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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So you want to move south, do you you want
to move down to the place where things are a
little bit slower, People talk a little bit different, and
I think we think a little bit different sometimes. But
you know, we have a lot of our own cultures
and dialects, and you know, just the way we do
(00:21):
things down south a little bit different than the rest
of the country, I think. But if you want to come,
come on, we just need to know how we do things.
You need to respect that and you need to become
part of the community and not run against it. You
know what I mean. We're never going to make a
(00:42):
town in South Carolina or Alabama or Georgia a town
in New York. It's is not going to happen. Not
going to be New York City, not going to be Manhattan.
We're not going to act like it. So just remember
that when you come down, we love to have you.
God bless your hearts. So today we're going to talk
about slow and steady wind surrace. The transition to a
(01:04):
Southern life often involves a significant shift in the pace
of daily existence, and that is the truth for those
accustomed to the phonetic energy of larger cities and the
relentless drive. A fast paced professional environment, the slower rhythm
of the South can be initially disorienting, even unsettling. The
(01:29):
South can be initially what's the word just different because
of the difference. You know, it's not just because of
the matter of speed. It maybe helps you with how
fast my brain is working today, and that's not very fast.
It's a fundamental shift in the perspective, a cultural value
(01:52):
deeply ingrained in the fabric of Southern society. This slower
pace isn't about laziness or in a efficiency. It's a
deliberate choice reflecting a different set of priorities, one that
emphasizes community relationships and more holistic approach to life. The
slower tempo manifests in countless ways, subtly shaping daily routines
(02:17):
and social interactions. Consider, for example, the simple act of
running errands. In many Southern towns and cities, shopping isn't
a rushed, checklist driven activity. Instead, it's often an opportunity
for casual conversation with shopkeepers and fellow shoppers, a chance
(02:38):
to encounter someone that might lead to a new friendship
or a shared story. The lines at the grocery store
might move a little slower, punctuated by friendly exchanges in
the exchange of local news and happenings around town. This
isn't an efficiency. It's a deliberate down, an acknowledgment that
(03:02):
the life is about more than just completing tasks. And
that's the truth. That's the way we like it. That's
why everyone should like it. There'll be plenty of time
to get all your stuff done. I don't need to
be in a hurry. So this leadsure will talk about
being in a hurry. Now, my father was born in Alabama.
He was a judge for thirty years, a local legend.
(03:24):
To be honest with you, but that man could talk
so slow that when he would tell a story, and
of course I'd heard these stories, I don't know a
million times, Oh my gosh, I mean it got to
the point where it was a bit painful. I'm like, okay,
let's get to it, Dad, get to it. Get to it.
It was just talking so slow and deliberate. I can't listen.
(03:49):
I don't talk fast. I know what that goodness gracious ah, anyway,
I missed that man. So this isn't inefficiency. It's a
deliberate slowing down. All right, so we got that the
leisurely approach extends beyond shopping and dining out in the
South is rarely a hurried affair. Meals are often shared events,
(04:09):
opportunities for extended conversations and relaxed socializing. The concept of
taking your time is not just an accepted norm, it's
actively encouraged. Waiting for a table at a popular restaurant
isn't seen as a major inconvenience as long as there's
room with the bar. It's a chance to catch up
(04:31):
with friends and simply enjoy enjoy the ambiance. The emphasis
isn't on speed or efficiency, but on the enjoyment of
a shared experience. The emphasis on slowing on slower living
profoundly impacts social interactions. Relationships in the South tend to move,
tend to be deeper and more meaningful. Friendships often develop organically,
(04:56):
nurtured through shared experiences and constant interaction. Consistent interaction, people
take the time to get to know each other, to
build trust and rapport. This contrast with the fast paced
lives of some other regions, where connections can be more
fleeting and transactional. In the South, relationships or investments requiring
(05:19):
time and effort, but yielding rich rewards in terms of
emotional support and community engagement. Considering the way work is approached.
While professional goals are certainly important, the Southern work ethic
is often less about relentless productivity and more about consistent,
reliable effort. The emphasis might be on quality over sheer quantity,
(05:44):
reflecting a cultural appreciation for craftsmanship and attention to detail.
Deadlines are still important, but the overall approach often involves
a more balanced approach to work and personal life, less
prone to the streams of burnout and often seen in
higher pressure environments. The relaxed approach to time extends to
(06:09):
social events. Parties and gatherings tend to be more informal
and less structured than in other regions. There's a greater
emphasis on casual conversations and shared experiences rather than rigidly
planned agendas. Yeah, we kind of fly by the seat
of our pants. The flow is The flow of the
(06:30):
evening is often organic, allowing for spontaneous interactions and unscripted
moments of connection. It's about enjoying the company and the moment,
rather than adhering to a strict schedule. Even the rhythm
of daily life reflects the slower pace. There is a
greater appreciation for simple pleasure, for taking the time to
(06:52):
enjoy the beauty of nature, or for engaging in leisure
activities a Sunday afternoon stroll through a park, at evenings
spent on the porch, or a slow morning savoring cup
of coffee. These are not seen as luxuries, but as
integral parts of a fulfilling Southern lifestyle. This appreciation for
(07:12):
a slower pace of life, however, doesn't imply to a
lack of ambition or drive. Southern residents are capable of
significant accomplishments and are often deeply involved in their communities. However,
their approach to success is often more measured and sustainable,
less focus on instant gratification, and more attuned to a
(07:34):
long term perspective. It's often said that slow and steady
wins the race, and this advantage captures the essence of
the Southern approach to life, patience, perseverance in a long
term view, or value traits, reflecting on belief that genuine
progress takes the time and sustained effort. The slower pace
(07:56):
extends to travel and personal journeys. Road trips are treated
as leisurely adventures, not rushed attempts to cover ground as
quickly as possible. A drive through the scenic countryside might
take longer, allowing for spontaneous stops at roadside attractions, leisurely picnics,
and impromptu conversations with locals. The journey itself becomes as
(08:19):
important as the destination, an opportunity to connect with the
environment and the people encountered along the way. Even in
the realm of technology, the South, slower pace has presented
is a presence. While technology has permeated all aspects of life,
the tendency isn't toward the immediate adoption of the newest innovations. Instead,
(08:42):
there's often a preference for proven methods and familiar technologies.
This isn't both about resisting progress. It's about carefully evaluating
new tools and adopting them when their benefits clearly outweigh
the potential disruptions to the established where them of life.
The Southern emphasis on slow living should not be mistaken
(09:05):
for a lack of productivity or ambition. Many successful individuals
and thriving businesses exist within the Southern States. The different
lives in the approach a conscious effort to balance work
with personal life, to savor experiments, experiences, and to prioritize
meaningful relationships. This intention, this intentional slowing down, fosters a
(09:29):
sense of community and well being often absent in more
phrenetic environments. The transition to the Southern lifestyle requires an adjustment.
For many many newcomers, the slower pace can feel strangely
unproductive at first, a deviation from the fast paced lives
(09:50):
they might be accustomed to. However, as one adapts, this
slower rhythm reveals its considerable benefits. It allows for deeper
appreciation of the simple pleasures, a greater connection with one's surroundings,
and more meaningful relationships. It's a perspective shift, a change
not just in speed, but in priorities and values. I
(10:14):
like perspective shift. That's a good way to put it.
Learning to embrace the slower pace of Southern life means
shedding the urgency of the past. Leave it at home,
it's your old home. It's about learning to appreciate the moments,
to engage in meaningful conversations, and to cultivate deep relationships.
(10:37):
It requires patience, adaptability, and a willingness to let go
of the pressure to constantly strive for more. In time,
this slower tempo can prove to be one of the
most rewarding aspects of living in the South, leading to
a more balance, fulfilling, and ultimately richer life. The ability
(10:57):
to truly relax and appreciate this simple things become a
skill in itself, a valuable asset. And an increasingly fast
paced world, the South offers a powerful antidote to the
relentless pressure of modern life, a chance to reconnect with
oneself one's community in the beauty of a slower, more
(11:18):
intentional existence. It's a testament to the enduring wisdom that
slow and steady wins the race, not just in achieving goals,
but in experience, in the fullness of life itself. By
embracing this distinct cultural rhythm, newcomers cannot only survive, but thrive,
(11:39):
enriching their lives in unexpected and profound ways. The transition
might require patience and adaptation, but the rewards are well
worth it and worth all the effort, offering a pathway
to a richer and more fulfilling life. So there you go,
Slow and steady, going to win the race. So come
(12:01):
on down, love to see, love to have you. We'll
talk more next time on moving to the South and
some other cool things about the South. I'm gonna teach
you a lot of things, so when you get here,
you're gonna know what to do and how to act.
You're gonna say thank you to me one day. All Right, y'all,
have a great day. God bless
So you want to move south, do you you want
to move down to the place where things are a
little bit slower, People talk a little bit different, and
I think we think a little bit different sometimes. But
you know, we have a lot of our own cultures
and dialects, and you know, just the way we do
(00:21):
things down south a little bit different than the rest
of the country, I think. But if you want to come,
come on, we just need to know how we do things.
You need to respect that and you need to become
part of the community and not run against it. You
know what I mean. We're never going to make a
(00:42):
town in South Carolina or Alabama or Georgia a town
in New York. It's is not going to happen. Not
going to be New York City, not going to be Manhattan.
We're not going to act like it. So just remember
that when you come down, we love to have you.
God bless your hearts. So today we're going to talk
about slow and steady wind surrace. The transition to a
(01:04):
Southern life often involves a significant shift in the pace
of daily existence, and that is the truth for those
accustomed to the phonetic energy of larger cities and the
relentless drive. A fast paced professional environment, the slower rhythm
of the South can be initially disorienting, even unsettling. The
(01:29):
South can be initially what's the word just different because
of the difference. You know, it's not just because of
the matter of speed. It maybe helps you with how
fast my brain is working today, and that's not very fast.
It's a fundamental shift in the perspective, a cultural value
(01:52):
deeply ingrained in the fabric of Southern society. This slower
pace isn't about laziness or in a efficiency. It's a
deliberate choice reflecting a different set of priorities, one that
emphasizes community relationships and more holistic approach to life. The
slower tempo manifests in countless ways, subtly shaping daily routines
(02:17):
and social interactions. Consider, for example, the simple act of
running errands. In many Southern towns and cities, shopping isn't
a rushed, checklist driven activity. Instead, it's often an opportunity
for casual conversation with shopkeepers and fellow shoppers, a chance
(02:38):
to encounter someone that might lead to a new friendship
or a shared story. The lines at the grocery store
might move a little slower, punctuated by friendly exchanges in
the exchange of local news and happenings around town. This
isn't an efficiency. It's a deliberate down, an acknowledgment that
(03:02):
the life is about more than just completing tasks. And
that's the truth. That's the way we like it. That's
why everyone should like it. There'll be plenty of time
to get all your stuff done. I don't need to
be in a hurry. So this leadsure will talk about
being in a hurry. Now, my father was born in Alabama.
He was a judge for thirty years, a local legend.
(03:24):
To be honest with you, but that man could talk
so slow that when he would tell a story, and
of course I'd heard these stories, I don't know a
million times, Oh my gosh, I mean it got to
the point where it was a bit painful. I'm like, okay,
let's get to it, Dad, get to it. Get to it.
It was just talking so slow and deliberate. I can't listen.
(03:49):
I don't talk fast. I know what that goodness gracious ah, anyway,
I missed that man. So this isn't inefficiency. It's a
deliberate slowing down. All right, so we got that the
leisurely approach extends beyond shopping and dining out in the
South is rarely a hurried affair. Meals are often shared events,
(04:09):
opportunities for extended conversations and relaxed socializing. The concept of
taking your time is not just an accepted norm, it's
actively encouraged. Waiting for a table at a popular restaurant
isn't seen as a major inconvenience as long as there's
room with the bar. It's a chance to catch up
(04:31):
with friends and simply enjoy enjoy the ambiance. The emphasis
isn't on speed or efficiency, but on the enjoyment of
a shared experience. The emphasis on slowing on slower living
profoundly impacts social interactions. Relationships in the South tend to move,
tend to be deeper and more meaningful. Friendships often develop organically,
(04:56):
nurtured through shared experiences and constant interaction. Consistent interaction, people
take the time to get to know each other, to
build trust and rapport. This contrast with the fast paced
lives of some other regions, where connections can be more
fleeting and transactional. In the South, relationships or investments requiring
(05:19):
time and effort, but yielding rich rewards in terms of
emotional support and community engagement. Considering the way work is approached.
While professional goals are certainly important, the Southern work ethic
is often less about relentless productivity and more about consistent,
reliable effort. The emphasis might be on quality over sheer quantity,
(05:44):
reflecting a cultural appreciation for craftsmanship and attention to detail.
Deadlines are still important, but the overall approach often involves
a more balanced approach to work and personal life, less
prone to the streams of burnout and often seen in
higher pressure environments. The relaxed approach to time extends to
(06:09):
social events. Parties and gatherings tend to be more informal
and less structured than in other regions. There's a greater
emphasis on casual conversations and shared experiences rather than rigidly
planned agendas. Yeah, we kind of fly by the seat
of our pants. The flow is The flow of the
(06:30):
evening is often organic, allowing for spontaneous interactions and unscripted
moments of connection. It's about enjoying the company and the moment,
rather than adhering to a strict schedule. Even the rhythm
of daily life reflects the slower pace. There is a
greater appreciation for simple pleasure, for taking the time to
(06:52):
enjoy the beauty of nature, or for engaging in leisure
activities a Sunday afternoon stroll through a park, at evenings
spent on the porch, or a slow morning savoring cup
of coffee. These are not seen as luxuries, but as
integral parts of a fulfilling Southern lifestyle. This appreciation for
(07:12):
a slower pace of life, however, doesn't imply to a
lack of ambition or drive. Southern residents are capable of
significant accomplishments and are often deeply involved in their communities. However,
their approach to success is often more measured and sustainable,
less focus on instant gratification, and more attuned to a
(07:34):
long term perspective. It's often said that slow and steady
wins the race, and this advantage captures the essence of
the Southern approach to life, patience, perseverance in a long
term view, or value traits, reflecting on belief that genuine
progress takes the time and sustained effort. The slower pace
(07:56):
extends to travel and personal journeys. Road trips are treated
as leisurely adventures, not rushed attempts to cover ground as
quickly as possible. A drive through the scenic countryside might
take longer, allowing for spontaneous stops at roadside attractions, leisurely picnics,
and impromptu conversations with locals. The journey itself becomes as
(08:19):
important as the destination, an opportunity to connect with the
environment and the people encountered along the way. Even in
the realm of technology, the South, slower pace has presented
is a presence. While technology has permeated all aspects of life,
the tendency isn't toward the immediate adoption of the newest innovations. Instead,
(08:42):
there's often a preference for proven methods and familiar technologies.
This isn't both about resisting progress. It's about carefully evaluating
new tools and adopting them when their benefits clearly outweigh
the potential disruptions to the established where them of life.
The Southern emphasis on slow living should not be mistaken
(09:05):
for a lack of productivity or ambition. Many successful individuals
and thriving businesses exist within the Southern States. The different
lives in the approach a conscious effort to balance work
with personal life, to savor experiments, experiences, and to prioritize
meaningful relationships. This intention, this intentional slowing down, fosters a
(09:29):
sense of community and well being often absent in more
phrenetic environments. The transition to the Southern lifestyle requires an adjustment.
For many many newcomers, the slower pace can feel strangely
unproductive at first, a deviation from the fast paced lives
(09:50):
they might be accustomed to. However, as one adapts, this
slower rhythm reveals its considerable benefits. It allows for deeper
appreciation of the simple pleasures, a greater connection with one's surroundings,
and more meaningful relationships. It's a perspective shift, a change
not just in speed, but in priorities and values. I
(10:14):
like perspective shift. That's a good way to put it.
Learning to embrace the slower pace of Southern life means
shedding the urgency of the past. Leave it at home,
it's your old home. It's about learning to appreciate the moments,
to engage in meaningful conversations, and to cultivate deep relationships.
(10:37):
It requires patience, adaptability, and a willingness to let go
of the pressure to constantly strive for more. In time,
this slower tempo can prove to be one of the
most rewarding aspects of living in the South, leading to
a more balance, fulfilling, and ultimately richer life. The ability
(10:57):
to truly relax and appreciate this simple things become a
skill in itself, a valuable asset. And an increasingly fast
paced world, the South offers a powerful antidote to the
relentless pressure of modern life, a chance to reconnect with
oneself one's community in the beauty of a slower, more
(11:18):
intentional existence. It's a testament to the enduring wisdom that
slow and steady wins the race, not just in achieving goals,
but in experience, in the fullness of life itself. By
embracing this distinct cultural rhythm, newcomers cannot only survive, but thrive,
(11:39):
enriching their lives in unexpected and profound ways. The transition
might require patience and adaptation, but the rewards are well
worth it and worth all the effort, offering a pathway
to a richer and more fulfilling life. So there you go,
Slow and steady, going to win the race. So come
(12:01):
on down, love to see, love to have you. We'll
talk more next time on moving to the South and
some other cool things about the South. I'm gonna teach
you a lot of things, so when you get here,
you're gonna know what to do and how to act.
You're gonna say thank you to me one day. All Right, y'all,
have a great day. God bless
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