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June 7, 2022 22 mins

This week I’m diving into competition, comparison, and the courage to be yourself.


Are you playing in a league of your own? Or are you playing in the muddy waters of someone else’s desires?


Hit play for a conversation on: 

💋🎙How comparison traps us in discontent and how to stop it

💋🎙The downsides of focusing on your competition

💋🎙Why knowing what we want sets us free (in all areas of life)

💋🎙The perspective shift that allowed me to escape the traps of comparison


You can find the email I read from Cole Schafer here: https://coleschafer.com/works-in-progress/66



The show notes and transcript for the episode are available here: https://alyssapatmos.com/Escape-the-Comparison-Trap


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