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June 27, 2022 55 mins

This is the episode everyone has been waiting for. Yep, the conversation about S-E-X, sex. 

On the podcast today, Landyn is bringing on Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends. Vanessa is a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and well, Xander is just a regular dude. Tune in as Vanessa brings her education and clinical experience to the table - while Xander breaks it down to understand the men in our lives.

Landyn is asking the couple YOUR question you submitted via Instagram. And surprisingly (or maybe not so much!) - most of you were asking the SAME question!

In this conversation, they are covering things like: 

  • What is the average amount people are having sex? 
  • How to get the connection back after you’ve been in a dry spell with your significant other
  • The difference between physical vs emotional intimacy; and how to know which one you are
  • What a man is ACTUALLY thinking during those intimate moments in the bedroom, and
  • How and WHEN to bring up conversations around sex with your spouse - even when they don’t want to talk about it

 

Guys - they aren’t holding anything back!  It’s basically the sex education you WISH you’d had!

Follow Vanessa and Xander: https://www.instagram.com/vanessamarintherapy

For full episode notes, head to: www.livingwithlandyn.com/all-things-sex-education-what-men-are-really-thinking-in-the-bedroom-how-to-get-the-spark-back-in-your-relationship-with-vanessa-xander-marin

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