Listen Before Love

We’re pulling back the curtain on how our relationship actually works day-to-day, sharing the specific practices that make love feel effortless, joyful, and deeply fulfilling. 👀

From Cam's vulnerable story about his aunt's life-changing advice on mutual service to Elle's insights on building genuine compatibility, this episode delivers the blueprint for relationships that feel like heaven on earth.

If you've ...

We respond to a juicy DM about a topic many struggle with: how to keep faith that the love you long for is out there.

In this deeply personal conversation, we share the ONE thing that changed everything in our love lives — and it's not what you think.

If you've ever had those 2 AM moments wondering "will it ever happen for me?" this episode is your permission slip to feel it all and transform it into MAGNET...

We're diving deep into one of the most controversial topics in relationships: what to do when you're out of alignment with your partner.

I know what most relationship coaches tell you: "work through it," "compromise," "relationships take work." But here's our honest take: if you're truly out of alignment with someone, they're not your person. Period.

In this episode, Cam and E...

Friend breakups are so painful and awkward… but no one talks about them. 👀

Let’s dive into 4 different kinds of friend breakups and how to approach each one with love and kindness. 

We got dozens of messages after our last episode asking how to handle friend breakups, so we hope this gives you an easy road map AND a permission slip to let go.

We have no obligation to keep people in our lives who make us feel drained, exha...

Break ups are in the air… romantic, platonic, professional. Oh my! 👀

Let’s dive into all the nitty gritty about why, when, and HOW to end a relationship the right way. 

Cam is a jedi master at break ups and leads these conversations better than anyone Elle has met… so much so, that she sits in the room and absorbs his approach when he breaks up with people. And you’re in for a treat today… we’re bringing you into 3 LIVE breakup exam...

Let's talk about the *heavy* dating app fatigue that our single friends are feeling right now.

This episode is inspired by one of my favorite creators, Danielle Walter aka The Carrie Bradshaw of SF!

Danielle said in a recent reel that "dating apps are like a full-time job" and "the pace of online dating is too fast for me right now."

This sparked today's conversation: why are people feeling so w...

We are BACK after a two month hiatus, baby! ❤️

So, where did we go and what did we learn in our time away?! Let's talk about it.

This episode is a behind the scenes look into an entrepreneurial couple's day to day. Juicy insights and stories, galore! 👀

Reminder: We host monthly meetings about all these topics, useful tools and resources to integrate, and MORE in our communities for men and women. Join us below or tell a friend!

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Cam and Elle revisit boundaries because this is a BIG topic.

We break down Boundaries 101 using a story, how to send and receive boundaries, and why extreme reactions are a sign of childhood wounds (with Elle explaining her most recent breakthrough)... this is an insight-packed episode. Take your time with it and be gentle with yourself.

Reminder: We lead weekly live meetings about all these topics, useful tools and resources to inte...

Cam and Elle call out some spiritual folks . 👀

It’s not all sunshine and roses over here… we have SEEN some verbal gymnastics to escape accountability! (Like the Twin Flames Universe cult, one of the wildest documentaries we’ve watched lately.) 

We talk about the concept of a mirror in relationships, how to differentiate between intuition and trauma response, why some coaches are broke, how we create space for our inner wisdom to sh...

Cam and Elle read a juicy DM. 👀

We’re still getting used to the whole “sharing your life online” thing… so let’s talk about it! 

We laugh about how Cam looked like a red flag factory when we met, how Cam usually tweets when he’s in a “meh” mood (and how it gets misinterpreted), and why our relationship is 0% toxic and 100% love.

Cute reminder: We both lead communities to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who k...

Cam and Elle explore boundaries.

We kick off with a story about how Elle got triggered by a “competition wound” after someone on the walk implemented strategies she freely gave, and how Cam responded to her anger – and brought it up later. 

This story is filled with real talk that high-achieving people may find some lightbulb moments in. 👀

We talk about how to communicate boundaries in a healthy way (with a sample script), why *not* ...

Cam and Elle explore epic first dates.

This is the third episode in our dating series — if you haven’t listened to the last 2 weeks (Episode 20 and 21), go ahead and do that first! 

These episodes are designed to give you the confidence to get back out there. We cover dating app strategy, how to stand out and secure a date, and now… how to knock it out of the park while you’re there LIVE!

Fun news: We're each launching communities for...

Cam and Elle discuss what happens AFTER you match.

This is the second episode in our dating series – if you haven’t listened to last week (Episode 20), go ahead and do that first!

In this episode, we give you unconventional tips that made us very successful on the apps: voice notes, selfie videos, mentioning small details on their profile (or roasting when they give 0 info), and quick Facetime dates before meeting in person.

I’ve nev...

Cam and Elle discuss The Apps.

We know they might seem hopeless and there’s some folks out there who just re-downloaded Hinge for the 16th time… 👀

So in this episode, we talk all about how to set yourself up for success on dating apps.

We give tactical advice for photos, prompts, how to avoid icks, and some perspective-shifting advice that strikes at the heart of why a lot of fantastic women are having a hard time finding love.

Fun n...

Cam and Elle discuss fights.

Are they a good sign? Are they necessary? How do we fight well? 👀

We go particularly hard about the role of growth vs fixed mindsets in romance… because The Growth Gap has ended many couples, usually years down the line.

Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to bot...

Cam and Elle discuss how hustle bros think women are a distraction.

The tea is piping hot on this one. 👀

We discuss what’s going on under the hood of “distracting” relationships, how to identify your fuel source in all areas, 2 easy steps to change your life… and more.

Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!)...

Cam and Elle discuss the wild world of exes… because Elle got a few texts. 👀

Should we talk to exes? Why do they circle back? Would you give closure if asked?

We dive into these questions, the piping hot tea of recent reach outs, and watch Cam have a coming-to-Jesus moment where he realizes that he was projecting some of his trust issues onto Elle. HOW JUICY!

Fun news: We're each launching positive dating communities to provide a lif...

Cam and Elle discuss when people share too much, too soon.

This conversation is inspired by David and Michelle, who were married as total strangers on the current season of Married At First Sight.

Right after they were married at the altar, David shared that he smoked cigarettes and lived in his parents’ basement, and Michelle caught a MAJOR ick and ran to the bathroom to cry.

We’ve seen this same thing happen on A LOT of first dates...

Cam and Elle discuss “The One.”

We share 2 stories from The Board Walks here in Austin, a weekly 5-mile walk for meaningful conversations that Elle has hosted 126 times.

We discuss a fun visualization to check whether you're choosing from love or scarcity, 2 big things to keep top of mind, the soulmate checklist (and the FEELING!), a challenge for our single friends... and so much more.

And... BIG NEWS! 

We're each launching positive d...