The Prankcast: Polygamy Edition

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Enjoy a hilarious prank Lisa and Trisha played on co-hosts Ashley and Dr. Pam as we invite a "polygamist" to join the conversation! As we lean into the humor, we also delve into relationships and their many dynamics within the framework of middle age. 

• Hosts pull a prank on their unsuspecting friends 
• Discussion on the emotional dynamics of alternative lifestyles 
• Insight into how relationships evolve over time 
• Hear the male point of view of being middle-age
• Get some valuable insight on the outlook of the housing market and financial tips by Mortgage Loan Originator David Monsour AKA Mr. Trevor for our prank! 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey everyone, welcome to our live.
It's Trisha, and before we getstarted, I need you to do me a
favor Don't give anything awayin the comments.
Here's the deal.
Ashley and Pam's mics arecurrently muted and they have no
idea.
Meanwhile, lisa and I have themfully convinced that today's
episode is all about polygamyand that our guest is a
real-life polygamist.
Spoiler alert he's not.

(00:20):
He's actually just a hilariousfriend of Lisa and mine who's in
on the joke and being a reallygood sport about it.
But right now, ashley and Pamare freaking out trying to
figure out how to navigate thewildest podcast episode of their
lives.
So we're going to let themsweat it out for a few minutes
before we let them in on theprank, and then we'll roll into
an absolutely super fun show.
Stay with us.
It's going to be a good one.
Not about polygamy, andremember no, stay with us.
It's going to be a good one.

(00:41):
Not about polygamy, andremember no spoilers in the
comments.

Speaker 2 (00:45):
Just sit back and enjoy the prank, welcome to the
Middle Age-ish podcast,authentically and
unapologetically, keeping itreal, discussing all things
Middle Age-ish, a time whenmetabolism slows and confidence
grows.
Join fashion and fitnessentrepreneur Ashley Bonosky,
former Celtic woman and founderof the Lisa Kelly Voice Academy.

(01:06):
Lisa Kelly, licensedpsychologist and mental health
expert, dr Pam Wright and highlysought after cosmetic injector
and board certified nursepractitioner, tricia Kennedy
Roman.

Speaker 1 (01:17):
Join your hosts on the journey of middle age-ish,
my co-host Ashley Badowski, LisaKelly and Dr Pam Wright, and we
have a special guest with us,Mr Trevor, and this is this is a
welcome Welcome.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
Thank you, so this is a different podcast.

Speaker 1 (01:36):
It's one that we've we've talked about possibly
having and just trying tounderstand alternate lifestyles
and um, specificallyamy, yep,and so I'm gonna let ashley
start this out.

Speaker 3 (01:50):
To be fair, I was warned, we did not know.
We're the only two that did notknow anything about today.
Um, we did not know yes and sohere we are.
Here we are, um lots ofquestions, okay, so I'll just
start out.
How, how did this come about?
Like, how did you that this isthe lifestyle that you chose?

(02:16):
And like what is that path like?

Speaker 4 (02:18):
you could probably imagine the answer to that.
It starts with just a very freelifestyle, right.
Much younger age, okay, enjoythe company of other women,
right?
Uh, at the same time, a lot oftimes, right, and you find women
that share that joy and and youjust kind of it evolves right,
have feelings for multiplepeople and if everyone's in

(02:41):
agreement, that everyone's okaywith the relationship then I
don't really see the problem.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
Do you have a favorite?

Speaker 3 (02:48):
Oh my, I don't think you can answer that.

Speaker 4 (02:50):
You jumped into that I can, because it actually they
all have different reasons,right Like we with all our kids,
we have different reasons whywe love all of our kids.

Speaker 3 (03:00):
Right.

Speaker 4 (03:00):
So there's different things that I go to each person
for Right, right.

Speaker 3 (03:03):
So there's different things that I go to each person
for Right.
So, without giving too muchinformation, can you just share
with everyone, like what thesituation is?
Is there marriage Is there?
Like all those things?

Speaker 4 (03:14):
Yes, so there are six wives, if you will, okay, but
because of the laws there's onlyone, okay.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
So you are married to— Because you got rid of— what
you did have seven right andyes okay, oh, okay, okay.

Speaker 3 (03:30):
So there's six.
So there's one, there's onethat you're married to, correct,
and then there's five others.

Speaker 4 (03:37):
All right, okay, yes and no one knows which one is
legal.
Really, because of the strife,I filed that personally without
them knowing we all did thepaperwork, but then I submitted
the one.

Speaker 3 (03:54):
That makes a lot of sense.
Interesting, that actually isvery smart.
Is that weird, though, thatthey don't know?
No, because sometimes I forget.
Actually, really, it wasn't byprayer, it was just one of those
things.
Yeah, is it like a will whereyou can change it?

Speaker 4 (04:09):
Yes, oh, oh.
Well, that other person wouldhave to erase it.

Speaker 3 (04:13):
Oh gotcha, how long have you like, how long has this
all of the relationships been?
17 years, really Okay.
17.
Right, right, like, okay, rightright, like 17 years ago was
that kind of that would havebeen where.
I know.
Now, like you know, you havesister wives and you have all
the reality shows that show aligamy lifestyle, but like 17

(04:35):
years ago was that.
I mean, it was different, butyou don't.
And georgia, yeah, I was likehi, yes, you live in georgia.
This is, this is different.

Speaker 4 (04:45):
And it wasn't planned and so it just kind of happened
.
It evolved and it started assomething fun and innocent and
it just turned into what it isand now everyone enjoys it and
it actually works pretty well.

Speaker 3 (04:58):
Okay, okay, so I have time.
Okay, no, I know.
Okay.
So, as a psychologist, womentend to have jealousy or be
jealous, yes, very emotional.
So how does that work?
Or how do you deal with that inall the relationships?

Speaker 4 (05:15):
It's they take their time to.
Some people have, I hate to sayit, time out demeaning.
Sometimes someone has to take atime out and step aside when
they're feeling that way.
Everyone entered this under thesame premise and right what
they're getting into, um, andthey're actually friends for the
most part.
This shared workload and Iunderstand how it's odd, but it

(05:39):
I feel I need a wife life, yeah,yeah the shared workload.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
So do you ever like confuse names?
Because it's everything's gonnabe hard to contract.

Speaker 4 (06:05):
Uh, the same as you would with your kids, because it
does happen, but I thinkusually it's not in the heat of
passion or anything like that.

Speaker 3 (06:16):
So you said you go to different ones, for different
needs, I guess, or for differentthings.
So what kind of things are youlooking for?
One's more compassionate, one'smore emotional, one's more?

Speaker 4 (06:30):
one that is just stern and just wants the house
has to be in order andeverything's clean and perfect,
and I know that I just want torelax and be lazy.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
That can't be who I'm right, that's not the person
for that day, right?
Yeah, that's not.

Speaker 4 (06:47):
If I'm gonna go for a , hike, then I know this
person's out towards you andthey're not gonna mind if their
shoes be dirt oh wow.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
So so you, you met your first wife and then.
So when you met your second andthird, like was so when you
like?
Did they already know thatthat's kind of the same, we were
kind of all at the same time.
Oh okay, I kind of developed asjust a little relationship and
we decided that this is how okay, we wanted to, we wanted to be

(07:16):
cause I was like how do youbring up that subject?
Like hey, I really.
but I like this friend, so theywere all friends.
The three of them were friends,or?

Speaker 4 (07:24):
As friendly as you could be, I believe I mean they
weren't friends before.
Oh, okay, more like I'm open toinviting someone in if you want
.
Right, then it became emotional.

Speaker 3 (07:35):
So kind of like you're dating all three, kind of
, and then they kind of becamefriends.
So then after those three, likehow did you like meet then the
next one and bring that one intothe family, or like how do you
like, how do you have thatconversation?
Or is it just?
You know that these people arevery open with their feelings
and all of that, so it's bothOkay.

Speaker 4 (07:56):
It's both because they mention it, because they
think they find somebody thatthey like Right, because they're
open, right, as you imagine aswell.
And sometimes I go hey, I metsomebody, are y'all interested,
yes or no?
And it's respectful If they sayno, it's no.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
So when you go out into the world and you meet
people, do you say you're single?

Speaker 2 (08:19):
No.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
It's about being married.

Speaker 4 (08:23):
Yes, but that's not the conversations I have in the
places.

Speaker 3 (08:27):
Oh, sorry, so it's not like you know.
You know the legume bar.
You don't go to Alphabies andlike belly up to the bar and be
like hey.

Speaker 4 (08:36):
Well, if I just meet somebody.
Yeah, right, right, oh, yeah,I'm married but I don't die
Right and you can feel.

Speaker 3 (08:42):
You can feel that you tell about the conversation
with me oh, like you're goodright, like you can tell their
energy is okay, like youprobably know, if he's so, can
they?
So can they date other males?
No?

Speaker 4 (08:58):
no, no, why?
Because we're married just asyou are and it feels a little
bit of an imbalance, but it'sstill an agreement.

Speaker 3 (09:07):
Yeah yeah, right, it's legal, right, it's still an
agreement, right?
And do you guys live in thesame house?
Or is there because some of youknow, we've talked about the
shows where they, like somewives, have separate houses and
then their families and theirkids or their kids or whatever
Do you guys all?

Speaker 4 (09:22):
One does not and one just moved out but is still in
the relationship.
Okay, right, okay.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
Yeah, so speaking of, are there kids?

Speaker 4 (09:33):
There are.

Speaker 3 (09:34):
There are.
I would think there would be alot of them.
Are there?
How many kids?
Eight, Eight and all withdifferent, are they?
Do they all have?
Are all six mothers?
No Two do not have kids?

Speaker 4 (09:44):
Okay, and the rest different are they?
Did they all have?
Are all six mothers?
Some expense?
No two did I have okay okay, sohow old?

Speaker 3 (09:52):
how old are they?
What's the oldest and theyoungest child?

Speaker 4 (09:55):
I've got a 17 and I think 11 is yep and wow so some
that are really close.

Speaker 3 (10:02):
So how are their, how's their relationship with
each other?
Like, do they call themselvessiblings at school?
Like, do they go to the samething?
Is it hard being I mean, we'rein the, we're in the deep south
like, how is that with theirit's friends?

Speaker 4 (10:17):
and I'm just trying to keep a little bit of a
private, yeah, but today theydon't have friends over, they
don't spend the night.
We kind of go to school.

Speaker 3 (10:25):
We come home and and enough people to play, but they
call themselves siblings prettymuch, or yeah, at school, and
they're at the same schoolsusually.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
Yeah, okay, okay so I just said here from
sister-in-law that a localapplebee's was a place for local
swingers meetup.

Speaker 3 (10:40):
So maybe applebee's and who did that?
Okay, I'm just gonna say it onthe record.
I did not know that, butswinging is yeah, yeah, yeah
yeah, you brought up a goodpoint.
Swinging is different from yes,we're not going out, just be a
mystery, right, right.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
So what if?
What ash said like yeah, so ofcourse you want to ask me, say
that, say you were approachedright, met him and he says what
was your response?
Like well, I think, forget yourhusband, that you have a
husband.
If you didn't have a husband,and how would you?

Speaker 3 (11:14):
because you're being very like understanding, well, I
mean, I'm so excited I'm notcursing, I'm not cursing I.
But I've always also said thatI don't share.
I've never shared Like I.
Just I know my personality andI, because maybe you- haven't

(11:42):
been with the right man.
Um, michael, I did not say thatright, no, but I will say this
with complete certainty like I Iknow I'm a pisces, so I'm
incredibly emotional.
I like I do get really investedand I just I couldn't share
something personal and privatethat I think a marriage, and
again, it's nothing wrong, it'sjust that's who I am.

(12:02):
And so, um, I mean, I don't, Idon't even think that I would be
approached.
I think maybe my energy is like, I don't know, but I guess I
wonder about you.
Know, for you does the jealousykind of like rear its head
where there's, you know, tension, and like people are upset and
angry or don't want to talk toeach other.
Women are brutal, yeah, like onthe festive days, like me
sometimes it's.

Speaker 4 (12:24):
There's just too much jealousy and sometimes I have
to put them in.

Speaker 3 (12:27):
You know I have to time out like, yeah, they have
to go to time out.
No, that's valid.
So what does time out look like?

Speaker 4 (12:33):
I just they know to leave for whatever time they
need.
Sometimes they'll go out oftown, sometimes it's just an
hour or dinner until they kindof get it together.

Speaker 3 (12:42):
Okay, so you said that sometimes you get jealous.

Speaker 4 (12:47):
Sometimes they'll be very friendly.

Speaker 3 (12:48):
Oh, then I'll be like , okay, so if they get jealous,
then you're kind of like taketime.
Do you ever put yourself intime out?
Oh yeah, I mean, I was justwondering.
That's usually where we findsomeone new.
Oh Okay, so have you thoughtabout?
Is there a number?

Speaker 2 (13:09):
Yeah, like enough is enough, or you're just open to
like it's like eight is enough.

Speaker 4 (13:12):
Isn't that a number?

Speaker 3 (13:12):
of puppies, like eight is enough.

Speaker 4 (13:15):
No, it's, there's no number.
I would probably like it tomaybe dwindle a little bit, but
there's no one I would Like.

Speaker 3 (13:22):
want to like separate .

Speaker 1 (13:24):
Yeah, separate.
So we're talking about sharingand, ashley, you say I don't
share.
I don't, I'm sorry, I need toshare.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
Oh, before you share that, wait, what?
Oh, my Wait, hold on, where arewe?
What are we doing?
I feel like you and gettingmarried.
How do you have?

Speaker 4 (13:48):
oh, that's a good question.
Um, do you have to take theblue?
I'm gonna say, do you have to?
Oh, um, is that an advertisingplot?
Yeah, I'm sure they like that,um, but it's, it's more of an
emotional, okay okay, wow, butthere are they all very
different?
Yes, okay, yes, in differentways.
Right the same in a lot of ways, but very different in some
ways.

Speaker 3 (14:05):
Okay, we're going to say you're ready, you're going
to do something for me to havesome type of proud of you,
ashley.

Speaker 1 (14:12):
Why I'm very, very proud of you.
I haven't cursed Well that I'venot done one time.
I know, I told you, I was goingto be on my behavior.
Pam listens to everything,right?
So before the show started,when you couldn't hear anything,
right, our audience was gettinga little plug, letting him know
that we were pulling a littleprank on you.
Mr Trevor is not Mr Trevor, noris he a polygamist.

(14:33):
So I'm going to now do ouractual.
But he shouldn't be an actorand if anyone's watching this,
the Oscar goes to the actual box.
What did I tell you?
I literally text both of them,but I said I could tell you
actually the exact words, one ofthe actual.
So.
So now we're gonna do a properintroduction I'm so mortified.

Speaker 3 (14:58):
You have to know something is this just no, I
know nothing I know I'm in thedark.
This is Let me have a properintroduction.
Oh my gosh, I'm going to.
Somebody's going to.
Someone's going to die.

Speaker 1 (15:10):
That's not true, I thought, but I'm proud of you,
ashley, you are.
I told you what about me?
You threw me under the bus.

Speaker 3 (15:18):
You're a psychologist , you're everything I told you
because I had valid questions.
Oh, this is.
This isn't what the fuck youbetter just.

Speaker 1 (15:31):
Oh my gosh.
So everyone watching heard theintro Revenge.

Speaker 3 (15:37):
We are getting revenge at some point Now.

Speaker 1 (15:40):
I really need to introduce.
So, ladies, and gentlemenlistening.
Thank you for participating.
This was super fun.
This is David Monsoor, a friendof Lisa and I.
He's actually.
He's not a polygamist, he's amiddle-aged man, he's a dad,
he's a mortgage loan originator.

(16:01):
Yes, so he doesn't know aboutmultiple wives, but he does know
about loans.
That's a great show andliterally he needs to be an
actor.
I'm like, seriously.

Speaker 3 (16:11):
Like, what the hell?
It's too late to nominate.
I am like, oh, that washysterical.
I was so afraid you recognizedhim.
Yeah, when you came in I waslike, oh, pam knows him.

Speaker 1 (16:26):
Why would I know you?
He lives here.
He doesn't live.
We named the town because weknew if it was actually here,
everyone would know he messed itup.
I'm just going to leave thebuilding at this point and
everyone's locked out.

Speaker 3 (16:37):
What's going on?
I kind of want to keep talkingabout the.
Can we just keep that going?
Let's just talk about how youpleasure those women.
Is that coming your way?
Now that we know we're about tomake you blush, Imagine my ex
is going to be like how does heknow so much?

Speaker 4 (16:56):
It was funny.

Speaker 1 (16:57):
Earlier today he chatted GPT and screenshot where
he was asking to get researchon how to be a polygamist.

Speaker 3 (17:04):
Oh my God, you and I are going to get revenge somehow
.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
I don't know how, but it's coming, but I am so proud
of Ashley.

Speaker 3 (17:11):
What about me?

Speaker 1 (17:12):
You're a psychologist , You're everything You're
married to, like their wife.

Speaker 3 (17:20):
I was trying to trigger y'all.

Speaker 4 (17:22):
We were tenors.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
That's the husband.
No, I have to tell you, pam andI were talking.
That's the whole thing.
We were texting each other.
It has to be a swinger or ithas to be someone with multiple
wives.

Speaker 2 (17:35):
It's got to be something that's going to be.

Speaker 3 (17:37):
I don't want to insult anybody, but I have some
questions.

Speaker 1 (17:40):
He did have a pineapple shirt he was going to
wear, but then Lisa thought thislooked more like Trevor-ish.
She named him.
Did you hear me call him David?

Speaker 3 (17:48):
by the way, I did hear that, but I was like, well,
that's odd, because that's nother husband's name either.
Oh, there we go, all right.
So Beth was actually her bloodwas boiling.
Beth didn't hear at the startof this.
I had to text her halfwaythrough go, no, no, no, stop, oh
my gosh okay, so now let's jumpinto the show.

(18:10):
That was a breeze okay, so whatare we going to talk about now?
I'm told that was kind ofinteresting, though, like I
think I have more questions.

Speaker 1 (18:18):
I actually go back to Trevor Trevor again yeah, can
we just continue on?
We'll drink a little more, I'msorry trevor well usually and I
will like look at each other.
It's like I kept looking at herin front of me, key.
We were surprised in case.
I laughed, because there's somany times like the best part

(18:41):
was introducing him or meetinghim, shaking his hand as Trevor.
That was awesome.

Speaker 3 (18:45):
That was so funny.
Total bullshit yeah.

Speaker 1 (18:48):
Oh wow, we've had fun , you guys, we've had fun all
week, all week.

Speaker 3 (18:53):
No, no, no, it's been torture.
They kept torturing us all week, oh, no, but with this whole
like oh, someone's coming, youdon't know who it's going to be,
in the dark, like you are, ohyeah, yes, yes, I was like, oh,
wow, what's good.
Like we were texting what'sgoing on, what are we in for?
I was like do you have any idea?

Speaker 1 (19:14):
And then we're like I can really bring on anything.
Now I realize with Ashley Iwill behave myself.

Speaker 3 (19:20):
You handled it.
I handle it like myself.
I do not insult anybody sittingin front of me.
See, really, I mean, I wasn'treally there, so I don't know I
get a gold star.
I get a gold star.
See, that was my entire goal.
I'm like I have questions andI'm not going to be offensive,

(19:41):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (19:42):
Yes, well, I think we should get input on a male's
perspective of middle age.

Speaker 3 (19:49):
Oh yeah, come on, I think younger than you are.
Well, yeah, we can tell age wealready are.
Oh my God, I'm still the oldest.
What the hell, trisha, can youplease bring someone on that's
older than me?
Oh sorry, okay, yeah, so tellus about being middle ages of

(20:11):
one.
It's weird.

Speaker 4 (20:13):
I think y'all experience this, except for my
body and not being able tobasketball anymore, right.

Speaker 3 (20:22):
We totally got it.
Yeah, I don't feel 51.
I, I know that's the hard partbecause you don't I do.

Speaker 4 (20:30):
Um, I hate to say cvn , that sounds morbid, but I do
see that life isn't foreveranymore.
Right, like I do.
I know that.
Like, yeah, okay, I've got,hopefully, 30 great years.
I actually counted hikes.
We usually go on one big hike ayear and I was thinking, okay,
I'm 51.
I really only got 10 or 15 max.

Speaker 3 (20:50):
That's impressive.
I'm still going to call inTrevor, sorry, I'm going to see
you out and about and be likehey, trev, my wife.
I wonder, if you had multiplewives, if you would feel younger
?
I would, you would have to feelolder, because I mean, think
about the energy that you haveto put out.

(21:11):
I do not mean that as a pun,thank you, no pun intended but
the energy that you have to putout.

Speaker 4 (21:19):
Wow, so stay-at-home dad too.

Speaker 3 (21:20):
Y'all didn't even ask all that.
Oh no, we're good, we wererubbing up, that we were.
Oh, we were rubbing up and wewere ready.
Oh yeah, that was coming.
That was coming.
You know, everybody wascomfortable.
It's weird that we'redisappointed that like we didn't
, I love you I know, absolutelyAbsolutely, that's hilarious.

(21:46):
I really did have so manyquestions.
Let's just get back to our 10.
No, I'm just kidding, but it isinteresting to know that.
I mean, do men worry about thesame?
You know like physicalattributes, energy being able to
.
You know exercise do things,cognitive skills being sharp,
all that.

Speaker 4 (22:02):
Yeah, cognitive, I feel 100%.
I dye my hair about once everysix months.

Speaker 3 (22:08):
Yes, Well, it actually looks very natural, it
does.

Speaker 4 (22:10):
This, I think, is actually growing out.
Well, it's good, I'm mostly notneeding dyeing, right, right.

Speaker 3 (22:17):
Besides that, I don't do any Right.
I know, guys age so gracefullyanyway, which I feel like it's
just, I feel like it's easierfor you.

Speaker 4 (22:26):
Yeah, style is huge too.
Yeah, we all dress like35-year-olds.

Speaker 3 (22:31):
I think makes us look a little younger.
Well, that's how we feel.

Speaker 4 (22:33):
Yeah, I mean seriously, like I Think about
look at old TV shows and thinkabout how our parents dressed
when they were 45.

Speaker 3 (22:39):
Yeah, I know Old 65.
Now they did.
I heard it's a tall socks thing, Golden girls like we're on.
This one was 45 when they shot.
Oh wow, Like what is scary.

Speaker 1 (22:51):
It is terrifying, I know, but it's all feel like you
were just in high school, like,do you feel like that?

Speaker 3 (22:56):
And I have my literally my 35th high school
reunion coming up in.

Speaker 1 (22:59):
August my son is.
I look at my kids and I'm likegosh, I was just there, like I
don.

Speaker 3 (23:05):
my son is elegant and my kids and I'm like gosh, I
was just there like I'm gonna bea mom, it's I know.
But see, I I feel like, I feellike a good 35, like that's you
know.
But I do remember high schoolvividly, love it, so fun.

Speaker 4 (23:14):
But yeah, 35 like I look back at covid oh, it was
four years ago and I'm like thatwas like it was yesterday
doesn't it feel like it wasyesterday, but yet 55 years ago?

Speaker 3 (23:25):
Because it was so bizarre and you're like how did
we actually?
It lasted for two years.
We're actually just now gettingout of it.
How did that affect you?

Speaker 4 (23:35):
I thought it was the best thing in the world.
I went through COVID every fiveyears.
Why?
Because I didn't know that itwas sunny in the spring and the
temperature was so perfect.
Because I yeah, because youwere.
I'm in work, I'm working all thetime and I come home and it's
already dark because it's stillin that time and at that time
you know I was home and you knowI helped kids with the homework

(23:57):
and and the doors were open thewhole time.
Yeah and well, because it wasthe best time did it change
anything?

Speaker 3 (24:04):
for, like now, like, have you slowed down?
And he's like, no, I do go tothe beach more in the spring.
Okay, how it's been.
More in the spring is the best.
Spring in october, yeah, lesscrowds as soon as, yes, well,
also, when the humidity yeah,when the humidity stops like it
breaks, yeah, spring and latefall, the beach is amazing, I do
think.

(24:24):
I think, covid, for a lot ofpeople like it was either the
best time or the worst.
Like you either came togetheras a family, a couple, whatever,
or it showed all the crap.
Well, for me we're together,yeah, 20, but for me business
was like crazy high, but for youit probably, probably, really
it was slow for two months andthen the Fed lowered interest

(24:48):
rates.
Yeah, oh, yeah, that's right,we'll want to fake our heads.

Speaker 2 (24:54):
That's true.

Speaker 3 (24:56):
We need a guest house and a guest guest house
Speaking of yeah, speaking ofwhat's going on now, housing
market and things, because Ihear a lot of different mixed
things from my clients.
21st yeah, speaking of what'sgoing on now, like housing
market, things, like cause Ihear a lot of different mixed
things with my clients.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
He's like the wizard on interest right.

Speaker 4 (25:10):
Yeah, follow me on Instagram.

Speaker 3 (25:13):
Yeah, seriously Not, mr Trevor, not Trevor no.

Speaker 4 (25:18):
So I think what we're going to experience is a normal
housing market, and I don'tthink anyone is used to, but
it's going to experience is anormal housing market and I
don't think anyone is used to.
So it's going to feel different, right, because houses are
sitting for 30, 45 days, butthat's actually normal, right?
Um, you can actually make anoffer on a house and offer
slightly below the sales price.
That doesn't mean the housingmarket's crashing, it's just
normal.
How normal?
Yeah, so it's just a littlemore balanced.

(25:39):
I don't think interest ratesare going to come down
tremendously.
You know, as long as it's kindof six in the front, I think you
should be happy.
But you don't think interestrates are going to come down
tremendously.
You know, as long as it's kindof six in the front, I think you
should be happy.

Speaker 3 (25:46):
But you don't see a crash at all.
Do you see any of that comingor no?

Speaker 4 (25:49):
Because too many people have cash.
That's the big difference.
Yeah, not just cash, but equity.
Yeah, so most people aresitting with $200,000 for that.

Speaker 1 (26:05):
All right, david, I'm the table.
Oh, you'll learn.
We're going to hear the littletap of David.
We usually hear Ashley's jinglewith hands tapping, see.

Speaker 3 (26:15):
Oh my god, if he had walked in with that, I would
have been like holy beep, beep.

Speaker 1 (26:19):
I'll beat myself up.
I can see.
It's so funny because Iliterally text both David and
Lisa.
And I said your words verbatimwhen I told you.
When we revealed who he was, Isaid your words verbatim.
I know you well.

Speaker 4 (26:30):
Yes, so for there to be a housing crash,
unemployment's the key, becauseas long as people have jobs,
they're going to pay theirmortgage, even if it's because
it's still cheap for people thatbought anything left anything
more than just in the last twoyears.

Speaker 3 (26:45):
they have extremely low house value oh yeah, my
interest rate is 2.69.

Speaker 4 (26:50):
Netflix causes a crash they're crazy people
losing their jobs and having tosell.
Yeah, if you have to sell rightnow, you're not going to sell.

Speaker 3 (26:57):
That's true you're still going to sell, that's true
.
You're still going to make.
Yeah, so would you say it'sbuyer's market, seller's market,
or about even.
Okay, oh that is a good yeah,so it's now a good time to sell.
If you're, I would Wanting to.

Speaker 4 (27:12):
He says now is a good time to buy Because it's still
coming out in the winter andthen winter is more of a buyer's
market Because people don'twant less and there's less
inventory.
Once you get into probablyspring, I think people are going
to come out of the window.
If rates get down to six and ahalf, the weather's nice.
People are going to put theirhouses on the market Because

(27:33):
they're still in demand.
Have kids that want to grow.
They're transferred.
People will start giving upthat three percent entry.
Okay, family grows when they getdivorced.
It's a natural cycle thatdoesn't just stop right isn't
one of the major.

Speaker 1 (27:48):
Like finance experts, they say that you should buy
them when the interest rates arehigh.
Is that right?
And then sell one becausethey're gonna?
I don't know.
Am I getting that wrong?
No, I mean, I know Botox.
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (28:01):
The thought is that when rates are low, you have
more people that want to buy, socompetition is out.
There's more people out justsupply and demand.
More people are out makingoffers.
So five people are makingoffers on the same house.
We're at high rates.
The seller's sitting there for30 days and they're like, oh my
God, I'm not going to sell it,I'll take it.
So that's why you want thatbalance.

(28:22):
You want houses on the market30 to 45 days.
If they're on the market 90days, then it's definitely a
buyer's market Right and theygot to start driving.
That makes sense Right?

Speaker 3 (28:37):
This is way more boring than this.
I actually think that I'm goingto have to book an appointment
with Dr Pam, because I thinkthat I have PTSD, but in all
seriousness though, so okay,we'll get therapy together.

Speaker 1 (28:52):
We will be in therapy together, dave.
You know he really is like anexpert like mortgaging.
He does great like little shortvideos.
So how?

Speaker 4 (29:01):
do you follow you?
Not Trevor, just David Monser.
Instagram and Facebook.
Most I'm landing towardsInstagram now.

Speaker 3 (29:07):
We'll put a boy post of him.
How did you get into this?
Just curious.

Speaker 4 (29:12):
Well, I didn't meet you before.
Yes, yes, we're, yes, we'reback to that.
Why?

Speaker 3 (29:16):
not, I know, and it just went on.
I love being here.
I didn't just figure out theone that made the best.
Yeah, I'm just going to juggle.

Speaker 4 (29:28):
So I actually have been doing this since college.
Wow, they interviewed on campus.
I got a minor in Spanish, sothey came and they wanted me to
start a Spanish division, eventhough my Spanish was not that
good.
Oh, wow, and Wachovia hired meto start the Spanish division.

Speaker 3 (29:45):
Oh, my gosh Wachovia.

Speaker 4 (29:46):
I was a sick girl, oh my gosh.
Wachovia.
So was it Wachovia or Wacholo?

Speaker 3 (29:53):
I know exactly, Exactly.
So where did you go to school?
University of Georgia Yay GoDawgs.
One of you has a kid at GeorgiaMe, she's a cheerleader.
Oh, I'm the best freshmanSummon all the games.
Yay, I know, I love it.
Go Dawgs, go Dawgs, go playnext year.
I'm Missouri, so go Tigers, we.

(30:14):
Yeah, I know.
Sorry you may be Georgia nextyear, I'm a.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
Georgia fan now.

Speaker 4 (30:20):
Shout out to all my Georgia Tech fans.
I've got probably five GeorgiaTech fans who all their kids go
to Georgia.
Hey.

Speaker 3 (30:27):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 4 (30:28):
And they're all wearing Georgia stuff.

Speaker 3 (30:31):
Isn't that hard?
I hear that's hard, I don'tknow.
No, but that's because we'rewinning.
But no, after the game thisyear we have a whole new respect
for Georgia Tech.
We can all agree on that.
That game was brutal.
Were you there?
I didn't even watch it.
I was not there.
I was there.
Brutal.

Speaker 4 (30:49):
Brutal Sorry.

Speaker 1 (30:51):
I see some people in the comments recognizing David,
but I want to know everyone thatwas listening who thinks he
deserves it.

Speaker 3 (30:56):
I get confused, oscar , I think it's an Oscar an Emmy,
a Tony, let's just do theentire thing.
He thinks to me every year.
What is this?
That's like Schitt's Creek, ohmy God, okay.
So how do you all know eachother?
Yes, Okay how is this?
Come on, trevor Trevor.

(31:17):
How do you know them?

Speaker 4 (31:20):
I've done mortgages all my life but I opened
Operation Camp without a fitnessprogram.
Lisa's husband came and did itfor a long time.
Lisa came and did it.

Speaker 3 (31:29):
Where did they meet?
At Drakefield, at Drakefield.

Speaker 1 (31:33):
Lisa, you don't sound super excited about that.
I came and did it for about amonth.

Speaker 4 (31:39):
She was the funnest.
She would show up and say no.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
Oh Lisa, I don't squat Lisa, or boot camp.
It was hardcore.

Speaker 3 (31:48):
Lisa, I don't squat.
What does that mean?
I don't squat?
No, you don't.
I went and guilt every day andI did.
I always tried to Wow Good andguilt every day and I did.
I always tried to have a goodgarden.
So are you still?

Speaker 4 (31:59):
doing this.
Well, the franchise we closedbecause it just wants all the
CrossFits and everything else.
That's valid, but we still havea group that meets that does it
because we still enjoy it.
So we still meet at 5.30 onTuesdays, thursdays and Fridays.
5.30?
Yeah, it wants to come Wow5.30?
.

Speaker 3 (32:17):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (32:21):
Oh my gosh, I'll see you there, lisa.
Wow, that's amazing.

Speaker 2 (32:29):
Really it's a middle age workout.
The middle age workout, theknees are not the same.

Speaker 3 (32:35):
The knees are no longer our practice, but that's
okay.
At least you're still workingout.

Speaker 4 (32:40):
Several of ours.
They're up anyway.

Speaker 3 (32:43):
At 530?
.

Speaker 4 (32:44):
They're up anyway.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
Yeah, I don't have a problem, I can still sleep, oh
yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm not amorning person.

Speaker 1 (32:52):
I don't know how.
You look bad at like seven no.

Speaker 3 (32:55):
I told you I'm a noon to two, lisa, noon to two.
I'm not a morning person and Idon't.
I mean I go to bed super early.
I will literally wake up tolike 55,000 text messages from
this crazy group and then I'lltext back at 530.

Speaker 1 (33:13):
Maria said that Dave was her first loan officer at
what's Her Name.

Speaker 3 (33:20):
Anyway, there's a question.
There's a question From Beth.

Speaker 4 (33:23):
Oh, I think you answered it, though Beth has
marked it.
It depends.
There's no telling.
I mean, I've heard some peoplesay inflation's coming back into
the year.
If that does, rates are goingto go up.
No, it can't.
No, now we're working towardsinflation going down it has been
trending down, but I thinkwe're just going to be flat.
I think there's not going to bea lot of growth, but we're not

(33:45):
going to go backwards.
Okay, and that's a good thingyeah sometimes consolidation the
term.

Speaker 3 (33:51):
Yeah, just kind of well, america's kind of funny,
though as well, because there'sso many different areas that are
still growing right all thetime like it feels like peak
trees to me is now just catchingup with atlanta, with
everywhere else it's still like,well, houses have gone up here.

Speaker 4 (34:05):
They're kind of leveling up to where everything
is in roswell or right, you'rein a great area whenever you the
areas that you see thetremendous growth like las vegas
.
When they shoot up 12 yeah,they shoot down 12%.

Speaker 3 (34:18):
There's no middle ground.

Speaker 4 (34:20):
You see steady growth , which is good, it's fantastic,
even when it's hard.

Speaker 3 (34:27):
But there's not a lot of new growth in Peachtree City
, right?
Does that affect things as wellor no?

Speaker 4 (34:35):
Just limited supply.
I think we're probably gettingtowards the age where people are
going to start tearing housesdown and start over the next
year or two yeah, I think, oncewe hit another really hard
positive bull market or a strongeconomy.

Speaker 3 (34:51):
Then it's just the land, that's the money Right.

Speaker 2 (34:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (34:54):
But that's hard to build, it's expensive.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
Well, right now?

Speaker 3 (34:57):
yeah, because again everything is so expensive.
Steel, wood, yeah, I mean.
So if people want to sell, whatdo you tell them to focus on
the most in their house to get?

Speaker 4 (35:07):
Oh, that's a good question what do you renovate?
I'm not a real estate agent, soI do not typically discuss.
I don't even know the answer tothat.
To be honest, answer that.
To be honest.
My opinion is I mean, yourhouse just has to be clean.
Yeah, really, people don't havevision, is what I hear from a
lot of real estate agents.
They walk into a house andthere's a dog thing there.
They can't picture that dog fornot being so crazy that people

(35:31):
can't.

Speaker 3 (35:32):
But I mean, I do understand that because, again,
the brain, yeah, the brain worksthat way either you're artistic
or you're not.
You You're very literal witheverything.

Speaker 2 (35:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (35:39):
I've always heard like kitchens, like baths, like
everything, updated, you knowthat kind of thing.

Speaker 4 (35:44):
The kitchens it's a nest, like the little nest
thermostat, like that smalllittle thing.
Right, it's kind of like thehouse's network.

Speaker 3 (35:55):
It's like that.
It's one of those five-secondfirst impressions Like it's like
that.

Speaker 1 (35:59):
it's what is in that five second first impression
like it's, it's the littlethings like it, yeah, so crazy.
So what was your five secondfirst impression when you met
trevor?

Speaker 3 (36:05):
I was trying to make sure that I had all of my
questions in line andappropriate and that is no joke
like literally, when I, when Istood up, I was like, okay,
ashley, keep it together.
We're being very respectful andget your questions.
Keep it together because, again, we've talked about this before
like there's parts of thatlifestyle that like I actually
had questions for because it'sso polygamous.

(36:27):
We'll get you.
We'll get you I mean what?
up if you're out there.
Yeah, yeah, out there, like it,literally like we did, I have
on it like I don't know.

Speaker 1 (36:35):
I think he did pretty good research.
I think it was almost as good.

Speaker 3 (36:38):
I just still say Tricia, you are in arsehole, and
that one didn't Get the button.
Look, he said arse.
I know arse is European, irish,irish.
Everybody that cannot see.
I just got the eyebrow fromLisa that I needed.

(36:58):
Yes, it's like.

Speaker 1 (37:02):
English, like english , irish, scotch and farce.
I think my favorite part wasthat each one had like their
place, like there was the eachhad a purpose now, my favorite
was the time out.

Speaker 3 (37:10):
Yeah, yeah, I was like how does that work exactly?

Speaker 2 (37:15):
how does that work?
What the fuck is a time out?

Speaker 3 (37:16):
how does that work exactly how does that work?
Like what the fuck is a timeouthow does?
That work, work.
Yeah, she has no one can.
Holy crap, david, if you said,oh no, we put her in her crate,
I think I would have literallyimploded.
How does it get worse?

Speaker 1 (37:33):
I was afraid for the people like beth who hadn't seen
the heard the intro.
Intro yes, if we went too deep,exactly so.

Speaker 3 (37:40):
I take it, beth.
I take it never in a million.
Would you be Maybe if not?

Speaker 4 (37:45):
Would you?

Speaker 3 (37:46):
ever have multiple wives.
I'll be.

Speaker 4 (37:49):
this is a downer.
I have never dated two girls,that's so.

Speaker 3 (37:53):
Well, that's how it should be.
Yeah, you came up with the Hemsthing too, oh, it's advertised
on Stop.

Speaker 4 (37:59):
Maybe not to y'all, I know, because he didn't say
Little Blue.

Speaker 3 (38:02):
Yeah, exactly, I know , I was like, oh Okay, so he
actually did.
Yeah, okay, all right, so Potdoes that, all right, I mean
that's good to know.

Speaker 4 (38:20):
I was like Hems, so all right, it's the H-I-M-S.

Speaker 3 (38:22):
oh, I thought you said him, so he's.
I totally got it.
Okay, not him.
Is it coming?
A gummy horn like that'samazing.
Oh my gosh, yeah, it's her.
I totally thought he wastalking about that.
Was it's her?
I totally thought he wastalking about me.
That was, yeah I know that wastwice.

Speaker 4 (38:41):
It's advertised a lot .

Speaker 3 (38:44):
It's on your ice.
No for hers.
It's hers and him.
Are they the same thing, right?
Okay, so that's legit.
Hers is yeah.
Now that I know that it's notpot, it's an online order.
What you need for what you need, it's for what you need.
Oh, basically, well, that justwent through my head.

Speaker 1 (39:05):
I just thought we were smoking a bunch of weed.

Speaker 3 (39:06):
No, amazing, okay.
I think for her it's like hairloss and shots for weight loss
and oh, the hers, hers, okay,it's like you haven't seen that.
No, I've, I've seen that, youguys.
Nowadays, there's alwayssomething for something.
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (39:19):
Well, a friend of mine, when they saw the
advertisement, went and did the.

Speaker 3 (39:26):
Wink, wink, wink, wink, wink.
Look, this might have clickedon what I know, just to check it
out.
Right, for any purposes, Justself-assessment.
Right, right, right, okay, theself-assessment.
The purpose is justself-assessment.
Right, right, right, okay.

Speaker 4 (39:39):
It gives you lots of options.
Like you were saying, it's notjust for erectile dysfunction,
right it's.
Do you want to last long?
Do you want to be big?
Do you want to be a?

Speaker 3 (39:48):
Right, yeah, do you want more hair?
Do you want Exactly weight?
Yes, very cool, it's a wholething well like I said, I'm just
glad for some clarificationbecause I they stepped up on
gummies.
She's like hymns same thingtomato, tomato.

(40:10):
I just totally missed that part.

Speaker 1 (40:13):
But speaking of women and things.
What's it like dating in middleage?

Speaker 4 (40:23):
How's it different from when you're younger?
I'm unique because I've beenfocused on my kids for the last
several years.
So if I went on a date or two,if it wasn't real, I just never
dated for the sake of date.
It just wasn't for me.
Yet I've got the rest of mylife to do that.
I just never dated for the sakeof date, Like it just wasn't
for me.
Yet I've got the rest of mylife to do that.
Right, I'm dating someone nowand it is wonderful.

Speaker 3 (40:45):
It's one person.
It's one person, okay, trevoryeah.

Speaker 4 (40:51):
And it's the first person I've dated in quite a
while just because I've got alot to do.
I'm not, you know.

Speaker 3 (40:59):
Y'all know that your kids are only in town for so how
has dating, though, changedfrom like way back when to now,
and is it mostly like online,like how you meet people are
like you know, because myclients are all like I'm meeting
people online and I'm like, oh,that's like a whole different,
yep yeah, and it's extremelydifficult because I've been on
all the apps and how you start aconversation and then it's like

(41:20):
I get to get back to work andthen you're working and it's
three days later and it's like,oh, I forgot to reply that.

Speaker 4 (41:25):
It's just awkward.
Um, so I think a lot of peoplehave success.
I have friends that have a lotof success with that because
they just have that energy wherethey're just right.
I'm gonna date everybody everythree nights a week.
Right, like Trevor, like Trevor, right, trevor would, yeah, and
so, if you have the time to,but I talk all day too, for my
job, I'm constantly makingvideos or talking to customers,

(41:47):
and so to come home and text,yeah, like you just shut down.

Speaker 1 (41:52):
Yeah, I say that every day.
I'm out of words.

Speaker 3 (41:55):
No, I mean, that's how I am when I get home.
I'm just like I don't.
Well, but are you an extrovertor an introvert?

Speaker 4 (42:01):
I would say an extrovert.

Speaker 3 (42:03):
Yeah, so you get your energy.
Are you kidding?
Do you think that an introvertcould hold off Trevor?
Now, dr Pam, I don't know.
I'd argue that.
I don't know that's, but that'sfrom someone who doesn't know
you, because I guess, like,because yeah, I can see like you
, like all day, and then you gohome and you're just like, I
need to recharge, yeah fridaynight I'm like I'm fine sitting

(42:26):
home.

Speaker 4 (42:27):
Yeah, nothing, right, my kids are with their mom that
weekend.
I'm like, right, sitting here.
No, I don't want to go todinner.
I don't want to go to a bar,right, yeah?
So I do enjoy just shuttingdown yeah, just chilling out and
recharging?

Speaker 3 (42:42):
yes, all right.
So how old are your children?
Is that, was it true?
The 17 and 11?
17, 11?

Speaker 4 (42:48):
yeah, I know, 17 and 11 I'm a 13 year old at boot and
I have an 18 year old.
Okay, okay, any plans he isinvestigating several schools.
He wants to be a aircraftmechanic.
Wow he started with that.
Now he's concerned with fbi orsomething like that.

(43:09):
He's not sure that interesting.

Speaker 3 (43:11):
Yeah, so he is researching but that's such a
fun age like when they start tokind of like take on that mature
personality and they're likelooking at their future.
Because I mean, we all knowthat when you're that age or
moment that everything is justlike day to day, Life is magical
.
You know, money just grows ontrees and you don't have to
worry about what you're going todo so, like when they start to

(43:31):
make that turn where they'relike yeah, now I'm going to
start thinking about we just hada conversation two nights ago
because I said don't feel bad,because I'm pushing you to make
decisions.

Speaker 4 (43:41):
I'm just trying to push you to go in any direction.
Right, Change your mind fiveminutes later.
That's okay too.
I'm fine with that.
Yeah, I was worried.
I was constantly asking so whatare you going to do Exactly?

Speaker 3 (43:52):
That's just a parent, though I mean we can't help it,
right?
That's what I told him.
I was like I feel like if Idon't say anything, that you're
not no hope that it falls inglad.

Speaker 4 (44:07):
So how will you feel when there's graduation and then
like he's going away towherever he goes, very
independent kid for a while.
Oh well, so you're used to it.
My younger son is all about meand hanging out and yeah.
So thank god it's not reversed,yeah yeah, is it the same for
dads?

Speaker 3 (44:21):
so like I know, like when that first one goes away,
like to school, whatever, like,whatever they're doing, like I
know, like for a mama's heart,you're just kind of like it hits
you because I mean, I don'tknow, like you just have, you
have this little human that youhave tried to grow and have them
be decent.
So like, is it the same fordads, like when they take that
step, like, are you as kind oflike, oh my gosh, this is like

(44:45):
real I would imagine.

Speaker 4 (44:47):
it is because how I feel about my younger one.
He goes into seventh graderight next.
How is it eighth grade, eighthgrade next year?
And then hi.
So I'm thinking, oh my god,this is your last year.
Right, it's the last then Imight not even ever see you
again, right, right.
But my older one, like I said,he's been so in bed for so long,
right Like, doesn't feel anybetter.
Right Like, if he goes toschool three hours away, I won't

(45:08):
feel any better.

Speaker 3 (45:09):
Yeah, that makes sense.
I've got a healing zone.
Oh, the last one it is.
It's the last of everything.
It's the last first day ofschool.

Speaker 1 (45:22):
You know, like at home, and I know and I mean me
not being sentimental, hardly atall like you do have those
moments so yeah, well, younotice too, when I introduced
the real david montz or not, mrtrevor, I think even before I
said mortgage officer, I saiddad, because he's a very
dedicated dad.
I think that's great, that likehis kids.
I think that's, I think that'sactually the most important
thing.

Speaker 3 (45:41):
To be honest, like I mean, don't you guys all feel
that that, like is literally ourmost important job on this
planet, like that's our soul'sjob, is to try and raise really
good humans?

Speaker 4 (45:51):
and it is and to be present.
I mean you look at all theissues that we have and it goes
back to the home and who wasinvolved.

Speaker 3 (45:59):
Right yeah, just being present.

Speaker 1 (46:02):
Mind, body and spirit .
David, you have all brothersright, I do.
Are you close to your mom?
Yes, so I'm curious Uh oh, uhoh.

Speaker 3 (46:11):
Are they older?
Yes, oh, you're the youngest.
Oh wow, they should see hisyoungest, oh wow.
So you're close to them and doyou see them a lot.
Are they close by your siblings?

Speaker 4 (46:21):
Well, one of my brothers is in Carrollton, okay.
The other one is in Texas.
He's actually here visiting us.

Speaker 3 (46:27):
Oh my God, that could have actually been a really
hilarious episode.

Speaker 1 (46:31):
But was it the brother-husbands?
You just missed out on that.
Yes, well, I'm okay.
So you weren't really raisedwith girls other than your mom
and you've not dated a lot.
I'm curious of your knowledge.

Speaker 3 (46:44):
Uh-oh, this is what they do to us, now they're doing
it to you.
I'm just going to sit back.

Speaker 1 (46:53):
So you're late.
Ashley's kind of I'm actuallythe old.

Speaker 3 (46:59):
We're about to change it to the elderly podcast
Elderly is right up, elderly.

Speaker 1 (47:04):
I'm curious what you know about women and age.
Okay, I don't know, You're onthe spot, all right.
So what is the average age fora woman to reach menopause?

Speaker 4 (47:13):
I would say right off 48 to 52.
Somewhere around there.

Speaker 3 (47:17):
Oh gosh, David, I know a lot of kids that are 48
going through it.

Speaker 1 (47:25):
I was like I didn't even know that answer.
So the average age is 51, butcan obviously vary.
Okay, holy cow, true or false?
Hot flashes only occur duringthe day.

Speaker 4 (47:33):
No.

Speaker 1 (47:34):
That is so true, because I get them at night.
Okay, false Hot flashes canoccur both day and night.
Nighttime hot flashes are oftenreferred to as night sweats.

Speaker 3 (47:42):
Yep, can I just tell you, in Ireland it's called hot
flushes, hot flushes, hotflushes, hot flushes.
Then they're a real pain in thearse.
They're a pain in the arse, seeHems and hemp.

Speaker 1 (47:59):
Ba-dum or hot flesh hempcom.
Alright, so that's our newbusiness guys, it's about to go
viral.
That's so funny which of thefollowing is not a common
symptom of perimenopause?
A irregular periods.
B enhanced libido.
C mood swings.
D hot flashes.
I'm guessing Vita, I put theright, not you are like you are.

(48:25):
You are creeping guys.
He knows what he's talkingabout.
All right, here we go.
Fill in the blank the suddenfeeling of warmth, often over
the face, neck and chest.
It's been many women duringmenopause.
It's called a what?

Speaker 4 (48:38):
Orgasm.

Speaker 1 (48:41):
Same thing or a hot flash Same thing.

Speaker 3 (48:43):
Or a hot flash, or a hot flash.
Oh, that is epic.
Yes, all right, that was good.

Speaker 1 (48:48):
Oh my God, True or false, menopause marks the end
of a woman's ability toexperience sexual pleasure.

Speaker 4 (48:54):
Oh God.

Speaker 1 (48:54):
False.
So many women continue to havesatisfying years for years after
menopause All right, are webetter?

Speaker 3 (49:01):
He knows menopausal women.
This is kind of scary.
Well he's the aim that we workout with more times.
We do talk about it all thetime.
Yes, yes.

Speaker 1 (49:12):
You're in knowledge.
This is good.

Speaker 3 (49:20):
All right, which hormone significantly decreases
during menopause, leading tosymptoms like hot flashes and
vaginal dryness.
It's probably the only one youknow.
Hormone, yeah, no, no doubt.

Speaker 1 (49:24):
Firstly, Well, that's true, I'll get that, I'll get
that, I'll get that, I'll getthat, I'll get that, I'll get
that, I'll get that, I'll getthat.
Yeah, oh, no, definitely false.
Hormonal changes duringperimenopause and menopause can
contribute to weight gain,especially around the abdomen.
It sucks.

Speaker 3 (49:43):
Again, I go back to Eve.
I think I've said it to youbefore All this crap that us
women go through, it's not aboutthe apple, it's more.
There has to be something morethan just the apple back in the
day.
I don't.

Speaker 1 (49:57):
Oh, there we go again .
I got two more than just theapple back in the day, I don't.
Oh, there we go again.

Speaker 3 (50:03):
I got two more First book of the Bible Never read us
and we will move on.
The fact that I know that isactually Okay.
I'm.
You didn't read the Bible.
You did not read the Bible inCatholic church.
Really, the priest tells you oh, I can sing all the church.
Oh, wow, okay, that is actuallyso interesting.

(50:24):
I mean seriously the fact thatI know that there's going to be
Catholics.
Come on here, though I'm likeabsolutely disagree with me.
But I'm telling you right now,and my whole time in Catholic
school, in junior and I was in aconference school, secondary
school we did not read the Bible.
You did not do memorizations ofverses.
No, and you go to Mass and theyread Gospels.

(50:45):
Well, wait, what is the Gospelsthen?
How is that different thanAccording to St John?
She's blocked that out.
That's the Bible.
Wait a second.
I'm pretty sure the Gospel isthe bible.
we didn't read it like, so nowonder you were looking at me
when I said that if you're outthere, like I understand, try

(51:05):
the apple and eat.
But no, but that totally makessense as to why I was like, yeah
, so all of the crap that we gothrough as women is more than
about the apple and eat, likeall of that.
And you're like, what I, whatI'm like, wait, what Doesn't
that make sense to you?
Like you've pissed somebodyelse off.
It's not about the apple, butwell, moving on, trish, yeah,
okay.

Speaker 1 (51:25):
So what term describes a phase leading up to
menopause, when hormonal changesbegin, often causing symptoms
like irregular periods and moodswings?
Health Perimenopause yeah, Ihave a menopause.
Aka I know, you got two more, Ifeel so bad for you?

Speaker 3 (51:40):
You're actually doing well, you actually did so good,
you're doing well, but I feelbad for you because I cannot.
I had to answer those questions.

Speaker 1 (51:47):
Especially not growing up with sisters.
Okay, true or false, all womenexperience severe symptoms
during menopause.

Speaker 4 (51:53):
The obvious answer is no.

Speaker 1 (51:54):
Yeah, you can.
Yeah, you can't ever say all.
That was kind of a dumbquestion.
Chag APT.
Okay, which?

Speaker 4 (52:08):
lifestyle change can help alleviate some menopausal
symptoms.

Speaker 3 (52:10):
Polygamy, polygamy, polygamy.
You have to keep it moist.

Speaker 1 (52:12):
I'm tired Cheers to that guys.
Which lifestyle change canalleviate some menopausal
systems?
Increased caffeine intake,regular physical activity,
skipping meals or increasedalcohol consumption alcohol and
exercise right?

Speaker 3 (52:31):
yes, I'm sure alcohol wasn't the answer, but it is
for us absolutely.
Good job.
Sorry, zach, just confirmed.
I'm impressed that you, like,had so many correct answers Zach
, just confirmed.
I'm a good test taker.
You are a good test taker.

Speaker 1 (52:48):
I don't read the Bible.

Speaker 3 (52:50):
So hey, so curious at UGA, what did you major in?
I got an international businessdegree, international business,
and when did you graduate?

Speaker 4 (52:56):
96.

Speaker 3 (52:59):
Well, you're close, really, mm-hmm Close.
Yes, well, you're close, closeby interesting.
Football was bad back then, bythe way same.
I was disappointed.
Yeah, I went to high schoolwith him.
I went to high school.
I did you never saw.
Where did you go?

Speaker 4 (53:19):
well, I went to North Carolina and then I graduated
in Fayette County High School ohwow, so you and I are back in
the day.

Speaker 3 (53:26):
Clayco, fayette County.
Yes, let's bring out the Menagea Trois.
That's interesting.
He played it for a while.
Oh yeah, we went to high school, we graduated together.
He was like, yeah, very nice,very nice, I should have the
camera views.
Sorry, oops, oopsie,interesting.

(53:49):
So we have no more questionsfor David.
No, oh, poor thing.

Speaker 1 (53:55):
So we used to do, would you rathers?
Well, are we going to do that?
I've got a couple for David.

Speaker 3 (54:00):
Uh-oh, uh-oh, okay, we-oh, uh-oh.

Speaker 1 (54:02):
Okay, we're sorry.
Would you rather accidentallysend a risque text to your boss
or to your mother Boss?
Okay, would you rather haveyour internet search history
made public or have a video ofyou dancing naked?
Go viral Internet searchhistory.
Okay, good answer.

Speaker 2 (54:18):
Would you rather have a?

Speaker 1 (54:18):
partner who laughs uncontrollably during intimate
moments, or one who remainscompletely silent.

Speaker 3 (54:25):
She has to have a sense of humor, especially at
this age.
We got to laugh it off.
That would be weird.
Yeah, that would be veryuncomfortable, of course.
So how have you been inPeachtree City?

Speaker 4 (54:40):
I've been in Peachtree City for 13.
Is that all yeah, because Ilived in the Highlands.

Speaker 1 (54:47):
I didn't know that.

Speaker 4 (54:47):
I lived in the Highlands for 8 years how was
that that's so pretty?
I miss fire trucks.
I miss hearing the noise.
I love the quiet too, but Ijust love.

Speaker 3 (55:02):
There's something about this city All of the
noises we ate outside the othernight.

Speaker 4 (55:08):
The cars ran by with their loud radio and it just
felt a lot better.

Speaker 3 (55:13):
That makes total sense.

Speaker 4 (55:15):
That's the one thing Peachtree City lacks there's no
beer gardens.

Speaker 3 (55:21):
Listen, don't get me started so much let's get you
more restaurants.

Speaker 4 (55:27):
I'm lobbying if you're out there.
Partners Pizza, that biggerarea in between Partners Pizza
and the Farmer's Market all thatjust wasted.
Why do you not put some picnictables and some live music and
serve beer at a Partners Pizza?
I'd be there every second kindof like Night Market.
Why do you not put some picnictables and some live music and
serve beer at an apartment andsing around there?
I'd be there every second.

Speaker 3 (55:43):
Kind of like Night Market.
A little bit like Night Market.
Is it a code issue?
Like it's a county code issue?
I'd say so.
They've got a lockdown that youcan't do that.
I mean, who knows?
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (55:56):
I mentioned it to Rebecca and I think they're in
the middle of that whole sellingand rebonding.
That's something they do downthe road and we can't name them
because look at Lion Creek,that's outside.
That's true.

Speaker 3 (56:07):
That is true.

Speaker 4 (56:08):
And they play live music at the market.
What would be the difference?
How about every night, in allday, people go in and order
their pizza.
All you need is a tub of beer.

Speaker 3 (56:18):
Yeah, and I mean honest, Like you say, outside,
literally, the overhead costwould be I love unlike you, I
love the outdoors.
I know Well because we're inthis it's perfect weather for
the most part.
The plan down in Fayettevilleand Square is to do that, so
that's going to be.
Oh, really, yeah, it'll be sadthat they get pushed.

Speaker 4 (56:41):
Oh in downtown Fayetteville.
Yeah, that's pretty good.

Speaker 3 (56:43):
Yeah, but even Lion Creek, yeah, yeah, that's so
cool.
Yeah, sit there and kids canplay.
That's so cool.

Speaker 4 (56:50):
It's a great experience.

Speaker 3 (56:52):
I was wondering with that because I drive by it when
I go to Neal's and I see the busbarn and for most people the
bus barn, it actually is part ofthe educational part of the
county and I was like Lion Creek, so they donated the money to
the bus barn.
So now that I know that it'snot where all the buses are.

Speaker 4 (57:10):
It's cool.
It's a Lion Creek.
They have a huge playground, asplash pad, a huge field.
That's amazing.
So, especially if you havesmall kids and you drink beer,
where else would you be?

Speaker 3 (57:21):
Right, even if they had a food truck park, now that
would be a little bit good.
Well, they do that.
Yeah, they do that.
Like the night market, they dothat.

Speaker 2 (57:34):
But it's like once every three months, isn't there?

Speaker 3 (57:36):
one in Turin Is that how you have it.
Yeah, I only ever see one foodtruck.
I have no, is I only ever seeone?

Speaker 4 (57:43):
food truck?
I have no idea.

Speaker 3 (57:44):
I saw a lot.
I've never seen one.
Yeah, I love food truck park.
Yes, good food truck park.
When we were open at Greenvillein South Carolina.
They have like a container yard, yes, and there's all these
containers with all differentthings and you can sit in the
middle and all the twinklinglights.
It's so magical yeah, I know somagical.
It's not just the containers.

(58:05):
I know they also should have arestaurant in the lakes.
That would be nice.

Speaker 4 (58:11):
Vanessa Fleiss was the manager and I said why would
you not build a dock?
Oh yeah, People could walk outand they could just order.
Yes, Even if it's not apermanent structure, allow them
to That'd be so nice People gothere.

Speaker 3 (58:26):
Yeah, yeah, it would just be more fabulous.
It is what it is, yeah.

Speaker 1 (58:31):
It's a good sport.
You have been saying it, oh myGod.
Thank you, trevor.
I think so, since he usedChatGP, oh God, and we know he
sings.
He gave us a little demo.
I just had chat give us anotherrap.
I know she got a rap.

Speaker 3 (58:48):
Oh no, okay, I don't have my glasses, so Pam can do
it for me.
You gotta do your, I know, butI I don't have my glasses.
Look how big my.
I don't Look how big my.
I don't look how big, I stillcan't.

Speaker 1 (58:59):
I swear to god nope, they've been okay lisa, I'll do
it.

Speaker 3 (59:03):
Okay.
I mean, I'm not.
You know, I love the last time.
I just don't have my glassesfor a second.
Uh-oh, are you gonna go get mypurse here?
I have glasses.
Your glasses are there.
Oh lord how she's got them.

Speaker 4 (59:19):
You haven't done this route before.

Speaker 3 (59:20):
We don't I don't know no chat gave us.
We're so fresh friends with thelauren here.
Yeah, yeah, we're not middle.

Speaker 1 (59:27):
We're not middle ages at all brandy just said she has
glasses on.
I'm sorry, my age.
I said eminem, oh yeah allright, Is that Eminem?

Speaker 3 (59:38):
Oh yeah, All right.
Now I'm talking NWA.

Speaker 1 (59:41):
Here we go.
Yeah, all right, david, give usa beat.

Speaker 3 (59:45):
We thought we were gangster.
She's a round-the-way girl InMissouri All right, ready All
right.

Speaker 1 (59:51):
Yo woke up this morning feeling kind of sore,
but now it's time my shoes down,stuck on the floor.

Speaker 3 (01:00:02):
My knees pop louder, louder than my bluetooth speaker
.
I'm rocking biophocals but Istill can't see you.
Am I doing my?
We really do pot flash, nightsweats.
Where's my fan?
I was feeling kind of frisky.
Now I need a new plan.
Take my bra off.
That's a game changer.
Don't touch me, honey.
Mood swings for danger.

Speaker 1 (01:00:16):
Oh yeah, no ipods no, you don't have to have to,
can't?
There's an order?
Oh, I can't.

Speaker 3 (01:00:24):
You're not doing it.
Go you go.
Now I'm just inflamed.
My metabolism is slower than mypassword.
Gain Wi-Fi week.
My memory's shot, walked intothe room and now I forgot.
Alright, you can take mine.
Come on, this will be great.
Where are we?

Speaker 4 (01:00:42):
I got thumbs in my purse, spanks on tight and I
stop because my roots stay white.
Give me some carbs, give mesome sleep, and if you wake me
up, boy it's getting deep.

Speaker 1 (01:00:58):
You can just go ahead and do um chorus.
You can do the chorus too forPam.

Speaker 4 (01:01:03):
You're really rapping .
Well, middle age, we ain't done, we just getting started.
Still got moves, but my back'sall numb, so raise your glass,
make mine a double To middle ageliving.
Bring on the trouble.

Speaker 1 (01:01:18):
Middle age living.
I'm nervous we're not.
For those of you who aren'tlistening, you have to go back
and listen to the beginning ofhow we got.

Speaker 3 (01:01:30):
Thanks a lot.

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