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I actually hated school, although I was a very good student because, , I was an introvert. I didn't like socializing much, and , the bullying and stuff. So basically I didn't like also that we were in a structure. We had to do homeworks. I didn't like that part, but I enjoyed history and geography, most of them.
So I started to prioritize and of. Course my average rate grades went down because I didn't study everything, but I started to enjoy life more. I went out more, , with friends and, and clubbing and all of those things. So I realized that need a balance, , to also enjoy life having. Fun while we are also working towards our big goals.
So that's what I did. I went, , to be a waitress in the Caribbean on a cruise. It was amazing. Traveling around the Caribbean islands , and in, in the Latin American, , countries, , Colombia, Venezuela, and also, , that was the first time when I went to Miami or Costa Rica and I was only 21 and be able to do that.
It was an amazing, , opportunity to do , when I finally finished my university, , I also had the chance actually to go to internships, to different countries. I went to internship to Ukraine, and then also to Mexico. Again, it was a great, , opportunity and, , when I had my diploma and I was looking for a job, I was first worried like, oh, I'm gonna, oh, I'm gonna find a job.
They needed someone who they can sink, , okay, she could actually do that. And because she'd done it before. So that's what, when you, , looking for , a job or when you're looking for, to reach a goal, it's sometimes not what you're supposed to have, what you think, like people think that we need to meet certain conditions to, to get what we want, but sometimes it's not what we actually expect.
Jenni (00:06):
Yeah. That's fascinating. And that is one of. The pieces that I resonated so much with you listening to your story is that you have been able to curate this life that is this work and play. Mix. Yes, you could have gone to school and checked off all the boxes, but you decided, no, I'll focus on the pieces that I know I need to get me to the next step and I'll allow the space for myself to enjoy life at the same time.
EditB (00:07):
, I didn't really. Could explain it for a while. So what happened is, for example, when I went to first time, , alone abroad, it was when I was 19, and then I went to UK to be an open because I decided I need to learn English. Without English, I cannot survive in this new era, , with the internet and everything.
I don't know. Nobody there. I hardly speak the language. Where am I going? What am I doing? , it felt like my ego is lacking from my soul. It's like my soul is connected to my higher self, which is like guiding me like crazy, , moving towards for my past and my ego is just maybe woke up from a, I don't know, a nap and trying to stop me, but then I'm in the middle already so I can't stop, you know?
and then filling the gap as my book is called, the Gap Filler Success. Basically, I see my goal and then I Okay. How to fill that gap and then I'm just go for it and filling the gaps.
Yes, absolutely. So at the very beginning when I was in my early twenties, I haven't had any spiritual practice. , I didn't know that I'm spiritually connected, that's why I'm acting this way. But then later when I started my spiritual practices, I realized that. Oh, I'm living through my higher self.
It was like this compass, or this past was like even more stronger. The callings were more stronger, I didn't need to come up always like mindfully thinking of what should be my next goal. It was like more like calling, it's become like a more a pool. , and when I was acting on it though, , taking the inspired actions, somehow all the solution or all the challenges was like dissolving because I was following that calling.
But when we got there, , I would say the universe did not supported us to stay because it wasn't an intuitive calling pass. It was more like me taking conscious, mindful, . Thinking process, , and eventually we returned. And then when we returned it was,, lots of things, manifestations, which I was thinking , to, wanted to have before I left, came through.
And for everybody listening, the Gap Filler Success book is fascinating. You get to hear so much of her story, and when I say story, there are so many stories like she just shared that you're like, holy smoke. 'cause if I could have the balls to go out and do that in my lifetime, just once, it's just story after story in there.
And that one of them is the three P method. And in this three P method, the first P is actually positioning. So when you know, what do you want to reach, you know what goal you want to reach, that is, . Belongs to certain people or it belongs to a certain place. So you basically position yourself close to the fire.
You're gonna receive offers, , and then people tend to . Start to doubt themself. , when already the, opportunity is there and then already they are like, okay, here it is, do it. , and you're just like, oh, holy shit. This is it. , maybe I can't do this. And then they start doubting themself and then they actually ruin the whole process, and then they don't do it eventually.
And I was like, wow. , I was, I really felt like. I am a maternity leave. I wanted to stay longer with my baby, but this offer is like so huge , and I just can't, , say no. And then of course I knew probably they're gonna have different, , labors of expectations than I have in my company.
Literally. It was so different. It was so, , intense. , if I compare it to my old job, but it was a really nice environment with very nice people. Eventually I learned in, , and I was really successful there with , my work. But what I wanted to say is that.
How it's gonna help me. And then years later I'm like, oh my God, this is what I , had to go there and do that actually, because now I need that kind of, , paper or I need that kind of, , practice, which I actually done two years ago and I had no clue. There are certain things you feel you want to do it, you can't explain it, but then it's gonna make sense couple of years later or months later.
, because I knew one day we are gonna leave, one day we are gonna leave. , it was just like, I know one day we are gonna leave. And then I taught him English. When we left, he started English, , school in the Netherlands. And before that he was in a Hungarian kindergarten. It was a big shift for him, but he was actually able to handle it well because of how I prepared him for it.
the second half of the book is, , more in more for people , who believes in spirituality help, , law of attraction, manifestation practices, and because that's what happened to me, like when I started to do more spiritual practices that I.
In the five step method. If you want to reach your. Goal, the first step is to have the clarity, consciously make the decision that you want that thing. So for example, losing weight. Let's say just losing weight, okay. I actually managed to lost 20 kilos, which is like 40 pounds, , when I was 42 years old.
You need to understand that you have some subconscious belief. You need to reprogram, you need to rewrite if you are aware of them. , I have some drawing exercise I do with my clients to actually dive more deeper into their subconscious, and then we can see that how is it differentiate from their conscious.
You wanna be happy when you are 20 kilos less. So you want to manifest into that lifestyle. , yeah, I'm so light, I am happy, I'm joyous. But you can't, if you are sad or you be feel betrayed or angry because someone just triggered you, and why you feeling that way is because you have a chord trauma from the childhood.
And the growth mode is actually when you rest. And recalibrate and adjust , and that mode is when many people feel guilty and ashamed that, oh my God, I got sick. I can't work now. Or I'm on a vacation, I'm not working now. And they feel guilt and shame about any time they rest. And that also creating low vibration that's also creating resistance , in their manifestation. To understand the energies of the universe, flow with it and understand that, for example, macro retrograde lets a bit. Keep slower, turn inside and then do some inner work and analyze the situations and be more calm and peaceful. That's requires a bit slowing down without guilt and shame.
That's how you can align with the universe or numerological porters. I also explain in the book and , the fifth step is to taking inspired actions. So when you went through the first, second, third, fourth, , then eventually you need to take actions. After you clear the path, right? And then that has to be an inspired action, which you feel like called to take on, not action, which other people want you to take or not actions what other people is expecting you to take, but your inspired action.
I'm posting most of them on my Instagram actually. And I also have a school community. , I have live events every week where we do manifestation and. Healing meditation practices. I also have a meditation library there, a course, the Life Transformation System course and some other workshops.
Can control three things in life. You control your thoughts, your emotions, and your actions. And when you control those three , then you win. The thoughts, basically not having negative thoughts, not having negative assumptions, , maybe you need information, maybe you need communication, but just make sure you are thinking in a positive way.
Jenni (00:28):
So good. Thank you. That is the perfect way to end it. Thank you so much for coming on and joining me on the show today. Thank you for having me. Take care everyone.