Ep 104: The Detective Mom: Why We Find Only What We Are Looking For (And How to Change It)

Are you building a case against your grown child without even realizing it? In this eye-opening episode, we explore how our minds naturally look for evidence to support what we already believe—and how this can be destroying our relationships with our adult children.

Kim shares relatable examples of how we become "worry detectives," collecting proof that something is wrong while completely missing evidence that things are actually going well. You'll discover why your brain works this way and, more importantly, how to retrain it to see the whole picture.

Using practical strategies and biblical wisdom from Philippians 4:8, you'll learn how to become a more balanced observer of your relationships. This isn't about ignoring problems—it's about seeing the love and connection that's already there.

If you've been worried that your grown child doesn't care about you, this episode will help you discover the evidence you've been missing.

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