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September 23, 2024 62 mins

“You’re born looking like your parents but you die looking like your decisions.”

Recorded live from Decatur, GA, Stew and Zan talk about dapping people with wet hands, the value of mentoring, balancing your emotional checkbook, the role of a father, old and young Black men who look alike, finding your purpose, dimensions of identity and lace front wigs on 20 year olds.

None of these topics make sense separately but together they make for a great lunch break 🧃

Bonus points if you can guess the answer to the question in the final minute of the pod without cheating 🐊

Word of the day - Bequeathed

Special shoutout to Phil (@ovo_pj) from @blkmenneedhugs!

Topics

  • 6:39 Lashes, Leave-outs, and Locs, Oh My!
  • 18:30 Baby Bottle Pop
  • 21:03 Conceiving Cold Cuts
  • 34:00 Who’s Who?
  • 43:09 Accidentally on Purpose 
  • 55:53 Black Men Needs Hugs 

Intro song: “I Wonder”- Kanye West
Outro song: “Sara Smile”- Hall & Oates

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Zan's Quarter Zip -  https://shop.truluckcharms.com/products/dont-rest-on-riches-quarter-zip-sweater

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