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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the show.
Yeah, this is our final episode.
Yeah, finale.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Super proud of us.
That was the first thing likein reflecting on what I wanted
to come to this episode with.
Yeah, it's just like how proudI am of everything we did.
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Yeah, I'm sad.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Oh, I know it is sad but, you know, feels like it's
the right time.
Yeah, I am.
There are a lot of other thingsin my life currently, all of a
sudden, that are also coming toan end.
Yes, and it just it feels right, but it it doesn't mean it's
(00:41):
not hard to do.
Yeah, it doesn't mean that it'sNot important to do it just
because it's hard, right, yeah,I'm feeling very like it's time
to close the door and start anew chapter and it just feels
like everything in my life thatthis has sort of happened all at
once like, yeah, and I don'twant to Because of the other
(01:09):
things that are going on in mypersonal life.
I don't want to bring that theninto every episode.
It would just change thepodcast, yeah, and I don't want
to do that.
And I'm very grateful Because Ifeel like In every episode I
was talking to me.
Yes, I was talking to, you know, the me that was coming, yeah,
and the Whole point of theseason for me was growth and I'm
(01:35):
doing that and it's hurts a lot.
Yes, but damn it universe.
I know, but also thank you,universe, because it's necessary
and it's needed and it's gonnabe great.
Yeah, it's just really hard,right, this second.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Yeah, you know, yes, and that's the right time.
Yeah, for us to, you know,reevaluate and Take a pause and
enjoy, you know, being in yourcocoon and you know the coming
of fall and winter, and just youknow, like you said in the last
episode, you're gonna gothrough it, girl, and we've all,
(02:10):
we've all, gone throughsomething and what?
If you are going through itright now, we feel for you as
well.
Yeah, yeah, I certainly dosending you love and there are
ways to get through it, and butwe yeah, I've, I've had a good
time recording with you.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
I had a lot of fun and it's something I never
thought I do.
I'm really glad that I did it.
You know, it's so funny.
I was thinking about like thekids forever will be able to be,
like Remember when mom did thatpodcast, so for like, listen
back, I mean it's out there nowforever.
Yeah, when I'm 60 I can be likeoh yeah, I'm like find it, I'm
(02:47):
sure, in an archive somewhere.
Yes, yeah, yeah it's a nicelike a time capsule, like a
virtual time capsule.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
It is, and you know, checking in where you are in
Years from now you know, I thinkthat's, I think, exciting
things are coming for you mepersonally.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Yeah, yeah, I think so too.
I'm very um, I have to likekind of cross this pit first.
It's sort of like this is gonnasound stupid, so prepare
yourself.
But it's sort of like so Jacobused to, I mean he still does.
(03:27):
He loves Mario.
There's when you're like in oneof the games cause, you know,
there's several or whatever.
There's one point where you getto the very end and you rescue
Princess Peach and like, you getthere and she's in this cage
and you, I remember, all of asudden, we were all together and
we were like watching and he,like Mario, goes up and like
(03:50):
rescues her and then the cageturns around and it was the guy
like the Koopa, the big, likethe evil gut.
Right, yeah, it was him.
He was disguised as the Peachand you were like I thought I
had it, I fucking had it, I wasthere, I made it and I had this
one last like challenge.
(04:11):
I feel like that's what I'mdoing, yes, but you know he did
it and defeated blah, blah, blahand like made it right, like I
know, like I listen, I alreadysaid it was gonna be stupid, so
I love it, but I feel likethat's sort of where it's at.
I'm at that last pitfall andgoing like okay, brace yourself,
(04:32):
fucking get ready, but you cando it.
You feel sometimes like you'renot gonna make it, but you can
do this, yes you can yeah, andyeah, I mean what a journey we
had.
Yeah yeah, you know what weresome of your favorite moments.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Gosh so many.
I love our blooper reel.
I love our blooper reel all thefunny moment From day one,
episode one, and then all theway to you know recently, but
Romy and Tickly, I was watchingthat one the other day.
Oh my God, yeah, that was agreat one.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
What the hell is Romy and Tickly.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Romy and Tickly, that's the next website.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
We're starting.
Oh my God.
Yeah, the TikTok still stickswith me, because I do say it
sometimes still, and I'm likewhat the fuck is wrong?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
with me.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Yeah, why can I not?
Just I don't know, it's prettygreat.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
So, yeah, all the bloopers and laughs, I think are
my favorite parts, the one wehad so much fun and good energy,
for sure, for sure, yeah.
And then just the variety ofepisodes we covered, like we set
out on the intention of helpingwomen manifest you know the
life that they love and thattheir future self will be proud
of.
(05:57):
And when I looked back and I'vebeen reviewing some of the old
episodes in preparation for this, and, by the way, our last
season, the very last episode,which was a review of season one
, is our number two episode now,by the way.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Oh, really yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Which I think people like.
The recap.
Yeah, I think they like.
They're like just give it allin one episode.
What's the summary?
Yeah, seriously, so, hopefullywe do a little bit of that today
.
Yeah, so I think just all thevariety of topics we covered.
But we always stayed true tothe point and the mission and I
think we helped people, I knowwe did.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
And favorite of all time I said it in the recap of
the last one is the power ofpink.
There was a girl last week andI was like oh my God, I love
your shoes.
And she goes, oh, it's part ofmy power of pink.
And she's like from yourpodcast.
And I was like, oh my God, andI can't tell you how many women
have that has stuck with themthe most.
Is that the power of pinkepisode.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
It's brilliant.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
And the.
You know.
I think it's just reallypowerful that when women
discover the things that bringthem joy and happiness and
fulfillment and they bring theminto their lives.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
And it can be simple as that cute pair of shoes, the
lipstick, the color pinkwhatever, yep, that little bit
that brings you into the energyof that power that you're like
oh yeah, I can do this.
Yeah, yeah, I love that.
I absolutely love it.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
I know me too.
What about you?
Speaker 2 (07:22):
I feel like I learned a lot.
I learned a lot about myself.
I learned a lot about, like,how other people respond.
I think to like I don't know,it just seemed like, you know,
talking in my personal lifeabout doing the podcast was like
really fun kind of reactionsfrom people just being able to
(07:44):
say like oh, you know, we'redoing this thing.
Or like I really loved theinterviews.
Yes, I loved some of them morethan others, of course.
Yes, but I felt like expandingmy horizon, expanding my view.
I just feel so lucky to be ableto have done that.
I feel like it's just somethingthat I'll cherish for a really,
(08:07):
really long time.
Also, same the goofball momentsare like just my favorite thing
.
They're my favorite thing everand in my whole life, forever.
I'm always valuing thegoofballness of all of it, so
that absolutely is top tier forme.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Yeah, that's what one of the main things in doing
this was was to have fun andenjoy it.
So I think we did that.
I do too.
Yes, and I was also thinkingabout this.
I was going to do that recap oflike what's the basics that you
need, you know, as we leave youhere, I just wanted to share a
(08:48):
few of those key things, andI've been listening to a lot of
Abraham Hicks lately, becauselet's not forget that that book
Ask and is given.
Started it all and I will say,like you know, somebody very
close to me in my life startedreading it not too long ago, has
been meditating every day andshe is in awe of the magic.
Yep, Bonuses galore, you know,just feeling good, loving her
(09:13):
job Can't say enough about itand she is so thankful to have
found it.
So if you have not, in thisentire time you've been
listening to us, read that book,please.
It will change your life.
We're not kidding Likeguaranteed Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
I 100% agree.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Yeah, absolutely, sometimes the changes are not
fun.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
Well, sure At first.
Yeah, I mean they are necessary.
Yes necessary, but fun is notthe way that I would describe it
.
Yeah, I mean, maybe the changesyou're going through are fun,
and I do hope that for you, butif you're going through a change
, that's not fun, I feel you youknow, but yeah, the things that
(09:55):
I think that I would want tosay and the things that I will
take is meditate, trust, believeperiod.
Those are the things I love it.
Because if you really trust, youreally believe.
I mean, that's the core of itall, that's where it all starts
(10:16):
and that's what I'm living inyes, Trust, believe and fucking
meditating every day.
Because, sometimes it's like alittle too much.
I'm like, okay, every time Icatch myself like I have to take
a deep breath or I'm having aheart palpitation or like I feel
like things are spinning, Ijust stop.
I have five minutes.
(10:37):
Five minutes Breathe, meditate,ground yourself, center
yourself.
Then you can move on.
It's powerful.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
Yeah, it is.
And Abraham Hicks like teachesit and so does Joe Dispenza, and
Kyle and I actually have him.
If you're a woman out there andyou're into manifesting and
your dude is like anti or justlike doesn't get it, joe
Dispenza is gonna solve theproblem.
Okay, because men love science,they love like understanding it
in that way.
(11:05):
And so Kyle and I, at night, wehave been reading a book called
I'm not gonna get it right, butit's Joe Dispenza's book about
breaking the habit of beingyourself.
It basically teaches you how torewire your brain in a very
scientific but also spiritualway.
Like Joe Dispenza, he hoststhese things where people who
(11:26):
are blind seeing again, peoplewho can't hear, hear again, like
the craziest cancers healed.
I mean, this guy has proof, youdon't have to believe me.
Go on his site.
So between these two people,joe Dispenza and Abraham Hicks,
I mean your life could do amajor shift.
And so me and Kyle are readingthe book every night and it's
helping like get us into thatalignment.
(11:47):
And Joe Dispenza also jokesabout how you know at his
retreats that he does all thewomen drag their husbands there
for the same reason because theywant you know they want, like
they're partners to experiencethe same thing, but it's gonna
take a little somethingdifferent.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
So, anyways, I highly suggest both Plus.
I think you start making theseshifts and these changes in your
life and you know you're eithermaking these vibrational shifts
and these huge like quantumleaps, alone or together.
And if you're doing it alone,you know the people that are in
(12:27):
your life that are notparticipating in that.
They will vibrate right out?
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Yes, they will.
They won't vibrate.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Yes, they will, Because if you're creating that
life for you and the person thatyou're with is not sharing that
, it's just not.
You can't live that way forever.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
You can't.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
You can't and that's why I also posted the other day.
It's like about your friendcircle and even your family
circle.
You know you want them to bebased on your future, where you
wanna go.
You're most like the people youhang out with.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
If you wanna do something great, hang out with
people who are doing things thatare great.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
You know what I'm saying Absolutely Don't hang out
with people based on yourhistory and your past.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Yes, and I know it's hard with family, I get it Of
course that's hard, but you cancreate boundaries like something
.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
this last two years, two seasons that you know
creating boundaries- is so key,it's so important.
And, like you said, you knowwho's meant to be there, will be
there and the others willvibrate right out.
That is the way it goes.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Yeah, plus, you know what's true for you.
That's.
It was something that I wasreally struggling with was like
I knew it was true for me.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
And I wasn't choosing it.
I was pretending and I thought,if I could pretend long enough
it would turn out fine.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
That's not how it works.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
No Aw I love you.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
No, so this is such like a slop show.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
I'm sorry, but I think so many people are gonna,
I promise.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
I'm getting you together.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
So many people are gonna relate to it if you think
back to any hard time you've hadanyone's had in their life
right.
Like when it's the feeling oflike this is so painful, how
will I ever get through it?
Yeah, you get through it yes.
And somehow, on the other side,something magical, something
more amazing is there for you.
Yep it just.
You have to go through a littlebit of the pain to come out on
(14:17):
the other side or a lot, or alot.
Yeah, a lot.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
It might be a lot.
It might be a lot, yeah, butpeople can see it.
Yes, you know it.
People around you can see it.
Just because you're pretendinglike it's not there doesn't mean
it doesn't exist.
Yeah, you know.
You gotta be true to youExactly Like plain and simple,
yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
So in that I just wanted to share a few of the
things, like I said, the summaryof, like, what I would share if
somebody said give me thesummary in a few minutes.
Yeah, and you know.
Again, just thinking about thislast few days really deeply, I
think number one learning thatthe universe will only give you
(15:03):
what you feel worthy ofreceiving.
Yes, and letting that reallysink in.
We talked so much aboutself-love and worthiness this
year or last year.
Yep, it's my self-love, youknow.
Do I feel worthy myself?
And those are the questions andreflections that were super
powerful in some of my favoriteepisodes were the self-love ones
, yeah.
So what do you feel worthy of?
(15:26):
Yeah, and look at your worldaround you yeah, what's
happening, and is that showingup because you haven't felt like
that's your limit of worth?
Yes, the people, theexperiences.
Yep, and that's a lot of workto do, like you know it's a lot
of work to do.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
Yeah, and what I mean ?
I 100%, absolutely agree.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
That what you think you are worthy of is what shows
up.
And it's oftentimes easier.
And sometimes, you know, thelast couple of days I've really
flip-flopped a lot about youknow if one minute I'm feeling
super powerful, super capable,super great, and the next minute
I'm feeling like crawling intoa hole and never coming out and
not talking to anyone for therest of my life.
Yeah, but I had this momentthis morning, this feeling of
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like the easier choice is notthe correct choice.
The easier choice is not what'sgoing to serve me best.
The easier choice is not goingto bring more value to my life.
I have to make the hard choicebecause eventually that brings
me in the most value and that'swhat I want.
Yeah, it's what I want.
(16:33):
I'm not stupid.
I know what I want.
I'm not confused, that's.
I have clarity and I don't needto keep making it easier for
everyone else.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Please Stop that.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Do you know?
Speaker 2 (16:51):
what I'm saying.
Yeah, please stop that.
Yes, I'm ready to fuck.
It's hard, but it's got to bedone.
Yeah, it has to be done.
Yeah, so excited to meet thefuture me.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Yes, Can't wait, I'm excited too.
Can't wait, I'm excited too.
I'm here for you now but I'malso really here for the future.
You Bring it on girl.
Number two is Like if you wantto manifest, the main thing is
your receptivity right.
We just talked about your worthis also like calling in that
(17:29):
receptiveness right.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
Or receptivity is, if you focus like all the
naysayers of manifestation well,I don't have it, so it can't be
true.
Yeah, oh, I don't, it didn'thappen yet.
The more you focus on the lackof having it, the more the
universe brings that Like.
You will get evidence.
Yes, you will get evidence thatyou asked for through your
(17:54):
receptivity.
So if you're focusing on allthe things you don't have, that
ain't the way man, that ain'tgoing to happen.
That's the way to keep gettingwhat you don't want.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
Exactly.
That's exactly the way to keepgetting exactly the shitty thing
that you in your life, that youdon't want.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
I mean, yeah, it's one thing to say I really want
this and I didn't get it, andit's another thing to say I
believe I deserve this.
I know that this is right forme.
Yeah, because that shit willshow up Once you really fully
step in to, I believe, what isworthy for me.
I know that this is what I wantmy life to look like.
(18:32):
And you 100%.
You can't have one foot out thedoor.
No, once you 100% commit tolike, this is the life that I
want.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
That's when it happens, yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
That is Be open, be receptive, yep.
Stop thinking about the thingsyou don't have.
Yep, start appreciating thethings you do have.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
Stop thinking about how it's so hard and it's not
going to happen or whatever.
Whatever, yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
And it's also that.
It's that not.
You do not have to control howit happens.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
All you have to do is know what you want.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yes, be in the energy of it.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
And let go of how it happens, because how it happens
is it should be surprising, andboth Abraham Hicks and Joe
Dispensas teach this right.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
It's like the unknown .
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Yeah Right, if it's known, then it's yesterday's
news.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Yes, it's old you Exactly.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
It's unknown.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Let it happen.
How it happens is none of mybusiness.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
Totally, and I kind of love that.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
Yeah, I don't need to be in control of that.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
It's not for me, yeah , it's just you know.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
Just let it go.
Just let it go.
Number three really powerfulthing for everyone to understand
is that contrast helps usunderstand what we do want.
And so this is hard to hear,because we're always like, when
you're a manifest or you'retrying to manifest, you're like
why do these shitty thingshappen?
It's how, in that moment, whenthese things happen and you're
(19:53):
like man, I thought I wasmanifesting and the universe was
good and this should happen,and it's like no, there's a
reason.
Everything around you ishappening.
And so, if you can accept that,find the better thought, find
the better emotion, get yourselfto a better place and just
accept that.
The contrast is there to helpyou understand what you do want.
(20:16):
Yes, like that's it.
Yes, if those things didn'thappen, you wouldn't understand
that that's not what you want.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
Right, right.
Well, it's hard to believesometimes when you don't get
what you want, that, that thingthat you thought you wanted,
actually selling yourself short.
Yes, that's not really what youwant.
Like it comes back to trust,yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Trust and believe Trust.
Exactly, he's all aligned toyour yes, like your three things
.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Yes, you have to just trust that you are going to
manifest what's right for you.
Yes, and so when somethingdoesn't happen that you thought
you really wanted, the quickeryou're able to let that go and
believe that the right thing iscoming for you, the easier it is
to move up that emotionalladder.
(21:05):
Yeah, to go, like you know whatI'm already feeling better
because I really believe that,like if it were right for me,
it'd be for me.
Yeah, if it's, you know, if itwere right for me, it would be
here.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Exactly, it's not.
It's not.
And we challenge you, you know,in the future, anytime you get
caught in one of those negativemoments where you're
experiencing something you don'tlike instead of being like, oh
poor me, you know, victim mode,this and that go and we can't
end the season withoutmentioning Chris and Fritz's
name in an episode.
(21:36):
But what Chris and Fritz, youknow, kind of said, it's like
getting curious about it goinghuh, this is interesting, yeah,
and really that curiosity turnsthe energy of it into a positive
and like, wow, okay, like youknow, I do this even when I'm
driving and, you know, somebodypisses you off in traffic.
And you're like you're, like youstart and you're like the
(21:57):
fucking idiot.
It's not to say I don't do that.
I do it on probably almostevery drive.
But then I catch myself and Igo.
What if they're running latefor an interview?
Yeah.
What if their kid is sick andthey're trying to get to their
school?
Yeah.
What if they have an emergency?
What if they have to shutthemselves Totally?
Anybody who's in the car goinglike clenching.
(22:20):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
You're sweating.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
Next time that person's pissing you off, just
imagine them in your shoes, thatone day that you were clenching
and sweating, and it reallygives you a place of compassion
right.
So it's finding that compassionand like that turn of the
thought just gets you to abetter place of like.
Okay, they're not an idiot or amoron or a jerk.
They got something going on.
I'm just gonna let them go by.
There's no competition here.
(22:43):
I don't need to stay in theirway.
Nope, whatever.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
No road rage.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
No road rage.
I love that.
Next time I see someone and I'mlike these fucking morons.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
I know it's the same.
I do it all the time, all thetime.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
I'm gonna go.
I've been there, been there,I've been there.
I don't know if you're cryingin your car, I don't know if you
have to take a shit.
I don't know what the problemis, but, girl, I've been there.
Yes, I've been there.
So please, no, go ahead.
It's okay that you go right offGo ahead, not my problem,
exactly Catch yourself.
Go ahead.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
It goes along with.
Like you have no idea whatsomebody else is going through
100%.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Right that jerk at work 100%.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
You know the person at the checkout stand.
Just imagine that they might begoing through a tough time and
send them well wishes.
I know it's hard to hear andI'm not perfect at it, but
that's how you get to the betterplace.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Okay, yeah, so that's a big one, yes, and then this
one is related, but it's theconversation around momentum,
the energy that you're in andusing that to help you get to
the better place.
And then the emotional scaleand my favorite episode and I
think you know a viral one wehad was where we talked about
how jealousy was a lowervibration than hatred and rage.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Which like jealousy.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
If you're in that energy, you need that episode.
It is not your friend.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
It is at the bottom of the barrel.
But the emotional scale andusing your emotions as your
compass, as you always say, andAbraham Hicks says, it's like
you know knowing how you feeland how you're gonna get
yourself to that better emotion.
Yep, if you're just having theshittiest day in the world,
getting in front, just turningthat into a positive is
impossible, like all of a suddengoing everything's great and I
(24:21):
love the world.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
Oh God, yeah, no way.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
That's not what manifestation's about.
No, no, it's about what?
Is this the next?
What is the thing that you cando?
To just turn that thought intoone level up.
Yes, just move one level up.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Yes, yes, 100%, 100%.
Yeah, you can't lie yourselfinto the truth.
Yeah, you can't lie yourselfinto the truth.
It just doesn't work that way.
Like this last week at work allweek cause people I feel like
Americans, right, not like I'mlike well traveled, but I feel
like.
For some reason, we always haveto say like, how are you Like
(24:58):
when you answer a call?
Are you see someone Like you?
get a fuck how I am Like come onyou don't care, just ask me
where you're gonna ask me.
But it's happened 400 times andI decided to answer I'm
surviving, I'm surviving.
I'm not gonna say I'm good, howare you?
Because that's a goddamn lie,that's fake.
Yeah, I'm not good.
(25:19):
Yeah, in that moment, if I'mgood, I'll say, yeah, sure, I'm
fine.
But I had decided cause I waslike what are you gonna say?
Cause I'm not gonna just sitaround and like, yeah, lie to
everyone and myself.
So you know, the point of thatis like know where you're at,
pick how to be honest, pick howto be authentic, pick how to
answer.
(25:40):
You know whatever it is thatyou know is coming your way, and
just if you can just squeezeone drop more of joy.
One little drop, and maybe thatdrop is I'm being honest.
I'm happy that I'm able toanswer honestly.
I don't need to get into it,don't need to talk to anybody
about it, you know.
But I'm being honest and I willstart to feel better.
(26:00):
You go next rung, next rung up,keep going up.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
But don't, you cannot , like you know, abraham says
get in front of that 70 mile anhour car Exactly, of your
emotions Exactly, and to expectthat, and that's why a lot of
people give up.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
Cause they're like oh , this shit doesn't work.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
Like, nobody's asking you to be toxic positive, you
know?
Speaker 2 (26:20):
Nope, nobody's asking that of you, no, and please
stop.
Yeah, if you're doing that,please stop.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
Please stop.
Yeah, it's enough.
Thank you, it is so.
How can you get yourself to thenext level?
Use your momentum.
Be aware of the momentum thatit has.
If you're in a really resistantstate, how do you shift it?
If you're in a really goodstate, if you're in flow and
you're having a good time, usethat time to create Use that
time to you know, create withthe universe to consciously like
(26:49):
be manifesting the things youwant when you get into that flow
.
Speaker 2 (26:52):
So Plus, it's so easy to say, wow, this shit works
when you do receive somethingthat you really wanted, and
remember that when somethingdoesn't happen or does happen,
that you were like I didn'tthink I wanted this or whatever,
instead of saying like thisshit doesn't work, be like wow,
this really works.
This really is bringing mesomething new.
This really is bringing mesomething that's none of my
(27:13):
business.
This is bringing me somethingthat I had no idea I even
deserved.
Like you know, remember whenit's good that it can feel that
way.
Yeah, it doesn't you know,fucking break.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
Exactly Two more, and this one is we kind of dabbled
on.
But take a chill pill, go withthe flow, be the cork floating
down the river.
Yeah, we talked about this, youknow, last season and I think
even in that end episode.
But if I am again recapping howyou're creating your life, yeah
(27:48):
, going with what feels easiest.
Yes, we do this so often wherewe fight the current and you
know that's like part of thething, like in stopping the
podcast if it's not feeling, youknow, in a light, like in ease,
and it's this, then it's doneright.
Like then we have to move on toa different zone.
So it's all good, Be willing tojust go with the flow, go with
(28:11):
ease.
It doesn't mean, don't you know, be prepared or take action.
That's not what I'm saying atall.
But take action with ease.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
You know, what it sort of is reminding me of is
like I'm always manifesting moremoney for my life.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
It doesn't mean I'm not checking my bank account.
Yeah, it doesn't mean I'm notrealistically going like I see
how many dollars I have, I seemy mortgage coming out, I see
you know my car payment orwhatever.
I'm realistic in the numbersand the math, but I know that
more is coming.
Yes, just suit what I'm saying.
Yeah, like that's.
It's not just like I believe Ihave all the money in the world
(28:45):
and I don't need to check mybank ever.
Yeah, that's not it.
Yeah, you can check your bank.
No, stay aware, live.
You know.
Like, take a lined action tomake sure that like your shit's
lining up, but do believe thatthat's coming your way.
Yeah, you know.
Yes.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
Be grateful for every little penny there.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Hell yes, hell yes, thank you.
Thank you, bank, thank you,thank you, mortgage Payment for
giving me a place to live.
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (29:08):
Yes, and the you know the equity you're gaining in
that mortgage payment you'repaying yourself.
Yeah, that's the freaking magicof it.
So going with the flow, beingat ease, all that stuff.
And then the final one is theone I've listened to our season
one trailer of the whole podcast.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
Again, just to like remember it.
And it was called.
Speaker 1 (29:30):
Enjoy the Journey.
And so the final one really isenjoying the journey, and it's
all about how are you like,what's the energy you're gonna
bring along the way?
It's not about just gettingthere.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
Because every trip you take even the theoretical
trips that you take in your lifeyou are packing an extra bag of
energy.
Yes, the energy you're bringingis in its own little extra bag.
What the fuck are you puttingin that bag?
What are you carrying aroundwith you on vacation?
What are you carrying aroundwith you on the way to the
airport?
What are you carrying aroundwith you the week before you
(30:02):
know, when you're at work, likethat is an extra bag that you
pack.
Yes, you're putting your energyin it.
It's nobody else's, it's justfor you.
It's your own little personalitem, your own little carry on.
Yes, it's full of your energyand you're responsible for what
you're putting in there.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
Exactly, you know what vibe are you bringing to
the?
Speaker 2 (30:19):
vacay.
What vibe are you bringing tothe party, vibing?
Speaker 1 (30:23):
to the party, Vibing to the party?
Yes, that's it I mean.
So enjoy your journey If you'regoing to spend years being
miserable to get to that dreamthat you have right.
Like let's say you know youwant all the money and you want
the big job and you're thecareer, the business or whatever
you want.
Yeah, and you spend 10 years inmisery.
Speaker 2 (30:46):
Was it worth it?
Also, you're not going to getto happiness through misery.
Happiness is not at the end ofthe misery road.
I have such a hard time withthat.
It's like I believed it for solong.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
I have to do it the hard way I know so many people
do, because they get told thatwhen they're kids Exactly, right
, exactly right, it's going tobe hard.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
I have to go through misery, but at the end of it,
maybe there'll be this happiness.
No, because you haven't builthappiness along the way.
There's no proof of happiness.
That's not what you're building.
You're just building moremisery.
What are you doing every day?
What are you doing and who areyou?
Where are you existing?
What energy are you living inevery day?
Because you're just creatingmore of that.
Yeah, that's what you'recreating.
(31:26):
That's what's at the end ofthat road Exactly Fuck and
change the path.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
Change the path, change your mindset, change your
energy.
You know, don't spend your lifewith this dream and then be
miserable along the way.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
Enjoy the journey.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
Because you know what Some people don't make it to
the end of the journey.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
Right, so that's absolutely Enjoy.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
You know how many people are like oh, I'm going to
wait for retirement to traveland I appreciate that and it's a
very much a boomer thing, right.
Speaker 2 (31:55):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Save it all to the end and then enjoy it.
That's not, I think, where theyounger generations are, and I
think that's where they get abad rap, but I also think it's
like we want to enjoy the timewe're here.
Speaker 2 (32:08):
This is the life.
Speaker 1 (32:09):
Because you may not get to retirement man, Like that
could be the reality,Absolutely.
So what are you doing?
Speaker 2 (32:16):
Also, why should I not enjoy my life today.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
I'm not going to delay, joy, yes.
Because I think I'll be able toenjoy it more when my body
hurts more in another 30 years.
Now, you know, give me afucking break.
Yeah, I got to enjoy todayBecause maybe that's it, maybe
today's it.
Speaker 1 (32:33):
Yeah, so check in with yourself.
Are you enjoying your journey?
Yeah, if you're not, it's timefor a change.
Yeah, absolutely, and all right.
Well, any final words?
Speaker 2 (32:46):
No, I mean, I just feel like anyone who ever got
anything out of it.
Yes, thank you.
Yes, I love you girl, you know.
Yes, yes and yeah, I absolutelyloved this.
Thank you for inviting me on it.
Yeah, I mean, it was your idea,it was your baby and I'm just.
I am so grateful to even bealong for the ride, so it was
(33:08):
fun.
Speaker 1 (33:09):
It was fun.
Yeah, we had a good timetogether, for sure.
And you know what?
We had lovers and we had haters.
We didn't have any inbetweeners, so we have lovers
and haters, and that, to me, issuccess, absolutely so, yes,
thank you to everyone who tunedin and listened, and we're just
so grateful, yep 100.
(33:29):
And sending you love andgoddess vibes for your journey,
I mean, and cheers forever.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
Yes, cheers to you, cheers to us, cheers to the path
that you're on and the futurethat holds.
Yep Cheers.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Cheers Baby, cheers baby.
Ok, bye, bye.
Welcome to the show.
Yeah, this is our final episode.
Yeah, finale.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Super proud of us.
That was the first thing likein reflecting on what I wanted
to come to this episode with.
Yeah, it's just like how proudI am of everything we did.
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Yeah, I'm sad.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Oh, I know it is sad but, you know, feels like it's
the right time.
Yeah, I am.
There are a lot of other thingsin my life currently, all of a
sudden, that are also coming toan end.
Yes, and it just it feels right, but it it doesn't mean it's
(00:41):
not hard to do.
Yeah, it doesn't mean that it'sNot important to do it just
because it's hard, right, yeah,I'm feeling very like it's time
to close the door and start anew chapter and it just feels
like everything in my life thatthis has sort of happened all at
once like, yeah, and I don'twant to Because of the other
(01:09):
things that are going on in mypersonal life.
I don't want to bring that theninto every episode.
It would just change thepodcast, yeah, and I don't want
to do that.
And I'm very grateful Because Ifeel like In every episode I
was talking to me.
Yes, I was talking to, you know, the me that was coming, yeah,
and the Whole point of theseason for me was growth and I'm
(01:35):
doing that and it's hurts a lot.
Yes, but damn it universe.
I know, but also thank you,universe, because it's necessary
and it's needed and it's gonnabe great.
Yeah, it's just really hard,right, this second.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Yeah, you know, yes, and that's the right time.
Yeah, for us to, you know,reevaluate and Take a pause and
enjoy, you know, being in yourcocoon and you know the coming
of fall and winter, and just youknow, like you said in the last
episode, you're gonna gothrough it, girl, and we've all,
(02:10):
we've all, gone throughsomething and what?
If you are going through itright now, we feel for you as
well.
Yeah, yeah, I certainly dosending you love and there are
ways to get through it, and butwe yeah, I've, I've had a good
time recording with you.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
I had a lot of fun and it's something I never
thought I do.
I'm really glad that I did it.
You know, it's so funny.
I was thinking about like thekids forever will be able to be,
like Remember when mom did thatpodcast, so for like, listen
back, I mean it's out there nowforever.
Yeah, when I'm 60 I can be likeoh yeah, I'm like find it, I'm
(02:47):
sure, in an archive somewhere.
Yes, yeah, yeah it's a nicelike a time capsule, like a
virtual time capsule.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
It is, and you know, checking in where you are in
Years from now you know, I thinkthat's, I think, exciting
things are coming for you mepersonally.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Yeah, yeah, I think so too.
I'm very um, I have to likekind of cross this pit first.
It's sort of like this is gonnasound stupid, so prepare
yourself.
But it's sort of like so Jacobused to, I mean he still does.
(03:27):
He loves Mario.
There's when you're like in oneof the games cause, you know,
there's several or whatever.
There's one point where you getto the very end and you rescue
Princess Peach and like, you getthere and she's in this cage
and you, I remember, all of asudden, we were all together and
we were like watching and he,like Mario, goes up and like
(03:50):
rescues her and then the cageturns around and it was the guy
like the Koopa, the big, likethe evil gut.
Right, yeah, it was him.
He was disguised as the Peachand you were like I thought I
had it, I fucking had it, I wasthere, I made it and I had this
one last like challenge.
(04:11):
I feel like that's what I'mdoing, yes, but you know he did
it and defeated blah, blah, blahand like made it right, like I
know, like I listen, I alreadysaid it was gonna be stupid, so
I love it, but I feel likethat's sort of where it's at.
I'm at that last pitfall andgoing like okay, brace yourself,
(04:32):
fucking get ready, but you cando it.
You feel sometimes like you'renot gonna make it, but you can
do this, yes you can yeah, andyeah, I mean what a journey we
had.
Yeah yeah, you know what weresome of your favorite moments.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Gosh so many.
I love our blooper reel.
I love our blooper reel all thefunny moment From day one,
episode one, and then all theway to you know recently, but
Romy and Tickly, I was watchingthat one the other day.
Oh my God, yeah, that was agreat one.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
What the hell is Romy and Tickly.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Romy and Tickly, that's the next website.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
We're starting.
Oh my God.
Yeah, the TikTok still stickswith me, because I do say it
sometimes still, and I'm likewhat the fuck is wrong?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
with me.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Yeah, why can I not?
Just I don't know, it's prettygreat.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
So, yeah, all the bloopers and laughs, I think are
my favorite parts, the one wehad so much fun and good energy,
for sure, for sure, yeah.
And then just the variety ofepisodes we covered, like we set
out on the intention of helpingwomen manifest you know the
life that they love and thattheir future self will be proud
of.
(05:57):
And when I looked back and I'vebeen reviewing some of the old
episodes in preparation for this, and, by the way, our last
season, the very last episode,which was a review of season one
, is our number two episode now,by the way.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Oh, really yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Which I think people like.
The recap.
Yeah, I think they like.
They're like just give it allin one episode.
What's the summary?
Yeah, seriously, so, hopefullywe do a little bit of that today
.
Yeah, so I think just all thevariety of topics we covered.
But we always stayed true tothe point and the mission and I
think we helped people, I knowwe did.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
And favorite of all time I said it in the recap of
the last one is the power ofpink.
There was a girl last week andI was like oh my God, I love
your shoes.
And she goes, oh, it's part ofmy power of pink.
And she's like from yourpodcast.
And I was like, oh my God, andI can't tell you how many women
have that has stuck with themthe most.
Is that the power of pinkepisode.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
It's brilliant.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
And the.
You know.
I think it's just reallypowerful that when women
discover the things that bringthem joy and happiness and
fulfillment and they bring theminto their lives.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
And it can be simple as that cute pair of shoes, the
lipstick, the color pinkwhatever, yep, that little bit
that brings you into the energyof that power that you're like
oh yeah, I can do this.
Yeah, yeah, I love that.
I absolutely love it.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
I know me too.
What about you?
Speaker 2 (07:22):
I feel like I learned a lot.
I learned a lot about myself.
I learned a lot about, like,how other people respond.
I think to like I don't know,it just seemed like, you know,
talking in my personal lifeabout doing the podcast was like
really fun kind of reactionsfrom people just being able to
(07:44):
say like oh, you know, we'redoing this thing.
Or like I really loved theinterviews.
Yes, I loved some of them morethan others, of course.
Yes, but I felt like expandingmy horizon, expanding my view.
I just feel so lucky to be ableto have done that.
I feel like it's just somethingthat I'll cherish for a really,
(08:07):
really long time.
Also, same the goofball momentsare like just my favorite thing
.
They're my favorite thing everand in my whole life, forever.
I'm always valuing thegoofballness of all of it, so
that absolutely is top tier forme.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
Yeah, that's what one of the main things in doing
this was was to have fun andenjoy it.
So I think we did that.
I do too.
Yes, and I was also thinkingabout this.
I was going to do that recap oflike what's the basics that you
need, you know, as we leave youhere, I just wanted to share a
(08:48):
few of those key things, andI've been listening to a lot of
Abraham Hicks lately, becauselet's not forget that that book
Ask and is given.
Started it all and I will say,like you know, somebody very
close to me in my life startedreading it not too long ago, has
been meditating every day andshe is in awe of the magic.
Yep, Bonuses galore, you know,just feeling good, loving her
(09:13):
job Can't say enough about itand she is so thankful to have
found it.
So if you have not, in thisentire time you've been
listening to us, read that book,please.
It will change your life.
We're not kidding Likeguaranteed Absolutely.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
I 100% agree.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
Yeah, absolutely, sometimes the changes are not
fun.
Speaker 2 (09:33):
Well, sure At first.
Yeah, I mean they are necessary.
Yes necessary, but fun is notthe way that I would describe it
.
Yeah, I mean, maybe the changesyou're going through are fun,
and I do hope that for you, butif you're going through a change
, that's not fun, I feel you youknow, but yeah, the things that
(09:55):
I think that I would want tosay and the things that I will
take is meditate, trust, believeperiod.
Those are the things I love it.
Because if you really trust, youreally believe.
I mean, that's the core of itall, that's where it all starts
(10:16):
and that's what I'm living inyes, Trust, believe and fucking
meditating every day.
Because, sometimes it's like alittle too much.
I'm like, okay, every time Icatch myself like I have to take
a deep breath or I'm having aheart palpitation or like I feel
like things are spinning, Ijust stop.
I have five minutes.
(10:37):
Five minutes Breathe, meditate,ground yourself, center
yourself.
Then you can move on.
It's powerful.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
Yeah, it is.
And Abraham Hicks like teachesit and so does Joe Dispenza, and
Kyle and I actually have him.
If you're a woman out there andyou're into manifesting and
your dude is like anti or justlike doesn't get it, joe
Dispenza is gonna solve theproblem.
Okay, because men love science,they love like understanding it
in that way.
(11:05):
And so Kyle and I, at night, wehave been reading a book called
I'm not gonna get it right, butit's Joe Dispenza's book about
breaking the habit of beingyourself.
It basically teaches you how torewire your brain in a very
scientific but also spiritualway.
Like Joe Dispenza, he hoststhese things where people who
(11:26):
are blind seeing again, peoplewho can't hear, hear again, like
the craziest cancers healed.
I mean, this guy has proof, youdon't have to believe me.
Go on his site.
So between these two people,joe Dispenza and Abraham Hicks,
I mean your life could do amajor shift.
And so me and Kyle are readingthe book every night and it's
helping like get us into thatalignment.
(11:47):
And Joe Dispenza also jokesabout how you know at his
retreats that he does all thewomen drag their husbands there
for the same reason because theywant you know they want, like
they're partners to experiencethe same thing, but it's gonna
take a little somethingdifferent.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
So, anyways, I highly suggest both Plus.
I think you start making theseshifts and these changes in your
life and you know you're eithermaking these vibrational shifts
and these huge like quantumleaps, alone or together.
And if you're doing it alone,you know the people that are in
(12:27):
your life that are notparticipating in that.
They will vibrate right out?
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Yes, they will.
They won't vibrate.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Yes, they will, Because if you're creating that
life for you and the person thatyou're with is not sharing that
, it's just not.
You can't live that way forever.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
You can't.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
You can't and that's why I also posted the other day.
It's like about your friendcircle and even your family
circle.
You know you want them to bebased on your future, where you
wanna go.
You're most like the people youhang out with.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
If you wanna do something great, hang out with
people who are doing things thatare great.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
You know what I'm saying Absolutely Don't hang out
with people based on yourhistory and your past.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Yes, and I know it's hard with family, I get it Of
course that's hard, but you cancreate boundaries like something
.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
this last two years, two seasons that you know
creating boundaries- is so key,it's so important.
And, like you said, you knowwho's meant to be there, will be
there and the others willvibrate right out.
That is the way it goes.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Yeah, plus, you know what's true for you.
That's.
It was something that I wasreally struggling with was like
I knew it was true for me.
Speaker 1 (13:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
And I wasn't choosing it.
I was pretending and I thought,if I could pretend long enough
it would turn out fine.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
That's not how it works.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
No Aw I love you.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
No, so this is such like a slop show.
Speaker 1 (13:51):
I'm sorry, but I think so many people are gonna,
I promise.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
I'm getting you together.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
So many people are gonna relate to it if you think
back to any hard time you've hadanyone's had in their life
right.
Like when it's the feeling oflike this is so painful, how
will I ever get through it?
Yeah, you get through it yes.
And somehow, on the other side,something magical, something
more amazing is there for you.
Yep it just.
You have to go through a littlebit of the pain to come out on
(14:17):
the other side or a lot, or alot.
Yeah, a lot.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
It might be a lot.
It might be a lot, yeah, butpeople can see it.
Yes, you know it.
People around you can see it.
Just because you're pretendinglike it's not there doesn't mean
it doesn't exist.
Yeah, you know.
You gotta be true to youExactly Like plain and simple,
yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
So in that I just wanted to share a few of the
things, like I said, the summaryof, like, what I would share if
somebody said give me thesummary in a few minutes.
Yeah, and you know.
Again, just thinking about thislast few days really deeply, I
think number one learning thatthe universe will only give you
(15:03):
what you feel worthy ofreceiving.
Yes, and letting that reallysink in.
We talked so much aboutself-love and worthiness this
year or last year.
Yep, it's my self-love, youknow.
Do I feel worthy myself?
And those are the questions andreflections that were super
powerful in some of my favoriteepisodes were the self-love ones
, yeah.
So what do you feel worthy of?
(15:26):
Yeah, and look at your worldaround you yeah, what's
happening, and is that showingup because you haven't felt like
that's your limit of worth?
Yes, the people, theexperiences.
Yep, and that's a lot of workto do, like you know it's a lot
of work to do.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
Yeah, and what I mean ?
I 100%, absolutely agree.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
That what you think you are worthy of is what shows
up.
And it's oftentimes easier.
And sometimes, you know, thelast couple of days I've really
flip-flopped a lot about youknow if one minute I'm feeling
super powerful, super capable,super great, and the next minute
I'm feeling like crawling intoa hole and never coming out and
not talking to anyone for therest of my life.
Yeah, but I had this momentthis morning, this feeling of
(16:12):
like the easier choice is notthe correct choice.
The easier choice is not what'sgoing to serve me best.
The easier choice is not goingto bring more value to my life.
I have to make the hard choicebecause eventually that brings
me in the most value and that'swhat I want.
Yeah, it's what I want.
(16:33):
I'm not stupid.
I know what I want.
I'm not confused, that's.
I have clarity and I don't needto keep making it easier for
everyone else.
Speaker 1 (16:49):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Please Stop that.
Speaker 1 (16:51):
Do you know?
Speaker 2 (16:51):
what I'm saying.
Yeah, please stop that.
Yes, I'm ready to fuck.
It's hard, but it's got to bedone.
Yeah, it has to be done.
Yeah, so excited to meet thefuture me.
Speaker 1 (17:07):
Yes, Can't wait, I'm excited too.
Can't wait, I'm excited too.
I'm here for you now but I'malso really here for the future.
You Bring it on girl.
Number two is Like if you wantto manifest, the main thing is
your receptivity right.
We just talked about your worthis also like calling in that
(17:29):
receptiveness right.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
Or receptivity is, if you focus like all the
naysayers of manifestation well,I don't have it, so it can't be
true.
Yeah, oh, I don't, it didn'thappen yet.
The more you focus on the lackof having it, the more the
universe brings that Like.
You will get evidence.
Yes, you will get evidence thatyou asked for through your
(17:54):
receptivity.
So if you're focusing on allthe things you don't have, that
ain't the way man, that ain'tgoing to happen.
That's the way to keep gettingwhat you don't want.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
Exactly.
That's exactly the way to keepgetting exactly the shitty thing
that you in your life, that youdon't want.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
I mean, yeah, it's one thing to say I really want
this and I didn't get it, andit's another thing to say I
believe I deserve this.
I know that this is right forme.
Yeah, because that shit willshow up Once you really fully
step in to, I believe, what isworthy for me.
I know that this is what I wantmy life to look like.
(18:32):
And you 100%.
You can't have one foot out thedoor.
No, once you 100% commit tolike, this is the life that I
want.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
That's when it happens, yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
That is Be open, be receptive, yep.
Stop thinking about the thingsyou don't have.
Yep, start appreciating thethings you do have.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
Stop thinking about how it's so hard and it's not
going to happen or whatever.
Whatever, yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
And it's also that.
It's that not.
You do not have to control howit happens.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
All you have to do is know what you want.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yes, be in the energy of it.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
And let go of how it happens, because how it happens
is it should be surprising, andboth Abraham Hicks and Joe
Dispensas teach this right.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
It's like the unknown .
Speaker 1 (19:17):
Yeah Right, if it's known, then it's yesterday's
news.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Yes, it's old you Exactly.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
It's unknown.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
Let it happen.
How it happens is none of mybusiness.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
Totally, and I kind of love that.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
Yeah, I don't need to be in control of that.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
It's not for me, yeah , it's just you know.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
Just let it go.
Just let it go.
Number three really powerfulthing for everyone to understand
is that contrast helps usunderstand what we do want.
And so this is hard to hear,because we're always like, when
you're a manifest or you'retrying to manifest, you're like
why do these shitty thingshappen?
It's how, in that moment, whenthese things happen and you're
(19:53):
like man, I thought I wasmanifesting and the universe was
good and this should happen,and it's like no, there's a
reason.
Everything around you ishappening.
And so, if you can accept that,find the better thought, find
the better emotion, get yourselfto a better place and just
accept that.
The contrast is there to helpyou understand what you do want.
(20:16):
Yes, like that's it.
Yes, if those things didn'thappen, you wouldn't understand
that that's not what you want.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
Right, right.
Well, it's hard to believesometimes when you don't get
what you want, that, that thingthat you thought you wanted,
actually selling yourself short.
Yes, that's not really what youwant.
Like it comes back to trust,yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Trust and believe Trust.
Exactly, he's all aligned toyour yes, like your three things
.
Speaker 2 (20:44):
Yes, you have to just trust that you are going to
manifest what's right for you.
Yes, and so when somethingdoesn't happen that you thought
you really wanted, the quickeryou're able to let that go and
believe that the right thing iscoming for you, the easier it is
to move up that emotionalladder.
(21:05):
Yeah, to go, like you know whatI'm already feeling better
because I really believe that,like if it were right for me,
it'd be for me.
Yeah, if it's, you know, if itwere right for me, it would be
here.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Exactly, it's not.
It's not.
And we challenge you, you know,in the future, anytime you get
caught in one of those negativemoments where you're
experiencing something you don'tlike instead of being like, oh
poor me, you know, victim mode,this and that go and we can't
end the season withoutmentioning Chris and Fritz's
name in an episode.
(21:36):
But what Chris and Fritz, youknow, kind of said, it's like
getting curious about it goinghuh, this is interesting, yeah,
and really that curiosity turnsthe energy of it into a positive
and like, wow, okay, like youknow, I do this even when I'm
driving and, you know, somebodypisses you off in traffic.
And you're like you're, like youstart and you're like the
(21:57):
fucking idiot.
It's not to say I don't do that.
I do it on probably almostevery drive.
But then I catch myself and Igo.
What if they're running latefor an interview?
Yeah.
What if their kid is sick andthey're trying to get to their
school?
Yeah.
What if they have an emergency?
What if they have to shutthemselves Totally?
Anybody who's in the car goinglike clenching.
(22:20):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
You're sweating.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
Next time that person's pissing you off, just
imagine them in your shoes, thatone day that you were clenching
and sweating, and it reallygives you a place of compassion
right.
So it's finding that compassionand like that turn of the
thought just gets you to abetter place of like.
Okay, they're not an idiot or amoron or a jerk.
They got something going on.
I'm just gonna let them go by.
There's no competition here.
(22:43):
I don't need to stay in theirway.
Nope, whatever.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
No road rage.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
No road rage.
I love that.
Next time I see someone and I'mlike these fucking morons.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
I know it's the same.
I do it all the time, all thetime.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
I'm gonna go.
I've been there, been there,I've been there.
I don't know if you're cryingin your car, I don't know if you
have to take a shit.
I don't know what the problemis, but, girl, I've been there.
Yes, I've been there.
So please, no, go ahead.
It's okay that you go right offGo ahead, not my problem,
exactly Catch yourself.
Go ahead.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
It goes along with.
Like you have no idea whatsomebody else is going through
100%.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Right that jerk at work 100%.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
You know the person at the checkout stand.
Just imagine that they might begoing through a tough time and
send them well wishes.
I know it's hard to hear andI'm not perfect at it, but
that's how you get to the betterplace.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Okay, yeah, so that's a big one, yes, and then this
one is related, but it's theconversation around momentum,
the energy that you're in andusing that to help you get to
the better place.
And then the emotional scaleand my favorite episode and I
think you know a viral one wehad was where we talked about
how jealousy was a lowervibration than hatred and rage.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Which like jealousy.
Speaker 1 (23:55):
If you're in that energy, you need that episode.
It is not your friend.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
It is at the bottom of the barrel.
But the emotional scale andusing your emotions as your
compass, as you always say, andAbraham Hicks says, it's like
you know knowing how you feeland how you're gonna get
yourself to that better emotion.
Yep, if you're just having theshittiest day in the world,
getting in front, just turningthat into a positive is
impossible, like all of a suddengoing everything's great and I
(24:21):
love the world.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
Oh God, yeah, no way.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
That's not what manifestation's about.
No, no, it's about what?
Is this the next?
What is the thing that you cando?
To just turn that thought intoone level up.
Yes, just move one level up.
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Yes, yes, 100%, 100%.
Yeah, you can't lie yourselfinto the truth.
Yeah, you can't lie yourselfinto the truth.
It just doesn't work that way.
Like this last week at work allweek cause people I feel like
Americans, right, not like I'mlike well traveled, but I feel
like.
For some reason, we always haveto say like, how are you Like
(24:58):
when you answer a call?
Are you see someone Like you?
get a fuck how I am Like come onyou don't care, just ask me
where you're gonna ask me.
But it's happened 400 times andI decided to answer I'm
surviving, I'm surviving.
I'm not gonna say I'm good, howare you?
Because that's a goddamn lie,that's fake.
Yeah, I'm not good.
(25:19):
Yeah, in that moment, if I'mgood, I'll say, yeah, sure, I'm
fine.
But I had decided cause I waslike what are you gonna say?
Cause I'm not gonna just sitaround and like, yeah, lie to
everyone and myself.
So you know, the point of thatis like know where you're at,
pick how to be honest, pick howto be authentic, pick how to
answer.
(25:40):
You know whatever it is thatyou know is coming your way, and
just if you can just squeezeone drop more of joy.
One little drop, and maybe thatdrop is I'm being honest.
I'm happy that I'm able toanswer honestly.
I don't need to get into it,don't need to talk to anybody
about it, you know.
But I'm being honest and I willstart to feel better.
(26:00):
You go next rung, next rung up,keep going up.
Speaker 1 (26:05):
But don't, you cannot , like you know, abraham says
get in front of that 70 mile anhour car Exactly, of your
emotions Exactly, and to expectthat, and that's why a lot of
people give up.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
Cause they're like oh , this shit doesn't work.
Speaker 1 (26:18):
Like, nobody's asking you to be toxic positive, you
know?
Speaker 2 (26:20):
Nope, nobody's asking that of you, no, and please
stop.
Yeah, if you're doing that,please stop.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
Please stop.
Yeah, it's enough.
Thank you, it is so.
How can you get yourself to thenext level?
Use your momentum.
Be aware of the momentum thatit has.
If you're in a really resistantstate, how do you shift it?
If you're in a really goodstate, if you're in flow and
you're having a good time, usethat time to create Use that
time to you know, create withthe universe to consciously like
(26:49):
be manifesting the things youwant when you get into that flow
.
Speaker 2 (26:52):
So Plus, it's so easy to say, wow, this shit works
when you do receive somethingthat you really wanted, and
remember that when somethingdoesn't happen or does happen,
that you were like I didn'tthink I wanted this or whatever,
instead of saying like thisshit doesn't work, be like wow,
this really works.
This really is bringing mesomething new.
This really is bringing mesomething that's none of my
(27:13):
business.
This is bringing me somethingthat I had no idea I even
deserved.
Like you know, remember whenit's good that it can feel that
way.
Yeah, it doesn't you know,fucking break.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
Exactly Two more, and this one is we kind of dabbled
on.
But take a chill pill, go withthe flow, be the cork floating
down the river.
Yeah, we talked about this, youknow, last season and I think
even in that end episode.
But if I am again recapping howyou're creating your life, yeah
(27:48):
, going with what feels easiest.
Yes, we do this so often wherewe fight the current and you
know that's like part of thething, like in stopping the
podcast if it's not feeling, youknow, in a light, like in ease,
and it's this, then it's doneright.
Like then we have to move on toa different zone.
So it's all good, Be willing tojust go with the flow, go with
(28:11):
ease.
It doesn't mean, don't you know, be prepared or take action.
That's not what I'm saying atall.
But take action with ease.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
You know, what it sort of is reminding me of is
like I'm always manifesting moremoney for my life.
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
It doesn't mean I'm not checking my bank account.
Yeah, it doesn't mean I'm notrealistically going like I see
how many dollars I have, I seemy mortgage coming out, I see
you know my car payment orwhatever.
I'm realistic in the numbersand the math, but I know that
more is coming.
Yes, just suit what I'm saying.
Yeah, like that's.
It's not just like I believe Ihave all the money in the world
(28:45):
and I don't need to check mybank ever.
Yeah, that's not it.
Yeah, you can check your bank.
No, stay aware, live.
You know.
Like, take a lined action tomake sure that like your shit's
lining up, but do believe thatthat's coming your way.
Yeah, you know.
Yes.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
Be grateful for every little penny there.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
Hell yes, hell yes, thank you.
Thank you, bank, thank you,thank you, mortgage Payment for
giving me a place to live.
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (29:08):
Yes, and the you know the equity you're gaining in
that mortgage payment you'repaying yourself.
Yeah, that's the freaking magicof it.
So going with the flow, beingat ease, all that stuff.
And then the final one is theone I've listened to our season
one trailer of the whole podcast.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
Again, just to like remember it.
And it was called.
Speaker 1 (29:30):
Enjoy the Journey.
And so the final one really isenjoying the journey, and it's
all about how are you like,what's the energy you're gonna
bring along the way?
It's not about just gettingthere.
Speaker 2 (29:41):
Because every trip you take even the theoretical
trips that you take in your lifeyou are packing an extra bag of
energy.
Yes, the energy you're bringingis in its own little extra bag.
What the fuck are you puttingin that bag?
What are you carrying aroundwith you on vacation?
What are you carrying aroundwith you on the way to the
airport?
What are you carrying aroundwith you the week before you
(30:02):
know, when you're at work, likethat is an extra bag that you
pack.
Yes, you're putting your energyin it.
It's nobody else's, it's justfor you.
It's your own little personalitem, your own little carry on.
Yes, it's full of your energyand you're responsible for what
you're putting in there.
Speaker 1 (30:16):
Exactly, you know what vibe are you bringing to
the?
Speaker 2 (30:19):
vacay.
What vibe are you bringing tothe party, vibing?
Speaker 1 (30:23):
to the party, Vibing to the party?
Yes, that's it I mean.
So enjoy your journey If you'regoing to spend years being
miserable to get to that dreamthat you have right.
Like let's say you know youwant all the money and you want
the big job and you're thecareer, the business or whatever
you want.
Yeah, and you spend 10 years inmisery.
Speaker 2 (30:46):
Was it worth it?
Also, you're not going to getto happiness through misery.
Happiness is not at the end ofthe misery road.
I have such a hard time withthat.
It's like I believed it for solong.
Speaker 1 (30:59):
I have to do it the hard way I know so many people
do, because they get told thatwhen they're kids Exactly, right
, exactly right, it's going tobe hard.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
I have to go through misery, but at the end of it,
maybe there'll be this happiness.
No, because you haven't builthappiness along the way.
There's no proof of happiness.
That's not what you're building.
You're just building moremisery.
What are you doing every day?
What are you doing and who areyou?
Where are you existing?
What energy are you living inevery day?
Because you're just creatingmore of that.
Yeah, that's what you'recreating.
(31:26):
That's what's at the end ofthat road Exactly Fuck and
change the path.
Speaker 1 (31:30):
Change the path, change your mindset, change your
energy.
You know, don't spend your lifewith this dream and then be
miserable along the way.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
Enjoy the journey.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
Because you know what Some people don't make it to
the end of the journey.
Speaker 2 (31:45):
Right, so that's absolutely Enjoy.
Speaker 1 (31:47):
You know how many people are like oh, I'm going to
wait for retirement to traveland I appreciate that and it's a
very much a boomer thing, right.
Speaker 2 (31:55):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Save it all to the end and then enjoy it.
That's not, I think, where theyounger generations are, and I
think that's where they get abad rap, but I also think it's
like we want to enjoy the timewe're here.
Speaker 2 (32:08):
This is the life.
Speaker 1 (32:09):
Because you may not get to retirement man, Like that
could be the reality,Absolutely.
So what are you doing?
Speaker 2 (32:16):
Also, why should I not enjoy my life today.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
I'm not going to delay, joy, yes.
Because I think I'll be able toenjoy it more when my body
hurts more in another 30 years.
Now, you know, give me afucking break.
Yeah, I got to enjoy todayBecause maybe that's it, maybe
today's it.
Speaker 1 (32:33):
Yeah, so check in with yourself.
Are you enjoying your journey?
Yeah, if you're not, it's timefor a change.
Yeah, absolutely, and all right.
Well, any final words?
Speaker 2 (32:46):
No, I mean, I just feel like anyone who ever got
anything out of it.
Yes, thank you.
Yes, I love you girl, you know.
Yes, yes and yeah, I absolutelyloved this.
Thank you for inviting me on it.
Yeah, I mean, it was your idea,it was your baby and I'm just.
I am so grateful to even bealong for the ride, so it was
(33:08):
fun.
Speaker 1 (33:09):
It was fun.
Yeah, we had a good timetogether, for sure.
And you know what?
We had lovers and we had haters.
We didn't have any inbetweeners, so we have lovers
and haters, and that, to me, issuccess, absolutely so, yes,
thank you to everyone who tunedin and listened, and we're just
so grateful, yep 100.
(33:29):
And sending you love andgoddess vibes for your journey,
I mean, and cheers forever.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
Yes, cheers to you, cheers to us, cheers to the path
that you're on and the futurethat holds.
Yep Cheers.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
Cheers Baby, cheers baby.
Ok, bye, bye.
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