Listen, Mija - 💋 EP. 8: CEO of Hoe Life — Dating, DMs & Defining Cheating

Hey amiguis!!!

Welcome to episode 8! Part 1 in our cheeky 3 part sexy series ! In this episode, we are unpacking the mess, magic, and mental gymnastics of being a grown-ass woman trying to date, build confidence, and redefine what sex and self-love mean after years of shame and silence. This isn’t about “being a hoe” in the messy way we were taught—but more about reclaiming sensuality, curiosity, and boundaries as a Latina millennial with one foot in traditional culture and the other in a TikTok-therapy-era dating world. Mija, it’s not the apps… it’s the algorithm (and maybe your situationship).

So what is a C.E. Hoe — a woman in control, healed-ish, and holding space for both hookup culture and higher self.

This episode explores how we navigate desire, boundaries, and emotional honesty while trying to model something healthier for our teen daughters. We are not out here in these streets, but we can still be a C.E. Hoe—a woman in command of her sensuality, her values, and her voice.

This is for the wives, moms, partners—and yes, the secret rebels—who are trying to live with more intention, less shame, and a whole lot more honesty.

Talking Points:

• What does it mean to be a “C.E. Hoe”? (Owning your dating life & pleasure)
• Dating as a Latina mom/divorced woman/single queen in 2025
• App culture: Hinge, Bumble, Tinder—do they still work?
• Co-worker crushes & office romance: harmless or hell no?
• Can men and women actually be just friends? We get into it. 👀
• Defining cheating in the digital age:
• Is ageism affecting how we date?
• The Rice Purity Test moment — let’s expose ourselves 👀 Take it here: https://ricepuritytest.com`

Pop culture media mentioned in this episode

Netflix show - The Tinder Swindler, Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies and Scandal, The Principles of Pleasure,

Amazon movie - The Idea of You

Podcast - Flesh and Code

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Episode music credit - Fluffing a Duck by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/