Divorce Mediation Consulting: Preparation is Necessary - Divorce Mediation Experts | MediatorPodcast.com
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Welcome to MediatorPodcast.com — a podcast and video series focused on mediation, negotiation, and collaboration. I'm Melissa Gragg, a valuation expert and divorce financial mediator based in St. Louis, Missouri. In this episode, I sit down with Rosalia Labate, a New York-based Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) and CPA, who provides services like forensic accounting, asset tracing, lifestyle analysis, and business valuation.
We dive into a crucial question for anyone facing divorce: Should you prepare a financial settlement offer before hiring an attorney or attending mediation? This conversation explores the strategy behind financial preparation, how to avoid emotional and financial pitfalls, and what really happens when you show up to mediation unprepared.
🔑 5 Key Takeaways:
Start With a Financial Plan, Not a Lawsuit
Before hiring an attorney or filing for divorce, meet with a financial expert to understand your assets, debts, income, and potential settlement options. This strategy gives you control from the start.
Settlement Offers Can Save Time and Money
Walking into mediation with a draft offer based on your financial reality can make the process faster, clearer, and more cost-effective — even if it’s not complete.
Mediators Aren’t Mind Readers
If you don’t present your key issues (like separate property, business valuation, or marital waste), they may never be considered. Create a clear summary to guide the conversation.
Missing Documents = Missed Opportunities
If you suspect missing assets or financial deception, bring evidence (bank statements, summaries of transactions) to the first mediation — or risk losing the chance to address them later.
Know Your Role and Build a Team
Whether you use a consulting attorney or a financial neutral, having a trusted expert in your corner improves outcomes. Prepare, practice, and know when to speak — and when to let your expert lead the negotiation.
Connect with Rosalia Labate
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Melissa Gragg is a seasoned financial mediator and business valuation expert with over 20 years of experience. She specializes in helping couples and business partners navigate complex financial disputes during divorce and separation. As the founder of Bridge Valuation Partners and a key member of The Divorce Allies, Melissa offers neutral, third-party services including business valuations, pension assessments, income analysis, and strategic settlement planning.
The Divorce Allies is a collaborative network of professionals dedicated to providing comprehensive support during the divorce process. Their team includes experts in financial mediation, high-conflict divorce coaching, mortgage planning, co-parenting education, and post-divorce transition. Together, they aim to empower individuals with the resources and guidance needed to achieve amicable and informed resolutions.
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