"Doctors Paralyzed Me When I Was Ten" Ft Destiny & Julia

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hahaha, except me and Max In the cut, we don't give
two chips and we don't give afuck.
It's what we do.

Speaker 2 (00:09):
And shit to prove we live a life, live a life to the
max, living life.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
Living life to the max, just like my bad girl,
hahaha, hahaha.
So uh, destiny, I heard youwere paralyzed before.

Speaker 4 (00:35):
Yeah, I like this one time, this one time, not this
one time so like when I wasgrowing up, I went to this
school and I ended up gettinglike super sick, like Valid,
yeah right.
So like licking shoes, you know, sharing drinks, getting a lot
of germs.
So initially my sicknessstarted out as pneumonia and

(01:00):
then it progressed and I endedup having my final diagnosis was
meningitis and sepalitis in thespinal cord, which at the time
was not well known.
So when I was going to thehospital I was being tested for
different things, like rabies,and so while they were trying to

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like figure out what was wrongwith me, why I was so sick, Like
they ended up giving me an MRI.
And this is like one of the lastthings that I vividly remember
was Going into like an MRImachine and they gave me this
like little balloon thing almost, and they're like squeeze this
if you need like us to pull youout, like if you feel
uncomfortable.
Um, so they did that.

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And then I went in and Iremember like it being super
weird, like all these sounds,and I don't really remember what
I saw.
But they pulled me out becauseI pressed it and then they like
put this deep ass needle in myarm and I was screaming bloody
murder, but it put me out.
So they pretty much sedated meand I ended up falling into a

(02:07):
coma for 10 days.
While I was in the coma, Istopped breathing.
I was put on a ventilator.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
So you fell into a coma, not because of what you
were sick with, but because theysedated you.

Speaker 4 (02:19):
I don't know how the story goes.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
But yeah, that's what it is.

Speaker 4 (02:23):
So they induced it because they were trying to
figure out, like, what was wrongwith me.
I was getting spinal taps, um,I don't remember a lot up until
the coma.
I remember waking up and peopleall around me and like I'm
being like, oh my god, she'sawake.
She's awake and I could talklike I wasn't.

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I was like paralyzed from theneck down so I couldn't move any
part of my body besides like mymouth, like so I could talk and
I could like move my eyesaround.
And I remember everyone beingaround me and them Everyone like
being like, oh my gosh, she'sawake, she's awake.
And they were like you were ina coma and I remember like
arguing and being like oh, Iwasn't.

(03:04):
What are you talking about?
And they were like okay, youweren't, like you weren't.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
They were like telling me so it just felt like
you took a nap.
Yeah, pretty much.

Speaker 4 (03:12):
I mean, that's what you're doing, right, You're
sleeping.
I remember dreams while I wasin the coma.
Yeah, I remember there was likea video game you could bring
into the room and I rememberlike being in the video game,
like my little cousin was likeplaying a video game and I guess
I was like in the game in mydream.
I remember my grandma, my dad'smom, came to see me and I

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remember like she was trying towake me up.
Like I remember like seeing herand like just like dreaming
about it in my dream, but it'svery, it's almost like an out of
body experience Because like Ididn't know what was going on
but I knew that I was like.
When I woke up, I knew I waslike remembering dreams.

Speaker 3 (03:59):
I know exactly what you're talking about.
I'm gonna make it like shortand sweet.
When I got my car accidenteight years ago, I was in the
military, you know.
Long story short, I drovehalfway home with a buddy and my
buddy was supposed to drive theother half and then, you know,
he fell asleep, unfortunately,cursed a car, breaking my neck

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by flipping the car, you know.
And I asked when I woke up formy coma I couldn't talk for 15
days, but after that I asked him.
I was like, hey, did thishappen?
Did this happen?
Did this happen?
And all of it happened.
So, yeah, it was like vividly,like just blur while I was in my

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coma, because obviously, youcan hear and your brain is
almost conscious, conscious,while you're going through this.
Did you hear the machines?
I heard the machines.

Speaker 4 (05:00):
So this happened when I was 10, so I know you said
eight years ago.
So this was 19 years ago for me.
I don't remember.
Damn you old I know.
So some of it would be like Ifsomeone like interviewed me
afterwards, I probably wouldhave said like, yeah, but I
don't.
I can't tell you for sure if Idid or not.

Speaker 3 (05:21):
The hospitals are the most terrifying thing,
especially without like beingparalyzed and stuff.
My family didn't find me for 18hours.

Speaker 4 (05:32):
Oh, they didn't find you for 18 hours.

Speaker 3 (05:33):
No, so was your family?
Well, no, I was.
No, my friend went back to basebecause he had to and I was in
the hospital and they couldn'tget into my phone and like they
were trying to look for me.
But all they have is a like catcard, which is a military ID

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card, and they're like, okay,all we know is that this guy's
in the military, so they're onthis wild goose hunt, you know,
trying to find me and my family.
But finally a nurse just said,okay, I'm going to use this
thumb to use, like, to open hisphone, because that was when
iPhone said the thumb thing.
So they did that and shemessaged my sister and my sister

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was there like two hours.

Speaker 4 (06:25):
Oh, wow, yeah, yeah.
So when I was sick, my mom likeasked them, like begged them to
like not set because they weregoing to send me home, because
they didn't know what was wrongwith me.
So I mean, if I went home Iprobably would have died.
And I remember vividly to likea lot, I was going downhill,

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like when I went into the coma.
I was going downhill so, like Isaid, all of my organs shut
down, I was put on a ventilator,I lost feeling from my neck
down and then I lost feelingfrom my feet up and I got it
back, like after I woke up, frommy neck down.
So they said that's prettycommon, when I guess that

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happens.
I don't know much about it, butmy mom was there the entire
time.

Speaker 3 (07:13):
That's amazing Family .
You know, blood is thicker thanwater and my family was with me
all the time and I was veryeven.
Now, like I was, I'm supposedto go to the hospital to try to
breathe on my own again.
Hopefully that works out.

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But I'm supposed to go to thehospital and they're all just
like allocating and, like youknow, like Trying to like figure
out, okay, who's going to be atnight with Max, you know,
rather than like leave me alonein a hospital room.
So it's cool that your familywas there.

Speaker 4 (07:50):
Oh yeah, I remember everybody telling me to like.
So I went to a very smallChristian middle school, st
Peter's in Schomburg.
The entire book like visitingbook.
They're like everybody's hereto see destiny, like Everybody
it.
Just it makes me tear upbecause it's like you need a
support system, like when you'redefinitely going through that.

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So that's amazing that you havethat now like as an adult like
still going through.
That is like I couldn't evenimagine.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
I mean you don't have that.

Speaker 4 (08:21):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
Like, yeah, yeah and uh, when I first got injured, uh
, the army kind of like you knowlike turned their back on me a
little bit like they.
They're like, because in thearmy you're just a number your
body?

Speaker 1 (08:35):
Yeah, they're a body and, honestly, they can't use it
anymore.

Speaker 3 (08:38):
So so, so soon as that happened like I felt like
betrayed by the military in away.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
I mean you're reminded me, why are you doing
that, talking about visitation,you reminded me when max, where
we were in the, it wasn't the er, but it was the intensive care
unit.
We had to put max in the icu,even though only because he was
paralyzed and on a ventilator.
He needed to be in the icu.
So we're in a section of thehospital where people are dying
yeah, on the brink of dying butmax has all these visitors and

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we're laughing and watchingcomedy shows and then cracking
up in the next room, whilepeople are with their families,
like you know, saying their lastprayers with other family
members, they're coming in.
Like yo too, like.

Speaker 3 (09:21):
Listen like to be honest, though, that that was a
really big scare, like as I wentinto sepsis.
I don't know if you know whatthat is.
It's, uh, basically when theInfection gets into your
bloodstream and my organsstarted shutting down as well,
and uh, luckily they were ableto save my life.

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That was about a year ago, anderic was there every single day,
you know so, and so was myfamily.
So I mean, like I'm happy formy support system and for the
people.
And that's why we started liketo max, you know, like for
people like you to come on anduh.
Yeah, you stuck with us and allthe other weirdos that we

(10:02):
interviewed, yeah yeah, and likemaybe you're gonna hit someone
home that's like you know,driving home like from work or
something they're gonna be likehey, I kind of went through
something like that too and youshould be a little Blessed for
what you have right now.
Yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
You're sure she's killing it too.
She's a homeowner.

Speaker 4 (10:25):
Go ahead, name my success.

Speaker 1 (10:28):
She's a six figure earner.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
She brought a height.
Come on now.
She brought a height woman onthe show.
That's my homie.

Speaker 3 (10:33):
Period.
Well, that's like a reallytouching story and I'm happy I
finally got to hear from you,because eric is uh told me A
little bit about you and alittle bit.

Speaker 4 (10:44):
That's surprising.

Speaker 2 (10:45):
I was like bro she got paralyzed just like you, got
an ocoma just like you and likesneakers, just like you.
I don't know what it is withthese.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
Damn, they need something about it.
Like, do you?

Speaker 3 (10:53):
know what uh?
Do you know what I take fromthis, though?
Well, you give me hope.
You guys, I've been paralyzedfor almost eight years now,
right and how old are you?
I was 20.
Now I'm about to be 20 yearsold.
Yeah, so I was Arched me first.

(11:14):
You're at Aries.

Speaker 4 (11:18):
You're at Aries, yeah the first day of Aries.
We not talking about Zodiac.

Speaker 3 (11:23):
That's my favorite subject.
She's like, she's like you're,aries, oh no, I can't do it.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
I can't now do it.
Now what?

Speaker 4 (11:32):
the Aries, we're leaving right now I can't
believe it.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
Sorry, I'm still.

Speaker 3 (11:38):
Yep, that's the.

Speaker 4 (11:39):
Aries thing Not a story Peace.
So I will say it's like it's alot different growing up, going
through like something like thatand like, as an adult, having
to kind of like Reset yourmindset.
You know what I mean, because,like, I remember being like 10
years old and being like I feltso bad I mean I still fucking do

(12:01):
.
Honestly, why did this happento me?
Out of anyone?
Like you have that mindsetwhere it's like why me?
And it's like you have to kindof grow up at some point because
there are people like, forexample, you like you're in a
way, worse predicament than me.
Like I was able to Start walkingagain and I got the feeling

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back in my legs which at thetime, a lot of people were
telling me that wasn't gonnahappen.
So I also put it to God that itwas like a miracle that I was
able to overcome what I wentthrough, because my so I don't
know if I even told this to Ericso my dad passed away in a car
accident and my brother killedhis best friend in a car

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accident.
So it's very it's home when Ihear people who either die or
get hurt in car accidents.
Like it's so.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
That's, I feel like, the most like I.
My best friend too.
When I was 20 she she passedaway in a car accident too.

Speaker 3 (13:02):
It's crazy because when I was in the car I was not
thinking that.
I mean, obviously I was justthinking about going home Seeing
my girlfriend, you know, I meanlike celebrating my birthday,
because it was March 24th wasthe accident and I was going
home.

Speaker 2 (13:20):
Yeah, just turned 20 and you didn't even collide with
another car, right?
No?

Speaker 3 (13:25):
no, you just fell asleep.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
Max was sleeping in the passenger seat.
His friend fell asleep.
The driver also fell asleepRight, so the driver fell asleep
.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
That's crazy.

Speaker 4 (13:39):
When I go on a road trip, I'm like I can't fall
asleep because I have to fullytrust the driver.

Speaker 1 (13:44):
I don't like road trips period anyway.

Speaker 4 (13:46):
It's like think about how often you get in a car Like
all the time I think we don'tthink about it.

Speaker 1 (13:51):
And then I mean also like being younger and like I
mean I don't know your situation, max, but like being younger
and like driving drunk or youknow whatever before Uber, like
we're old enough to where it wasbefore there was even Uber
around, so like we would justfucking drive.
Whoever was the least drunkwould fucking drive what a topic
to discuss on BlackoutWednesday.

Speaker 2 (14:12):
Oh my god, stop.

Speaker 3 (14:14):
But it's serious, so like Uber wasn't around when we
were growing up.
No, really Now you could justtake Uber and go home.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
Now there's no excuse .
Now you get a DUI and you'relike bro come on.

Speaker 1 (14:25):
Yeah, there was be better.

Speaker 2 (14:27):
I mean, I understand why females don't want to order
an Uber because there's someweirdos.

Speaker 1 (14:30):
No, yeah, there's a lot of like cases against Uber
drivers now.
But, honestly, like I mean,call a friend or something,
because we actually last week wegot pretty lit in the city and
she's like I'm gonna call you anUber.
But I ended up calling a friendto come pick me up and,
honestly, like I passed out inthe yeah there's no way, you're

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driving.
Yeah, I mean, I can understandwhy you wouldn't want to take an
Uber either, but like, call afriend or do whatever you have
to do, but don't drive drunk.
Yeah, wait it out, go to sleepin your car, whatever you have
to do, but like, don't do that,that's terrible.
Yeah, look at it taking lives.

Speaker 3 (15:07):
You know it's all crazy you brought up drunk
driver because when I was in thehospital, Shirley Ryan, not
Shirley Ryan.
I was at rehabilitationinstitute in Chicago.
So when I was in the hospitaland I see you Like when I first
got injured I miraculously gotbetter in 10 days.

Speaker 2 (15:29):
And.

Speaker 3 (15:29):
I was supposed to be there for two months but then I
went to RIC, right, and myroommate was a guy who got in a
car accident while he was drunkdriving and he had more movement
than me and I'm just like, I'mlike thinking to myself, why,

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why are you putting me next tothis guy that's fucking
complaining all the time,literally complaining, I can't
change the channel, my fingerhurts this and that, and he can
breathe on his own, and I'm like, and I'm thinking my head's
like you, lucky son of a bitch.

Speaker 1 (16:11):
No, understandable for sure, but you have to think,
like I feel like it's easy tocompare right, but they tell you
not to.

Speaker 3 (16:19):
No, and I learned that throughout the years.

Speaker 1 (16:21):
But I mean, I was trying to use it At the time,
right, yeah, for sure.

Speaker 3 (16:25):
I was just like getting my life together when it
came to the military, justtrying to go special forces, go
to the ranger yeah, Anythingpossible to be a good soldier in
the military.
That's what I was trying to do,and I guess God is different.

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But that's eight years later.
I'm talking to you guys.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
Honestly, that's good that you think like that
everything happens for a reason.
You know, like I think it'seasier to think like that you're
exactly where you're supposedto be right now.
You know like, whatever you'redoing, like even this, like yeah
, you guys are reaching out topeople that this has happened to
and, like you said, maybesomebody driving home from work

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or just like scrolling through,it's helping their day be better
, and if you can affect a humanbeing's day at all in any way,
that's like a special thing forsure.

Speaker 3 (17:22):
I mean, I know we're affecting yours.

Speaker 1 (17:25):
Yeah, it's the monocle.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
It's the monocle talking Alright, look, we got a
transition.

Speaker 3 (17:31):
Yeah, this little grab.

Speaker 2 (17:35):
I want to know what your guys is most awkward or
embarrassing dates that you guyshave.
Have you ever had to call eachother like yo?

Speaker 1 (17:45):
act like this in emergency.
Yes, I've done that before, forsure.

Speaker 2 (17:49):
Come on so to other people how not to go on a date
with a woman.

Speaker 1 (17:53):
I have a bad one.

Speaker 4 (17:55):
Go ahead.

Speaker 1 (17:57):
I hope the person Just send it to them.

Speaker 4 (18:01):
Send them the link.
I didn't even talk.
I haven't spoken to him inyears, but it was in high school
and this kid who I liked wasgoing to Bartlett and he had a
girlfriend.
But we were.
I don't know what was going on.
I was like 13, I don't know 14.
So I was like, oh, I'mdefinitely going to this guy's

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homecoming.
And this other kid who wentthere had a huge crush on me and
was like, oh, I want to go, Iwant you to come with me to the
homecoming.
So I was like fine, so I wentwith this man to this homecoming
and I don't know what I thoughtwas going to happen or what I
was going to accomplish.
But I got there and I was likeI need to get the fuck out of

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here.
Why?
Because I don't know.
I just was like he was tryingto dance with me and I was like,
nah.

Speaker 3 (18:55):
It's homecoming.
What do you mean homecoming?
I was so shady.

Speaker 4 (18:59):
I was so shady because I was like I just wanted
the other guy who I liked, whohad a girlfriend, to see me
dancing with him, because I knew, he knew that.
I knew that, like we like, wefucked with each other Women are
so complicated.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
What did you do?

Speaker 1 (19:16):
that was so bad who.

Speaker 2 (19:17):
The other guy, she just didn't like him.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
Honestly, let me pause let's do an interjection
If a woman doesn't like you,girl doesn't like you, no matter
what you do, period, it's notgoing to be attractive.
Like we are not going.
I'm so sorry.

Speaker 3 (19:34):
Oh my god like you never change a heart.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
You know when it is a change of heart like I don't
think ever, no, I can't Like.
If she doesn't like you, it'sjust not good, she said.
Give me money.

Speaker 4 (19:47):
So, yeah, no, in high school times are a lot
different.
We didn't have Instagram andsocial media to influence our
actions.
Well, not like that though.

Speaker 1 (19:57):
No, yeah.

Speaker 4 (19:57):
Not at the same extent.
So I ended up going.
My mom took a picture of me.
Oh wait, no, I drove, I drove,so I was at least 16.
And I was like, oh my god.
My mom called me and she said Ihave to go home right now
Because she found out that I hita car with her car.

Speaker 2 (20:18):
It was like a secret.

Speaker 4 (20:19):
You're just making shit up as you're saying it I
literally no, my mom neveractually called it's raining
right now.
But I just made up, I was likeno, and I didn't even give him
time to ask me what.

Speaker 2 (20:31):
And.
I was like I have to go and Ineed to let my dog outside.
Oh my god, I'm dying.

Speaker 3 (20:37):
That sounds like a great night.

Speaker 4 (20:40):
So this day for him I was like he was probably in awe
, Like I can't believe she justdid that, and I was like I
almost felt bad, but I was likeI blocked him from everything.

Speaker 3 (20:49):
Well, you're a fool.
I'm not the last.

Speaker 4 (20:53):
I was like I can't have a follow-up conversation
about this.

Speaker 3 (20:56):
I blocked him from everything.

Speaker 4 (20:58):
I ghosted him I feel bad Wait did you go to the?

Speaker 3 (21:02):
school.

Speaker 1 (21:03):
No, we were at a different school she wanted to
go to that school because theguy that she liked went to that
school and I was like I'm goingto show him he don't get real
jealous.
Bet you he didn't say shit toyou the whole time.

Speaker 4 (21:14):
No, he saw me and he was like, oh my god, hey, you're
here.
And I was like, yeah, and thenhe didn't go how I wanted to go,
so I was like abort, abort.
I got to go, I got to go.

Speaker 2 (21:26):
What about you, Julia ?
I know you got one.
I'm asleep.

Speaker 4 (21:28):
Oh, it's probably way worse than mine.

Speaker 1 (21:32):
Oh, I'm not going to lie.
I don't know.
Like you know, for me, I knowthere's too many no.
So for me, like I am veryparticular in who I'm dating, so
I make sure that we talk a lotbefore I date, like before we
meet up in person, because Idon't want it to be awkward,

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like I feel like I'm taking mytime to even meet with you face
to face.
I want us to have a good time,I want to have fun.
Who are you talking?

Speaker 3 (22:00):
about Like, like dating apps like Tinder or
something, or dating in general.

Speaker 1 (22:03):
Like when somebody's like.

Speaker 3 (22:04):
It's called a hinge.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
Hinge yeah.

Speaker 2 (22:07):
Or shout out to hinge .
It's.
Social media is basicallydating apps.
Social media is social media.

Speaker 1 (22:12):
I mean that's really how people meet nowadays.
I mean rarely have I metsomeone in person, like probably
the last few people I've datedhave all been over an app.

Speaker 2 (22:23):
That's because men are scared.
Nowadays they just want to spamthe deal.
Honestly, it is scary.

Speaker 1 (22:27):
I feel like you guys get you know denied consistently
, and that's scary.
I would be very scared to reachout to somebody as well.

Speaker 2 (22:36):
Listen fellas, you need to keep trying until that
denial feels like entertainmentto you.
That's so funny when you needto go to the gym and when you
shoot your shot and you miss,you need to be like damn with a
smile on your face and shootagain.

Speaker 1 (22:47):
Just be like damn, she's not for me.
Yeah, that's it.

Speaker 3 (22:50):
What do you girls feel is that it's a status money
looks game.
That's what you need.
You need status money looksgame.

Speaker 1 (23:00):
Focus on you.
Is it all of the above?
Focus on you and the rightpeople will come.

Speaker 3 (23:04):
I don't know.
I believe it's status moneylooks game 100%.

Speaker 1 (23:12):
All together.
Yeah, no, you do need that.
Yeah, but I think, like I justsaid, like focus on you, focus
on you and you'll attract thecorrect people.

Speaker 2 (23:20):
You ain't ever met a man that, like you, weren't
necessarily attracted to.

Speaker 1 (23:23):
Of course I have.

Speaker 2 (23:24):
He started making you like crack up, and you're like
wow.

Speaker 1 (23:27):
No, I love Honestly.
I'm more about personality.
If you can make me laugh, Ilove that shit.

Speaker 2 (23:32):
There you go, ugly kings.
There you go, watch them standup, study some techniques, say
some knock knock jokes, dadjokes.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
But no, I will tell you what is awkward, which I
hate, that people do in generalLike don't try to be too quick
with it, like just feel thevibes out.
If you are like trying to likekiss me too much or like hug me
too much, it's immediately uglyto me for sure.
Like I've had those dates wherethe day has gone OK and then,

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like at the end of the nightyou're expecting like a good
night kiss because like youbought dinner or like you know
something like that.
That to me is just really, areyou serious?

Speaker 2 (24:14):
Yeah, Max, like you ain't going to kiss me after
dinner, I'll scare you?

Speaker 1 (24:18):
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Listen, puppy, I can do my own,I can buy my own dinner.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
Max, spit it out.
Max, spit it out.

Speaker 1 (24:24):
What is that?
Listen you talking to a grownass woman.
Ok, I'll buy my own dinner.
I'll buy you dinner too, I'llbuy you dessert.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
All right, let's go after the podcast.
Go on, Max.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
No, I'm not saying Say it, say it, say it, go ahead
.

Speaker 3 (24:37):
I'm going to just like.
So I've been stuck in the housefor eight years, right?

Speaker 1 (24:42):
Right.

Speaker 3 (24:42):
And I've seen social media evolve, like as soon as my
accident happened.
That's when, like, social mediaevolved.
That's when, like, the filtersfor Snapchat was around, that's
when, like, all the hubs startedcoming up and I just constantly
hear like, yeah, fuck her, fuckher, fuck her.
Oh, yeah, it's a girl.

(25:03):
Fuck her, fuck her, fuck her.

Speaker 1 (25:05):
Damn.
Ok, so we're done.

Speaker 3 (25:07):
So when you said I just want a kiss goodnight.
I was like whoa, whoa, whoa.
That's actually kind of prettycool.

Speaker 1 (25:16):
No, I mean.
I mean, let's be honest.
So the kiss is an initiation,right?
How OK, if she's going to, letme kiss her, yeah, how far can I
get inside, you know?
And then maybe can I get inside, you know, like stuff like that
.
But it's a kiss is just asintimate as anything else to me
at least.
I'm not going to speak foreverybody, but this word.

Speaker 4 (25:39):
No, I mean guys will be like oh well, I thought.

Speaker 1 (25:43):
Yeah, like you gave me these signals.
Yeah, I mean in general.
So like I mean, maybe to youthat's different for me
Personally I mean and Destinyagrees like that's just not.

Speaker 4 (25:55):
It Like if you're trying too hard, the initial
like like I've had people takeme to dinner and then try and
kiss me and I'm like, yeah, theinitial like I don't want to
kiss you should be like OK, youknow, and then maybe wait for
her to like give you and alsoyour first time meeting, like we
just met.

Speaker 1 (26:12):
I barely know you.
This was a link you know like Icould have paid for the other
time.

Speaker 4 (26:17):
And you already trying to like get intimate with
me and touch my like.

Speaker 1 (26:22):
Touch my butt.
Yes.

Speaker 4 (26:23):
Anything, it's like I give you a handshake to a
stranger or a hug.

Speaker 3 (26:29):
I respect that.

Speaker 1 (26:31):
Yeah, you should respect boundaries.
That's what that's called.

Speaker 3 (26:35):
Literally, that's what I was saying is.
I respected that.
You said like you know.
You just like maybe a kiss, canI?
Rather than rather than likeyou know you hear them, fellas?

Speaker 2 (26:48):
Look, it's about boundaries, all right.
So we need to show them a goodtime, fellas, listen up Kings.
We need to show them a goodtime, I can't.
And we need to make sure thatthey go in for the kiss.
And when they go in for thekiss, when the time is right
going to the chair.

Speaker 4 (27:01):
We turn away and we look at them.

Speaker 1 (27:03):
We'll see how long we get to their own medicine.

Speaker 2 (27:08):
Try it.
Don't underestimate the art ofthe Thank you.

Speaker 1 (27:11):
Don't underestimate the art of the kiss on the floor
when she thinks, like when shethinks you're going to go in for
the kill, and then you kiss heron the cheek.
Embarrassing Right.

Speaker 2 (27:22):
Come on, a kiss on the cheek is so heartfelt at
times.

Speaker 1 (27:25):
Because on the forehead takes away anger
immediately.
Do you do that?

Speaker 2 (27:29):
You're pounding kiss on the cheek, so anger
dissipates.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
I'm fighting you.
Am I your toddler?
I just said I'm fighting you.
If I'm bad, you kiss me on theforehead.
We're fucking duking it out, ohit's so.

Speaker 3 (27:42):
You did that the other day.
I don't feel a problem, but itwarmed your soul.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
So good, no, so good.
They're underestimating the artkissing on the air Game I guess
I gave him a kiss on theforehead.

Speaker 3 (27:56):
No, I didn't, but I will.

Speaker 1 (27:57):
This girl you know oh , you're dating, Love her.
No, oh you don't.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
You got it, you got it.

Speaker 1 (28:04):
All right, we're going to cut this out.

Speaker 3 (28:05):
We're going to cut this out, don't even wait.
So what?
I?
So let's say what?
What makes men toxic?
I think you're asking us.
I think, yeah, I mean youshould probably ask yourselves
that.

Speaker 4 (28:21):
OK, well, by a licensed therapist, I've heard,
no, I've listened to a lot ofpodcasts about toxic
relationships.
Try to heal my trauma without atherapist, but it's the love
bombing, it's the gifts in.

Speaker 1 (28:38):
I hate that.

Speaker 2 (28:39):
Yes, I hate, and then I don't know what love bombings
.

Speaker 4 (28:42):
So love.
Bombing is buying gifts.
Buying gifts, attention, somuch attention and hanging up on
them so that.
So that's giving your 100percent Right.

Speaker 1 (28:52):
So then you take it away because then you take it
away.
And then they want it.
They crave it right Like I needit you were just giving
everything to me, victims ofthis to love bombing?
Yes, and I've also loved bombs,for sure, I think I don't.
I feel like I hate that we haveto gender.
We have to make it a genderlike oh, what makes man toxic,
what makes a person toxic?

Speaker 4 (29:09):
Yeah, because I do that shit too.

Speaker 1 (29:11):
Yeah, women do.
I do that, for sure, like, butI also I feel like I have an
addictive personality.
So if I like you, I like, Ilove you?

Speaker 2 (29:20):
You hear that.
Did you hear how hard it wasfor her to say love?
She's like, if I like you, ICan I spell it?

Speaker 1 (29:28):
all the time you know .
L U V.

Speaker 2 (29:31):
Muffin.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
Love, I love.

Speaker 2 (29:33):
L.

Speaker 1 (29:33):
U H?
I like L Y.

Speaker 4 (29:35):
I said I L Y.
I didn't spell it out.
It's not the same thing.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
But yeah, so I think that for sure.
Yeah, like that's what's sayingLove bombing is a thing for
sure.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (29:44):
But here's the thing Like where.

Speaker 2 (29:46):
So you're saying first I got to buy gifts.

Speaker 1 (29:48):
So write it down.
You know the vibe so.

Speaker 3 (29:51):
Love bombing is a like buying.
You like a purse or somethingit's buying.
It's just buying gifts ingeneral sending flowers, flowers
, edible arrangements.

Speaker 4 (30:01):
Calling her all the time, texting her all the time
it's, also when it's like so, atfirst you start doing that and
then you take it away.
That person to like Fuck getused to it.

Speaker 1 (30:13):
Used to it, yeah, where it's like they think this
is you when you stop doing that.

Speaker 4 (30:17):
You're the dopamine that that You're bringing away.
So now it's like so you're likefeeding for it?
Yes, you're feeding for it andyou're like now anytime they do
anything, and it's calledbreadcrumbs when they're like Go
ahead.

Speaker 1 (30:30):
Preach does teach us.

Speaker 4 (30:31):
Teach, sir, but you're just like oh my God, they
used to do like all this othergreat shit, so now we're just
like leading up to that now,because then they'll stop doing
it again.

Speaker 1 (30:41):
So I don't know, fuck up.
And then you're good morning,yeah, and then they'll mess up.
They'll mess up hard, and thenthey'll love bomb again, because
now it's like, and then you'relike, oh, when they mess up, now
I get this treatment again.

Speaker 2 (30:54):
You know, but I'm not going to lie.

Speaker 1 (30:56):
I feel like this generation I don't know how old
you guys are, but like I feellike this generation wants to
make a fucking word foreverything or a thing for
everything which I'm not mad atbecause I love, like the mental
health awareness it's reallygood but also I feel like you do
too much, like You're like, I'moffended because I do this, I
do it I don't mean to love bomb,but I, it's I.

(31:18):
So my mom shout out to Carla,carla, she calls it the
honeymoon stage.
She says I'm an expert at it.
Right, so I, I love love and Ilove being in love.
And I think, for me, like Ijust like I said, I have an
addictive personality.
So when I, when I like somebody, I want it all the time, I want
to talk to you.
I want you to know, I thinkyou're so special to me.

(31:40):
I think you know, I want you toknow that and I want you to
feel that.
Does it fade away after a while?
Yeah, but like that's thehoneymoon stage.
You know, now you get the realJulia, right?
You?

Speaker 4 (31:50):
get the word.
And now I'm a little board.
Yeah, like yeah, I say when youget married, that's the
starting.

Speaker 2 (31:56):
On that note.
What happens?
What do you got to do when youget that boredom you?

Speaker 3 (32:00):
know what happens when you keep it together.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
Honestly, I feel like it's really only been probably
one person that has really keptmy interest like that.
Like right now I am talking tosomebody but like it's hard,
it's hard to keep that, I don'tknow.
Like, I think like just keep itfun, keep it light.
I, I am deep, I like deepconversations too, but like make

(32:25):
sure that we're having a goodtime.
I tell Destiny all the timelike I can't have a boring life
Right Like that, the thought ofa boring life like somebody that
doesn't make me laugh, that Ican't just joke around and be
myself with the thought of thatand like living that for like
the next 40 years pretending tobe somebody or not?
Yeah, it's like disgust me and Ijust what is a boring life Like

(32:50):
?

Speaker 3 (32:50):
is that like when you like you know you sell down,
you like you move in with eachother?

Speaker 1 (32:56):
watch Netflix, no no, no, no, because I think if
you're with your person,watching Netflix is fire right.
Like we're, we love it.
Like we're watching the sameshow, we're talking smack.
I don't know if I've beenswearing this whole time.
We were talking shit together,you know.
Like we do it all, like I thinkthat that's fine as long as
that's your person.

(33:17):
I think a boring life to me issomebody that I can't be myself
with.

Speaker 4 (33:22):
that I can't I genuinely go out and like not
just go not, not, not go out,but like go away from that your
partner, and like be yourselfaround other people.
And then you have to go backhome and like act like somebody
you're not.
Right, yes why do I have tolike think about the way I'm
acting in front of?

Speaker 1 (33:39):
Why do I have to?

Speaker 4 (33:39):
walk on eggshells, but when I'm with other people
like it's fine, whatever I say,I don't have a filter.
I can feel however I want andsay anything I want, without
repercussions.

Speaker 1 (33:50):
That's when you know who your person is right, like
if I can be who I am around myfriends and my family around you
, then I think you're it for me,like I don't want to have to
have a filter and like worryabout, oh, if I say this,
they're going to react a certainway.

Speaker 4 (34:04):
Or I can't mention that person or even like so.
I was in a eight year toxic gasrelationship with my baby.

Speaker 1 (34:11):
Yeah shout out to the toxic one.

Speaker 4 (34:14):
OK, shout out to Kota .
We love him.

Speaker 1 (34:17):
Love Kota, but his dad ain't shit.

Speaker 4 (34:21):
And I felt like I couldn't not.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
You put him on blast.
Everybody know who Kota.

Speaker 4 (34:25):
That is Not enough because he's still got bitches.
So no, but it's like when youhave to say for them, yeah, when
you have to go out in the worldand then, like You're like, why
can't I be at home and act likethis?
Why can't I just say, if I have, I don't care, if it's all?

Speaker 1 (34:46):
we're getting no, I think we're getting out of the
boring.
For me, boring is I can't bemyself around you, period.
And also like I think, like Ineed somebody funny, like you
guys were saying oh what if he'slike ugly and like he's just.

Speaker 3 (34:59):
How long is he?

Speaker 1 (35:00):
funny Like any of money and Pay my bills.
No, if you're funny period,like I love that if I can, if
you laugh at my jokes, because Ithink I'm hilarious, you're so
masculine Then yes, then we'regoing to have a good time, right
, we're going to have a goodlife together.

Speaker 2 (35:18):
But I think my jokes because I'm hilarious.

Speaker 4 (35:21):
Honestly even if it's not funny, right, I'll point
you at my fucking jokes youthink it's not fucking funny.

Speaker 1 (35:26):
What's wrong with you ?
No, but so I think wheredestiny is going is I think
that's where it does get toxicto where, like, they're a little
bit more controlling becauseI've been in a similar
relationship as well and they,you know, start saying, you know
, they just start actingdifferent when you act the way
that you, that you act ingeneral, and now you feel like

(35:47):
you have to walk on eggshells.
You feel like, oh, I can't saythis certain thing around you
because you're going to getupset, or I can't do this
certain thing around you becausethen you're going to be mad and
I live with you and we'retogether and it's not going to
be fun for me If I act likemyself.
So now I have to, I have to puton an act at home which is
terrible.
Yeah, it's terrible, it's bad.

(36:09):
I've been in this, we've beenin a very similar relationship
and it's just, it's not good andand, honestly, that's when you
know like it's time to go.
You got to get out of there.

Speaker 3 (36:19):
The hard part is getting out of there, because
you might be splitting the billsand all that stuff.
Not just that, yeah, my sisteractually calls it a recession
ship.

Speaker 2 (36:29):
You know we live together.

Speaker 1 (36:31):
We live together just because it, you know,
financially makes sense for bothof us.

Speaker 4 (36:35):
But yeah, I mean so long was because I was terrified
about my financials, like if webroke up it would be like I
can't.
It's harder.

Speaker 1 (36:46):
It's harder, but you make it work and you'll do it.
You'll do it, You'll figure itout.
You have to like, especiallyfor the women, like we are
strong.
We, I feel like women can doanything.
We're definitely, we'redefinitely the superior being
you pause you for a second.

Speaker 2 (37:00):
You were talking about the love bombing and the
dopamine, waiting for thatdopamine to come back.
Do you think that thatrecession ship is just a symptom
of the love bombing?
Like you want that slim chance,like we're going to stay
together and we go, use this youknow our money as an excuse to
stay together.

Speaker 4 (37:18):
Yeah, you know, but in the back of your mind you're
praying because they say theyalways.
They use their words and theytell you that they're going to
change, that they're going to bebetter, that they're going to
do this Like when you tell themyou want to break up, but then
they don't.

Speaker 1 (37:30):
I mean, I can literally, we can get the text
on, yeah.

Speaker 2 (37:33):
Honestly, you want me to bring up the literally like
hold on, we want you to get topersonal, but I have a good
transition to this because Iactually thought about this
often.
Is it good?
I have my own opinion, but I'mtrying to make this question
open.
Is it acceptable to staytogether for the sake of your
children?

Speaker 1 (37:50):
No no.

Speaker 2 (37:52):
Why not?
Because then you're absolutelynot.
I think you're showing them.

Speaker 4 (37:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
Yeah, you're showing them like, hey, this.
But you know what?
I think this is such a goodquestion because we were
actually just talking about this.
I'm like, I feel like we're soespecially the younger
generation is so like in tunewith their mental health that
they're like oh, because you'redoing this and I've set my
boundary and you're doing thisstill, like I have to go.
But like, in reality, ourparents, like my stepmom and my

(38:19):
dad, have been together for 23years.
I'm I'm 30.
So, like they've been togethera majority of my life.
There's not been great times.
What I will say is like they'venever like argued in front of
me ever, but I know like therewas.
I don't want to get in theirbusiness, but there was a year
where I was like, damn, why areyou all together?
You know, like a full year,like why are you here still?

(38:41):
So I don't, I don't know.
I feel like none of us knowuntil we're really in that, in
that space.

Speaker 4 (38:49):
Have you ever felt like cause you witnessed your
mom and your dad not be together?
Have you ever felt like, if itwasn't for me, they would still
be together?
No, no, there are kids who feelthat way.
They're like I and I feel likemy son personally, like I feel
like when he gets older and hetries to understand and I wanted

(39:11):
to leave his dad before it waslike too late, because, also,
like, when you're that young,it's hard to like remember vivid
memories, but I know already,as a three year old, he's going
to have some trauma that he canvividly remember, like my mom
doing this or my dad doing this,like when his dad put his hands
on me in front of him.
That's when I knew I had to getthe fuck out, cause I'm like if

(39:31):
you're comfortable the factthat he's comfortable doing that
in front of him, and he hasother children.
So I know that I'm not the firstone that he's done this to.
But I'm like our son is soyoung, so as he gets older he's
going to normalize that behaviorand potentially put it on his
future partner.

Speaker 1 (39:47):
Yeah, I love your strong as hell for like even
noticing that and leaving forsure, cause I also grew up.

Speaker 4 (39:54):
My mom, my dad, ressen B's past away but, like
my mom, has been with my stepdadsince I was eight and I've
never seen them argue, nor haveI ever felt like my stepdad
would put his hands on my momever ever Like my and I know for
a fact that my mom would neverput up with that shit.

(40:15):
So I'm like why am I right I'mup with this behavior?
Why am I letting this man thisgrump that he's 10 years old and
why am I letting this grown asman?

Speaker 1 (40:22):
No, you're worth putting his hands on me.

Speaker 2 (40:24):

Speaker 4 (40:25):
I'm like and I need to do better for Kota, because I
want Kota to be a better manthan his for sure, and he will
be.

Speaker 1 (40:31):
You don't want him to be.
He will be a hundred percent,but I feel like we're like.

Speaker 3 (40:37):
you're making a lot of points and you're going to
teach your son like the manner,so you want him to you know like
I, and I mean you know grudersyou know everything.
Yeah, like that's, that's,that's, that's actually a really
good question.
I do have one question.

(41:01):
It's kind of like a huge segue,but what's the worst thing a
girl can do to another girl?

Speaker 1 (41:10):
Sleep with her.

Speaker 4 (41:11):
I was going to say, I was like, not that, that's the
worst, thing, hell yeah.

Speaker 1 (41:16):
I mean if it's, are they friends?
Yeah, I mean, if we're friendsand you, you know, like my
partner, like why you'retogether after you're together
either way, bitch, what do youmean?
Have I?

(41:42):
I've had someone do it to me?
Yeah, she definitely has.
I have never.
I've never done that.
No, I could never.
I'm too loyal.
I'm very loyal.
Yeah, I would never do that.

Speaker 4 (41:53):
Somebody had to hurt you a lot.

Speaker 1 (41:54):
So you like yeah, let me okay.
No, that's crazy.
That's like.
I feel like, isn't that a guycode thing to you be fucking the
, the girls?

Speaker 4 (42:04):
that you're homies fucked with.

Speaker 2 (42:06):
You guys are sick.

Speaker 1 (42:09):
I could never Know for me, knowing that you like
fucking.
No, I could never.
So.

Speaker 4 (42:16):
I feel like it's too much for my I have too much of
an ego.

Speaker 2 (42:23):
Don't let Max fool you against his own action.

Speaker 3 (42:30):
No, I mean I can.

Speaker 2 (42:34):
Can earlier in the episode we talked about guys
rushing the first move.
But Max really can't do that.
So you know he just lets thathappen.
You get in the first move, letthem take.

Speaker 1 (42:59):
For you, max, good for you, I don't you know.

Speaker 3 (43:02):
I actually it's actually good for the people out
there that are not shallow,like okay, yeah, like Max is a
cool person.
I like hanging out with him,even though he's paralyzed.
He's got his disabilities, buthe also has his strengths, just
like everybody else.
We'll ever strengths andweaknesses.

Speaker 4 (43:26):
Yeah, it was a very positive person.
That's why I hate him, cuz I'mlike let me just like Bring in
all the negative.
I'm like, let me just like hatesomething and he's like but
what about this?
And I'm like no.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
Honestly, destiny is a very negative person.

Speaker 4 (43:44):
People who aren't as negative, because then it's like
damn, we both just that's whyshe hangs out with me too In the
right.

Speaker 3 (43:52):
So goddamn positive, it pisses me off.

Speaker 4 (43:55):
Oh my god, literally.

Speaker 2 (44:01):
Shut the fuck off.

Speaker 4 (44:04):
I like mad.

Speaker 2 (44:04):
Let me hate somebody.
Yeah, it's like cheese.
Let me be saying.

Speaker 1 (44:10):
Oh yeah, we ask questions, or is there?
Only question Okay, wait, Idon't know, go desperate.
Oh, I love a scale.

Speaker 4 (44:31):
Oh I.

Speaker 1 (44:39):
I'll have one.
What flavors Do you have?
The heat or no?

Speaker 2 (44:47):
we do have.

Speaker 1 (44:48):
I put a little tahini on there for your girl.
Can I get a rim?

Speaker 4 (44:53):
And I got a rim.

Speaker 3 (44:56):
Okay, so let me do.
Let me do a question.
Yeah, okay so.

Speaker 1 (45:01):
What do you guys Look for in a girl?
That's a good one.

Speaker 4 (45:06):
Oh yeah, what's your like?
Oh better, what, what, what go?
What's your non-negotiable?
Oh, eric, get over here.

Speaker 1 (45:15):
Non-negotiable.

Speaker 3 (45:17):
Two things, oh, go ahead hit it, hit it max.

Speaker 1 (45:21):
Three things, three make it four you have three
non-negotiable.
That's a lot of nano go.
I got one.
Don't hit me.

Speaker 4 (45:28):
Three things, three things everything else I can
look past.
Just don't hit me, we'll figureit out.

Speaker 1 (45:36):
I hate that for you.
Just don't hit me.

Speaker 4 (45:41):
I wasn't raised that way.
Oh my god, maybe I shouldn'tknow.
That's fucked up, becauseliterally sorry to cut you off,
man.
You know that I've been throughit because I remember one time
we were at my job and my managerwas telling his story and I was
standing next to him and he waslike flailed his arms and I

(46:02):
ducked Like he was gonna, andthey were like everyone looked
at me like you thought he wasgonna hate you.
What are you?
Why are you doing that?

Speaker 1 (46:09):
That's crazy.

Speaker 4 (46:10):
Hell yeah no.
I was like I didn't know it wasthat bad until other people
started telling me like why?

Speaker 1 (46:15):
Why do you think, damn it's not us laughing at
your trauma Like you were ready.
You were ready for combat, likeyou were ducking you're like
you put your hands up andeverything Okay.
Max non-negotiables go.
I like that.

(46:36):
Like she can't use.

Speaker 3 (46:39):
What are we talking about?
Like Three.
I'm talking about the threethings.

Speaker 1 (46:45):
Oh, you're being physical.

Speaker 3 (46:47):
I'm talking about the three things.
Why are you?

Speaker 1 (46:48):
being physical.
We're talking about in general,so teeth is a big thing.

Speaker 4 (46:52):
Teeth is also a big thing for me, is it really?

Speaker 3 (46:55):
In general.
I want someone down there.
So no, we're doingnon-negotiable.

Speaker 1 (47:01):
So non-negotiable for you is teeth.
Like you, she has seven niceteeth.
She's a nice teacher, so she'sout immediately.
Wow, your teeth are all right.
Yeah, they're all right.
Yeah, they're all right,they're okay.

Speaker 4 (47:17):
No, you have nice teeth.
We've never had braces, sothat's a great thing.
You never had very white braces, yeah.

Speaker 1 (47:22):
I've never had braces either.
Okay.

Speaker 4 (47:26):
So, that means your parents are poor, if you don't
have braces or what.

Speaker 3 (47:29):
No it just means because I saw earlier with my
mom about it your teeth look atyou, yeah good genes.

Speaker 1 (47:36):
That's what that means.
Okay, so teeth height, voiceheight what's your height limit?
Like five for four, why four?

Speaker 4 (47:45):
We don't cut it we don't make it, we're, we're on
the floor under.

Speaker 1 (47:50):
We can't ride that.
No, we're not tall enough.
Oh, you can't be taller than myboy.

Speaker 3 (47:59):
Yeah, because one reason is because of the
wheelchair, I don't want to like.

Speaker 4 (48:05):
Oh, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (48:11):
And, uh, the voice.
I just don't want my girlfriendto or have a deep bad boy.

Speaker 4 (48:19):
Deep voice.
They don't like street modes,they're out there too.

Speaker 1 (48:22):
You know what's so crazy is.
People tell me I have like sucha cute voice, you have a hot
ass voice.

Speaker 4 (48:27):
Do I really?
Because they're like, at theend of the conversation You're
like oh my god, what's your name?

Speaker 1 (48:32):
Every time, every time, and doesn't?
He's like you're using that forevil.
Here you want some.

Speaker 4 (48:42):
Here you go, I'm on my tongue.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
I was just raw dog and tahin she is life, oh yeah.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
Okay, uh, so we have teeth high and voice.
That's it.

Speaker 3 (48:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (48:53):
Okay, go ahead.
Uh, non-negotiables,non-negotiables, what?

Speaker 2 (48:58):
do you want to bring me up to speed?
I was out fetching drinks.

Speaker 1 (49:01):
So we're asking for and thank you for the drinks by
the way?

Speaker 4 (49:03):
Can we take a?
Can we have a commercial break?
Because I got a pee, yeah whatare we talking about?

Speaker 2 (49:07):
Bring me up to speed what happened.

Speaker 1 (49:08):
So we're talking about non-negotiables.
Do you know what anon-negotiable is?
So explain to me what anon-negotiable is so it's just
something that you somebody like, a trait, or so, honestly, max
went all physical, which Ididn't think he would do, um,
but yeah so.
So max's non-negotiables arethey have to have nice teeth.

(49:28):
If they don't have nice teeth,they then that's out, hi just
don't make them laugh.

Speaker 2 (49:33):
You can get by that five, four under.

Speaker 1 (49:35):
And what was the other one?
I think they have to have anice voice.
So destiny and I are under hisradar, obviously.
So Shout at us.
And so what's what's here All?

Speaker 2 (49:51):
right.
So something I used to do Is Iwould invite someone that I'm
hanging out with and I'd givethem a water bottle, and if they
did not drink that water bottle, I would have to give them dry
ass, dehydrated ass crusty ass.
Like come on, you need life inyou and h2o is the easiest thing

(50:12):
to do.
I don't know how you womencould get by with a cup of
coffee.
Talk about I got a headache.
It's because you're dehydrated.

Speaker 3 (50:20):
That's so weird to say I got a migraine, haven't
drank water since last name, soyou have to drink water.

Speaker 2 (50:29):
That's the number one thing, just hydrate yourself
hydrate yeah.
Complaining about breaking out.
Complained about migraine.

Speaker 1 (50:36):
That's it.

Speaker 4 (50:37):
That's the first thing I could think of.
I like that.

Speaker 1 (50:44):
What if they're just living with?

Speaker 2 (50:45):
it, complaining about it.

Speaker 1 (50:48):
She's got me a racist .

Speaker 2 (50:49):
Damn Dehydration do you know what the leading cause
of bad breath is?
Guess it dehydration.

Speaker 1 (50:58):
Wow, you've done your research on the, on the on the
water thing.
Okay, so that's it.

Speaker 2 (51:04):
Yeah, I gave desperate water bottle once.
Is that my water she never used?

Speaker 1 (51:08):
it huh, I'm just kidding.

Speaker 4 (51:10):
No.

Speaker 1 (51:14):
Remember it's time to give me a water bottle.
Don't do my girl like that.
She loves water, because I dolove water.
Why can't I hear you?
I can't hear you?

Speaker 2 (51:21):
She's a mile away from the mic.

Speaker 1 (51:25):
Oh, you're put.
Your put your mouth on my lips.
On how many times I have totell you.

Speaker 2 (51:30):
All right for the rest of this podcast.
Y'all gonna do the asmr segment.

Speaker 4 (51:33):
The sexual tension is there.

Speaker 2 (51:36):
I want to see us Asmr is when they're getting close
to the mic and they talk likethis.
I like oh my gosh, what stopyou're in my ear with that shit?
You go make.
You go make me feel like youcould walk soon.
Keep doing it.

Speaker 3 (51:58):
Yeah, give me the miracle, oh yeah.

Speaker 4 (52:12):
How much money do you have to have in order to date
me?
How about that?
That's what I was about.
You have to make more moneythan me, and if you don't,
you're poor.

Speaker 1 (52:20):
Destiny is on it with this, to be honest.

Speaker 4 (52:22):
Honestly, because if I can do it, why can't you?
Because, like, I'm.
Yeah, honestly, I wish I hadfood stamps.
My life would be so easy linkcard.

Speaker 2 (52:36):
I wish I could get fridge full all the time.

Speaker 4 (52:39):
My fridge is always full, baby, Okay so like I'm not
in.

Speaker 3 (52:43):
Oh, you really like, what would you be looking for at
?

Speaker 4 (52:47):
least 150, at least, at least 150, minimum oh, I hate
this question minimum 150?
And you need to show me,because I don't believe you.

Speaker 3 (52:59):
Okay, so 150.
I guess I meet the bracket.

Speaker 1 (53:04):
Period max.
Let her know I'm on it.
I caught that that's abartender for you, right?

Speaker 3 (53:08):
there, dude, what's that?
I don't know.
I swear that by shoes.

Speaker 2 (53:12):
I didn't want to say.
I didn't want to ruin your moodfor the podcast.

Speaker 4 (53:15):
I would never get the kicks.
30.
Don't fuck with me, you knowabout us.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
One now.
Look at us.
Does it look like?

Speaker 2 (53:25):
y'all have redone your lip gloss like six times it
comes off.

Speaker 3 (53:31):
Okay, so 150, 150, yearly, at least 150.

Speaker 4 (53:37):
Okay, you can't have any that wants to house House
and you can't.
Also, you can't rent.
You have to own a house.

Speaker 1 (53:46):
I I don't like this question because I don't think
that love should Um come outabout love.
It's about financial stability?

Speaker 4 (53:53):
No, I know.

Speaker 1 (53:53):
I know, I know, let me talk, though, because I gave
you.
I gave you a little chance.

Speaker 4 (53:57):
Yeah, more than 50 percent of marriage is end
because of financial.

Speaker 1 (54:01):
Okay, so we don't we could be the other 50 percent,
but I think that if you thinkabout love analytically and In a
different yeah and yeah.
Analytically, then that's likeyou're compromising your
feelings.
I feel like for me, I thinkthat Emotions it's hard for me
to really genuinely likesomebody Honestly.

(54:23):
It's very hard for me like I amtalkative and I'm very
personable, but to genuinelylike you and want to get to know
you.
It's very hard for me to findsomebody to sell them.
So when I do, if it is somebodythat makes 50 000 a year or 150
000 a year, I don't ployd andselling drugs.

(54:44):
I don't know.
See, that's different.

Speaker 4 (54:46):
Ah, you like that.
What if they?

Speaker 1 (54:47):
like?

Speaker 4 (54:47):
I definitely don't like that you don't know me.

Speaker 1 (54:52):
You don't know me, but um, so as far as I go, I
think that I make enough moneyto support myself.
I own my own home.
I have you, very masculine forthat.
I have a Mercedes Benz.

Speaker 4 (55:06):
I do what I want to do Whisper that Mercedes Benz
part.
I have a Benz I have a Benz.
I have a baby Benz becauseyou're going to date someone who
makes fifty grand.
That's hilarious.

Speaker 1 (55:16):
No, but listen, so like I feel, like I can do for
myself.
So if I genuinely care aboutyou and I like you, then I'm
rolling with you.

Speaker 2 (55:25):
And then.

Speaker 1 (55:26):
But here's my thing, here's, here's what's important
to me.
I have a plan, right, I'vealways had a plan and I've
always worked towards my goalsand my plans.
If you don't have a plan andlike have steps to do that plan,
that's where it comes a littlerocky for me, because I don't
want you to live off me and Idon't want you to just think I'm

(55:48):
doing what I'm doing now andI'm going to do that for forever
.
Right, I want you to be able totell me hey, this is what I'm
going to do, this is, this ishow I'm going to get there.
Then a bartender.

Speaker 4 (56:01):
I recommend it Ten other times.

Speaker 1 (56:03):
I'm going to fuck with you, then you know.
But if not, then you know, thenwe have to think about it.
But also, like I said, like I,it's emotional for me, so like I
would hate to be, emotions comeand go, I would hate to be with
somebody that makes 150,000 ayear and I have no connection
with.

Speaker 4 (56:21):
OK, that's not what I'm saying.
Is that way Wait?

Speaker 1 (56:23):
wait, wait, wait, wait.
That sounds like a nightmare tome and I would never be with
somebody just because they makea hundred and fifty thousand.

Speaker 4 (56:32):
No, baby you're getting the wrong idea.
No, you're just.
You can find someone that youhave emotionally attachment Like
.
You can find someone like that,but they need you need to not
let them in unless they meetthis criteria, because the
problems will later come whereit's.
You're going to feel resentmenttowards them because now they

(56:52):
got comfortable with your lovebombing and you buying them all
of this shit.
Ok, because you you started therelationship off like that.

Speaker 1 (57:01):
So now, now destiny is getting into an actual
situation that's going on rightnow.
We don't, we don't, we're notdoing that bitch.
We're talking about can youdate somebody?
That's, that's what do you?
What do you want theirfinancial situation to?

Speaker 4 (57:15):
be.
He was going to end.
I was going to go.
I'm not even going to.
You're going to feel so muchresentment at the end.

Speaker 1 (57:21):
I'm not doing this with you, so let's go ahead and
go on to the next one.

Speaker 3 (57:27):
You guys were asking questions no she just literally,
because she's going now she'soffended.

Speaker 1 (57:32):
Personal because, yes , she's getting personal, Anyway
, anyway, personal.
But long story short, you don't, it's not.
I mean, you have to make adecent amount, but it doesn't
have to be more than not a ghost.
It doesn't have to be like ahigh amount.
I think that as long as youhave a plan and I like you, then

(57:54):
we're thirty, but OK, what cansay?

Speaker 4 (57:56):
I'm the right.

Speaker 1 (57:59):
So yeah, come on now.
Thank you, Max.
What about you?
What about you guys?

Speaker 2 (58:03):
Well, I worry about that.
Actually, now that I thinkabout it, the woman needs to
make more than me.
Yeah, Eric wants to be cattleshe needs to have a plan, all
right, she needs to have steps.

Speaker 1 (58:13):
Holy, not only family .

Speaker 4 (58:16):
What to making less?
Like how much you make.

Speaker 2 (58:19):
I'm just saying I want to be equal Right.
Julia said.

Speaker 4 (58:22):
Thank you.
The woman needs to make morethan you.

Speaker 2 (58:24):
Yeah, and have a plan have a plan.

Speaker 1 (58:27):
It's funny, I love that for you I created.

Speaker 2 (58:29):
Ok, see, look at nails need to match your toes,
if not, that's a fucking nobrainer.

Speaker 1 (58:34):
Oh, that's your non-negotiable.

Speaker 4 (58:35):
You're not going to pay for it, so the nails they
match the toes, but he doesn'tpay for the nails, damn she got
to do it herself.

Speaker 2 (58:43):
Thanks One of your secret.
There's only one reason why.

Speaker 1 (58:47):
Here we go.
I know the reason.
Yeah, I did know, here we go.

Speaker 2 (58:50):
Julia.

Speaker 1 (58:51):
I was the reason.
Honestly, it seems like.

Speaker 4 (58:53):
Julia was your guest of honor, but I am.
Was she here for free?

Speaker 1 (58:57):
You know what you know.
The vibes are shorty.
I'm always the main character.

Speaker 4 (59:00):
This is my girl, though.

Speaker 1 (59:01):
Any room, I step in.

Speaker 4 (59:03):
Because I will pay for us at the end of the day.
Like that, that's my baby.
Like that.

Speaker 2 (59:07):
Destiny.
You were paralyzed like Max wasto like you should come on a
podcast.
You spend like a year coming.
I ain't coming on a podcast.
I'm like I bet I'll pay foryour nails.
Come on a podcast, she's likerun it.

Speaker 4 (59:16):
I thought we weren't going to talk about this.

Speaker 1 (59:18):
She instantly said one thing about destiny.

Speaker 2 (59:21):
She's been waiting to press that button.
Too bad, the audio don't comeup yet.

Speaker 1 (59:28):
One thing about destiny if you pay for her nails
, you're in wrong.

Speaker 2 (59:33):
Definitely out of jail.
Destiny, I'll pay for yournails, destiny it's a go for me.

Speaker 3 (59:38):
The technique never fails.

Speaker 4 (59:39):
Destiny would never bail out anybody out of jail.

Speaker 1 (59:42):
All right.
What else are we talking?

Speaker 4 (59:43):
about.

Speaker 2 (59:43):
Are we continuing the dating advice no if you don't
turn the volume off on yourphone.

Speaker 1 (59:51):
Please.

Speaker 2 (59:51):
Julia was preaching and you out here scrolling
through Snapchat.

Speaker 1 (59:54):
I was going crazy.
I was dropping gems for y'all.

Speaker 2 (59:58):
You're welcome.
Write it down, Drake.
I need to have my own podcastfor real.

Speaker 1 (01:00:01):
Follow me soon Just join us.

Speaker 2 (01:00:03):
Join us, you can have your podcast.

Speaker 4 (01:00:05):
She's trying to.

Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
No, I do want to make a podcast.

Speaker 4 (01:00:09):
I want to make one.

Speaker 1 (01:00:10):
I feel like I bought the microphones but I just don't
know how to do anything elseDon't record it.

Speaker 4 (01:00:16):
This is out there.
You don't have to record it,like I would record it on fire.

Speaker 1 (01:00:20):
Like why wouldn't you want to see me?
Well, yeah, but go ahead, Max.

Speaker 2 (01:00:25):
Spit the next question.
Okay, go ahead.

Speaker 4 (01:00:26):
Yeah, let's get it rolling.
We got, we got a thing Doesthis thing.

Speaker 2 (01:00:33):
Oh see, my mom's calling it's emergency.

Speaker 1 (01:00:35):
I got my dog out yeah .

Speaker 3 (01:00:38):
We got a thing, yeah, uh, I mean, I just constantly
hear about guys bitching andfucking moaning about girls.
Yeah, you brought up lovebombing.
You brought up like suffocating, like you know, like that.
So what are other things thatlike?

(01:01:01):
Maybe maybe a guy that islistening right now can like fix
on themselves, go to counseling.

Speaker 4 (01:01:11):
Yeah, honestly, if it's so good, uh, one of the
main things that helped me leavemy toxic gas relationship was
getting educated about like whatwas actually happening Cause,
like when you're in thatsituation, you almost you're a,
you're the victim, right.
Like this person is doing allof these crazy as things to you

(01:01:34):
that they have made you feellike this is normal.
Like you blowing up my phone,me feeling guilty for going out.
Like yeah.
I've been called a slut forputting on a bathing suit.

Speaker 1 (01:01:45):
I've been called a slut for a picture with full
clothes on.
I love that.
That's crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:01:49):
And not only that yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:01:51):
Why am I a slut?
Like we were together, I shouldnever be anything other than a
fucking queen, right.

Speaker 4 (01:01:58):
So it's the fact that this person feels so
comfortable with disrespectingand disrespecting you and you
becoming so numb to the fact I'masking, like a person like
that's trying to approach you oh, they need to go to therapy
100%, oh for sure.
The first step is recognizingthat you have a problem.
It's like damn why?

(01:02:19):
Because it's internal, it's,you're insecure and you feel
this type of way and you'reprojecting that onto me by
making yourself feel better, bycalling me a slut.

Speaker 1 (01:02:29):
Destiny's toxic trade is also thinking everyone else
needs therapy and she doesn't.
Oh no, I know.

Speaker 4 (01:02:36):
What about 100%?
What?

Speaker 3 (01:02:37):
about what?
About being poor, though?
So you guys say you go out,right, you had a lit weekend,
like last weekend.
I'm sure guys came up to you,right, of course, okay, so what
are some advice like from thatout there, like to as if, like

(01:02:59):
it's kind of it's hard to like,what would you give them advice?
To go up to a woman, and if thewoman is not feeling you, what
are you?
You leave.

Speaker 1 (01:03:08):
Yeah, she's not feeling you.
You got to go buddy, Because ifnot you look weird.

Speaker 4 (01:03:12):
And also, what are your?

Speaker 1 (01:03:13):
intentions.
When do you know?
When do you know?
I think she'll make it clearenough Right off the bat.
I make it clear I don't knowabout other women, but like, if
I'm uninterested, I mean, we'vegone out, we've had nights where
there's just constant, just mencoming up to us, me in
particular too.
You know, like you know, andI've, literally, I've, I she has

(01:03:33):
me on video literally tellingsomebody I'm sorry but no, like
I just have no energy toentertain, no energy to why?

Speaker 2 (01:03:41):
Because I don't need you to buy me a dream.

Speaker 1 (01:03:43):
You know like I'm so sorry, but no, like I think I
think women need to.
Here's the thing A lot of womenwill entertain for a drink, or
entertain for this or for thatwhen you're like 21.
Yeah, I think now that I'molder, I don't even do that
because, listen, it's a fucking$15 drink.
I'll buy myself a $15 drink.
I will get myself bottleservice.

(01:04:04):
I do not care, I do not want totalk to you.

Speaker 4 (01:04:07):
We don't need people to buy us bottle service.
That's a funny thing, it's like, because you'll be able to tell
right away from like oh okay,so I bought a drink, that's my
that's my career.
Your profession.
So I watched this happen infront of me.
Like women will come to the barby themselves a drink, but
these little ass girls willentertain someone they know they

(01:04:27):
have no intention of talking to.

Speaker 1 (01:04:30):
It's different if you are.
We've been there, though.

Speaker 4 (01:04:33):
We've been there.

Speaker 1 (01:04:34):
You make probably 15, you probably make $15 an hour.
You know, like, yeah you, youwant somebody to buy you a drink
, so you can't be mad at thelittle girls that do that at all
.

Speaker 4 (01:04:43):
But I'm saying as a, as a kid closer to the mic.
He said bitch who is a man likeyou should read the signs.
And also, what are yourintentions.
Are you trying to fuck thisgirl?
Are you trying to like see abeautiful girl at the bar and
you actually want to get to knowher?
Right, I should have told you.

Speaker 1 (01:05:02):
If he's trying to follow in love with the club,
don't take anything serious atthe club.
If she fucking denies it, shedenies it.
I think.
Once she denies it, though, letit go Like you got to.
Let it go, move on.
If anything, move on.
Buy shorty next to her a drinkand she might get jealous and
holler at you.
You know, like I don't.
It's, it's nothing serious andall honesty, like doesn't he

(01:05:25):
just said?
She said don't, fucking don'tfall in love at the club.

Speaker 4 (01:05:28):
It's not serious.
People are different whenthey're drinking.

Speaker 1 (01:05:30):
Yeah, it's nothing serious.
You're having fun, like it's.
It's a vibe and you're vibing,that's it.

Speaker 4 (01:05:36):
Falling victim, as the bartender, to someone trying
to be like sincere and take youout and giving them an
opportunity, and just found outthat they're just trying to fuck
you Like a hundred percent.
I'm not taking anybody at theclub serious $500 at dinner and
then bought bottle service atthe club afterwards and then try
to fuck me and I'm like what?
Like I was feeling you, like Ithought you were a real person

(01:05:59):
and then you tricked me and nowI will never speak to you again.
I don't take anybody.

Speaker 1 (01:06:02):
I made at the club serious.
It's not a serious setting.

Speaker 4 (01:06:06):
I never done that, and then it's not a serious.
It's like you just proved to mewhy I?

Speaker 1 (01:06:11):
I get it.
I mean, I've met when we've met.
I've met multiple people at theclub.
Take me out, that's it.
I'm cool.
Thank you for the fun.
Do you have something?
Shevlar is dead.
No, no, I don't.

Speaker 4 (01:06:23):
You better open the fucking door.
Honestly, I don't hold the dooropen.

Speaker 1 (01:06:28):
Honestly, it's a little when you don't have it.

Speaker 4 (01:06:30):
You don't get it, but when you get it you're like
you're so impressed, I'm cool.
I had someone say don't get out, I'm opening the door for you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:37):
It's just on you?
Yes, I have, and it's not a bigdeal to me.
Or like, race me to the door toopen my shit, it's not a big
deal because you're in yourmasculine.

Speaker 4 (01:06:45):
It's okay, I am a little masculine.

Speaker 1 (01:06:47):
I want to open the door, babe, I am.
I'm never the one to open thedoor.
She opened the door for me.
She's like when did I just manopen the door for you?
Don't do that to me.

Speaker 3 (01:06:59):
Are you saying?
Are you saying are youliterally saying?
Are you saying, like if I wereto take you to dinner, do you
want me to open your?

Speaker 4 (01:07:09):
door.
Are you asking her to dinnerright now?
It's not you in particular, butI'm saying in general, like I
don't want you to, but if you do, like it just shows me that
like you actually give a fuck,it's your card or her.
Like I want, like if you, as afemale, I want you to lead.
As a male, you should want tolead, you should want to provide

(01:07:32):
, you should want to protect,you should want to.
I understand.

Speaker 3 (01:07:36):
I understand so things like that.

Speaker 4 (01:07:39):
It's not dead.
It's not dead.

Speaker 1 (01:07:42):
Stay chivalry.
One more time for us Chilory,it's chilean here.

Speaker 4 (01:07:48):
Chilory, see, like you pour all the tahin on your.
I knew, but then like none ofit goes in there it does bitch.

Speaker 1 (01:07:55):
I go like this.

Speaker 4 (01:07:57):
Do you lick it?
Oh okay, I know, that's right.

Speaker 3 (01:07:59):
Alright, so We've got .
We've got a been through a lot.
I'm gonna be traumatized when Iwould not, are we?

Speaker 1 (01:08:09):
traumatizing you.
How long did these?

Speaker 3 (01:08:11):
usually last.

Speaker 1 (01:08:12):
I love this.

Speaker 3 (01:08:12):
I can take this one for another hour.

Speaker 2 (01:08:14):
I gotta come back.

Speaker 4 (01:08:16):
No, no, no, no, no.
There's no part two.
Let's keep going.
There's no part two, cause I'mgonna need my toes done next
time.

Speaker 1 (01:08:20):
Let me just I'm gonna need my toes done.

Speaker 2 (01:08:23):
Julia did more talking to you.
I think she needs the next one.

Speaker 4 (01:08:26):
Wait, I know that's what I'm talking about.
I want my.
What the fuck you?

Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
want some drink with your tahin.

Speaker 4 (01:08:33):
We like it spicy.
First of all, mind your ownbusiness and drink your little
essential water first, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:08:38):
Go ahead, go ahead.

Speaker 4 (01:08:39):
Max Cause I'll drink that whole bottle.

Speaker 1 (01:08:42):
Can we let Max talk, cause you really are trying to
outshine my boy.

Speaker 3 (01:08:46):
I appreciate that You're welcome.
I got you so I knew this wouldhappen, so I have a little
things in life that you forgetabout, that we forget about.

Speaker 1 (01:08:58):
Yeah, like a little things.

Speaker 3 (01:08:59):
So for me it is.
When I was walking back thenyears ago, one of the littlest
things that I didn't know was aprivilege and a right was
breathing.

Speaker 1 (01:09:10):
So into this day.

Speaker 3 (01:09:11):
it's like snapping who are you texting?

Speaker 1 (01:09:16):
What's this man's name?

Speaker 2 (01:09:17):
Eric, listen to Max.

Speaker 1 (01:09:21):
Okay, so that's my toxic story.

Speaker 4 (01:09:22):
I want to know who everyone is Speaking from a
Third party.

Speaker 1 (01:09:28):
Totally objectively.

Speaker 4 (01:09:30):
Someone who has gone through it.
I remember, like now I was anadult, like realizing cause,
when you're paralyzed and youhave to rebuild all the muscles
in your body so you can stand.
That is just privileged, Iremember.
So I know you have that littleboard back there where they like
stand you up so you can put allthe weight.

(01:09:51):
I vividly remember so so you.
Being so frustrated like notbeing able to pick up my head.
Cause you're a blood pressure.
Cause you're a blood pressure.
Yeah, exactly, and you'reliterally just.
I remember just being in a bedall day and then going to
physical therapy and then tryingto put me to stand straight up

(01:10:13):
and I was just like I hated it,Like pass out.
Yeah, Exactly, Cause your bloodis rushing down To yourself.
And I remember being in physicaltherapy and not being able to
pick up my head and realizing,like, how much energy it takes
just to do simple motions isinsane, like and people take it

(01:10:35):
for granted every single day.
Like the fact that you're evenbreathing is just a miracle, and
able to do what you're doingwith this podcast is a miracle.
And you were very fortunate,like, to not die in that car
accident.
The you know there's angels outhere who are alive and well,
doing what they need to do tomake an impact on the world.

Speaker 3 (01:10:58):
I really appreciate that I'm asking only the little
things that you, that you like,I wouldn't say forget about, but
that you're like happy, happy,you have.

Speaker 1 (01:11:11):
I think it's hard, for maybe, like for you two it's
a little bit easier.
I mean, maybe you're around itmore too, so like you, you
probably can, can relate to, butlike I feel like maybe, if
you've never been through asituation like that, you can't
really be like.
Oh, these are the things thatI'm grateful for.
I think we forget about them,right, because we just do it, we

(01:11:32):
wake up.
I mean, I'm pretty spiritual,I'm religious, so like I do wake
up every day and pray and thankGod for waking up, right, like
because I it could be theopposite way.
Yeah, it couldn't be, I couldn'thave woken up, you know.
So I am grateful for that.
But, like I've never not beenable to walk, so I've never like

(01:11:53):
had to thank God that I canwalk, you know like, or thought
to thank God that I can walk,you know.
So I think that maybe, likepeople in your position, it's
it's dope that you guys see itlike that.
You know, like Destiny justsaid, like I remember not even
being able to lift my head, solike that's something to be
grateful for, but I've never,I've never not been able to lift

(01:12:14):
my head.
So I don't know that, you know.
So I don't thank God for thatand I don't think of that
immediately.
All right, so take take theirperspectives out of it.

Speaker 2 (01:12:23):
From your perspective , what's the little thing that
you?

Speaker 1 (01:12:26):
so I'm like breathing , like you just said.

Speaker 2 (01:12:28):
I don't have some fresh water.

Speaker 1 (01:12:30):
I'm struggling.

Speaker 4 (01:12:32):
We're so gritty, I'm struggling.
Can somebody sponsor?

Speaker 1 (01:12:35):
them.
Yeah, can somebody sponsor thewater?
So I mean with that I guess I'mgreat.
Oh, you know what I can say?
I've been without a car before.
I'm grateful I have a car.

Speaker 2 (01:12:50):
I'm grateful for my Mercedes Period.

Speaker 1 (01:12:53):
What's your name.
I'm grateful.
I'm grateful I have a car ingeneral, the fact that it's a
Mercedes, you know I love thattoo, but I am grateful for you,
I know you do.
I'm just grateful for a car ingeneral.
I'm grateful I have a.
I'm grateful I have a job,because I've been without a job
before, so I'm grateful that Ihave a job.

(01:13:15):
I'm grateful for my career.

Speaker 2 (01:13:19):
What a Thanksgiving, special Max.

Speaker 1 (01:13:22):
Yeah, I'm grateful.
Honestly, I think, somethingthat we take for granted when
we're younger.
I'm grateful for my family.
Like I worked all day and thenwe went to the gym and I have a
dog at home and I called mysister to go pick up my dog and
she went immediately.
So I'm grateful for family, forsure.
I think when we're younger wedon't think about our family as

(01:13:45):
people that are always going tobe there for us or are there for
us in general, we think, oh,friends going out, whatever.
But I'm super grateful, for Ihave a big family and I love
them and I'm grateful for everysingle one of them.
Oh yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:13:59):
And shout outs to all those nail texts, because if
y'all didn't exist, we wouldn'thave had Destiny and Julia on
the podcast today Shout outs toClaudia's nail teak.

Speaker 1 (01:14:07):
I know that's right.

Speaker 4 (01:14:09):
Shout outs to Tony Chapnail.
Thank you.
Speaking of the little things,I guess one last question and
this long ass podcast episode,which was Not long ass podcast
hey, hey, hey, hey.

Speaker 2 (01:14:18):
It's nothing but gratitude, nothing but gratitude
.
But you know, speaking oflittle things, does dick size
really matter?
Yeah, dare shoes.
She said yeah before I put thequestion mark on the sentence.
Megs, I was going to shoe myshirt, but I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:14:34):
Oh nah it's too small .

Speaker 4 (01:14:37):
I'm a teeny tiny.

Speaker 1 (01:14:39):
Not a teeny tiny.

Speaker 4 (01:14:40):
I'm a teeny tiny, so you're good.

Speaker 1 (01:14:44):
Mmm, we're ending the podcast now.
No names, no names you didn'tanswer the question, though
we're ending the podcast now.
Does dick size matter?
I think it matters to you guysno we're not a vagina.

Speaker 2 (01:14:59):
You know, factually, the vagina is only like three,
less than three inches deep, butcan't expand to triple the size
.

Speaker 4 (01:15:08):
Honestly, there's like a video of this lady who's
like okay, eight inches.
That's like whoa, like four isfine, okay, four is fine.
I'm going to say four is fine,four inches bigger than eight.
No, you're lying.

Speaker 1 (01:15:23):
Four inches is fine.

Speaker 4 (01:15:26):
Have you measured?
I know you're, I know you're abd, not that.

Speaker 1 (01:15:32):
No, that's how you like girls now.

Speaker 4 (01:15:34):
Y'all can't, y'all don't use real dick.

Speaker 1 (01:15:38):
No, I'm going off of real dick bitch, I'm not.
I think.
I think that, as far as thatgoes, um, I think it matters to
you more.
But I would say, about themotion of the ocean, four inches
is a hell.
No for me, hell, no, hell, no,hell, no.
The craziest thing is you.

(01:16:01):
You want somebody with ahundred and fifty thousand
dollar income, but you're okaywith four inches, I'm not okay
with four inches you just said,four inches is okay.
Rewind the tape, not Rewind thetape.

Speaker 4 (01:16:12):
Four is fine.
Okay, four is fine.
I'm going to say four is fine.

Speaker 1 (01:16:16):
She just said that.
She just said that Because Idon't only use dick in bed.
Period you can't, I mean sex is.

Speaker 4 (01:16:24):
Especially when you're dating a girl.

Speaker 1 (01:16:25):
You can't, and what about it?

Speaker 3 (01:16:30):
I have four and a half, so Okay, he's good he's
good, based on Destiny'smeasurements.

Speaker 1 (01:16:36):
Good, honestly also, I feel like we we get out of,
like we it's so much aboutlength that you also get out of
thickness.
I think thickness does mattertoo, because I think I mean just
out of a, so you know, I thinklike a four and a half.
And Max don't do that.
I mean, according to destiny,it's the lit.

(01:16:59):
Four inches or more is lit.

Speaker 2 (01:17:02):
I find out on the next episode of life to the Max
on if dick size matters.

Speaker 3 (01:17:08):
Signing off.

Speaker 2 (01:17:09):
It was wonderful having Julia Wait, is it
wonderful having destiny?
And not?
He corrected himself.

Speaker 1 (01:17:16):
I heard trying to be the main character of my podcast
.
We all know I was a star.
I find Shout out to destiny,though I'm trying to have trauma
.
Shout out to you, girl.

Speaker 3 (01:17:29):
Thank you for sharing .
Everybody likes.
This podcast is streaming onevery platform and we just got a
YouTube channel going up.
So you go to life for the Maxpodcast and subscribe, like and
post notification bell.
If you know anything else, okay, we're out.

Speaker 1 (01:17:51):
Hey, it's lit.
I felt like I was in adifferent dimension, that little
.
The headphones kind of go crazy.

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