When Missionaries Get Angry (and What to Do About It) with Erik Troyer

Have you ever felt angry on the mission field—and then guilty for it? You’re not alone. From cultural clashes to team tension to the things that just shouldn’t be, anger surfaces—and it often comes with a side of shame.

In this deeply honest conversation, counselor Erik Troyer helps us reframe our understanding of anger, not as something to suppress, but as an invitation to draw nearer to God. Whether your anger is loud or silent, clear or confusing, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a path forward.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• Why anger is normal—even for missionaries—and how to stop shaming yourself for feeling it
• How to recognize what’s under the surface of your anger, like fear, unmet expectations, or pain
• What to do when you’ve already blown up—or shut down—in unhealthy ways
• How to create safe space for others’ anger as a leader, parent, or teammate
• The difference between righteous anger and resentment—and how to tell which one you're dealing with

Questions to Ponder as You Listen:

• What’s my typical response to anger—exploding, hiding, or something else?
• What am I really afraid of in the moments I feel most angry?
• Do I believe it’s safe to share my anger with God—or with someone else?
• Where do I need to ask for forgiveness—from God, from others, or from myself?
• What kind of support do I need to process the things that are still simmering beneath the surface?

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