#211: Can You Save Your Relationship When Your Partner Wants Out?

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Feeling stuck in the space between staying and leaving?

That painful limbo, where your relationship isn’t thriving, but it’s not over either, can feel like a roller coaster of hope, despair, and confusion. Whether your partner has asked for space, filed for divorce, or you’re simply feeling emotionally disconnected, you might be asking yourself: Can this relationship be saved, or am I fooling myself?

Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for anyone at a relationship crossroads. Hosted by Staci Bartley, along with her husband, Tom, and daughter, Brooke, we’re here to help you navigate the complexities of love and partnership with honesty, compassion, and practical tools.

In this episode, we’re diving into what we call The Land of Maybe—the uncertain, emotional space where relationships are tested to their core. We’ll explore:

• Why this space feels like “hell on earth” and how to find peace amidst the chaos.
• How letting go of control (not hope) can create powerful new possibilities.
• What needs to happen for healing, even when one partner seems resolved to leave.
• Real stories of couples who found clarity and growth, whether together or apart.

If you’re holding on, unsure what to do next, this episode is for you. Discover how to shift from fear and confusion to clarity and strength. Because space doesn’t have to mean the end, it can be the beginning of transformation.

Let’s uncover what’s possible. Join us in the Love Shack.

Timestamps: 

• 03:19 Listener Question: Avoiding Divorce
• 05:13 Emotional Rollercoaster of Uncertainty
• 07:31 The Importance of Honest Communication
• 11:35 Navigating Emotional Pain and Discomfort
• 21:02 The Power of Letting Go
• 29:29 Creating Emotional Safety
• 33:45 The Consequences of Avoiding Difficult Conversations
• 35:52 The Importance of Honest Communication
• 37:22 Learning to Communicate Effectively
• 39:00 Personal Stories and Examples
• 41:25 The Lifelong Journey of Relationship Skills
• 44:10 Navigating Relationship Challenges
• 47:58 The Power of Self-Reflection
• 53:23 Envisioning a Future of New Possibilities
• 57:38 Conclusion and Resources

Has your partner asked for space? Don’t panic—it doesn’t have to mean the end of your relationship. Instead, it can be the start of a transformative journey toward clarity, confidence, and connection.

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Your journey toward clarity and strength starts now.