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March 2, 2021 42 mins

The Formal Acceptance is the key to getting started to this dynamic. This act or ritual is the rite of passage that must happen between husband and wife before they can really begin to build the relationship. And then another reason we thought this might be great is that many times this dynamic Well, I would say 90 plus percent of the time, this dynamic is brought into a marriage by the wife. So while we'll be talking from the submissives perspective, during this most time, Mr. Fox will help us with his perspective or the Dom's perspective along the way. On this podcast, we are going to answer:

  • How do you ask for your Marriage's Sexy, Secret dynamic? 
  • What is a Formal Acceptance? 
  • How do you do the Formal Acceptance?


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Mr Fox (00:17):
Welcome to the Marriages Sexiest Secret

Little Kaninchen (00:33):
Okay, so today, on this podcast, we're
Why we chose the subject matter,for this month is in the method

(01:03):
really begin to build therelationship. And then another
we'll be talking from thesubmissives perspective, during

(01:32):
dynamic? What is a FormalAcceptance? And how do you do

Mr Fox (01:37):
Okay, we have a lot to go over here. LK.

Little Kaninchen (01:41):
I'm ready.

Mr Fox (01:42):
All right. Why don't you take my hand? Let's do this.

Little Kaninchen (01:50):
I thought Theresa just something else

Mr Fox (01:53):
We're gonna do that in the Fox's Den

Little Kaninchen (01:55):
It sounds good to me.

Mr Fox (01:56):
All right.

Little Kaninchen (02:01):
Do you want to know a secret?

Mr Fox (02:03):
SECRET

Little Kaninchen (02:05):
Do you want to have a secret? A dirty little

Mr Fox (02:16):
Oh, come on. You must be curious.

Little Kaninchen (02:20):
Marriage has a new secret or relationship
your marriage ever getting cut.
Welcome to married with a twist

Mr Fox (02:40):
Greetings everyone. Mr.
Fox and little kaninchen or lk?

Little Kaninchen (02:55):
Oh man, you just told him the secret secret.
So let's talk community first.
subMrs. February and review. Sothings self love. And I know all

(03:17):
you dirty minds out therethe quote says loving thyself
helps us love others more. Butworkshop for toys and tools and

(03:49):
we have a wonderful elf subMrs.

Mr Fox (04:05):
nice gift.

Little Kaninchen (04:06):
It was a it was a wonderful discussion. One
you get your dessert together.
Just be careful not to get it in

Mr Fox (04:25):
I was gonna say something's going in the crack

Little Kaninchen (04:27):
Yeah, a little bit but you have to be careful.
really one of the best groupdiscussions we've ever had about

(04:53):
discussions we have every singlemonth on subMrs. So I encourage
that your brain is your largestsex organ. But even more

(05:24):
a confidence every singleSunday, we posted a great thing
chakra, great information. Ifyou're not a part of

(05:53):
journey, what steps to take whatmethod what parts of the method
Valentine's night? everybodyenjoyed that so much. So I would

Mr Fox (06:15):
I'm gonna leave all that with one more comment. And
just go subMrs.com/events andyou'll be able to see everything

(06:41):
goes to the calendar, orbackslash events, and you'll be

Little Kaninchen (06:46):
Yeah, anything you want to know about the

Mr Fox (06:56):
Alright, let's get some good stuff then.

Little Kaninchen (06:58):
Okay, the good stuff, the cream of the Oreo,

Mr Fox (07:00):
Yep.

Little Kaninchen (07:01):
How to ask for Marriage's Sexy Secret Dynamic,
of it, if you boiled everythingdown, that there's one word that

(07:36):
going to start,

Mr Fox (07:37):
Right is crucial if you don't put in the work, but you
and you bring this up to yourhusband or your spouse, if it's

Little Kaninchen (07:57):
Yeah. So the preparation, we'll just talk
I'll back us up just a littlebit and say that you know, your

(08:30):
something new, that might be alittle bit shocking. You know,

Mr Fox (08:41):
You need to build the atmosphere, you need to set that

Little Kaninchen (08:45):
Yes, the framework, that's a good word
journal or just a notebook andstart writing some stuff down.

(09:14):
or some paper, just write downthese few things in preparation.
general. You can find thoseterms on subMrs on husDom, you

Mr Fox (09:48):
Right. So terms would be I mean, just some ideas get
or Dominance and submissionstyle relationship, if that's

(10:14):
down the rabbit hole, but justhave an idea in your mind

Little Kaninchen (10:22):
Right.

Mr Fox (10:23):
So again, when you're reading it, and you go search
your partner of what thisrelationship or lifestyle is

Little Kaninchen (10:40):
Yeah, and if you're not sure, we'll just you
covered this before, but it isbased on the relationship first,

(11:12):
There's that question of howcould you want something like
promote monogamy. That's one bighuge difference. I'll just state

Mr Fox (11:38):
Yeah, I'll just say I don't think that's hot topic at
might draw on their mindprobably doesn't have to do with

Little Kaninchen (12:02):
So the second thing I would do is, go through
or you don't even know whatthose would be, you can get on

(12:36):
place someplace where cruelty isshown. I don't know. You know,
it's real, and things arehappening and happening the way

Mr Fox (13:00):
That's the entertainment value I think but
pain. They don't want todisrespect her in any type of

(13:28):
pictures of somebody humiliatingand degrading and punishing and
instantly put up a barrier or awall because he would never want

(13:54):
into if you get hurt you and itbecomes a more selfish point of
Yeah. Like I basically, in thewhole entire thing says stay

(14:17):
would say.
And back to I think you saidthis in the very beginning of
people, we would recommendstarting somewhere where it's

Little Kaninchen (14:37):
So I would say the next thing is copy excerpts
can just get your iPad out andjust show him that. Again. This

(15:05):
also suggest to him to go tohusDom.com and register there
concerns, when they start adynamic like this, he's going to

Mr Fox (15:36):
And as you're talking about that, I can even think of
resolve the feelings that I wasfeeling inside about, you know,

(16:02):
anything it was trying to findresolution in my own mind and

Little Kaninchen (16:16):
Yes. And then, you know, I always tell
would be great that you guyshave found this couples site.

(16:43):
just add a lineup of BDSM,images, tumblers, again, don't
doing this as as you're showingthese pictures, don't just show

(17:16):
quite like we do or theywouldn't guess that we feel. so
then he can get a better idea ofwhat it is that you're wanting,

Mr Fox (17:38):
Yeah, feelings are really powerful. Most guys don't
think that again, as a man, I'mprobably just seeing the kink

(18:06):
popping into his mind. You haveto express it like lk is saying

Little Kaninchen (18:11):
Yes. Well, then we get to, once we get
preparations in order, you'regoing to pick the right time to

Mr Fox (18:34):
And one of the things that I want to say too, is like
these things in our ownrelationship. There was no

(19:01):
trying to choose the right timeand not just choose the right

Little Kaninchen (19:08):
Yeah, I'll give you just a little This is a
slept for three days. I think Iread everything. Then I started

(19:37):
how this could work for us. Mr.
Fox is a very dominant person,was just like, I got to figure
out a way to do this. Thisstarted writing down. How a

(20:05):
marriage not really think aboutcould you make this work? I
would say it was probably I sayrepresentation for the married

(20:36):
couple, monogamous couple. Therewhat I did. So yeah, I mean, I
would say it was weeks and

Mr Fox (20:54):
But planning the event, like what day I would be home
a lot of preparation and preplanning and a whole lot of

(21:15):
relationship figured out, andthen came to me with all the
acceptance until they figure itall out, because it's a journey

(21:42):
like, what would it look like?
So you can answer those

Little Kaninchen (21:46):
So when you're picking your time, I kinda like

Mr Fox (21:59):
Where ther kids are yelling and screaming.

Little Kaninchen (22:01):
Yeah, where something is stressful, you
a getaway, someplace where thestress is not on.

Mr Fox (22:22):
Right. And I'm going to add to that it's not just like,
me away and kind of like allthose got me away from all of

Little Kaninchen (22:47):
Yeah, and Mr.
Fox had the word there, softenI'm going to remind all the
subMrs out there or futureor make those hard parts soft, I

(23:17):
guess I don't know where I'm

Mr Fox (23:22):
No the hard parts are hard.

Little Kaninchen (23:23):
Yeah. So like, you know, so have lots of sex
stomach, but it really is thepenis.

Mr Fox (23:44):
Its the penis.

Little Kaninchen (23:44):
Then the stomach, I would say you have to

Mr Fox (23:49):
Right? Because I cannot eat.

Little Kaninchen (23:51):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So think about
the point where you can speak tohis heart. Some guys you can

(24:15):
time or setting up theatmosphere for everything. You
gonna get into the atmospherehere. But you know, I bought a

(24:45):
you get out of the shower beforehim, you kind of set up some
you step out of the shower, andyou have the lighting, maybe

(25:18):
and kneel to him, have that allset up for him, when he gets
doing this. So you take hishands and you say, you know, I

(25:48):
are is mine. But you just askedhim, please, we come in here and
you just drop your robe. And youkneel to him. And you say,

(26:20):
to just at that point, you haveto just stop and listen to what
don't ask, then zip your lips.
And just listen to what he says.

(26:55):
of secondary thoughts, you cananswer those. So you have to

Mr Fox (27:02):
And also though its the power, there's a huge power
can do that gives somebody themost humility is first of all,

(27:26):
other thing is when somebodykneels in front of you is
my emotions into words aboutlike, I didn't understand what

(27:55):
Dominant. Like she says, justwait for an answer. It might
maybe it was 30 seconds. It feltlike a lifetime. Like I just,

Little Kaninchen (28:20):
Up until that point, it was a power struggle
Yeah. But I don't think therewere any signs. I mean, there
Yeah, and I would say you'regiven them a few seconds to

(28:50):
you're very serious about maybemore serious about than just
marriage, and also do somethingto enrich it and make it a

Mr Fox (29:15):
Yeah, it's commitment and vulnerability, I think. I
position in front of me. I mean,it was, I was awestruck, and

Little Kaninchen (29:34):
Yeah. And then he may even ask you questions
sport. Basically this thingwe're going to do together.

(30:04):
it's kind of like I scratch yourback, you scratch mine, you get
D|s-M dynamic is based on honestcommunication, and healthy

(30:36):
closet, you're going to have allthis other things to do that
responsibilities. And this isjust not one sided, where the

(31:06):
knew, blah, blah, blah, youknow, but we none of us have a
maybe once he is your dominant,they really do start thinking a

(31:38):
things.

Mr Fox (31:39):
What I'm about to say is not very common, but it does
that, or however they justifiedin our mind. But it really, that

(32:08):
mistaking when you're the manthe level of like lk saying
be unforgettable. And both ofyour lives very crucial, right

(32:38):
experience, I think and thenlike, lk said, so there's so

Little Kaninchen (32:48):
Yeah, like I said, a rite of passage, you
depends on you know how thingsgo, some people are so nervous

(33:13):
handed it to him like, but thenthey don't feel it as much. So
kind of a really clusterfuck forbetter other words to use. But I

(33:42):
the fact and go back over it andsuggest to him afterwards to
to other guys at first or feellike they don't want to be

(34:11):
away. And it's really great thathe gets the gist of from others

Mr Fox (34:24):
One of the things that went through my mind when you're
it's been if it's five, ten,twienty or thirty years ago, I

(34:57):
minute. Would you remember thatmoment in your life? I mean,
intimate manner than that. Andthat's the whole purpose of

Little Kaninchen (35:26):
Yeah, it's it's, and and I tell everybody,
I mean, it is work. And you dohave to make your marriage a

(35:55):
to what he says. And most thetime everybody kind of reports
the type of husband that reallyhas to know everything before he

(36:30):
not asking him to like, I don'tknow, cut off his right arm or

Mr Fox (36:43):
So you're not asking him to have any answers. That's
with me? Like, I don't have itfigured out? I know, you don't

Little Kaninchen (37:09):
Yes, the first step is what we're really asking

Mr Fox (37:13):
Because if you don't take that you're not on a Right?

Little Kaninchen (37:25):
Yeah. And it's the best I would say I crack up.

Mr Fox (37:33):
The research, the research, once you get on the

Little Kaninchen (37:36):
Yes, yes. And it's fun, and you laugh a lot,
because we quit learning aboutone another. And that's, that's

(38:01):
partner, but you don't like allof us are ever evolving. You
you really, you take the goodknowledge you already had. And

(38:31):
other shoot, some of us hadn'tseen each other naked for 20

Mr Fox (38:48):
Yeah. And people will have that communication
started on the journey, they'relike, I didn't realize the

Little Kaninchen (39:07):
Depths that they have never went before and

Mr Fox (39:11):
so you might be coming to this with the best
other that you never know.
Because every single person I've

Little Kaninchen (39:34):
Yeah.

Mr Fox (39:35):
Out of 20000 people yeah, there has not been a

Little Kaninchen (39:40):
So well.
Basically that's our you know,time because we know everybody's
time is so goldenAre you thinking this dynamic

(40:02):
could really work for you anddrink me toss it back and drink
the Wonderland Kool Aid becausemarriage accessory
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