Love Beyond the Basics

Ever wondered what ingredients make for a love that not only sparkles but endures? On the latest episode of Love Our Talks, I promise to reveal the secrets that transform fleeting infatuation into a resilient, everlasting bond. We strip away the frills of fleeting romance to focus on the core pillars of respect, honesty, trust, and loyalty. It's a no-holds-barred journey to understanding how to cherish your partner's individuality, face the raw truths of honesty, and build the kind of trust that turns a shaky fling into a rock-solid partnership.

Join us as we explore the actions and choices that nurture a truly committed relationship. You'll find out why loyalty isn't just a word but a daily choice, and how these elements act as the glue that holds together a love that truly stands the test of time. Let's elevate our conversation about love from the superficial to the profound, fostering connections that are not just deserving but truly enduring. Tune in and get ready for an inspiring blend of heartfelt stories, enlightening discussion, and practical advice on creating the kind of love story that doesn't just exist in fairy tales.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
Hey, hey, hey, loves, Welcome to another captivating
episode of Love, our Talks, thepodcast where we dive into all
things juicy about love, dating,relationships, entertainment
and wellness.
I am your host, kay Love, andtoday, honey, we are diving into

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the heart okay, into the heartof what makes our connections
with each other truly meaningful, and we're calling this one
Beyond the Basics.
So let's go ahead and unpack.
You know everything we havegoing on with the idea, the
powerful ideas, that's bound tochange the way you think about

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love, what you think love is.
We're going, like I said,beyond the basics.
So let's go ahead and breakthis down, shall we?
Let's start with attention andcompliments.
You know we're used to that.
That's the basics.
Attention and compliments.
I mean they're wonderful, right, I mean like, aren't they?

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They make us feel seen,appreciated and valued.
But, as Charles Orlando pointsout, these are but the initial
offerings of love, the easy part, if you will.
True love, the kind that standsto test of time, is built on so
much more.

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Now, anyone can give youattention and compliments, but
someone who loves you will giveyou that plus more.
We're talking about respect,honesty, trust and loyalty.
Now, this notion invites us tolook beyond the surface and
discover what truly sustains aloving relationship.

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Okay, now let's go ahead andbreak these down.
Let's start with respect.
It's not just about the politegestures or saying the right
thing.
It's about truly valuing yourpartner.
I mean their opinions, theirfeelings, I mean like their
entire being.
And respect means understandingthat your partner is a whole

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individual outside of yourrelationship.
They have their dreams andfears, just like you, right?
Let's move on to honesty.
This is where love gets real.
Honesty isn't always pretty oreasy, but it's crucial.

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It's about being open aboutyour thoughts and your feelings,
even when it's uncomfortable.
It's the cornerstone of, like,a strong, resilient relationship
.
So let's be real.
When you want someone to behonest with you, then to lie to
you, I mean, I know I would Tellme what's up.

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Be real, keep it real, okay.
And that brings us on to trust,trust.
Trust builds over time and thatbuilds through your actions and
experiences.
It's knowing in your heart thatyour partner's got your back

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and that they'll be there foryou.
Enjoy and in pain, okay.
It's a mutual belief that yourbond is strong enough to
withstand life's challenges.
And we all know we all havelife's challenges.
And finally we get to myfavorite and what I love to the

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core, and it is what I stand by.
Okay, it's me, it's me to thecore.
What I stand by.
It is loyalty.
Like loyalty, love loyalty.

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Okay.
So loyalty is the unwaveringcommitment to your partner and
to the love you both share.
It's about choosing each otherevery single day, day after day,
through your ups and throughyour downs of life.
Loyalty binds you together,creating a partnership that

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fortifies against whatever theworld throws your way.
Okay?
So I say all of this to justsay, you know, love's just.
Let's reflect on that.
Let's reflect on those thingsIn our relationships.
We are moving beyond thesuperficial Okay, we don't have

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time for that anymore.
We're looking to cultivaterespect, honesty, trust and
loyalty, Because these are thepillars of a love that lasts and
the kind of love that will.
We all truly, pretty muchdeserve.
And who doesn't want that,right?

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So I just want to thank you guysfor tuning in to Love Our Talks
.
I hope today's episode inspiresyou to deepen the connections
in your life and remember, truelove is about more than just the
feel good moments.
It's about building somethingenduring, something real and

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long-lasting, right?
So until next time, I just wantyou guys to keep loving, keep
being true and keep theconversation going, because
guess what I want to hear fromyou?
So I want to hear your take onit.
Let's talk about it.
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more juicy topics like this,and see what we talk about, see
what we're bantering about.
Okay, and I want to say thankyou, thank you, thank you so
much for making Season 1, anamazing season for me, because
just seeing that I have lovelisteners out there and you

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helped me make it to 250downloads.
I'm ecstatic about that.
I really, really, really, trulylove you guys and I really
truly love the support thatyou've given me.
And thank you so much forrocking with your girl, kayla.
Thank you, thank you, thank youUntil next time with Love, our
Talks.
I just want you guys to knowsome things.

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Just remember each day it holdsthe promise of new beginnings,
so just be better, do better,love harder than the day before,
okay, because the best daysaren't behind you.
They're being written today, sokeep moving forward, because

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your potential is limitless.
Alright, so I love you guys.
Bye.