit.
You're woodworking.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
And I quickly got out of it.
You know why and I quickly yourwood making.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
But I mean, I quickly got out of it, you know why.
And I quickly got, you know.
He put his toe in and then he,you know I got out of it.
Why, when people start askingme to make shit for him, I mean,
all you have to do is say no,that's why it's called a hobby.
I do it because I want to do it, not because I don't want to
feel obligated.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
I'm not, although you could have made bank off those
benches.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
He one of his first projects.
He made a bench for our frontporch and like, created it,
painted it, did the whole thing,and I had took pictures of it
and everybody was like, oh mygosh, where did you guys get
that bench from?
And I was like my husband madeit.
Oh, he makes benches, how muchdoes he charge?
And then that was the day hestopped that making things.
He was like this is not goingto turn into, this is what I'm
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doing on my weekends.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
I was like they're not for sale, Upon our making
Macy's a doghouse.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
Okay, well, you're for sure going to make a water
sprinkler cover.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
Oh, yeah, for sure, I got stuff for that right here.
Speaker 1 (31:51):
Yeah, because she already tore that up.
Speaker 2 (31:53):
She messed up my sprinklers one more time.
That dog be hanging from herhind legs from a tree.
Bye.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Bye, that's not nice.
No, she wouldn't.
That's not very nice, let's see, let's do two more.
Okay, what's my go-to order ata restaurant or fast food spot?
Your?
Speaker 2 (32:11):
go-to order.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
Again, it's depending on the mood Okay beef, uh fatty
fatty brisket and um, well done, steak uh-huh.
Speaker 1 (32:26):
And then how do I?
How do I like it fixed up?
Speaker 2 (32:28):
oh, you should extra onion and whatever I don't know
whatever I got the dish right,that's enough extra, extra.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
It's a brisket with uh fatty flank it's complicated
what it is it's not.
With extra white onion, extracilantro, hoisin sriracha, it's
not difficult at all.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
I'm gonna ask you this one.
This one has many answers whatis my favorite Type of music or
artist?
Speaker 1 (32:56):
Hip hop, kendrick Lamar that's.
Speaker 2 (32:59):
That's one of them.
You like R&B, you like gospel,my favorite type of music.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
You listen to all genres.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
You know oldies is my favorite.
You know I'm old on the inside.
Speaker 1 (33:08):
I know you're old.
I said R&B too.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
What's my favorite oldies group?
You don't just have one, I dohave one.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
Five Heartbeats.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
That's not a real group.
That's not a real group.
That's not a real group, that'sjust a movie.
That's not a real group.
One of the singers of myfavorite group actually, oh my
gosh, one of the singers of mythat's the first thing that came
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to my mind.
One of the singers of myfavorite group actually passed a
couple weeks ago oh, I don'tknow who passed it's still the
whispers, the whispers, okay,the whispers slap.
They make all they all they ohman, that got me.
Speaker 1 (33:55):
That really got me.
Uh, let's see.
Well, this should be an easyone for you.
What's a show or movie that Icould re-watch over and over?
Speaker 2 (34:04):
and over Charmed.
What's Love has To Do With it?
Law Order, svu, golden Girls,golden Girls, madlock In the
Heat of the Night.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
Why is it only you describing a 70-year-old?
Speaker 2 (34:20):
This is just proof that we were raised by our
grandparents.
Speaker 1 (34:24):
Why was I watching?
In the Heat of the Night,laying in bed crocheting.
Put a cup of tea on mynightstand.
Because you're old, but I wasso comfortable and relaxed, I
said this is what I like to do.
I was crocheting, I had my teaand I was watching In the Heat
of the Night.
It was a good evening for me.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
What's my ultimate dream?
Car or toy?
Speaker 1 (34:48):
A toy Motorcycle Car, right now A Tundra.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
That's what I want.
No, my dream car, what's?
Your dream car.
It's not the same, it was onething.
But now I do want a Tundra.
Okay that I'm never going toget, as long as she doing the
master.
Speaker 1 (35:07):
Not.
If you want to be responsible,right you can get anything, it's
about being responsible.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
I've never been.
I was never like a Ferrari guy.
I've never a Lamborghini guy.
No, I've always said that if Iever got money, I would buy a
Jaguar F-Type.
I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
That is new to me, you've never said that to me.
Speaker 2 (35:28):
Jaguar F-Type.
Speaker 1 (35:29):
You literally never said that to me.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
The Jaguar F-Type is literally the first car I buy in
every car game I get oh.
That's new news to me, butknowing what I know now, my ass
would never sit in there becauseit's too goddamn low to the
ground yeah because I might haveto go get forklift me out, not
because these knees ain't whatthey used to be not, forklift
you out yes nobody wants to beforklifted out.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
I mean maybe, but nobody wants to be forklifted
out.
Um yeah, I think you did prettywell.
Speaker 2 (35:59):
Let me ask you one more question, okay do I like to
resolve conflict right away, ordo or, or walk it out or wait
it out.
Speaker 1 (36:03):
Oh, walk it out.
Wow, um, do you like to resolveit right away, or what?
Speaker 2 (36:08):
Or wait it out.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
It really just depends, but I would say overall
, you would rather try to workit out.
Um but it really depends on thesituation, cause it depends on,
like, how hot headed you are atthe time.
So that's what I would say.
So let's go ahead and hop on.
In.
All right, here we go.
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Am I the asshole?
Speaker 2 (36:44):
for refusing to give my ex full access to my life
just because we co-parent.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
Okay, I'm a 25 year old female and have a six month
old baby with my ex, who's 24.
And we've been trying toco-parent since we split a few
months ago.
But now he's saying that I'mbeing an asshole for not telling
him everything that I do whenthe baby isn't with me.
We were together from highschool from 2015 up until
recently.
Our breakup happened shortlyafter I gave birth, when I found
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out that he had been cheatingwith multiple women.
His excuse that I wasn't beingsexual enough postpartum and he
had a high libido.
Yeah that was enough for me towalk away.
Since then, I've beenrebuilding my life.
I got more involved in mychurch, formed new friendships
and started feeling like myselfagain for the first time in a
while.
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I've also done everything I canto keep things calm and
respectful for the sake of ourchild.
But now he's making it an issuethat I don't share details
about my personal life with him.
He says that I should be moretransparent and that it's
important for co-parenting.
He wants to know who I'mhanging out with, what I'm doing
, who my new friends are, evenif it's me just hanging out
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while he has the baby Hisreasoning he tells me about what
he's doing.
So I should do the same.
But here's the thing I've neverasked him for any of that
information.
He voluntarily tells me I'mabout to hang out with this new
girl or I've been seeing someonenew, even when our child is not
in his care at the time.
It's his personal time and I'vetold him that I don't need to
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know or want to know thoseupdates.
Yet now he's acting likebecause he shares that info with
me.
I owe him the same level ofopenness, even though I've never
requested it and it's unrelatedto our child.
He's also been following some ofmy new friends on social media
and asking me questions aboutthem.
My account is private so Idon't know how he's even finding
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them.
I suspect he's using a burneraccount or he's viewing my
church's page, who postspictures of me and the people I
hang out with.
Sometimes I had asked them tostop posting me.
We have a photographer thattakes pictures during service or
after service and post themonline for media purposes For a
while, because I had asked himto stop posting me for a while
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because I believe he was usingthose posts to find my friends
and follow them.
He's never reached out to anyof them, but the whole thing
makes me feel really creepy andit's invasive.
It's crossing a boundary for me.
I've talked to some friendsabout this and their opinions
are mixed.
Some say he has a point that weshould be transparent with each
other since we share a child.
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Other people think he'soverstepping and that this isn't
part of co-parenting,especially since our child
hasn't met any of these peopleand I'm not dating anyone in
particular right now.
Even my mom is siding with him.
She's liked him since we weretogether in high school and
anytime we argued she'd tend totake his side and ask what I did
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wrong.
Now she's saying that I shouldbe open about who I'm hanging
out with to better co-parent.
That makes me question myselfeven more.
I'm not trying to be an assholeor be difficult.
I believe in healthy boundaries.
If someone's going to be aroundmy child, I will share that.
But just living my life andseeing my friends with my baby
when my baby isn't with me, Idon't think I owe him a play by
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play of my life.
So now I'm wondering am I theasshole for keeping parts of my
life private from my child'sfather when it doesn't involve
our child?
He want you back.
That's what it is.
He know he messed up.
Speaker 2 (40:13):
He just want you back .
That's why he want to know whoyou with.
Speaker 1 (40:16):
And that's why he kind of bothered when he tell
you that he hanging out with ayou jealous, and it ain't
working.
Speaker 2 (40:23):
He just wants you back.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Look here, you're not the asshole.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
You ain't gotta tell him nothing.
You ain't gotta mention nothingto him until you get with
somebody who's gonna be aroundthe child, like she said.
And until that point.
Look here.
First of all, he the asshole,because to tell a woman that I
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cheated on you postpartumBecause you weren't sexual
enough, postpartum that's wildand you know that I have a high
libido.
That's wild.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
After I just gave birth to your child.
Speaker 2 (40:54):
That's wild.
Speaker 1 (40:55):
Men are wild.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
I always say, look here, because I had a friend and
when I said this to him hestopped talking to me about shit
like this and I said, look here, you cannot fault your partner
for not engaging in sexualactivities with you when they
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have a medical condition thatliterally changes the way their
brain function.
They're not thinking that.
Speaker 1 (41:24):
Right and postpartum definitely does that how
empathetic, can you be?
Speaker 2 (41:33):
You're being an asshole.
Speaker 1 (41:34):
Because it's something that can't be
controlled.
Speaker 2 (41:36):
Because you're being selfish.
In that moment You're thinkingabout you.
You're not thinking about whatthey're going through.
Yeah, but all you focus is onis what is.
Speaker 1 (41:44):
What your need is what your little brain is
telling you.
Yep, that's crazy work crazywork um, am I the asshole for
refusing to help my boyfriend'sdying mother while planning a
trip to europe?
Damn crazy work.
Um, I'm a 25 year old femaleand I live with my boyfriend,
liam, who's 24.
About a month ago, his mom,tanya, began claiming she was
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dying of cancer, but nodiagnosis has been confirmed.
Every hospital visit ends withher being sent home.
A nurse even told Liam that shemight be faking it.
It started when she stayed outone night at our bedroom at our
one bedroom apartment.
That turned into a week ofchaos.
She refused AC and fans, butblue dried her hair daily.
The apartment smelled awful,everything had to be dark and
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silent and she constantlydemanded help.
She even stormed into ourbedroom at 3 am asking Liam for
massages.
She criticized our Buddhistsouvenirs, insisted we hang
across and complained nonstop.
She suggested we move in withher, an hour from our job and
school.
I'm a full-time student with twojobs and a 4.0 GPA and I was
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falling behind Liam, who workedfull-time, switched to remote
work to care for Tanya, his mom.
Her health updates were alwaysshifting MRI, canceled surgery,
then chemo, postponed due toinfection, then E coli, always a
new reason, but no cleardiagnosis and no paperwork.
When her husband, david, wasaway, she made us go to her
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house to get her jewelry becauseshe thinks he'll steal it when
she dies.
We were supposed to take her tothe ER right after, but we
ended up staying 16 hours doingchores.
I folded 420 clothing items,cleaned the entire house and
felt like her unpaid maid.
Not a single please or thankyou.
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She was stalling to go to theER and when we finally got there
at 5 AM she said she'd checkherself in and she sent us home.
Three hours later she calledagain sobbing for help.
She had been rejected by the ER, I suspect for faking it.
Liam and I both skipped meals,are skipping meals, losing sleep
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and falling behind at work justto help her.
He once said that he's waitingfor her to pass away so we can
just move to Europe.
He's been forced to manage herdivorce, lawyer meetings and
funeral prep.
Meanwhile David, who's payingthe hospital bills and had been
kept in the dark all about this,sent Liam aggressive text
messages like I call bullshitand don't show up at my house
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anymore.
Then later apologized.
Tanya called again begging forhelp help, but this time she
wanted me because David isjealous of Liam.
I had clearly told Liam Ineeded the weekend to study for
final exams, and going to thathouse alone seemed sketchy.
Now I'm planning a two to threeweek Europe trip to see my mom,
(44:38):
who I haven't seen in over ayear.
Liam says he supports it, butcalled it a little selfish.
He asked if I were dying, wouldyou quit your job to be with me
?
And if you're, if it were yourmom, would you help her?
I felt pressured to say yes, buttruth is my family wouldn't lie
to me or use me the way hismother does.
(44:58):
I love Liam and I want to bethere for him, but I don't trust
his mom, and this is startingto affect our relationship.
So am I the asshole forrefusing to help Tanya and going
on my European trip?
Nah, not at all.
First of all, you say there'sno paperwork, there's no
confirmed diagnosis, she's noton chemo, she's not taking no
medication.
So at this point she has likeself-diagnosed herself with
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cancer and is just rolling withit, and I would suspect that
it's something to the effect ofshe feels like Liam is giving
you a little bit too muchattention, and then this is her
way of keeping Liam's attentionand love for herself.
Speaker 2 (45:34):
Let me tell you what it is I bet money that Liam is
the only child.
Speaker 1 (45:38):
Probably that's what it sounds like.
Speaker 2 (45:40):
Because I think she would have mentioned, like why
aren't your other?
Speaker 1 (45:42):
siblings over here, folding 420 clothing items now,
since Liam's father is leaving.
Yeah, the divorce she's tryingto hold on to something and Liam
has her and she's using this asa way to keep Liam in her
pocket because, if and when Liamfinds out the truth and it
ain't what she's been sayingshe's going to lose him forever.
Speaker 2 (46:05):
She's going to lose everything.
Speaker 1 (46:07):
But she's probably thinking her husband left her.
Liam is probably closer tomarrying his girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (46:13):
And then once that happens.
Speaker 1 (46:14):
You know what it is.
Once that happens, I'm going tobe alone, because, when boys
marry, they leave home.
Speaker 2 (46:18):
Yeah, I'm going to be alone.
They're going to start.
Speaker 1 (46:24):
And she's gonna get all his attention.
Even though I was there hiswhole life, I raised him like
everything, and now here shecomes look here, go see your
family, enjoy.
Speaker 2 (46:31):
Tell your mama I said hi, enjoy enjoy.
Speaker 1 (46:34):
Europe have a great time um.
I know the food is trash.
You get some comfortable shoes.
Oh, that is not true.
Speaker 2 (46:39):
I know the food is trash, so the food is trash?
Speaker 1 (46:41):
The food is not trash .
You've never even had Europeanfood and where's she going?
Speaker 2 (46:46):
Is she going to Europe?
Speaker 1 (46:47):
She's in Europe.
She didn't say England, shejust said Europe.
Oh, okay, well, I can't.
Speaker 2 (46:51):
You know, but you're not the asshole.
Speaker 1 (46:52):
You're not the asshole, definitely not the
asshole Go visit your mom.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
Enjoy your time with your mom you know what you know.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
I'm right there with you.
I'm right there with you Iain't never met a Tanya I can
trust, and the last Tanya Iencountered that's a whole
different.
Speaker 2 (47:10):
I ain't never met.
Speaker 1 (47:11):
Yeah, I never.
Yeah, I'm with you, babe.
I don't think I've ever met onethat I can trust either, or one
that was honest, facts, facts,facts, facts.
Enjoy your mom.
Enjoy your mom and your family.
This has been another episodeof life after I do podcast.
If you're not doing so already,you know the drill, go ahead
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You get a new episode everyweek, guys.
So until then, peace Booskies,peace Booskies.
I know you're old.
I know you're old, that's whatI said.
Or be too Like you, you knowyou have a favorite oldies group
.
You don't, you don't just haveone, I do have one.
Five heartbeats.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
That's not a real group.
That's not.
That's not a real group.
That's just a movie.
That's not a real group.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
That's not the real group hey everybody and welcome
(00:45):
back to your weekly dose of Life.
After I Do podcast, You'regoing to be kicking it for the
next 45 minutes to maybe an hourwith me, Kynesha and my bestie
slash husband.
Bestie with the mesty, molitoBestie with the mesty.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Mo Get it Mesty, I'm messy.
Oh gosh, I like the mess.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Hey Booskies, hi, how are you Great, how are you.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Tired.
I'm all fun tired.
We are back from camp.
Camp was great.
It was hot.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Very hot.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
I'm happy that Airbnb had a pool Very great.
But it's hot.
Speaker 1 (01:28):
The kid loved it.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
The people who stay out there and that I don't know
how they do it.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
They're probably used to it.
I mean, it's just like theVegas people, they're used to it
.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
It was weird because after last week's episode and
then I saw all those half-nakedwomen in the gym, I didn't know
whether I could.
I was trying to double tap.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Okay, okay, you're such a muddle.
I was trying to double tap.
You're such a muddle, how?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
was your week.
A lot of double tapping in thegym, a lot of double tapping.
I was air double tapping.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Oh God.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So that way, instagram one, I like that one,
so special you're so I like thatone special.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Don't want to switch on me.
Oh my gosh, other than that,how was your week?
It was good, I'm on my new um.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Why?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
are you drinking right now like?
People don't want to hear youswallow and they're not.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
They're not gonna hear that they do you do
goodness gracious, I'm doinggreat.
I started my new mesocycle, mytraining, so my training's a
little different now.
It's not, I'm getting used toit, it's not, it's not.
I'm not on a what you wouldcall traditional.
Now I'm more um, I'm more areafocused, so I'm more I'm like
(02:39):
officially in my um, my bodyrecomp era.
Try to get this chest pokingout, get these quads a little
bigger.
It's been going, it's great.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
A good transition.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I might have to add some cardio, though, because
I've scaled back on my cardiosince I got, ever since I hit
the low 200s.
I've scaled back on my cardio.
I might increase it.
I hit the low 200s.
I've scaled back on my cardio.
I might increase it because II'm really feeling like I need
to be like 190 195 to really getthe look I'm looking for.
Oh, you know, okay, I want tobe thick, fit.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I don't think 190 is thick, fit yeah thick fit.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
I want to be like like I got to get down to 190.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Oh, you're talking about, so you can re-bolt.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
So I can bolt back up .
Oh okay, yeah.
Yeah, I thought you meant like,just be 190.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
No, I got to get down to 190.
I was like that's slick.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
I want to get down to 190, like bolt back up to about
215, and then cut.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Yeah, it's not too bad if you like, if you do a
good, good bulk.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Oh, I'm doing it.
I'm doing a dirty bulk.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Oh no, don't do a dirty bulk, I'm doing Oreos, no.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Okay, cheesecake.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I don't think that's what you want to do.
Peach cobbler Fat cells arereal.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Greens Smothered potatoes.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Smothered pork chops.
I'll make them myself.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
First of all.
Look here.
I'm happy you said that becausethis goes into what we're doing
today.
I know my wife can't makesmothered pork chops.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
I can make smothered pork chops.
I'm just not going to buy apack of pork chops.
When have you ever seen mepurchase a pack of pork chops?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
You can suffocate some pork chops that.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Are you really trying to play that game?
Because you remember whathappened the last time you tried
to play that game.
You ain't never.
You will be.
You will be hungry for a week.
I know how to smother a porkchop.
I don't even.
I don't even buy pork chops.
I'm a buy them.
Remember I bought those porkchops in good and free, like a
couple weeks ago.
Yeah, and that was the, and weboth agreed that was the first
time we in how many decades Imissed them.
(04:42):
How long has it been since?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
we ate a pork chop.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
You know the last time I remember eating pork
chops was when I lived at homeas a teenager.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Look here your boy, because I had really been on my
no pork thing for so long and Iwould occasionally eat bacon.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
That's no.
You were not on a no pork.
I was on a no pork.
I would on a no pork.
I was on a no pork.
I would occasionally eat baconbecause he was still eating pork
.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I don't know where he got that from I was still
eating bacon from time to timebecause the one thing I look
I've tried.
I've tried turkey bacon, beefbacon that's what we eat turkey
bacon don't nothing tastes likebacon, but bacon, everybody
knows that.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
that's why my old boss used to say when I, when I
used to tell her, oh I, I maketurkey bacon.
She was like that's turkeystrips.
I said it's turkey bacon.
She said that's not bacon,that's turkey strips.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
But you know, growing up you know I was raised by
country folks we ate the pig.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
That's what I'm saying, Like my mama used to
make them pork chops with themac and cheese and the homemade
mashed potatoes.
Lord, have mercy.
I'm going to call her and askher.
I'm going to say you can goahead and make that for me.
You can make that for mebecause I literally could.
The last time I remember havingpork chops was when I lived at
home.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
You know who probably made some fire ass pork chops,
who Miss Annie Miss.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Annie From.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Sinners.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Bye, maurice, because she'll't use no stale grease.
Bye, why are you so special?
Because she don't use no stalegrease.
You and that stale grease you aliar.
She immediately shut that down.
She was like you is a cold liar, I do not use no stale grease.
(06:22):
How was your week, boosie?
It was a cold lie.
Week was good.
It was um.
You know, it was nice to get achange of scenery to be in a
different, be in a different uma different state.
You know that was really fun, uh.
So yeah, I really can'tcomplain.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Gym was good, yeah what was good about it?
Speaker 1 (06:41):
seeing different people, you know, seeing the,
the, the different, the way gymsare set up.
You know that was fun, you knowso you make the looks and the
stares that you get.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
You want to show off for other men okay, no one.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
That's what.
No one's show, no one's goingback to last week's episode.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Oh my gosh, you were trying to get people to double
tap your pictures I don't try toget people to do anything you
don't really post.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
No, I don't this is I said I said that I was gonna
get better, though I I mean, Iam gonna get better, and thank
you to those who have startedfollowing me, even without new
content.
You guys are great, awesome, um, but yeah, I am gonna get
better about posting.
I is you know what's crazy is?
I have all of my content on topof me and do her business, Shut
up, I have all my content in myphone.
(07:26):
I just literally need to postit, Like I have finished videos
and everything in there, andsometimes I'm just like, once I
do the post, like for likeTikTok and stuff like that, I'll
be like, whew, that's a lot.
That's the one thing.
I've been Right, I ain't got nomore energy.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
No, I understand, because you like trying to reply
to like the podcast commentsand posts.
I ain't got time to do my ownstuff.
I got to go to work.
People, I still work.
Okay, look here, I still go towork.
I can't say I work at the job,bye, but I still go to work.
Goodbye, goodbye, and I'll bethere, at least.
I try to do 40.
Most times I do like 44, butthere's months on weeks, I've
(08:07):
done 26, but it don't matter,don't judge me, I still have
somewhere to be um and on top ofthat shit to do on top of that,
you know.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
But we love all the support and we love the
engagement, guys a daughter ittakes.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
My daughter takes a big chunk of my time as well,
which I love her, that's my, butwe love she was, she told me
the other day.
She said, dad, are you happythat I look like you?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
I said I'm ecstatic for now ecstatic for now, but
she's getting older and she'sstarting to look like me, so I
told her.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I said phoenix, you know what you could look like,
your mom, if you just had mypersonality?
Oh gosh, the problem is thatyou have your mom's personality.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
No, she has your no she don't.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
She too bubbly, she too friendly.
I'm not friendly.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
No, she has your personality.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Like my boys say.
Like my boys say I ain'tfriendly, I'm polite.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Those are two different things.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
My grandma told me to speak to everybody.
I ain't trying to be friendswith you, but yeah.
So it was a good week.
It was yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
You're not going to tell people how you went down on
a whole dress size.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
What, how you down on ?
Speaker 1 (09:06):
a whole size.
I've been down.
No, come on, Would you put allof them, it's not just one.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Oh good, talk your shit.
How many is it?
It's two.
Oh shoot, thank you, sir, butI'm currently on a maintenance
right now, which is like I'mlike my brain is finally kind of
like settling into, like justbe comfortable with where we are
(09:31):
right now.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Okay, we ain't losing , we ain't gaining, we're not
doing none of that, we justgoing to be right here.
Like I fluctuate between, youknow, like three pounds up,
three pounds down, three poundsup, three pounds down, but like
I'm in a maintenance so I haveto like I'm staying here, um,
until about november.
So you know, that's been somedays.
I'm like, yeah, like this islike this is yeah I'm not.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
I'm not this.
Is it like I don't mind it?
Speaker 1 (09:55):
I don't mind it, and then other days I'm like damn,
if I could just go ahead anddrop this 20 pounds, I feel like
life would be.
Life would be a little bit,just a little bit better.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
I mean if you drop it , it'd help me, because you know
my goal is to be able to squat,bench and then lift your weight
and I can do two of the three.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
So you can't squat my weight I can't.
Okay, which one can't you?
Oh, you can't bench my weight,not yet, not yet.
Oh no, that's not good.
Damn, I'm there already.
I've never seen you bench myweight, I have.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
I video.
Okay, because you know I'mgoing to show you, you know, if
it's not on video, then you know.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
But yeah, like benching that you mentioned that
I've been trying to manifest mybenching and I know like when
you say like you can't manifestsomething that's like physical,
you got to work for it but it'spart of it.
So I've been manifesting it andworking towards it.
So doing my 225 holds, you know, like it, it it.
Once I started holding 225 onbench I feel like half of the
(10:58):
anxiety of it kind of like wentaway, and then the longer I'm
under the 225, the more I'm justlike I can't wait till I'm at
that point where I'm like downand pushing it.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
Let me tell you something, though, holding it
here.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Oh, I know it's different.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
I know.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Then when you're trying to control it coming down
, I know but I'm saying likeThen you gotta pause it here.
But the intimidation of justunracking 225, I was like, oh, I
don't want to sit here and makea fool of myself.
You know like I I'm.
I felt comfortable enough toknow that I was strong enough to
unrack and you know, I told youabout the last uh, couple weeks
(11:36):
ago.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
Huh, I told you what the message a couple weeks ago
well, what?
You just mumbled.
I told you what my dumb ass dida couple weeks ago what did you
drop the bar the?
Bar.
I went over to the seatedshoulder press and I said let me
put these 45s on here.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
This can't be that heavy On the seated shoulder
press.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Yeah, you special.
I said, this can't be thatheavy.
Speaker 1 (11:54):
Okay, so 135 overhead yes, when you've never done it.
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
I've never overhead You're so funny.
I've never over here.
You're so funny, I've neverover here, you're hilarious.
I said I can like bench 135 forlike 50 reps.
This is nothing.
I got this, not shit.
I went like this I brought itdown and I pushed it back up and
I racked it and I said, let mesit my stupid ass down.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
That's just like.
So my coach shout out to JosephPatino body that's just like so
my my coach shout out to josephpatino um, when, like when he
was looking at my numbers and Ihad did the 105 uh overhead, I I
have I haven't done it sincethe first time I did it and he
was like what has happened?
I said I can't tell you I thinkthat was just a good day
because I have not overheadpressed 105 since the day I
(12:44):
overhead pressed 105.
Good thing I got it on video.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
I will say this Now I got to try 105.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
But I do think Now I got to try 105.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
But I do think that standing is a lot easier than
sitting.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
You think it is because you think.
Because I can use my legs youcan, because you can use your
legs, but I'm not using my legs.
And that's the first thing thetrainer, paul, at the gym, asked
me when I was telling him how Idon't like doing standing
overhead press and he was likewhy?
I said because I don't like.
I don't like the movement, Idon't like the like, the range
of motion, I don't know.
I was like I've tried tocorrect my form, I've done it
(13:19):
many different ways and he waslike the first thing he said was
are you using your legs?
Like, do you use your legs forlike a little bit of momentum or
anything?
And I was like no, I stand asstill as possible and I'm just,
it's like all shoulder, you know.
And he was like oh, okay, andit's.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
It's very much different when you're not using
your bottom half, because evenin seated, even in seated, when
I've done it seated, you'reusing leg drive.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
Yeah, seated.
When I've done it seated, youcan plant.
You're using leg drive, butit's not the same.
Yeah, it's not the same.
You're using leg drive, yeah,so when?
Speaker 2 (13:52):
you're doing standing and you're just straight up and
you're doing that motion, yeah,I said.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
I said, yeah, I'd be like 85 is good for me.
I said yeah, because if I don't, if I want to be able to rotate
my arms in the morning, I'mgonna go ahead and put this I'm
gonna go ahead and I had.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Immediately I thought right, I had to look at my
shoulder and say stay strong,stay strong because, like right
now, all this is like sore you,you worried everything gonna be
okay.
I think we'll be okay, juststay strong, stay strong because
what is?
Speaker 1 (14:18):
this your front, right, yeah, like, yeah, well,
we got the nail biscuits.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Uh, how well do you know me?
I don't know you at all.
You change every week.
This is true Every week.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
But we're going to see.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Every week I got to prove my love.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
Every week.
You told Harpo to beat me.
Shut up, maurice, you're sosilly.
How well, how well do you knowme, how well do you know your
partner?
Speaker 2 (14:46):
Do, do, do, do, do do .
Speaker 1 (14:48):
This is whack, your mom's whack.
You have like one blonde hair.
That's like that's crazy.
I think it was like a gray hair, that like turned or something,
I don't know.
But yeah, so we'll go back andforth, we'll take turns, all
right, asking each other aseries of questions to see how
well we know each other rightnow.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
All right, I see, okay, I see how this is going to
go.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
Okay, ready.
Yeah, I'll start off with aneasy one.
Okay, sure, how do I make mycoffee or tea?
Speaker 2 (15:18):
That's two different things.
And then hold on.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
First of all, how do I make my coffee or tea?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
What kind of coffee, what kind of tea, because it
depends.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
Maurice, how do I make my coffee If I'm drinking
coffee?
Speaker 2 (15:29):
You like your tea.
You like your tea, two tea bags, one honey.
But you want your honey in thecup before the water, and then
you want honey, then you wantthe water, then the tea bags,
then a little lemon.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
You missed a step, okay, but yes, that's generally.
Yes, the honey, the Splenda.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Yeah, Splenda.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
The tea bags, the water, the lemon, yeah, yes, and
my coffee recently.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
For this past year.
How have I been drinking mycoffee?
Oh, you just won't.
Decaf shots in a protein drinkwith some caramel drizzle.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
That's it.
See, that was easy, babe.
I gave you an easy one.
I'm going to give you an easyone then, I think.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Do I prefer sweet snacks or salty ones?
Sweet.
Speaker 1 (16:13):
Sweet Because last night you was jonesing, jonesing
.
He was jonesing.
He said babe, he was scratching.
He was like babe, I said what?
You got some snacks, okay,first of all I don't even know
how to react to that that everytime he wants something sweet,
instead of going like bringwhatever he brought with him, or
like if we're at home goingdownstairs and getting something
(16:35):
out of the cabinet, heautomatically assumes I mean,
maybe rightfully so, but heautomatically assumes that I got
a sweet treat in my nightstandor my closet somewhere.
And if I keep telling him yes,then he so, but he automatically
assumes that I got a sweettreat in my nightstand or my
closet somewhere.
And if I keep telling him yes,then he you know, then he knows
I keeps a sweet treat.
But no, I didn't have.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
She knows that.
I know that she hides snacksand I'll be trying to figure out
if she hides them.
That's what she knows.
Speaker 1 (17:00):
Because between him and my daughter I could never
keep anything.
So listen, here there's theselicorice that I like to eat.
They're called Willie.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Wilde, hold on hold on, hold on hold on that.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
We like to eat oh see , now it's a we thing.
It wasn't a family thing untila mommy started eating them and
they're like this vegan licorice.
We have to put this on.
They're like a vegan and fat,but they're really good.
And they come in differentflavors.
I don't have to pause.
They come in different flavorsand I like the green apple
flavor, the green apple, thewatermelon and the regular, you
(17:31):
know, traditional, whateverstrawberry.
And so I would get like acouple of packs.
I would keep, you know, onepack on day.
You know three, three pieces isone serving 90 calories.
If I'm feeling, you know, ifI'm feeling spicy, I'll have two
servings 180.
If I'm feeling, you know, ifI'm feeling spicy, I'll have two
servings 180.
You know what I mean.
And it's, and there's only likethree and a half servings in
each pack.
Why did I let these cats have apiece of licorice?
Speaker 2 (17:55):
monday the sprout because she's a modern servant.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
I'm killing the pack and that's what I tell them.
I'm like give me the pack.
Why are you finishing the pack?
So instead of, instead ofbeginning like the big
resealable pack, I go to theDollar Tree and I buy like 12 to
15 packs at a time becausethey're the only place that I
can find like that flavor that Ireally like.
But I go when they stock itbecause it goes so fast, like
(18:20):
now.
Everybody named Mama apparentlylikes licorice, so but I go and
like last time.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
I think they've only been selling licorice for
hundreds of years, but now it'sjust they've only been selling
licorice for hundreds of years.
Speaker 1 (18:33):
But now it's like I went.
Last time I went it was Ibought 15 packs.
I bought 15 packs, 50.
Listen to what I say.
I bought 15 packs of licorice.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
Well, you know, just like Audacity, they'll sell it
in bulk.
15 packs.
Don't judge us.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
That bag of licorice that I purchased between myself,
my husband and ourseven-year-old Hold on.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
No, and your mama and your sister no.
Speaker 1 (18:58):
No, we all primarily ate it.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Don't come for me.
Speaker 1 (19:02):
Lasted like a week.
Speaker 2 (19:04):
Hold on and, primarily, ate it.
Okay, for me Lasted like a weekHold on and then the cold part
is now they make a sour version.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Oh yeah, now those, and they're small.
Oh my gosh, they are so good.
Oh, can we?
Speaker 2 (19:12):
sound so fat, go ahead and ask me a question.
But they're really good.
Okay, I promise y'all.
We're still on our fitnessjourney.
We just be.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
let's see what color do I wear the most black what
kind of?
Question is that black?
I don't wear black as much as Iused to.
No, okay, maybe that's not yourexperience I'm wearing gray to
the gym today I wear black.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
What color are your bottles right now?
Black, okay.
Color your glasses what okay?
But I'm wearing gray, sowhatever um how do I show love
without using words?
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Touch, physical touch .
All the time I'm on that ass,all the time I'm on that ass,
I'm on that ass.
Bye, let's see.
I'm on that ass what is my mostused phrase or thing.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
I know you fucking lying or played yourself.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Played yourself, you played yourself.
Look at you, you looked up.
Or played yourself, playedyourself, you played yourself.
Look at you, you look dumb.
You played yourself, you lookdumb.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
What is something that I'm surprisingly
sentimental about.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Something that you're surprisingly sentimental about.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
Yeah, I've been crying a lot lately too.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
That you're sentimental about therapy makes
me cry probably our timetogether.
I would say that's a goodanswer probably our time
together that's not what I wouldsay.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
My time alone, that's a good answer let's see what is
.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
Something small that instantly annoys me the way that
you go gosh, that's not a smallthing.
What like?
Just like, sometimes, just youjust you like, over the pack you
masticating.
Sometimes it's just in general.
(21:16):
Okay, I just can't Like.
I just don't understand why ithas to be All right.
Why should I hear you acrossthe room?
Okay?
Speaker 2 (21:24):
yeah, we're done with this.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
This is crazy.
Speaker 2 (21:26):
This is going to be a short episode, guys.
What's my ideal weekend withyou?
What would my ideal weekendwith you look like?
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Oh, somewhere away in a hotel or the balcony.
Speaker 2 (21:36):
There has to be a balcony.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
If y'all know me, that's pretty easy, as long as
there's a balcony.
It's high up.
It's a private room.
We can make do In late eveningA little bit of wind, early
morning yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:57):
That's ideal for him.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
Takes me back.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
What's something I do when I'm mad but not saying it?
Speaker 2 (22:05):
You don't talk when you mad.
Speaker 1 (22:07):
And what else?
I rage clean, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
It's funny.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
I need to make you more mad.
You tried it.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
You tried it, you tried it, you tried it.
Who was my childhood hero orfavorite athlete?
Kobe Kobe's my all-timefavorite athlete.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Yeah, kobe, that's an easy one.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
And all the Mamba slander.
Oh gosh Needs to stop.
Speaker 1 (22:38):
Y'all niggas couldn't stop Kobe.
What scent or perfume Do Ialways reach for?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I don't know what it's called, but it's the one I
just recently purchased for you.
You know, I don't know the nameof this shit.
That's cheating.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
Donna and Rome.
Speaker 2 (22:51):
Is that what it's called, donna, and Rome?
Is that the Versace one, orwhatever?
Speaker 1 (22:56):
No, that's the Valentino.
Whatever, I don't know, that's,my favorite Was that the
Versace one or whatever?
Speaker 2 (22:58):
No, that's the.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
Valentino.
Oh, whatever, I don't know,that's my favorite, it do smell
good, I can't lie.
That's my favorite.
Speaker 2 (23:02):
When was the last time I really surprised you, and
how?
Speaker 1 (23:05):
The last time you really surprised me?
Well, the most recent that Ican think of was when you bought
me a summer cup Unprovoked.
That was a surprise, becausefor so long you were against.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
No, I'm still against it.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
It's funny because you say you're against it, but
then when you're out and you seesomething you'd be like, oh,
but I think she would reallylike this and he brought me home
a Stanley unprovoked and I waslike okay, I was like you really
didn't have to.
And he was like okay, I waslike you really didn't have to.
And he was like well, she saidit was the new one and she said
it was gonna sell out.
So I was like okay, I didn'twant to give it up.
(23:44):
I was like, well, just know, letthe record show I wasn't gonna
buy this cup?
Look here let the record show Iwas not in the market for this
cup, but I'm going to accept thegift, because that would be
rude.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
I don't know why I do this thing.
Where I go against my own, youcomplain.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
Yeah, it's just like when I bought you that Skoroski
Crystal damn Starbucks cup,mm-hmm.
I was like, well, that's a nicecup, I want that cup.
I was like let me get that cup.
And then when she told me theprice, I said for what?
Speaker 1 (24:13):
For a cup.
It's like one of a thousand andit has seroski crystals on it.
Yeah, it does.
That's actually one of my mostpriced, one of my most priced
cups.
Yeah, I'm part of the problem.
So you know, if anything everhappened and we were really down
hard, I could probably sell it.
Okay, I probably wouldn't, butwe couldn't.
Um, what's, uh, what's myfavorite body part of yours?
(24:37):
My hands.
Yes, I've loved his hands since, since I was a young girl.
Speaker 2 (24:44):
Y'all know why.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
That's not why I just oh my gosh, why, why do you
have to make?
Speaker 2 (24:52):
What's, uh, what's my favorite part of your
personality?
Speaker 1 (24:56):
What's my, what's your favorite part of my
personality?
What's your favorite part of mypersonality?
Oh, that I can talk to almostanybody.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
That's not my favorite.
You always say that no, that'sthe part that irritates me the
most.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Oh my gosh.
You have always said I justlove how you can just talk and
relate to anybody.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
No, that because you won't shut up.
Speaker 1 (25:11):
Okay, lies, that's not what you said, but what is
it?
It's that ass of my personality.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
My ass is not personality when they see you
okay you sound silly, you soundsilly no, it's like you're a
really loving and caring person.
Okay, that's so generic, no, no, but but it's real, though to a
fault like you, really, peoplebe playing you, okay do?
Speaker 1 (25:34):
I prefer cuddling or my space in bed?
Speaker 2 (25:38):
space.
It depends on the night, itdepends on the night 90 of the
time I prefer what space?
Speaker 1 (25:44):
yes space I need space.
First of all, I need spacebecause of how I, how I sleep.
I require a lot of space.
Okay, I sleep with about sixpillows um.
I sleep at an angle.
I sleep with my heating pad, myshe goes restrained.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
She looks like my hair bonnet, my eye mask.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
She looked like there there's a lot that happens when
I sleep and I have to.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
I have to get to her before the eye mask comes on.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
Once my eye mask is on, it's a wrap I'm done if I
got my right pillow under myright arm like this and I'm
already sitting up while I'masleep and then I pull it out,
because what I do is I put itaround the bonnet and then you
might watch a little TV orsomething.
But when I do one of thesenumbers and I slowly pull it
down over my eyes, that meansshe's done for the evening.
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But he sleeps with the damn fanstraight in his face.
So I always have to create abarrier between us because I
can't sleep.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Don't come for me.
I can't sleep with air blowingup my damn nose all night.
My fellow fan sleepers willcome to my defense, okay, and
that's why y'all allergies areterrible, but we so, and that's
why you got terrible allergiesbecause you sit there and let
the damn dust fly under yournose all night.
What I was saying is that Iunderstand that I have.
If it's just a bonnet, I stillgot a shot.
Speaker 1 (27:03):
Yes, You'll tune it up, but if the eye mask comes
out, it's over.
And then, even if I'm not allthe way to sleep, but my eye
mask is down and I'm trying tosleep, I will snore Because you
know the eye mask is down.
And then she hits you with oneof these.
I peek from underneath it.
I'm like what are you trying todo?
(27:24):
The eye mask is down.
My goodness.
What's one thing that instantlyturns me on One thing that what
?
Speaker 2 (27:32):
Instantly turns me on Me.
Speaker 1 (27:36):
Facts Me.
Just look at you and be likecome here Me, you know me.
Facts me.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Just look at you like come here Me.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
If I, if I touch your shoulder like this, hold on,
we'll cut it short.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
We'll cut it short.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Wait a minute.
What did Ron's wife say whenshe was asking Tyrese?
She was like do you why?
Do you know why you never seelike public affection and
anything from us?
And he was like no, why.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
And she said said because, if I just if I just
like touch him like this hethinks it's an invitation.
Okay, that's not an invitationlet's get to it.
Speaker 1 (28:05):
It's not an invitation, okay, um, what was I
wearing on our first date?
Speaker 2 (28:12):
I don't know.
Yeah, you do.
You're wearing blue jeans and awhite top.
You were in a blue jeans, theblue cut up jeans, with the
white top, and you had a bluebeanie on.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
No, the beanie was white because it matched my
sweatshirt, my sweater.
It was like these sky bluepants that had like whitewash in
the front and we saw brownsugar.
And I wore a white long sleevesweater with, like my crochet
little beanie and I thought Iwas the cutest thing ever.
No, you was pretty hot andtempting.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
thank you, thank you um what's my dream date night
with you?
So you get two questions.
Oh sorry, no, it's fine.
I know it's what you do um yourdream date night with you?
Some lobster bis sounds good bythe water, probably.
I'm up there and then you woulddo like the music outside if
the temperature is right.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
Yeah, because if I'm distracted by me being too hot
or too cold, count me out.
Count me out, it's got to be.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
But it'd be like something like that and
something where we can it's likereal intimate one-on-one and we
can have a good, decentconversation uh-huh, okay, I
like that, that is me yeah, Iknow, um, um.
What's my go-to excuse when Iwant to get out of something?
(29:36):
Let me ask my wife no with youwhat I tell you when you ask me
something.
What's my go to excuse when Iwant to get out of something?
Let me ask my wife no with youwhat I tell you.
Speaker 1 (29:44):
When you ask me something, what's my excuse I
give you when you want to getout of something?
Yeah, I don't know.
You never really give me toomany excuses.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
Like when you're like , babe, let's go to my mom's
this weekend, I'd be like what,what'd I say?
Speaker 1 (29:55):
what I say, what I say, no, I don't know, I can't
think of it well, you know Igotta work, so even on a day
that he don't have to work, likewhen we went to my cousin's.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
Well, I had to work the next day, later that day I
had to be home by a certain timebecause the gym let's see if I
could travel anywhere certaintime because I had to go to the
gym.
Speaker 1 (30:18):
Let's see If I could travel anywhere tomorrow.
Where?
Speaker 2 (30:22):
would I want to go?
You would want to go back toEurope yes, or Thailand Yep, or
Japan Yep.
Speaker 1 (30:30):
Yep Got to make that happen, Captain.
I'm just debating whether ornot I want to take the little.
I think I do, though I thinkshe's old enough.
No, she's not.
Speaker 2 (30:39):
What's a hobby or a skill?
I've always wanted to try, buthaven't yet.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
A hobby or a skill.
Oh, but you haven't, because Imean, you did try it, you got
into it a little bit.
You're woodworking.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
And I quickly got out of it.
You know why and I quickly yourwood making.
Speaker 1 (31:00):
But I mean, I quickly got out of it, you know why.
And I quickly got, you know.
He put his toe in and then he,you know I got out of it.
Why, when people start askingme to make shit for him, I mean,
all you have to do is say no,that's why it's called a hobby.
I do it because I want to do it, not because I don't want to
feel obligated.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
I'm not, although you could have made bank off those
benches.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
He one of his first projects.
He made a bench for our frontporch and like, created it,
painted it, did the whole thing,and I had took pictures of it
and everybody was like, oh mygosh, where did you guys get
that bench from?
And I was like my husband madeit.
Oh, he makes benches, how muchdoes he charge?
And then that was the day hestopped that making things.
He was like this is not goingto turn into, this is what I'm
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doing on my weekends.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
I was like they're not for sale, Upon our making
Macy's a doghouse.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
Okay, well, you're for sure going to make a water
sprinkler cover.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
Oh, yeah, for sure, I got stuff for that right here.
Speaker 1 (31:51):
Yeah, because she already tore that up.
Speaker 2 (31:53):
She messed up my sprinklers one more time.
That dog be hanging from herhind legs from a tree.
Bye.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Bye, that's not nice.
No, she wouldn't.
That's not very nice, let's see, let's do two more.
Okay, what's my go-to order ata restaurant or fast food spot?
Your?
Speaker 2 (32:11):
go-to order.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
Again, it's depending on the mood Okay beef, uh fatty
fatty brisket and um, well done, steak uh-huh.
Speaker 1 (32:26):
And then how do I?
How do I like it fixed up?
Speaker 2 (32:28):
oh, you should extra onion and whatever I don't know
whatever I got the dish right,that's enough extra, extra.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
It's a brisket with uh fatty flank it's complicated
what it is it's not.
With extra white onion, extracilantro, hoisin sriracha, it's
not difficult at all.
Speaker 2 (32:46):
I'm gonna ask you this one.
This one has many answers whatis my favorite Type of music or
artist?
Speaker 1 (32:56):
Hip hop, kendrick Lamar that's.
Speaker 2 (32:59):
That's one of them.
You like R&B, you like gospel,my favorite type of music.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
You listen to all genres.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
You know oldies is my favorite.
You know I'm old on the inside.
Speaker 1 (33:08):
I know you're old.
I said R&B too.
Speaker 2 (33:13):
What's my favorite oldies group?
You don't just have one, I dohave one.
Speaker 1 (33:19):
Five Heartbeats.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
That's not a real group.
That's not a real group.
That's not a real group, that'sjust a movie.
That's not a real group.
One of the singers of myfavorite group actually, oh my
gosh, one of the singers of mythat's the first thing that came
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to my mind.
One of the singers of myfavorite group actually passed a
couple weeks ago oh, I don'tknow who passed it's still the
whispers, the whispers, okay,the whispers slap.
They make all they all they ohman, that got me.
Speaker 1 (33:55):
That really got me.
Uh, let's see.
Well, this should be an easyone for you.
What's a show or movie that Icould re-watch over and over?
Speaker 2 (34:04):
and over Charmed.
What's Love has To Do With it?
Law Order, svu, golden Girls,golden Girls, madlock In the
Heat of the Night.
Speaker 1 (34:17):
Why is it only you describing a 70-year-old?
Speaker 2 (34:20):
This is just proof that we were raised by our
grandparents.
Speaker 1 (34:24):
Why was I watching?
In the Heat of the Night,laying in bed crocheting.
Put a cup of tea on mynightstand.
Because you're old, but I wasso comfortable and relaxed, I
said this is what I like to do.
I was crocheting, I had my teaand I was watching In the Heat
of the Night.
It was a good evening for me.
Speaker 2 (34:44):
What's my ultimate dream?
Car or toy?
Speaker 1 (34:48):
A toy Motorcycle Car, right now A Tundra.
Speaker 2 (34:54):
That's what I want.
No, my dream car, what's?
Your dream car.
It's not the same, it was onething.
But now I do want a Tundra.
Okay that I'm never going toget, as long as she doing the
master.
Speaker 1 (35:07):
Not.
If you want to be responsible,right you can get anything, it's
about being responsible.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
I've never been.
I was never like a Ferrari guy.
I've never a Lamborghini guy.
No, I've always said that if Iever got money, I would buy a
Jaguar F-Type.
I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
That is new to me, you've never said that to me.
Speaker 2 (35:28):
Jaguar F-Type.
Speaker 1 (35:29):
You literally never said that to me.
Speaker 2 (35:31):
The Jaguar F-Type is literally the first car I buy in
every car game I get oh.
That's new news to me, butknowing what I know now, my ass
would never sit in there becauseit's too goddamn low to the
ground yeah because I might haveto go get forklift me out, not
because these knees ain't whatthey used to be not, forklift
you out yes nobody wants to beforklifted out.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
I mean maybe, but nobody wants to be forklifted
out.
Um yeah, I think you did prettywell.
Speaker 2 (35:59):
Let me ask you one more question, okay do I like to
resolve conflict right away, ordo or, or walk it out or wait
it out.
Speaker 1 (36:03):
Oh, walk it out.
Wow, um, do you like to resolveit right away, or what?
Speaker 2 (36:08):
Or wait it out.
Speaker 1 (36:10):
It really just depends, but I would say overall
, you would rather try to workit out.
Um but it really depends on thesituation, cause it depends on,
like, how hot headed you are atthe time.
So that's what I would say.
So let's go ahead and hop on.
In.
All right, here we go.
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Am I the asshole?
Speaker 2 (36:44):
for refusing to give my ex full access to my life
just because we co-parent.
Speaker 1 (36:45):
Okay, I'm a 25 year old female and have a six month
old baby with my ex, who's 24.
And we've been trying toco-parent since we split a few
months ago.
But now he's saying that I'mbeing an asshole for not telling
him everything that I do whenthe baby isn't with me.
We were together from highschool from 2015 up until
recently.
Our breakup happened shortlyafter I gave birth, when I found
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out that he had been cheatingwith multiple women.
His excuse that I wasn't beingsexual enough postpartum and he
had a high libido.
Yeah that was enough for me towalk away.
Since then, I've beenrebuilding my life.
I got more involved in mychurch, formed new friendships
and started feeling like myselfagain for the first time in a
while.
(37:28):
I've also done everything I canto keep things calm and
respectful for the sake of ourchild.
But now he's making it an issuethat I don't share details
about my personal life with him.
He says that I should be moretransparent and that it's
important for co-parenting.
He wants to know who I'mhanging out with, what I'm doing
, who my new friends are, evenif it's me just hanging out
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while he has the baby Hisreasoning he tells me about what
he's doing.
So I should do the same.
But here's the thing I've neverasked him for any of that
information.
He voluntarily tells me I'mabout to hang out with this new
girl or I've been seeing someonenew, even when our child is not
in his care at the time.
It's his personal time and I'vetold him that I don't need to
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know or want to know thoseupdates.
Yet now he's acting likebecause he shares that info with
me.
I owe him the same level ofopenness, even though I've never
requested it and it's unrelatedto our child.
He's also been following some ofmy new friends on social media
and asking me questions aboutthem.
My account is private so Idon't know how he's even finding
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them.
I suspect he's using a burneraccount or he's viewing my
church's page, who postspictures of me and the people I
hang out with.
Sometimes I had asked them tostop posting me.
We have a photographer thattakes pictures during service or
after service and post themonline for media purposes For a
while, because I had asked himto stop posting me for a while
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because I believe he was usingthose posts to find my friends
and follow them.
He's never reached out to anyof them, but the whole thing
makes me feel really creepy andit's invasive.
It's crossing a boundary for me.
I've talked to some friendsabout this and their opinions
are mixed.
Some say he has a point that weshould be transparent with each
other since we share a child.
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Other people think he'soverstepping and that this isn't
part of co-parenting,especially since our child
hasn't met any of these peopleand I'm not dating anyone in
particular right now.
Even my mom is siding with him.
She's liked him since we weretogether in high school and
anytime we argued she'd tend totake his side and ask what I did
(39:38):
wrong.
Now she's saying that I shouldbe open about who I'm hanging
out with to better co-parent.
That makes me question myselfeven more.
I'm not trying to be an assholeor be difficult.
I believe in healthy boundaries.
If someone's going to be aroundmy child, I will share that.
But just living my life andseeing my friends with my baby
when my baby isn't with me, Idon't think I owe him a play by
(40:00):
play of my life.
So now I'm wondering am I theasshole for keeping parts of my
life private from my child'sfather when it doesn't involve
our child?
He want you back.
That's what it is.
He know he messed up.
Speaker 2 (40:13):
He just want you back .
That's why he want to know whoyou with.
Speaker 1 (40:16):
And that's why he kind of bothered when he tell
you that he hanging out with ayou jealous, and it ain't
working.
Speaker 2 (40:23):
He just wants you back.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Look here, you're not the asshole.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
You ain't gotta tell him nothing.
You ain't gotta mention nothingto him until you get with
somebody who's gonna be aroundthe child, like she said.
And until that point.
Look here.
First of all, he the asshole,because to tell a woman that I
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cheated on you postpartumBecause you weren't sexual
enough, postpartum that's wildand you know that I have a high
libido.
That's wild.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
After I just gave birth to your child.
Speaker 2 (40:54):
That's wild.
Speaker 1 (40:55):
Men are wild.
Speaker 2 (40:58):
I always say, look here, because I had a friend and
when I said this to him hestopped talking to me about shit
like this and I said, look here, you cannot fault your partner
for not engaging in sexualactivities with you when they
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have a medical condition thatliterally changes the way their
brain function.
They're not thinking that.
Speaker 1 (41:24):
Right and postpartum definitely does that how
empathetic, can you be?
Speaker 2 (41:33):
You're being an asshole.
Speaker 1 (41:34):
Because it's something that can't be
controlled.
Speaker 2 (41:36):
Because you're being selfish.
In that moment You're thinkingabout you.
You're not thinking about whatthey're going through.
Yeah, but all you focus is onis what is.
Speaker 1 (41:44):
What your need is what your little brain is
telling you.
Yep, that's crazy work crazywork um, am I the asshole for
refusing to help my boyfriend'sdying mother while planning a
trip to europe?
Damn crazy work.
Um, I'm a 25 year old femaleand I live with my boyfriend,
liam, who's 24.
About a month ago, his mom,tanya, began claiming she was
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dying of cancer, but nodiagnosis has been confirmed.
Every hospital visit ends withher being sent home.
A nurse even told Liam that shemight be faking it.
It started when she stayed outone night at our bedroom at our
one bedroom apartment.
That turned into a week ofchaos.
She refused AC and fans, butblue dried her hair daily.
The apartment smelled awful,everything had to be dark and
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silent and she constantlydemanded help.
She even stormed into ourbedroom at 3 am asking Liam for
massages.
She criticized our Buddhistsouvenirs, insisted we hang
across and complained nonstop.
She suggested we move in withher, an hour from our job and
school.
I'm a full-time student with twojobs and a 4.0 GPA and I was
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falling behind Liam, who workedfull-time, switched to remote
work to care for Tanya, his mom.
Her health updates were alwaysshifting MRI, canceled surgery,
then chemo, postponed due toinfection, then E coli, always a
new reason, but no cleardiagnosis and no paperwork.
When her husband, david, wasaway, she made us go to her
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house to get her jewelry becauseshe thinks he'll steal it when
she dies.
We were supposed to take her tothe ER right after, but we
ended up staying 16 hours doingchores.
I folded 420 clothing items,cleaned the entire house and
felt like her unpaid maid.
Not a single please or thankyou.
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She was stalling to go to theER and when we finally got there
at 5 AM she said she'd checkherself in and she sent us home.
Three hours later she calledagain sobbing for help.
She had been rejected by the ER, I suspect for faking it.
Liam and I both skipped meals,are skipping meals, losing sleep
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and falling behind at work justto help her.
He once said that he's waitingfor her to pass away so we can
just move to Europe.
He's been forced to manage herdivorce, lawyer meetings and
funeral prep.
Meanwhile David, who's payingthe hospital bills and had been
kept in the dark all about this,sent Liam aggressive text
messages like I call bullshitand don't show up at my house
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anymore.
Then later apologized.
Tanya called again begging forhelp help, but this time she
wanted me because David isjealous of Liam.
I had clearly told Liam Ineeded the weekend to study for
final exams, and going to thathouse alone seemed sketchy.
Now I'm planning a two to threeweek Europe trip to see my mom,
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who I haven't seen in over ayear.
Liam says he supports it, butcalled it a little selfish.
He asked if I were dying, wouldyou quit your job to be with me
?
And if you're, if it were yourmom, would you help her?
I felt pressured to say yes, buttruth is my family wouldn't lie
to me or use me the way hismother does.
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I love Liam and I want to bethere for him, but I don't trust
his mom, and this is startingto affect our relationship.
So am I the asshole forrefusing to help Tanya and going
on my European trip?
Nah, not at all.
First of all, you say there'sno paperwork, there's no
confirmed diagnosis, she's noton chemo, she's not taking no
medication.
So at this point she has likeself-diagnosed herself with
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cancer and is just rolling withit, and I would suspect that
it's something to the effect ofshe feels like Liam is giving
you a little bit too muchattention, and then this is her
way of keeping Liam's attentionand love for herself.
Speaker 2 (45:34):
Let me tell you what it is I bet money that Liam is
the only child.
Speaker 1 (45:38):
Probably that's what it sounds like.
Speaker 2 (45:40):
Because I think she would have mentioned, like why
aren't your other?
Speaker 1 (45:42):
siblings over here, folding 420 clothing items now,
since Liam's father is leaving.
Yeah, the divorce she's tryingto hold on to something and Liam
has her and she's using this asa way to keep Liam in her
pocket because, if and when Liamfinds out the truth and it
ain't what she's been sayingshe's going to lose him forever.
Speaker 2 (46:05):
She's going to lose everything.
Speaker 1 (46:07):
But she's probably thinking her husband left her.
Liam is probably closer tomarrying his girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (46:13):
And then once that happens.
Speaker 1 (46:14):
You know what it is.
Once that happens, I'm going tobe alone, because, when boys
marry, they leave home.
Speaker 2 (46:18):
Yeah, I'm going to be alone.
They're going to start.
Speaker 1 (46:24):
And she's gonna get all his attention.
Even though I was there hiswhole life, I raised him like
everything, and now here shecomes look here, go see your
family, enjoy.
Speaker 2 (46:31):
Tell your mama I said hi, enjoy enjoy.
Speaker 1 (46:34):
Europe have a great time um.
I know the food is trash.
You get some comfortable shoes.
Oh, that is not true.
Speaker 2 (46:39):
I know the food is trash, so the food is trash?
Speaker 1 (46:41):
The food is not trash .
You've never even had Europeanfood and where's she going?
Speaker 2 (46:46):
Is she going to Europe?
Speaker 1 (46:47):
She's in Europe.
She didn't say England, shejust said Europe.
Oh, okay, well, I can't.
Speaker 2 (46:51):
You know, but you're not the asshole.
Speaker 1 (46:52):
You're not the asshole, definitely not the
asshole Go visit your mom.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
Enjoy your time with your mom you know what you know.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
I'm right there with you.
I'm right there with you Iain't never met a Tanya I can
trust, and the last Tanya Iencountered that's a whole
different.
Speaker 2 (47:10):
I ain't never met.
Speaker 1 (47:11):
Yeah, I never.
Yeah, I'm with you, babe.
I don't think I've ever met onethat I can trust either, or one
that was honest, facts, facts,facts, facts.
Enjoy your mom.
Enjoy your mom and your family.
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