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July 16, 2025 61 mins

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Empathy isn’t the problem—but lately, some voices claim that it is, arguing that empathy leads to irrational decisions or even “civilizational suicide.” If you’re someone who cares deeply, you probably reject the idea that empathy is a threat to society. In fact, you likely believe we need more empathy in the world, not less. Yet at the same time, you might find yourself struggling with empathy exhaustion and wondering how to stay engaged without burning out. This episode is to help you unpack how this flawed argument is connected to your exhaustion and how you can stay engaged in meaningful social change while caring for yourself as a compassionate person.

In this episode of Mindset Unlimited, I explore why empathy isn't the problem or the solution but a complex human capacity that we need to understand to avoid manipulation and prevent burnout.


Some of what I explore in this episode includes:

  • Unmasking the manipulation of empathy in political and media narratives
  • Breaking the cycle of empathy and self-erasure
  • Understanding compassion fatigue
  • Engaging practical tools for emotional resilience


EPISODES REFERENCED:

How to Avoid Overwhelm and Access Joy

How to Prioritize Your Needs (Beyond Maslow)

How to Navigate Societal Gaslighting and Stay Empowered 

 

LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE:

Darwin Misunderstood 

Interview with Sam Altman 

Suicidal Empathy critique 

Nazi Mind

Are Billionaires Good For Society? 

The People’s Media Project

From Compassion Fatigue to Resilience 

Hypernormalization  

Dr. Scott Lyons 

In Defense of Empathy

Why a Lack of Empathy Is the Root of All Evil

Social Change Now by Deepa Iyer

 

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