In this raw, unfiltered episode, the Lords of Lending pull back the curtain on the personal experiences that shaped them into the SBA lending experts they are today.
From childhood poverty and career failures to finding purpose through adversity, Shane, Stephanie, and Brian share the dark seasons that forged their professional wisdom.
This isn't your typical business advice - it's the real story behind the expertise. Sometimes the best business wisdom comes from the worst personal moments.
🎯 TIMESTAMPS
00:00 - Opening: Why vulnerability builds trust in business
04:12 - "Invisible & Underestimated" - The wounds that shaped us
06:47 - Shane's 7th grade identity crisis: From "thug" to outcast
09:36 - Brian's parents' divorce: Finding identity through sports
12:02 - Steph on daily invisibility: "Everyone else is prioritized"
16:28 - "You're Not Enough" - When the world tells you to quit
18:25 - Shane's Financial Collapse: Near-bankruptcy and the bird in the garage
23:47 - Steph's Dark Decades: "Zero through 20 - it was all dark"
26:21 - "Just when you think you're buried, really you're planted"
28:25 - Brian's Law Firm Disaster: Fired two weeks before his son was born
35:04 - The phone call that changed everything: "Dude, I just got fired"
38:20 - "Life Was All About Me" - The lies we believe about ourselves
43:19 - Steph: "I allowed people to typecast me for too long"
45:48 - Things We Can't NOT Do: Shopping carts, serving others, turning off lights
48:03 - Late Night Questions: Parasites, cancer fears, and life's anxieties
52:18 - The Archetypes: Oracle, Magistrate, and Alchemist revealed
53:05 - Steph "The Oracle": Seeing patterns before they emerge
55:03 - Brian "The Magistrate": From attorney to wise judge
56:53 - Shane "The Alchemist": Turning pressure into systematic gold
58:00 - Golden Nugget: Why people must be happy in their roles to succeed
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