Modern Anarchy

Modern Anarchy

Modern Anarchy is your weekly invitation to reclaim pleasure, sex, and desire as radical acts of liberation. Hosted by Queer Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist and Researcher, Dr. Nicole. Trained in psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy, she the leading academic voice on non-monogamy and embodied pleasure. Modern Anarchy explores intimacy, erotic sovereignty, and healing through raw conversations with pleasure activists, artists, therapists, and rebels from around the world. Are you ready to dive in? Learn more: www.modernanarchypodcast.com

Episodes

October 29, 2025 91 mins

On today’s episode, we have Darshana Avila (she/they) join us for a conversation all about erotic exploration. Together we talk about the connection between your eroticism and vitality, becoming a professional pussy stroker, and learning to receive pleasure.


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On today’s episode, we have Paul Keable (he/him) join us for a conversation all about non-monogamy and the future of modern relationships. Together we talk about the difficulty with defining infidelity, how women grow tired of monogamy faster than men, and liberating our desires.


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October 15, 2025 84 mins

On today’s episode, we have Aaron (he/him) join us for another relationship anarchy research conservation. Together we talk about the finitude of our humanness, nerding out on the concept of hierarchy, and stepping into the abundance of expansive relating.


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On today’s episode, we have Shai (he/him) join us for a conversation about expanding the capacity of our cultural imagination. Together we talk about the spectrum of non-monogamy, the Olympics of relationships, and how to support yourself and others through the expansion process.


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On today’s episode, we have Dr. Avgi Saketopoulou  join us for a conversation about pushing the boundaries of your erotic edge. Together we talk about connection between pleasure and pain, limit consent, and the gift of erotic astonishment


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On today’s episode, we have Dr. Jaime Grant (she/her) join us for a conversative about the lifelong practice of liberated love. Together we talk about the freedom of being disowned, reimagining exclusivity, and the pleasure of embodiment without shame.


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September 17, 2025 102 mins

On today’s episode, we have Lucy Halliday (she/they) join us or another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about the anarchy of motherhood, connecting with our old-fashioned roots, and relationship anarchy as a listening-practice.


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On today’s episode, we have Geoff Bathje Ph.D (he/him) join us for a conversation about embodying the values of Anarchy. Together we talk about bypassing vs integrating, practicing prefigurative politics, and writing thicker narratives.


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On today’s episode, we have Dr. Marie Thouin (she/her) join us for a conversation about creating fertile soil for compersion. Together we talk about the power of our narrative frames, choosing to turn towards connection, and emotionally touching your toes.


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On today’s episode, we have Moss Herberholz (he/they) join us for a conversation about the paradigm expansion of psychedelics and non-monogamy. Together we talk about learning from our jealousy, shattering the Madonna and the Whore complex, and pausing to integrate growth.


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August 20, 2025 92 mins

On today’s episode, we have Chrisalis (they/them) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about balancing the responsibility of our interconnectedness, the importance of friendship, and the power of presence.


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On today’s episode, we have Sally (they/she) join us for a conversation about the subconscious power structures that prevent us from embodying our pleasure. Together we talk about developing the language of pleasure, nerding out on the concept of hierarchy, and our collective need for connection.


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On today’s episode, we have Leola Watkins (she/her) join us for a conversation all about pleasure-based sex-ed. Together we talk about becoming turned on by life itself, the joy of being a feminist sub, and deconstructing the intimacy escalator.


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On today’s episode, we have Kristina Scott (she/her) join us for a conversation about the collective rebirth of our sexuality. Together we talk about coming home to yourself, trusting in the wisdom of tree time, and unpacking the severance from our pleasure.


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On today’s episode, we have Erin O'Daniel (all pronouns) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about queering the narrative, sensual ways to be in conflict, and rewriting our hierarchy of needs.


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On today’s episode, we have Lola Phoenix (they/she) join us for a conversation about unpacking and honoring the roots of jealousy. Together we talk about running on the hedonic treadmill, learning to gentle parent ourselves, and the vulnerability of expressing our desires.


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On today’s episode, we have Kate (she/her) join us for a conversation about embracing the interconnectedness of our pleasure. Together we talk about tuning into the wisdom of the body, the ego death psychedelic trip of non-monogamy, and the power of intentionality.


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On today’s episode, we have Prince Shakur (he/him) join us for a conversation about how the personal is the political. Together we talk about embracing the inevitability of change, deconstructing our unconscious conditioning, and the anarchy of sexual liberation.


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On today’s episode, we have Betty (she/her) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about releasing the scarcity narrative, the Olympics of porn, and the mythical unicorn that is relationship anarchy.


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On today’s episode, we have Lea (she/her) join us for a conversation about the liberation of desire and the future of relationships. Together we talk about how the Disney dream dies, the intensity of paradigm shock, and cheating on the narrative.


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