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Well, today I am delighted to welcomeMartin Murph Murphy to Life Beyond the
Numbers, and I am going to call you Murph.
Hello,
very welcome.
Now, Murph, I came across, apost on LinkedIn that spurned
me to get in touch with you.
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And it was something that JohnShinnick, who had been on this podcast
quite some time ago, episode 42.
reposted and it was about wild coachingand he mentioned how he spent time
in the hills with you and he always
comes back with something added.
Okay.
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And I just thought that wassuch a lovely jumping off point.
So maybe you talk to me a littlebit about Walking and wild coaching.
Hmm.
right.
Okay.
Well, he's a bit of a legend,John Shinnick, anyway, isn't he?
So, in the Manchester community.
yeah, well, coaching, it's, there'sa lot more of it going on, I
think, it seems to be the in thing.
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Um, I started a long time ago doingthis, finding the benefit of being
outdoors, but basically it's about
promoting wisdom and wellbeing
by walking and talking in nature.
it started for me kind of probablyabout 20 years ago, I kind of finished
with the middle of the security world.
I got bored of that.
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And I went to university, andgot a degree in environmental
studies and outdoor pursuit.
I thought I'd probably be able togo and join Greenpeace or something
like that and get on those boats
and do all that exciting stuff.
Anyway, they told me to sod off basically.
So, so I thought, what can I do?
And, whilst I was waiting, I starteddoing some personal training and
it tended to be business owners.
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And, as I learned NLP and, coachingand other forms of psychology,
mainly to sort my own problems out
from a dysfunctional childhood.
But, yeah, I started chatting topeople, and what they were finding
more beneficial wasn't me kind of
beating them up and down, football
fields, trying to get them fit.
They actually liked it when we wentfor a walk around the golf course, it
was around Mottram Hall at the time.
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And.
That, that got me thinking, well,actually, yeah, there's something
in this, this idea that you take
people outdoors and as a result
of that, it frees up some minds,
I talk a lot about flow states, you know,this flow states are these, these optimal
states that you get into, you feel kind of
relaxed, but it's really focused, you're
liberated, you kind of lose yourself
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And it's actually down to a thingcalled hypotransient frontalis,
but you lose track of time.
You lose yourself inwhatever you're doing.
you have this optimal gripon reality and yourself.
So you seem just to be able to findthe right answers at the right time.
And It leads to more deeper wisdom,if you like, because it's kind of
like an extended aha moment, and
this is all caused by the fact that
you're actually doing something.
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we're designed to move.
We should be doing about 25 paces daily.
That was a hunter gatherer lifestyle.
And, we actually thinkbetter when we're moving.
It actually, there's loads ofstudies coming out now, about
increasing brain endurance.
So if you actually do somephysical exercise and you think
about a challenge, it actually
builds a better brain resilience.
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so the walking gets you into, resourceful.
Date.
You're outdoors.
I mean, it's hidden in our language.
We tend to look down atphones and things like that.
So it's like downright sad is where wetend to look and that's how we feel.
if things are brighter, if things arelooking up brighter, we know that, quite
a lot of people who are creative, for
instance, might be promoted and put
in a corner office and they wonder why
they can't create these more creative
visuals, things, ideas, because
they're stuck in a corner office.
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So yeah, you take people outdoors.
they get into a resourceful state,you're able to explore more.
you can use nature.
I call it wayfinding, just like you use acompass and things like that, so you can
use, the path you're on as a metaphor.
And, because you're outdoors,you can stay inquisitive longer.
Because you're outdoors, it helps youshift from left brain into right brain.
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Dr. McGilchrist has revisited this ideaof left and right, the asymmetrical brain.
He says that the actual corpuscallosum acts As an inhibitor so if
you're stuck in one side the left
tends to be very competitive and
controlling and it lacks certainty.
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So you jump to conclusions, a bitquicker, whereas when we're doing this,
you're able to stay inquisitive longer.
And, so there's this liberation thenyou're hoping to free them from fixed
thinking or, you know, mental sclerosis, I
suppose, fixed ideas and things like that.
And it just increases the ecology of mind.
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Most decision making models, whetherit be, plan, do, check, adapt, OODA
loops, and even the GROW model is goal.
What's the goal?
What's the reality?
Divergent.
Which option are you goingto choose the way forward?
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It's all divergent, convergentand emergent, and they
all follow that pathway.
OODA loop just goes faster.
So you go into on this fixedthinking way, competitive.
quicker.
and because we want to be in this, theleft brain and Dr. E. McGilchrist, says
that we've created this left brain world,
capitalism, all that sort of thing.
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So yeah, if you can get people outof it, you can't do it straight away.
I noticed this working with people atthe fire service and other clients,
leaders who were trying to talk about
wellbeing, they would, On one to ones,
they'd say, so how are you doing?
How do you feel?
Well, I feel fine, because obviouslyno one likes talking about that.
so they just go straight backto, right, so okay, let's
have a look at your numbers.
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And the reason for that, of course, isthe fact that it's actually difficult.
It takes time.
You've got to build rapport up for onething, get into a resourceful state, but
it takes time because the corpus callosum,
once we're in one side, it stays there.
And really what we're trying todo is, develop this other side,
which is more the right side.
And as a result of that, it's likeGregory Bateson's idea of ecology of mind.
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you start seeing us thinking as anecosystem and, we can be more coherent
and that's what we're looking for.
So like the pair of pathetics, I thinkthey're called the, the idea of the
Lyceum and Aristotle started this.
He used to take his.
his students outdoors andtalking, walking, talking.
So it's not a new idea.
It's been around for centuriesand, yeah, it just works.
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It just works.
And I think instinctively, Murph, weknow that because oftentimes somebody
will say, I need to go outside to
clear my head or I'm going to go
for a walk and figure this out.
So that movement and that outdoors.
Is it's in us and sometimes thewisdom just kind of takes over
and says, that's what you need.
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Does it surprise people though?
Because it sounds like a luxury when,when I need to be focused on the numbers
or whatever it might be in a workplace.
And then suddenly I meet Murph and hesays, come on, we're going for a walk
well,
there's a few things there.
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If you're in a flow state, so likeMcKinsey, you've done, work on this
and they've realized that executives
are five times more affected.
So you just can't be in aflow state all the time.
So that's one thing.
the act of walking, actuallyacts a bit like EMDR.
It's, it's like this bilateralmovement encourages bilateral thinking.
so as a result of that, you bring moreof your brain to the, If you like the
more of yourself to the problem, if you
were facing a problem or understanding
a problem, and because you're in a
flow state, when you do come to look
at the numbers, you'll probably be
more spot on your people, probably
more effective as a result of that.
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yeah.
it's, it's like a reset, isn't it?
you're resetting your brain.
One of the things about flows is fullstates to flow and what people do.
You might have come across thisidea where you've had a really
good day and you understand this
flow state 'cause you, oh yeah.
You've just had this optimalgrip, as I say, and you've
achieved lots off your to do list.
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And then you come in the next day andgo, or you think to yourself, right, I'm
going to have another good day like that.
You do exactly the same thing, do your todo list, and you just can't get into it.
And the reason for that isbecause, you are suffering from
what's known as a flow hangover.
And it's partly due to glutamate, whichis one of the neurotransmitters in the
brain that Allows for focused thinking
and so it would make you better with
the numbers and the old glutamate still
stuck in your brain cells and you need
to flush it out and the way to do it
is I sleep well, but also exercise.
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So it's kind of like an active recovery.
So it comes down to theidea of, sharpening the axe.
It's, you need to, you will be moreeffective if you're able to have little
breaks and to do some active recovery.
completely.
And I have never heard thatterm flow hangover before.
And it puts to mind, it'snot the circadian rhythm, but
it's one of those rhythms.
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And I started to work likethat for quite a while.
I was writing a book and doing90 to 120 minutes of real focus
work, and then a 20 minute active
recovery, which generally involved
going out, stay outstairs, outside.
And, It was fascinating how I could getright back into that state then again.
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as long as it was active recovery, Ithink that's the difference, isn't it?
And, whether if you're scrolling on yourphone or watching TV, that's just passive.
And I think a lot of the times We thinkthat to relax, we need to be sitting
down or doing something passive.
When actually the R& R, the relaxationand recovery, having an activity
is much better for us, isn't it?
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Yes, funnily enough, before the pandemicI was over in the Middle East, we were
actually teaching intelligence agents,
about leadership, and they would, they
had, I can't really tell you where
it is and all that sort of thing,
but it's, it was, It consisted of us
giving lectures, you know, 40 minute
lectures in a big hall all together.
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And then we would walk thestudents to various other rooms.
And one of the, hierarchy thought, well,can we not just condense this and just
keep them in the room for eight hours?
It takes everything.
And I explained to them, well,no, actually walking the largest
muscles in the body are the
gluteus maximus, the leg muscles.
Backside muscles, when you're walking,you're flushing and, getting the
brain, getting the blood pumping round.
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And as a result of that, this activerecovery means that when they go to
have the smaller group discussions
about the theory that you've just
been talking about, they'll be
more effective in that state.
So, yeah.
And they were walking and talkingas they were going as well.
So, yeah.
it's a much.
more coherent way of approaching thinking,if you like, is to be able to move.
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It is.
And, and yet, we don't do it enough.
Whoa, gosh, watch out, Icould get on my soapbox here.
well, of course not now, because,industrial revolution thinking
is that, we've tried to make
people, well, I haven't, but, the
whole idea behind, the Industrial
Revolution was to, create technology.
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technology is always a toolto acquire power of a resource
and relate, replace people.
So the plough, took over fromlike 10 jobs and then the tractor,
a hundred jobs and that, so on.
And so That's been increased all the time.
but the thing is now we've got tothe point where we can be more human.
In fact, we need to get back to beingmore human because we don't need widgets
anymore, industry doesn't need widgets.
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It needs humans.
we've got all the technology we want.
Now we can replace asmany humans as we want.
So now we're going to findother ways to be more human,
I think the thing that I say thatcapitalism got wrong is the fact that,
capitalism is all about competition.
but it's ideas that compete,whereas people should collaborate
and collaboration was our,
evolutionary advantage.
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And what makes us better atthinking is to move and think at
the same time, most of the time,
to the time.
And that's a lovely segue actually tothe rest of that post that I talked
about at the beginning that John Shinnick
reposted because you said something that's
very, very Dear to my thinking as well.
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And that was that future sustainablesuccess depends on human intelligence
as much as artificial intelligence.
And are we in fear of throwingthe baby or human nature out
with the digital bathwater?
And I won't say it's somethingthat keeps me up at night, but it
certainly is one of those things that.
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That I have a big focus on becausethat human intelligence, we
haven't even touched on it here.
Almost.
we've kind of ventured a little bit intoit, but we're capable of so much more.
And I listened to a podcast episodethat you talked about collective
intelligence, and that's something that
we will never get unless we collaborate.
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Absolutely.
Yeah.
as we find with AI and, and robotics,I mean, AI just de skills us and
just takes away our intelligence.
I wrote a book, about five, sevenyears ago now, I think it is.
And I said, Much like the special forcesmodel, but also how hunter gatherers
operate and also people like Steve
Jobs did the same thing, which was to
create these small teams at the liminal
edges who were able to collaborate at
a higher level and have more agency
and autonomy, mutual accountability,
alignment to the mission and purpose.
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And in doing so they became highlyeffective, but we always call them
special project teams or special
forces or, or whatever you want to
call it, They always thought that was
special, but actually no, that's just
how humans are supposed to operate.
and we lost that for a whilewith the industrial revolution
and factory farming and factory
everything else, and factory humans.
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if you're being dis skilled becauseyou're just relying more and more
on technology, you're going to find
yourself at some point out of work.
And also, what have you got left?
Well, the only thing, go backto our revolutionary advantage,
which was collaboration.
And that's a really interestingpoint about this special, special
projects and the special ops
and special forces and so on.
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cause I heard somebody talking aboutthis recently in relation to athletes,
because athletes, I guess, are people
that normal people, day to day people
understand going to flow state, or the
zone or whatever they call it, and how.
All of them, well, somebody wrote abook and the people that he spoke to
had all had extraordinary experiences in
this flow state by accessing their own
intelligence in a way that they weren't
aware of before that and were aware of.
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Unhappy, or unwilling to talk about it,because it wasn't something that was
talked about, so it was seen as special,
When actually, that could be the ordinary,if, if more of us were able to access that
part of us, because it's there for us all.
yeah.
Absolutely.
the health benefits are massivefrom this, this kind of thinking.
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I mean, everyone knows that,people that do run and do keep
fit, they feel great afterwards.
you know, they think it's, Downto endorphins, the run is high,
but it's actually endorphins is
just, almost like a painkiller.
it doesn't pass a blood brain barrier.
What it is, is a substance calledanandamide, which comes from the Sanskrit
word meaning bliss, the bliss molecule,
but basically it attaches to the THC
receptors in your brain and, allows
the brain to it disparate parts tend
to connect more so, by going for a walk
there's loads of different things that
are released and lots that's going on.
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But that's one of the major ones andthat's where the bliss idea comes from.
But it also it's alsoconnecting your brain.
I mean, basically, it's like smoking.
You're not smoking pot, but it'sthe brain's version of that.
And it's administeredin just the right way.
just the right time.
Yeah.
And if you think about how farwe've come and how creative and,
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when great things are inventedor thought of or new ideas come
out, it's always a collaboration.
the idea of a lone genius.
it's probably overemphasized actuallyeven Einstein had to have a chat with
someone else while start walking before
their ideas came, so yeah, we people
that experience flow states report having
more meaningful lives as a result of it.
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So.
Yeah, cool.
So that would then, if you have ameaningful life, it means that you'll
probably produce a substance called GABA,
gamma amyl butyric acid, which just acts
on the parasympathetic nervous system.
So yeah, you go out for a walk in thehills, having a great chat with someone,
bouncing ideas around, you're allowed
to be inquisitive longer, more coherent
thinking, joined up thinking, if you
like, and you feel great afterwards.
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Thanks.
With bags of ideas.
You do, you do, and The otherthing about it is it's free
to go outside, I think it's
Well, not if you gowalking with me, but yeah.
That's different, you're paying for theconversation there, not the walk as such.
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But, but nature being such a greatteacher and being so available to us and
resourcing us is something that's free.
I often think that we undervaluethings like that because
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Because we're not paying forit as such, we might not see
that it can bring us something.
Yeah.
I don't know.
I think most people are, or maybeit's just the circle I'm in.
because, you know, we dothis, I go net walking, model.
I guide, I'm a mountain leader.
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So I guide, networking for acompany called in Manchester.
And, Yeah, funnily enough, the, the freshwalk has come at the end of the month.
It's usually a hard walkat the end of the month.
And the kind of research that MichaelDePalo had done on that was the fact
that people at first came for the
networking, but then came, then it became
a, a community and actually it was the
community aspect that they came for.
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and you just hear theconversations that go on.
It's just amazing, you know?
Everyone's in this flow state.
It's, a lot of people say thatit's, like a reset, walking out in
nature is a reset for the brain.
And if they've had a hard month,but, but it's always the last Fridays
and the month when the community
network goes out, it's great.
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They absolutely love it.
But similarly, when you, we have a lot of.
clients now, who are, sorry aboutthe pinging in the background, my
wife's phone, I forgot it was in here.
Um, so yeah, A lot of our clients arefinding, we take professional services
firms out, and what they're doing and
they're finding that, they might've
taken them to the races or shopping or
whatever, and, and just normal networking,
events, but they're actually finding
that people are reporting afterwards.
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No, it's the time wewent walking with you.
Even.
If it was raining, because you've had thisshared experience, and it's about that,
the fact that, you have a shared novel
experience together, you've, you've done
something together, and you've had a very
powerful experience that's been backed up
because you've been in this flow state,
and you're not waking up with a hangover.
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in the alcoholic type of way.
So, yeah, they're finding that thatof all the things that they do,
going out walking in the hills with
clients is much the best way to do it.
If I'm going to meet apotential client, I don't.
Let's just meet somewhere for a coffee.
I say, well, let's get out on the hill.
And you'll benefit, you'll see foryourself, how it could benefit you
when you have a chat outdoors and
that has a more bonding effect because
obviously walking in nature also releases
oxytocin, which, it's known as cuddle,
neurotransmitter or whatever, but it,
what it actually does is bond people.
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and so, yeah, when you're out, it's,it's a more memorable, memorable meeting
and more meaningful and more impactful.
So, yeah.
Aren't we all doing it?
Yeah.
I know.
I did think about having thisconversation while walking outdoors,
but I think it would have just been too
distracting when we weren't together.
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And because I have done one podcastrecording outdoors, actually, and
it was just, it's just, I mean,
it's just magical, isn't it?
To be outdoors anyway.
And, I grew up beside the sea and, and forme, you can solve everything by walking
by the sea, even alone, and I wondered
about that actually, as you're talking
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about being outdoors and the silence.
Because there's a different soundwhen you get away from traffic.
The quality of the sound and thesilence is very, very different.
So I wonder, does thatplay a role as well, Murph?
yeah, I would say so.
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if you think about traffic,it's quite a stressful thing
going on in the background.
there's a few things going on here.
well, for one thing that, when you getinto flow states, you shift away from
hypotransient frontalis it's called,
but it's like the, default mode network,
a part of the brain, that closes off.
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And so you switch from ruminatingto reflecting it's you're not
ruminating on the past so much.
so that's one thing
I think when you're outdoors as well.
There's not a lot of research on this,but, since the industrial revolution,
well, agrarian revolution, we've kind
of gone backwards in our culture.
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So we've, creative hierarchiesand things like that.
Well, it's actually quite stressful to bein a hierarchy unless you're the leader.
If you're the leader, you'll gointo dominance behavior system.
It's another part of the brain, but theopposite of that for the majority of
people is involuntary defeats system.
When we take teams out on, in the hills.
you lose that.
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it's more egalitarian.
and as a result of that,people find that, healthy.
And then of course, if you are walkingin trees, for instance, I know they have
like the forest bathing in Japan and they
put it down to certain, chemicals in the
air, from pines and things like that, but
also, trees produce a lot more oxygen.
You actually are taking an oxygen bathby going through woodland, for instance.
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So yeah, There's a lot to it, butthere's various reasons why going
away from traffic and going outdoors
is going to be more beneficial.
Better oxygen.
You're going to flush thesystem out a lot quicker.
Your, glutamate's being refreshed.
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All these neurotransmittershave been refreshed.
and it's more egalitarian when you gooutdoors, you're walking side by side.
if you look at Rogerian, CarlRogers's, person centered counseling,
I think it was six core, things
about, to be in a therapeutic
relationship and how you should be.
But three of them, three coreskills are the same thing that
you get from walking side by side.
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you're not a therapist,you're just being authentic.
And the fact that you're doingthis walking and also, as I
said before, bilateral thinking.
These are like three core conditions forfor a therapeutic thing, acceptance, which
you get when you're outdoors, whereas you
tend to be less accepting when you're in
a culture or a system that's hierarchical.
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So, yeah,
And even metaphorically, I mean, it's notmetaphorically because you are outdoors,
but you've got the expanse, when you're
in an office or a room, you are confined
inside in the borders and, and the color,
I mean, our offices tend to be horrible.
Some of them without windows all ofthat is having an impact on how our
brain is processing and we're seated.
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And like we said at thebeginning, we started this
off by, the movement and even.
a very simple movement is often likeif you're stuck at something, the worst
thing you can do is stay sitting there
trying to figure it out because the
minute you move, even if you just go down
the stairs and up again, you've shifted
what your brain is paying attention to.
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There's a huge case or there's so manyreasons why we should be going outside.
I hate to use the word should,but you know what I mean in the
context of the conversation.
absolutely.
I don't, I don't know whatmore I can, can say related.
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know if there was aquestion in there anyway.
Yeah, I don't know what more I can say to,as I say, there's a raft of transmitters.
It's, it'll increase yourlongevity anyway, so you'll
be more effective for longer.
there's the whole, do you wanta lifespan or a health span?
Yeah, absolutely.
we want a longer health span,getting outdoors and talking,
your ideas are better, because
you're creatively collaborative.
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It's using the right side ofthe brain more, which sees
things in more holistic ways.
You, you're getting away from the stressof being in a hierarchical system.
As we know, when you're stressed,one of the first things that happens
is that your brain closes down And
you've got this level of anxiety.
So even if you're in a hierarchicalsystem in the, in, because that's
traditionally what a lot of firms have
always been like, you know, special
forces tend to shun that kind of thing.
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But when you go out outdoors, yougive people a break from that.
And it means that if you takea team out, you can be more.
You come across more authenticallybecause you're outdoors, if you walk
into an office, you'll be triggered and
anchored into a certain mode of thinking,
the involuntary defeat system might be
that you just, you don't want to offer
suggestions if you're a team member,
because you don't want to get it wrong.
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you're scared of being madea fool of whereas you go
outdoors, it's more egalitarian.
it levels the playing field andeveryone's can contribute better.
And they're also being, they're enjoyingthemselves while they're doing it.
even the days when you've had a reallywet muck, what I call a muck and mayhem
kind of day sort of thing, at the end
of it, they're like, do you remember
that time when we went and did that?
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people start panicking about thefact that it's raining, whatever.
It's amazing how more impactfulthat is because you've had the
shared experience together.
I mean, you know, the Fresh Walkers,they've, They talk about the worst
days more than they do the good days.
would you remember that time?
And then Mike had that like thousandyard stare at the pub afterwards.
Something, it's, I'm sold.
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What about you?
Well, I have the benefit, I suppose,of having grown up in the countryside.
And I do think that makes you.
Well, from my own perspective,just being outside and going
outdoors and going for a walk.
It was just in us, I cycled toschool in all weathers for my
whole way through secondary school.
I was back in Galway recently whereI went to university and we were just
talking about how you never left.
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your digs without your rain gear,because it was always raining.
and that's, like you said, we rememberedhaving to lift our bikes up over a hill,
kind of, up onto a bridge in the rain
pouring against you, but you did it.
And I'm a firm believer in going outside.
I, what, I suppose whatI, maybe where I'm less.
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I won't say convinced because that's notthe case is where there's a discrepancy
or where maybe more reconciliation
needs to take place is, is perhaps
bringing some of my work outside.
and it's really interesting.
I've talked to quite a fewpeople who work outdoors and.
Like you're doing yourself, Murph, and Ithink perhaps it's something that I need
to look at a little bit more in my own
work as well because even as you were
talking there about going into an office
and imagining the same roles that you're
in or afraid to say anything, often people
are trying to bring about change, right?
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But they won't even go outsideand have a walk outdoors.
They won't even change the scene becausethat's literally what you're doing.
And like you said, itopens up so much more.
And I wonder how much the from homeof an office environment impacts it.
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you're sorry.
I thought you were frozen.
no, I was listening intently.
That's why I was justso working from home.
Well, funnily enough.
Yeah.
I don't know whether this relates towhat you're alluding to is, is the
problem with working from home and
the problem that younger people have
who have grown up as digital natives,
perhaps, is the fact that they're
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gosh we're going into a whole new thinghere but One of the challenges that
we've got is with young people, and I
know this is a generalization because
obviously some are super athletes but
there seems to be a lack of resilience.
In the younger, gosh, I'm going toget in trouble, younger generation,
can I say that without getting shot?
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I don't know, but,
I think life is easier in one way.
yeah, so,
less hardship.
yeah, so there's Yeah,there's good stress and bad
Yes.
And, the, the good stress iswhen you've, it's actually down
to dopamine actually, isn't it?
So, dopamine, old technology anddigital stuff is, is, gives us a, a
boost of dopamine, but what happens
is that, you get the dopamine and,
Then as it goes, you get another,
every time you scroll or something
like that, you get in this dopamine.
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So eventually the dopaminestops working so much.
there's that side of it.
So, as a result of that,people are feeling.
less happy because they'rebecoming resistant to dopamine.
So that's one thing.
there's also the other thing is that,you know, the good thing about walking
is that you are using up the insulin.
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We are also becoming moreinsulin resistance because we're
not doing as much exercise.
And of course, if you look at the body asa system, then all these things matter.
And if you want to be healthy andeffective, then it's useful to treat
the body and work with the body as
it was designed to, to be worked.
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For 200, 000 years, we wereegalitarian hunter gatherers.
You know, we did 20 odd thousandsteps per day as a general rule.
And the idea that we had a horrible lifeand isn't quite quite true, once we got
over childbirth, we tended to live about
the same sort of ages, we just had a
more egalitarian, healthier lifestyle.
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And as a result, we'revery effective then.
And I think that.
returning to that and helping peopleto break, break free from maybe an
addiction to, staring at screens all day
and that kind of thing would be, would
be more useful, more, more beneficial.
Yeah.
think that's such a brilliant part tobring into the conversation because I
almost overlooked it myself in thinking
about this, but Our body, we, we focus
so much on our brain in the workplace
and our brain is a part of our body, but
there's so much information coming up
from the other parts of our body into our
brain that's driving a lot of our focus
and attention and decision making and
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getting our body moving or tappinginto the intelligence beyond the
brain is really only something
we can do in a resourced state.
And in an office they're justnot conducive a lot of the
time to being in that state.
I mean, yeah, people have donethis for a while, haven't they?
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people like Google and, one ofour, one of our clients, Bruntwood,
they, they do spend a lot of time
creating the environments that
are, good for this kind of thing.
it's almost like you've gotan, an outdoor space indoors to
some extent, but yeah, it's, You
know, when we talk about things likegut instinct, I can't remember how
many brains we've got, but we have
more than one brain, in the body.
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And as a result of that, again, it goesback to, if you want all those brains
firing at the same time or firing in an
effective way, working in an effective
way, you taking care of your gut biome
and exercise does help with that.
you'll have clearer thoughts,you'll be more creative and so on.
so yeah, it's almost like, soundslike a panacea, doesn't it?
But it probably bloody is.
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So,
I, but I think it's just soeasy to take for granted.
I think that we, we tend totake our bodies for granted
until something goes wrong.
yeah,
and we put all of our emphasison protecting our brain.
or using our brain orfocusing on our brain.
and.
when you go for a walk like you'retalking about, the net walking,
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there's way more than yourbrain going on that walk.
yeah.
Your whole self is, isn't it?
That's the thing.
That's the thing.
Your whole self is
deeper ecology of mind, youknow, the ecology of mind idea.
and also the fact that environments, youmake different kind of decisions when
you're in different environments, so
again, we think decision making comes
from us doing the decision making, we
can, but also it's impacted by, obviously
being with another person, but also the
environment affects your decision making.
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And, as I said before, thingsalways look brighter when you're
looking up, don't they, you know,
you can actually do an experiment.
It's impossible to be, it's practicallyimpossible to cry by looking up.
So if you go to see a baby, I mean,obviously ask the mother first, but if
you go to a baby and click above its head,
the baby will look up and stop crying.
as I said before, things looking up, wefeel better when we're looking upwards.
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if you're looking up and you'relooking around yourself, and you're
using, you know, great metaphors,
like, you can't see your value, you'll
be stood on top of your mountain.
You can see everyone else's mountainin value, but you can't see your own.
There's another, great metaphor,but, having that outside
perspective, Really works.
yeah, I mean the personal developmentindustry started probably during the
Sumerian times when we started journaling.
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they used alphabet alphabetical stuff andit's that idea of disassociating from it.
if you are trying to solve a, achallenge and you are actually within
the challenging situation than getting
outdoors, suddenly you are outsiders.
You are disassociated from that, and youcould see it more effectively as a result.
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Yeah, there are so many benefits.
I never heard that before aboutthe crying and looking up.
That's really, maybe,try with adults as well.
Like, you know,
know, get the mother's permission forfirst, but temporarily they will, they
will stop crying when they look up.
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I mean, they'll start again when theylook down again, but yeah, it just shows.
And, even with kids or nieces and nephews,I have visions of them like looking up
as well because they do, well, it's a
distraction too, I suppose, isn't it?
But the other thing about likewhat you said about being on the
mountain or looking up, to me anyway.
One of the most incredible thingsyou can do is look up at a night sky
and, and see the stars and they going
on for forever and ever and ever.
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I was lucky enough to be inSouth Africa there about.
18 months ago now, nearly, and we were outin the absolute wildest of the middlest of
nowhere, and There was very, very little
light pollution, a tiny little bit from
Cape Town, but other than that, there
was nothing at all, and I mean, it was
just endless, the stars in the sky, and
the planets, and so on, and eye was blown
away by, I'm just like a little speck,
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Yeah, completely shifts yourperspective, doesn't it?
yeah, it really does, and, and theawe as well, that sense of, Getting
outside of your own head, because
our own thinking is what causes a lot
of the world that we live in anyway.
And being able to see the worlddifferently, you cannot do that
inside the confines of your own home.
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In that way.
Absolutely.
there's feelings of amazement and wonderand it's kind of euphoric, isn't it?
when you're doing that, in thatsense of all, yeah, it's, it's,
and again, it's all stuff to do
with being, as you say, outdoors.
It's, it just seems to increaseyour inquisitiveness to ask
questions in a different way.
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And, you know, following the Stokeidea of spending more time in dialogue,
when, when we're stuck in an office
type thing, you have like affirmative
conversations, which are the divergent
conversations, the yes ands, yeah,
we can do that, we can do that.
It's driven mainly by the mission.
So you go from divergent to convergent.
Okay, let's make a plan of action.
What do we do?
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execute the plan of action.
They even use that kindof word, don't they?
And it's all this military thinkingwhere you, it becomes emergent.
And what they don't do is go, well,actually, what if, which is, and you find
that hunter gatherers do this more, they'd
sit around and discuss it for longer.
And we call that dialogue.
And, it's that deeper understanding,if you're in an office situation
and you're trying to solve a
problem, you've probably, wrapped
up in the culture of the office.
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And so therefore you're going to thinkin a certain way, take it outdoors,
and you're allowed to be inquisitive
longer, you different perspective
because you're outside perspective,
but also, you are outside, and
it's a bigger picture orientation.
Mm. it just reminded me, I was doinga leadership development course and
the group, we sent them outdoors with
their camera or their phone and said,
take a photo, something outdoors as
a metaphor for what's going on now.
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And I think there were15 people in the room.
Every single person took a photoof something completely different
and it helped to solve something
in a way that they wouldn't have
thought about it by looking at
it from a different perspective.
Yeah, you, touched on, kind ofconstellation, I call it wayfinding,
again, like constellation stuff,
you know, you can get, often you see
shells or rocks and things like that.
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Well, you know, arrange thisgroup of rocks or pebbles in a
way that, helps you understand it.
But again, because you're outdoors, youtend to be more creative in that respect.
So, yeah.
you can either have a thousand postit notes on a wall or you can take
them outdoors and use a bit of a twig
here and something there, all the
stuff that you need is out there if
you want to do that kind of thing.
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And that book, wayfindingHave you read that?
I haven't, I don't think, no.
It's absolutely fascinating.
I can't remember the name of the authornow, but it is, I mean, he talks about
how if we don't keep up our wayfinding,
like if we're always using the GPS, say on
our phones or our cars to get us places,
we're going to undo our own intelligence
that we have spent forever building up
now, but he talks about a whole lot more.
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And one of the most fascinatingchapters in that book for me was
about the psychology of being lost.
Yeah.
and it's very similar to the same kindof psychology we have when we're stuck
at a problem at work and we keep, going
around the same thing over and over
again expecting a different outcome.
but yeah, a fascinating abook to read actually about
getting outdoors, wayfinding.
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No, it's a, it's an English guy.
I just can't think of his name right now.
I had the book here because I was goingto talk about it on something, but I think
I returned it down to its rightful place.
It's not lost.
part of the other work that I do is,is, teaching wilderness survival, which
again is another way of bushcrafting
and wilderness survival, but also using
natural navigation, things like that.
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yeah, it's incredible, how much more.
choice and options you have, theperson that has more choice in a
system tends to enjoy more success.
And, you know, by taking peopleoutdoors, by using wayfinding, we tend
to have a smaller map of the world.
So when you get outdoors, you're in thisresourceful state, you start to open up
your internal map of reality and you're
able to explore more, as a result of that.
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yeah, good stuff.
Murph, I never got to ask you aboutStoke Philosopher or because I think
that or Stoke Pilgrim That's the
name of your Instagram account I
think but for the purposes of people
listening who definitely want to
hear more about what you have to say.
Where can people find you?
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Just put, Murph Wild Coaching.
You'll probably come up with me onLinkedIn or the website, martinmurphy.
coach and Stoic Pilgrim.
I liked Stoicism because of,it's a basis of CBT sort of
thing, but, so that was useful.
And Pilgrims, I worked with the,my old regiment, on the health
and wellbeing side of things.
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And ex SF guys are called Pilgrimsin a certain branch of the regiment.
So Stoic Pilgrim was like, Oh yeah.
But it's also that idea thatwe're always, we're always moving.
Well, you know, life is a pilgrim,you know, we're here for a short time,
we're a process, not a fixed thing.
And yeah, that's the idea of Stoic Pilgrim
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It makes us more paradigm flexible.
Yeah.
and I think that, we needto be leavers of potential.
So when we're looking around, what canwe use as a lever of potential that we,
how can we lift people up and, getting
their mind and body working effectively
together is one way of doing that.
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Totally.
Thank you so much Murph forreally Like we went on a lot
of different paths there today.
Yeah.
I'm lost now.
How do I get back?
Round and round a few of themfrom a different angle, but we
definitely went on different paths.
So thanks for exploring your workand the benefits of it with me today.
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