Being "nice" could be ruining your life.
In this powerful episode of Magnificence, host Patricia Lindner teams up with special guest Jason Croft to break down why setting boundaries feels impossible for so many people.
Patricia opens up about her personal story of being a chronic people-pleaser, sharing how her father's words at age six shaped decades of putting others first. With warmth and understanding, she explains the physical and emotional toll of weak boundaries.
Jason brings a contrasting perspective as someone naturally skilled at setting limits. Together, they explore:
• How childhood experiences shape our ability to say "no"
• The physical symptoms of poor boundaries
• Why time management issues often signal boundary problems
• The difference between blame and taking ownership
• Practical steps to stop people from overstepping
This conversation goes beyond simple advice, offering deep insights into why some people struggle to protect their time and energy while others do it naturally.
Patricia shares professional strategies she uses to help clients recognize their "silent invitations" that let others cross their boundaries. Meanwhile, Jason provides real examples from his own business interactions about maintaining control in challenging situations.
Perfect for: Entrepreneurs, professionals, and anyone who feels overwhelmed by others' demands on their time and energy.
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Find all the show notes and links here: https://www.magnificencepodcast.com/41
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