LX2 Codependency Coaching
Licensed Clinical therapist with 10+ years of experience treating individuals, families and couples navigating through the challenges of relationships, identity and life changes. Helping humans do relationships better with boundary setting and improved communication.
Episodes
Today, we are talking about corrosive doubt and traumatic invalidation. The idea that if our emotional experience is often rejected or denied we can build up doubt in our ability to do or feel things fully. We lack the trust in ourselves to get through difficult or challenging things. #corrosivedoubt #trustyourself #traumaticinvalidation #mentalhealth
Today, we are talking about compulsion or the feeling of have to do things, usually motivated by fear or worry. It is helpful to work on fact checking through your fear or worry and allowing space for recognizing what you think will happen if you don't complete the task. A reframe of "I feel better when" can help you see the need to complete a task can reduce the fear or worry. #compulsion #anxiety #fear #controlwhatyoucan
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Today, we are talking about consciously choosing peace. Life can be hard a lot of the time and if we take a moment to seek out the things that give us a moment of peace, whatever that looks like to you, life gets a little sweeter. #choosepeace #mentalhealt #mindset #askmeanything
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Today, we are talking about two new to me concepts of adaptive intelligence and forced capacity. Both show up for most people as hyper independence and anxiety. They are ways our brains and bodies work through the challenges of feeling safe and secure in the world by doing more and over thinking. #adaptiveintelligence #capacity #trauma #neglect #feelingsafe #mentalhealth
Today, we are talking about how all of our realities are subject to how we feel, our experiences, and what we know we are experiencing what ever is happening in the moment. The other cool thing is, it all changes. We get to shift our perspective and move through things, especially when they are uncomfortable. #reality #perspective #emotionalexperience #changes
Today, we are talking about emotional maturity. The idea that we can build resilience and awareness of our emotional experience through allowing space for what we are feeling. How to build connection through curiosity about what someone else is feeling. #emotionalawareness #emotionalmaturity #narcissiticbehavior #takingfeedback #connection #empathy
Today, we are talking about the want to. Often we lack the discipline and motivation to get things done to create lasting change. This isn't a character flaw but block in motivation and challenge to get ourselves moving from one place to another. #discipline #motivation #change #selfsabotage
Today, we are talking about how to manage and communicate our expectations to prevent disappointment and resentment. It is helpful to check in with out own experience and feeling to recognize how those inform what we expect from people, relationships, and situations. #disappointment #expectations #relationships #communciation
Today, we are talking about taking an intentional pause of just 30 seconds. It's helpful when we stop for just a moment and give ourselves time to be more intentional in conversation or in our actions. If we take a moment to think about our impact on the people we care about by sending a message or being kind out in the world. 30 seconds can help build connection or create compassion. Half a minute to be patient with ourselves and ...
Today, we are talking about the idea of no contact in relationships. It is sometimes necessary to create a hard boundary in a once close relationship that consists of not being in communication. The decision to withdraw contact should be about maintaining your peace, resources, and being able to be your most authentic self. If you make the decision to withdraw access those people who feel entitled to those things, know that y...
Today, we are talking about the past, present, and future. It is helpful to have an awareness of what happened before now or who we have been in the past. Consider trying to stay grounded in the present moment, even when it is hard, controlling what you can. It is also helpful to work on planning things to look forward to in the future to keep momentum going. #awareness #letitgo #mentalhealth #staypresent #planthefuture
Today, we are talking about the idea of "no matter what". There are some relationships, situations, or circumstances we feel loyal or committed to without questioning the "what". Humans are constantly changing and evolving. It is important to evaluate if these ideas or choices still make sense in the life you have now. #notmatterwhat #question #changeyoumindset
Today, we are talking about evaluating life situations and circumstances based on whether they are a benefit for the effort you are putting to them. Often we think if we just give a little more or do more we will get a better outcome. The reality is, we need to be accepting of the situation for what it is and then evaluate if it is good enough or if we want more. That can be hard but not impossible. We don't always get more from so...
Today, we are taking about how to create strength in the bonds of relationship. I was thinking about steel and how it is strengthened with different elements, heated, and shaped into a strong substance that be used to build, defend, and create. Our relationships are similar in that they can have different elements of personality and skills that will be tested through time. Relationships grow stronger going through hard things and b...
Today, we are talking about unintentional consequences of our choices and behaviors. We often take for granted that we don't things in a vacuum and what we do doesn't have an impact on other things. The reality is our behavior will impact others, our partner, children, and the larger whole with what we do. It is helpful to take a moment to observe our own behavior and get curious about how we influence others. #unintendedconsequenc...
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