November 26, 2020 • 51 mins
The Power Exchange
What is it?
Using Marriage's Sexiest Secret, a couple Creates, Feeds, and Feasts from a circle of created power, or Exchange of Power. In practicing The Power Exchange, a new marital synergy is generated, this creating or rekindling magical sexual energy between a couple. This Power Exchange Circe will Sate both the husband and wife's needs. Working together they will both find a mutual acceptance along with a deeper spiritual connection in practicing this dynamic.
The Power Exchange satisfies two very important needs that married couples require from one another.
~A wife’s craving or hunger for intimacy or closeness with her husband.
~A husband’s search for that unexplained trust & respect from his wife.
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Little Kaninchen (00:21):
Yes, A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving. It's one of
my all time favs. I used to makea night of it with the kiddos
when they were younger. And nowI just have Mr. Fox to torture
and have him sit with me andwatch it every year.
Mr Fox (00:37):
Oh, that's not torture.
lk
Little Kaninchen (00:42):
Well welcome everyone to married with a twist
podcast. Hopefully your turkeysare stuffed, wink wink. I hope
Mr. Fox stuffs mine later. Areyou all ready for your family
gatherings? Well, let's hurry soyou can get back to it. First,
we both want to wish you all awonderful Charlie Brown
(01:04):
Thanksgiving. Our podcasttonight will be about what has
happened in the subMrs communitythis past month. Thanksgiving
historically, these interestingdirty little details about these
Puritans. And then our mainfocuse is the Power Exchange
Relationship, feeding into thecircle and feasting from it
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since we're all gonna befeasting on Turkey. In just a
day or so.
Mr Fox (01:31):
That sounds pretty good.
Little Kaninchen (01:34):
Finally, we'll kind of wrap it up with what's
coming in December.
Mr Fox (01:39):
And at the end of this podcast, to all of the pilgrims
and the Indians that make it tothe end, I will share about our
Thanksgiving toast, and ourspecial invitation for all of
you to attend this unique andpersonal annual event. So stick
around to the end of it. Unlessyou already know the details.
And we'll tell you more.
Little Kaninchen (02:15):
Do you want to know a secret? Do you want to
have a secret? A dirty littlesecret? A secret that you only
share with your spouse? A secretthat is so magical, so intimate
in ways you can only imagine.
Mr Fox (02:29):
Oh, come on. You must be curious.
Little Kaninchen (02:33):
Marriage has a new secret a relationship
accessory of sorts. Come falldown our rabbit hole. And we'll
share our secret about thismagical wonderland of creating
your own intimacy. We can giveyou all the edge without you or
your marriage ever getting cut.
Welcome to married with thetwist podcast.
Mr Fox (02:53):
Greetings everyone. Mr.
Fox and little kaninchen or lk?
We are your hosts and foundersof marriage's sexiest new
secret, the leader followerdynamic, also known as married
dominance and submission.
Little Kaninchen (03:09):
Oh man, you just told him the secret.
What happened to November? Orshould I say what happened in
November on subMrs. I wanted toshare a little bit of what we
did this past month in thecommunity. First of all, I
wanted to twist the normalThanksgiving into something a
little more twisted for everyoneto experience.
Mr Fox (03:32):
lk, twist something
Little Kaninchen (03:34):
Always, always twisted. November's focus was
all about giving and feasting.
We kind of skip right into theChristmas season, so I thought
it might be a good time to giveour Sir's some attention. Show
them our thanks before Christmasand all those trimmings just
completely take over.
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Exactly. that's what I'm talkingabout. November was all about
the member, your Sir's memberthat is. November we had a lot
of fun things scheduled in ourcommunities. I think that women
just had just as much fun as themen did. And we had an exercise,
harvesting your Sir's seed thatcontinued all month long. That
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was a lot of fun. And then wehad several live chats. Thanks
and giving for your Sir, likehow to give him a better blow
job, great techniques. We evenhad everybody bring their
bananas.
Mr Fox (04:32):
I like that kind of class.
Little Kaninchen (04:35):
If you missed it, please go to the fitness
group and our leader therePearl, she's really great. She
will fill you in on all thoselittle details. But we also
talked about how blowjobs reallyare more like what we call face
fucking. Sorry, I'm going to usethat word a lot probably in this
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But we talk more about how facefucking versus blowjob. We did a
whole entire thing on that. Wetalked about cock worship and
it's tools and toys within aworkshop, which was really
fabulous. We also had anotherspiritual chat about the power
behind the penis, which was sointeresting. If you haven't
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joined the spiritual group yet.
please do join her group. It isjust great information. And then
we had Marriage's Sexiest NewSecret member chat with me, lk.
And we have lots of peopleattend and we had so much fun
there. So I invite you to joinus, those will happen every
single month. Please stay tunedfor those. We had a few twisted
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holidays. We did Friday the13th, making your own luck. We
also had national go for a rideor of course I had to twist that
into cowgirl day or reversecowgirl day. We still have
Beaver Moon coming up. I don'tthink I need to explain that.
And one more St. Andrew's day,which I'm pretty sure you all
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can figure out how I twistedthat one. So that was really
where our November went. It wasfantastic. We have just a few
more things left. We also aredoing a fantastic book series.
So tune in for that join ourbook club, and otherwise we'll
just move forward.
Mr Fox (06:29):
Alright, lk, then let's talk Turkey. Let's talk
Thanksgiving. November is aboutcelebrating the year's harvest
and being thankful for theblessings of the past year.
Thanksgiving celebrations areusually modeled around the year
1621's original harvest dinner,shared by the English pilgrims
of Plymouth, Massachusetts, andthe Wampanoag Indian people. The
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celebration was prompted by theyear's good harvest. The Indians
had helped the pilgrims getthrough the previous winter by
giving them food in that time ofscarcity. Both groups exchanged
food and gave thanks. What anoble beginning to the holiday.
Little Kaninchen (07:13):
Some fun PDLD the pilgrims dirty little
details. Back then premaritalsex was punished severely and
historical colonial records itwas estimated that the
percentage of couples who hadpremarital sex averaged 18.7%
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There was an equal percentage ofcouples who never did marry but
simply enjoyed the sex and thentook their punishment if any
from their Governing Council.
That accounts for a total over37.4% of the Plymouth Colony
engaging in a lot of fun sex,not to mention the percentage
that went totally undiscovered.
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The University of Virginiaestimates that at least 50% of
the colony was messing around inthe cornfields when nobody was
looking. No wonder they nearlystarved those first few years,
they were sowing a differentkind of seed.
Mr Fox (08:08):
I want to know who's doing the study at the
University of Virginia oncolonies, sex habits in the
cornfields
Little Kaninchen (08:16):
they're probably all related to them.
Its near and dear to theirheart.
Mr Fox (08:20):
I don't want to know what my elders are doing.
Little Kaninchen (08:23):
I thought it was pretty interesting.
Mr Fox (08:25):
It is, it is.
Little Kaninchen (08:26):
Yeah. The second detail I thought was
interesting was the sexualoffenses were rarely punished by
death. With the percentage thatI mentioned before. I suspect if
they had tried to implementdeath for every sexual offense,
or what they saw as an offense,there would have been very few
colonists left. The more commonpunishment was whipping,
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flogging, branding. Or they havea favorite, the time you spent
at the pillory or the publicstockade, they put you up on a
block and put your head and armsand maybe feet in you know a
stockade. And if those of youdon't know what a pillory is, a
pillory is a device made up ofwooden or a metal framework
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erected on a post with holes forsecuring your head hands. It was
normally used for punishments orpublic humiliations.
Mr Fox (09:16):
Yeah, I would call it a stockade. I can't wait for the
day. I can have one of those ina playroom with you.
Little Kaninchen (09:22):
Oh, I would love a pillory.
Mr Fox (09:24):
That would be awesome.
Little Kaninchen (09:24):
Yeah, I would love it. But maybe not in
public. At least not in public,naked or anything like that. But
let's move on. We kind ofdigressed. But there was a 16
year old boy that was onceexecuted for beaselity, along
with the guilty livestock. Thestory goes with a surge of
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hormones he had turned to thosewho he knew best accused of
buggery and then indicted with amare, a cow, two goats, five
sheep, two calves and guess whata turkey.
Mr Fox (10:00):
Wow, he had a whole heirem that's unbelievable.
Little Kaninchen (10:03):
Yeah. I think he was like, 16.
Mr Fox (10:06):
He was 16.
Little Kaninchen (10:07):
Yeah. Well, he was first discovered by one that
accidentally saw the lewdpractice. When he was doing his
mare. He confessed to hismultiple sins. And as
punishment, he was forced towatch all the animals killed.
Now, at first, the court had aproblem figuring out which sheep
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you know, they weren't surewhich ones that he had favored.
So as sheep look pretty much thesame, but the boy was helpful
and pointed out all his sexpartners. So after made to watch
all the animals killed andburied in a pit, that boy was
then hung.
Mr Fox (10:50):
That's terrible.
Little Kaninchen (10:51):
Very few of those cases that said, but that
was a pretty interesting one.
Then there's one more littledetail. A woman was once
convicted of uncleanness with anIndian, and was sentenced to
publicly with being whipped. Andthen they would lead her by cart
through the town, and she was towear a scarlet letter AD badge
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on her arm to show that shewasn't adulterous. If she was
found without it, she would bebranded on her forehead. You
don't even want to know whathappened to the Indian. Let's
just say, I would imagine hedidn't make it for dinner that
year.
Mr Fox (11:33):
The Pilgrims and Indians had their share of
challenges as well. Badmarriages, cheating spouses,
teenagers with hormones, etc. Insome ways, life seems much the
same now, as it did then. Today,some people still have a lot in
common with the pilgrims of thepast, the hypocritical image of
sexuality. We're trying tochange that and we believe it's
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working. Our wish for everyonethis Thanksgiving and always is
to first be thankful and showyour gratitude by giving. Give
to each other by exploring andenjoying your sexuality with
your partner or your spouse.
Keep in mind as you gatheraround the turkey this
Thanksgiving, and quit thinkingabout that boy and his Turkey.
Just give thanks, you weren'tone of those pilgrims, or one of
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those turkeys.
Little Kaninchen (12:22):
The power exchange relationship feeding
into the circle and feastingfrom it. Let's start with what
is the power exchange. Usingmarriage's sexy a secret. A
couple creates and feeds andfeeds from a circle of creative
power or the exchange of thatpower and practicing the power
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exchange a new marital synergyis generated. This creating or
rekindling a magic sexual energybetween a couple. This power
exchange circle will sate boththe husband and wife's needs.
Working together they both finda mutual acceptance along with a
deeper spiritual connection andpracticing of the dynamic. I
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want to mention just one moretime. The power sheets satisfies
two very important needs thatevery married couple require
from one another. Okay, first ofall, a wife's craving a hunger
for intimacy or closeness withher husband, she really wants a
partner. And the husbands searchfor that unexplained trust and
respect from his wife, and thefact that she'll give him pussy
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whenever he wants.
Mr Fox (13:35):
Let's talk about the circle. We define powerexchange
circle as a circle of energythat is created by a couple that
is in sync emotionally,spiritually mentally and
physically by using the DSMmethodology of the power
exchange relationship. Soimagine if you will a large
circle a circular wave of movingenergy comprised of two
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independent components, one fedby a bright red orange light,
the leaders energy and the otherof bright blue green light, the
followers energy this circle ofenergy represents your power
exchange dynamic. Partners feedinto this circle strengthening
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it, then in turn feeding orfeasting from their combined
energies within the circle. Butyour partners must contribute to
the circle in order to be ableto feed from it. The circle is
only sustainable to feed bothpartners. If it constitutes
energy from both partners. Acouple initiates the circle by
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first completing the setup stepsof the power exchange dynamic.
As they begin to practice theirroles demonstrating growth in
them, the circle begins to form.
Next, the focus is on buildingthe circle strength and its
energy or movement. This happenswhen both partners are fully
engaged and practicingregularly. Even daily, this
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feeds the circle, creating asynergy. That's the interaction
or cooperation of two or morepeople to produce a combined
effect greater than the sum oftheir separate effects, which I
think also would go into talkingabout our community and the
value of community.
Little Kaninchen (15:21):
This takes us into that this type of
relationship is a relationshipwith benefits. You know what
they say? what you put in, youget out, nothing is truer than
with this power exchange. Thiscircle is so much more as it
feeds a couple in all sorts ofways. This type of relationship
is one with many, many benefits.
Personally, this type of dynamicbenefits you, your marriage,
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your family, and even yourfriends, I'm talking even your
coworkers, a husband many timesfeels more dominant. When he
does this type of thing. Hecarries himself with more
confidence. This has an overalleffect on him and everyone he
basically figuratively touches.
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He has more confidence in hischoices, his decisions, not only
at home, but at work. everywherehe goes. Everyone who comes in
contact will feel it see it inhis actions. A wife feels more
balanced in her marriage hasless anxiety and stress. The
feeling of protection andappreciation is giving her that
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emotional intimacy that she sobadly needs, she will pass it
forward to others, making her abetter version of herself. She
will be a better wife, a bettermother, a better friend, and
even a better co worker.
Mr Fox (16:42):
So lk, I think that's a pretty powerful paragraph right
there. And I think you start itwith one of the most awesome
quotes I can even imagine,right? Don't be upset with the
results you didn't get from thework you didn't do. I mean, just
like you said, when you startedthis, we're gonna get out of it,
whatever we put into it. Don'tbe surprised if it if it's not
working, right, like, Look atyourself.
Little Kaninchen (17:03):
Yes, I think that many times both partners,
you know, if they start out withusing our method and getting the
foundations and doing thosefirst steps, that's why they're
so important. So you bothunderstand there's
responsibilities and, youunderstand that now you're going
to make your marriage apriority.
Mr Fox (17:22):
It is hard work. I mean, that's also the point, I
think of what you're saying.
Like it's not like we just startdown this journey and everything
is gonna be I don't know whatyou call it lk, pixie dust. And
yes, is that a real? Is that areal saying, lk? Right. But
it's, it's hard work, you haveto roll up your sleeves and get
into it. And if you want theresults, you're gonna have to,
you're gonna have to put intoit.
Little Kaninchen (17:43):
Yeah, you work hard. But you get to play
harder. And that kind of hard,fun is the most fun and know
what you get out of it. There'snothing better,
Mr Fox (17:52):
Right? And it goes deeper than just just fantastic,
phenomenal sex and a bettermarriage. Right? Like, as you're
pointing out, you're gonna havea better version of yourself,
you're always constantly workingon being a better person and
creating a, your happiness.
Little Kaninchen (18:07):
Yeah, the synergy the circle will want to
will make you want to become abetter person, a better wife, a
better husband. It actuallycarries on throughout every
aspect of your life. Really?
Mr Fox (18:24):
I was just going to comment how the word synergy
that you just brought up, Ithink is so powerful in this
right, I think in everyrelationship, that that concept
that you can have more togetherwith somebody, then you could
produce independently on yourown. And that's really what
synergy means. When when twopeople come together, and
they're working with the samegoal in mind that they will have
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more than they could have bythemselves. And I think that's
the power of a relationship tobegin with. But it's especially
true when we align everybodywith those DSM foundations.
Everybody gets aligned, and Ithink it's a power that is
almost unstoppable.
Little Kaninchen (19:05):
So you're both setting an intention to go
somewhere certain goal, certainrelationship, both, you know,
deciding, intentionally decidingto have a leader follower
relationship,
Mr Fox (19:17):
right? Yep. And we're helping each other do it, we're
supporting each other andcreating an environment for the
other person to excel all thetime and having that in the
forefront of our mind. So it'snot accidental for for waiting
to accidentally have a wonderfulmind blowing relationship. It's
probably not gonna happenanytime soon, right? Like lk,
said, it's got to haveintention. We have to have that
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intent in the front of our mind,and we have to work hard at it
every day.
Little Kaninchen (19:42):
And that's something you want to do if
you're married and you have amarriage and there's nothing
better. I'm not kidding you. Ifyou think about it, there's
nothing better than having afabulous marriage. I mean, there
is nothing better than that. Soyou know, you put a little in
You get a little out, you put awhole lot in, you're gonna get a
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whole lot out. That's my,basically my thought will go
into like the power ofattraction within the circle.
Okay, this exchange helps bothpartners produced like that
chemical and endorphins thatcan't be seen, you can't really
touch them. But they make youhappier and healthier and even
draw outside people to you both, individually and as a couple.
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They feel the pull, but they'renot sure why they feel that pull
towards you. We have hadmultiple times when complete
strangers have paid for ourdrinks or dinners. Or, well,
basically just because no otherreason, then we just look like
we were so much in love. Theywant to be a part of it. They
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want to be around that
Mr Fox (20:50):
so yummy.
Little Kaninchen (20:52):
That's what they're thinking. They are
thinking, what is their secret?
It's truly a chemical pulll youhave on both your foreheads and
invisibly thing that's writtenthere that says, I love my
partner. I love my marriage. Andit's so sexy, and we have a
secret.
Mr Fox (21:16):
Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. I'm sure
that you've heard this before.
But what do we mean when we sayit here? The dominant leaders
are from Mars, meaning they havea mythological connection with
Mars or Aries, the Roman god ofwar, based on Aries, the Greek
god of war. The male gendersymbol is historically
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represented by Mars's sword andshield, and the element iron, in
alchemy. These dominant leadersoften live in a land of what I
would call black and white,right? Meaning they also respond
well to their roles, especiallyin the mental and physical
aspects. They are warriors.
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It's kind of In summary, lk,when I talk about the mental and
the physical, right, like we'renot taking anything away from
gender or anything like that,we're just saying that I think
most people see guys as beingthe brute or the warrior. And
not that guys are, have a bettermental capacity. I wouldn't say
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that at all. I don't know how toword it properly, right? Like
I'm thinking logical, but it'snot. It's not that women aren't
logical at all, I think it mightbe more of the lack of emotion
men put into things.
Little Kaninchen (22:38):
I think men in general have more of those
parts. internally. There's adominant partner or submissive
partner, as a leader, there's afollower, you know, not exactly
like we said, we don't alwayshave to go by gender, but I'm
just saying that sometimes themore the leader, or the more
dominant partner tends to havethose traits. So and again, just
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the same thing with a ball orsubmissive partner, you know,
you actually take on thosetrades stronger in those traits.
It's just like, you know, ifyou're a better fisherman than
the other person, same thing.
Men are warriors are cavemen.
They have the penis of power,and they love to fix around. And
they never asked.
Mr Fox (23:23):
That's true. Now we have Siri to get us lost.
Little Kaninchen (23:28):
So now let's talk a little bit more about
Venus. Okay, well, the followeror submissive partner we're from
Venus, Venus or Aphrodite. Venuswas the Roman goddess of love
Aphrodite was the Greek goddessof love. Today's female gender
symbol historically was said tobe Venus's mirror, the same
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female symbol of the element,that is copper, in alchemy.
Followers live in the land ofall shades of grey, not just the
land of 50 Shades of Grey, butwe live in a spiritual and
emotional and, give that energyinto the circle. Overall, the
circle is made up of actions andthoughts of both Venus and Mars.
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The circle is fed when bothpartners are fulfilling their
leader follower roles with theirthoughts and actions. Let's talk
a little bit more about feedingthe circle. Once the power
exchange circle is formed, itsenergy is magical. The circle
wants to be fed from the mind,body and spirit of both
participants. We are made up oftwo parts. First material or the
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physical body, this part can beseen and touched. Second,
immaterial and yet impalpableare the soul or spirit or the
mind or conscious and emotions.
Keep in mind the masculine partsthe physical and mental, those
being fed into and from thecircle more by the leader or the
dominant partner, the feminineor the Following partner is fed
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and gives more into theemotional spiritual energy of
the circle. All these parts whenin balance, your dynamic or
circle will be at his very best,each figuring out how their part
can help the other partner andthe dynamic work better for them
both. So that's a mouthful. Solet's talk about what does that
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all mean?
Women are Venus, once acommitted partner, and she needs
emotional intimacy. So she wantsand she needs, she needs to feel
a closeness to get physicallyintimate or have sex with her
partner. While a man or Marsneeds physical intimacy, or
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let's just say he needs somepussy, to be able to open up
enough to show women theemotional intimacy they need, or
the partner they wish for. So tosay that a couple as vanilla is
a is at a stalemate is anunderstatement. In our method,
we have figured out a way tohave both feed into the circle,
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so that they can get what theyneed. So they can give it to
their partner, what they trulydesire. The ladies have heard me
say before, you need to hardenyour partner, before he can
soften up, but you need to lethim in, to plunder to his
deepest wishes, so that you canreceive what you are wanting.
Mr Fox (26:31):
That's funny, okay, because I would be telling the
guys you need to harden up inorder to ponder into her deepest
desire. close, very close,slightly, slightly different at
the truth.
Let's talk warrior lk. Thefeeding of Mars, the dominant or
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leading partner. his confidencecomes from her words of
encouragement, accompanied byher respect, and her unwavering
trust and support. She offershim her vulnerability that gives
him the dark intimacies that hereally desires. His eyes will
begin to open allowing him tosee a new version of her, she
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will give him her trust andrespect. Once she is fed what
she needs, he will want to makeher his own in every way. Since
she feeds into the circle aswell as feeds from the circle.
She can only sustain her actionsif she's being fed in return. He
will say, You are mine, and shewill surrender herself to him.
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How does the dominant of thepower exchange feed what feeds
him? The dominant feeds from thecircle and his partner, her
body, her mind her spirit, hislead and command willfully
followed, verbal accolades,acknowledgement, appreciation
for the dynamic for hisleadership, exhibiting
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satisfaction, comfort andfollowing his leadership,
relinquishing control of herbody and scenes and play,
sharing her darkest physicaldesires along with her
vulnerabilities. Her engagementto her role, her patience, we
had to put the P word in here,her patience and his fulfilling
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his role. Most importantly, herdemonstrating the respect and
trust in him and his abilitiesto lead
Little Kaninchen (28:35):
the feeding of Venus, the submissive or the
following partner, she asks forthe journey or daringly follows
him into the fire and the iceand this thing that we do, while
giving him the physical intimacyis he responds to most. His
consistency is building a bridgeto the emotional intimacy that
she craves the most. emotionalintimacy is what gives her the
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feeling of closeness with herhusband. The security and
unconditional support he offersand freely gives leads him to
feel the trust and respect hewants. You will want to be made
to be his in every way. She saysI am yours and he takes her
where she needs to go. Thefollower is fed by the circle as
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well as her serves mind, bodyand spirit. What feeds the
follower, the submissive, themind, his influence, his
direction has words, feeling hiscontrol, not physically, but
mentally, that he's going to dothings and tell her things
that's in her best interest andprove it over and over again
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until she can truly trust herbody. She feeds from the pain
and the pleasure he gives her.
And in her spirit, hisconsistency and engagement
commitment to the dynamic inthat role. Most importantly, the
intimate closeness The emotionalintimacy she feels with him. She
stands beside him as his equalto form a strong front, but she
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walks behind him as she has hisback and she will follow him
wherever he wants to go.
Mr Fox (30:17):
Wow, super powerful right there. lk, that sums up so
much right? Say that one moretime.
Little Kaninchen (30:25):
She stands beside him at it as is equal to
form a strong front, but shewalks behind him. She has his
back and she will follow himwherever he needs to go
Mr Fox (30:36):
love it.
Feasting. Feeding from withinthe circles excess energy that
you both have built is whatfeasting is all about. When you
and your partner have both madethe conscious effort to build
your roles and the dynamic, youwill both feel love again, a
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deep love a connection madestrong by the energy of the
circle. You have and can nowfeast from the energy you both
have created. Picture if youwill a large spread of all of
your favorite foods kind of likeThanksgiving, laid out on the
most romantic candlelit table.
All there just for yourenjoyment. The circle has
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provided you both with thefeast. You can now feast from
one another's mind, body andspirit. There's an abundance its
there for you to consume.
Little Kaninchen (31:35):
What does this look like in reality? Remember
one couples reality is notanother person's reality. So
these are these are just anexample. So maybe traveled
together during this time ofabundance you can you'll feel
that abundant feeling you'lldefinitely feel it to do
something you've been planningfor a long time a trip that you
haven't you know that you'vealways dreamt of, but never have
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done romantic dinners, you know,overnights in the city next to
yours away.
Mr Fox (32:03):
We actually do that a lot.
Little Kaninchen (32:04):
We do that all the time. So sexual scenes,
extra long scenes like five hourlong scenes. Those have been
some of the best times we'velaughed more we've cried more.
We've done all those thingsduring those extra long scenes.
Mr Fox (32:19):
You are getting me excited now. So it's really the
podcast. So let's get going.
Little Kaninchen (32:23):
But celebrating your powerexchange
anniversaries, it is aboutcelebrating everything you can
life is hard enough find reasonsto celebrate. And when you feel
you're in that time of abundancewithin your circle, let go go do
those things that you've alwayswanted to go do go see a concert
together, you know, somebodymaybe you saw when you were
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younger, pull out that fun cardand do something fun together.
It's about spending timetogether as a couple.
Okay, so this takes us intoworking in tandem. The circle in
its energy and the entiredynamic, I usually compare it to
a tandem bike or two personbike, two seats, two wheels,
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four pedals, both members haveto pedal the bike to make it
work to easily pedal along. Thesun is warm, the sky is blue,
both of you easily pedalingalong wind blowing in your face.
Life is good. You are workingtogether towards the same goal.
All along you feel in totalcontrol of your marriage, your
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life and yourself. Both of youfeeding receiving the
nourishment to the fullestextent. Then, all of a sudden,
one of you stops pedaling. Theother person feels that the ride
is now so much more difficult.
They're doing it on their own.
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And they're wondering, do I stoppedaling? Or do I continue
pedaling on my own. I've seen ithappen both ways. But there is
only so much time one person canpedal before the bicycle with
both of them on it will crashand burn or what I call crashing
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smolder. As a dynamics energy isbeing lost. The fire or the
energy will fade, the fire isgoing out the circle is now out
of balance. It will begin toslow stall and possibly
disappear. This means one personstops being or doing their role
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for the couple stops regularpractice of the foundations and
rituals that they had beendoing. Maybe an individual has
lost interest or the dynamic isno longer working within their
marriage. There are multiplereasons why a couple ends up in
this type of situation sometimesits what we refer to as a second
year wall but that's a wholeother podcast.
Mr Fox (34:56):
Yes, it would be an entire another podcast or two
Some of the stuff that we'retalking about lk when we think
about it, it just makes sense,right? Your analogy of the
tandem bicycle. I mean, when youthink about it, and sometimes I
think relationships might feelthat way. Like you're the only
one working right, the otherpartner stops pedaling like you
were talking about. There'salmost a choice there that
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somebody makes, right? Do theystop pedaling, too? And then the
journeys over? Do they startpedaling harder, like, like,
there's a choice there thatsomebody has to make when they
feel that the other person isn'tpedaling? And sometimes you
might want to take a closer lookto because maybe that person's
pedaling twice as hard. And youjust don't recognize it. Right.
Little Kaninchen (35:39):
Right. It's like which choice I've seen
people do it both ways. Andunfortunately, I've seen both
ways. Crash and smolder. Yeah.
So and unfortunately, I think wehave done both. So as I said, we
are not one to, you know, don'thave mistakes, or haven't done
all of these things. So we cancome back and tell everybody our
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experiences.
Mr Fox (36:07):
Well, we haven't smoldered yet. I don't think
I think we've crashed.
Little Kaninchen (36:12):
Yeah, we've crashed. Yeah, totally crashed.
And, you know, but most times,you know, you do kind of have a
choice. And sometimes, like Isaid, one person decides, or
they may not even make a realdecision to stop or slow down.
Other things happen, vanilla,things happen within your life
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that maybe makes you stopremembering to do a ritual, or
stop pedaling. You're part ofthe bicycle or your
responsibilities in that role.
And some people just get freakinlazy, I'm gonna be honest with
you, like things are going alongreal good.
Mr Fox (36:50):
Why are you looking at me directly when you said that
Little Kaninchen (36:52):
consistency?
So like I talk about all thetime. So, but yeah, so I think
that sometimes it's not even anactual conscious choice that
you're doing, you just get lazy.
Or you say, oh, we'll do it nexttime. Oh, whatever, you'll
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learn. And I think everybodycrashes and smolders or crashes
and burns, it happens. But it'sokay. Because we have given you
tools to show you how to get up,wipe yourself off and get back
on that bicycle,
Mr Fox (37:26):
which is the most important thing, it's gonna
happen to everybody. I don'tcare who it is, right? And it's
gonna happen multiple times. Butyou got to use the tools like lk
is saying to get back on trackto get the bike back up and get
pedaling again. And there's justsuch a huge multitude of reasons
of what could be going on.
Right, maybe somebody needs toslow down a little bit, maybe
they just don't have thecapacity because maybe it's the
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holiday season, maybe it'sThanksgiving, and they need a
little extra helping hand.
Right,
Little Kaninchen (37:52):
their job is getting more stressful,
Mr Fox (37:55):
right? So it's not that they can disembark or not pedal
altogether. But maybe there aretimes when you do need to pedal
a little harder to keep it goingand keep you guys headed toward
your destination or to keep youon your journey. So maybe it's
not always an equal pedal.
Moving right along the crash andsmolder part of it, your mind
body spirit together all make upthis mystical garden. If the
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garden goes unattended or caredfor, for a short period of time,
even the soil might begin tolose it or share its nutrients
actually right with other plantswith weeds, or your crops may
become consumed by insects. Thisonly happens because of
complacency and neglect. Oncethe power exchange circle has
been established, do not allowit to recede back to your old
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vanilla habits. Tilling thesoil and planting the garden was
the majority of the work. Onceestablished, maintaining it
really isn't that difficult.
You've already done all thework, take care of it.
Oftentimes, our emotions canbecome hypersensitive, causing
us to point fingers maybe orcast blame at the other person.
This bad habit can also lead tothat victim mentality that is
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virtually self destructive. Thecircle eliminates the ability to
point the finger or placeyourself as a victim, which I
think is really huge withManning up, right. That's what
we would say to people man up,Dom up. You're not a victim of
anything. You're the leader,you're in control, change it,
you want a different, you want adifferent outcome, do something
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different. Most times whenthings falter within the circle,
it doesn't necessarily mean thata person that longer desires
their role. It usually comesdown to that vanilla life
unexpectedly creeping back up onus. We all have it right. We
have all these influences in ourlives. We're even more
susceptible to the consequencesof life. When we're not
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adequately prepared to maintainthe flow of the circle. We let
the other partner take up theslack. Maybe when we get caught
up in something else get in arut without letting them know or
communicating properly. So like,lk is talking about stresses at
work a minute ago, right? Shehas no idea what's going on at
my work. So maybe I am stressedout, maybe I'm having a harder
(40:14):
time maybe it's taking more ofmy personal capacity to deal
with it. If I'm notcommunicating it, lk has no idea
what's going on. Right. So backto that communication. If you
begin to feel as if something'swrong, or that you aren't being
fed the way that you need to befed, you should stop take a look
at yourself first. Are youfeeding the circle in the manner
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that you should be? Is itpossible that your partner is
slowing or possibly succumbingto not being nourished or fed
properly, herself or himself? Nomatter what the answers are to
those questions, direct yourinitial focus and feed your
energy into the circle. It willnot take long for your partner
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to notice your efforts andattention. The circle is
momentarily out of balance, andyou're stepping up may cause its
circle to lean even more to oneside or the other. But usually
this accompanied with afundamental downtime is all that
you'll need to create thebalance again, to get your
partner pedaling again. Think ofa time when someone has done
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something selfless on theirpart, with nothing more in mind
than to make you happy. How didit make you feel if they got you
a gift if they did something andtook it off your to do list for
you? lk, does that for me everynow and then I'll have something
and she'll just do it for me.
How does it make you feel? Ifyou're like me, or most other
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people, you'll think more highlyof them instantly, you'll think
better of that person. And also,even more importantly, I think
it generates something within usthat we want to return that
selfless generosity somehow. Andthis is exactly what we're
trying to accomplish bycontinuing to feed that circle.
A couple of the most commonwords used in D|sM relationships
(42:07):
are often consistency. Andwhat's the P word? lk, I don't
remember. inconsistency isusually referred to by the
submissive partner in regards toor dominant, and dominant
partners usually talk abouttheir submissive counterparts
needing to learn more
Little Kaninchen (42:26):
patience.
Mr Fox (42:27):
Thank you.
Little Kaninchen (42:29):
I hear the word not consistent regarding
the leader, or no patience onthe follower or the submissive
side. Following submissivepartners beware, playing the top
or just being your vanilla wife,being that same old person you
used to be eventually will againemasculate your sir, it will
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push him and his want for thepower exchange dynamic further
away. You must be vulnerable andsubmissive to him. We're not
saying it to be submissive orvulnerable to anybody else. But
you must be vulnerable and showyour submission to him. He only
has to be your husband, yourleader, your dominant. He must
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be responsible and build hisrole and walk that fine line of
the dominant partner beingtrustworthy. And being a
respectable gentleman. Both ofyou must stick with your work on
your roles and the dynamic.
Remember, you got to also keepit fresh, everything can get
dull, so don't forget torecreate, make it more exciting.
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You can look at this first crashas a test sometimes to see if
you both can do it or want itbad enough to get up on that
bike again. As many of you know,once you get a taste of this
dynamic, it's like the mostaddictive drug to quote the
movie Twilight. It's your ownpersonal heroine. The power
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exchange circle happensorganically. But then it's up to
you both to put it in and do thework that keeps the circle or
synergy moving within it. Thebest advice I can give is to be
realistic and make the magicwherever and whenever you can.
This really is marriage is sexysecret and the ultimate marriage
(44:26):
accessory. I wish everyone thebest in their journey.
Mr Fox (44:33):
Remember our site and its articles are written from
our own personal perspectivesthat would be mine and lk's. He
is used as a leader or adominant partner and she is used
as submissive or the followingpartner. Please understand that
you can interchange these labelsand make it match your own
dynamic. However that'll work nomatter your gender, sexual
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orientation. However youidentify the power exchange
relationship is For anyone thatdesires it,
Little Kaninchen (45:02):
so you have read those books, watch the
movies. Now you can have thatfairy tale or their dark edge or
even both, the exchange happensyou feed from the circle from
one another. The magic is in thejourney. As a lifestyle dynamic,
it is work and a little bit ofchange. But when you do it for
the betterment of yourself, andmost importantly, your marriage,
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it's better than the best pieceof chocolate cake, or I should
say, maybe pumpkin pie. Givethanks. Give to one another,
feast on one another's mind,body and spirit. Enjoy it to its
fullest.
(45:47):
So let's talk about what orwho's coming in December. You're
tied in December a top 10. Thefirm decem Believe it or not in
Latin means 10 and Yuletide.
It's a time around Christmas.
It's the Christmas season. It'sactually December 1 through
January 1. The celebration ofYuletide dates back many
centuries, and was originally away to celebrate the winter
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solstice, which is December 21,the shortest day and longest
darkest night of the entireyear. But good news, the next
day we start back the otherdirection. So even if it's dark
outside, we'll discuss thingsthat will bring you light and
cheer. There will be a gift ideafor your Sirs, and even ideas
(46:31):
for your new dynamic, includinga top 10 List of the must haves
for your D|s-M dynamic. We willhelp inspire you and help you
bring in the new year. Thismonth will be all about fun
celebrations, gifts, and keepingyour dynamic's connection during
all this holiday fun.
Mr Fox (46:50):
Sounds fun. And to all the good pilgrims and Indians
that made it to the end of ourpodcast, I'd like to thank
everybody. I love that. MaybeI'll have you on a thing with
the feather on... Its a greatidea. I'm digging this. Okay,
but I'd like to thank everybodyfor making it to the end. We're
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going to talk a little bit aboutthe Thanksgiving tradition,
which we're going to do onThanksgiving, November 26. This
year at 7pm. Eastern time. It'sgoing to be a toast. You can
read about it. I wrote an entirearticle on husDom about it,
explaining it, it's going to bea short toast basically, for lk
and myself. The toasts is inrespect to my father. But for
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everybody, you can toastwhatever you want. This
celebration is going to be foreverybody. You can come alone,
you can come with your partner,some people their spouses are
working. And that's just fine.
We're going to put theinformation out the login
information. We're going to dothe meeting via zoom video
meeting. We're going to put theinformation on the husDOM.
(47:55):
premium member chat and wherewould you put the login
information on the
Little Kaninchen (48:03):
It's called the sub radio chat room.
Mr Fox (48:05):
Okay, great. And before we go, we'd like to thank
everybody that's here listeningto us. Like lk said one minute
ago, we'd like to really give alot of thanks to the team
members that we have that make alot of things happen behind the
scenes here at husDOM and I'msure subMrs. Yes. So huge
gratitude toward everybody. We'dlike to thank everybody that's
(48:26):
listening to us, everybody thatsupported us over the years,
it's been phenomenal. And whileyou're here, we're talking about
giving thanks. If you guys wouldjust take one minute, maybe it's
two minutes and rate us for apodcast be giving there you go
five stars, maybe a positiverating. That goes a long way in
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our visibility. We're kind ofnew here. We don't have a lot of
podcasts, but that visibility isgoing to mean a lot for growing
this thing that we all calledD|s-M. So please just take a
minute and do that for us. Thatwould be awesome. And before we
go the very last thing is I hopethat we see everybody tomorrow
night or November 26 at 7pm.
Eastern. And you're ready HappyThanksgiving.
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Happy Thanksgiving. And
Little Kaninchen (49:12):
we're gonna say until then, so long
Mr Fox (49:15):
farewell.
Little Kaninchen (49:17):
saying good night. I hate to go and leave
this pretty sight, goodbye
Yes, A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving. It's one of
my all time favs. I used to makea night of it with the kiddos
when they were younger. And nowI just have Mr. Fox to torture
and have him sit with me andwatch it every year.
Mr Fox (00:37):
Oh, that's not torture.
lk
Little Kaninchen (00:42):
Well welcome everyone to married with a twist
podcast. Hopefully your turkeysare stuffed, wink wink. I hope
Mr. Fox stuffs mine later. Areyou all ready for your family
gatherings? Well, let's hurry soyou can get back to it. First,
we both want to wish you all awonderful Charlie Brown
(01:04):
Thanksgiving. Our podcasttonight will be about what has
happened in the subMrs communitythis past month. Thanksgiving
historically, these interestingdirty little details about these
Puritans. And then our mainfocuse is the Power Exchange
Relationship, feeding into thecircle and feasting from it
(01:27):
since we're all gonna befeasting on Turkey. In just a
day or so.
Mr Fox (01:31):
That sounds pretty good.
Little Kaninchen (01:34):
Finally, we'll kind of wrap it up with what's
coming in December.
Mr Fox (01:39):
And at the end of this podcast, to all of the pilgrims
and the Indians that make it tothe end, I will share about our
Thanksgiving toast, and ourspecial invitation for all of
you to attend this unique andpersonal annual event. So stick
around to the end of it. Unlessyou already know the details.
And we'll tell you more.
Little Kaninchen (02:15):
Do you want to know a secret? Do you want to
have a secret? A dirty littlesecret? A secret that you only
share with your spouse? A secretthat is so magical, so intimate
in ways you can only imagine.
Mr Fox (02:29):
Oh, come on. You must be curious.
Little Kaninchen (02:33):
Marriage has a new secret a relationship
accessory of sorts. Come falldown our rabbit hole. And we'll
share our secret about thismagical wonderland of creating
your own intimacy. We can giveyou all the edge without you or
your marriage ever getting cut.
Welcome to married with thetwist podcast.
Mr Fox (02:53):
Greetings everyone. Mr.
Fox and little kaninchen or lk?
We are your hosts and foundersof marriage's sexiest new
secret, the leader followerdynamic, also known as married
dominance and submission.
Little Kaninchen (03:09):
Oh man, you just told him the secret.
What happened to November? Orshould I say what happened in
November on subMrs. I wanted toshare a little bit of what we
did this past month in thecommunity. First of all, I
wanted to twist the normalThanksgiving into something a
little more twisted for everyoneto experience.
Mr Fox (03:32):
lk, twist something
Little Kaninchen (03:34):
Always, always twisted. November's focus was
all about giving and feasting.
We kind of skip right into theChristmas season, so I thought
it might be a good time to giveour Sir's some attention. Show
them our thanks before Christmasand all those trimmings just
completely take over.
(03:56):
Exactly. that's what I'm talkingabout. November was all about
the member, your Sir's memberthat is. November we had a lot
of fun things scheduled in ourcommunities. I think that women
just had just as much fun as themen did. And we had an exercise,
harvesting your Sir's seed thatcontinued all month long. That
(04:19):
was a lot of fun. And then wehad several live chats. Thanks
and giving for your Sir, likehow to give him a better blow
job, great techniques. We evenhad everybody bring their
bananas.
Mr Fox (04:32):
I like that kind of class.
Little Kaninchen (04:35):
If you missed it, please go to the fitness
group and our leader therePearl, she's really great. She
will fill you in on all thoselittle details. But we also
talked about how blowjobs reallyare more like what we call face
fucking. Sorry, I'm going to usethat word a lot probably in this
(05:00):
But we talk more about how facefucking versus blowjob. We did a
whole entire thing on that. Wetalked about cock worship and
it's tools and toys within aworkshop, which was really
fabulous. We also had anotherspiritual chat about the power
behind the penis, which was sointeresting. If you haven't
(05:21):
joined the spiritual group yet.
please do join her group. It isjust great information. And then
we had Marriage's Sexiest NewSecret member chat with me, lk.
And we have lots of peopleattend and we had so much fun
there. So I invite you to joinus, those will happen every
single month. Please stay tunedfor those. We had a few twisted
(05:44):
holidays. We did Friday the13th, making your own luck. We
also had national go for a rideor of course I had to twist that
into cowgirl day or reversecowgirl day. We still have
Beaver Moon coming up. I don'tthink I need to explain that.
And one more St. Andrew's day,which I'm pretty sure you all
(06:07):
can figure out how I twistedthat one. So that was really
where our November went. It wasfantastic. We have just a few
more things left. We also aredoing a fantastic book series.
So tune in for that join ourbook club, and otherwise we'll
just move forward.
Mr Fox (06:29):
Alright, lk, then let's talk Turkey. Let's talk
Thanksgiving. November is aboutcelebrating the year's harvest
and being thankful for theblessings of the past year.
Thanksgiving celebrations areusually modeled around the year
1621's original harvest dinner,shared by the English pilgrims
of Plymouth, Massachusetts, andthe Wampanoag Indian people. The
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celebration was prompted by theyear's good harvest. The Indians
had helped the pilgrims getthrough the previous winter by
giving them food in that time ofscarcity. Both groups exchanged
food and gave thanks. What anoble beginning to the holiday.
Little Kaninchen (07:13):
Some fun PDLD the pilgrims dirty little
details. Back then premaritalsex was punished severely and
historical colonial records itwas estimated that the
percentage of couples who hadpremarital sex averaged 18.7%
(07:33):
There was an equal percentage ofcouples who never did marry but
simply enjoyed the sex and thentook their punishment if any
from their Governing Council.
That accounts for a total over37.4% of the Plymouth Colony
engaging in a lot of fun sex,not to mention the percentage
that went totally undiscovered.
(07:54):
The University of Virginiaestimates that at least 50% of
the colony was messing around inthe cornfields when nobody was
looking. No wonder they nearlystarved those first few years,
they were sowing a differentkind of seed.
Mr Fox (08:08):
I want to know who's doing the study at the
University of Virginia oncolonies, sex habits in the
cornfields
Little Kaninchen (08:16):
they're probably all related to them.
Its near and dear to theirheart.
Mr Fox (08:20):
I don't want to know what my elders are doing.
Little Kaninchen (08:23):
I thought it was pretty interesting.
Mr Fox (08:25):
It is, it is.
Little Kaninchen (08:26):
Yeah. The second detail I thought was
interesting was the sexualoffenses were rarely punished by
death. With the percentage thatI mentioned before. I suspect if
they had tried to implementdeath for every sexual offense,
or what they saw as an offense,there would have been very few
colonists left. The more commonpunishment was whipping,
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flogging, branding. Or they havea favorite, the time you spent
at the pillory or the publicstockade, they put you up on a
block and put your head and armsand maybe feet in you know a
stockade. And if those of youdon't know what a pillory is, a
pillory is a device made up ofwooden or a metal framework
(09:09):
erected on a post with holes forsecuring your head hands. It was
normally used for punishments orpublic humiliations.
Mr Fox (09:16):
Yeah, I would call it a stockade. I can't wait for the
day. I can have one of those ina playroom with you.
Little Kaninchen (09:22):
Oh, I would love a pillory.
Mr Fox (09:24):
That would be awesome.
Little Kaninchen (09:24):
Yeah, I would love it. But maybe not in
public. At least not in public,naked or anything like that. But
let's move on. We kind ofdigressed. But there was a 16
year old boy that was onceexecuted for beaselity, along
with the guilty livestock. Thestory goes with a surge of
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hormones he had turned to thosewho he knew best accused of
buggery and then indicted with amare, a cow, two goats, five
sheep, two calves and guess whata turkey.
Mr Fox (10:00):
Wow, he had a whole heirem that's unbelievable.
Little Kaninchen (10:03):
Yeah. I think he was like, 16.
Mr Fox (10:06):
He was 16.
Little Kaninchen (10:07):
Yeah. Well, he was first discovered by one that
accidentally saw the lewdpractice. When he was doing his
mare. He confessed to hismultiple sins. And as
punishment, he was forced towatch all the animals killed.
Now, at first, the court had aproblem figuring out which sheep
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you know, they weren't surewhich ones that he had favored.
So as sheep look pretty much thesame, but the boy was helpful
and pointed out all his sexpartners. So after made to watch
all the animals killed andburied in a pit, that boy was
then hung.
Mr Fox (10:50):
That's terrible.
Little Kaninchen (10:51):
Very few of those cases that said, but that
was a pretty interesting one.
Then there's one more littledetail. A woman was once
convicted of uncleanness with anIndian, and was sentenced to
publicly with being whipped. Andthen they would lead her by cart
through the town, and she was towear a scarlet letter AD badge
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on her arm to show that shewasn't adulterous. If she was
found without it, she would bebranded on her forehead. You
don't even want to know whathappened to the Indian. Let's
just say, I would imagine hedidn't make it for dinner that
year.
Mr Fox (11:33):
The Pilgrims and Indians had their share of
challenges as well. Badmarriages, cheating spouses,
teenagers with hormones, etc. Insome ways, life seems much the
same now, as it did then. Today,some people still have a lot in
common with the pilgrims of thepast, the hypocritical image of
sexuality. We're trying tochange that and we believe it's
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working. Our wish for everyonethis Thanksgiving and always is
to first be thankful and showyour gratitude by giving. Give
to each other by exploring andenjoying your sexuality with
your partner or your spouse.
Keep in mind as you gatheraround the turkey this
Thanksgiving, and quit thinkingabout that boy and his Turkey.
Just give thanks, you weren'tone of those pilgrims, or one of
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those turkeys.
Little Kaninchen (12:22):
The power exchange relationship feeding
into the circle and feastingfrom it. Let's start with what
is the power exchange. Usingmarriage's sexy a secret. A
couple creates and feeds andfeeds from a circle of creative
power or the exchange of thatpower and practicing the power
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exchange a new marital synergyis generated. This creating or
rekindling a magic sexual energybetween a couple. This power
exchange circle will sate boththe husband and wife's needs.
Working together they both finda mutual acceptance along with a
deeper spiritual connection andpracticing of the dynamic. I
(13:09):
want to mention just one moretime. The power sheets satisfies
two very important needs thatevery married couple require
from one another. Okay, first ofall, a wife's craving a hunger
for intimacy or closeness withher husband, she really wants a
partner. And the husbands searchfor that unexplained trust and
respect from his wife, and thefact that she'll give him pussy
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whenever he wants.
Mr Fox (13:35):
Let's talk about the circle. We define powerexchange
circle as a circle of energythat is created by a couple that
is in sync emotionally,spiritually mentally and
physically by using the DSMmethodology of the power
exchange relationship. Soimagine if you will a large
circle a circular wave of movingenergy comprised of two
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independent components, one fedby a bright red orange light,
the leaders energy and the otherof bright blue green light, the
followers energy this circle ofenergy represents your power
exchange dynamic. Partners feedinto this circle strengthening
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it, then in turn feeding orfeasting from their combined
energies within the circle. Butyour partners must contribute to
the circle in order to be ableto feed from it. The circle is
only sustainable to feed bothpartners. If it constitutes
energy from both partners. Acouple initiates the circle by
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first completing the setup stepsof the power exchange dynamic.
As they begin to practice theirroles demonstrating growth in
them, the circle begins to form.
Next, the focus is on buildingthe circle strength and its
energy or movement. This happenswhen both partners are fully
engaged and practicingregularly. Even daily, this
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feeds the circle, creating asynergy. That's the interaction
or cooperation of two or morepeople to produce a combined
effect greater than the sum oftheir separate effects, which I
think also would go into talkingabout our community and the
value of community.
Little Kaninchen (15:21):
This takes us into that this type of
relationship is a relationshipwith benefits. You know what
they say? what you put in, youget out, nothing is truer than
with this power exchange. Thiscircle is so much more as it
feeds a couple in all sorts ofways. This type of relationship
is one with many, many benefits.
Personally, this type of dynamicbenefits you, your marriage,
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your family, and even yourfriends, I'm talking even your
coworkers, a husband many timesfeels more dominant. When he
does this type of thing. Hecarries himself with more
confidence. This has an overalleffect on him and everyone he
basically figuratively touches.
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He has more confidence in hischoices, his decisions, not only
at home, but at work. everywherehe goes. Everyone who comes in
contact will feel it see it inhis actions. A wife feels more
balanced in her marriage hasless anxiety and stress. The
feeling of protection andappreciation is giving her that
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emotional intimacy that she sobadly needs, she will pass it
forward to others, making her abetter version of herself. She
will be a better wife, a bettermother, a better friend, and
even a better co worker.
Mr Fox (16:42):
So lk, I think that's a pretty powerful paragraph right
there. And I think you start itwith one of the most awesome
quotes I can even imagine,right? Don't be upset with the
results you didn't get from thework you didn't do. I mean, just
like you said, when you startedthis, we're gonna get out of it,
whatever we put into it. Don'tbe surprised if it if it's not
working, right, like, Look atyourself.
Little Kaninchen (17:03):
Yes, I think that many times both partners,
you know, if they start out withusing our method and getting the
foundations and doing thosefirst steps, that's why they're
so important. So you bothunderstand there's
responsibilities and, youunderstand that now you're going
to make your marriage apriority.
Mr Fox (17:22):
It is hard work. I mean, that's also the point, I
think of what you're saying.
Like it's not like we just startdown this journey and everything
is gonna be I don't know whatyou call it lk, pixie dust. And
yes, is that a real? Is that areal saying, lk? Right. But
it's, it's hard work, you haveto roll up your sleeves and get
into it. And if you want theresults, you're gonna have to,
you're gonna have to put intoit.
Little Kaninchen (17:43):
Yeah, you work hard. But you get to play
harder. And that kind of hard,fun is the most fun and know
what you get out of it. There'snothing better,
Mr Fox (17:52):
Right? And it goes deeper than just just fantastic,
phenomenal sex and a bettermarriage. Right? Like, as you're
pointing out, you're gonna havea better version of yourself,
you're always constantly workingon being a better person and
creating a, your happiness.
Little Kaninchen (18:07):
Yeah, the synergy the circle will want to
will make you want to become abetter person, a better wife, a
better husband. It actuallycarries on throughout every
aspect of your life. Really?
Mr Fox (18:24):
I was just going to comment how the word synergy
that you just brought up, Ithink is so powerful in this
right, I think in everyrelationship, that that concept
that you can have more togetherwith somebody, then you could
produce independently on yourown. And that's really what
synergy means. When when twopeople come together, and
they're working with the samegoal in mind that they will have
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more than they could have bythemselves. And I think that's
the power of a relationship tobegin with. But it's especially
true when we align everybodywith those DSM foundations.
Everybody gets aligned, and Ithink it's a power that is
almost unstoppable.
Little Kaninchen (19:05):
So you're both setting an intention to go
somewhere certain goal, certainrelationship, both, you know,
deciding, intentionally decidingto have a leader follower
relationship,
Mr Fox (19:17):
right? Yep. And we're helping each other do it, we're
supporting each other andcreating an environment for the
other person to excel all thetime and having that in the
forefront of our mind. So it'snot accidental for for waiting
to accidentally have a wonderfulmind blowing relationship. It's
probably not gonna happenanytime soon, right? Like lk,
said, it's got to haveintention. We have to have that
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intent in the front of our mind,and we have to work hard at it
every day.
Little Kaninchen (19:42):
And that's something you want to do if
you're married and you have amarriage and there's nothing
better. I'm not kidding you. Ifyou think about it, there's
nothing better than having afabulous marriage. I mean, there
is nothing better than that. Soyou know, you put a little in
You get a little out, you put awhole lot in, you're gonna get a
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whole lot out. That's my,basically my thought will go
into like the power ofattraction within the circle.
Okay, this exchange helps bothpartners produced like that
chemical and endorphins thatcan't be seen, you can't really
touch them. But they make youhappier and healthier and even
draw outside people to you both, individually and as a couple.
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They feel the pull, but they'renot sure why they feel that pull
towards you. We have hadmultiple times when complete
strangers have paid for ourdrinks or dinners. Or, well,
basically just because no otherreason, then we just look like
we were so much in love. Theywant to be a part of it. They
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want to be around that
Mr Fox (20:50):
so yummy.
Little Kaninchen (20:52):
That's what they're thinking. They are
thinking, what is their secret?
It's truly a chemical pulll youhave on both your foreheads and
invisibly thing that's writtenthere that says, I love my
partner. I love my marriage. Andit's so sexy, and we have a
secret.
Mr Fox (21:16):
Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. I'm sure
that you've heard this before.
But what do we mean when we sayit here? The dominant leaders
are from Mars, meaning they havea mythological connection with
Mars or Aries, the Roman god ofwar, based on Aries, the Greek
god of war. The male gendersymbol is historically
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represented by Mars's sword andshield, and the element iron, in
alchemy. These dominant leadersoften live in a land of what I
would call black and white,right? Meaning they also respond
well to their roles, especiallyin the mental and physical
aspects. They are warriors.
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It's kind of In summary, lk,when I talk about the mental and
the physical, right, like we'renot taking anything away from
gender or anything like that,we're just saying that I think
most people see guys as beingthe brute or the warrior. And
not that guys are, have a bettermental capacity. I wouldn't say
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that at all. I don't know how toword it properly, right? Like
I'm thinking logical, but it'snot. It's not that women aren't
logical at all, I think it mightbe more of the lack of emotion
men put into things.
Little Kaninchen (22:38):
I think men in general have more of those
parts. internally. There's adominant partner or submissive
partner, as a leader, there's afollower, you know, not exactly
like we said, we don't alwayshave to go by gender, but I'm
just saying that sometimes themore the leader, or the more
dominant partner tends to havethose traits. So and again, just
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the same thing with a ball orsubmissive partner, you know,
you actually take on thosetrades stronger in those traits.
It's just like, you know, ifyou're a better fisherman than
the other person, same thing.
Men are warriors are cavemen.
They have the penis of power,and they love to fix around. And
they never asked.
Mr Fox (23:23):
That's true. Now we have Siri to get us lost.
Little Kaninchen (23:28):
So now let's talk a little bit more about
Venus. Okay, well, the followeror submissive partner we're from
Venus, Venus or Aphrodite. Venuswas the Roman goddess of love
Aphrodite was the Greek goddessof love. Today's female gender
symbol historically was said tobe Venus's mirror, the same
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female symbol of the element,that is copper, in alchemy.
Followers live in the land ofall shades of grey, not just the
land of 50 Shades of Grey, butwe live in a spiritual and
emotional and, give that energyinto the circle. Overall, the
circle is made up of actions andthoughts of both Venus and Mars.
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The circle is fed when bothpartners are fulfilling their
leader follower roles with theirthoughts and actions. Let's talk
a little bit more about feedingthe circle. Once the power
exchange circle is formed, itsenergy is magical. The circle
wants to be fed from the mind,body and spirit of both
participants. We are made up oftwo parts. First material or the
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physical body, this part can beseen and touched. Second,
immaterial and yet impalpableare the soul or spirit or the
mind or conscious and emotions.
Keep in mind the masculine partsthe physical and mental, those
being fed into and from thecircle more by the leader or the
dominant partner, the feminineor the Following partner is fed
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and gives more into theemotional spiritual energy of
the circle. All these parts whenin balance, your dynamic or
circle will be at his very best,each figuring out how their part
can help the other partner andthe dynamic work better for them
both. So that's a mouthful. Solet's talk about what does that
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all mean?
Women are Venus, once acommitted partner, and she needs
emotional intimacy. So she wantsand she needs, she needs to feel
a closeness to get physicallyintimate or have sex with her
partner. While a man or Marsneeds physical intimacy, or
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let's just say he needs somepussy, to be able to open up
enough to show women theemotional intimacy they need, or
the partner they wish for. So tosay that a couple as vanilla is
a is at a stalemate is anunderstatement. In our method,
we have figured out a way tohave both feed into the circle,
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so that they can get what theyneed. So they can give it to
their partner, what they trulydesire. The ladies have heard me
say before, you need to hardenyour partner, before he can
soften up, but you need to lethim in, to plunder to his
deepest wishes, so that you canreceive what you are wanting.
Mr Fox (26:31):
That's funny, okay, because I would be telling the
guys you need to harden up inorder to ponder into her deepest
desire. close, very close,slightly, slightly different at
the truth.
Let's talk warrior lk. Thefeeding of Mars, the dominant or
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leading partner. his confidencecomes from her words of
encouragement, accompanied byher respect, and her unwavering
trust and support. She offershim her vulnerability that gives
him the dark intimacies that hereally desires. His eyes will
begin to open allowing him tosee a new version of her, she
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will give him her trust andrespect. Once she is fed what
she needs, he will want to makeher his own in every way. Since
she feeds into the circle aswell as feeds from the circle.
She can only sustain her actionsif she's being fed in return. He
will say, You are mine, and shewill surrender herself to him.
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How does the dominant of thepower exchange feed what feeds
him? The dominant feeds from thecircle and his partner, her
body, her mind her spirit, hislead and command willfully
followed, verbal accolades,acknowledgement, appreciation
for the dynamic for hisleadership, exhibiting
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satisfaction, comfort andfollowing his leadership,
relinquishing control of herbody and scenes and play,
sharing her darkest physicaldesires along with her
vulnerabilities. Her engagementto her role, her patience, we
had to put the P word in here,her patience and his fulfilling
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his role. Most importantly, herdemonstrating the respect and
trust in him and his abilitiesto lead
Little Kaninchen (28:35):
the feeding of Venus, the submissive or the
following partner, she asks forthe journey or daringly follows
him into the fire and the iceand this thing that we do, while
giving him the physical intimacyis he responds to most. His
consistency is building a bridgeto the emotional intimacy that
she craves the most. emotionalintimacy is what gives her the
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feeling of closeness with herhusband. The security and
unconditional support he offersand freely gives leads him to
feel the trust and respect hewants. You will want to be made
to be his in every way. She saysI am yours and he takes her
where she needs to go. Thefollower is fed by the circle as
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well as her serves mind, bodyand spirit. What feeds the
follower, the submissive, themind, his influence, his
direction has words, feeling hiscontrol, not physically, but
mentally, that he's going to dothings and tell her things
that's in her best interest andprove it over and over again
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until she can truly trust herbody. She feeds from the pain
and the pleasure he gives her.
And in her spirit, hisconsistency and engagement
commitment to the dynamic inthat role. Most importantly, the
intimate closeness The emotionalintimacy she feels with him. She
stands beside him as his equalto form a strong front, but she
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walks behind him as she has hisback and she will follow him
wherever he wants to go.
Mr Fox (30:17):
Wow, super powerful right there. lk, that sums up so
much right? Say that one moretime.
Little Kaninchen (30:25):
She stands beside him at it as is equal to
form a strong front, but shewalks behind him. She has his
back and she will follow himwherever he needs to go
Mr Fox (30:36):
love it.
Feasting. Feeding from withinthe circles excess energy that
you both have built is whatfeasting is all about. When you
and your partner have both madethe conscious effort to build
your roles and the dynamic, youwill both feel love again, a
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deep love a connection madestrong by the energy of the
circle. You have and can nowfeast from the energy you both
have created. Picture if youwill a large spread of all of
your favorite foods kind of likeThanksgiving, laid out on the
most romantic candlelit table.
All there just for yourenjoyment. The circle has
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provided you both with thefeast. You can now feast from
one another's mind, body andspirit. There's an abundance its
there for you to consume.
Little Kaninchen (31:35):
What does this look like in reality? Remember
one couples reality is notanother person's reality. So
these are these are just anexample. So maybe traveled
together during this time ofabundance you can you'll feel
that abundant feeling you'lldefinitely feel it to do
something you've been planningfor a long time a trip that you
haven't you know that you'vealways dreamt of, but never have
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done romantic dinners, you know,overnights in the city next to
yours away.
Mr Fox (32:03):
We actually do that a lot.
Little Kaninchen (32:04):
We do that all the time. So sexual scenes,
extra long scenes like five hourlong scenes. Those have been
some of the best times we'velaughed more we've cried more.
We've done all those thingsduring those extra long scenes.
Mr Fox (32:19):
You are getting me excited now. So it's really the
podcast. So let's get going.
Little Kaninchen (32:23):
But celebrating your powerexchange
anniversaries, it is aboutcelebrating everything you can
life is hard enough find reasonsto celebrate. And when you feel
you're in that time of abundancewithin your circle, let go go do
those things that you've alwayswanted to go do go see a concert
together, you know, somebodymaybe you saw when you were
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younger, pull out that fun cardand do something fun together.
It's about spending timetogether as a couple.
Okay, so this takes us intoworking in tandem. The circle in
its energy and the entiredynamic, I usually compare it to
a tandem bike or two personbike, two seats, two wheels,
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four pedals, both members haveto pedal the bike to make it
work to easily pedal along. Thesun is warm, the sky is blue,
both of you easily pedalingalong wind blowing in your face.
Life is good. You are workingtogether towards the same goal.
All along you feel in totalcontrol of your marriage, your
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life and yourself. Both of youfeeding receiving the
nourishment to the fullestextent. Then, all of a sudden,
one of you stops pedaling. Theother person feels that the ride
is now so much more difficult.
They're doing it on their own.
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And they're wondering, do I stoppedaling? Or do I continue
pedaling on my own. I've seen ithappen both ways. But there is
only so much time one person canpedal before the bicycle with
both of them on it will crashand burn or what I call crashing
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smolder. As a dynamics energy isbeing lost. The fire or the
energy will fade, the fire isgoing out the circle is now out
of balance. It will begin toslow stall and possibly
disappear. This means one personstops being or doing their role
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for the couple stops regularpractice of the foundations and
rituals that they had beendoing. Maybe an individual has
lost interest or the dynamic isno longer working within their
marriage. There are multiplereasons why a couple ends up in
this type of situation sometimesits what we refer to as a second
year wall but that's a wholeother podcast.
Mr Fox (34:56):
Yes, it would be an entire another podcast or two
Some of the stuff that we'retalking about lk when we think
about it, it just makes sense,right? Your analogy of the
tandem bicycle. I mean, when youthink about it, and sometimes I
think relationships might feelthat way. Like you're the only
one working right, the otherpartner stops pedaling like you
were talking about. There'salmost a choice there that
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somebody makes, right? Do theystop pedaling, too? And then the
journeys over? Do they startpedaling harder, like, like,
there's a choice there thatsomebody has to make when they
feel that the other person isn'tpedaling? And sometimes you
might want to take a closer lookto because maybe that person's
pedaling twice as hard. And youjust don't recognize it. Right.
Little Kaninchen (35:39):
Right. It's like which choice I've seen
people do it both ways. Andunfortunately, I've seen both
ways. Crash and smolder. Yeah.
So and unfortunately, I think wehave done both. So as I said, we
are not one to, you know, don'thave mistakes, or haven't done
all of these things. So we cancome back and tell everybody our
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experiences.
Mr Fox (36:07):
Well, we haven't smoldered yet. I don't think
I think we've crashed.
Little Kaninchen (36:12):
Yeah, we've crashed. Yeah, totally crashed.
And, you know, but most times,you know, you do kind of have a
choice. And sometimes, like Isaid, one person decides, or
they may not even make a realdecision to stop or slow down.
Other things happen, vanilla,things happen within your life
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that maybe makes you stopremembering to do a ritual, or
stop pedaling. You're part ofthe bicycle or your
responsibilities in that role.
And some people just get freakinlazy, I'm gonna be honest with
you, like things are going alongreal good.
Mr Fox (36:50):
Why are you looking at me directly when you said that
Little Kaninchen (36:52):
consistency?
So like I talk about all thetime. So, but yeah, so I think
that sometimes it's not even anactual conscious choice that
you're doing, you just get lazy.
Or you say, oh, we'll do it nexttime. Oh, whatever, you'll
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learn. And I think everybodycrashes and smolders or crashes
and burns, it happens. But it'sokay. Because we have given you
tools to show you how to get up,wipe yourself off and get back
on that bicycle,
Mr Fox (37:26):
which is the most important thing, it's gonna
happen to everybody. I don'tcare who it is, right? And it's
gonna happen multiple times. Butyou got to use the tools like lk
is saying to get back on trackto get the bike back up and get
pedaling again. And there's justsuch a huge multitude of reasons
of what could be going on.
Right, maybe somebody needs toslow down a little bit, maybe
they just don't have thecapacity because maybe it's the
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holiday season, maybe it'sThanksgiving, and they need a
little extra helping hand.
Right,
Little Kaninchen (37:52):
their job is getting more stressful,
Mr Fox (37:55):
right? So it's not that they can disembark or not pedal
altogether. But maybe there aretimes when you do need to pedal
a little harder to keep it goingand keep you guys headed toward
your destination or to keep youon your journey. So maybe it's
not always an equal pedal.
Moving right along the crash andsmolder part of it, your mind
body spirit together all make upthis mystical garden. If the
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garden goes unattended or caredfor, for a short period of time,
even the soil might begin tolose it or share its nutrients
actually right with other plantswith weeds, or your crops may
become consumed by insects. Thisonly happens because of
complacency and neglect. Oncethe power exchange circle has
been established, do not allowit to recede back to your old
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vanilla habits. Tilling thesoil and planting the garden was
the majority of the work. Onceestablished, maintaining it
really isn't that difficult.
You've already done all thework, take care of it.
Oftentimes, our emotions canbecome hypersensitive, causing
us to point fingers maybe orcast blame at the other person.
This bad habit can also lead tothat victim mentality that is
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virtually self destructive. Thecircle eliminates the ability to
point the finger or placeyourself as a victim, which I
think is really huge withManning up, right. That's what
we would say to people man up,Dom up. You're not a victim of
anything. You're the leader,you're in control, change it,
you want a different, you want adifferent outcome, do something
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different. Most times whenthings falter within the circle,
it doesn't necessarily mean thata person that longer desires
their role. It usually comesdown to that vanilla life
unexpectedly creeping back up onus. We all have it right. We
have all these influences in ourlives. We're even more
susceptible to the consequencesof life. When we're not
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adequately prepared to maintainthe flow of the circle. We let
the other partner take up theslack. Maybe when we get caught
up in something else get in arut without letting them know or
communicating properly. So like,lk is talking about stresses at
work a minute ago, right? Shehas no idea what's going on at
my work. So maybe I am stressedout, maybe I'm having a harder
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time maybe it's taking more ofmy personal capacity to deal
with it. If I'm notcommunicating it, lk has no idea
what's going on. Right. So backto that communication. If you
begin to feel as if something'swrong, or that you aren't being
fed the way that you need to befed, you should stop take a look
at yourself first. Are youfeeding the circle in the manner
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that you should be? Is itpossible that your partner is
slowing or possibly succumbingto not being nourished or fed
properly, herself or himself? Nomatter what the answers are to
those questions, direct yourinitial focus and feed your
energy into the circle. It willnot take long for your partner
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to notice your efforts andattention. The circle is
momentarily out of balance, andyou're stepping up may cause its
circle to lean even more to oneside or the other. But usually
this accompanied with afundamental downtime is all that
you'll need to create thebalance again, to get your
partner pedaling again. Think ofa time when someone has done
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something selfless on theirpart, with nothing more in mind
than to make you happy. How didit make you feel if they got you
a gift if they did something andtook it off your to do list for
you? lk, does that for me everynow and then I'll have something
and she'll just do it for me.
How does it make you feel? Ifyou're like me, or most other
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people, you'll think more highlyof them instantly, you'll think
better of that person. And also,even more importantly, I think
it generates something within usthat we want to return that
selfless generosity somehow. Andthis is exactly what we're
trying to accomplish bycontinuing to feed that circle.
A couple of the most commonwords used in D|sM relationships
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are often consistency. Andwhat's the P word? lk, I don't
remember. inconsistency isusually referred to by the
submissive partner in regards toor dominant, and dominant
partners usually talk abouttheir submissive counterparts
needing to learn more
Little Kaninchen (42:26):
patience.
Mr Fox (42:27):
Thank you.
Little Kaninchen (42:29):
I hear the word not consistent regarding
the leader, or no patience onthe follower or the submissive
side. Following submissivepartners beware, playing the top
or just being your vanilla wife,being that same old person you
used to be eventually will againemasculate your sir, it will
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push him and his want for thepower exchange dynamic further
away. You must be vulnerable andsubmissive to him. We're not
saying it to be submissive orvulnerable to anybody else. But
you must be vulnerable and showyour submission to him. He only
has to be your husband, yourleader, your dominant. He must
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be responsible and build hisrole and walk that fine line of
the dominant partner beingtrustworthy. And being a
respectable gentleman. Both ofyou must stick with your work on
your roles and the dynamic.
Remember, you got to also keepit fresh, everything can get
dull, so don't forget torecreate, make it more exciting.
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You can look at this first crashas a test sometimes to see if
you both can do it or want itbad enough to get up on that
bike again. As many of you know,once you get a taste of this
dynamic, it's like the mostaddictive drug to quote the
movie Twilight. It's your ownpersonal heroine. The power
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exchange circle happensorganically. But then it's up to
you both to put it in and do thework that keeps the circle or
synergy moving within it. Thebest advice I can give is to be
realistic and make the magicwherever and whenever you can.
This really is marriage is sexysecret and the ultimate marriage
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accessory. I wish everyone thebest in their journey.
Mr Fox (44:33):
Remember our site and its articles are written from
our own personal perspectivesthat would be mine and lk's. He
is used as a leader or adominant partner and she is used
as submissive or the followingpartner. Please understand that
you can interchange these labelsand make it match your own
dynamic. However that'll work nomatter your gender, sexual
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orientation. However youidentify the power exchange
relationship is For anyone thatdesires it,
Little Kaninchen (45:02):
so you have read those books, watch the
movies. Now you can have thatfairy tale or their dark edge or
even both, the exchange happensyou feed from the circle from
one another. The magic is in thejourney. As a lifestyle dynamic,
it is work and a little bit ofchange. But when you do it for
the betterment of yourself, andmost importantly, your marriage,
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it's better than the best pieceof chocolate cake, or I should
say, maybe pumpkin pie. Givethanks. Give to one another,
feast on one another's mind,body and spirit. Enjoy it to its
fullest.
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So let's talk about what orwho's coming in December. You're
tied in December a top 10. Thefirm decem Believe it or not in
Latin means 10 and Yuletide.
It's a time around Christmas.
It's the Christmas season. It'sactually December 1 through
January 1. The celebration ofYuletide dates back many
centuries, and was originally away to celebrate the winter
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solstice, which is December 21,the shortest day and longest
darkest night of the entireyear. But good news, the next
day we start back the otherdirection. So even if it's dark
outside, we'll discuss thingsthat will bring you light and
cheer. There will be a gift ideafor your Sirs, and even ideas
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for your new dynamic, includinga top 10 List of the must haves
for your D|s-M dynamic. We willhelp inspire you and help you
bring in the new year. Thismonth will be all about fun
celebrations, gifts, and keepingyour dynamic's connection during
all this holiday fun.
Mr Fox (46:50):
Sounds fun. And to all the good pilgrims and Indians
that made it to the end of ourpodcast, I'd like to thank
everybody. I love that. MaybeI'll have you on a thing with
the feather on... Its a greatidea. I'm digging this. Okay,
but I'd like to thank everybodyfor making it to the end. We're
(47:12):
going to talk a little bit aboutthe Thanksgiving tradition,
which we're going to do onThanksgiving, November 26. This
year at 7pm. Eastern time. It'sgoing to be a toast. You can
read about it. I wrote an entirearticle on husDom about it,
explaining it, it's going to bea short toast basically, for lk
and myself. The toasts is inrespect to my father. But for
(47:34):
everybody, you can toastwhatever you want. This
celebration is going to be foreverybody. You can come alone,
you can come with your partner,some people their spouses are
working. And that's just fine.
We're going to put theinformation out the login
information. We're going to dothe meeting via zoom video
meeting. We're going to put theinformation on the husDOM.
(47:55):
premium member chat and wherewould you put the login
information on the
Little Kaninchen (48:03):
It's called the sub radio chat room.
Mr Fox (48:05):
Okay, great. And before we go, we'd like to thank
everybody that's here listeningto us. Like lk said one minute
ago, we'd like to really give alot of thanks to the team
members that we have that make alot of things happen behind the
scenes here at husDOM and I'msure subMrs. Yes. So huge
gratitude toward everybody. We'dlike to thank everybody that's
(48:26):
listening to us, everybody thatsupported us over the years,
it's been phenomenal. And whileyou're here, we're talking about
giving thanks. If you guys wouldjust take one minute, maybe it's
two minutes and rate us for apodcast be giving there you go
five stars, maybe a positiverating. That goes a long way in
(48:46):
our visibility. We're kind ofnew here. We don't have a lot of
podcasts, but that visibility isgoing to mean a lot for growing
this thing that we all calledD|s-M. So please just take a
minute and do that for us. Thatwould be awesome. And before we
go the very last thing is I hopethat we see everybody tomorrow
night or November 26 at 7pm.
Eastern. And you're ready HappyThanksgiving.
(49:11):
Happy Thanksgiving. And
Little Kaninchen (49:12):
we're gonna say until then, so long
Mr Fox (49:15):
farewell.
Little Kaninchen (49:17):
saying good night. I hate to go and leave
this pretty sight, goodbye
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