Mid Life Crisis: Bomb Drop and Beyond

Mid Life Crisis: Bomb Drop and Beyond

Mid Life Crisis isn't just buying a new car! Known to those in the trenches, MLC starts with depression and way too often ends with destruction like you have never imagined, AND....most sadly it's caused by the one person you are closest to and have trusted the most to share and build your life with. NO ONE IS IMMUNE, most of us thought we would NEVER end up divorced, many of the guests you'll hear from had been happily married over 20, 30 and even 40 years! Learn what red flags to look for in YOUR relationship, learn what to do and what NOT to do if your partner appears to be in limerance or showing the signs of MLC. We will also be talking directly with people who are presently in MLC and will share what it's like to live through this most challenging time of their life. These are the stories you won't hear anywhere else, so grab your beverage, get comfortable and join us as we hear the untold stories of MLC. The stories and events discussed in this podcast are for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered legal or professional advice. Any names, locations or identifying details have been changed to protect privacy. Any similarities to actual persons, living or dead, or real events are purely coincidental. The information presented on this podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered as professional advice. Always consult with a qualified expert regarding any decisions related to your specific situation. The views expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the host or the podcast creators.

Episodes

July 28, 2025 78 mins

In this episode, we hear from Beth, who reveals the unraveling of her marriage due to her husband's midlife crisis. Their life appeared perfect until signs of dissatisfaction emerged after becoming empty nesters. Her husband retreated into a world of triathlons and distance, distancing himself further when he left for Asia. This absence brought a stunning revelation: he was having an affair with a younger colleague. Beth recounts t...

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In this episode we continue with Jenny as she describes miraculous encounters with Chris Stapleton's song 'Starting Over'. With host Trina Laird, they explore how serendipitous moments can serve as spiritual milestones. Jenny's journey highlights the struggle of longing for reconciliation with a distant spouse amidst the trials of everyday life. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these 'Godwinks,' or divine nudges, as opportunit...

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Today's conversation sheds light on the underlying feelings of unappreciation and control that may remain hidden for years. Todays guest has been standing for FIVE long years, she emphasizes the importance of addressing silent resentments to prevent emotional explosions that manifest as sudden erratic behaviors such as having an affair or quitting a job. As seen through Jenny's story, individuals who ignore confrontation often fac...

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In this episode of MLC Bomb Drop, the host delves into a scandal that went viral involving a CEO caught on a kiss cam with his HR manager. This public betrayal sent shockwaves through social media, revealing not just issues of infidelity but the broader implications of power imbalances and ethical breaches. The discussion highlights how public and professional reactions have shifted, with overwhelming support for the betrayed spous...
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In this captivating episode, listeners are invited to understand the impact of midlife crises on relationships, marked by the phenomenon of 'Shark Eyes.' Trina Laird reveals how this condition signifies emotional detachment and a survival mechanism for those undergoing crisis. She warns of the potential escalation into false accusations and legal battles, urging spouses to prioritize their mental well-being. Through real-life stori...
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In this episode, host Trina Laird interviews Bryan Power, an Integrated Attachment Theory coach, as he recounts a tumultuous period in his marriage. What started as a simple disagreement spiraled into an emotional journey revealing deep-seated childhood traumas. Bryan discusses how therapy sessions, intended for self-improvement, opened a Pandora's box of emotions, leading to fears of abandonment and insecurity. By embracing failur...

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Special guest Zoe shares her experience witnessing her twin sister Stacy's husband transform seemingly overnight, shattering years of relationships and stability. Listeners learn about the intense emotions, from disbelief to anger, as loved ones grapple with the altered reality. This episode sheds light on the unanticipated destruction midlife crises cause, emphasizing the importance of support systems and community in rebuilding ...

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Sarah recounts her emotional journey through her husband's midlife crisis, which uprooted their nearly 29-year marriage. Already a firefighter with post-traumatic stress from past events, her husband faced an identity crisis after retiring. His friendship with a young woman raised alarms, leading to heated confrontations and accusations. A series of personal tragedies, including the loss of his mother and a close friend, added emot...
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Often in MLC the person experiencing the MLC exhibits narcissistic traits, even if they never exhibited them before! Listeners often ask if their spouse has been a covert narc or narcissist all along, or is this just a temporary thing? Today's discussion covers how subtle cues, often misread by the conscious mind, can alert us to shadow personalities such as covert narcissists and sociopaths. Listeners are encouraged to trust their...

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This episode dives into the psychological turmoil experienced during a midlife crisis, emphasizing how affairs, often seen as an escape, end up causing further damage. The host discusses how the initial euphoria of leaving a spouse for an affair partner quickly turns into regret, resentment and contempt for the AP, ultimately leading to the dissolution of the new relationship. Listeners learn that midlife crises are not just damagi...

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In this episode of 'Midlife Crisis, Bomb Drop and Beyond,' host Trina Laird delves into the emotional turmoil left in the aftermath of a partner's midlife crisis. Emphasizing the power of language, the discussion shifts from the often patronizing advice to 'work on yourself' to a more empowering narrative. Listeners are encouraged to reclaim their power, heal on their own terms, and view their journey as one of rising and rebuildin...
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This short little episode today is packed full with HEART, EMPATHY AND LOVE - something most wives DO NOT GET at bomb drop, nor do husbands when their wives drop a bomb on them! Today Trina reads a letter from a husband who experienced sudden discard by his wife of 22 years, but as heart broken, emotionally and financially devastated HE is...he took the time to write in because it broke his heart to hear some of the stories by the ...

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Listener Brian shares his heart-wrenching experience of his wife’s midlife-induced infidelity, unraveling a stable family life. Married for over two decades, with three children, the unexpected affair led to a cascade of financial and emotional challenges. Brian's narrative highlights the consequential disruption to their children's education and the psychological toll on the entire family as they struggle to navigate a changed rea...
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Maggie's life turned upside down when her husband of 33 years revealed an affair, compounded by Maggie's diagnosis of stage three breast cancer. Her husband's request to open their marriage, juxtaposed with her urgent fight for survival, left Maggie grappling with betrayal, body image issues, and the unraveling of past identities. Fighting through this storm, she faced treatments alone, reflecting on forgiveness and personal growth...
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This episode flips the script! NOT ALL MEN RUN! Some stay. Some fight. THEY RISE! This Father's Day we honor those dads, the dads holding the line while your wife spirals out - YOU are the hero of this story!

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Mr. Joe Dillon is a pioneer in divorce mediation with an MBA in Finance and specialized training from Harvard, MIT and Northwestern Univeristy. Joe guides couples toward agreements that protect both their emotional well-being and financial futures. Equitable Mediation Services maintains a 98% case resolution rate, significantly higher than the industry average of 70%. With Dillon's guidance and expertise, couples CAN part ways ami...

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Unpacking the impact of midlife crisis on fatherhood and families. As we approach Father's Day, while many celebrate, others are left with questions, grief, silence. Today we talk about the father's who DIDN'T stay, and what it means for the children, the partners, and even the men themselves.

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In this heartfelt podcast episode, we delve into Kevin's personal account of his wife's sudden departure during a midlife crisis. Kevin shares how his wife initially kept her emotional struggles hidden, which were exacerbated by the collapse of her business during COVID-19. Faced with financial woes and a diminished social circle, Kevin's wife abruptly left their family home, citing the need for space and self-discovery. This conve...

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In this podcast episode, your host Trina converses with Melissa, a woman experiencing a midlife crisis. At 39, Melissa recounts mistaking her feelings for another bout of clinical depression. She describes the restlessness, irritability, and lack of motivation that consumed her life, propelling her to question her identity and long-term commitments. Her story reveals the turmoil behind what many see as a stereotype, highlighting th...

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Stacy shares her personal journey through the tumult of a midlife crisis in her marriage. After 23 years together, raising two children, facing financial and emotional upheavals, and enduring natural disasters, Stacy's life takes a dramatic turn. Her husband begins exhibiting strange behaviors, leading to suspicions of infidelity. Despite a once stable life marked by shared values and family focus, Stacy's world unravels when her h...
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