December 12, 2023 • 59 mins
How many of us have chased love, only to find it eluding us? The journey of love isn't about pursuit, but about finding our frequency and letting love manifest. Join me, your host Mike, and learn from my personal experiences. I offer a soul-stirring tale of transitioning from a desperate chase for love to a place of self-love and appreciation for the beauty of the world, paving the way for love and happiness to naturally attract to me.
We'll explore the complexities of relationships, from unrequited love to the revelation that not all engagements lead to true love. I will share how hitting rock bottom led to a shift in my life and a surprising blind date that taught me that love often shows up in the most unexpected places. We'll even delve into the power of dreams and the unexpected connections they can lead to.
Lastly, we'll discuss the transformative power of communication, understanding, and growth. I'll share how these principles have strengthened my marriage, and we'll explore the concept of manifesting dreams and creating abundance, providing real-life examples of these principles in action. Remember, you hold the power to shape your own reality. Tune in and discover how!
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Speaker 1 (00:04):
I Won't sell a life-changers and this is Mike.
So welcome back everybody and Ijust want to say I love
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everybody.
I love you guys.
So thanks for all our listeners.
Let's make this podcast goviral.
Let's spread it around, youknow.
Let's let everybody know whowe're about and we're changing
lives.
And if anybody has questions,please feel free.
If you're listening to it on asa podcast anywhere, you can
send us a quick email atlifechangers mic at gmailcom.
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That's lifechangers mic atgmailcom and we can get back to
you and you know, let you knowwhat's going on or if you have
anything you want us to talkabout.
You know any questions oranything like that.
But let's get to the meat ofthe bone, me to the bone.
Bone on the meat.
I don't know, as you can tell,I'm alone in studio, but today I
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Want to talk about love.
I mean, what does love have todo with it?
A lot of popular questionseverybody asks about when it
comes to love.
Attraction is how to manifestmoney, wealth and all that, and
I talked about that a lot butlove and I haven't really talked
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about that too much.
So I'm gonna talk a little bitabout my journey trying to find
love and you know, going throughlife and thinking you found
love, thinking you understandwhat love is, but you really
don't know.
And tell you know, oh, but,like a lot of you are thinking
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like, okay, you know, I want tomanifest my love, tell me how to
do it.
You know, I already did tellyou how to do all that kind of
stuff.
Is you got to stop forcing it,stop chasing love and let love
come to you, find the frequencyof love and in order to do that,
you have to love yourself andstart loving those around you
and just love everybody and loveeverything and Just know, and
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you know, step into the reality,right that you have, where you
already found love, and act likeit and step into it and stop
chasing it and let it flow toyou.
Because, like I mentioned manytimes in different podcasts, you
know, when I was younger, Iwould be chasing money, chasing
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business, chasing love, chasingthis chase and chase, chase,
chase, and that's all what seemslike we do here in this world
is just chase, chase, chase,chase.
But the moment you stop chasing, everything just comes to you
and I'm sure a lot of peoplelistening right now going, okay,
I found love.
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Well, you still listen, becauseit's not just about trying to
find it, it's about keeping itand letting it grow, and grow
beyond your wildest dreams andimaginations.
Because when you think you findsomething or you try to control
something, you just realizethat there's so much more out
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there.
And the saying is true.
It sounds crazy, but if youlove something, let it go, and
if it comes back you know it'strue love.
But it's really is true that ifyou just Let it go, let love go
, let love just be love and justflow and just absorb it as it
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comes your way.
And you know, in my youngeryears, when I was trying to find
love, right, I'm like I need, Ineed a girlfriend or I need to
find a wife.
So start going around lookingfor people.
Hey, I was going to date andjust, you know, not letting love
just flow and just be likeforcing it, and it never came my
way.
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Intel, one faithful day when Istopped chasing love Me, my
buddy, actually, it was like,hey, let's get, let's just go
move to Alberta, let's go outWest From the East one.
We lived in Quebec growing up,but I'm like let's just go out
West.
You know, as we say in Frenchon the vote let's go.
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She levy mon ami.
But no, it's true.
So we're like, let's justwhatever out.
Like I was done.
I had.
It was funny because I had.
I thought I knew what love was.
So let's just get into it,let's get a turn Stood me
rambling here and get throughthe timeline of love and my
journey through finding love andeverlasting happiness, but only
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through.
When I figured out the law ofattraction and I started letting
things just happen the way itneeds to happen and just let it
flow and Let love go.
How much love came back.
I'm not gonna tell you.
One of the keys to success inlove attraction is love, just
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loving everything, just love theworld.
As you start becoming more likespiritual or more grounded with
the universe and with the worldor you know whatever you want
to call it, then, yeah, justlove everything and just, your
heart just blows open and you'relooking around like, wow, it's
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such a beautiful day.
Wow, I've never seen like thesky, the trees are so beautiful.
It's normal, trust me, whenthat starts happening, don't
think you're like what's goingon, my my having a seizure.
No, okay, you are finding loveand you're seeing love
everywhere and you find thefrequency of love and just
Loving everything and justloving life and how amazing life
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really is.
And that's my goal With all mypodcasts, with all my fun joking
around interviewing people.
It's just.
I want us to find love and Findwhat we desire and just
happiness and joy.
Like it's amazing when you seehow amazing the world really is.
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Get your face Out of the phone,get your face out of the TVs,
out of the Instagram, theFacebook and all that stuff.
Limit yourself and enjoy howbeautiful this world really is
and what it has to offer.
It's funny because when we'rewatching TV shows or game shows
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or we're watching a show aboutlove, how excited we are for
that person finding love.
And yet you're like, but Ihaven't found it yet with my
love and we're always comparingourselves to everybody around us
Instead of just comparingourselves to ourselves.
Who cares?
What cares?
What you see around you and onthe outside.
It's what you broadcast intothe world and into this universe
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is what matters what youbelieve, what you see, what you
understand and how you see thethings.
And If you start seeing theworld with through the eyes of
love, how much amazing thisworld will seem, and more
beautiful If you stop chasingand just let it happen.
Wow, and trust me, okay, I Tryso hard manifesting millions of
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dollars so I can change theworld and do good and take care
of people and do all sorts ofamazing stuff, but I just got to
stop chasing and stop trying sohard.
You know, when you think like,I found it, I figured it out, I
figured it out, you know, andthen you realize this is the tip
of the iceberg, so let's getinto love, okay.
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So, as some of my listeners mayknow, I grew up in, you know, in
a Christian household in Quebec, canada, for all those, and I
do speak French.
I I well, I guess I kind ofgrew up bilingual, I would say
my first, my first words wasEnglish, so I spoke, I mean,
french, so I spoke French first.
But you know, I kind of grew upbilingual Because my parents
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would speak French to us andspeak English to us and stuff
like that.
But yes, I, I speak thelanguage of love, we, we, oh.
So, and at a young age, youknow You're like you got to get
married, have kids, multiply,replace the earth.
So you know, I guess I was kindof programmed into me from my
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parents and you know theChristian church I was going to
growing up but I Remember like Iwas talking to my leader in the
church and he was like you know, mike, you don't need to have a
girlfriend one-on-one becauseyou don't know what you want, so
you should date around untilyou figure out what you want.
You know, my scientific side ofme is like that's true, that
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makes sense.
You don't know what, what youwant.
You think you know what youwant and a lot of people say
like, oh, I need this, I wantthis, but when you actually have
you like me, I didn't reallyneed it, I didn't really want it
Moving on, so I started, youknow, dating around, as they say
, like going on dates withpeople.
I wasn't like a player, nothing,I just be like, hey, samantha,
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you want to go on a date, youknow, hey, so, and so you want
to go on a date, you know, andI'll go on dates with them and
hang out them and I'll eitherask them on another one if I
liked what some of theattributes they had.
And you know, try to figure outwhat my, you know, just start
chasing my perfect, my perfectwife, you know, and start
pushing, pushing and to thepoint where I was actually
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engaged, at 18 years old, Ibelieve.
I was like 18 years old, 19years old, I got engaged to a
girl and Because I was justforcing, like, oh, this is love,
right.
When you think, you know, itwas funny because, like when I
was younger, the first time agirl held my hand and I was like
, oh, she loves me, right.
Well, we locked hands together.
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You know, our fingers and ourhands got locked together.
I was like, oh, this is love,this is love, right.
And you're like I'll doanything for you.
This is real love, this is true, right.
And and you see it in all usmedia, right, movies, tv shows,
how people do for love, right,they'll do anything.
But yeah, I know, you know.
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So then when I found a girl thatliked hanging out with me a lot
and you know, I met her parentsand we hung out, everybody
liked me, and then I was like,well, what's the next stage of
love?
But this is love, this is it?
So I proposed and I was likethis is amazing, this is love,
right.
She said yes, and all that funstuff, and I was like we're
getting married and we're justhanging out on more like this is
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love, right, and we'll havebeen dating for like a few
months.
Oh, the reason why I'm laughingso hard is not because you know
that I was engaged to thisperson before, but it's because
what I know now just makes me go.
How, if I can go back in timebut you can, we'll get to that
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you could effectively change thepast according to quantum
physics.
Just a fun fact in one of ourother episodes come up, but
anyways.
And I was just like, yeah, thisis it, this is it right.
And even though I felt after awhile like, oh no, I don't like
her that much.
I want to be with her for youknow ever.
But I was like, oh, this islove, this is it right.
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After and after work, hard tofind, to have love and to find
Everlasting happiness right,because that's what you're told.
Right, everything's hard again,nothing's easy, but it can be
if you want it to be.
It's all about your perspectiveand how you see the world.
And even though I didn't feelit but thank goodness for self
sabotage, because I Start selfsabotaging myself and she's
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gonna break it up with me and Iwas like, yes, so if by chance,
you listen to this podcast, youknow who I am and you're like,
hey, I know, this was this.
I was.
I was the one again what.
He was happy.
Well, it's true, because, likeshe was like you're not gonna
cry or nothing.
I was like, actually, why, like, I'm kind of, you know, happy
because I couldn't do it.
I Didn't want to go throughwith it either.
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She got mad at me and here'sthe sad part.
Well, that's that part about areally funny part.
I was going to her parents housethat day for dinner with her
family and they're gonna havelike lasagna.
They know I like lasagna, sohomemade, fresh lasagna.
I was like, oh, I Was moreupset when I got to their house
and there was no lasagna for me,because they're like are you
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sad?
And that's kind of funny,because they're like you dodged
a bullet.
They're telling me this likeyou dodged a bullet, you don't
want to marry her.
She's crazy.
You should have married her asa daughter.
She's more normal.
It was hilarious.
But they're like are you upset?
I was like, yeah, I'm upset.
And they're like, oh, it's okay.
I'm like, no, not about yourdaughter breaking up with me.
I'm more upset that there's nolasagna Sound like a total
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asshole, but no, you have tohave been there.
If I could totally just watch mylife as a video, I would show
it to you guys.
You would understand and belaughing with me.
But like this, this is funny,but anyways.
So I was like I guess thatwasn't love.
So then I was just likewhatever, I gave up.
Then I started just datingaround and then I started dating
this girl and like I lived inMontreal, quebec, and she lived
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in Ottawa, ontario, which islike two and a half hours away
from where I lived.
And you know I'd always go outof my way to make sure I go see
her go on dates with this other,this new girl, and she would
never like do anything for me.
You know, like go out of herway to come visit me or go out
of her way.
Or you know she was busy.
It's like, oh sorry, I'm busy,I'm hanging off my friends, I
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can't go on a date with youtoday.
So I like did everything aroundher schedule.
So I'm like I guess this isn'tlove because there's no
compromise.
And then I was just pushing, I'mpushing but, and I was just
like at that point, just likeeverybody is at that point, at
one point or another in theirlife, with either love going I
just I'll never find it, I giveup, who cares, I'm done?
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Or with like work, you know I'mtrying to find the best job.
And you just finally give upand like who cares, I don't care
anymore, just give up.
And then I was talking to mybuddy, like dude, let's just go
move, let's go to Alberta.
I said my parents just movedout there a few years ago, so
let's go over there, hang outthem.
And now when I went up with myparents and visited Alberta and
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all that, I met this, thesefamilies and they, they had some
cute girls.
I was like maybe I can go ondates.
But I wasn't.
I didn't care about trying tofind love or trying to find a
wife or anything like that, Iwas just giving up, I'm done
right.
I went, my buddy, and I werelike, yeah, let's do it, let's
go to Alberta, let's go work inthe, you know, the oil fields or
the whatever, right, and makeall this oil money and stuff and
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who cares about, you know,finding a wife or girlfriend or
whatever?
It'll just happen.
It'll just happen.
Who cares?
Stop forcing it, stop chasing,because when you're chasing,
people are running away.
If we start chasing somebody,they're running.
They're like why the hell areyou chasing me?
So just think about that way.
It's common sense.
I know there's not much commonsense anymore in the world, but
just come on, it's common sense.
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Stop running after randompeople and maybe they'll stop
running away, start runningafter somebody.
I'm calling it, I'm chasing youdown to talk to you about your
extended warranty, but anyways.
So yeah, I just gave up, Ididn't care.
And on another note, over theyears I had a buddy of mine,
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another friend, and and he wasalways trying to find girls to
date and all that.
I said, hey, cuz I drove a carand I owned a car.
How do you at 16 years old,right?
So I told him we were younger.
I said, hey, if you find a date, somebody, he's willing to go
on a date with you and they havea hot friend, I get the hot
friend.
I said that I'm more than happyto drive you, you know, within
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an hour or two radius, give ortake, but whatever, I'll drive
you as long as they have a hotfriend and he's like okay,
anyways.
So now we fast forward a coupleyears.
Um, it was where we're at like adance, like a church dance or
something, and like we were like18, 19 years old.
And Then he was like, hey, justLetting you know, a girl I've
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been talking to is coming tovisit me.
I'm like, okay, buddy, you knowwe kind of joke around, make
fun of him, or something likeyeah, yeah, sure, she's real.
You know they might be gettingcatfished by some dude and he's
gonna come see you near here.
Ah, crap.
And anyways, he's like, no,she's coming to the church at
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the dance.
So, anyway, so she he finallycomes, goes, hey, this is her.
And we're like you are real.
She's just like, okay, you areright, your friends are weird.
I'm like Cool, cool, cool.
And then she was like, oh, thisis my sister, my younger sister
, you know.
And I was like, hey, how's itgoing?
I had my other friend with me.
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I'm like, hey, this is my buddy, you know, we're all hanging
out.
And, you know, went to the dance, hung out, danced, and usually
after like the dances and stuff,people are like, hey, mike,
where are we going?
And like we had friends likethat's, you know, french side,
english side.
This is pretty cool.
Like those are multi-languageChurch unit.
There's like English speakingpeople, people Spanish, mandarin
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and French and so on.
But yeah, and like we all Somemost of us were bilingual or
twiling wool, so we all startspeaking to hang out with each
other.
But I was like Mike, what are wedoing?
So sometimes we want bowling,sometimes we went to the movies,
sometimes we want karaoke, wewent to restaurants, whatever,
right.
So I was like, oh, I look overat my buddy.
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I'm like, hey, everybody, let'sgo to my house, my house in the
middle of the street.
Okay.
So I was like, let's go to myhouse and hang out.
You know, I got a pool.
I said the house is kind ofunder renovations, like the
kitchen and stuff, but you know,we still have access to the
swimming pool and we'll stillhave access to like hanging out
and watch movies or just hangout and talk, right.
So we're like, hey, buddy,bring your girlfriend.
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You know she's like I'll bringmy sister.
Oh, yeah.
And then, what?
A couple other guys came and meand Another buddy of mine were
all hanging out.
So we all drove into two, threedifferent vehicles to my house,
which was probably about like40 minutes away from where we
were, and then, of course, likemy buddy With his girlfriend,
came the sister Came and she satin the front with me and then
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we're just hanging out talkingand I'm just being a nice guy
because I give up.
I'm a lot of, I'm like I don'tgive a crap, I'm done, I'll just
being the nice guy.
Like, even at the dance I dancedwith everybody.
You know, I don't care, I justwanted to dance.
People's girls asked me that,hey, you want to dance?
Right, I want to dance.
We're just hanging out danceand I just wanted everybody and
this wasn't, honestly, my goal.
Okay, like, maybe on theoutside people like player, your
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player, you're douche.
But I was just like I wantedeverybody to feel happy and
special and important, right?
So, like even people thatweren't being asked to dance,
I'll be like, hey, you want todance with me?
Like what, why you want todance?
I'm like, why not?
And you know, have a good timewith them.
And I didn't think I was like areally hot guy or good-looking
guy or Whatever.
But you know, a lot of girlsfound me cute and attractive and
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maybe I was pretty good lookingyounger when I was younger, not
now anyways.
So, yeah, so I mean I waswanting people to feel happy and
loved, like I'm just feelspecial.
Because I want to feel special,I start, you know, I started at
a young age going.
You know I'm gonna talk topeople and you know stuff like
that the way I want to betreated, I'm gonna treat them
the way I want to be treated,because I want to be treated and
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feel like Special or importantor cool.
Then I want people to feelspecial, important and cool
because I want to feel that way.
That's just the best way tolive, I find at least it worked
for me anyway.
So we're just hanging out, andthen Her little sister hang out
with me.
She was like 18 at the time orsomething so about.
And oh yeah, so I wasn'tengaged.
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We broke up, so I'm about 21years old, she was like 18 or
I'm 22, something like that.
So she's like three, four yearshere with me and anyway.
So we're just hanging out, I'lltalk, and then you know I'm
like so how did you meet my youknow so-and-so?
And she's like oh, it'sactually pretty weird.
It's through a friend who says,hey, you should talk to this
guy, because this guy has afriend In Montreal, quebec, and
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these people from Toronto, soit's pretty far drive, anyway.
So then she's like, okay, andthen they started talking to
each other and it clicked, Iguess right, and I was like, oh
cool, I think I'm just makingeverybody have a fun time.
So we went to my house I'm likeswimming, you know, will once
women in the pool hung outwatching the movie, thought
nothing of it, and then likethey all left and then I stayed
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home because of my house and myother buddy stayed with me
because he lived with me at thetime and I was like that was fun
.
He's like, yeah, I'm like, didyou think she was cute?
Because the other girl, thesister, was more his age,
because he's like three, fouryears younger than me.
And I'm like, hey, was that fun?
He's like, yeah, I'm like, doyou think find her cute?
You know, you know, I want togo on a date with her.
I can, I can make a phone call.
He's like, no, I'm good, we'regoing Alberta.
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I'm like, yeah, alberta.
So didn't think nothing of it.
And then, you know, a few monthslater, my buddy was like, hey,
I remember a few years ago hesaid you'll take me anywhere as
long as there's a hot friend foryou today.
I'm like, yeah, he was remembermy girlfriend.
He just met like a Few monthsago at the Dan.
I'm like, yeah, he's like well,she has a hot friend.
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I was like, oh, she better behot.
He's like, yeah, yeah, yeah,yeah.
I was like okay.
I was like, let's when do wantto go.
It's like we go on the weekend,you know, stay like Go Saturday,
leave Saturday morning earlybecause it's a six hour drive,
and then Meet up with the girlsfor the day would go like
Canada's Wonderland, sleep over,like stay wherever you know.
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He's like maybe you can stay atmy girlfriend's house.
I'm like, yeah, cool.
He's like, yeah, then we couldsleep over and go on some more
dates and drive home for Sundaynight.
I was like, okay, sounds good.
So we're driving, we're justhanging out, talking for like
the six, seven hour drive there.
And then we pull up in front ofhis girlfriend's house and he's
like Then I look and I see I'mlike, oh, it's not your
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girlfriend's younger sister.
He's like, yeah, I'm like cool,why she's standing outside.
Well, I didn't want to tell youthis, but she's your date.
I'm like what?
And don't get me wrong, she's agood looking girl, but like
three, four years younger thanme.
I was like I want somebody moremy age I'm 21, 22 and she's
like 18 and and I'll, she'll.
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And I was like what the hellhe's like if I told you you
wouldn't brought me.
Like yeah, and I was like,whatever, you know, I'll go on a
date with this girl.
For you know, whatever I'm here, I drove seven hours
disappointed, but it's not somean, but I'm not mean.
And she was the same thing.
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So we hung out for a few hoursbefore Um, because we have to
wait for his girlfriend tofinish working.
So it's like, won't two hours.
So we just went to a park, hungout and talked and I'm just
talking to To her sister, andI'm like, hey, you know, she's
just being rude to me.
I'm like I don't want to behere anymore than you do.
She's like good, then just gohome.
And she's like I don't want togo on a date with you, but like
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my sister forced me to, so youwould drive her boyfriend here.
And I'm like, well, I got caughtinto it.
I'm like but at least you canpretend to be nice, like
whatever.
Like we're gonna be going onthese Dates, we're gonna go to
restaurant, we're gonna go toCanada's wonderland in Toronto.
We're gonna, you know, hang out.
So I'm sorry, but let's makethe best of this worst bad
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situation, right?
She's like fine, and like Ididn't care about her, like not
about her, I just, it was donelooking for love, I was done
looking for anything.
Like I was like whatever, I'mgoing Alberta soon.
And then we went through thedate and like hung out and you
know I made her feel special andshe was trying to be nice to me
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and stuff.
And then you know, we went homeand I was being like on the
next day and I was being mean tomy buddy like you, next time
you better make sure it's one ofher hot friends, not her blah,
blah, blah, blah, blah, right.
And then you know didn't thinknothing of it that a month later
she calls me.
She's like, hey, how's it going, mike?
I'm like hey, she's like mysister told me to call you
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because, like you know, the guywas my best friend, I need
dating her sister.
And she's like my sister toldme to call you because my friend
told your friend told her youknow that it's your birthday, so
happy birthday.
I'm like, okay, thank you.
We would talk sometimes just asfriends, like we became friends
, right, but I wasn't interestedin dating her because I'm going
Alberta, I'm not connectingwith her.
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I'm not interested in datingher because I'm going Alberta,
I'm not connecting with nobody.
I'm done, and and then a fewmonths go by and then I get a
phone call from another friendof mine who lives in Utah and he
was getting married.
He's like hey, do you want tocome to my wedding?
I'm getting married, buddy.
I'm like cool, cool, cool.
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So I was looking for flights,like cheap flights, I guess.
You know, I was working andstuff, and I had my one of my,
my businesses at the time.
But I wasn't, you know, as youknow if you follow the podcast,
I wasn't dedicated to mybusiness.
It was like contract basis andI had contracts.
I didn't have contracts but Ialways had a real job on the
side, stuff like that, butanyways, and I was like, yeah,
you know, look, and I guess thecheapest flight was from Toronto
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To Las Vegas and then there's abus I could take that takes me
into Utah, and that was thecheapest way.
And I was like that's cool,that's cool, but parking at the
airport in Toronto is expensive.
I was like, hey, so I call mybuddy.
I'm like, hey, your girlfriend,how far you know?
Is there buses or trains thattake me to the airport in
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Toronto from her house?
He's like, yeah, I'm like, okay, I'm gonna call.
So I call like hey, it's Mike,can I speak to so-and-so?
I'm like, okay, and then youknow, hey, your friends calling.
You know, I'm like, hey, I'mgonna be in town, going to the
airport in Toronto, cuz I go toa wedding in Utah and my buddy
and his mom and his dad were sointent in setting me up with
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somebody, so I would like fallin love and Stay in Utah and
hang out with them, because westill like it's a long story but
maybe I'll talk about thatlater in another episode, but I
might have mentioned it a fewtimes.
But they were people that moved.
They've lived in Montreal for awhile and I lived with them for
a bit and because I was bestfriends with their buddy, with
their son anyways.
So I was like, hey, is thatcool?
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I'm like maybe we can hang outand then, you know, I'll leave
my car in the driveway and takethe bus to the airport, cuz I'm
not paying for parking.
And she's like, yeah, yeah,whatever, I'll talk to my
parents, yeah, that's okay.
I'm like, okay, I'm coming.
So I said what day I was coming.
I drove down so we hung out wejust want for a walk, and just
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hung out and then, I don't know,we just Started talking and
then she was like you know,you're a lot more cooler than I
thought and I'm like IAppreciate that.
I'm like you know, you'repretty cool yourself.
So Like, yeah, that you know,that's pretty cool.
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We hung out and just talked forlike hours and I'm like, well,
you know, I said when I comeback, you know I'll see you for
a little bit before I drive home, like we can hang out and talk
like we're becoming good friendsnow, right, she's like, yeah,
so then I Got on the plane, flewLas Vegas, and then it was a
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six hour wait for the bus totake me to Utah and I get there.
My buddy was gonna drive anhour to pick me up, but he's
running late.
Anyways, digress.
So I was pretty much hanging outin Utah.
We did all this fun stuff.
There's things called likeZion's Canyon as we went to.
There's things called theNarrows, I went to walking and
stuff.
And I was hanging out with mybuddy's parents because he was
my buddy, was just getting readyfor the wedding, so we hung out
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a little bit, but he wasstressed with the wedding and
stuff.
And then I was hanging out withhis dad and the dad's just like
, hey, you know, is thereanybody, any girlfriends or
anything, any love going on foryourself?
And I was like yeah, not really, I don't care, I'm sort of I
want to move, maybe to Albertaand whatever.
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I'm just giving up on, you know, chasing love and stuff.
He's like, oh, that's okay, Ididn't know.
While I was in Utah, like that,the different, like at the
wedding and stuff, there's allthese people, my friends, like
hey, meet this girl, she's cute,meet this girl, meet this girl,
like she thinks you're cute.
But you know, I'll just likecool, hanging out, dancing, you
know, talking to people, but itjust I don't know, just none of
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them did anything.
And then I was just sittingthere like at the house, just my
buddy's house, cuz, stay therefor a good week or so.
And then he got married I'm nothanging out with him, I'll say
off his parents at his parentshouse, and I was just like you
know.
And then his mom likes did youstart anybody in your life that
you like?
I'm like, no, not really, youknow, but I just felt like I
wanted to go home and hang outwith this girl again and Toronto
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.
So I was like called her and Iwas like, hey, it's Mike.
She's like, oh, hey, having funin, you know, utah at the
wedding and stuff.
I'm like, yeah, it's pretty fun, it's pretty cool.
So Las Vegas is really cool.
You know, when you land in LasVegas you can see the strip
hills at night.
You can see it all lit up.
It's pretty cool.
And you know, flying over thedesert, I was like, oh, it's
really dark Driving through thedesert all the way to Utah.
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It's pretty fun, you know.
I was just like, yeah, it'spretty good.
But I was like, hey, I got aquestion.
I was like, would you mind If Icome home, come home, if I fly
back to Toronto a day early andhang out with you, so we can
hang out a little bit before Ihave to Drive, go home the next
day to work and for contractsand stuff?
I was just like, oh, yeah,that'd be all right.
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You don't want to stay there.
I'm like, well, no, it's, youknow, he's gotten married and
hang out with his parents, Iwould, he's busy, so I'll just
fly back a day early, if thatworks for you, if I can change
the flight.
So I called the airline and,yeah, it turned out I could
change the flight.
It was actually cheaper andthey give me meal, they gave me
money back and stuff like that.
So, whatever, I was just like,yeah, just going with the flow,
right, I'm just surrendering,going to the flow.
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So I flew back and then, youknow, I got well, got back to
the house.
I took the bus from the airportback to the house and she was
in university at the time.
But she came back home fromuniversity I was like, hey, and
we're just hanging out andtalking, and we went for a walk
and we're just talking.
And then Something magicalhappened.
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You know, call it whatever youwant, right at the time.
You know, we were both in thesame Christian Religion, like
stuff like that, as we grew upwith the similar backgrounds and
stuff like that.
And at the time I was like, oh,you know, this is, this is the
way, but like we were walkingand talking, and then it just
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she said something and it's asif time stopped, okay, and I was
like, oh, and I was watching,you know, me and her, as if I
like was pulled out of my bodyand watching, talking and
interacting with each other, andthen just time froze and then,
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as if I went back and I rememberit like clearly, like a few
years earlier, when I was justlike I'm giving up, you know, on
love and all that.
I had this dream and I was justlike I don't know, floating
around in space, like like adark world or whatever and what
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not.
And Then I was just like what'syou know why?
You know, I'm like complaining,I guess, to the universe or to
God or whatever, just like why,how can I can't find love, how
can I can't find him?
It's me happy, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
And then there's a voice, and itwas a female voice and she was
like, hey, you know, when wemeet there's gonna be a certain
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phrase, okay, and Actually itcould be this situation.
And it was as if, you know, I'min this dark space.
You know, this is two yearsearlier and it shows me like a
scenery and Like the back of agirl that I was like talking to
and I'm in front and I could seemyself talking to her.
And then she was Talking to meand then she said this phrase
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that's like when that happensyou'll remember.
And no, I was like you knowweird dreams, like this is weird
dream, thought nothing of it.
I was like whatever, right, twoyears, we fast forward two
years now.
And then it is all just likeWhoo, she said this phrase, time
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stopped.
I pulled out of my body and I'mlooking at the exact same angle
where I was in this dream twoyears prior.
And she said the phrase andeverything just like oh, and I
just saw, like I can't explain,it's just a big rush of
information flowing to me likedownloading from the universe.
And then I was like holy smokesand then I got thrown back into
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my body and then she's likeMike and I was like whoa, she's
like what's up?
I'm like uh, and I'm justthinking like I need to be with
this person, I need to be withyou, there's something here and
I'm like tripping out, like Idon't know what the hell just
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happened and I'm freaking outand stuff, and I'm like I need
to be with you, I need to bewith you.
And she was kind of like.
I was like no, you have no idea.
I was just like you got tounderstand she, she was smart,
she would have ran, but like Iwas like you're wearing the
exact same outfit.
You were when he came to me ina dream two years ago and da, da
, da, da.
And this is what you're tellingme and this what you said, like
we need to be together andeverything just makes sense and,
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and you gotta understand, okay,I'm not, I wasn't into this
girl's, not like.
I was like, oh, wow, love atfirst sight, right, it was no, I
was just like, hey, what up,how's it going?
I'm like that's me too, youknow, whatever.
And just hanging out with herand stuff, like our first date
didn't go well as a blind dateand she was being mean to me.
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No, it's just like, pretend youlike, because everybody likes
Mike, but I don't know, it wasjust I Like this is it?
This is what love is, this islove, this is what I've been
prepared for, right, and we justlike we finished hanging out
and stuff, and like that nightwe're hanging out or looking
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like up at the stars and we seea little bit of the northern
Alliance and you know.
And then I was just like, hey,you want to be my girlfriend.
She's like, oh, okay, you know.
She's like, yeah, like sureI'll be your girlfriend.
I'm like, oh right, then webecame girlfriend, boyfriend,
you know, shortly after shetried to make up, she's like, ah
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, maybe we shouldn't like date.
Like I don't know, it's kind ofweird, your friends dated my
sister.
I'm like, no, we need to betogether.
I thought a vision we have tobe together.
But it was weird because, likeI never felt that kind of love
before.
I'm like like we're gonna havea different kind of love.
So you gotta understand.
Growing up the way I did, Ithought love Equaled lust.
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So if a girl would be like, oh,you know, start kissing me or,
you know, holding me, or let me,you know whatever, I was like,
oh, lust equals love.
Because you know my homework'sgoing crazy and and the religion
I grew up in, you know you'renot Having sex before marriage
or anything like that, rightit's.
You wait till you get married,right?
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That's the religion, that's howI grew up, that's, you know
what I was Instilled, right?
So I waited till I got married.
But I was like I need to beused on.
You know all this like hormonesand stuff, and I'm like I just
lost in every body in the worldand I used to think lust was
love, but it's not.
I ran.
If a girl kissed me, I'm likeshe lost me.
She holds my hand.
I'm like she loves me.
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If anybody shows me any kind oflike attention, I'm like she
loves me.
I'm just freaking out.
Yeah, everybody loves me.
Ah right, people show meattention.
They must love me, right?
And I was so confused what lovewas and I always thought I knew
what love was.
I was like this is love, thisis love.
And then, you know, I gotengaged.
I'm like this is love.
And then I was like, oh, thisis love, oh, this is a.
But this is what love is right.
I can't love somebody anymorethan I love you.
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And it was.
You know, we dated for likeeight months to a year that we
got married and she was like 19.
I'm 22.
We got married, got marriedyoung and stuff like that, and I
let this is love, you know, andI'm like every day looking at
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like, oh, this is love.
I'm like, oh, this is love.
And, yeah, I never, ever livedwith like a girlfriend before
because you're not allowed to dothat.
You know, in my, in thereligion I grew up in, it was
like oh no, you can only livewith, you know somebody of the
opposite sex when you getmarried.
So, anyway, so we're stillliving with each other.
I'm like, oh, I don't like thisidea.
So many of my bed snoring or Iwas snoring, she wasn't, she
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sleeps quietly or like takingall my sheets and stuff.
Like I had a small single bed.
I'm like we need a bigger bed,you know, and stuff like that
start getting annoyed and stuff.
I'm like, oh, you know, love,you have to work towards it.
Like whatever, like you know,um, stuff like that.
And there's times around like,oh, maybe I made the wrong
decision, and so on and so forth.
Right Now, cut some coin.
Well, love is hard, you have towork at love, right, and stuff
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like that.
And I would, you know, I wasalways, you know, in mainstream
media, right, you're not, yousupposed to love your wife and
appreciate your wife, but youalways joke about her and hide
the thing from her that she, Idon't know, Like because I swear
, I swear a lot, and she didn'tlike that, or whatever, right,
and stuff like that.
And yeah, I was like, yeah, Ifound love right.
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But you know what, we've beenmarried for 17 years and I felt
like, as around the 10 year mark, we kind of like, you know, we
had kids.
Three years after gettingmarried we had kids, so we're
just focusing on the kids, andthen, you know, we had one kid
and three years later we hadanother kid.
Three years later, another kid,right, and then it was hard and
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all this stuff and I don't knowlike there's a lot of thoughts
of like, oh, maybe I should justrun, get divorced.
Get divorced because, you know,I've seen people on times get
tough.
They just get divorced and runaway.
But I also saw people thatdidn't have a lot of
communication, like they justwent with their emotions and
freaking out.
Nobody really communicated.
So then, you know, I kind oflike my wife and I Been married
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10 years and it felt kind ofhard because now the kids are
getting older and we'redifferent people, like we're
different people, we're not thesame people we were when we
first got married, you know, 10years earlier.
And then, like, kind of like wekind of got to know each other.
It's like hey, hey, and youknow I fell in love with her,
kind of like wow, I neverthought I could love you anymore
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than I do.
And she's like oh, you know,and yeah, we had a lot of hard
times.
I'm not saying it's easy, butone thing we started learning
and realizing is communicationand the more communication we
had and just being straight up,honest with each other and flow
of communication and Not hidingnothing, like there's times when
she's like I don't think youknow, I don't want you spending
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money at the restaurants oranything, you know, after work,
just come home or stuff likethat, okay.
And then she'd like to spendmoney on.
You know, I like no, but mybuddies went out once McDonald's
, I paid for everybody, stufflike that, right.
And you know we'll start lying.
Oh, it's okay.
So a little white lies, okay,to tell a white lie, right.
And there was not communication, that open flow, and you know I
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got caught in lies because I'mnot a good liar, stuff like that
.
But I don't know, as the yearswent on, I remember there's like
points where we can.
I felt like we can choose to betogether or not and I just felt
pulled back, like I need to bewith this person.
I need to be with this person.
And it's my wife that startedreading Dr Joe Dispenza and
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Michael A Singer called theUntethered Soul and the
Surrender Experiment and stufflike that.
And then we, uh, I don't knowwe, we were thinking like we
left, like the religion we werein together, and she left first
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and then I left after, likemeaning like you know the
organized religion part.
We just walked away from allthat and kind of like bonded to
each other even more and thenthere was no more, like I don't
know.
It's like I don't knowsomething was moved and we're
just started communicatingbetter and talking better and
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and there's some things likeshe's like I want to go check
out you know this festivalcalled Ohm, or I want to check
out this you know festival andthis.
And I was like just so annoyedwith it, like a why do you want
to go do this stuff?
Let's just be together and stoptrying to like chase out all
the like the life you never had,I guess, like going all these
different events and stuff.
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But you know, we grew up in ourlife was our religion, so we
want to find ourselves and shewant to find herself, anyway.
So it was funny because, likeI'd be like I don't think we
should go to events and then youknow dirty hippies, stuff like
that.
But then when we went, somehowwe like bonded more with each
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other and stuff like that andlike it's hard to explain, but I
, we find that the key tosuccess in our marriage and
we've been married 17 years nowIs that we decided to have open
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communication before it was toolate and just started talking
about everything and just beingcompletely open with each other
and then it just helped us havethis bond and this love.
Like you heard me talk aboutother episodes earlier in this
season.
You know episode one and two.
I was doing that 10 daymeditation retreat and I just
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want to be, you know, my wife'sarms and stuff and just be with
her and our love is so strongand so amazing.
And yeah, we have hard times,we fight, we bicker, like every
married couple.
Sorry, I'm gonna cough here,sorry about that.
I forgot to bring a bottle ofwater and I felt like the
universe be like, hey, don't getyour bottle of water.
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I'm like I'm too lazy to goback out in the warehouse to get
some water and do the podcast.
I can work through this.
Yeah, well, the universe wastelling me what I need to do.
But, yeah, it's just amazing tome that, like the moment I gave
up and stop chasing and justlet things happen and just went
with the flow, before I evenknew what that meant, just
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trusted the universe and theguidance of love and and this
world, and I really feel like asI do, like meditations and
stuff like that like I feel suchan amazing connection With my
wife and like I couldn't havemade it A better decision or
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found somebody better.
And you know people say, well,you know you can learn to love
anybody, blah, blah, blah.
I believe me, on the shadow ofa doubt, that you know my wife
somehow figured out how to.
You know, with quantum physicsor all the different you know
realities happening at once.
You know, like we learned inthe movies, right, all the
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different universes, allparallel universes with each
other that have slight littledifferences, and that she found
a way to jump over and be like,hey, out of all the different
you know parallel universes, theone where we were the most
successful when we were together.
And then she made it happen.
I like, yeah, teach me.
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So her higher self came andvisited me of a younger age and
just like, hey, this is what'sgoing to happen, don't worry
body.
Needless to say, I never movedout west, but yeah, there's
something to it and I do get alot of requests and people
talking to me about, like youknow, talk about love, or Talk
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about the different paralleluniverses, or talk about, you
know, dreams.
What dreams mean?
The dreams mean anything, stufflike that.
But you know, in the end I saythis all the time, but it's so
true and it's about yourpersonal beliefs and you are
creating your personal reality.
So for me, what needed tohappen happened and I believe
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right and nobody can tell meotherwise.
And you know that my wife'shigher self found a way to
communicate with me and I waslike, okay, you know, maybe our
higher selves are still together, hanging out.
I don't know.
But, like Mike, proof to meabout those different parallel
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universes.
Go to this parallel universeand talk to me, or do this or do
that.
Go to the future, go to thepast, right.
But who cares who's right andwrong in the end?
Who cares which religions rightor which religion people
believe, which one's right,which one's wrong, or this is
right, this is wrong.
It doesn't matter.
If you believe it's right, it'sright for you, if you don't
believe it's right, it's notright for you.
And even some people are like,oh well, you were in religion,
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mike, and you left religion,like you must have seen miracles
and stuff.
I said, yes, I did see a lot ofmiracles and I performed
miracles are you know and allthat.
But it doesn't you know, it wasright for me at the time, for
my flow of my projection and formine and for, like for me, my
life.
I felt like, since I left forme I'm not telling people to
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leave religion, I didn't evenwant to talk about this at all,
but I just just came out, justtrust in the flow.
But For me it felt like Ireached the information lot in
that religion that I was in andthat, in order to expand, I need
to move on.
And, yeah, the knowledge Ithought, I thought I knew
everything then to now it's like, oh, a lot different, like I
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know a lot more stuff and I havea lot more Information and
experiences in this world andit's just yeah.
So it doesn't matter right,who's right, who's wrong, or
this is real.
This is not blah, blah, blah.
It's.
What matters is, if you believeit, then it is real for you.
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Because I'm telling you and forthose who are listening to me
are not like, I guess, like newwish to the law of attraction
and two things I'm talking about.
You'll understand, but Realityis what you make it, that's all
there is.
And in this reality, this isthe only reality where we are
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right now, and I'm telling youonce again, this is the only
reality where we are right now,where you can turn thought Into
a physical object, but we limitourselves, like what you think I
could make a cheesecake appearin my hand.
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Hey, man, just like to move inthe matrix.
Right, stop limiting yourself,stop, you know, whatever.
If you want to see the realworld, you got to decide what
the real world is for you.
Is it numbers, like in thematrix?
Is the matrix telling ussomething?
Is the matrix a movie that myhigher self put together to show
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me, to explain to me things?
Because every time I watchcertain movies, I'm like there's
something to this.
I feel like there's a messagefor me.
Maybe there is, maybe thereisn't, but it doesn't really
matter Because in the end,whatever's gonna happen is gonna
happen and I choose To live thelaw of attraction, to live the
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law of the universe and feel thedifferent frequencies and to
Just trust, to trust the process, because this was working for
me.
That's what's getting me througheverything and stuff like that,
like there's so many times inmy life and if you think about
it, I just told you the story ofmy love right, finding my
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everlasting love, and and howamazing and connected we feel,
and that it's all aboutcommunication.
Okay, communication,communication, communication,
communication.
Okay, I'm telling you now opencommunication Works for us.
That worked amazingly, likeEven to this day, like I'm like
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I think we reached the pinnacleof love, I can't love you
anymore.
And then something happens andlike we're together and I'm like
I love you.
All right, differentexperiences in life or whatever,
right, but just Talk, right,feel like, hey, this is
something I an idea, this isstuff, this is I'm just have
open communication with yourpartner.
Okay, because there's so manytimes I watch movies, tv shows
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I've seen it in real life whenno one's having open, true
communication and I'm justgetting divorced.
Everybody just gets divorced.
It's always oh so easy.
I'm walking away, I'm done.
You don't want to listen to me,you don't want to do what I
want, I'm out, right, just opencommunication, and you'll find
and just Love and just behappier.
And if you find that you're in arelationship and you're like,
with open communication andeverything, and you still like,
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ah, you know, maybe they're.
You know, whatever you gotta do, what you gotta do for me, this
is my world and my life, andthen working for me very well,
and If you think about it, okay,so my friend who was dating
that girl in Toronto and he's inMontreal, she randomly set her
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from hey, I have a friend talkto him and asking for this guy's
, you know, back then MSN numberat email address or whatever,
so you guys can talk in MSN,right, or AOL and all that stuff
, right.
And Then she did it and then,you know, is the faithful moment
of her coming to visit him andshe had an uncle, I guess, in
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Montreal and she's like told heryounger sister to come with me
Please, and that like there waslike a second where she wasn't
going, but she just like,whatever, I'll just go, whatever
.
And Then we met and then wedidn't connect or nothing, but
all those little things likenudges of the universe that you
know my buddy's like hey brothertime and I was like yes, or
whatever was to do this, becauseif I said no, then no, it was
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over.
And then that little nudge oflike coming back a day early and
Stuff like that, like it'samazing how the universe
orchestrated the whole thing forus to be together and it was
all because I gave up and justlike, whatever I Let love come
to me, I'm stopped running afterit, because every time I run
after it runs away and I think Iknow what love is and I'm not,
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and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Right.
So yes, it's not hard to findlove, trust and open your heart.
But first you got to loveyourself, you have to love the
world, you have to love peopleand your friends that are around
you.
You got to love everybody.
Just see how amazing this worldis and just have that love in
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your heart.
Just let your heart open withlove and just explode with love.
And I know it's hard.
Sometimes you meet some peopleare like that person doesn't
deserve my love.
I give you hate, right.
But Just try, just open yourheart, love and find the
frequency of love and Then I'mtelling you, the universe will
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just work its magic and, beforeyou know it, you'd be like, huh,
this is what love is, that yougo through and be married for 17
years plus and Still falling inlove and be like I don't
understand how I could lovesomebody and even more and more
right, just opening your heart,and I need to fill with love and
joy and compassion and howamazing this world can be with
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that it's.
It's simple like I never thoughtit'd be the simple to manifest
and to create whatever you want.
Like it's crazy, like Icouldn't Do all this stuff.
I'm not that lucky right whereI could have all this stuff
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happen, where I can pick theright stocks at the right time,
and just felt a little smallvoice, little nudge hey, look at
stocks, hey, type this into thesearch bar and Google a lot,
look for this and hey, you know,be here at this time and stuff
like that.
And then Whatever right, andjust start meeting people and
like, hey, this is a businessthat you got to do and just do
it this way, and then I set itup and then you just kind of
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trust and Stop trying to controllove, stop trying to control
money, stop trying to controleverything and just let it
happen and Trust that yourhigher self, that God or the
universe, mother Earth, whateveryou want to call it is gonna
guide you and you're gonna feelit and just follow the flow of
the universe of love and of lifeand Everything of your wildest
(53:34):
dreams will come your way.
You could think of it, put itin out there and Boom you,
you'll create it.
I'm telling you this world is aworld where you can create from
a thought and Manifested into aphysical thing and bring things
to you.
It's all up to you how you wantto do it.
Do you want to have a hard life?
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Do you want to believeeverything?
You're told?
How hard life is, how hard isto find love, how hard, how hard
, how hard.
And you have to give upsacrifice, like you heard in my
last episode, you got tosacrifice all this stuff if you
want things.
But I don't believe any of thatcrap.
I don't believe you have togive up and Sacrifice all this
stuff to get what you want.
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I don't believe I have to giveup you know, my amazing marriage
with my wife in order to haveabundance.
Or I don't believe I have togive up Abundance to have this
life.
I don't believe any of that.
I believe I can have it all andeverybody deserves to have it
all that they want.
You could have a hard life andeasy life.
It's all up to you.
I Know it sounds crazy.
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I thought it was crazy when Ifirst heard all this stuff.
But put it to the test, put itto the practice, test it, put it
out there, push it, test it.
Man, nothing you can do Like.
All I can say is do anexperiment, like I did.
Find your experiment, find theway where you can hack this
world and hack it and Make yourworld so much more better,
(54:59):
because I got so much amazingstories coming their way about
all sorts of amazing people andstuff that are coming across and
who knows but yeah, he's alittle tidbit, you know.
So we sold our house back in2018, 2017 just our traveling.
It's like you heard in a lot ofmy episodes where we were gonna
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travel to the US, livingFlorida for six months.
You know, we had a trailer anda truck and we pull it around
and stuff and living Canada forsix months.
And you know now it's our planand it was working great.
And then, you know, 2020happened, we came back to Canada
and then we weren't allowed toleave Canada for two years
because our government's crazy,I don't know.
But anyways, I don't want tosay anything, getting trouble, I
(55:44):
hear noxious or they're here toget me, but anyways, so yeah.
So now we're like, well, maybewe should get a house.
And I was like, pushing, weshould get a house in Florida,
we should get a house in Florida, we should get a house in
Florida.
But I was like, you know, I'mdone pushing, I'm done chasing.
I was like, if it's meant to be, we're gonna manifest a house,
we'll manifest the money for thehouse, we'll get the right
contracts, we'll win the lottery.
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I don't know what we'll do, butas self-employed individuals in
Ontario, canada, it's hard toget a mortgage and if you do,
you're paying like a higherinterest rate, like eight to ten
percent interest rate.
And Houses are stupid inOntario in the sense where
they're worth, you know, worthfour hundred thousand they're
selling for like nine hundredthousand to a million, because
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that's the market stakes, right,but it's slowing down, anyways,
but anyways, it's ridiculous.
I was like, whatever, we'll justmanifest that we'll get the
right place, we'll be able toget the mortgage, will be able
to whatever just month'smanifested and go at the
universe do its thing.
I'm gonna set it and forget it,like I preach to everybody and
I tell everybody and, yeah, itworks.
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I'll probably talk about thaton the next episode, but I just
want you to know you are notalone in this world.
There's a lot of people outthere in this world, in this
universe, that are just like youand me, right, but Just know
that life doesn't have to be ashard as you think it should
(57:09):
because of all thepre-programming.
It's enjoy life, love life,choose your reality, make your
reality a Reality and just putit out there and create, and
create, and create.
And I'll get talk a lot moreabout that in this season and
I'm gonna be good as more peoplesaying I'm letting my crazy out
, who let the dogs out.
(57:30):
But yeah, we're gonna bring ina lot more people to interview,
a lot more people to talk to andstuff like that, and just
Hopefully things will work.
And you know, send me a quickemail, let me know say, hey,
here's my story, share it, andI'll be more than happy to do
that.
Once again, you can reach me atlife changers mic at gmailcom.
That's all one word lifechangers with an s mic at life
(57:53):
change at gmailcom.
That's life changers mic atgmailcom.
And tell me if there's anythingyou want me to talk about.
Tell me.
Tell me situation and whatyou're struggling with.
I'm more than happy to turninto an episode and you know I
could.
I'll email you back and let youknow and send you the link for
the episode.
When it comes about stuff likethat, I'm more than happy to do
all that stuff.
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I'm checking the emails dailyBecause we're getting more and
more traction, so let's justmotivate.
I'm here to motivate and helpyou.
That's all I'm doing.
I'm telling my stories in themeantime and Situations as I'm
going through and learningthings and I'm manifesting
things from how I do it.
But I'm here to motivate youand help you create what you
want to create and help youachieve your wildest dreams.
(58:36):
Just know that you're important, you're loved and I do love you
everybody.
Thank you very much forlistening and once again, this
is Mike with life changers.
I Won't sell a life-changers and this is Mike.
So welcome back everybody and Ijust want to say I love
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everybody.
I love you guys.
So thanks for all our listeners.
Let's make this podcast goviral.
Let's spread it around, youknow.
Let's let everybody know whowe're about and we're changing
lives.
And if anybody has questions,please feel free.
If you're listening to it on asa podcast anywhere, you can
send us a quick email atlifechangers mic at gmailcom.
(00:49):
That's lifechangers mic atgmailcom and we can get back to
you and you know, let you knowwhat's going on or if you have
anything you want us to talkabout.
You know any questions oranything like that.
But let's get to the meat ofthe bone, me to the bone.
Bone on the meat.
I don't know, as you can tell,I'm alone in studio, but today I
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Want to talk about love.
I mean, what does love have todo with it?
A lot of popular questionseverybody asks about when it
comes to love.
Attraction is how to manifestmoney, wealth and all that, and
I talked about that a lot butlove and I haven't really talked
(01:30):
about that too much.
So I'm gonna talk a little bitabout my journey trying to find
love and you know, going throughlife and thinking you found
love, thinking you understandwhat love is, but you really
don't know.
And tell you know, oh, but,like a lot of you are thinking
(01:53):
like, okay, you know, I want tomanifest my love, tell me how to
do it.
You know, I already did tellyou how to do all that kind of
stuff.
Is you got to stop forcing it,stop chasing love and let love
come to you, find the frequencyof love and in order to do that,
you have to love yourself andstart loving those around you
and just love everybody and loveeverything and Just know, and
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you know, step into the reality,right that you have, where you
already found love, and act likeit and step into it and stop
chasing it and let it flow toyou.
Because, like I mentioned manytimes in different podcasts, you
know, when I was younger, Iwould be chasing money, chasing
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business, chasing love, chasingthis chase and chase, chase,
chase, and that's all what seemslike we do here in this world
is just chase, chase, chase,chase.
But the moment you stop chasing, everything just comes to you
and I'm sure a lot of peoplelistening right now going, okay,
I found love.
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Well, you still listen, becauseit's not just about trying to
find it, it's about keeping itand letting it grow, and grow
beyond your wildest dreams andimaginations.
Because when you think you findsomething or you try to control
something, you just realizethat there's so much more out
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there.
And the saying is true.
It sounds crazy, but if youlove something, let it go, and
if it comes back you know it'strue love.
But it's really is true that ifyou just Let it go, let love go
, let love just be love and justflow and just absorb it as it
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comes your way.
And you know, in my youngeryears, when I was trying to find
love, right, I'm like I need, Ineed a girlfriend or I need to
find a wife.
So start going around lookingfor people.
Hey, I was going to date andjust, you know, not letting love
just flow and just be likeforcing it, and it never came my
way.
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Intel, one faithful day when Istopped chasing love Me, my
buddy, actually, it was like,hey, let's get, let's just go
move to Alberta, let's go outWest From the East one.
We lived in Quebec growing up,but I'm like let's just go out
West.
You know, as we say in Frenchon the vote let's go.
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She levy mon ami.
But no, it's true.
So we're like, let's justwhatever out.
Like I was done.
I had.
It was funny because I had.
I thought I knew what love was.
So let's just get into it,let's get a turn Stood me
rambling here and get throughthe timeline of love and my
journey through finding love andeverlasting happiness, but only
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through.
When I figured out the law ofattraction and I started letting
things just happen the way itneeds to happen and just let it
flow and Let love go.
How much love came back.
I'm not gonna tell you.
One of the keys to success inlove attraction is love, just
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loving everything, just love theworld.
As you start becoming more likespiritual or more grounded with
the universe and with the worldor you know whatever you want
to call it, then, yeah, justlove everything and just, your
heart just blows open and you'relooking around like, wow, it's
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such a beautiful day.
Wow, I've never seen like thesky, the trees are so beautiful.
It's normal, trust me, whenthat starts happening, don't
think you're like what's goingon, my my having a seizure.
No, okay, you are finding loveand you're seeing love
everywhere and you find thefrequency of love and just
Loving everything and justloving life and how amazing life
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really is.
And that's my goal With all mypodcasts, with all my fun joking
around interviewing people.
It's just.
I want us to find love and Findwhat we desire and just
happiness and joy.
Like it's amazing when you seehow amazing the world really is.
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Get your face Out of the phone,get your face out of the TVs,
out of the Instagram, theFacebook and all that stuff.
Limit yourself and enjoy howbeautiful this world really is
and what it has to offer.
It's funny because when we'rewatching TV shows or game shows
(06:35):
or we're watching a show aboutlove, how excited we are for
that person finding love.
And yet you're like, but Ihaven't found it yet with my
love and we're always comparingourselves to everybody around us
Instead of just comparingourselves to ourselves.
Who cares?
What cares?
What you see around you and onthe outside.
It's what you broadcast intothe world and into this universe
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is what matters what youbelieve, what you see, what you
understand and how you see thethings.
And If you start seeing theworld with through the eyes of
love, how much amazing thisworld will seem, and more
beautiful If you stop chasingand just let it happen.
Wow, and trust me, okay, I Tryso hard manifesting millions of
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dollars so I can change theworld and do good and take care
of people and do all sorts ofamazing stuff, but I just got to
stop chasing and stop trying sohard.
You know, when you think like,I found it, I figured it out, I
figured it out, you know, andthen you realize this is the tip
of the iceberg, so let's getinto love, okay.
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So, as some of my listeners mayknow, I grew up in, you know, in
a Christian household in Quebec, canada, for all those, and I
do speak French.
I I well, I guess I kind ofgrew up bilingual, I would say
my first, my first words wasEnglish, so I spoke, I mean,
french, so I spoke French first.
But you know, I kind of grew upbilingual Because my parents
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would speak French to us andspeak English to us and stuff
like that.
But yes, I, I speak thelanguage of love, we, we, oh.
So, and at a young age, youknow You're like you got to get
married, have kids, multiply,replace the earth.
So you know, I guess I was kindof programmed into me from my
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parents and you know theChristian church I was going to
growing up but I Remember like Iwas talking to my leader in the
church and he was like you know, mike, you don't need to have a
girlfriend one-on-one becauseyou don't know what you want, so
you should date around untilyou figure out what you want.
You know, my scientific side ofme is like that's true, that
(09:01):
makes sense.
You don't know what, what youwant.
You think you know what youwant and a lot of people say
like, oh, I need this, I wantthis, but when you actually have
you like me, I didn't reallyneed it, I didn't really want it
Moving on, so I started, youknow, dating around, as they say
, like going on dates withpeople.
I wasn't like a player, nothing,I just be like, hey, samantha,
(09:21):
you want to go on a date, youknow, hey, so, and so you want
to go on a date, you know, andI'll go on dates with them and
hang out them and I'll eitherask them on another one if I
liked what some of theattributes they had.
And you know, try to figure outwhat my, you know, just start
chasing my perfect, my perfectwife, you know, and start
pushing, pushing and to thepoint where I was actually
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engaged, at 18 years old, Ibelieve.
I was like 18 years old, 19years old, I got engaged to a
girl and Because I was justforcing, like, oh, this is love,
right.
When you think, you know, itwas funny because, like when I
was younger, the first time agirl held my hand and I was like
, oh, she loves me, right.
Well, we locked hands together.
(10:02):
You know, our fingers and ourhands got locked together.
I was like, oh, this is love,this is love, right.
And you're like I'll doanything for you.
This is real love, this is true, right.
And and you see it in all usmedia, right, movies, tv shows,
how people do for love, right,they'll do anything.
But yeah, I know, you know.
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So then when I found a girl thatliked hanging out with me a lot
and you know, I met her parentsand we hung out, everybody
liked me, and then I was like,well, what's the next stage of
love?
But this is love, this is it?
So I proposed and I was likethis is amazing, this is love,
right.
She said yes, and all that funstuff, and I was like we're
getting married and we're justhanging out on more like this is
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love, right, and we'll havebeen dating for like a few
months.
Oh, the reason why I'm laughingso hard is not because you know
that I was engaged to thisperson before, but it's because
what I know now just makes me go.
How, if I can go back in timebut you can, we'll get to that
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you could effectively change thepast according to quantum
physics.
Just a fun fact in one of ourother episodes come up, but
anyways.
And I was just like, yeah, thisis it, this is it right.
And even though I felt after awhile like, oh no, I don't like
her that much.
I want to be with her for youknow ever.
But I was like, oh, this islove, this is it right.
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After and after work, hard tofind, to have love and to find
Everlasting happiness right,because that's what you're told.
Right, everything's hard again,nothing's easy, but it can be
if you want it to be.
It's all about your perspectiveand how you see the world.
And even though I didn't feelit but thank goodness for self
sabotage, because I Start selfsabotaging myself and she's
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gonna break it up with me and Iwas like, yes, so if by chance,
you listen to this podcast, youknow who I am and you're like,
hey, I know, this was this.
I was.
I was the one again what.
He was happy.
Well, it's true, because, likeshe was like you're not gonna
cry or nothing.
I was like, actually, why, like, I'm kind of, you know, happy
because I couldn't do it.
I Didn't want to go throughwith it either.
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She got mad at me and here'sthe sad part.
Well, that's that part about areally funny part.
I was going to her parents housethat day for dinner with her
family and they're gonna havelike lasagna.
They know I like lasagna, sohomemade, fresh lasagna.
I was like, oh, I Was moreupset when I got to their house
and there was no lasagna for me,because they're like are you
(12:37):
sad?
And that's kind of funny,because they're like you dodged
a bullet.
They're telling me this likeyou dodged a bullet, you don't
want to marry her.
She's crazy.
You should have married her asa daughter.
She's more normal.
It was hilarious.
But they're like are you upset?
I was like, yeah, I'm upset.
And they're like, oh, it's okay.
I'm like, no, not about yourdaughter breaking up with me.
I'm more upset that there's nolasagna Sound like a total
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asshole, but no, you have tohave been there.
If I could totally just watch mylife as a video, I would show
it to you guys.
You would understand and belaughing with me.
But like this, this is funny,but anyways.
So I was like I guess thatwasn't love.
So then I was just likewhatever, I gave up.
Then I started just datingaround and then I started dating
this girl and like I lived inMontreal, quebec, and she lived
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in Ottawa, ontario, which islike two and a half hours away
from where I lived.
And you know I'd always go outof my way to make sure I go see
her go on dates with this other,this new girl, and she would
never like do anything for me.
You know, like go out of herway to come visit me or go out
of her way.
Or you know she was busy.
It's like, oh sorry, I'm busy,I'm hanging off my friends, I
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can't go on a date with youtoday.
So I like did everything aroundher schedule.
So I'm like I guess this isn'tlove because there's no
compromise.
And then I was just pushing, I'mpushing but, and I was just
like at that point, just likeeverybody is at that point, at
one point or another in theirlife, with either love going I
just I'll never find it, I giveup, who cares, I'm done?
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Or with like work, you know I'mtrying to find the best job.
And you just finally give upand like who cares, I don't care
anymore, just give up.
And then I was talking to mybuddy, like dude, let's just go
move, let's go to Alberta.
I said my parents just movedout there a few years ago, so
let's go over there, hang outthem.
And now when I went up with myparents and visited Alberta and
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all that, I met this, thesefamilies and they, they had some
cute girls.
I was like maybe I can go ondates.
But I wasn't.
I didn't care about trying tofind love or trying to find a
wife or anything like that, Iwas just giving up, I'm done
right.
I went, my buddy, and I werelike, yeah, let's do it, let's
go to Alberta, let's go work inthe, you know, the oil fields or
the whatever, right, and makeall this oil money and stuff and
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who cares about, you know,finding a wife or girlfriend or
whatever?
It'll just happen.
It'll just happen.
Who cares?
Stop forcing it, stop chasing,because when you're chasing,
people are running away.
If we start chasing somebody,they're running.
They're like why the hell areyou chasing me?
So just think about that way.
It's common sense.
I know there's not much commonsense anymore in the world, but
just come on, it's common sense.
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Stop running after randompeople and maybe they'll stop
running away, start runningafter somebody.
I'm calling it, I'm chasing youdown to talk to you about your
extended warranty, but anyways.
So yeah, I just gave up, Ididn't care.
And on another note, over theyears I had a buddy of mine,
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another friend, and and he wasalways trying to find girls to
date and all that.
I said, hey, cuz I drove a carand I owned a car.
How do you at 16 years old,right?
So I told him we were younger.
I said, hey, if you find a date, somebody, he's willing to go
on a date with you and they havea hot friend, I get the hot
friend.
I said that I'm more than happyto drive you, you know, within
(15:57):
an hour or two radius, give ortake, but whatever, I'll drive
you as long as they have a hotfriend and he's like okay,
anyways.
So now we fast forward a coupleyears.
Um, it was where we're at like adance, like a church dance or
something, and like we were like18, 19 years old.
And Then he was like, hey, justLetting you know, a girl I've
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been talking to is coming tovisit me.
I'm like, okay, buddy, you knowwe kind of joke around, make
fun of him, or something likeyeah, yeah, sure, she's real.
You know they might be gettingcatfished by some dude and he's
gonna come see you near here.
Ah, crap.
And anyways, he's like, no,she's coming to the church at
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the dance.
So, anyway, so she he finallycomes, goes, hey, this is her.
And we're like you are real.
She's just like, okay, you areright, your friends are weird.
I'm like Cool, cool, cool.
And then she was like, oh, thisis my sister, my younger sister
, you know.
And I was like, hey, how's itgoing?
I had my other friend with me.
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I'm like, hey, this is my buddy, you know, we're all hanging
out.
And, you know, went to the dance, hung out, danced, and usually
after like the dances and stuff,people are like, hey, mike,
where are we going?
And like we had friends likethat's, you know, french side,
english side.
This is pretty cool.
Like those are multi-languageChurch unit.
There's like English speakingpeople, people Spanish, mandarin
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and French and so on.
But yeah, and like we all Somemost of us were bilingual or
twiling wool, so we all startspeaking to hang out with each
other.
But I was like Mike, what are wedoing?
So sometimes we want bowling,sometimes we went to the movies,
sometimes we want karaoke, wewent to restaurants, whatever,
right.
So I was like, oh, I look overat my buddy.
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I'm like, hey, everybody, let'sgo to my house, my house in the
middle of the street.
Okay.
So I was like, let's go to myhouse and hang out.
You know, I got a pool.
I said the house is kind ofunder renovations, like the
kitchen and stuff, but you know,we still have access to the
swimming pool and we'll stillhave access to like hanging out
and watch movies or just hangout and talk, right.
So we're like, hey, buddy,bring your girlfriend.
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You know she's like I'll bringmy sister.
Oh, yeah.
And then, what?
A couple other guys came and meand Another buddy of mine were
all hanging out.
So we all drove into two, threedifferent vehicles to my house,
which was probably about like40 minutes away from where we
were, and then, of course, likemy buddy With his girlfriend,
came the sister Came and she satin the front with me and then
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we're just hanging out talkingand I'm just being a nice guy
because I give up.
I'm a lot of, I'm like I don'tgive a crap, I'm done, I'll just
being the nice guy.
Like, even at the dance I dancedwith everybody.
You know, I don't care, I justwanted to dance.
People's girls asked me that,hey, you want to dance?
Right, I want to dance.
We're just hanging out danceand I just wanted everybody and
this wasn't, honestly, my goal.
Okay, like, maybe on theoutside people like player, your
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player, you're douche.
But I was just like I wantedeverybody to feel happy and
special and important, right?
So, like even people thatweren't being asked to dance,
I'll be like, hey, you want todance with me?
Like what, why you want todance?
I'm like, why not?
And you know, have a good timewith them.
And I didn't think I was like areally hot guy or good-looking
guy or Whatever.
But you know, a lot of girlsfound me cute and attractive and
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maybe I was pretty good lookingyounger when I was younger, not
now anyways.
So, yeah, so I mean I waswanting people to feel happy and
loved, like I'm just feelspecial.
Because I want to feel special,I start, you know, I started at
a young age going.
You know I'm gonna talk topeople and you know stuff like
that the way I want to betreated, I'm gonna treat them
the way I want to be treated,because I want to be treated and
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feel like Special or importantor cool.
Then I want people to feelspecial, important and cool
because I want to feel that way.
That's just the best way tolive, I find at least it worked
for me anyway.
So we're just hanging out, andthen Her little sister hang out
with me.
She was like 18 at the time orsomething so about.
And oh yeah, so I wasn'tengaged.
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We broke up, so I'm about 21years old, she was like 18 or
I'm 22, something like that.
So she's like three, four yearshere with me and anyway.
So we're just hanging out, I'lltalk, and then you know I'm
like so how did you meet my youknow so-and-so?
And she's like oh, it'sactually pretty weird.
It's through a friend who says,hey, you should talk to this
guy, because this guy has afriend In Montreal, quebec, and
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these people from Toronto, soit's pretty far drive, anyway.
So then she's like, okay, andthen they started talking to
each other and it clicked, Iguess right, and I was like, oh
cool, I think I'm just makingeverybody have a fun time.
So we went to my house I'm likeswimming, you know, will once
women in the pool hung outwatching the movie, thought
nothing of it, and then likethey all left and then I stayed
(20:47):
home because of my house and myother buddy stayed with me
because he lived with me at thetime and I was like that was fun
.
He's like, yeah, I'm like, didyou think she was cute?
Because the other girl, thesister, was more his age,
because he's like three, fouryears younger than me.
And I'm like, hey, was that fun?
He's like, yeah, I'm like, doyou think find her cute?
You know, you know, I want togo on a date with her.
I can, I can make a phone call.
He's like, no, I'm good, we'regoing Alberta.
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I'm like, yeah, alberta.
So didn't think nothing of it.
And then, you know, a few monthslater, my buddy was like, hey,
I remember a few years ago hesaid you'll take me anywhere as
long as there's a hot friend foryou today.
I'm like, yeah, he was remembermy girlfriend.
He just met like a Few monthsago at the Dan.
I'm like, yeah, he's like well,she has a hot friend.
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I was like, oh, she better behot.
He's like, yeah, yeah, yeah,yeah.
I was like okay.
I was like, let's when do wantto go.
It's like we go on the weekend,you know, stay like Go Saturday,
leave Saturday morning earlybecause it's a six hour drive,
and then Meet up with the girlsfor the day would go like
Canada's Wonderland, sleep over,like stay wherever you know.
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He's like maybe you can stay atmy girlfriend's house.
I'm like, yeah, cool.
He's like, yeah, then we couldsleep over and go on some more
dates and drive home for Sundaynight.
I was like, okay, sounds good.
So we're driving, we're justhanging out, talking for like
the six, seven hour drive there.
And then we pull up in front ofhis girlfriend's house and he's
like Then I look and I see I'mlike, oh, it's not your
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girlfriend's younger sister.
He's like, yeah, I'm like cool,why she's standing outside.
Well, I didn't want to tell youthis, but she's your date.
I'm like what?
And don't get me wrong, she's agood looking girl, but like
three, four years younger thanme.
I was like I want somebody moremy age I'm 21, 22 and she's
like 18 and and I'll, she'll.
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And I was like what the hellhe's like if I told you you
wouldn't brought me.
Like yeah, and I was like,whatever, you know, I'll go on a
date with this girl.
For you know, whatever I'm here, I drove seven hours
disappointed, but it's not somean, but I'm not mean.
And she was the same thing.
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So we hung out for a few hoursbefore Um, because we have to
wait for his girlfriend tofinish working.
So it's like, won't two hours.
So we just went to a park, hungout and talked and I'm just
talking to To her sister, andI'm like, hey, you know, she's
just being rude to me.
I'm like I don't want to behere anymore than you do.
She's like good, then just gohome.
And she's like I don't want togo on a date with you, but like
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my sister forced me to, so youwould drive her boyfriend here.
And I'm like, well, I got caughtinto it.
I'm like but at least you canpretend to be nice, like
whatever.
Like we're gonna be going onthese Dates, we're gonna go to
restaurant, we're gonna go toCanada's wonderland in Toronto.
We're gonna, you know, hang out.
So I'm sorry, but let's makethe best of this worst bad
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situation, right?
She's like fine, and like Ididn't care about her, like not
about her, I just, it was donelooking for love, I was done
looking for anything.
Like I was like whatever, I'mgoing Alberta soon.
And then we went through thedate and like hung out and you
know I made her feel special andshe was trying to be nice to me
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and stuff.
And then you know, we went homeand I was being like on the
next day and I was being mean tomy buddy like you, next time
you better make sure it's one ofher hot friends, not her blah,
blah, blah, blah, blah, right.
And then you know didn't thinknothing of it that a month later
she calls me.
She's like, hey, how's it going, mike?
I'm like hey, she's like mysister told me to call you
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because, like you know, the guywas my best friend, I need
dating her sister.
And she's like my sister toldme to call you because my friend
told your friend told her youknow that it's your birthday, so
happy birthday.
I'm like, okay, thank you.
We would talk sometimes just asfriends, like we became friends
, right, but I wasn't interestedin dating her because I'm going
Alberta, I'm not connectingwith her.
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I'm not interested in datingher because I'm going Alberta,
I'm not connecting with nobody.
I'm done, and and then a fewmonths go by and then I get a
phone call from another friendof mine who lives in Utah and he
was getting married.
He's like hey, do you want tocome to my wedding?
I'm getting married, buddy.
I'm like cool, cool, cool.
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So I was looking for flights,like cheap flights, I guess.
You know, I was working andstuff, and I had my one of my,
my businesses at the time.
But I wasn't, you know, as youknow if you follow the podcast,
I wasn't dedicated to mybusiness.
It was like contract basis andI had contracts.
I didn't have contracts but Ialways had a real job on the
side, stuff like that, butanyways, and I was like, yeah,
you know, look, and I guess thecheapest flight was from Toronto
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To Las Vegas and then there's abus I could take that takes me
into Utah, and that was thecheapest way.
And I was like that's cool,that's cool, but parking at the
airport in Toronto is expensive.
I was like, hey, so I call mybuddy.
I'm like, hey, your girlfriend,how far you know?
Is there buses or trains thattake me to the airport in
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Toronto from her house?
He's like, yeah, I'm like, okay, I'm gonna call.
So I call like hey, it's Mike,can I speak to so-and-so?
I'm like, okay, and then youknow, hey, your friends calling.
You know, I'm like, hey, I'mgonna be in town, going to the
airport in Toronto, cuz I go toa wedding in Utah and my buddy
and his mom and his dad were sointent in setting me up with
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somebody, so I would like fallin love and Stay in Utah and
hang out with them, because westill like it's a long story but
maybe I'll talk about thatlater in another episode, but I
might have mentioned it a fewtimes.
But they were people that moved.
They've lived in Montreal for awhile and I lived with them for
a bit and because I was bestfriends with their buddy, with
their son anyways.
So I was like, hey, is thatcool?
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I'm like maybe we can hang outand then, you know, I'll leave
my car in the driveway and takethe bus to the airport, cuz I'm
not paying for parking.
And she's like, yeah, yeah,whatever, I'll talk to my
parents, yeah, that's okay.
I'm like, okay, I'm coming.
So I said what day I was coming.
I drove down so we hung out wejust want for a walk, and just
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hung out and then, I don't know,we just Started talking and
then she was like you know,you're a lot more cooler than I
thought and I'm like IAppreciate that.
I'm like you know, you'repretty cool yourself.
So Like, yeah, that you know,that's pretty cool.
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We hung out and just talked forlike hours and I'm like, well,
you know, I said when I comeback, you know I'll see you for
a little bit before I drive home, like we can hang out and talk
like we're becoming good friendsnow, right, she's like, yeah,
so then I Got on the plane, flewLas Vegas, and then it was a
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six hour wait for the bus totake me to Utah and I get there.
My buddy was gonna drive anhour to pick me up, but he's
running late.
Anyways, digress.
So I was pretty much hanging outin Utah.
We did all this fun stuff.
There's things called likeZion's Canyon as we went to.
There's things called theNarrows, I went to walking and
stuff.
And I was hanging out with mybuddy's parents because he was
my buddy, was just getting readyfor the wedding, so we hung out
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a little bit, but he wasstressed with the wedding and
stuff.
And then I was hanging out withhis dad and the dad's just like
, hey, you know, is thereanybody, any girlfriends or
anything, any love going on foryourself?
And I was like yeah, not really, I don't care, I'm sort of I
want to move, maybe to Albertaand whatever.
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I'm just giving up on, you know, chasing love and stuff.
He's like, oh, that's okay, Ididn't know.
While I was in Utah, like that,the different, like at the
wedding and stuff, there's allthese people, my friends, like
hey, meet this girl, she's cute,meet this girl, meet this girl,
like she thinks you're cute.
But you know, I'll just likecool, hanging out, dancing, you
know, talking to people, but itjust I don't know, just none of
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them did anything.
And then I was just sittingthere like at the house, just my
buddy's house, cuz, stay therefor a good week or so.
And then he got married I'm nothanging out with him, I'll say
off his parents at his parentshouse, and I was just like you
know.
And then his mom likes did youstart anybody in your life that
you like?
I'm like, no, not really, youknow, but I just felt like I
wanted to go home and hang outwith this girl again and Toronto
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.
So I was like called her and Iwas like, hey, it's Mike.
She's like, oh, hey, having funin, you know, utah at the
wedding and stuff.
I'm like, yeah, it's pretty fun, it's pretty cool.
So Las Vegas is really cool.
You know, when you land in LasVegas you can see the strip
hills at night.
You can see it all lit up.
It's pretty cool.
And you know, flying over thedesert, I was like, oh, it's
really dark Driving through thedesert all the way to Utah.
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It's pretty fun, you know.
I was just like, yeah, it'spretty good.
But I was like, hey, I got aquestion.
I was like, would you mind If Icome home, come home, if I fly
back to Toronto a day early andhang out with you, so we can
hang out a little bit before Ihave to Drive, go home the next
day to work and for contractsand stuff?
I was just like, oh, yeah,that'd be all right.
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You don't want to stay there.
I'm like, well, no, it's, youknow, he's gotten married and
hang out with his parents, Iwould, he's busy, so I'll just
fly back a day early, if thatworks for you, if I can change
the flight.
So I called the airline and,yeah, it turned out I could
change the flight.
It was actually cheaper andthey give me meal, they gave me
money back and stuff like that.
So, whatever, I was just like,yeah, just going with the flow,
right, I'm just surrendering,going to the flow.
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So I flew back and then, youknow, I got well, got back to
the house.
I took the bus from the airportback to the house and she was
in university at the time.
But she came back home fromuniversity I was like, hey, and
we're just hanging out andtalking, and we went for a walk
and we're just talking.
And then Something magicalhappened.
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You know, call it whatever youwant, right at the time.
You know, we were both in thesame Christian Religion, like
stuff like that, as we grew upwith the similar backgrounds and
stuff like that.
And at the time I was like, oh,you know, this is, this is the
way, but like we were walkingand talking, and then it just
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she said something and it's asif time stopped, okay, and I was
like, oh, and I was watching,you know, me and her, as if I
like was pulled out of my bodyand watching, talking and
interacting with each other, andthen just time froze and then,
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as if I went back and I rememberit like clearly, like a few
years earlier, when I was justlike I'm giving up, you know, on
love and all that.
I had this dream and I was justlike I don't know, floating
around in space, like like adark world or whatever and what
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not.
And Then I was just like what'syou know why?
You know, I'm like complaining,I guess, to the universe or to
God or whatever, just like why,how can I can't find love, how
can I can't find him?
It's me happy, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
And then there's a voice, and itwas a female voice and she was
like, hey, you know, when wemeet there's gonna be a certain
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phrase, okay, and Actually itcould be this situation.
And it was as if, you know, I'min this dark space.
You know, this is two yearsearlier and it shows me like a
scenery and Like the back of agirl that I was like talking to
and I'm in front and I could seemyself talking to her.
And then she was Talking to meand then she said this phrase
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that's like when that happensyou'll remember.
And no, I was like you knowweird dreams, like this is weird
dream, thought nothing of it.
I was like whatever, right, twoyears, we fast forward two
years now.
And then it is all just likeWhoo, she said this phrase, time
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stopped.
I pulled out of my body and I'mlooking at the exact same angle
where I was in this dream twoyears prior.
And she said the phrase andeverything just like oh, and I
just saw, like I can't explain,it's just a big rush of
information flowing to me likedownloading from the universe.
And then I was like holy smokesand then I got thrown back into
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my body and then she's likeMike and I was like whoa, she's
like what's up?
I'm like uh, and I'm justthinking like I need to be with
this person, I need to be withyou, there's something here and
I'm like tripping out, like Idon't know what the hell just
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happened and I'm freaking outand stuff, and I'm like I need
to be with you, I need to bewith you.
And she was kind of like.
I was like no, you have no idea.
I was just like you got tounderstand she, she was smart,
she would have ran, but like Iwas like you're wearing the
exact same outfit.
You were when he came to me ina dream two years ago and da, da
, da, da.
And this is what you're tellingme and this what you said, like
we need to be together andeverything just makes sense and,
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and you gotta understand, okay,I'm not, I wasn't into this
girl's, not like.
I was like, oh, wow, love atfirst sight, right, it was no, I
was just like, hey, what up,how's it going?
I'm like that's me too, youknow, whatever.
And just hanging out with herand stuff, like our first date
didn't go well as a blind dateand she was being mean to me.
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No, it's just like, pretend youlike, because everybody likes
Mike, but I don't know, it wasjust I Like this is it?
This is what love is, this islove, this is what I've been
prepared for, right, and we justlike we finished hanging out
and stuff, and like that nightwe're hanging out or looking
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like up at the stars and we seea little bit of the northern
Alliance and you know.
And then I was just like, hey,you want to be my girlfriend.
She's like, oh, okay, you know.
She's like, yeah, like sureI'll be your girlfriend.
I'm like, oh right, then webecame girlfriend, boyfriend,
you know, shortly after shetried to make up, she's like, ah
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, maybe we shouldn't like date.
Like I don't know, it's kind ofweird, your friends dated my
sister.
I'm like, no, we need to betogether.
I thought a vision we have tobe together.
But it was weird because, likeI never felt that kind of love
before.
I'm like like we're gonna havea different kind of love.
So you gotta understand.
Growing up the way I did, Ithought love Equaled lust.
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So if a girl would be like, oh,you know, start kissing me or,
you know, holding me, or let me,you know whatever, I was like,
oh, lust equals love.
Because you know my homework'sgoing crazy and and the religion
I grew up in, you know you'renot Having sex before marriage
or anything like that, rightit's.
You wait till you get married,right?
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That's the religion, that's howI grew up, that's, you know
what I was Instilled, right?
So I waited till I got married.
But I was like I need to beused on.
You know all this like hormonesand stuff, and I'm like I just
lost in every body in the worldand I used to think lust was
love, but it's not.
I ran.
If a girl kissed me, I'm likeshe lost me.
She holds my hand.
I'm like she loves me.
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If anybody shows me any kind oflike attention, I'm like she
loves me.
I'm just freaking out.
Yeah, everybody loves me.
Ah right, people show meattention.
They must love me, right?
And I was so confused what lovewas and I always thought I knew
what love was.
I was like this is love, thisis love.
And then, you know, I gotengaged.
I'm like this is love.
And then I was like, oh, thisis love, oh, this is a.
But this is what love is right.
I can't love somebody anymorethan I love you.
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And it was.
You know, we dated for likeeight months to a year that we
got married and she was like 19.
I'm 22.
We got married, got marriedyoung and stuff like that, and I
let this is love, you know, andI'm like every day looking at
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like, oh, this is love.
I'm like, oh, this is love.
And, yeah, I never, ever livedwith like a girlfriend before
because you're not allowed to dothat.
You know, in my, in thereligion I grew up in, it was
like oh no, you can only livewith, you know somebody of the
opposite sex when you getmarried.
So, anyway, so we're stillliving with each other.
I'm like, oh, I don't like thisidea.
So many of my bed snoring or Iwas snoring, she wasn't, she
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sleeps quietly or like takingall my sheets and stuff.
Like I had a small single bed.
I'm like we need a bigger bed,you know, and stuff like that
start getting annoyed and stuff.
I'm like, oh, you know, love,you have to work towards it.
Like whatever, like you know,um, stuff like that.
And there's times around like,oh, maybe I made the wrong
decision, and so on and so forth.
Right Now, cut some coin.
Well, love is hard, you have towork at love, right, and stuff
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like that.
And I would, you know, I wasalways, you know, in mainstream
media, right, you're not, yousupposed to love your wife and
appreciate your wife, but youalways joke about her and hide
the thing from her that she, Idon't know, Like because I swear
, I swear a lot, and she didn'tlike that, or whatever, right,
and stuff like that.
And yeah, I was like, yeah, Ifound love right.
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But you know what, we've beenmarried for 17 years and I felt
like, as around the 10 year mark, we kind of like, you know, we
had kids.
Three years after gettingmarried we had kids, so we're
just focusing on the kids, andthen, you know, we had one kid
and three years later we hadanother kid.
Three years later, another kid,right, and then it was hard and
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all this stuff and I don't knowlike there's a lot of thoughts
of like, oh, maybe I should justrun, get divorced.
Get divorced because, you know,I've seen people on times get
tough.
They just get divorced and runaway.
But I also saw people thatdidn't have a lot of
communication, like they justwent with their emotions and
freaking out.
Nobody really communicated.
So then, you know, I kind oflike my wife and I Been married
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10 years and it felt kind ofhard because now the kids are
getting older and we'redifferent people, like we're
different people, we're not thesame people we were when we
first got married, you know, 10years earlier.
And then, like, kind of like wekind of got to know each other.
It's like hey, hey, and youknow I fell in love with her,
kind of like wow, I neverthought I could love you anymore
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than I do.
And she's like oh, you know,and yeah, we had a lot of hard
times.
I'm not saying it's easy, butone thing we started learning
and realizing is communicationand the more communication we
had and just being straight up,honest with each other and flow
of communication and Not hidingnothing, like there's times when
she's like I don't think youknow, I don't want you spending
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money at the restaurants oranything, you know, after work,
just come home or stuff likethat, okay.
And then she'd like to spendmoney on.
You know, I like no, but mybuddies went out once McDonald's
, I paid for everybody, stufflike that, right.
And you know we'll start lying.
Oh, it's okay.
So a little white lies, okay,to tell a white lie, right.
And there was not communication, that open flow, and you know I
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got caught in lies because I'mnot a good liar, stuff like that
.
But I don't know, as the yearswent on, I remember there's like
points where we can.
I felt like we can choose to betogether or not and I just felt
pulled back, like I need to bewith this person.
I need to be with this person.
And it's my wife that startedreading Dr Joe Dispenza and
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Michael A Singer called theUntethered Soul and the
Surrender Experiment and stufflike that.
And then we, uh, I don't knowwe, we were thinking like we
left, like the religion we werein together, and she left first
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and then I left after, likemeaning like you know the
organized religion part.
We just walked away from allthat and kind of like bonded to
each other even more and thenthere was no more, like I don't
know.
It's like I don't knowsomething was moved and we're
just started communicatingbetter and talking better and
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and there's some things likeshe's like I want to go check
out you know this festivalcalled Ohm, or I want to check
out this you know festival andthis.
And I was like just so annoyedwith it, like a why do you want
to go do this stuff?
Let's just be together and stoptrying to like chase out all
the like the life you never had,I guess, like going all these
different events and stuff.
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But you know, we grew up in ourlife was our religion, so we
want to find ourselves and shewant to find herself, anyway.
So it was funny because, likeI'd be like I don't think we
should go to events and then youknow dirty hippies, stuff like
that.
But then when we went, somehowwe like bonded more with each
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other and stuff like that andlike it's hard to explain, but I
, we find that the key tosuccess in our marriage and
we've been married 17 years nowIs that we decided to have open
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communication before it was toolate and just started talking
about everything and just beingcompletely open with each other
and then it just helped us havethis bond and this love.
Like you heard me talk aboutother episodes earlier in this
season.
You know episode one and two.
I was doing that 10 daymeditation retreat and I just
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want to be, you know, my wife'sarms and stuff and just be with
her and our love is so strongand so amazing.
And yeah, we have hard times,we fight, we bicker, like every
married couple.
Sorry, I'm gonna cough here,sorry about that.
I forgot to bring a bottle ofwater and I felt like the
universe be like, hey, don't getyour bottle of water.
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I'm like I'm too lazy to goback out in the warehouse to get
some water and do the podcast.
I can work through this.
Yeah, well, the universe wastelling me what I need to do.
But, yeah, it's just amazing tome that, like the moment I gave
up and stop chasing and justlet things happen and just went
with the flow, before I evenknew what that meant, just
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trusted the universe and theguidance of love and and this
world, and I really feel like asI do, like meditations and
stuff like that like I feel suchan amazing connection With my
wife and like I couldn't havemade it A better decision or
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found somebody better.
And you know people say, well,you know you can learn to love
anybody, blah, blah, blah.
I believe me, on the shadow ofa doubt, that you know my wife
somehow figured out how to.
You know, with quantum physicsor all the different you know
realities happening at once.
You know, like we learned inthe movies, right, all the
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different universes, allparallel universes with each
other that have slight littledifferences, and that she found
a way to jump over and be like,hey, out of all the different
you know parallel universes, theone where we were the most
successful when we were together.
And then she made it happen.
I like, yeah, teach me.
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So her higher self came andvisited me of a younger age and
just like, hey, this is what'sgoing to happen, don't worry
body.
Needless to say, I never movedout west, but yeah, there's
something to it and I do get alot of requests and people
talking to me about, like youknow, talk about love, or Talk
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about the different paralleluniverses, or talk about, you
know, dreams.
What dreams mean?
The dreams mean anything, stufflike that.
But you know, in the end I saythis all the time, but it's so
true and it's about yourpersonal beliefs and you are
creating your personal reality.
So for me, what needed tohappen happened and I believe
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right and nobody can tell meotherwise.
And you know that my wife'shigher self found a way to
communicate with me and I waslike, okay, you know, maybe our
higher selves are still together, hanging out.
I don't know.
But, like Mike, proof to meabout those different parallel
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universes.
Go to this parallel universeand talk to me, or do this or do
that.
Go to the future, go to thepast, right.
But who cares who's right andwrong in the end?
Who cares which religions rightor which religion people
believe, which one's right,which one's wrong, or this is
right, this is wrong.
It doesn't matter.
If you believe it's right, it'sright for you, if you don't
believe it's right, it's notright for you.
And even some people are like,oh well, you were in religion,
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mike, and you left religion,like you must have seen miracles
and stuff.
I said, yes, I did see a lot ofmiracles and I performed
miracles are you know and allthat.
But it doesn't you know, it wasright for me at the time, for
my flow of my projection and formine and for, like for me, my
life.
I felt like, since I left forme I'm not telling people to
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leave religion, I didn't evenwant to talk about this at all,
but I just just came out, justtrust in the flow.
But For me it felt like Ireached the information lot in
that religion that I was in andthat, in order to expand, I need
to move on.
And, yeah, the knowledge Ithought, I thought I knew
everything then to now it's like, oh, a lot different, like I
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know a lot more stuff and I havea lot more Information and
experiences in this world andit's just yeah.
So it doesn't matter right,who's right, who's wrong, or
this is real.
This is not blah, blah, blah.
It's.
What matters is, if you believeit, then it is real for you.
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Because I'm telling you and forthose who are listening to me
are not like, I guess, like newwish to the law of attraction
and two things I'm talking about.
You'll understand, but Realityis what you make it, that's all
there is.
And in this reality, this isthe only reality where we are
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right now, and I'm telling youonce again, this is the only
reality where we are right now,where you can turn thought Into
a physical object, but we limitourselves, like what you think I
could make a cheesecake appearin my hand.
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Hey, man, just like to move inthe matrix.
Right, stop limiting yourself,stop, you know, whatever.
If you want to see the realworld, you got to decide what
the real world is for you.
Is it numbers, like in thematrix?
Is the matrix telling ussomething?
Is the matrix a movie that myhigher self put together to show
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me, to explain to me things?
Because every time I watchcertain movies, I'm like there's
something to this.
I feel like there's a messagefor me.
Maybe there is, maybe thereisn't, but it doesn't really
matter Because in the end,whatever's gonna happen is gonna
happen and I choose To live thelaw of attraction, to live the
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law of the universe and feel thedifferent frequencies and to
Just trust, to trust the process, because this was working for
me.
That's what's getting me througheverything and stuff like that,
like there's so many times inmy life and if you think about
it, I just told you the story ofmy love right, finding my
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everlasting love, and and howamazing and connected we feel,
and that it's all aboutcommunication.
Okay, communication,communication, communication,
communication.
Okay, I'm telling you now opencommunication Works for us.
That worked amazingly, likeEven to this day, like I'm like
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I think we reached the pinnacleof love, I can't love you
anymore.
And then something happens andlike we're together and I'm like
I love you.
All right, differentexperiences in life or whatever,
right, but just Talk, right,feel like, hey, this is
something I an idea, this isstuff, this is I'm just have
open communication with yourpartner.
Okay, because there's so manytimes I watch movies, tv shows
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I've seen it in real life whenno one's having open, true
communication and I'm justgetting divorced.
Everybody just gets divorced.
It's always oh so easy.
I'm walking away, I'm done.
You don't want to listen to me,you don't want to do what I
want, I'm out, right, just opencommunication, and you'll find
and just Love and just behappier.
And if you find that you're in arelationship and you're like,
with open communication andeverything, and you still like,
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ah, you know, maybe they're.
You know, whatever you gotta do, what you gotta do for me, this
is my world and my life, andthen working for me very well,
and If you think about it, okay,so my friend who was dating
that girl in Toronto and he's inMontreal, she randomly set her
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from hey, I have a friend talkto him and asking for this guy's
, you know, back then MSN numberat email address or whatever,
so you guys can talk in MSN,right, or AOL and all that stuff
, right.
And Then she did it and then,you know, is the faithful moment
of her coming to visit him andshe had an uncle, I guess, in
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Montreal and she's like told heryounger sister to come with me
Please, and that like there waslike a second where she wasn't
going, but she just like,whatever, I'll just go, whatever
.
And Then we met and then wedidn't connect or nothing, but
all those little things likenudges of the universe that you
know my buddy's like hey brothertime and I was like yes, or
whatever was to do this, becauseif I said no, then no, it was
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over.
And then that little nudge oflike coming back a day early and
Stuff like that, like it'samazing how the universe
orchestrated the whole thing forus to be together and it was
all because I gave up and justlike, whatever I Let love come
to me, I'm stopped running afterit, because every time I run
after it runs away and I think Iknow what love is and I'm not,
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and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Right.
So yes, it's not hard to findlove, trust and open your heart.
But first you got to loveyourself, you have to love the
world, you have to love peopleand your friends that are around
you.
You got to love everybody.
Just see how amazing this worldis and just have that love in
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your heart.
Just let your heart open withlove and just explode with love.
And I know it's hard.
Sometimes you meet some peopleare like that person doesn't
deserve my love.
I give you hate, right.
But Just try, just open yourheart, love and find the
frequency of love and Then I'mtelling you, the universe will
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just work its magic and, beforeyou know it, you'd be like, huh,
this is what love is, that yougo through and be married for 17
years plus and Still falling inlove and be like I don't
understand how I could lovesomebody and even more and more
right, just opening your heart,and I need to fill with love and
joy and compassion and howamazing this world can be with
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that it's.
It's simple like I never thoughtit'd be the simple to manifest
and to create whatever you want.
Like it's crazy, like Icouldn't Do all this stuff.
I'm not that lucky right whereI could have all this stuff
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happen, where I can pick theright stocks at the right time,
and just felt a little smallvoice, little nudge hey, look at
stocks, hey, type this into thesearch bar and Google a lot,
look for this and hey, you know,be here at this time and stuff
like that.
And then Whatever right, andjust start meeting people and
like, hey, this is a businessthat you got to do and just do
it this way, and then I set itup and then you just kind of
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trust and Stop trying to controllove, stop trying to control
money, stop trying to controleverything and just let it
happen and Trust that yourhigher self, that God or the
universe, mother Earth, whateveryou want to call it is gonna
guide you and you're gonna feelit and just follow the flow of
the universe of love and of lifeand Everything of your wildest
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dreams will come your way.
You could think of it, put itin out there and Boom you,
you'll create it.
I'm telling you this world is aworld where you can create from
a thought and Manifested into aphysical thing and bring things
to you.
It's all up to you how you wantto do it.
Do you want to have a hard life?
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Do you want to believeeverything?
You're told?
How hard life is, how hard isto find love, how hard, how hard
, how hard.
And you have to give upsacrifice, like you heard in my
last episode, you got tosacrifice all this stuff if you
want things.
But I don't believe any of thatcrap.
I don't believe you have togive up and Sacrifice all this
stuff to get what you want.
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I don't believe I have to giveup you know, my amazing marriage
with my wife in order to haveabundance.
Or I don't believe I have togive up Abundance to have this
life.
I don't believe any of that.
I believe I can have it all andeverybody deserves to have it
all that they want.
You could have a hard life andeasy life.
It's all up to you.
I Know it sounds crazy.
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I thought it was crazy when Ifirst heard all this stuff.
But put it to the test, put itto the practice, test it, put it
out there, push it, test it.
Man, nothing you can do Like.
All I can say is do anexperiment, like I did.
Find your experiment, find theway where you can hack this
world and hack it and Make yourworld so much more better,
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because I got so much amazingstories coming their way about
all sorts of amazing people andstuff that are coming across and
who knows but yeah, he's alittle tidbit, you know.
So we sold our house back in2018, 2017 just our traveling.
It's like you heard in a lot ofmy episodes where we were gonna
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travel to the US, livingFlorida for six months.
You know, we had a trailer anda truck and we pull it around
and stuff and living Canada forsix months.
And you know now it's our planand it was working great.
And then, you know, 2020happened, we came back to Canada
and then we weren't allowed toleave Canada for two years
because our government's crazy,I don't know.
But anyways, I don't want tosay anything, getting trouble, I
(55:44):
hear noxious or they're here toget me, but anyways, so yeah.
So now we're like, well, maybewe should get a house.
And I was like, pushing, weshould get a house in Florida,
we should get a house in Florida, we should get a house in
Florida.
But I was like, you know, I'mdone pushing, I'm done chasing.
I was like, if it's meant to be, we're gonna manifest a house,
we'll manifest the money for thehouse, we'll get the right
contracts, we'll win the lottery.
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I don't know what we'll do, butas self-employed individuals in
Ontario, canada, it's hard toget a mortgage and if you do,
you're paying like a higherinterest rate, like eight to ten
percent interest rate.
And Houses are stupid inOntario in the sense where
they're worth, you know, worthfour hundred thousand they're
selling for like nine hundredthousand to a million, because
(56:26):
that's the market stakes, right,but it's slowing down, anyways,
but anyways, it's ridiculous.
I was like, whatever, we'll justmanifest that we'll get the
right place, we'll be able toget the mortgage, will be able
to whatever just month'smanifested and go at the
universe do its thing.
I'm gonna set it and forget it,like I preach to everybody and
I tell everybody and, yeah, itworks.
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I'll probably talk about thaton the next episode, but I just
want you to know you are notalone in this world.
There's a lot of people outthere in this world, in this
universe, that are just like youand me, right, but Just know
that life doesn't have to be ashard as you think it should
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because of all thepre-programming.
It's enjoy life, love life,choose your reality, make your
reality a Reality and just putit out there and create, and
create, and create.
And I'll get talk a lot moreabout that in this season and
I'm gonna be good as more peoplesaying I'm letting my crazy out
, who let the dogs out.
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But yeah, we're gonna bring ina lot more people to interview,
a lot more people to talk to andstuff like that, and just
Hopefully things will work.
And you know, send me a quickemail, let me know say, hey,
here's my story, share it, andI'll be more than happy to do
that.
Once again, you can reach me atlife changers mic at gmailcom.
That's all one word lifechangers with an s mic at life
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change at gmailcom.
That's life changers mic atgmailcom.
And tell me if there's anythingyou want me to talk about.
Tell me.
Tell me situation and whatyou're struggling with.
I'm more than happy to turninto an episode and you know I
could.
I'll email you back and let youknow and send you the link for
the episode.
When it comes about stuff likethat, I'm more than happy to do
all that stuff.
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I'm checking the emails dailyBecause we're getting more and
more traction, so let's justmotivate.
I'm here to motivate and helpyou.
That's all I'm doing.
I'm telling my stories in themeantime and Situations as I'm
going through and learningthings and I'm manifesting
things from how I do it.
But I'm here to motivate youand help you create what you
want to create and help youachieve your wildest dreams.
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Just know that you're important, you're loved and I do love you
everybody.
Thank you very much forlistening and once again, this
is Mike with life changers.
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