#222: The Real Reason You Can’t Change Your Relationship Patterns (And How to Fix It)

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Are you tired of knowing what to do, but still finding yourself stuck in old patterns? You’re not alone.

If you’ve ever felt the frustration of knowing exactly what could help your relationship but still falling back into old habits, this episode is for you. We’re diving into a common struggle: why knowing what to do isn’t the same as being able to actually do it. In this episode of Love Shack Live, we’ll explore the gap between knowledge and action, and why real change comes not just from learning new things, but from practicing and integrating the skills that love requires.

Join me, Staci Bartley, along with my co-hosts, Tom and Brooke, as we break down the emotional hurdles, the practice required, and why love itself can be the best teacher we have.

We’ll answer the tough questions:

• Why is it so hard to do what I know is right?
• What’s missing in all the relationship advice out there?
• How do I actually put these lessons into practice?

If you’re ready to move beyond just “knowing better” and start doing better, this episode will show you how. Don’t miss out, let’s get into the real work of love.

👉 Ready to stop making things worse during space and finally understand what’s actually going on?

Get the Space & Separation Communication Playbook for just $9 and discover which of the 3 emotional survival patterns: The Controller, The Collapser, or The Drifter, is quietly hijacking your connection.

This isn’t just a quiz. It’s your roadmap out of confusion and into clarity, with real scripts and next steps to help you reconnect without pushing them away.

🎯 Don’t wait. Most couples spend years stuck in the same painful loop. Let’s break yours today.

Grab your copy here → stacibartley.com/separation-survival-kit/space-communication-playbook