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February 26, 2025 22 mins

If Self-Doubt Is Holding You Back – It’s Time to Awaken your Awareness🔥

Self-doubt is holding people back.

Self-doubt is killing dreams. Killing bodies. Killing energy. Making people broke, sick, tired, and lost. But it’s not your fault—you were never taught the truth about who you really are.

You are NOT just a body. Not just a mind. Not just a job, a bank account, or a list of responsibilities. You are an infinite, creative, powerful being tapped into a universal energy—an energy of love, light, and life. And when you align with it, EVERYTHING changes.

We’ve been conditioned to play by the rules of the 3D world—go to school, get a job, fit in, do what’s expected—but we were never told that we could create life on our terms. That the real game isn’t about struggle, but alignment. And now, more and more people—entrepreneurs, spiritual teachers, thought leaders—are finally speaking this truth.

It’s time to break free. It’s time to receive what’s already yours.

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Coach Tom (00:00):
Self doubt is killing, killing, killing
dreams, killing bodies, killingcells, making people fat, making
people poor, making peoplefight.
Because we doubt our trueselves, There's something I
really want to share with youbecause I have a feeling that
you needed to hear it as much asI did.
I love having conversations withpeople who know that we are more

(00:22):
than our body and we're morethan our brain.
We're more than our bankaccount.
We're more than our circle offriends and our family.
That we are this amazing Sourceand re receiving center of love,
light, and life, and that that'swhat's really going on.

(00:43):
Like there's a really biginfinite game going on behind
the scenes.
That's the game of life, thelove of life, and it's gonna
keep going on.
It's been going on forever.
So my name's Tom Miller and I ama teacher.
I taught elementary school thatbecame a fitness professional
that had a little, uh, had abreak in there for some

(01:07):
incarceration and some.
Addiction, we'll get to thatlater, who's now just devoted to
the truth, sharing my personaltruth, hoping we can all align
more with the truth.
And here's the thing, I'm notalone.
I am seeing more and more andmore YouTube videos, books from

(01:28):
people other than Eckhart Tolle,people back from Neville
Goddard, Neville.
Naval recently.
I mean, there's so many, evenAlex Ramosi, one of the best
business coaches in the worldand his wife, Layla, they are
referencing these spiritualprinciples all the time.

(01:49):
That's why they're sosuccessful.
So by the way, money, I am notsaying don't have it.
In fact, you need it.
The more people that areawakening and sharing the
spiritual truth, this universaltruth, the word spiritual, the
word God, word, love, It justthrows people off, but just
think universal, universaltruth.

(02:09):
They are living by them.
They are extremely successful,but why are they so successful?
And people that are awakening,they call it a spiritual
awakening.
I feel like it's more likeremembering because there's
certain people that were born onthis planet and we knew right

(02:32):
from the beginning that there'smore going on than just our
bodies Our brains, our bankaccount, our jobs, our family,
our friends, our girlfriend.
And we became complacent becausethere's no outside evidence.
We didn't learn that in school.
We don't learn it from ourparents.

(02:53):
And if we did, then they're likehippies or witches or gypsies or
woo woos, and they just getlabeled as these things that
don't really fit into the lifegame.
Oh, recently I've come acrossEckhart Tolle I love.
Of course, Tony Robbins.

(03:14):
He's been talking about thephysiological way to connect
with this for a long time.
Change your story, change yourstate, change your, there's
something else.
Your actions maybe?
But, I love him.
Brene Brown, love her, and allof them are taking the life game
and they're integrating it everso slightly with this truth

(03:34):
that's going on and I recentlycame across Brenda Turner.
She's doing it.
She's just like me.
Well, she's way prettier, waybetter spoken, and way better
making videos than me, but she'ssaying the same thing and she
used to be a fitness coach, too,and she's like, What's

(03:57):
happening?
More and more people withfinancial success are sharing
this message and they're sharingthat the reason that the
financial success and lifesuccess and happiness, joy,
peace is happening is because ofthis alignment with truth, with

(04:18):
truth, with true light, withtrue love, light, and life.
That's the truth.
And there is an infinite sourceof energy.
That all energy flows from thatis love, light, and life.
And this energy allows us humanswith free will and a mind to

(04:38):
create, to create the lifeexperience that we actually
desire and that we wake up everyday, excited about, and to
create art in the form ofvideos, writing posts, songs,
chanting, music, meditations,movies.

(04:59):
I mean, art can come in so manyways now.
Um, This is art.
Like, for me, I'm not making avideo.
I'm going to share my truth inthe form of this art.
And it helps me.
That way I'm not scared.
I'm not scared to share itbecause that was the old story.
Us conscious, creative artists.

(05:25):
are struggling with an epidemicof self.
I mean, it's collective.
Even people that wouldn'tconsider themselves a conscious
artist, creator, share of thelight, share of the truth.
They just forgot.

(05:47):
They know that's in there, butthrough complacency, through
conformity, because no one elsewas telling them, Hey, this is
okay.
This is the, this is actuallythe truth.
What you've known and felt thiswhole time in your heart, in
your essence.
That was always been the truth,but because we all have this in

(06:09):
us and some of it is so strongand powerful.
It's always in the background,like humming, calling us, well,
humming.
But more and more people, David,that was his last name, David
Bayer.
I believe so.
I mean, awesome.
Eckhart Tolle, when I read hisbook, like my body, my body

(06:31):
vibrated, I felt like a weirdfeeling.
When I read See the Soul withGary Zukoff, I felt a tingle,
but I still didn't really go allthe way in because no one else
was playing by those universaltruths.
No one else was tapping intoconsciousness to actually get

(06:52):
through problems.
So I made money.
I had a mortgage, the family,the house, all that stuff.
And when that didn't really, uh,numb away, I Distract me from
this inner buzzing.
Ah, drugs, lots of drugs.

(07:17):
Of course, porn, gambling,overworking, overtraining,
working out, overeating.
I mean, I've had pretty muchevery addictive trade out there
you can name and they were allto just distract me I just to
numb that feeling of there'smore what you're doing is fine

(07:43):
But there's more underneath thatthat's what's gonna really feel
good to do.
we are a infinite abundant neverending source of energy that all
the religions are right, all thespiritual teachers are right,

(08:05):
but no one's so right thateveryone else is wrong.
What I'm trying to say is what'sgoing on with all of us doubting
our self worth, with lacking theconfidence to share our message
and move forward towards what wedesire.
It's because what we know on areally deep essence level that's

(08:31):
from universal intelligence,from the universal laws and
truths.
We have forgotten, pushed away,because we have conformed, we've
complied, we've followed therules so we can win at the game
of life.
People are proving every day nowthat you could win at the game
of life on the physical planebecause that's where we all are.

(08:54):
It's hard to pay much moreattention to anything besides
this 3D physical world becausethat's what we're experiencing
every day.
That's our life experience.
But we can have an amazing lifeexperience And still honor the
truth and you don't have to makea video like this and put
yourself out there and worryabout people not liking it and
it being lame.

(09:15):
You don't have to do that.
All we have to do is align withthis true essence, allow it to
flow in.
And when that happens, morepeople will appear in your life
to say, Hey, you're on the righttrack.
I believe that too.

(09:36):
I've known that too.
And they may even say the sameexact words you've thought to
yourself.
Right now, we are awakening at,it's evolving.
Like, we've evolved as humanbeings.
Prefrontal cortex evolved,allowed us to solve things and
figure things out.
Our bodies have evolved.

(09:57):
We have become a pretty goodoperating system.
But now, connection with ourtrue self, our consciousness,
our light, it's evolving.
It is beyond thinking.
I mean, it was before words andbeyond words.
Now, it's energy.
And now it's evolving acrossthe, this whole planet Earth

(10:20):
because more and more people areembracing this energy.
And this truth and they'resharing it.
That helped me realize, Hey, allthese thoughts and beliefs that
I've pushed down in order toplay the game, get a job, be
successful, have a good body,win, compete, all of those, you

(10:45):
can do them at the same time.
You can play the game on planetEarth as it's set up now, but
also have the truth leading theway.
We are encountering a dramaticepidemic of low self worth, of

(11:10):
self doubt.
Self doubt is killing, killing,killing dreams, killing bodies,
killing cells, making peoplefat, making people poor, making
people fight.
Because we doubt our trueselves, and you know it's not
our fault, it's not your fault,because you didn't know any
better.
Your parents don't teach it toyou, schools don't teach it to

(11:32):
us, but we know it's in thereand it's like we have to ignore
it.
And so we sort of have thiscognitive dissonance going in
where we know the truth, butwe're playing all the rules that
everyone else taught us.
Play the game of life, but do itin flow.
Do it with this infiniteintelligence and energy flowing

(11:53):
through you.
The reason it doesn't feelinfinite to you is the same
reason it didn't feel infiniteto me.
It's because we're not receivingit.
We're not allowing it.
We're blocking it with our selfdoubt, our judgments, our
labels, our to do lists, ourogres, the traumas of being

(12:17):
abused as a kid, of losingeverything, of being divorced.
All those traumas, I call themyour ogres.
They're just energy structures.
They are not the truth.
They will transmute.
And align with the truth youdefine today.

(12:37):
Now I'm here to tell you moreand more people are waking up,
awakening, embracing, sharing,and you have full permission to
allow the truth of what youtruly are, who you truly are,
and how powerful you are to setyou free.

(13:00):
There it is.
Know the truth and the truthshall set you free.
That's what they're talkingabout.
The truth is we are not separatefrom this infinite source of
energy.
We are absolutely connected andit's our mind, our emotional

(13:20):
structures and various otherenergy systems that shut us off,
but when we allow the truth toflow in, self doubt becomes very
secondary and eventually fadesaway.
When we align.
Our desire.

(13:41):
And by the way, desire is fine.
Desire means your soul, your,your mind, your awareness is
expanding.
You see things, feel things, andyou desire more.
Yes.
But right away, Source knowsthat desire.
Now we have to just allow andalign so we can see the actions

(14:01):
to take, the people we need tomeet, the people we need to
learn from, the people we needto teach and share with.
That way, our desire shows up inthe 3D.
And everyone says, how'd you doit?
And you say, I aligned.
I aligned with the truth.
And I'm not saying it doesn'trequire action.
It's a matter of takinginspired, aligned actions.

(14:23):
And you almost intuitively knowhow to do it.
But I have recently receivedlots and lots and lots of just
teachers pop up.
They don't know they're myteachers.
They don't know they'rementoring me.
But I'm watching and I'mlistening.
I mean, oh my gosh, those arethe same words, I think.
And hopefully something I'vesaid today is words you thought

(14:44):
before because words matter.
What's that?
There's another quote.
First, there was the word andthe word was with God.
There's a lot to that.
First of all, God, for me, God,get over to finding it.
I had a lot of issues trying tofigure out exactly how the whole
God thing worked.

(15:04):
All I know is a higher energysource.
It's love, light, and life, andit's giving us everything we
need, everything we want, andeverything we allow.
So, that truth though, that setsus free, is knowing that we are
directly connected to that.
And that we get to manifestexperience and create life

(15:28):
experiences for ourselves andfor others when we tap into
that.
And it's not as hard as doing ajob you hate.
It's not as hard as a to dolist, checking everything off.
It's not as hard as I've madeit, and maybe you're making it.

(15:52):
What makes it hard isself-doubt.
Unworthiness old programs thataren't true.
I don't know enough.
I don't have enough.
I've messed up so much.
There's no way I can do it.
It's all part of the deal.
Losses become lessons, and thoselessons are lessening the burden
of those past mistakes.

(16:14):
Creating space for truth.
Because imagine the presentmoment is this dot, and if
you're paying attention only tothis present moment, you can
create a line with truth andbeautiful, amazing art happen.
But if your present moment istrying to expand back to the
past, forward to the future,what you need to do later,

(16:37):
judging her, judging him,judging this, judging that,
comparing yourself, that presentmoment just like, it becomes
very chaotic, chaotic.
And we don't utilize our power,our authentic, true power.
A good way to look at it.
That's helped me.

(16:57):
And I hope it helps someonethat's watches this video.
We are energetic beings.
Call it spiritual, call itquantum, call it the Holy
Spirit, call it Jesus, call itMuhammad, call it whatever you
like.
But we're energetic beings.
God is an energy system as well.
We are part of that.

(17:18):
We are energetic beings having aphysical experience, but our
gift is intellect and free will.
Meaning we get to decide what wethink and what we invest
attention towards.
We get to become aware of whatour intentions really are.
Intentions are how you arefeeling about doing something,

(17:41):
about having something, aboutcreating something.
So ask yourself, how do you wantto feel?
And that will guide you towardsyour true desire.
Let's wrap it back up.
We are energetic beings having aphysical experience.

(18:07):
And we've been gifted with thisCPU.
Thank you.
This navigating receiving centerof our mind and our mind is not
our brain.
It's part of the deal.
It includes our subconscious,includes all the emotions and
everything's energy.
It's up to us to use our mind todirect attention.

(18:34):
Where our attention goes, ourenergy flows so true, but yet
we're not utilizing it.
So just ask yourself, becomeaware.
Where's my attention going?
Is it going towards what youdesire?
Or towards what you don'tdesire.
Is it aligning with truth?
The truth that will set youfree?
Or is it with the past and theregrets and all the other

(18:55):
gibberish, the mind traps, theogres that fog up the attention
flow.
We are energetic beings.
Having a physical experience.
Co creating our life experiencewith how we direct our
attention.

(19:17):
The Bible says it.
The universal laws say it.
All the hermetic principles sayit.
Baha'u'llah.
Brand, I mean it goes on and on.
Everyone's saying it, but we'renot embracing it as the most
important truth.
So if you've been strugglingwith self doubt, if you know
it's holding you down, lack ofconfidence, not finishing

(19:40):
things, not starting things,procrastinating, not sharing
your energy.
Those are past mental structuresthat are blocking you from
directing attention towards whatyou want.
They blocked me for years.

(20:00):
And let me tell you those arepainful suffering years today.
I feel a level of peace.
I have not felt in years.
I am not as wealthy as I will besoon.
I don't have the loverelationship that used to define
my value, but I don't have theself doubt always clogging up my

(20:22):
energetic systems more onenergetic systems in my next
video, because we are acombination of, I believe, six
energetic systems, physicalenergy.
Mental energy, emotional energy,relational energy, and the woo

(20:43):
energy, spiritual energy,quantum energy.
And then it all comes from oneenergy source.
And that is the one truth.
You always knew this.
I've always known this.
But through conformity,compliance, we've pushed it
down, kind of forgotten it.
Definitely haven't made it theguiding principle in our life.

(21:07):
But every single person that isliving a life of their dreams
with love, light, prosperity,abundance, safety, peace, they
have tapped in to the truth andit set them free.
This is available for all of us.

(21:28):
And just in case you neededsomeone to give you permission,
you have permission to remember,to embrace, and to let this
truth guide you.
It will solve the epidemic ofself doubt, unworthiness, lack
of confidence, and just gettingheld down by the past, or what

(21:49):
other people's opinions are ofus.
Helping me, and oh, I hope withall my heart it helps you.
Because if I'm helping you, itempowers me more.
There's a little bit ofselfishness to it.
Alright, we can all be rich, wecan all be healthy.
We can all be loving, loving,loving life.

(22:12):
We just have to remember thetruth.
All right.
I'm Tom Miller.
I love sharing my truth and Ihope that your truth resonates.
And if so, let's keep thisconversation going.
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