I Read 500 Books 📚 To Learn These 3 LIFE LESSONS...

After reading well over 500 books, here are the most important lessons that I learned, that I now base my entire life on.


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Episode Transcript

(00:00):
I have read over 500 self-help books and these are the three
best lessons I have learned. Number one, do what you want?
Simply do, what you want. What do you want to do?
Do that. Having a desire is an indicator
that that is what you're supposed to be doing.
How else would, you know what you're supposed to be doing?

(00:22):
Other than the fact that you want to do it?
Life is designed this way on purpose.
If we didn't all have different desires to do different things.
Things then we'd all be doing exactly the same thing and life
wouldn't work like that, embraceyour uniqueness and embrace your
desires. They weren't put there by you.
Therefore there is a reason why they are there.

(00:42):
If your desire involves helping other people, then this is
probably your purpose right now,your purpose can change, but
right now if your desire involves helping people in some
way, then this is probably what you're supposed to do for work.
You might be paid for your work or you might Voluntarily.
But your work is helping people in the way that you want to help

(01:05):
them and doing what you want, isn't just confined to the type
of work that you do. You need to recognize what you
want, in all areas of life. What relationships do you want
to have? Where do you want to live?
How do you want to structure your day?
What do you want to do when you wake up in the morning?
How do you want to feel in your body?
What kind of person do you want to be a lot of people dismiss

(01:26):
this advice to just do what you want to do because they think
well, if I If I did what I wanted to do, I'd be eating ice
cream all day and just watching Netflix but that stuff gets
really boring. After you've done it for any
period of time. Have you noticed when you've
been sick for a week and you've done nothing but eat and watch
TV? You don't want to do that
anymore. You are sick of doing that.

(01:46):
You want to get active. Again you want to get out there,
you want to talk to people do things, help people, you are a
complex individual with a, lots of different needs.
Your life isn't just about work.You are more than just your
work. So, Race your desires in all
aspects of your life. Like, I really love my work, but
when I focused only on my work working 10-hour days, seven days

(02:09):
a week and ignored everything else in my life, I ignored my
health, I ignored my family things started to crumble around
me, and I got really sick and then ironically, I couldn't work
anymore. I couldn't do the think I love.
Have you ever tried to do exercise?
And you feel much more motivatedto do your work?
All the things in your life can balance out.

(02:29):
Everything else and enhance everything else, making
everything more enjoyable. So that's why you need to
recognize that you need things in all areas of life, not just
one. And there is a common
misconception out there about getting what you want.
Most people think that when you get what you want, your life is
going to be perfect. They think that when you become
a millionaire, when you do the job of your dreams, when you

(02:51):
meet the person of your dreams and marry them, when you have
your kids, when you get your sixpack abs, then life is going to
be perfect. And there's We're going to be
any problems in life, but life doesn't work like that.
Yes, you can have what you want.Yes, you can achieve your goals.
Yes, you can live in your dream location, doing your dream work,
living with your dream family, but that doesn't mean that

(03:13):
nothing bad is ever going to happen.
And that brings me to my second lesson.
The second most important lessonthat I learned from all of these
self-help books is that solving problems is the key to
fulfillment. And here's the thing bad things
are Supposed to happen. They're not just going to
happen. They're supposed to.

(03:33):
It's the way life is designed and it's designed like this for
a very good reason. We all think we just want
happiness, we just want to sit on the beach, lay there in the
Sun, be totally happy, joyful, and fulfilled.
But that's not actually true because we don't get fulfillment
by doing nothing by just relaxing and being full of joy.

(03:54):
All the time we get fulfillment by solving problems and you
can't solve problems. If everything's perfect all the
time, we only get fulfillment. When we have problems are
challenges and we overcome them.When I realized that life is
supposed to have problems, it really helped me and my
relationship with other people because if you've noticed a lot

(04:15):
of the problems in life come through other people, and that
is supposed to happen. And if you start agreeing that,
this is supposed to happen. And that people are supposed to
bring me problems and challenges, then it totally
changes the way you look. Look on other people.
You stop seeing people as annoying and they're to destroy
your life but you start seeing them as a vehicle of

(04:38):
opportunity, they are giving youan opportunity to solve a
problem which then leads to fulfillment.
And I'm not saying you're never going to be annoyed with
somebody again if you adopt thisbelief system but I am saying
that it's really going to help you to move on more quickly and
forget any annoyance you had with people and not hold grudges
and if you've watched any of my Other videos, you'll know that

(05:01):
I'm very spiritual. So go and check out some of my
other videos. If you want to learn more about
what I feel about, other people and forgiveness and I really
don't believe that there's any need for forgiveness.
When you don't see that, there'sanything to forgive when you see
everything as supposed to happen, there's literally
nothing to forgive anymore, so it's moving even Beyond

(05:22):
forgiveness, which is a totally freeing place to be.
And the third most important life lesson that I learned.
Earned from all of these self-help books is to build
systems to help you get what youwant another word for our
system, could also be a habit, habits are very popular right
now building the right Habit, inorder to get you what you want

(05:43):
in life. But I like to use the word
systems, because habits seemed abit too simple to me.
Habits are more like, you know, I get up and then they do this,
and they are do that, whereas systems often involve like a
checklist, a way of working a way of doing things, I tried and
tested, Third of doing somethingthat I have developed over the
years and I take things off and I do things in a particular

(06:06):
order and some of these might behabits.
And sometimes I'm need to remindmyself what my systems are.
So that's why I like to call my habit systems.
So basically my systems just help me to get what I want as I
go through my day. First of all, you start with
saying to yourself, what don't Iwant?
I don't want to feel tired all the time so what do I want to

(06:28):
do? I want to to be healthier.
How can I be healthier? I need to do some exercise and
that's going to help me feel better.
So you develop a system around doing exercise and I have a
workout plan, which is a list ofexercises that I do every day.
So this is my exercise system that I use.
So it's not just, I do exercise but I'm doing my system.

(06:49):
Almost everybody agrees that habits our systems are the key
to success because things compound, if you do a little bit
of something good and beneficialevery day, Get big improvements
over a period of time. If you avoid something - every
day, then eventually you get to avoid a big negative thing in
the future. And as part of systems, people

(07:11):
like to talk about productivity and I'm all for productivity as
long as it benefits me and helpsme get what I want.
There is a downside to systems and habit and that is when you
are a slave to your system, so don't be a slave to your system.
The only purpose of your system is too.
You either get you what you wantor to help you to solve a

(07:33):
problem that is the only purposeof a system.
So if it's not doing either of those things, then there's no
need for you to be doing it anymore.
Systems are not there to give you extra work to give you extra
things to do. They're not there to give you a
badge of honor for being the most productive person in the
room. Although, if there was any such
a ward, I think I should probably win that award.

(07:55):
Just joking and to recognize whether or not your systems need
to be changed. Updated, just continuously ask
yourself, what do I want to do? I still want this?
Do I still want that and then adapt these systems accordingly
when you change your mind about something.
Change your system accordingly, don't keep doing something just
because you always did it. This is where habits let you

(08:17):
down. If you always used to meditate
because it used to help you to reduce stress.
But now it's causing you stress because you don't feel like
you've got time for it. Then why would you keep doing
something if it's causing you more?
Yes, if it doesn't enhance your lifestyle, give you what you
want or solve your problems, then what's the point in doing
it, if you're not enjoying it and it's not solving a problem.

(08:39):
It's not giving you what you want.
So stop doing it and the main thing I see holding people back
from getting what they want. Or solving problems is caring
too much. What other people think of them?
They think. Well, if I change my job, what
are people going to think of me if I start doing this new
workout routine, if I start wearing different Rent clothing,

(09:00):
what are people going to say about me?
Are they going to say something - are they going to think
something negative? And when I stopped minding, what
other people thought about me, it truly changed my whole life.
It freed me up like nothing has ever done before and I have a
whole video on that topic which will pop up on the screen now.

(09:21):
So, go and watch that. Now, I would love it if you
could like this video, so more people can find it and now it's
your turn to go and put your stamp on.
The world.