December 31, 2024 • 18 mins
In this episode of Live Life Unapologetically, we’re diving into a common struggle: comparing your manifestation timeline to others. If you’ve ever thought, “Why hasn’t that happened for me yet?” or found yourself frustrated by someone else’s success, this episode is for you.
We’ll explore:
- Why comparing yourself to others creates resistance and blocks abundance
- What does manifestation time mean and why it’s not about clocks or calendars
- How to align with your unique journey and let go of comparison
You’ll also learn practical steps to:
- Reclaim your energy and attention when comparison arises
- Celebrate others’ successes as inspiration, not competition
- Practice gratitude and affirm your desires as if they’re already yours
Plus, I’ll share a quick visualization exercise to help you shift from comparison to alignment and embrace the limitless abundance waiting for you.
Tune in now and learn how to stop comparing, start aligning, and unlock the wealth you deserve!
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Manifest SHE Coaching
Manifest SHE Course/CEO Waitlist
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello there and welcome back to the Live Life
Unapologetically podcast.
I am Shannon Kaye and todaywe're diving into a topic that I
know so many of you strugglewith, and that's manifestation
time comparisons, comparing yourjourney to others.
But before we dive into all ofthat, I just wanted to note that
(00:21):
this is the first episode ofthe year and, coincidentally
enough, it is on the first dayof the year.
Now I do look at yeardifferently.
To me, spring is really thebeginning of a new year.
Right, that's when everythingis blooming.
Right now we're in winter andeverything is dormant and we can
(00:41):
follow the lead of nature andnatural cycles, and I believe
that is healthier for us.
I wanted to touch base with youa little bit.
I didn't do a show last week.
I took a week off and typicallyI don't do that, but I just had
a downtime week, not because Iwork all the time and I feel
(01:02):
like I have to work all the time.
I simply love coming on hereand empowering you.
I love recording this show.
It is such a passion of mine.
It's just a part of my dailylife.
If anybody has been around forsome time, you know I don't
hustle and grind.
I have all of the timeflexibility that I could imagine
and want.
Sometimes I feel like I havetoo much, but I've manifested
(01:25):
that into my life because I wastired of being a slave to the
clock and I didn't want that.
I wanted to have a life withflow that wasn't so routine.
I am a routine person, but Iwanted an opportunity to explore
something new.
So doing the podcast is justsomething that I enjoy, that I
love coming here every singleweek.
(01:47):
I don't batch record.
I don't have episodes in thebackground to post just in case
I intuitively think of what thisweek should have.
I reach out to listeners.
Listeners reach out to me and Itry to meet you where you are
and with what you want.
This year you're going to seesome shifts.
We're going in a differentdirection.
In my down week I really cameto the realization of alignment
(02:13):
and being aligned with community.
There are some places wherethere was no alignment and I
thought to myself I need vibes.
I need vibes.
Continuing on.
This has been justself-discovery on my part over
the past couple of years andwhat I've been looking forward
to in community not having tohide myself because we are
(02:34):
unapologetic and we areauthentic, being in places of
acceptance.
I want this to be a place ofacceptance for you to know you
can come as you are, ofacceptance for you to know you
can come as you are, you cancome with your beliefs and your
values, and that they're allappreciated in love.
There's no judgment here.
My only goal is to empower you,as a woman, to use manifestation
(02:55):
to access wealth to have animpact.
Wealth is impactful.
We can use wealth to impact theworld in a positive way, to
leave it better than what wefound it.
We can use wealth to take theworld down and put it under our
heel.
Wealth is not good or bad.
Wealth is how we choose to useit.
(03:16):
I think that's a bigmisconception.
Is that it has to be bad?
I mean, let's look at what'shappening with Elon Musk and a
whole lot of other people.
They're using wealth for theirown gain, not to leave the world
a better place.
I think to myself sometimes ifwe had more women, billionaires
and millionaires, what would theworld look like then?
Wealth is just a currency ofconnection in our world.
(03:39):
In the past, in history, wealthwas trading, bartering.
It's just evolved, and so Ireally want to empower women to
embrace their wealth this yearto come into their divine power.
Women are inherently creators.
You are inherently a creator.
It's only the woman who cancreate life, only you, only the
(04:02):
woman who has the ability toreceive and to give, inherently
in your nature.
And this year is the year totap into that divineness within
you and to harness the powerthat has been suppressed.
So the week of reflection, myweek of downtime it really
brought this all together for me, it brought together why I
(04:25):
started doing what I do in thefirst place.
Not to mention, one of mygreatest passions has always
been to meet women exactly wherethey are, because I remember
what it was like not to have twopennies to rub together,
literally that all of my changehad been used and there was
nothing left, to where I am nowgenerating five figures a month
(04:48):
without even working for it, andthat's just one income stream.
That's not all of my incomestreams.
I remember those days and Iknow what it's like now and in
the world I'm in, I'm intocoaching, I'm into mentorship.
I believe you need theaccountability.
I believe that some days wejust need somebody to tell us
it's okay, that we've got it,we're making progress.
While I'm not a fan of needingoutside validation for
(05:11):
everything you do.
Sometimes outside validationcan help pick us up when we fall
, and that's what coaching andmentorship gets you.
But being in the space, I knowthat coaching and mentorship
cost money and therefore it'sonly available to those who are
at a certain level.
But those who aren't at thatlevel yet are many times shamed
(05:31):
for not being at that level.
Well, if you would just believe, if you would just have faith
you have a scarcity mindset Ifyou really wanted it, you'd find
a way.
That's not the approach that Itake.
It's not the approach that I'veever taken.
I like to meet you where youare.
I know I would be so muchfurther along in my life if
there wasn't a paywall behindthings.
(05:51):
I believe coaching time isvaluable.
My time is valuable.
I charge for my coaching, butthat doesn't mean that I'm going
to leave other women behind,and so this year is really about
helping women rise.
For me, no matter where you areon the financial spectrum, I
have something for you.
For the past month, I have beenin reflection, planning
(06:15):
inspiration, tuning into mydivine spirit to really show me
the way.
How can I reach every woman, nomatter where she is so that I
can help her rise.
We all need help, and that'sokay.
I still need help with things,and that's okay.
I have coaches to this day.
We don't get to a certain pointin stuff, and that's all right
too.
(06:35):
It doesn't mean there'sanything wrong with us Needing a
coach or help or support.
It doesn't mean anything'swrong with us.
We don't look at children andthink, oh, why do they need help
?
Because they're learningeverything new about the world.
You're learning new aboutmanifestation, or leveling up in
manifestation.
It's just something you'venever done before.
It's okay to have somebody toguide you along the way.
(06:57):
In fact, I have been blessed tohave conversations with many
women recently who said I justwant somebody to hold my hand
and tell me step-by-step what todo.
I'm too overwhelmed to try tofigure it out on my own, and
that really spoke to me.
So what have I developed?
What will you see from me foryou in 2025?
(07:19):
The first thing you're going tosee and it is available now is
the Manifest she magazine.
This is a free monthly magazine.
That's right.
You get a new episode everysingle month for free.
This is reaching you where youare, if you happen to be at a
space where you're like, shannon, I can't pay for your coaching
(07:39):
right now, but I want to rise.
This is for you.
It has articles in there, ithas events in areas that we can
go to, it has success stories,it has Ask she, where you can
submit your question and get ananswer, and so much more.
It has a monthly exercise, amonthly challenge everything you
(08:00):
need to get you moving in yourmanifestation journey.
Now I said Manifest she and aswe go through this year, when I
talk about alignment, it's allgoing to flow through Manifest
she.
I found my socials were notaligned some of them and they
have changed.
So you can find me on Instagramand threads at Manifest she.
(08:23):
Instead of coaching withShannon K, I will more than
likely be transitioning my othersocials along these lines.
I still haven't heard fromSpirit if I should transition
the Live Life Unapologeticallypodcast to the Manifest she
podcast.
I don't know.
We'll see, but I will keep youup to date on that so you always
(08:43):
know where to get theinformation.
So the first step, the firstplace that I'm starting from, is
the Manifest she magazine.
I will be blogging more and, ofcourse, you have the podcast.
So those are three free andin-depth places to expand your
manifestation journey.
The next thing that I have thatyou can do right now if you
(09:06):
want, is the Manifest sheone-on-one coaching.
This is an intensive coachingto get you started and to get
you going.
I do this one-on-one currentlyand I take three clients a month
right now.
If you can't afford one-on-onecoaching within Manifest she,
there is a option for costsharing and I have all of that
(09:28):
information on the Manifest shesite, that is, at
coachingwithshannonkcom, so youcan learn more about it there.
I am going to put the link toall of these things in the show
description so that you can findwhat I'm talking about.
Next up, next on tap and thisis going to be more towards the
(09:48):
summer I will be offering aManifest she course slash
membership.
I'm still in development ofthat right now, but that's
coming.
If you're subscribed to themagazine, you'll be the first to
know when that drops.
And finally, so many of thewomen that I work with are
business owners.
They are moving towardscreating their own wealth or,
(10:10):
like me, being in charge oftheir own time.
There's a vision in them tobring to the world, to help
impact the world.
Remember, this year is aboutimpact and divine feminine power
.
They're tapping into that intheir own way, moving out of
patriarchal systems ofemployment and doing something
different.
Towards the end of the year, Iwill have Manifest she CEO for
(10:34):
those women.
That will give them the 80%mindset, the 20% strategy needed
to build wealth throughbusiness.
So in all, in 2025, we have theManifest she magazine.
That's a free magazine everysingle month.
That is available now and Iwill put that link.
(10:54):
You can find it atlivelifeunapologeticallycom
forward slash magazine.
Manifest Sheet Coachingone-on-one is open with cost
share.
The Manifest Sheet course willdrop around the summertime and
Manifest Sheet CEO is going tobe coming out towards the end of
2025.
These are not resolutions.
(11:14):
These are not goals.
This was inspired by spirit andmy alignment with spirit.
We will be talking more aboutunlocking your wealth and the
issues that women have comeacross.
Your power is in creation as awoman, and wealth is one of the
things that you can create.
So that is what is on tap herefor the new year.
(11:35):
You're going to see someadjustments and I will keep you
up to date on all of thoseadjustments.
So if you are a woman lookingto own your power through
manifestation and have an impacton the world, to leave it a
better place than when you foundit.
This year, this podcast, thisjourney is for you, it's for me,
(12:03):
it's for all of us women.
So let's get back into what's onthe show for today, and that is
manifestation time comparisons.
As we go through this journey,one of the things I want you to
be very aware of ismanifestation time comparisons.
Have you ever looked someoneelse's success and thought why
hasn't that happened for me?
Yet Do you find yourselfcomparing your manifestation
journey to what others seem tobe achieving effortlessly?
(12:23):
If you're nodding along, you'renot alone.
Comparing someone else's winsto your waiting is one of the
fastest ways to block your ownabundance.
And manifestation isn't abouttimelines, especially not
someone else's.
So we're going to break downwhy these comparisons hurt your
wealth manifestations, whatmanifestation time really is,
and how to shift your focus backto your own alignment to unlock
(12:45):
the wealth you deserve.
So I want you to grab yourfavorite drink, cozy up and
let's get started.
First, let's dive right into whycomparing yourself to others is
so harmful to yourmanifestation journey.
That's because you're divertingyour energy.
Manifestation requiresalignment of your thoughts,
emotions and actions to pointtowards your desire.
So when you're focused on whatsomeone else is doing, you're
(13:08):
pulling your energy away fromyour own alignment.
Then you reinforce a lackmindset, because every time you
think they have it and I don't,you're affirming lack.
The lack-focused energy is whatthe universe responds to.
So instead of attractingabundance, you're attracting
more feelings of not havingenough, which is going to create
(13:32):
resistance, because comparisoncreates frustration, doubt and
impatience.
These emotions are forms ofresistance that block your
ability to align with the wealthyou're calling in.
And here's the thingManifestation isn't about
rushing to the finish line.
It's about revealing what'salready here and not yet visible
(13:52):
to you.
You see, your manifestationsaren't something in a far off
distance and if we keepvisualizing them that way,
they're always going to be faroff, kind of like chasing the
horizon.
It just always eludes you.
Your manifestations are visibleto you when you're ready to
reveal them.
They're already here.
The more you focus on someoneelse's journey, the more you're
(14:15):
going to delay your own, becauseyour manifestation is there.
We just have to move past somethings to reveal it to our eyes,
so it's no longer hidden.
Now I really want you tounderstand manifestation time,
because manifestation isn'tabout waiting for something to
happen.
It is about aligning with whatalready exists.
Your desires are not outside ofyou.
(14:35):
They are already here.
You just need to remove theblocks that are keeping them
hidden from you and from youreceiving them.
I like to think about a radiostation and maybe that says my
age, because a lot of us don'tuse radio stations anymore like
that.
But it is like tuning into aradio station the music is
already playing, but if you'renot on the right frequency you
(14:57):
can't hear it.
Manifestation time is abouttuning into the frequency of
your desire, not comparing thevolume of somebody else's radio
station to your static.
The timeline doesn't matter,because the universe doesn't
operate on clocks or calendars.
It operates on energy andalignment.
So the moment you're fullyaligned, the manifestation
(15:20):
appears.
How do you stop comparing andstart aligning?
Here are some steps to shiftyour focus.
I want you to reclaim yourattention.
So every time you catchyourself comparing, you need to
pause and ask what can I doright now to align with my
desire?
Half the time when we'recomparing, it's not even a
(15:42):
desire of ours.
It's something similar.
It's not exactly what we want.
Everybody's desires are unique.
So when you pause and askyourself what can I do to align
with my desire?
And when you pause, you mayjournal, you may meditate.
Or you pause and ask yourselfwhat can I do to align with my
desire?
And when you pause, you mayjournal, you may meditate, or
you might just remind yourselfthat your journey is unique.
Then celebrate others withoutcomparison.
When you see someone else'ssuccess, shift your mindset from
(16:05):
why them, not me, to that'sproof of what's possible.
I used to get stuck in acomparison game and I shifted it
and I told myself if it canhappen for them, it can happen
for me.
Life-changing mindset shift.
Use their wins as inspirationinstead of evidence of your lack
.
And I want you to practicegratitude for the present moment
.
I say it all the time, I'malways gonna say it Gratitude is
(16:29):
the most powerful way to alignto abundance.
Focus on what's going right inyour life now instead of what
you're waiting to reveal andmanifest and create.
I did this last night.
It felt so good.
I had such good sleep.
I just thought of everything Iloved and I was grateful for in
this moment.
It really brings you into thatabundance.
Then reaffirm your desires as ifthey're already yours.
(16:51):
Use affirmations likeeverything I desire is already
here.
For me, the universe isaligning everything perfectly
for my good.
Here's a quick exercise that Iwant you to focus on that you
can use to refocus yourself ifyou are caught up in comparison.
Close your eyes, take a fewdeep breaths, imagine your
(17:15):
desire as if it's already here.
I want you to see it, feel itand experience the joy of having
it.
Now.
Imagine yourself surrounded byothers who are also thriving,
instead of comparing.
Feel the energy of sharedabundance and let it inspire you
(17:36):
.
Open your eyes and carry thataligned energy with you
throughout your day.
This exercise is about shiftingfrom comparison to inspiration
and remind yourself thatabundance is limitless.
It is not a pie where someoneelse's success takes away from
(17:56):
your portion or your slice, andremember that manifesting isn't
a competition.
The universe is limitless, andso are you.
Focus on your alignment, trustyour journey and let abundance
flow to you in its perfect time.
You've got this, and I willchat with you next week.
Hello there and welcome back to the Live Life
Unapologetically podcast.
I am Shannon Kaye and todaywe're diving into a topic that I
know so many of you strugglewith, and that's manifestation
time comparisons, comparing yourjourney to others.
But before we dive into all ofthat, I just wanted to note that
(00:21):
this is the first episode ofthe year and, coincidentally
enough, it is on the first dayof the year.
Now I do look at yeardifferently.
To me, spring is really thebeginning of a new year.
Right, that's when everythingis blooming.
Right now we're in winter andeverything is dormant and we can
(00:41):
follow the lead of nature andnatural cycles, and I believe
that is healthier for us.
I wanted to touch base with youa little bit.
I didn't do a show last week.
I took a week off and typicallyI don't do that, but I just had
a downtime week, not because Iwork all the time and I feel
(01:02):
like I have to work all the time.
I simply love coming on hereand empowering you.
I love recording this show.
It is such a passion of mine.
It's just a part of my dailylife.
If anybody has been around forsome time, you know I don't
hustle and grind.
I have all of the timeflexibility that I could imagine
and want.
Sometimes I feel like I havetoo much, but I've manifested
(01:25):
that into my life because I wastired of being a slave to the
clock and I didn't want that.
I wanted to have a life withflow that wasn't so routine.
I am a routine person, but Iwanted an opportunity to explore
something new.
So doing the podcast is justsomething that I enjoy, that I
love coming here every singleweek.
(01:47):
I don't batch record.
I don't have episodes in thebackground to post just in case
I intuitively think of what thisweek should have.
I reach out to listeners.
Listeners reach out to me and Itry to meet you where you are
and with what you want.
This year you're going to seesome shifts.
We're going in a differentdirection.
In my down week I really cameto the realization of alignment
(02:13):
and being aligned with community.
There are some places wherethere was no alignment and I
thought to myself I need vibes.
I need vibes.
Continuing on.
This has been justself-discovery on my part over
the past couple of years andwhat I've been looking forward
to in community not having tohide myself because we are
(02:34):
unapologetic and we areauthentic, being in places of
acceptance.
I want this to be a place ofacceptance for you to know you
can come as you are, ofacceptance for you to know you
can come as you are, you cancome with your beliefs and your
values, and that they're allappreciated in love.
There's no judgment here.
My only goal is to empower you,as a woman, to use manifestation
(02:55):
to access wealth to have animpact.
Wealth is impactful.
We can use wealth to impact theworld in a positive way, to
leave it better than what wefound it.
We can use wealth to take theworld down and put it under our
heel.
Wealth is not good or bad.
Wealth is how we choose to useit.
(03:16):
I think that's a bigmisconception.
Is that it has to be bad?
I mean, let's look at what'shappening with Elon Musk and a
whole lot of other people.
They're using wealth for theirown gain, not to leave the world
a better place.
I think to myself sometimes ifwe had more women, billionaires
and millionaires, what would theworld look like then?
Wealth is just a currency ofconnection in our world.
(03:39):
In the past, in history, wealthwas trading, bartering.
It's just evolved, and so Ireally want to empower women to
embrace their wealth this yearto come into their divine power.
Women are inherently creators.
You are inherently a creator.
It's only the woman who cancreate life, only you, only the
(04:02):
woman who has the ability toreceive and to give, inherently
in your nature.
And this year is the year totap into that divineness within
you and to harness the powerthat has been suppressed.
So the week of reflection, myweek of downtime it really
brought this all together for me, it brought together why I
(04:25):
started doing what I do in thefirst place.
Not to mention, one of mygreatest passions has always
been to meet women exactly wherethey are, because I remember
what it was like not to have twopennies to rub together,
literally that all of my changehad been used and there was
nothing left, to where I am nowgenerating five figures a month
(04:48):
without even working for it, andthat's just one income stream.
That's not all of my incomestreams.
I remember those days and Iknow what it's like now and in
the world I'm in, I'm intocoaching, I'm into mentorship.
I believe you need theaccountability.
I believe that some days wejust need somebody to tell us
it's okay, that we've got it,we're making progress.
While I'm not a fan of needingoutside validation for
(05:11):
everything you do.
Sometimes outside validationcan help pick us up when we fall
, and that's what coaching andmentorship gets you.
But being in the space, I knowthat coaching and mentorship
cost money and therefore it'sonly available to those who are
at a certain level.
But those who aren't at thatlevel yet are many times shamed
(05:31):
for not being at that level.
Well, if you would just believe, if you would just have faith
you have a scarcity mindset Ifyou really wanted it, you'd find
a way.
That's not the approach that Itake.
It's not the approach that I'veever taken.
I like to meet you where youare.
I know I would be so muchfurther along in my life if
there wasn't a paywall behindthings.
(05:51):
I believe coaching time isvaluable.
My time is valuable.
I charge for my coaching, butthat doesn't mean that I'm going
to leave other women behind,and so this year is really about
helping women rise.
For me, no matter where you areon the financial spectrum, I
have something for you.
For the past month, I have beenin reflection, planning
(06:15):
inspiration, tuning into mydivine spirit to really show me
the way.
How can I reach every woman, nomatter where she is so that I
can help her rise.
We all need help, and that'sokay.
I still need help with things,and that's okay.
I have coaches to this day.
We don't get to a certain pointin stuff, and that's all right
too.
(06:35):
It doesn't mean there'sanything wrong with us Needing a
coach or help or support.
It doesn't mean anything'swrong with us.
We don't look at children andthink, oh, why do they need help
?
Because they're learningeverything new about the world.
You're learning new aboutmanifestation, or leveling up in
manifestation.
It's just something you'venever done before.
It's okay to have somebody toguide you along the way.
(06:57):
In fact, I have been blessed tohave conversations with many
women recently who said I justwant somebody to hold my hand
and tell me step-by-step what todo.
I'm too overwhelmed to try tofigure it out on my own, and
that really spoke to me.
So what have I developed?
What will you see from me foryou in 2025?
(07:19):
The first thing you're going tosee and it is available now is
the Manifest she magazine.
This is a free monthly magazine.
That's right.
You get a new episode everysingle month for free.
This is reaching you where youare, if you happen to be at a
space where you're like, shannon, I can't pay for your coaching
(07:39):
right now, but I want to rise.
This is for you.
It has articles in there, ithas events in areas that we can
go to, it has success stories,it has Ask she, where you can
submit your question and get ananswer, and so much more.
It has a monthly exercise, amonthly challenge everything you
(08:00):
need to get you moving in yourmanifestation journey.
Now I said Manifest she and aswe go through this year, when I
talk about alignment, it's allgoing to flow through Manifest
she.
I found my socials were notaligned some of them and they
have changed.
So you can find me on Instagramand threads at Manifest she.
(08:23):
Instead of coaching withShannon K, I will more than
likely be transitioning my othersocials along these lines.
I still haven't heard fromSpirit if I should transition
the Live Life Unapologeticallypodcast to the Manifest she
podcast.
I don't know.
We'll see, but I will keep youup to date on that so you always
(08:43):
know where to get theinformation.
So the first step, the firstplace that I'm starting from, is
the Manifest she magazine.
I will be blogging more and, ofcourse, you have the podcast.
So those are three free andin-depth places to expand your
manifestation journey.
The next thing that I have thatyou can do right now if you
(09:06):
want, is the Manifest sheone-on-one coaching.
This is an intensive coachingto get you started and to get
you going.
I do this one-on-one currentlyand I take three clients a month
right now.
If you can't afford one-on-onecoaching within Manifest she,
there is a option for costsharing and I have all of that
(09:28):
information on the Manifest shesite, that is, at
coachingwithshannonkcom, so youcan learn more about it there.
I am going to put the link toall of these things in the show
description so that you can findwhat I'm talking about.
Next up, next on tap and thisis going to be more towards the
(09:48):
summer I will be offering aManifest she course slash
membership.
I'm still in development ofthat right now, but that's
coming.
If you're subscribed to themagazine, you'll be the first to
know when that drops.
And finally, so many of thewomen that I work with are
business owners.
They are moving towardscreating their own wealth or,
(10:10):
like me, being in charge oftheir own time.
There's a vision in them tobring to the world, to help
impact the world.
Remember, this year is aboutimpact and divine feminine power
.
They're tapping into that intheir own way, moving out of
patriarchal systems ofemployment and doing something
different.
Towards the end of the year, Iwill have Manifest she CEO for
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those women.
That will give them the 80%mindset, the 20% strategy needed
to build wealth throughbusiness.
So in all, in 2025, we have theManifest she magazine.
That's a free magazine everysingle month.
That is available now and Iwill put that link.
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You can find it atlivelifeunapologeticallycom
forward slash magazine.
Manifest Sheet Coachingone-on-one is open with cost
share.
The Manifest Sheet course willdrop around the summertime and
Manifest Sheet CEO is going tobe coming out towards the end of
2025.
These are not resolutions.
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These are not goals.
This was inspired by spirit andmy alignment with spirit.
We will be talking more aboutunlocking your wealth and the
issues that women have comeacross.
Your power is in creation as awoman, and wealth is one of the
things that you can create.
So that is what is on tap herefor the new year.
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You're going to see someadjustments and I will keep you
up to date on all of thoseadjustments.
So if you are a woman lookingto own your power through
manifestation and have an impacton the world, to leave it a
better place than when you foundit.
This year, this podcast, thisjourney is for you, it's for me,
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it's for all of us women.
So let's get back into what's onthe show for today, and that is
manifestation time comparisons.
As we go through this journey,one of the things I want you to
be very aware of ismanifestation time comparisons.
Have you ever looked someoneelse's success and thought why
hasn't that happened for me?
Yet Do you find yourselfcomparing your manifestation
journey to what others seem tobe achieving effortlessly?
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If you're nodding along, you'renot alone.
Comparing someone else's winsto your waiting is one of the
fastest ways to block your ownabundance.
And manifestation isn't abouttimelines, especially not
someone else's.
So we're going to break downwhy these comparisons hurt your
wealth manifestations, whatmanifestation time really is,
and how to shift your focus backto your own alignment to unlock
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the wealth you deserve.
So I want you to grab yourfavorite drink, cozy up and
let's get started.
First, let's dive right into whycomparing yourself to others is
so harmful to yourmanifestation journey.
That's because you're divertingyour energy.
Manifestation requiresalignment of your thoughts,
emotions and actions to pointtowards your desire.
So when you're focused on whatsomeone else is doing, you're
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pulling your energy away fromyour own alignment.
Then you reinforce a lackmindset, because every time you
think they have it and I don't,you're affirming lack.
The lack-focused energy is whatthe universe responds to.
So instead of attractingabundance, you're attracting
more feelings of not havingenough, which is going to create
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resistance, because comparisoncreates frustration, doubt and
impatience.
These emotions are forms ofresistance that block your
ability to align with the wealthyou're calling in.
And here's the thingManifestation isn't about
rushing to the finish line.
It's about revealing what'salready here and not yet visible
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to you.
You see, your manifestationsaren't something in a far off
distance and if we keepvisualizing them that way,
they're always going to be faroff, kind of like chasing the
horizon.
It just always eludes you.
Your manifestations are visibleto you when you're ready to
reveal them.
They're already here.
The more you focus on someoneelse's journey, the more you're
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going to delay your own, becauseyour manifestation is there.
We just have to move past somethings to reveal it to our eyes,
so it's no longer hidden.
Now I really want you tounderstand manifestation time,
because manifestation isn'tabout waiting for something to
happen.
It is about aligning with whatalready exists.
Your desires are not outside ofyou.
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They are already here.
You just need to remove theblocks that are keeping them
hidden from you and from youreceiving them.
I like to think about a radiostation and maybe that says my
age, because a lot of us don'tuse radio stations anymore like
that.
But it is like tuning into aradio station the music is
already playing, but if you'renot on the right frequency you
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can't hear it.
Manifestation time is abouttuning into the frequency of
your desire, not comparing thevolume of somebody else's radio
station to your static.
The timeline doesn't matter,because the universe doesn't
operate on clocks or calendars.
It operates on energy andalignment.
So the moment you're fullyaligned, the manifestation
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appears.
How do you stop comparing andstart aligning?
Here are some steps to shiftyour focus.
I want you to reclaim yourattention.
So every time you catchyourself comparing, you need to
pause and ask what can I doright now to align with my
desire?
Half the time when we'recomparing, it's not even a
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desire of ours.
It's something similar.
It's not exactly what we want.
Everybody's desires are unique.
So when you pause and askyourself what can I do to align
with my desire?
And when you pause, you mayjournal, you may meditate.
Or you pause and ask yourselfwhat can I do to align with my
desire?
And when you pause, you mayjournal, you may meditate, or
you might just remind yourselfthat your journey is unique.
Then celebrate others withoutcomparison.
When you see someone else'ssuccess, shift your mindset from
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why them, not me, to that'sproof of what's possible.
I used to get stuck in acomparison game and I shifted it
and I told myself if it canhappen for them, it can happen
for me.
Life-changing mindset shift.
Use their wins as inspirationinstead of evidence of your lack
.
And I want you to practicegratitude for the present moment
.
I say it all the time, I'malways gonna say it Gratitude is
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the most powerful way to alignto abundance.
Focus on what's going right inyour life now instead of what
you're waiting to reveal andmanifest and create.
I did this last night.
It felt so good.
I had such good sleep.
I just thought of everything Iloved and I was grateful for in
this moment.
It really brings you into thatabundance.
Then reaffirm your desires as ifthey're already yours.
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Use affirmations likeeverything I desire is already
here.
For me, the universe isaligning everything perfectly
for my good.
Here's a quick exercise that Iwant you to focus on that you
can use to refocus yourself ifyou are caught up in comparison.
Close your eyes, take a fewdeep breaths, imagine your
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desire as if it's already here.
I want you to see it, feel itand experience the joy of having
it.
Now.
Imagine yourself surrounded byothers who are also thriving,
instead of comparing.
Feel the energy of sharedabundance and let it inspire you
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.
Open your eyes and carry thataligned energy with you
throughout your day.
This exercise is about shiftingfrom comparison to inspiration
and remind yourself thatabundance is limitless.
It is not a pie where someoneelse's success takes away from
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your portion or your slice, andremember that manifesting isn't
a competition.
The universe is limitless, andso are you.
Focus on your alignment, trustyour journey and let abundance
flow to you in its perfect time.
You've got this, and I willchat with you next week.
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