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October 15, 2024 20 mins

In this Halloween-themed episode, Daniel and Garet dive into the season of spookiness and villains, exploring the idea of embracing your inner “villain” as a way of living authentically. With the season of costumes and haunted houses setting the tone, they ask: Why do we sometimes feel like villains for simply being ourselves? As they discuss everything from favorite Halloween characters to how villains in pop culture own their power, the conversation shifts to something deeper—how embracing confidence and setting boundaries can be perceived as “villainous” by others. They explore the balance between empathy and self-assurance, discussing their own experiences of when they’ve been perceived as villains for putting themselves first. Ultimately, this episode is about owning your choices and celebrating your authentic self, villain era and all!

 

Key Episode Highlights:

  • Halloween Vibes: Daniel and Garet reminisce about Halloween traditions and their favorite villains.
  • Villain Energy: A discussion on why being confident, assertive, and authentic can sometimes make you feel like a “villain” in others’ eyes.
  • Setting Boundaries: Insights into how people-pleasing and being overly empathetic can hold you back from living your truth.
  • Balancing Empathy and Self-Confidence: Garet shares his journey of learning to stop disarming others and instead embracing his own power.
  • Pop Culture Villains: From Maleficent to House of Villains, Daniel and Garet discuss why we love watching villains thrive and how that energy can inspire our real lives.

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