Mind Your P's and Q's
Attorney Abbie Godles shares helpful information and practical tips on navigating Arizona divorce and custody, offering insight on out-of-court solutions and litigation. New episodes release odd Wednesdays at 10 am on all your favorite platforms. mymm.substack.com
Episodes
In this episode, I break down Rule 49—the key disclosure rule in family law cases—and explain what you need to share, when, and why it matters. Whether you're headed to court or working things out in mediation, understanding these requirements helps you stay prepared and avoid costly mistakes. I also share how I use these court standards as a roadmap in mediation to keep things moving smoothly. If you’re in a family case, this is a...
In this enlightening episode, we explore innovative legal support services designed to empower individuals navigating family law matters independently. I chat my new comprehensive suite of coaching services, which provide flexible, cost-effective solutions for those seeking professional guidance while maintaining control of their cases. Additionally, I share a powerful story leading to recent improvements to my mediation process, h...
Discover the hidden dynamics of "silent divorce"—where couples remain legally married but emotionally disconnected. This episode explores the subtle signs of emotional separation, from communication breakdown to parallel lives, and examines why couples often stay in these situations. Learn about the impact on family members and practical steps toward either resolution or conscious uncoupling.
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In this episode, we explore the complex world of step-parent rights in Arizona, from the initial challenges of blending families to the legal options available for establishing parental rights. I break down the requirements for stepparent adoption and "in loco parentis" status, while offering practical advice for navigating these important family relationships. Whether you're a step-parent seeking legal rights or just beginning you...
We’re wrapping up our prenup mini-series today! Tune in to learn all about the differences to consider when seeking a prenup for a second or subsequent marriage.
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As we continue our prenup mini-series, we’re getting into LGBTQ+-specific considerations. Beyond the basics that apply to all prenuptial agreements, learn how they can provide opportunities for LGBTQ+ couples to overcome challenges unique to this community.
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We’re continuing to delve into more nuanced prenuptial agreement topics. In this episode, we’re chatting the importance of prenups for business owners. Tune in now to learn the specific considerations to keep in mind and common provisions to include.
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We’ve discussed prenuptial agreement in previous episodes, including general details on AZ prenups, considering mediation over traditional negotiations, and how to bring up the topic with your fiancé(e). Today, we’re going further and chatting how Millennials and Gen Z are taking a new perspective on prenups. Listen now to hear why the prenup is making a comeback with the younger generations!
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We’ve discussed which professionals can help with divorce, and also covered why it’s so important to consider consulting with them. Today, we’re taking this topic in a new direction! Tune in now to get my two cents on “just because you can use them, should you?”
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Previous Episodes Mentioned
Ep. 13 - Professionals Who Help with Divorce
Ep. 44 - Importance of Consulting Relevant Professionals
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Our world generally, and the US specifically, is more diverse than ever. Litigation constrains these beautiful differences whereas mediation offers them the chance to shine! Listen now to gain insight on the importance of considering religion in culture in how you approach you divorce or custody matter.
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Today we’re covering a less-common topic: grandparents’ rights. Listen now to learn about grandparents’ visitation and custody rights in Arizona generally before covering what you need to know about visitation rights specifically.
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A.R.S. § 25-409. Third party rights - https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/25/00409.htm
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Setting and maintaining boundaries with your ex is a must at all times, and only more so during the holiday season. Tune in now to find out why boundaries are a must, which boundaries to consider, and how to successfully implement them.
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Considering a positive relationship with your ex can be anywhere from daunting to downright disaster. But finding a way to an amicable relationship is a must, especially if you share kids or maintain mutual business connections. Listen now to get the inside scoop on why this is so important for life and legal contexts, and learn valuable tips to succeed with this goal.
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As we approach the holiday season and new year, our focus shifts to the children affected by divorce or separation. Prioritizing their well-being during this time is crucial. Today's episode highlights the importance of this approach and explores effective ways to address children's needs throughout and beyond this transitional period.
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Ep. 23 - Talking to Your Kids About Divorce or Separation - https://mymm.substack...
As we wrap up Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we’re discussing another relevant and incredibly important topic—child abuse. In this episode, we’re examining what child abuse is under Arizona law and how it can impact your custody case. Listen now to learn all the need-to-know details!
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A.R.S. § 8-201. Definitions - https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=https://www.azleg.gov/ars/8/00201.htm
As we get further into Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I’m speaking on a very important on-theme topic: safety plans. What is a safety plan, who needs one, and how do you develop one? If you or a loved one is facing domestic violence, this is a must-listen episode!
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Ep. 7 - Legal Fundamental - Orders of Protection - https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-7-legal-fundamental-orders-of-c62
We’ve covered the basics of prenuptial agreements without going over how to discuss this sensitive, important topic with your partner in the first place! Tune in to finally learn how to chat prenups with grace and confidence so you and your fiancé(e) can soar into secure wedded bliss.
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Ep. 26 - Legal Fundamental - Prenuptial Agreement Basics - https://mymm.substack.com/p/ep-26-legal-fundamental-prenuptial...
While we’ve discussed generally that mediation is a confidential process, we haven’t explored the full impact of confidentiality in reaching agreements. In this episode, we’re chatting why confidentiality is such an important aspect of mediation and how it helps set you up for success.
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§12-2238. Mediation; privileged communications; exceptions; liability; definitions - https://www.azleg.gov/viewdocument/?docName=htt...
Although online mediations were taking place pre-pandemic, the pandemic ensured it was here to stay. And while it’s amazing that technology allowed us to pivot when the world was shut down, now that the world’s back in action, what are the true pros and cons of virtual mediation? Listen now to learn what to consider when exploring online versus in-person mediation.
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Facing the loss of your divorce or breakup is difficult no matter what. This is true regardless of which route you choose for divorce or custody proceedings or where in that process you are. Listen now to learn what the 5 stages of grief may look like during divorce and hear tips on coping with the end of your relationship.
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