January 31, 2022 • 55 mins
Ok, voyeurs, You Cheshire CATS… Here is your peek inside today's podcast….
Welcum to The Year of the Tiger 2022
A new year is always encompassed by setting New Years Resolutions. This year let's make sure we include Marital Resolutions! Like having sex with the lights on!
In this podcast episode… We will talk about gaining control in your intimacy. A better bedroom perspective and getting rid of those hang-ups that keep your sex in the dark, literally!
Speaking of subMrs, our January theme is “Putting Best Foot Forward” in the new year. Our Mentor Chat topic is…. bastinado…
Why?
Because this month has INTERNATIONAL FETISH MONTH in it, we thought Falanga, or falaka or what it is known best as is bastinado, foot torture! This act is comprised of repetitive, blunt trauma to the soles of the feet.
On subMrs we always mix pleasure with pain.. so we will explore foot torture and pleasure in “Foot/Toe” play.
Marriage's Sexiest Secret
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Little Kaninchen (00:01):
Do you want to know a secret? secret! Do you
secrets that you build and sharewith your spouse. A secret that
come on, you must be thesmallest bit curious. Shh.
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of sorts. This secret fulfillsthe wife's need for a deep
desire for his wife's trust andrespect. So just as a New Year's
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Fall down the rabbit hole intothe foxes den where Mr. Fox and
Our secrets will inspire you toexplore, create and build
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relationship skills. Let us takeyou on a journey that leads you
like Alice. Pick up that bottlethat says Drink Me and then toss
give your marriage all the edgewithout you or it ever getting
Mr Fox (01:46):
Today's voyeurs glimpse greetings from marriages
LK. Today we are your host andhostess to your favorite flavor
Marriages Sexiest Secret.
Welcome to Marriages Sexy SecretIsn't that a song? LK.
Little Kaninchen (02:19):
Yes, it is.
Mr Fox (02:20):
I thought you'd be talking about Welcome to the
Little Kaninchen (02:27):
Okay, voyeurs you Cheshire cats. Here is your
2022. A New Year is alwaysencompassed by setting new
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marital resolutions, things likehaving sex with the lights on.
intimacy, a better bedroomperspective and getting rid of
Let's talk subMrs. Our Januarytheme is putting the best foot
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Why? Because this month isinternational fetish month. And
bastinado would be a greattopic, foot torture. This act is
On subMrs we always mix pleasurewith pain. So we'll explore foot
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This is the year to become thattiger or tigress, Start with
Mr Fox (03:50):
Not the lights on
Little Kaninchen (03:51):
Yes with the lights on. Did you know Mr. Fox
self image and a better image ofyour partner?
Mr Fox (04:01):
Absolutely.
Little Kaninchen (04:03):
A new illumination happens you will
Instead of the rose coloredglasses we're going to talk
everyone. 2022 is the year ofthe tiger. Let's get started.
Mr Fox (04:22):
The Tiger symbolizes willpower, courage and personal
married couple. It takeswillpower to continue to work on
other areas get difficult orbecomes more challenging. Wives,
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you to lead in the relationshipand to lead your family. Both of
every couple. It takes personalstrength to be relentless in
People born in the Year of theTiger are vigorous and
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sense of justice and commitmentto help other people for the
into us, especially into ourmarriage, and it's intimacy.
D/s-M and find the courage totake that journey with their
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are born into the year of thetiger.
Little Kaninchen (05:41):
Let's cover these Tiger characteristics and
ambitious, enthusiastic,generous, self confident, a
good.
We start with vigorous, vigorouscouples seem to begin this
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relationship. This creates anexcitement and fortifies a
lively flourishing D/s-Mmarriage can either maintain or
marriage.
Let's get ambitious. Let's talkabout being ambitious, having
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by pursuing and growing in yourdynamic and your roles, you are
Enthusiastic, having or showingan intense high energy or
in the waters great, go 100% inand fulfill both your needs, get
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Let's go into the generousaspect. Being generous is
time than is strictly necessaryor expected. By both of you
of your heart more of your mindand more of your soul.
Mr Fox (07:14):
And I would say to LK, that probably the most valuable
our society, we're so focused onmoney, but it's really the time
the relationship and into yourspouse and your partner? Yes.
don't have time for this?
Little Kaninchen (07:34):
Yes, like being generous means that you
of everybody. I talked to manywomen that say Oh, but our
first start D/s-M and look atthose plates, and find those
that plate a little bit withyour D/s-M.
Mr Fox (07:58):
And I really do think too, that most of us like we may
packed from beginning to end.
But there is time in there.
fulfilling or pushing us towardour goals or fulfilling our
Little Kaninchen (08:16):
Yes, it's an investment. It's the number one
Mr Fox (08:21):
So use your time more wisely. So what I would say,
most important, I would think soit requires your time.
And who would you want to giveto more than your partner?
Nobody? Because they give back?
Little Kaninchen (08:36):
Yes...
Mr Fox (08:36):
It's really annoying when you use the word
return on your investment.
Little Kaninchen (08:43):
Dividends are gold.
Yeah.
Let's move on to selfconfidence. Okay, so when we're
qualities and judgment. You bothwill find a new self to build on
marriage and its intimacy as youpractice D/s-M.
Mr Fox (09:03):
Isn't that crazy? Yes.
It's totally true, though. The
Little Kaninchen (09:12):
All those great foundational things that
Mr Fox (09:17):
Yeah, the trusts communication. Those things give
thinking, what theirexpectations are. You don't
mind.
Little Kaninchen (09:30):
Yes, you clean the slate. That's one of the
you start building. And it willgive you both a new self
Mr Fox (09:43):
And I would say for myself LK it's a confidence that
RightBecause instead I'm always in my
mind wondering well, is she
Little Kaninchen (09:54):
It clears the would have should have could
Mr Fox (10:00):
Justice and commitment to help others for the greater
be commit to helping yourpartner become the very best
best version of themselvesthrough your eyes, rather the
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also be an enlightening part ofyour journey. Imagine how much
way that they see themselves.
Another way to do this would becommunity. Join our teams to
help others in their journeyoverstated.
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All too often people will becomeparalyzed by staying in the
They always feel that if theyonly knew a little bit more than
everybody in their comfort zone.
The real growth happens when youconversations. When you begin to
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analyze and have criticalby participating. It's time to
level up. Let's all participate.
Little Kaninchen (11:21):
You know it is that time that time for New
to your list? For example, youmight say this year, I'll spice
with my spouse. This year, I'llspend more sexy time with my
Mr Fox (11:41):
Yeah
Little Kaninchen (11:43):
This year, I will become the tiger or tigress
some people say. When couplesfirst come to our communities,
it's time to be shameless. Toget rid of any feelings of shame
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everyone, even you, can be asexual and sensual being. A
and start out this year of thetiger with turning the lights on
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ready to purr.
Mr Fox (12:41):
Alright, LK, moving on what makes couples turn off the
confidence is probably the mostcommon reason among couples.
Little Kaninchen (12:55):
Absolutely.
Mr Fox (12:56):
It is your mind or your body that is making things dim.
are two major things I shouldsay. Probably is body
Little Kaninchen (13:10):
Yes, that's probably the number one.
Mr Fox (13:12):
Right?
Little Kaninchen (13:13):
You fight it now, you'll fight it forever.
Mr Fox (13:18):
Roar. It's no secret that many women and yes, men
problem. They don't like the waythat they look especially naked.
body? Even in front of yourspouse? Honestly, is there any
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The second reason or the nextreason is the mind the lack of
maybe you've never had sex withthe lights on before and you
like. You're just shy about thewhole thing.
Little Kaninchen (13:56):
Yeah, thinking to yourself, what your body
Mr Fox (14:03):
Right
Little Kaninchen (14:04):
Or you think it's dirty? You think what
Mr Fox (14:07):
Maybe it's just an you're uncomfortable with the
Little Kaninchen (14:12):
These are very, very common hangups I hear
Mr Fox (14:17):
Yeah, so maybe it's not even that your body isn't what
makes you uncomfortable.
Little Kaninchen (14:24):
Yes. So either it's your mind or your body
on or you will work on as youwork in this type of dynamic.
Mr Fox (14:36):
You know, when you just get into marriages, LK, things
marriages, like there aremarried couples that have never
Little Kaninchen (14:46):
Yes, there are people that have five and six
the first child is born.
Mr Fox (14:55):
Right or even before.
Little Kaninchen (14:56):
That's why we're doing this podcast because
they start this dynamic.
Mr Fox (15:03):
It seems so foreign to me, right? Like I have
Little Kaninchen (15:09):
Yes, but you don't start there. You start
Mr Fox (15:13):
Your absolutely right.
Little Kaninchen (15:14):
Or you're just not confident, you know, age
But you've got to startsomewhere.
Mr Fox (15:23):
Right. And that was that second example, the whole
Little Kaninchen (15:27):
Yeah
Mr Fox (15:28):
If we really want to excel if we want to have.
Little Kaninchen (15:30):
Yes. And it comes easily. I know right. Now,
never, I don't, I don't think Icould do this. Honestly, once
coming to you naturally, it'svery organic. So you may shake
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you do this dynamic.
Mr Fox (15:53):
And it really should with your partner. I mean, it's
naked, right, but with yourpartner in your intimacy, in the
and comfortable.
Little Kaninchen (16:06):
It never needs to go out of your bedroom or
you take it.
Mr Fox (16:13):
Right. But almost to find that level of intimacy,
keep talking about, but youreally have to have that I
Little Kaninchen (16:22):
And it comes it come, We're gonna say we're
that's one of the things thatI'm gonna be adding to our
So know that hang ups are human.
You know, give yourself a pat on
Mr Fox (16:43):
Everybody has them or had them or I would say even has
are, there's a hang upsomewhere.
Little Kaninchen (16:50):
Don't let them ruin what could be great. hang
limited beliefs. But there arethose things that we tell
young anymore. I'm not youngenough. Who would want this
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you think to yourself, What am Itoday sitting here? Think those
feel sexy, or young. Youngpeople are not the only ones who
or it's shown that you getbetter as sex as you age. That's
Mr Fox (17:43):
Yeah, I second that.
And also too, it becomes aboutlearning how to please the other
partner.
Little Kaninchen (17:53):
Yes. And getting past the wrinkles or the
Mr Fox (17:57):
Hey, hey, I don't have any bulges.
Little Kaninchen (18:00):
Well I mean, we all got a little bulges here
Mr Fox (18:02):
I do have a big bulge somewhere.
Little Kaninchen (18:04):
In the right place. But we digress. But 2022
name. And then once you givethem that name, you break free
perspective, keyword Ding, ding,ding, ding, ding. You're
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beliefs.
Mr Fox (18:32):
Yeah, and that really is like the key word right
Little Kaninchen (18:38):
Yes, we're gonna put on those Tiger striped
Mr Fox (18:41):
Love it. Love it. Okay.
That was our cat, actually.
Limiting beliefs moving on,right, limiting beliefs, our
truth. They tend to have anegative impact on one's life by
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or professional level. Theselimited beliefs could be about
its workings.
Little Kaninchen (19:16):
That's right.
So we talk about those limitedneed to stop doing that. And I
have to tell you, this hang upthings. I mean, nobody's 100%,
right? But you're gonna havewe're going to talk about
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perspective. So it's all aboutaround with a bad perspective
about everything, your day isperspective about your marriage
and about yourself.
Okay, so it starts with aperception of sex. Sex is not a
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people, maybe more, but we'regonna go to talk about two
monogamously committed to ourpartners. Who else would you
with? Who better to do thatwith?
Mr Fox (20:21):
Right? And I would say, LK, when we're talking about
trying to think of a couple inmy mind that I hear people say
children. So I can't D/s-Mbecause there's small children
Little Kaninchen (20:39):
Yes. It's not actually proven until you try.
Mr Fox (20:43):
Right? So like, maybe, with young children in the
different, right? Buteverybody's relationships
Little Kaninchen (20:52):
Yes. Or we have to take care about elderly
about how are you going to fillyour plate?
Mr Fox (21:00):
Right. And that would be a perfect limiting belief. So
that coach.
Little Kaninchen (21:06):
Right?
Mr Fox (21:06):
You almost need to contact LK because she coaches
about those things. How true isthat limiting belief in your
Little Kaninchen (21:14):
Right? Right.
Like how full is your plate?
to one another?
Mr Fox (21:22):
Yeah.
Little Kaninchen (21:23):
Sex is fun.
And sex is not a sin. Who elsein ways you may have never
before? Your husband, ofmany years into. A relationship
that has been built on a strongyou look like. We're all human
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beings, husbands, wives partnersdecided to attach yourself until
death do you part? Don't youdoes.
Mr Fox (22:03):
I want a worn out body.
Yeah, not another breath to be
Little Kaninchen (22:08):
Yes, you've invested your mind, body soul in
investment. You deserve to havea magical, loving, hot, sexy,
So stop self loathing. That'sone of the other things I want
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partner for what you are andwhere you are in your life. So
I can't even look at myself. Butyou've given your husband,
look at where you are in yourlife.
Mr Fox (22:51):
Right? But also like the guy, your husband, your
It's not how you see yourself.
It's how your partner sees you.
Little Kaninchen (23:02):
Yes, and that's putting these Tiger
and we're not supermodels. Solet's quit comparing ourselves
perspective. If we have shameover our bodies, and D/s-M gives
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loathing. Both partners need toget on the same frame of thought
the Eye of the Tiger like Rocky.
Set an intention to both findthing about themselves. You got
a bumping hot ass, or you gotthemselves.
Mr Fox (23:51):
I wasn't gonna say anything. LK, but my breasts are
Little Kaninchen (23:53):
Yeah, you do have good brass.
Mr Fox (23:55):
Yeah, they're rockin.
Little Kaninchen (23:56):
But you have to start somewhere, you got to
Think about the positives. Lookat what your relationship can
word need again, you will feelthe need for a better self. When
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make time to maybe jump on thetreadmill. You know what, I'm
visually seeing ourselves andyour partner as a sexual being.
You are internally that samesexy man or woman that you were
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that inside sexy back out. Thinkwhat could you do and take a
self improvement. Selfimprovement starts in the mind
but I don't think we arereminded enough, self care is
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When you talk about some type ofself improvement. Have you ever
movement right now self care.
Taking control and self controlat somebody who's taking care of
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themselves or trying to takeshould be doing that. Self care
is not just about working out.
Trying to be a better YOU havinga better marriage. When people
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building your relationshipskills. That's building your
we'll be jealous.
Mr Fox (25:56):
LK, some how during these podcasts, you always get
downstairs for whatever reason,sexual hotness is doing it for
Little Kaninchen (26:06):
Self serving self care.
Mr Fox (26:10):
You said something a minute ago that like is so
was self improvement starts inthe mind and then moves into the
Little Kaninchen (26:21):
Yes,
Mr Fox (26:22):
Yeah. Because so many people I think, want to look a
Little Kaninchen (26:26):
Right? And sex begins in the mind and goes to
Mr Fox (26:29):
Right? But once you embrace the feeling, and you're
materialize for you, right? Likethat, quote, self improvement
awesome.
Little Kaninchen (26:43):
Yeah, you have to have the want.
Mr Fox (26:46):
Yep, and be able to see it that it's a reality in your
Little Kaninchen (26:49):
Yes.
Mr Fox (26:49):
To make it happen.
Little Kaninchen (26:50):
And then take that I'm gonna go put my
have to ask yourself, what isthat first step? What can I do
Mr Fox (27:03):
Yeah, love it. Great conversation.
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Mr Fox (28:13):
Speaking of conversations, having sex with
actually enhance your controlduring sex. Oftentimes, both men
actually enhance your controlduring sex. What do you think of
Little Kaninchen (28:34):
It's obvious but not so obvious.
Mr Fox (28:36):
Oftentimes, both men and women can get caught up in
when we can't actually seewhat's happening. Our minds will
don't put our best foot forward.
We're not very complimentary tobe more present in the moment
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and take more decisive actions.
negative scenarios that do notreally even exist. We now have
in. The darkness is nowilluminated in our minds now
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stimulation right? Women and menare both stimulated during sex
out of our heads and more intothe moment. Many couples find
participation in their desires.
When it makes perfect sense.
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catalogue of sexy stimulatingimages to add to their database,
these images in our minds andremind ourselves of the
Little Kaninchen (30:01):
Yes, I think about there are certain scenes
forever.
Mr Fox (30:10):
It happens to me all the time. And I think for guys,
were seeing all of this stuff.
And I think like for myselfcarrying those thoughts with me,
right, like something mighthome. And I'll be looking back
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on that remembering our intimacyour memories are coupled with
other senses, they're morebegin to fantasize and be turned
on by one another in the littlea new competition in the house.
Little Kaninchen (30:54):
That's right, they always have the lights on
Mr Fox (30:57):
Well, you know what?
That's true. It'd be pretty
Little Kaninchen (31:02):
Even though some of porn I wish it would be
drapes and the sofa and thepimples on their butts.
Mr Fox (31:11):
You pull up some pretty crazy stuff. Your Google account
Little Kaninchen (31:17):
Yes, if something happens to me dump my
Mr Fox (31:23):
But already, the audio and videos are so horrible,
room, it would be reallyterrible.
Little Kaninchen (31:31):
Yeah. So we're gonna say be like the porn
video it. But at least turn thelights on.
Mr Fox (31:41):
Becoming better at marital intimacy is a team
things for yourself to be thatbetter partner, that trickles
Little Kaninchen (31:55):
I can't say enough, I can't say enough about
to bring couples back into love.
Giving couples ways towill be magical.
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We're gonna talk a little bitabout taking control. Taking
taking control of yourself, orhaving self care showing that
So you take control of you, yourbedroom atmosphere, your
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attracted to their spouses. Sowe're going to talk a little bit
We want to make sure that wehave visually pleasing
playtime, right? Does yourbedroom feel relaxing or
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spot atmosphere, it can also bevery exciting or have pops of
completely picked up. It justhas to have those little things
generally but new bedding newpillows, that always helps the
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the room. Now I'm not saying hasto be perfect. But I'm saying
bedroom or not. So I'm going tolike bust it out there and tell
long did I have exercises I'm inthe bedroom a long time. A long
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clear the air if you have itemsin your bedroom that are not
to and I understand that. So geta screen and screen them off. So
essential oils or candles, findthis perfect sense. Don't just
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something to you because Ibought a million essential oils.
like two that I really, reallyenjoy. So find those perfect
Find those good romanticlighting. You know, I'm not
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while you're having this fun,right? Even though you know you
don't have to necessarily havebig bright spotlights. You can
with
Mr Fox (35:00):
I just want to point out to you that this is
atmosphere, especially for whereyou're having the scene is so
certain things to create thatatmosphere. And it's a lot of
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it's not new bedding and newpillows, because I wouldn't know
terrible. But I talk a lot aboutnot even necessarily cleaning
laundry somewhere, right? That'sgoing to distract your wife or
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So it is really important tomake sure that you at least make
what I'm talking about. Makethat quick scan, make sure that
would distract her mind or takeher out of the scene doesn't
polish the furniture. This senseis a great one. I've talked
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that I like. And Will is reallynot part of this podcast. But
that out in my own dynamic.
Little Kaninchen (36:13):
Yeah. So then we go into taking control of our
so sexy. Like, when you're like,ooh, that person is working out
it doesn't even matter if it'slosing weight, it's just taking
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Mr. Fox is so in control ofhimself. I'm the one that's not
care of himself. Like I can'tsay enough about how sexy that
Mr Fox (36:53):
Here's what I would say right now, though, to everybody
about how you see yourself. Andokay, it means a lot that you
honest lately too, it is LK thatis inspirational to me in the
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or her flow. And I in even mebeing well disciplined can just
and recognizing that yourpartner does it right, she might
things that will changesomebody's body.
Little Kaninchen (37:30):
I'm not a supermodel.
Mr Fox (37:31):
No, you are I'm talking about everybody.
Little Kaninchen (37:35):
That's a limiting belief.
Mr Fox (37:38):
But it's those things that you will see things change,
harder, maybe it's a littleflatter, there are all these
make them up you if you'rewatching, if you're paying
And when you acknowledge that tothe person, it will make them
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partners part in this whole takecontrol of your mind and your
that you see the change, andthat you acknowledge it it will
Little Kaninchen (38:19):
Yeah, I think that we always look to our
least i i think I'm like that.
So I am, I fall off the wagon.
on. I think it's important. Youknow, especially as we get a
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Mr. Fox always doing that it, Ilove it. So even though I can't
Mr Fox (38:49):
You're getting pretty good at it. LK,
Little Kaninchen (38:52):
But we are going to talking about taking
your overall health, right?
Fitness, maybe a little workout,is into that full on workout,
you don't have to be, you know,said, like Mr. Fox mentioned
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that he feels like that's kindam not one of those people, but
I have to actually work itnot like you have to be this
person that has to do everythingchoices, that's the idea of
eating well make better choices.
Mr Fox (39:36):
What an important point that is to right. It's not like
but just that you've set a pathto eat better.
Little Kaninchen (39:45):
Yes, it's just making better choices.
Mr Fox (39:47):
And whatever that looks like for you.
Little Kaninchen (39:48):
So if you're looking at something and you
sandwich in your life, huh?
What's the better choice Turkeystill eat the big burrito,
right? But then if you're makingprogress. Again, stop the hang
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ups, right? So and this, this Istarted doing it and has made a
huge difference in my life. Andenough rest, take control of
your rest, get enough rest, takecouple naps are great. I am not
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a great single Napper. But if myahead and just lay down for like
an hour. I'm going to take itmind. Like I can't even explain
how important getting enougheven if you had take couple naps
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instead of capital's playtime,
Mr Fox (41:12):
No, no, no, not better.
Maybe, maybe important.
Little Kaninchen (41:19):
Yes. But you'll have a better scene if
well rested. That's true. You'llbe a better person. If you're
it over to Mr. Fox.
Mr Fox (41:33):
You're going to give it up to me?
Little Kaninchen (41:34):
I'm giving it up.
Mr Fox (41:35):
I love this. I love it.
filling in the blanks, or the
Little Kaninchen (41:41):
Yeah, we talked about that earlier about
Mr Fox (41:46):
I love those analogies, bringing light into the
with the light being in thelight can be stressful. And here
help alleviate some of thatstress. Maybe stay present with
Little Kaninchen (42:06):
Yeah, I think that's important. You stay
in the blanks that's goingthrough your head, like he
stomach. You got to not thinknegative. And you got to just
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do that. Again, once you startthis dynamic and you practice
present in that moment.
Mr Fox (42:35):
Yeah, I think the mind is the biggest. I don't want to
probably finding that attributeor those attributes that they
there, and you're not totallyconfident in yourself, you're
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maybe you criticize yourself infront of the mirror, but the
about everything that they findhot.
Little Kaninchen (43:05):
Yeah, and it's there's nothing wrong with
like, calmly? Are you with me?
Like, when you're new to thisyou know, at first doing things.
So I would say check in withpartner is doing all right.
Mr Fox (43:26):
Yeah. And don't allow your mind to start making up
of it right back to what Okay,talking about perspective, it's
Little Kaninchen (43:39):
And being okay in silence. Silence is okay. Do
things or whatever. Having sexwith the lights on or during
silence. Silence is okay, too.
But we all like a little bit of
Mr Fox (43:59):
Absolutely. I love it.
And also, if you find yourselfpartner to where you're
thinking, what what do I findof all the things he might not
find a sexy try to think of,on. Whatever it is right, x, y
and z. It'll change everything
Little Kaninchen (44:23):
Yeah. So you're verbally being Right?
Mr Fox (44:29):
Right. And then say that to him. That's the verbal
Little Kaninchen (44:34):
Yeah. And how and yeah, and how do we remember
think both Mr. Fox and I bothhave the five senses are
on our sites, sight smell, allof that you can say oh, you
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Use all your senses toverbalize. That's an easy way to
Mr Fox (45:06):
It's a super easy way to get started down that whole
senses when you can't rememberanything like Okay, so let's
What are you tasting? Right?
What are you feeling?
Little Kaninchen (45:21):
What are you hearing? I love your moans.
each other. And you can volleyit's so much fun to volley with
bedroom. You can volley and likeI say you always make your
movie or the perfect thing inyour head. You just volley back
Mr Fox (45:46):
Volley for a little while then the ball gag will
Little Kaninchen (45:48):
Yeah. Then there, then you're sirs of like
Mr Fox (45:53):
We're gonna switch this up a little bit.
Little Kaninchen (45:56):
You just keep talking to each other.
Mr Fox (45:58):
I swear as we keep talking during the podcast, like
Little Kaninchen (46:03):
That's the whole idea.
Mr Fox (46:04):
Yeah, these are good for me.
Little Kaninchen (46:05):
So what's our next one?
Mr Fox (46:09):
I think probably like getting used to looking at one
Little Kaninchen (46:13):
Yeah, I agree.
Like, yeah, to just get used to
Mr Fox (46:21):
You'll be surprised you're both gonna find each
Little Kaninchen (46:25):
Yeah. And like, sometimes we'll just walk
it's just normal to us wherebefore? We never would do that.
our windows.
Mr Fox (46:41):
You might not find me so sexy.
Little Kaninchen (46:45):
But your eyes say 1000 Words. So use your eyes
Mr Fox (46:50):
Absolutely.
Little Kaninchen (46:51):
He can look at me in a certain way or certain
were a little kid and your momwould give you the eye or dad
gonna get a weapon when I gethome. You know, or whatever. You
Mr Fox (47:08):
Yeah. So they didn't even need to say where do you
Little Kaninchen (47:11):
Yeah, so the opposite here. beak with your
eyes. Learn your own sensuality.
Right. Learn your partnerpartner through touching,
rubbing exploring each other.
Mr Fox (47:35):
Yeah, and I talked about so much like the power of
Little Kaninchen (47:42):
touches a number one thing the number one
Mr Fox (47:50):
It's so important that like I don't even know how to
probably could enlighten meokay, but I swear there's like a
instantly calming. When whenwe're skin on skin.
Little Kaninchen (48:06):
Yes, it's an energy. You put off energy I put
Mr Fox (48:13):
It's almost an instant stress relief to me to be
kind of spas such every spa? Oh,not the spa type. But maybe I'll
Little Kaninchen (48:26):
You go all the time. But it feels really good
like No buddy else does. Right?
Yeah, so and then I think I havehave to be butt naked right from
a one beginning. But you knowjust like, I don't want to be
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like, show my whole body at onesome of your I love those fake
fur blankets. They're so sexy.
just use a blanket to kind ofcover yourself and let your SIR
Mr Fox (49:15):
Yeah, that'd be sexy in itself.
Little Kaninchen (49:16):
Right and it's freaking chilly. Usually
Mr Fox (49:21):
It is.
Little Kaninchen (49:22):
I think we're just gonna start closing this
with our new eyes projecting ournew perception of sexual
on and focus on our partner andthe pleasure we can give to one
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has sex and has kinky fun sexand when you wake up the next
made a little bit of magic witheach other.
Mr Fox (50:00):
Okay, Im in.
Little Kaninchen (50:02):
Me too.
Thanks, everybody.
Mr Fox (50:05):
Yeah, and the other thing that I would say too, is
can't think of everything right.
So it would be reallywebsite and find this podcast
article and just comment to it.
Little Kaninchen (50:20):
Yeah, please do, please do because we can't
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Little Kaninchen (02:19):
Yes, it is.
Mr Fox (02:20):
I thought you'd be talking about Welcome to the
Little Kaninchen (02:27):
Okay, voyeurs you Cheshire cats. Here is your
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Mr Fox (03:50):
Not the lights on
Little Kaninchen (03:51):
Yes with the lights on. Did you know Mr. Fox
self image and a better image ofyour partner?
Mr Fox (04:01):
Absolutely.
Little Kaninchen (04:03):
A new illumination happens you will
Instead of the rose coloredglasses we're going to talk
everyone. 2022 is the year ofthe tiger. Let's get started.
Mr Fox (04:22):
The Tiger symbolizes willpower, courage and personal
married couple. It takeswillpower to continue to work on
other areas get difficult orbecomes more challenging. Wives,
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you to lead in the relationshipand to lead your family. Both of
every couple. It takes personalstrength to be relentless in
People born in the Year of theTiger are vigorous and
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sense of justice and commitmentto help other people for the
into us, especially into ourmarriage, and it's intimacy.
D/s-M and find the courage totake that journey with their
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are born into the year of thetiger.
Little Kaninchen (05:41):
Let's cover these Tiger characteristics and
ambitious, enthusiastic,generous, self confident, a
good.
We start with vigorous, vigorouscouples seem to begin this
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relationship. This creates anexcitement and fortifies a
lively flourishing D/s-Mmarriage can either maintain or
marriage.
Let's get ambitious. Let's talkabout being ambitious, having
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by pursuing and growing in yourdynamic and your roles, you are
Enthusiastic, having or showingan intense high energy or
in the waters great, go 100% inand fulfill both your needs, get
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Let's go into the generousaspect. Being generous is
time than is strictly necessaryor expected. By both of you
of your heart more of your mindand more of your soul.
Mr Fox (07:14):
And I would say to LK, that probably the most valuable
our society, we're so focused onmoney, but it's really the time
the relationship and into yourspouse and your partner? Yes.
don't have time for this?
Little Kaninchen (07:34):
Yes, like being generous means that you
of everybody. I talked to manywomen that say Oh, but our
first start D/s-M and look atthose plates, and find those
that plate a little bit withyour D/s-M.
Mr Fox (07:58):
And I really do think too, that most of us like we may
packed from beginning to end.
But there is time in there.
fulfilling or pushing us towardour goals or fulfilling our
Little Kaninchen (08:16):
Yes, it's an investment. It's the number one
Mr Fox (08:21):
So use your time more wisely. So what I would say,
most important, I would think soit requires your time.
And who would you want to giveto more than your partner?
Nobody? Because they give back?
Little Kaninchen (08:36):
Yes...
Mr Fox (08:36):
It's really annoying when you use the word
return on your investment.
Little Kaninchen (08:43):
Dividends are gold.
Yeah.
Let's move on to selfconfidence. Okay, so when we're
qualities and judgment. You bothwill find a new self to build on
marriage and its intimacy as youpractice D/s-M.
Mr Fox (09:03):
Isn't that crazy? Yes.
It's totally true, though. The
Little Kaninchen (09:12):
All those great foundational things that
Mr Fox (09:17):
Yeah, the trusts communication. Those things give
thinking, what theirexpectations are. You don't
mind.
Little Kaninchen (09:30):
Yes, you clean the slate. That's one of the
you start building. And it willgive you both a new self
Mr Fox (09:43):
And I would say for myself LK it's a confidence that
RightBecause instead I'm always in my
mind wondering well, is she
Little Kaninchen (09:54):
It clears the would have should have could
Mr Fox (10:00):
Justice and commitment to help others for the greater
be commit to helping yourpartner become the very best
best version of themselvesthrough your eyes, rather the
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also be an enlightening part ofyour journey. Imagine how much
way that they see themselves.
Another way to do this would becommunity. Join our teams to
help others in their journeyoverstated.
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All too often people will becomeparalyzed by staying in the
They always feel that if theyonly knew a little bit more than
everybody in their comfort zone.
The real growth happens when youconversations. When you begin to
(11:06):
analyze and have criticalby participating. It's time to
level up. Let's all participate.
Little Kaninchen (11:21):
You know it is that time that time for New
to your list? For example, youmight say this year, I'll spice
with my spouse. This year, I'llspend more sexy time with my
Mr Fox (11:41):
Yeah
Little Kaninchen (11:43):
This year, I will become the tiger or tigress
some people say. When couplesfirst come to our communities,
it's time to be shameless. Toget rid of any feelings of shame
(12:10):
everyone, even you, can be asexual and sensual being. A
and start out this year of thetiger with turning the lights on
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ready to purr.
Mr Fox (12:41):
Alright, LK, moving on what makes couples turn off the
confidence is probably the mostcommon reason among couples.
Little Kaninchen (12:55):
Absolutely.
Mr Fox (12:56):
It is your mind or your body that is making things dim.
are two major things I shouldsay. Probably is body
Little Kaninchen (13:10):
Yes, that's probably the number one.
Mr Fox (13:12):
Right?
Little Kaninchen (13:13):
You fight it now, you'll fight it forever.
Mr Fox (13:18):
Roar. It's no secret that many women and yes, men
problem. They don't like the waythat they look especially naked.
body? Even in front of yourspouse? Honestly, is there any
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The second reason or the nextreason is the mind the lack of
maybe you've never had sex withthe lights on before and you
like. You're just shy about thewhole thing.
Little Kaninchen (13:56):
Yeah, thinking to yourself, what your body
Mr Fox (14:03):
Right
Little Kaninchen (14:04):
Or you think it's dirty? You think what
Mr Fox (14:07):
Maybe it's just an you're uncomfortable with the
Little Kaninchen (14:12):
These are very, very common hangups I hear
Mr Fox (14:17):
Yeah, so maybe it's not even that your body isn't what
makes you uncomfortable.
Little Kaninchen (14:24):
Yes. So either it's your mind or your body
on or you will work on as youwork in this type of dynamic.
Mr Fox (14:36):
You know, when you just get into marriages, LK, things
marriages, like there aremarried couples that have never
Little Kaninchen (14:46):
Yes, there are people that have five and six
the first child is born.
Mr Fox (14:55):
Right or even before.
Little Kaninchen (14:56):
That's why we're doing this podcast because
they start this dynamic.
Mr Fox (15:03):
It seems so foreign to me, right? Like I have
Little Kaninchen (15:09):
Yes, but you don't start there. You start
Mr Fox (15:13):
Your absolutely right.
Little Kaninchen (15:14):
Or you're just not confident, you know, age
But you've got to startsomewhere.
Mr Fox (15:23):
Right. And that was that second example, the whole
Little Kaninchen (15:27):
Yeah
Mr Fox (15:28):
If we really want to excel if we want to have.
Little Kaninchen (15:30):
Yes. And it comes easily. I know right. Now,
never, I don't, I don't think Icould do this. Honestly, once
coming to you naturally, it'svery organic. So you may shake
(15:52):
you do this dynamic.
Mr Fox (15:53):
And it really should with your partner. I mean, it's
naked, right, but with yourpartner in your intimacy, in the
and comfortable.
Little Kaninchen (16:06):
It never needs to go out of your bedroom or
you take it.
Mr Fox (16:13):
Right. But almost to find that level of intimacy,
keep talking about, but youreally have to have that I
Little Kaninchen (16:22):
And it comes it come, We're gonna say we're
that's one of the things thatI'm gonna be adding to our
So know that hang ups are human.
You know, give yourself a pat on
Mr Fox (16:43):
Everybody has them or had them or I would say even has
are, there's a hang upsomewhere.
Little Kaninchen (16:50):
Don't let them ruin what could be great. hang
limited beliefs. But there arethose things that we tell
young anymore. I'm not youngenough. Who would want this
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you think to yourself, What am Itoday sitting here? Think those
feel sexy, or young. Youngpeople are not the only ones who
or it's shown that you getbetter as sex as you age. That's
Mr Fox (17:43):
Yeah, I second that.
And also too, it becomes aboutlearning how to please the other
partner.
Little Kaninchen (17:53):
Yes. And getting past the wrinkles or the
Mr Fox (17:57):
Hey, hey, I don't have any bulges.
Little Kaninchen (18:00):
Well I mean, we all got a little bulges here
Mr Fox (18:02):
I do have a big bulge somewhere.
Little Kaninchen (18:04):
In the right place. But we digress. But 2022
name. And then once you givethem that name, you break free
perspective, keyword Ding, ding,ding, ding, ding. You're
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beliefs.
Mr Fox (18:32):
Yeah, and that really is like the key word right
Little Kaninchen (18:38):
Yes, we're gonna put on those Tiger striped
Mr Fox (18:41):
Love it. Love it. Okay.
That was our cat, actually.
Limiting beliefs moving on,right, limiting beliefs, our
truth. They tend to have anegative impact on one's life by
(19:06):
or professional level. Theselimited beliefs could be about
its workings.
Little Kaninchen (19:16):
That's right.
So we talk about those limitedneed to stop doing that. And I
have to tell you, this hang upthings. I mean, nobody's 100%,
right? But you're gonna havewe're going to talk about
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perspective. So it's all aboutaround with a bad perspective
about everything, your day isperspective about your marriage
and about yourself.
Okay, so it starts with aperception of sex. Sex is not a
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people, maybe more, but we'regonna go to talk about two
monogamously committed to ourpartners. Who else would you
with? Who better to do thatwith?
Mr Fox (20:21):
Right? And I would say, LK, when we're talking about
trying to think of a couple inmy mind that I hear people say
children. So I can't D/s-Mbecause there's small children
Little Kaninchen (20:39):
Yes. It's not actually proven until you try.
Mr Fox (20:43):
Right? So like, maybe, with young children in the
different, right? Buteverybody's relationships
Little Kaninchen (20:52):
Yes. Or we have to take care about elderly
about how are you going to fillyour plate?
Mr Fox (21:00):
Right. And that would be a perfect limiting belief. So
that coach.
Little Kaninchen (21:06):
Right?
Mr Fox (21:06):
You almost need to contact LK because she coaches
about those things. How true isthat limiting belief in your
Little Kaninchen (21:14):
Right? Right.
Like how full is your plate?
to one another?
Mr Fox (21:22):
Yeah.
Little Kaninchen (21:23):
Sex is fun.
And sex is not a sin. Who elsein ways you may have never
before? Your husband, ofmany years into. A relationship
that has been built on a strongyou look like. We're all human
(21:46):
beings, husbands, wives partnersdecided to attach yourself until
death do you part? Don't youdoes.
Mr Fox (22:03):
I want a worn out body.
Yeah, not another breath to be
Little Kaninchen (22:08):
Yes, you've invested your mind, body soul in
investment. You deserve to havea magical, loving, hot, sexy,
So stop self loathing. That'sone of the other things I want
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partner for what you are andwhere you are in your life. So
I can't even look at myself. Butyou've given your husband,
look at where you are in yourlife.
Mr Fox (22:51):
Right? But also like the guy, your husband, your
It's not how you see yourself.
It's how your partner sees you.
Little Kaninchen (23:02):
Yes, and that's putting these Tiger
and we're not supermodels. Solet's quit comparing ourselves
perspective. If we have shameover our bodies, and D/s-M gives
(23:22):
loathing. Both partners need toget on the same frame of thought
the Eye of the Tiger like Rocky.
Set an intention to both findthing about themselves. You got
a bumping hot ass, or you gotthemselves.
Mr Fox (23:51):
I wasn't gonna say anything. LK, but my breasts are
Little Kaninchen (23:53):
Yeah, you do have good brass.
Mr Fox (23:55):
Yeah, they're rockin.
Little Kaninchen (23:56):
But you have to start somewhere, you got to
Think about the positives. Lookat what your relationship can
word need again, you will feelthe need for a better self. When
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make time to maybe jump on thetreadmill. You know what, I'm
visually seeing ourselves andyour partner as a sexual being.
You are internally that samesexy man or woman that you were
(24:41):
that inside sexy back out. Thinkwhat could you do and take a
self improvement. Selfimprovement starts in the mind
but I don't think we arereminded enough, self care is
(25:04):
When you talk about some type ofself improvement. Have you ever
movement right now self care.
Taking control and self controlat somebody who's taking care of
(25:24):
themselves or trying to takeshould be doing that. Self care
is not just about working out.
Trying to be a better YOU havinga better marriage. When people
(25:47):
building your relationshipskills. That's building your
we'll be jealous.
Mr Fox (25:56):
LK, some how during these podcasts, you always get
downstairs for whatever reason,sexual hotness is doing it for
Little Kaninchen (26:06):
Self serving self care.
Mr Fox (26:10):
You said something a minute ago that like is so
was self improvement starts inthe mind and then moves into the
Little Kaninchen (26:21):
Yes,
Mr Fox (26:22):
Yeah. Because so many people I think, want to look a
Little Kaninchen (26:26):
Right? And sex begins in the mind and goes to
Mr Fox (26:29):
Right? But once you embrace the feeling, and you're
materialize for you, right? Likethat, quote, self improvement
awesome.
Little Kaninchen (26:43):
Yeah, you have to have the want.
Mr Fox (26:46):
Yep, and be able to see it that it's a reality in your
Little Kaninchen (26:49):
Yes.
Mr Fox (26:49):
To make it happen.
Little Kaninchen (26:50):
And then take that I'm gonna go put my
have to ask yourself, what isthat first step? What can I do
Mr Fox (27:03):
Yeah, love it. Great conversation.
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Mr Fox (28:13):
Speaking of conversations, having sex with
actually enhance your controlduring sex. Oftentimes, both men
actually enhance your controlduring sex. What do you think of
Little Kaninchen (28:34):
It's obvious but not so obvious.
Mr Fox (28:36):
Oftentimes, both men and women can get caught up in
when we can't actually seewhat's happening. Our minds will
don't put our best foot forward.
We're not very complimentary tobe more present in the moment
(28:59):
and take more decisive actions.
negative scenarios that do notreally even exist. We now have
in. The darkness is nowilluminated in our minds now
(29:23):
stimulation right? Women and menare both stimulated during sex
out of our heads and more intothe moment. Many couples find
participation in their desires.
When it makes perfect sense.
(29:47):
catalogue of sexy stimulatingimages to add to their database,
these images in our minds andremind ourselves of the
Little Kaninchen (30:01):
Yes, I think about there are certain scenes
forever.
Mr Fox (30:10):
It happens to me all the time. And I think for guys,
were seeing all of this stuff.
And I think like for myselfcarrying those thoughts with me,
right, like something mighthome. And I'll be looking back
(30:30):
on that remembering our intimacyour memories are coupled with
other senses, they're morebegin to fantasize and be turned
on by one another in the littlea new competition in the house.
Little Kaninchen (30:54):
That's right, they always have the lights on
Mr Fox (30:57):
Well, you know what?
That's true. It'd be pretty
Little Kaninchen (31:02):
Even though some of porn I wish it would be
drapes and the sofa and thepimples on their butts.
Mr Fox (31:11):
You pull up some pretty crazy stuff. Your Google account
Little Kaninchen (31:17):
Yes, if something happens to me dump my
Mr Fox (31:23):
But already, the audio and videos are so horrible,
room, it would be reallyterrible.
Little Kaninchen (31:31):
Yeah. So we're gonna say be like the porn
video it. But at least turn thelights on.
Mr Fox (31:41):
Becoming better at marital intimacy is a team
things for yourself to be thatbetter partner, that trickles
Little Kaninchen (31:55):
I can't say enough, I can't say enough about
to bring couples back into love.
Giving couples ways towill be magical.
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We're gonna talk a little bitabout taking control. Taking
taking control of yourself, orhaving self care showing that
So you take control of you, yourbedroom atmosphere, your
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attracted to their spouses. Sowe're going to talk a little bit
We want to make sure that wehave visually pleasing
playtime, right? Does yourbedroom feel relaxing or
(33:07):
spot atmosphere, it can also bevery exciting or have pops of
completely picked up. It justhas to have those little things
generally but new bedding newpillows, that always helps the
(33:35):
the room. Now I'm not saying hasto be perfect. But I'm saying
bedroom or not. So I'm going tolike bust it out there and tell
long did I have exercises I'm inthe bedroom a long time. A long
(33:56):
clear the air if you have itemsin your bedroom that are not
to and I understand that. So geta screen and screen them off. So
essential oils or candles, findthis perfect sense. Don't just
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something to you because Ibought a million essential oils.
like two that I really, reallyenjoy. So find those perfect
Find those good romanticlighting. You know, I'm not
(34:46):
while you're having this fun,right? Even though you know you
don't have to necessarily havebig bright spotlights. You can
with
Mr Fox (35:00):
I just want to point out to you that this is
atmosphere, especially for whereyou're having the scene is so
certain things to create thatatmosphere. And it's a lot of
(35:20):
it's not new bedding and newpillows, because I wouldn't know
terrible. But I talk a lot aboutnot even necessarily cleaning
laundry somewhere, right? That'sgoing to distract your wife or
(35:40):
So it is really important tomake sure that you at least make
what I'm talking about. Makethat quick scan, make sure that
would distract her mind or takeher out of the scene doesn't
polish the furniture. This senseis a great one. I've talked
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that I like. And Will is reallynot part of this podcast. But
that out in my own dynamic.
Little Kaninchen (36:13):
Yeah. So then we go into taking control of our
so sexy. Like, when you're like,ooh, that person is working out
it doesn't even matter if it'slosing weight, it's just taking
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Mr. Fox is so in control ofhimself. I'm the one that's not
care of himself. Like I can'tsay enough about how sexy that
Mr Fox (36:53):
Here's what I would say right now, though, to everybody
about how you see yourself. Andokay, it means a lot that you
honest lately too, it is LK thatis inspirational to me in the
(37:16):
or her flow. And I in even mebeing well disciplined can just
and recognizing that yourpartner does it right, she might
things that will changesomebody's body.
Little Kaninchen (37:30):
I'm not a supermodel.
Mr Fox (37:31):
No, you are I'm talking about everybody.
Little Kaninchen (37:35):
That's a limiting belief.
Mr Fox (37:38):
But it's those things that you will see things change,
harder, maybe it's a littleflatter, there are all these
make them up you if you'rewatching, if you're paying
And when you acknowledge that tothe person, it will make them
(38:05):
partners part in this whole takecontrol of your mind and your
that you see the change, andthat you acknowledge it it will
Little Kaninchen (38:19):
Yeah, I think that we always look to our
least i i think I'm like that.
So I am, I fall off the wagon.
on. I think it's important. Youknow, especially as we get a
(38:40):
Mr. Fox always doing that it, Ilove it. So even though I can't
Mr Fox (38:49):
You're getting pretty good at it. LK,
Little Kaninchen (38:52):
But we are going to talking about taking
your overall health, right?
Fitness, maybe a little workout,is into that full on workout,
you don't have to be, you know,said, like Mr. Fox mentioned
(39:13):
that he feels like that's kindam not one of those people, but
I have to actually work itnot like you have to be this
person that has to do everythingchoices, that's the idea of
eating well make better choices.
Mr Fox (39:36):
What an important point that is to right. It's not like
but just that you've set a pathto eat better.
Little Kaninchen (39:45):
Yes, it's just making better choices.
Mr Fox (39:47):
And whatever that looks like for you.
Little Kaninchen (39:48):
So if you're looking at something and you
sandwich in your life, huh?
What's the better choice Turkeystill eat the big burrito,
right? But then if you're makingprogress. Again, stop the hang
(40:10):
ups, right? So and this, this Istarted doing it and has made a
huge difference in my life. Andenough rest, take control of
your rest, get enough rest, takecouple naps are great. I am not
(40:40):
a great single Napper. But if myahead and just lay down for like
an hour. I'm going to take itmind. Like I can't even explain
how important getting enougheven if you had take couple naps
(41:06):
instead of capital's playtime,
Mr Fox (41:12):
No, no, no, not better.
Maybe, maybe important.
Little Kaninchen (41:19):
Yes. But you'll have a better scene if
well rested. That's true. You'llbe a better person. If you're
it over to Mr. Fox.
Mr Fox (41:33):
You're going to give it up to me?
Little Kaninchen (41:34):
I'm giving it up.
Mr Fox (41:35):
I love this. I love it.
filling in the blanks, or the
Little Kaninchen (41:41):
Yeah, we talked about that earlier about
Mr Fox (41:46):
I love those analogies, bringing light into the
with the light being in thelight can be stressful. And here
help alleviate some of thatstress. Maybe stay present with
Little Kaninchen (42:06):
Yeah, I think that's important. You stay
in the blanks that's goingthrough your head, like he
stomach. You got to not thinknegative. And you got to just
(42:28):
do that. Again, once you startthis dynamic and you practice
present in that moment.
Mr Fox (42:35):
Yeah, I think the mind is the biggest. I don't want to
probably finding that attributeor those attributes that they
there, and you're not totallyconfident in yourself, you're
(42:57):
maybe you criticize yourself infront of the mirror, but the
about everything that they findhot.
Little Kaninchen (43:05):
Yeah, and it's there's nothing wrong with
like, calmly? Are you with me?
Like, when you're new to thisyou know, at first doing things.
So I would say check in withpartner is doing all right.
Mr Fox (43:26):
Yeah. And don't allow your mind to start making up
of it right back to what Okay,talking about perspective, it's
Little Kaninchen (43:39):
And being okay in silence. Silence is okay. Do
things or whatever. Having sexwith the lights on or during
silence. Silence is okay, too.
But we all like a little bit of
Mr Fox (43:59):
Absolutely. I love it.
And also, if you find yourselfpartner to where you're
thinking, what what do I findof all the things he might not
find a sexy try to think of,on. Whatever it is right, x, y
and z. It'll change everything
Little Kaninchen (44:23):
Yeah. So you're verbally being Right?
Mr Fox (44:29):
Right. And then say that to him. That's the verbal
Little Kaninchen (44:34):
Yeah. And how and yeah, and how do we remember
think both Mr. Fox and I bothhave the five senses are
on our sites, sight smell, allof that you can say oh, you
(45:01):
Use all your senses toverbalize. That's an easy way to
Mr Fox (45:06):
It's a super easy way to get started down that whole
senses when you can't rememberanything like Okay, so let's
What are you tasting? Right?
What are you feeling?
Little Kaninchen (45:21):
What are you hearing? I love your moans.
each other. And you can volleyit's so much fun to volley with
bedroom. You can volley and likeI say you always make your
movie or the perfect thing inyour head. You just volley back
Mr Fox (45:46):
Volley for a little while then the ball gag will
Little Kaninchen (45:48):
Yeah. Then there, then you're sirs of like
Mr Fox (45:53):
We're gonna switch this up a little bit.
Little Kaninchen (45:56):
You just keep talking to each other.
Mr Fox (45:58):
I swear as we keep talking during the podcast, like
Little Kaninchen (46:03):
That's the whole idea.
Mr Fox (46:04):
Yeah, these are good for me.
Little Kaninchen (46:05):
So what's our next one?
Mr Fox (46:09):
I think probably like getting used to looking at one
Little Kaninchen (46:13):
Yeah, I agree.
Like, yeah, to just get used to
Mr Fox (46:21):
You'll be surprised you're both gonna find each
Little Kaninchen (46:25):
Yeah. And like, sometimes we'll just walk
it's just normal to us wherebefore? We never would do that.
our windows.
Mr Fox (46:41):
You might not find me so sexy.
Little Kaninchen (46:45):
But your eyes say 1000 Words. So use your eyes
Mr Fox (46:50):
Absolutely.
Little Kaninchen (46:51):
He can look at me in a certain way or certain
were a little kid and your momwould give you the eye or dad
gonna get a weapon when I gethome. You know, or whatever. You
Mr Fox (47:08):
Yeah. So they didn't even need to say where do you
Little Kaninchen (47:11):
Yeah, so the opposite here. beak with your
eyes. Learn your own sensuality.
Right. Learn your partnerpartner through touching,
rubbing exploring each other.
Mr Fox (47:35):
Yeah, and I talked about so much like the power of
Little Kaninchen (47:42):
touches a number one thing the number one
Mr Fox (47:50):
It's so important that like I don't even know how to
probably could enlighten meokay, but I swear there's like a
instantly calming. When whenwe're skin on skin.
Little Kaninchen (48:06):
Yes, it's an energy. You put off energy I put
Mr Fox (48:13):
It's almost an instant stress relief to me to be
kind of spas such every spa? Oh,not the spa type. But maybe I'll
Little Kaninchen (48:26):
You go all the time. But it feels really good
like No buddy else does. Right?
Yeah, so and then I think I havehave to be butt naked right from
a one beginning. But you knowjust like, I don't want to be
(48:54):
like, show my whole body at onesome of your I love those fake
fur blankets. They're so sexy.
just use a blanket to kind ofcover yourself and let your SIR
Mr Fox (49:15):
Yeah, that'd be sexy in itself.
Little Kaninchen (49:16):
Right and it's freaking chilly. Usually
Mr Fox (49:21):
It is.
Little Kaninchen (49:22):
I think we're just gonna start closing this
with our new eyes projecting ournew perception of sexual
on and focus on our partner andthe pleasure we can give to one
(49:47):
has sex and has kinky fun sexand when you wake up the next
made a little bit of magic witheach other.
Mr Fox (50:00):
Okay, Im in.
Little Kaninchen (50:02):
Me too.
Thanks, everybody.
Mr Fox (50:05):
Yeah, and the other thing that I would say too, is
can't think of everything right.
So it would be reallywebsite and find this podcast
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