What if you’re too lazy to hustle… but too driven to rest? In this spicy solo episode, we’re diving into the emotional whiplash of being a feminine high performer in a world that loves to slap a label on your lifestyle.
Is it ambition... or just internalized hustle culture?
Is the soft girl trend freeing… or lowkey performative?
And can we actually build a soft life with passive income without grinding first?
Answers to these questions & more so hit play to join the convo.
We chat:
- 1:00 — The paradox of the feminine high performer
- 2:23 — Is ambition truly a dirty word?
- 3:13 — The more space I give myself the lazier I get — why I don’t fit the soft girl archetype
- 15:21 — What if hustle culture and soft life are both lowkey scams?
- 20:12 — The soft girl & girl boss archetypes explained: are you having an identity crisis or just being a woman?
- 24:22 — Why do you keep swinging between burnout and boredom?
- 35:00 — The convo no one’s having: the secret to finding your middle ground between go mode and rest.
- 38:02 — Everyone’s selling passive income like a dream… but here’s what they’re not telling you.
- 43:01 — The real reason I want to work so much
- 46:12 — How to tell if your dreams are yours or just conditioning in a pretty bow
- 52:17 — What if your happiness isn’t in the hustle… or the softness?
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