Life's Dirty Little Secrets Podcast | Breaking Silence Around the Secrets We All Carry
We often find ourselves comparing our internal struggles to the flawless images others project, leaving us feeling isolated and misunderstood. But here’s the truth: you are not alone. Join psychologists Emma Waddington and Chris McCurry as they delve into the little-discussed yet incredibly common challenges that come with striving to be your best self. In each episode of "Life's Dirty Little Secrets," you'll find thoughtful conversations filled with insights, humor, and compassion that reflect the beautiful complexity of being human. Together, we’ll explore the raw realities of issues like anxiety, depression, self-esteem, grief, and the nuanced journey of growing up. Whether it's confronting the pressures of modern life or unpacking emotional baggage, we provide a safe space for you to resonate with these experiences. Our intriguing discussions with expert guests will illuminate your path toward understanding and healing. Tune in for practical answers to your pressing questions, such as: How can I better manage anxiety and stress? What can help me overcome self-doubt? How do I navigate grief and find solace? How does self-compassion play a role in my journey? What steps can I take towards greater emotional clarity? Join us weekly as we embrace the messiness of life and uncover the secrets that bind us together. With every episode, you’ll feel empowered, understood, and reminded that it’s perfectly okay to not have it all figured out. Together, let’s embark on this journey of self-discovery and compassion—because we all have secrets, and it’s time to share them.
Episodes
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Why is asking for help so hard?
For many people, needing support feels like failure. Whether it's therapy, medication, weight loss surgery, or asking others for assistance, we often carry the belief that we should be able to do everything on our ...
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What if anxiety isn’t the enemy we think it is?
In this episode, Dr. Tracy Dennis-Tiwary challenges the modern belief that anxiety is something to eliminate, suppress, or “fix.” Instead, she reframes anxiety as an essential human emotion tha...
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- Secret #56: Spirituality with Dr. Matthieu Villatte
- Secret #65: The Self-Help Paradox with Joe Oliver
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What if compassion isn’t about being kind or soft, but about becoming stronger and more courageous?
In this episode, Dr. Dennis Tirch challenges common misconceptions about compassion and introduces a more powerful and grounded understanding. C...
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- Secret #26: Victim Blame with Dr. Amy Beddows
- Secret #74: The Cost of Pretending with Jonathan Kanter
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Why are people drawn to horror, especially those who have experienced trauma?
In this episode, Dr. Amy Beddows explores the surprising connection between horror films and healing. What seems counterintuitive at first actually reveals something d...
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Why does it feel like no matter how much we do, it’s never enough?
In this episode, Kerry Makin-Byrd breaks down the paradox of overwhelm and why so many of us feel stuck between doing too much and still feeling like we’re falling behind. We explore the difference between stress, burnout, and overwhelm, and why ov...
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- Secret #72: Transforming Guilt and Shame
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What if aging isn’t the problem—but our beliefs about aging are?
In this episode, we discuss ageism with Dr. Claudia Drossel. Together, we explore how aging is often misunderstood as decline, when in reality many of the challenges we associate with aging are shaped by cultural bias, environment, an...
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- Secret #73: The Confidence Paradox
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What does it actually mean to raise boys in a culture that both expects masculinity and criticizes it?
In this episode, journalist and author Ruth Whippman joins Chris McCurry and Emma Waddington to explore the pressures boys face in the age of “impossible masculinity.” Drawing from her book BoyMom...
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- Secret #62: The Connection Paradox with James Cordova
- Secret #64: Moral Outrage with Kurt Gray
- Secret #70: So Many Paradoxes with Dr. Emma Waddington and Dr. Chris McCurry
Many of us are going about our daily lives while quietly feeling that something is deeply wrong in the world. We say we are fine. We scroll. We joke. We compartmentalize. And yet there is a sinking feeling that things are not normal.
In ...
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- Secret #58: Raising a Self-Driven Child with Dr. William Stixrud & Ned Johnson
- Secret #61: Reimagining Anger with Russell Kolts
- Secret #70: So Many Paradoxes with Dr. Emma Waddington and Dr. Chris McCurry
Most people believe confidence is something you either have or don’t have. In this episode, confidence coach Michael Herold explains why confidence is actually built by doing hard things while anxiet...
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- Secret #5: Body Shame with Emily Sandoz
- Secret #7: Parental Guilt with Dr. Yael Schonbrun
- Secret #26: Victim Blame with Dr. Amy Beddows
Guilt and shame often linger long after trauma, quietly shaping how we see ourselves and our relationships. In this episode, clinical psychologist Dr. Carolyn Allard explains why guilt and shame can be adaptive—and how they become harmful when they overstay their welcome....
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Secret #68 — Secrets of Rest with Alex Soojung-Kim Pang
Secret #30 — Wise Effort with Dr. Diana Hill
Secret #69 — No One Is “Self-Made” with Dr. Lakeysha Hallmon
A tender, practical conversation about how a terminal diagnosis can sharpen priorities, deepen connection, and teach the rest of us how to live on purpose—today.
Psychologist Dr. Ray Owen and Sam Stroud, recently diagnosed with MND/ALS, join Emma and Chris...
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- Secret #61: Reimagining Anger with Russell Kolts
- Secret #62: The Connection Paradox with James Cordova
- Secret #69: No One is "Self-Made" with Dr. Lakeysha Hallmon
- Secret #55: Belonging with Meg McKelvie
- Secret #48: The Tree That Bends with Ross White
- Secret #60: There is No Normal with Dr. Steven C. Hayes
- Secret #54: The Reign of Pain with How...
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- Secret #60: There is No Normal with Dr. Steven C. Hayes
- Secret #56: Spirituality with Dr. Matthieu Villatte
- Secret #55: Belonging with Meg McKelvie
What happens when we stop glorifying the “self-made” myth and start honoring the power of community?
Dr. Lakeysha Hallmon—educator, entrepreneur, and founder of The Village Market and Our Village United—joins hosts Emma Waddington and Chris McCurry to expl...
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- Secret #62: The Connection Paradox with James Cordova
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Rest is not the opposite of work. It is the partner that makes great work possible. In this conversation, best-selling author and strategist Alex Soojung-Kim Pang shows how rest is a learnable skill that powers focus, c...
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- Secret #56: Spirituality with Dr. Matthieu Villatte
- Secret #51: New Thinking on Grief with Dr. Ray Owen
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What happens when we stop running from mortality and let it guide how we live now? Chris and Emma sit down with Dr. Robyn Walser and Dr. Manuela O’Connell to explore death as a teacher, not a terror. They unpack cultural avoidance of death, the role ...
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When life feels too heavy, should we fight our thoughts or learn to carry them? In this grounded, compassionate conversation, clinical psychologist and author Ben Sedley joins Emma Waddington and Chris McCurry to explore how to hold painful thoug...
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Are you ready to unravel the hidden psychology of moral outrage and discover practical tools for turning intense conflict into genuine understanding? In this eye-opening episode of Life’s Dirty Little Secrets, social psychologist and author Dr. Kurt Gray joins the hosts to reveal how our sense of right and wrong shapes everything from social media disputes to personal relationships and political division.
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Living with food allergies brings a daily struggle of anxiety, uncertainty, and real risk—but it also offers powerful lessons about courage, resilience, and managing fear. In this revealing episode, we’re joined by Tamara Hubbard, a licensed clinical professional counselor and leading expert on the psychological impact of food allergies. Tamara draws on her personal journey and professional expertise to uncover how constant vigilan...
What happens when connection feels both necessary and terrifying? In this intimate episode, Dr. James Cordova explores how warmth, authenticity, and mindful space shape human relationships. With wisdom from Chris McCurry and Emma Waddington, you'll hear how vulnerability, presence, and self-compassion create space for healing — whether in therapy, family life, or personal growth.
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