In this powerful and heartfelt conversation, dating expert Chaya Garcia shares her transformative journey from attracting toxic relationships to building a marriage grounded in wholeness, peace, and mutual growth.
Through her I LOVE ME MORE Challenge, Chaya helps women heal from emotional wounds, recognise red flags, and rediscover their self-worth — so they can attract love that feels safe, secure, and true.
Suppose you’ve ever felt stuck in repeating relationship patterns or unsure how to love from a place of confidence. In that case, this episode will guide you back to the most important relationship you’ll ever have: the one with yourself.
Key Topics
- Healing emotional patterns and past traumas
- How self-love attracts healthy relationships
- Recognising red flags and setting boundaries
- The role of the inner child in romantic choices
- Shifting from co-dependency to conscious love
- Daily rituals that nurture strong marriages
Powerful Takeaways
- Self-love is the foundation of every lasting relationship.
- Healing your inner child transforms how you love.
- Red flags appear when we ignore our intuition.
- True happiness starts within, not in your partner.
- Wholeness attracts wholeness — not neediness.
Memorable Quotes
“Pain is communication.”
“Love grows over time.”
“Don’t look for the right partner — become the right one.”
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Chaya and Her Mission
03:00 The Importance of Self-Discovery Before Dating
05:29 Taking Risks for Personal Growth
08:34 The Journey of Healing from Toxic Relationships
11:08 Understanding Pain and Its Role in Healing
13:59 Red Flags in Relationships and Self-Love
19:03 The Three Pillars of Self-Love: Forgiveness, Protection, Acceptance
25:50 Self-Love as a Foundation
28:16 The Role of Love in Marriage
32:28 Personal Responsibility for Happiness
37:04 Daily Rituals for a Strong Marriage
42:10 Choosing the Right Partner
Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/CU6AaQGVQlg
Connect with Chaya Garcia
🌐 www.ILoveMeMore.love
💗 Join the Challenge (May 27–29): www.epiclovechallenge.com
🎁 Free Dating Advice Videos & Downloads: www.marriedin2025.com
📞 Book a Call: www.booking.chayagarcia.com
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