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August 6, 2024 28 mins

In this episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet delve into the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating, exploring new trends that are shaping how we connect and build relationships in 2024. They discuss the phenomenon of “beard fishing,” where profile pictures with misleading beard lengths cause confusion and disappointment in real-life encounters. The hosts also share insights on the rise of “soft starts” and “low-pressure dates” (LPDs), emphasizing the importance of a more measured and relaxed approach to dating. As they reflect on their own dating experiences and those of their friends, Daniel and Garet offer valuable advice for navigating the dating scene with authenticity and confidence. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode provides a thoughtful and entertaining look at the current trends in LGBTQ+ dating.

 

Key Highlights

  • Beard Fishing: Discover the new dating trend where misleading beard lengths in profile pictures cause real-life surprises.
  • Soft Starts: Learn about the trend of beginning relationships with low-key, non-committal interactions.
  • Low-Pressure Dates (LPDs): Understand the significance of casual, stress-free dating activities for building genuine connections.
  • Dating App Insights: Explore how platforms like Hinge are influencing LGBTQ+ dating with data-driven trends and practices.
  • Personal Stories: Hear Daniel and Garet's own experiences and reflections on navigating the modern dating world.

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