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Ever felt like the universe is ignoring your calls for success? Join me, Mike, as I navigate the complexities of manifesting dreams through the law of attraction, sharing my personal highs and lows along the way. I candidly recount moments when my goals felt elusive and frustrations peaked, only to have my wife gently remind me of the everyday blessings that anchor my journey—like love and family. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of balancing ambition with gratitude, urging us to appreciate the present while pursuing our dreams.

Gratitude isn't just a buzzword; it's a powerful tool that transforms our mindset and impacts our lives in profound ways. Reflecting on my journey, I emphasize the shift from a relentless chase for financial success to valuing the relationships and opportunities already at hand. Through stories and insights, I highlight the significance of belief and the energy we project, especially when facing challenges like economic downturns. This episode is a call to action to simplify our lives, embrace thankfulness, and find positivity even when the path seems uncertain.

Communication is the cornerstone of our relationships and personal growth, with effective dialogue playing a pivotal role in shaping our reality. I share how taking responsibility for our happiness and projecting positivity can transform not just our relationships but our entire life journey. By embracing love and optimism, we can navigate life's uncertainties—rejecting negativity and embracing self-improvement. To cap off our conversation, join me in a guided breathing exercise designed to release negativity and fill our lives with gratitude and optimism.

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Speaker 1 (00:22):
Hi, welcome to another episode of Life Changers
, and this is Mike.
Hi, welcome to another episodeof Life Changers, and this is
Mike.
So right now we're recording onMonday, november.
Nope, we're not in November yet.
October 6th, 6th, was it 6thtoday?
Let's see here.
Nope, october 7th, my bad.
And then this is going to goout tomorrow, on Tuesday.

(00:45):
But I just want to get a lotgoing on, you know, because I
get a lot of texts and emailsand stuff and I just want to,
you know, let the people knowthat I love you guys, I love
everybody that listens to thepodcast and I appreciate
everybody that does this.
And it's just, you know, thisis my journey, my story and

(01:07):
things that I'm learning andjust sharing with the world,
right, and I hope it helps andinspires you to find out what
works for you and doesn't workfor you, and so on and so forth.
But I don't know, it's the lawof attraction.
Okay, it's very interesting tome because, like I understand

(01:31):
the law of attraction, Iunderstand how simple it is,
right, you know, like thatsaying kiss, keep it simple,
stupid, because we always liketo complicate everything, right?
So is there like mantras, or isthere this or is there that.
But it all boils down to yourenergy and you know I've been

(01:52):
pushing so hard to do certainthings, you know, like winning
$2.5 million or making $2.5million profit, so I can, you
know, do other things, ormanifesting 2.5 million dollars
worth of work coming my way, orthis and that right.
But I realize that for the lastfew years I've been doing shit

(02:18):
wrong and I'm sorry, like it'sjust.
I'm fed up is a word, I guessthe simplest word to use.
I'm fed up, like I feel likeI'm doing everything right.
Right that I figured it out.
Right, oh, I figured it out.
I know everything right.
And you know, like a lot ofpeople tell me.

(02:42):
And you know, like a lot ofpeople tell me hey, mike, you
should listen to this guy namedMike with Life Changers because
he's dead on.
Yeah, I should listen to mypodcasts more, because I don't
listen to them as much as I usedto when I first started, but I

(03:04):
really should, because there's alot there that I can be doing
to help me and there's a lot ofstuff I would have caught on
sooner that I'm doing wrong asmuch as I'm like hey, everybody,
don't chase, because whenyou're chasing, you're doing
this, don't do this, becausewhen you're doing that, then
this will happen and it's allagainst you, Da-da-da-da, right.
And I sit here and I feel like,hey, I'm doing everything right.

(03:29):
I know, okay, I know thefrequency of abundance or money,
because I see it, I feel it andI know I can make money doing
anything I want.
I know it sounds crazy, butit's true.
So I think I've been a pompousasshole the last few years, not

(03:52):
in a bad way, just pompous in away like ah, my name's Mike and
I do the law of attraction, Iget what I want, but I forgot
the fundamentals.
I forgot to give appreciation,saying thank you to the universe
and putting out the energy oflove, instead of being a pompous

(04:13):
asshole.
Like I've learned when I playat the casinos how if you're
pompous, if you think you'rebetter than everybody and I
deserve it more than anybody,well, you don't get it and you
start chasing.
Well, then it runs further away.
Because that's what happenswhen you chase people.
If I see you downtown and Istart chasing you, you're going
to be like what the hell is thisguy doing?
You're going to start bookingit the other way, right?

(04:34):
Well, duh, and that's how itworks.
But you can't forget thefundamentals, that, yes, you
have all this knowledge and I'mgoing to use a term that a lot
of people use but action withoutwork is dead.

(04:54):
What, mike?
You can have all the knowledgein the world and this is what I
know, this is my experience andI'm sure a lot of other people
feel the same way but you canhave all the fucking knowledge
in the world, but if you don'ttake action, it's your fault.

(05:16):
I have nobody to blame.
I can't blame the law ofattraction.
The other day I'm just ventingwith my wife.
I'm like you know what?
Fuck it, fuck it all.
I'm just like with my wife.
I'm like you know what?
Fuck it, fuck it all.
I'm just like like it doesn'tmatter, nobody cares about me,
nobody cares about us, right?
Everybody just wants money andeverybody just wants this, wants
that, right?
You know you always got thebills coming in and you always

(05:39):
got this, no matter how hard youwork, fuck it.
I'm done, right, and I'm sorryfor swearing a lot today, but
it's just like so, venting likeI was like I'm out of here, I'm
done.
This is so stupid.
I've been doing everythingright and yet I'm not getting
nothing.
Like what the hell am I doingwrong?
You know, I'm just sittingthere like just you know, but I

(06:05):
forgot the fundamentals.
My wife looks at me and goes youknow what?
You have an amazing life.
I go what she goes yeah, yougot amazing kids, you got an
amazing wife.
I'm like, yeah, I do, I reallydo, I really do love my wife and
I really do love my kids and Ilike being around them.

(06:26):
She's like, yeah, and allyou're doing it seems like
you're just chasing thatmillionaire dream,
multi-millionaire, you want tobe a millionaire, you want to be
rich, you want the finer thingsin life.
And I said, yeah, but I don't doit in a bad way.
I'm not like I want to be richbecause I'm an asshole, right?
No, I want to do good, I wantto give money away.

(06:49):
I want to pay my employeesdouble right, because for me,
employees are not just a number,they're family, they're part of
our family.
So it's not only my family I'mtaking care of, it's them and
their family, right?
And I want them to feel likethey're part of the family, not
just oh, thanks for making memoney.
Bye, I paid you, we're done.

(07:10):
You know like, yeah, we'refamily man and I've always
dreamed about owning a companywhere they had employees, where
people are like, holy crap, youwork for that guy, you lucky
bastards, because that guy'sawesome and apparently he takes
care of his families and that'swhat I want and that's what I
want to do.
But it's crazy to me that, likeI haven't realized that I've

(07:34):
been chasing a lot and notappreciating everything I have.
So back when I started learningabout all this and back in 2019
, 2018, I was just full of likeyou know what?
I'm?
Trusting the universe, I'm justdoing whatever I feel guided to
do from a higher self.

(07:54):
Blah, blah, blah.
Right, and you could hear it,you know in my earlier podcasts
and how everything just fellinto place, how I couldn't have
predicted.
You know the COVID-19 stuff andhow I was in a really amazing
position and how I screwed up,but then also how I benefited.
You know my company was doingamazing because we were one of

(08:19):
the only companies taking careof all these areas and nobody
else wanted to do, apparentlyBecause we wanted to help people
, and that's why I start mycompany is helping people, but
also helping me and my familyand helping people that want to
work for me and giving themamazing opportunities.
That's all I want to do.
And it just feels like I keep onhitting a brick wall and I keep

(08:42):
on saying, well, it must bethis fault, it must be that
fault, it must be the fault ofyou know, like right now there's
a certain purchasing departmentthat does that sees, I guess,
like all my transactions gothrough there for one of my
major customers and they're likewell, don't deal with him, he's
so expensive.
But I'm not expensive.
Actually I'm one of the.

(09:02):
I am the best, cheapest price.
Like not to fluff up, but likefor that area where I work in
and deliver a lot of productsand all that to the Arctic and I
do what they ask me to do andI'm cheaper.
Like my competitor, per palletis charging, let's say, $1,400 a
pallet and I'm charging $9.50to deliver a pallet.

(09:23):
Sounds like a lot of money, butit's not for that area,
considering my competition'scharging.
The closest competition in thisis 1400 for the same pallet.
So I'm saving the money andthat's what I want to do.
I figured I'm a volume basedcompany, I go cheaper and as
long as everything's thevehicles are full, the trucks
are full or whatever I'm makingthe money and I'm being able to

(09:50):
pay people what I want to paythem, right?
It's kind of like, you know,amazon, let's say how they have
their what they call the finalmile delivery, where they use
all these different companies todeliver to your house and a lot
of them, like, are differentcompanies, right, that do the
final mile?
Sometimes it's through, likeyou know, the major guys or your
local post office or whatever,and other times it's just

(10:13):
contractors and they bid andthey say you know, I'll deliver
your package to the last milefor $6.
Or I'll deliver for $4.
And then they pay the guy youknow peanuts at the end.
Well, I made an offer and youknow I was at like 11 a package
and they're like no one.
They didn't call me back.
But I also wrote because I wantto pay people what they're worth

(10:35):
and take care of people andhave people stay.
All these other companies, likeman, some of them, are fucking
idiots.
It's pouring rain outside, it'sa business and they leave, like
all these packages outside thatare for our customers in the
rain, right, because they don'tget paid.
I don't blame the guy who'sdoing it because he does not get

(10:57):
paid unless he delivers becausethat's the way they do it,
right, and they're paying themlike a buck a buck 20, from what
I understand, talking to thesedrivers, per package, right, and
they're paying them like a bucka buck 20, from what I
understand, talking to thesedrivers, per package.
They deliver and they deliver100 packages in their own
vehicle and they got to pay forgas.
So by the time they're donework in the end, after wear and
tear on the vehicle and the fuel, they might be left with like
30 bucks, 40 bucks, which sucks,right.

(11:21):
So I was going to pay if we wereto do it three times more, four
times more, right, if they'regoing to drive their own vehicle
and make people be like, yeah,like this is worth working for,
but that's not the way it works,I guess in the big world.
Right, I want to run a legit,honest company, pay people
amazing, so they want to stickaround.

(11:42):
But everybody else is like, no,it's cutthroat.
You got to money from your momand your grandma and do what it
takes.
You got to rip people off andwho cares if they're willing to
work for you, it's their problemout there.
You're paying them nothing.
It becomes your problem becausethey give shitty service and
then you don't end up having thecontracts no more.
Anyways, I'm just venting, but Iwant to change the world and I

(12:09):
want to change how the worlddoes business, where everybody
can, you know, do an honest,good job and get paid what
they're worth.
Because it's pathetic how youknow, you got some people that,
well, you're paying me this, I'mgoing to be worth this period
like I never talked or workedlike that.
But anyways, I'm just renting.
Oh it's ridiculous, but yeah,but how pissed off and upset I

(12:31):
am.
That like, I feel like, andhere's the, here's the problems.
I understand right, because Isay I deserve the money, because
I deserve this, because Iunderstand this, I'm doing this.
There's enough money and I knowthere's enough money in this
world and in this reality thateverybody can be millionaires.
It's just up to us to unlock itwith all the brainwashing and

(12:53):
all the fucking subliminalmessaging that is put out there
against us is keeping us frombeing rich.
And I see it.
I don't know if you see it, butI just see it everywhere.
I'm talking to my wife I'mtalking to.
Don't know if you see it, but Ijust see it everywhere.
I'm talking to my wife.
I'm talking to people like doyou see, like all the
programming and innuendos theyput in movies, tv shows,
commercials, you know, andeverything you watch is pretty

(13:14):
much telling you how rich peopleare assholes.
And you're not an asshole, soyou don't want to be rich,
they're all murderers andthey're all this and that right,
just leave it to the elites.
Right, all that stuff, right,but with the law of attraction
and with the universal law ofour reality and of our world is
everybody deserves wealth.

(13:37):
But I understand, in the backof our minds we're programmed
otherwise and that's how weself-sabotage each other.
What Mike is saying I'm poor orI'm not successful because I'm
subliminally, you know,sabotaging myself.
Yeah, yeah, it's all theprogramming saying hey, you work
for this company, well, they'renot paying you that much

(14:02):
because they're making billionsand you're only making X amount,
you know, let's say like 30,40,000 a year, which is nothing,
right, especially in Canada.
Even making 100,000 a year isstill nothing in this country.
Anyways, right.
And they're like oh, they'remaking billions on your back,
boy, god, boy, God, right, ah,screw them, right.
Well, work your ass off and youcan make more, but it's all

(14:25):
about what you believe you areworth.
It's funny because over 20something years ago, before I
started my own companies, I hadan amazing job.
I was making like 20, 25 anhour, which is a lot of money
back then, right, when a gallonof milk was like two bucks,

(14:46):
right, and when things werecheap, when gas was like 50, 60
cents a liter, so right, andthat was a lot of money then.
But that's what I felt Ideserved, because that's who I
am Like, I don't know.
I worked my butt off and Ialways had the opportunities and

(15:11):
I just trusted the flow of lifewithout even realizing that I
was following the law ofattraction and the universal law
.
But lately now I feel like I'mjust, you know, chasing that I
need to take a step back, and Ihave Just taking a step back
going.
You know what I do?
Have a fucking amazing life.
Let's take a step back.
Right, I could achieve anythingI want, I could do anything I

(15:36):
want, but what I'm not doing isbeing thankful for everything I
have.
So I'm putting it out there.
Thank you so much for thisamazing family.
I have my amazing wife, my kids, for allowing me to be
motivated to make these podcasts.

(15:57):
Hopefully, who cares if I getmonetized or not.
I'm just doing this because Ifeel like the universe is
telling me to and I appreciatethat I'm in the position that I
can do this and I appreciatethat I'm in the position that I
could hire these amazingemployees that I have and be

(16:20):
able to you know, all worktogether as a family and achieve
my goals that I want, which ishaving family-oriented business,
pay them very well and wherethey're like, yeah, I work at

(16:42):
this job because I appreciate itand my employees do because I
try to go out of my way and belike hey, you need extra hours,
I'll give you extra hours, evenif I don't need to do that
because I don't need to.
I mean, I would do that.
And the other day one of myemployees was like hey, are you
only giving me these extrashifts because you feel like you

(17:05):
know I need the hours?
I'm like, yeah, and if you needthem, I'll give them to you.
And they were like you knowwhat?
Don't worry about that thatStop giving us the extra hours

(17:27):
because you think we need them.
If we do, we'll ask you but wegot to take care of you too that
you don't need us here inreality, for that extra shift.
So why not?
You just not do that?
I'm like, okay, you know,because I'm not a big, huge
corporation, we're a small,family-owned and operated
business, stuff like that andyeah, we're just trying to make.

(17:54):
You know, I got big dreams, butI got to learn to appreciate
what I have, and I believe weall need to learn and appreciate
everything we have.
And that's one of the keyfundamentals that I'm learning
is, you know, and I talked aboutit a couple of times, you know,

(18:14):
and I talked about it a coupleof times, but I didn't really
realize it, you know, because Ilike my story time.
But, yeah, all that matters isthat you're grateful and happy

(18:35):
for everything you have and yougive thanks to your higher self,
to the universe, to God,whatever you want, whatever you
focus on, because that's the keyto success is giving thanks and
having something you believe inthat beyond a shadow of a doubt

(18:58):
, no matter what you do, thatyou can do whatever you need to
do in your reality, in your life, because of your beliefs, and
then it will come to pass orwork, and that's how it is.
You got to the key to beingespecially like wealthy.
Everybody's chasing wealthright, that's why nobody's

(19:19):
wealthy except the celebrity.
But what I'm saying is like youhave to appreciate everything
you have and stop chasing, sorry, and let it come to you.
You know you got to doeverything right.

(19:47):
You know, do yourmanifestations, keep it simple.
Do what works for you.
Right For abundance and love,compassion, and just do it.
Keep it simple.
Stop trying to make it socomplicated and I'm sorry if I

(20:08):
have been making it sound socomplicated, even though I try
not to and say you got to dothis, you got to do that.
Like I'm just giving you allthese different things that I'm
learning that works or doesn'twork, may or may not, but I'm
telling you as I go through,like for me this works or for me
this doesn't work, right, so onand so forth, and for you to
figure out what works anddoesn't work for you.
It all comes down to yourbeliefs and your reality of what

(20:32):
you want, but you got to beappreciative of everything you
have.
Right, because you could alwaysfind somebody that has it worse
than you if you actually openyour eyes.
Right, because they say begrateful for the roof over your

(20:57):
head, be grateful you have aplace to lay your head and sleep
.
Some people don't Be gratefulfor the little things you have.
Don't overthink, don'tunderappreciate what you have in
front of you, and you'd besurprised how that will change

(21:22):
your life.
I wonder where my life's goingto be now that I'm realizing
these things.
You know, a little downer today, I guess, but it's just that's
what I'm going through andthat's what's been on my mind.
It's like I feel like for thelongest time, I doing everything

(21:43):
right, but yet everything seemsto be like not slipping away
but going the opposite direction.
Right, business is slowing downthis and that, and I can make
all the excuses I want sayingwell, you know, the pandemic
helped in the sense because,like, everything shut down so
everybody had to use yourservices.
Or the reason why you're slowernow is because it's recession

(22:03):
time here in Canada, or this andthat, but none of it matters,
but what you truly believe andthe energy you're putting out
there.
So, if you're constantlyputting energy out there of this
is not going to work because ofthis, or I know it's going to
slow down now because thepandemic's over and everything's
back to normal, that it's goingto slow down.
Well, that's why I'm here,that's why I created this Not

(22:26):
willingly, but you got tounderstand that's how it works.
So the question is what are yougoing to do about it?
Or what am I going to do aboutit?
Well, you got to keep onlistening to see where this ends
up.
But at this point in time, I'mtaking a step back, just giving
appreciation for everything.
I'm going to stop chasing.

(22:46):
I manifested it, I visualized,I'm doing what I need to do.
I'm letting the as in that bookI told you guys about letting
the thinking stuff do its thing,or it just manifests and it'll
make everything work out.
And when I see theopportunities, see faith without
works, then you got to takethem and you got to work.

(23:09):
I've been slacking off, like Imentioned at the beginning of
this podcast, where I've beenjust letting my employees do
things and I'm just sittingaround and I've been content and
letting things disintegrate orslow down in a sense.
And I've been content inletting things disintegrate or
slow down in a sense and I'vebeen making up excuses why.
But it doesn't have to be thisway.
So I'm going to change my frameof mind, my energy, and it's

(23:30):
going to turn around and it'sgoing to be totally different,
because that's what I need to doto achieve my goals in my life
and my reality.
And what I want, because I knowand feel in every part of my

(23:50):
body and in my heart thateverybody deserves wealth and
happiness.
And everybody deserves it,wealth and happiness, and
everybody deserves it.
And I'm going to prove that.
You know rags to riches storyin the sense of, yeah, we can
all create our wealth and justdo it.

(24:11):
And as opportunity, you know,now that you have a vision and
you have faith, let's say, inwhat you're doing and whichever
reality you're going with, nowyou've got to work in the sense
of, when the opportunities come,you've got to grab them and run
with them and just do it, asthey say.
But yeah, I just wanted to saythat today I'll try to bring it

(24:39):
back to upbeat.
You know, good old Mikey hereand making everybody laugh.
But you got to understand.
I know I say it all the fuckingtime as people sometimes write
me.
Oh, here you go again, mike.
Hey man, if you're not a littlehappy with what I'm talking

(24:59):
about, stop listening.
But you gotta understand.
This is my reality.
You have your reality that yougotta decide on and figure out.
This is.
You know it may seem like a bigcrazy thing you know happening

(25:20):
in your life.
You know a lot of people dothat.
Well, I got all this shitcoming down the pipeline.
My life's all crazy, blah, blah, blah.
But in reality it's only asimportant and crazy that you
make it in your reality so youcan make it seem like nothing at
all.
You know, get the negativityout, push it over, bring in the

(25:43):
positivity.
So let's do that, let's bringin some positivity.
And if you're driving, don't dothis, don't close your eyes,
keep your eyes open.
But if you are not driving,close your eyes and take a deep
breath in, hold it and releaseslowly through your nose.
Take a deep breath in, hold itand release slowly through your
nose.
Take a deep breath in throughyour mouth, hold it, think

(26:06):
positivity, and out through yournose slowly, right, and you
could do a couple of ahs.
Or when you're breathing out,you can go ah, let that
vibration come with it ofrelaxation and happiness.
Or you can do some ohms, or youjust go ah, ohm, because all

(26:33):
these vibrations actually helpand heal your body.
I know we talked aboutfrequencies a little bit.
I don't know much about them, Ijust know there's healing
frequencies for everything.
And if people know, if somebodyknows more about it, then let
me know.
We can have you on the show, wecan talk about it, because I
think it's very awesome.
But, yeah, everything's energy.

(26:54):
So put out the positive energy.
And if you don't believe thateverything's energy, well you're
a fool, because you feel it inyour everyday life.
You know how you're, just likeI got a good feeling about this.
Or, hey, I feel your negativityover here because, yeah, or I
feel your positivity.
That's all energy.
So, yeah, there's even energyand frequency for money, wealth,

(27:19):
love, compassion, understandingand so on and so forth, like
the energy of healing.
But it's all, in the end, onlyworks if you accept it and bring
it into your reality.
If you don't, then it willnever work.
I know some of you are thinkingwell, mike, this is not really
working for you right now, is it?
Yeah, but I know my mistakes.

(27:41):
Do you know yours?
Or are you just going to try toblame the world and blame me
and blame everybody around youfor your failures?
I'm just being straight.
Are you going to blameeverybody and be a victim, or
are you going to take care ofyourself and you're going to get
back to where you want to goand stop blaming the world and
take your responsibility andunderstanding and start taking

(28:05):
responsibility for your life andyour actions and where you are,
because nobody I repeat, nobodycan ever hold you down from
being rich, wealthy, successful,loved or anything, unless you
allow them to.
It's all about personal realityand energy.
That's the way it is.

(28:25):
So unless you're allowing themto, you know, bring you down or
whatever, nobody, nobody canhave an effect over you
whatsoever unless you allow themto.
And I know that for a fact.
And, yeah, you know, I knowthere's people that are just
good people and they just try tohelp people.

(28:46):
But you can't help everybodyaround you, or you can't save
the world or you can't saveyourself.
Save yourself first, then youcan save the world.
And that's what I'm working on.
I'm working on myself andthat's what I'm working on.
I'm working on myself andthat's why I'm doing this
podcast is putting outinformation out there, and
sometimes people reply and tellme information and I'm like, hey
, that's actually smart andstuff like that.

(29:09):
But I just want to put outthere that I appreciate
everything I have and Iappreciate all my listeners and
I appreciate my kids, my and Iappreciate all my listeners and
I appreciate my kids, my amazingwife, my amazing employees, my
amazing company and my amazingaccountants and I appreciate

(29:29):
everybody around me and Iappreciate everybody and I
really do appreciate you, ifyou're listening, feel
appreciated, feel the love andthe energy that I'm giving you
of wealth of love, compassion,understanding, right and healing
.
It's up to you if you want to,you know, get up out of the rut,

(29:52):
get on top of the world.
Stop letting it push you down.
Get on top of the world.
Stop letting it push you down.
Accept your reality and whereyou are and say I'm making
changes and visualize andachieve your real new reality
that you want and opportunitieswill come your way and that you

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got to take them and that you'llbetter your life and you'll end
up where you want to be.
Just keep on visualizing whereyou want to be and giving thanks
to the universe, to the world,to whatever you want, to God, to
Mother Earth.
I don't know.
Whatever is your belief system,that's how it works.

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So, yeah, yeah, yeah, I loveeverybody, but I especially love
my wife so fucking much and mykids so very much.
I love them so much.
They are my rock and they helpme a lot too.

(31:05):
It's funny because sometimes,when I'm in a complaining mood,
my wife's like you know youshould listen to Mike from Life
Changers.
He's a smart guy, but I knowshe hasn't actually listened to
any of my podcasts, because ifshe has, she would hear that I
say if you do, honey, listen tome, let me know, and then I'll

(31:27):
know.
But yeah, that's where we are.
So things I'm going to changeis I'm going to stop chasing,
I'm going to stop being apompous asshole where I believe,
like, well, I should just sithere and let it all come to me,
because I'm willing it, and I'mgoing to give thanks and be

(31:48):
happy.
That's the key.
You've got to be happy.
I realize how, like yeah, I sayI'm happy with my life, I'm
happy with my wife and kids, I'mhappy, I'm happy.
But no, be fucking happy withwhat you have, and then
everything else will follow.
Right?
It's like that song Is bobmarley be happy, don't worry, be

(32:17):
happy, right.
Make up a motto for yourself,right?
For me it's akuna matata meansno worries for the rest of your
days.
It's a problem-free philosophy.
Hakuna Matata, hakuna Matata.

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Anyways, yeah, just be happy,enjoy life, give out positive,
loving energy.
You'd be surprised how muchpeople you'll bring joy to.
So here's your goal today whenyou're out and about in the
world, into the reality, intothe matrix, into the Truman Show
, or you know in my case youknow the Mike Show, or whatever

(33:00):
you know, your show is the SteveShow, the Samantha, the Kristen
, the Krista Show, whatever youknow, bob show, george, I don't
know.
But just when you're out there,smile, put the energy of love,

(33:22):
confidence, compassion and thatthe world is your oyster, you'd
be surprised how everything willalways go your way.
And if something like, oh,there's an accident here, oh,
I'm stuck in traffic, instead ofbeing a ah on road rage and
crap like that, don't be theproblem, be the solution, just
be like, hey, it's happening fora reason, maybe there's an
opportunity coming my way thatthis needs to happen.

(33:42):
If you watch the movie theButterfly Effect, that thing, if
you change one thing that itcould change everything right,
or if you actually made it towork on time that day, then you
would have not had thisopportunity and then, in turn,
change your life or get this newjob, or give you the promotion
you always wanted, or you'd findthe love of your life, who

(34:03):
knows?
But I know that I live most ofmy life, even growing up, before
I learned about all the law ofattraction, of like, yeah, you
know, I'm Mike, this is my world, and everything I want comes to
pass and happens.
Just put out the love, thepassion, the energy of happiness

(34:25):
and all good things will comeyour way, and everything happens
for a reason.
And I tell myself that, hey,everything happens for a reason.
There's a reason why I'm here.
There's a reason why I'm doingthis.
There's a reason you might notknow now, but you will know
eventually and you'll be likeholy crap.
And, like I mentioned before,you know there's one.
Like there's no way that Ishould have met my wife and I

(34:49):
should be with who I'm with andmarried.
For the last almost 18 yearsthis month so 18 years this
month I've been married to thisamazing person, amazing human
being or alien, I don't know, ormaybe we're all robots, but you
know what I'm saying, that wetalk about sometimes, that
there's no fucking way that weshould have been together, but

(35:16):
yet everything was perfect.
And, yeah, you know, ourmarriage was, you know, like
every other marriage right, astruggle, but we stuck through
and we fought for each other andwe realized certain things.
Right, the main goal, the mainthing that we realized, is
communication, where we cancommunicate freely with each

(35:37):
other without getting offendedor upset or I'm the victim,
because most of our.
You know, for the first longtime in our marriage we were
both like, well, we're thevictim.
You said this, and if I didthat to you, right, this is the
mentality that we wereprogrammed for.
Well, if I did what you did tome, to you, it would have been a
different story.
But because you right and weall hold that right, and then

(36:02):
you know, we created thenegative energy and the fighting
and all that, right, but yeah,in the end end, open
communication.
I watch a lot of movies, tvshows, right, all the
programming, and I see that.
How, if everybody justcommunicated, like straight up,

(36:25):
not like you know, we used tocommunicate kids, hey, if, if
you like my friend, you know,put yes here, or if you like my
friend, wave or whatever, right,like just be straight up, like
yo, we're all adults, we talk,like say this is the situation,
this is what happened, and likewe get through this, right, how

(36:47):
much life would be so muchbetter.
Because the moment I did thatwith my wife wife where we're
like you know what, I want tohear from your point of view and
I want to try to understand,and I'm going to tell you my
point of view and I want you totry to understand and then we'll
see where the conversation goes, and then we just draw so much
closer because, like, yeah, Iunderstand and you know, you

(37:09):
understand me and I understandyou type thing and stuff like
that.
Right, miscommunication is akiller for marriages, is a
killer for promotions, jobs,killer for people getting you
know the wealth and all thatstuff, because you're just
miscommunicating.
So you got to be opencommunication, stop being a

(37:31):
fucking victim, get out of yourhead.
Get out of your head, pull yourhead out of your ass, as they
say, and just be happy andloving.
We're all in this together.
And if you feel like, well, no,we're not and you're stupid,
mike and all that, well, you'rejust an NPC because you're
stupid, mike and all that.

(37:51):
Well, you're just an npcbecause you're just running the
program that they're giving you.
So enjoy being a victim, enjoybeing whatever you want to be,
just enjoy being you.
I I don't care like I wantpeople to be who they are.
I just want them to be the bestperson or human they can be, or
alien, or whatever you want todo right, I just want you to be
the best that you can be andknow that you are.

(38:12):
If you're falling short, well,it's up to you.
But this is what I'm doing tohelp me, and this is what I did.
I got my head out of my ass andI started listening and opening
my eyes and putting out energyof love, compassion and
happiness, and that's what I'mattracting and that's what I put
out.
That's what I receive.
Whatever you put out is whatyou're getting back.

(38:33):
Right, if you're getting back alot of negativity, well, because
you're a negative asshole topeople and get your head out of
your ass.
And if you're not, I'm sorry.
If you're good people, becausemost people are good people.
But if ever you feel likeyou're the common denominator in
being a douchebag because youthink everybody else is a

(38:54):
douchebag around you, you shouldlook at yourself, because you
might be the common denominatorand just try to change it.
Right.
We all change.
We don't have to be who wethought we are.
We don't have to act any way.
Just be you, be who you are, behappy.
And if you being a pompous,asshole and vindictive or
whatever makes you happy, goodfor you.
But you're not going to be inmy reality.

(39:15):
So I'll stay far away from youBecause I just want happy,
loving, compassionate people.
When I see on the internet howall these people are trolling
and trashing and saying andsaying you know, you're stupid
or you're ugly or you deserve todie, or hey what you say, hey,
man, we all have freedom ofspeech.

(39:36):
Well, in canada not so muchanymore, but it's another story.
But yeah, stop being a fuckingvictim.
If you don't like what you hear, turn it off.
If you really don't like whatyou hear and it's really rubbing
you the wrong way, it's becauseyou're probably a victim and
you don't like who you are.

(39:57):
You also got to understand thatyou project out in the world.
So if all you're receiving isnegativity, that's what you're
projecting is negative attitudeout in the world.
You get what you put out there.
So I'm putting out happy,wealth, love, and that's what
I'm going to get back.
So I just want you tounderstand and know that you are
loved, you are appreciated andlife can only get better.

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Choose to let it get better andI choose for it to be better.
And I choose to stop chasingand I choose to stop being a
pompous asshole.
And you know pulling my headout of my ass.
And you know pulling my headout of my ass.
And you know being meek andsubmissive to the universe.
And just you know trusting theflow, because when I was younger
and I realized all the times Iwas doing the law of attraction

(40:42):
without knowing everything wasamazing.
So I'm going to continue to letit be amazing.
I know this is a short podcasttoday, but I just wanted to get
that out there.
But just remember, you areloved, you are important.
If anybody tells you otherwise,it's just they're projecting
their insignificance to you, butdon't let that bug you.

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Everybody's important,everybody's loved.
We're all in this together.
We're all creators of our worldand our universe and our
reality.
You choose to believe what youchoose to believe.
You choose your reality.
Remember that if you don't likewhere you are and you don't
like the reality you're in, well, you could choose to change it

(41:26):
and change it for the better.
It's up to you.
I love everybody.
I especially love my wife andmy family.
You guys are all amazing andlife is amazing.
I appreciate the universe and Ilove the universe and I
appreciate everything I have.
Thank you so very much.
Let's end this by taking a deepbreath in.
Hold and just put out theenergy of love, forgiveness,

(41:50):
blow out all negativity.
Hold and just put out theenergy of love, forgiveness,
blow out all negativity.
Take another deep breath in,just blow out all that negative
energy.
Now let's just do a uh whenwe're blowing out, take a deep
breath in, hold it, uh, uh, yeah.

(42:14):
It makes me feel so much better.
I feel better now.
Thank you very much forlistening.
I love each and every one ofyou.
You guys are all amazing.
Then, once again, this is Mikewith Life Changers.
And don't forget, you canalways write in to Life Changers
at lifechangersmike at gmailcom.
That's lifechangersmike atgmailcom.
That's lifechangersmike atgmailcom.
Thank you for listening.
You guys have a great week andI'll be back next week.

(42:36):
Love y'all.
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