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September 24, 2024 16 mins

Dive into the curious world of “gooning,” a term that’s swept both the queer subculture and mainstream conversations. Daniel and Garet break down its roots as a kink-focused term used to describe a trance-like euphoric state, and discuss how it’s now become a playful way to express intense excitement. From pop icon obsession to reality TV indulgence, the hosts unpack why gooning isn’t just for sexual exploration anymore—it’s become part of everyday language, humor, and pop culture. What does it say about queer subcultures when their unique terms break into the mainstream? And should we be cautious about overusing and trivializing these identities, or is this just another step in the evolution of modern LGBTQ+ language? Tune in to find out, laugh, and maybe even discover your own goon face!

 

Key Highlights:

  • Gooning Origins: A deep dive into the history of “gooning” as a sexual practice within queer communities.
  • Pop Culture Crossovers: How gooning has evolved from a kinky term to a mainstream word embraced by pop culture.
  • Housewives and Pop Stars: The latest buzz from the world of pop icons like Tate McRae, Normani, and reality TV favorites.
  • Language Evolution: A discussion on how queer slang like “gagged,” “gooped,” and “gooning” enters everyday language.
  • Queer Subculture Insights: Exploring how niche sexual subcultures influence and shape larger societal trends.

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