Ep.5: (Season 2) Embracing Failure: Turning Setbacks into Comebacks

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Have you ever experienced a failure that completely reshaped your understanding of success? Join me, Vernae Bezear, as we unwrap the unexpected gifts of our missteps and grow from what initially seems like defeat. 

On this episode of The Listening Ears Podcast, we redefine failure and transform it into a powerful catalyst for growth. You'll learn to pivot from seeing setbacks as stumbling blocks to recognizing them as invaluable lessons that can propel you toward your goals. I'll guide you through embracing a growth mindset and share actionable steps to turn those 'failures' into wisdom that lights your way to success.

I'm challenging you to think back to a moment when things didn't go as planned and unearth the hidden knowledge it provided. We're going to take those insights and use them as fuel to chase our dreams with renewed vigor. I invite you to engage with our community, sharing your stories of resilience and learning. Together, we'll build a space where growth is sparked by leaning into the lessons our failures teach us. Tune in and join our collective journey of turning setbacks into powerful comebacks!

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Episode Transcript

Vernae (00:05):
Hey there, beautiful souls, and welcome back to
season 2 of The Listening Earspodcast, your go-to podcast for
self-awareness and your journeyof self-discovery.
I am your host, Vernae Bezear.
Today we're diving into a topicwe've all struggled with at

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some point in our lives Failure.
But here's a twist we'reflipping the script on failure,
seeing it not as a setback butas a springboard for growth.
So grab your favorite beverage,settle in and let's chat about

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the art of failing forward.
To discuss failing forward, wemust first understand what
failure is.
It's funny how we'reconditioned our entire lives to
fear it, but it's just a naturalpart of life.

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It doesn't mean you're not goodenough or unworthy or unfitting
.
I mean, if we look at nature,even the strongest, tallest
trees have fallen leaves right,it's all about perspective.

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Failure is a natural part oflife, not a mark against your
self-worth.
It's a teacher, a guide, afriend in disguise.
So how do we shift from fearingfailure to embracing it?

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Well, it's about mindset.
A growth-mindset is the ideathat we can grow, change, and
develop through effort andexperiences.
That means seeing failure notas a dead end but as an

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opportunity, a stepping stone tosomething better.
It is this beautiful universe,giving you a little poke or
nudge or pointing you in adifferent direction.
Imagine a world where we couldall see our mistakes as chances

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to learn and grow.
Absolutely beautiful, wouldthat be?
So?
If you want to start failingforward, here are some easy
steps.
Step one identify the misstep.

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Ask yourself what went offtrack.
No judgments or blame, justsheer curiosity and an abundance
of patience with yourself.
Step two reflect on the lessons.

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Think about what this missteptaught you and find the learning
opportunities.
Instead of focusing on thenegative emotions, ask what can
I learn from this?
What will I do differently nexttime?

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Step three, the last step Moveforward with wisdom.
Create a plan and move forwardwith the newfound information,
opportunities, and wisdom.
Take that knowledge, apply it,and watch just watch how your

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path begins to shift.
Embracing failure isn't aboutignoring the pain or frustration
that often comes with setbacks.
It's about transforming thoseemotions into insights and

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actions, a proactive approachthat turns failures into
stepping stones.
When you face a setback,instead of asking why me?
Try asking what is thisteaching me?

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Stay focused on your growthpath and know that every single
experience is shaping theincredible person you are
becoming.
Okay, I want you to think of atime when you stumbled and
learned something valuable fromit.
I challenge you to embrace thatlesson and take one small step

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toward a dream you've beenputting off, whether it's
signing up for a class, reachingout to a mentor for advice or
even just jotting down yourgoals.
I challenge you to take thatstep today and, if you feel

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inspired, send us a quick shoutor note sharing what you've done
.
Let's grow together as acommunity.
Let's grow together by failingforward.
Thank you, as always, forjoining me on this journey today

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.
Let's turn those setbacks intocomebacks and grow together
Until next time.
Embrace your failures andcontinue to stay inspired.