#156 Midlife Pivot: Finding Courage to Start Over

Shelly shares the real story behind her family’s move from Dallas to Boise—how a quiet nudge became a series of brave, practical steps. This episode is a hand on your shoulder for midlife women who feel the tension between a “good life” and an aligned next chapter. You’ll feel seen, supported, and walk away with a simple rhythm to make confident, faith-forward decisions (without blowing up your life overnight).

Key Takeaways:

• You’re not alone. Wanting “different” in midlife doesn’t make you ungrateful—it makes you honest.
• The regret test helps: Picture porch-you at 80. What would you regret not trying?
• Four-word prayer to steady you: Direction • Clarity • Discernment • Courage.
• Start tiny (coffee date, not wedding): One low-risk step (email the realtor, DM a mentor, write 5 bullets) creates momentum and clarity.
• Collect breadcrumbs: Log confirmations and roadblocks—patterns will guide timing and reduce second-guessing.
• Expect wobbly nights: Hard seasons don’t mean wrong decisions; look for “God-winks” and practical mercies along the way.
• There’s always a paper to sign: When it’s time, take the leap. Let your fear of staying stuck be smaller than your faith to move.
• Action beats overthinking: God often confirms in motion.

Scripture anchor: Proverbs 3:5–6 — Trust before certainty; paths straighten as you walk.

Resources:

• Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/shellyniehaus/
• Simple Shifts Newsletter: https://midlifemadesimplepodcast.com/tips
• Women Entrepreneurs In Prayer Call - https://midlifemadesimplepodcast.com/prayer