Are you the one always trying? Always giving? Does your inner voice whisper, "No matter what - it's never enough!" So you try harder and give more. You may think you're just being helpful, easygoing, or kind—but underneath it all, you might be working overtime to prove you're good enough.
In this episode, I’ll walk you through 15 people-pleasing behaviors that are secretly fueled by fear, guilt, and the deep need to be seen as “good.”
- Learn why these habits lead to burnout, resentment, and disconnection
- Spot the subtle ways you’ve been abandoning yourself to avoid rejection
- Get 3 simple steps to start letting go of guilt and honoring your needs
Let’s talk about what these people-pleasing "nice" habits are really costing you in your peace, energy, and self worth... and how to start setting boundaries without guilt or self doubt.
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