Love Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building

Love Your People Well - Christian Motherhood Tips, Marriage Help, and Family Relationship Building

Welcome to the podcast that helps you build healthy, happy, and holy family relationships! As a marriage and family therapist, pastor’s wife, and mom of 4 little ones, I know the ups and downs of Christian family life can get overwhelming. We all get discouraged sometimes. And the busy world can distract us from what truly matters. That’s why every week here on the podcast, you’ll find biblical encouragement and practical tips to help you enjoy family life more. Together, we’ll deepen our marriages, strengthen our parenting, and find greater peace in the love of Christ. P.S. - Grab your freebies, devotionals, and more at www.LoveYourPeopleWell.com Hugs & blessings, friend. I’ll talk to you soon! ~ Jess

Episodes

August 6, 2025 7 mins

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Episode 261 // The book of Proverbs gives us wisdom, hope and encouragement. And today, we’ll take a look at Proverbs 21:9 and find wisdom for ourselves as wives. 

 

It’s not an easy proverb to read, but it should hit close to home for all of us: “Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.” Proverbs 21:9

 

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Episode 260 // God is always with you. He hears every prayer, and He responds. 

 

Of course, that doesn’t always look like we hope it will. And He does not always act in ways that we desire. But our prayer journeys build a connection with God that carries us through hard and difficult seasons. 

 

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Episode 259 // Psalm 90:12 is a powerful verse that should point us not only toward the wisdom and goodness of God, but also toward a reality check for our own busy lives. 

 

Our days are numbered. This may feel especially true when we consider the realities of family life. How long will your children be innocent in childhood? How long until ...

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Episode 258 // Prayer is the centerpiece of Christian life. But it’s easy to spend too much time on the day-to-day little things and miss out on praying for the deeper, richer priorities of life. 

 

Today’s psalm will help us get back on track. We’ll take a look at Psalm 139 and consider together how our prayer lives for our family can focus ...

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Episode 257 // “But I cry to you for help, LORD; in the morning my prayer comes before you. Why, LORD, do you reject me and hide your face from me?” Psalm 88:13-14.

 

Not an easy prayer. But this psalm is so REAL for us. We’ve all had these seasons, where we are desperate for the Lord’s help and yet we f...

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Episode 256 // We’re diving into the Psalms for the month of July, and starting right at the beginning today! Psalm 1 is such a helpful reality check for each of us - for our own lives, but also for our responsibility as moms.

 

Summer can bring a lot of fun and freedom… so perhaps it’s even more important to be intentional and biblically-min...

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Episode 255 // Summertime is a chance for great fun and family bonding… and a chance for extra bickering, cranky kids, and one million repetitions of “I’m bored.”

 

No more, friend. 

 

Today, we’ll tackle a few angles to Summer Mom Life: a few reality checks about how to manage summer stressors, 10 fun and free ideas for family bonding, PLUS one big warning - to make s...

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Episode 254 // Family discipleship is a key responsibility for Christian parents. But what does that really mean? What can it look like for toddlers or teens?

 

As you dive into the summertime, this is a unique chance to try something new and go deeper with your kids. Yes, you want a fun summer - but you also want it to be meaningful!

 

Join me today for a look at what “family discipleship”...

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Episode 253 // Today, I want to offer a few quick ideas on how to make your summer more meaningful - for yourself and for your whole family!

 

Yes, do the big vacations and the fun events and the special summer things. But summer is also a unique (and perfect!) time for sel...

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Grab my 40-day devotional on marriage communication: Communicating To Connect

 

Episode 252 // Did you know that your relationship can grow deeper, closer, and better if you figure out how to handle conflict well?

 

I’ve been a marriage and family therapist for over 10 years. And in today’s episode, I want to share my process for healthy, happy, and holy conflict resolution. 

 

You can just grab the FREEBIE of my 10-point cheat she...

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Episode 251 // Can you enjoy a healthy, happy, and holy family life without serving one another out of love?

 

The idea of serving others is counter-cultural. We think it won’t feel good, it will feel hard, we might get taken advantage of… Yet, this is how Jesus calls on Christians to show their love for each other!

 

And no one serves others more than a mo...

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Episode 250 // It’s a cliche in Christian circles… “I should read the Bible more.” Or maybe, “I wish I read the Bible more.” Sometimes we beat ourselves up about it: “Gosh, why can’t I seem to regularly read my Bible?!”

 

It’s a thing many of us wish to be more consistent with. So why aren’t we? Does it really matter anyway? How could we get things moving in a dir...

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Episode 249 // It’s easy to get caught up in the flow of everyday life. But do you realize that there is an Enemy at war against you? At war against your family?

 

As Christians, we often think about the power of Jesus Christ in our lives and we pray for the Holy Spirit’s help as we struggle, grow, and j...

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Grab the Joy In The Journey 40-day Devotional on finding biblical joy in the hard seasons of motherhood.

 

Episode 248 // There’s nothing more painful than watching your kids struggle. But when they are struggling, there are ways that you can help!

 

Last week, we looked at caring for our hearts when our kids struggle. Today, let’s dive into some practical tips for how to HELP them when they are struggling. 

 

I’ve been a family co...

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Episode 247 // When you are hurting because your kids are hurting… what can you do?

 

We usually want to jump to action steps to help them. What should I say? What can I do?

 

Those things are important… and we’ll tackle that next week :-) But we can’t just jump over the pain that WE experience when our kids are struggling. An...

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Episode 246 // Want to change your family relationships? Your home atmosphere? Change your words. 

 

What you say, and how you say it, will shape every relationship you care about. Scripture talks often about our words and how we use them. And the Bible gives very specific wisdom about how to use our words to strengthen our relationships, bless others, and enjoy family life mo...

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We are in the middle of Holy Week, friends. The week when we remember Jesus’ last days as He walked toward the cross. We celebrate the forgiveness of our sins on Good Friday and the incredible truth of the resurrection on Easter Sunday. 

 

So today, we’ll pause our usual podcast plans to reflect together. I want to share my “Daily-ish Devotional Thought” from inside the Faith Fiver Club - the Patreon community supporting this show!...

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Episode 245 // Scripture offers great encouragements - and great warnings - about the power of our tongue. Words tend to shape the quality of our relationships, and they can slip out quickly. 

 

Our words are shaped by our emotions. And just like our emotions can be hard to manage, our tongues are sometimes even more so! 

 

Today, let’s sit together in James 3...

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Episode 244 // We all have those moments when we’re about to lose it. How can you cool down when you’re in that hot-button moment?

 

This is a common mom struggle - even for Christian mamas who are walking closely with Jesus! And we want our words and our reactions to show the fruit of the Spirit in every situation.

 

So today, I want to share 9 quick tips for...

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Episode 243 // Big, heavy, hard emotions are going to happen in life. And one of the problems is that they won’t just impact you. When you’re struggling, your whole family is impacted.

 

So in today’s episode, I want to share 5 ways that your emotional struggles are impacting your family (despite your best efforts) - AND 5 very practical, quick things you can do right a...

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