In this powerful episode, Dr. Amelia and Pastor Danny sit down with Dr. Stacy and Lady Rhonda Spencer for a raw and redemptive conversation on sexual trauma, intimacy, and creating safe spaces in marriage. The Spencer's share their remarkable testimony of surviving infidelity, addiction, and deep wounds from the past and how God turned their marriage into a thriving, joy-filled union.
They open up about navigating the triggers of old trauma, doing the inner work of healing, and building a marriage rooted in transparency, grace, and mutual pleasure.
Whether you’re carrying hidden wounds or seeking deeper intimacy, this episode is a lifeline of hope and wisdom.
🎧 In This Episode
✔️ How Dr. Stacy’s early childhood trauma shaped his view of love and intimacy
✔️ Why sexual trauma carries over into marriage and how to recognize hidden triggers
✔️ The freedom that comes when couples create “no shame zones” for open conversation
✔️ The power of pruning the weeds in your relationship so passion can flourish
✔️ How Lady Rhonda loved Stacy through his brokenness, turning pain into partnership
💬 Favorite Quote
"I think it starts with the small things. You can’t expect it to turn around overnight. Just take one step, one bite at a time. Be patient, keep chewing through it together, and over time you’ll see the change." — Lady Rhonda Spencer
🎯 Take Action
✨ Be willing to excavate the hard places — healing starts with naming what’s hurting you
✨ Share this episode with someone who’s afraid it’s too late for their marriage
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Order Danny and Amelia's Book, Pursuit of Passion, and begin your journey of deeper love and lasting passion at https://www.dannyamelia.org/.
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