February 19, 2025 • 38 mins
Did you know that your relationship with money is just like your relationship with people?
The way you earn, save, spend, and attract wealth is deeply connected to your money attachment style—a subconscious pattern shaped by your past experiences, family beliefs, and nervous system programming.
In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the four money attachment styles and how they impact your financial reality. Understanding your attachment style is the key to transforming your financial future.
💡 In this episode, you will learn:
✔️ What a money attachment style is and how it shapes your financial habits
✔️ The 4 main money attachment styles and how they show up in your life
✔️ Why money is an energetic relationship and not just numbers in your bank account
✔️ How your nervous system influences your ability to receive, hold, and grow wealth
✔️ Practical steps to heal your relationship with money and shift into financial confidence
✔️ How to rewire old beliefs and create a secure, abundant money identity
If you’ve ever felt anxious about money, avoidant of financial responsibilities, or stuck in feast-or-famine cycles, this episode will help you understand why—and, most importantly, how to change it.
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(00:08):
Welcome to the Money, Mindset, and Manicures podcast, the
ultimate guide to building a life you're obsessed with.
I'm Samantha Kazuch, and I'm here to empower women just like
you to script your dreams into reality and create the life
you've always dreamed of. Get ready to be inspired,
motivated, and empowered as we elevate our lives together.
(00:38):
Hello, hello gorgeous queen. Welcome back to another episode
of The Money Mindset, a manicures podcast.
Today we are diving into anothergame changing concept that might
just blow your mind, your money attachment style.
But first I just want to share with you the utmost bliss and
energy that I am in right now. We just completed our first
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cohort of the Money Queen Academy and I had 12 amazing,
incredible Queens in there whereover the last six weeks we have
shifted, we have reprogrammed, we have stepped into the power
of what it is to really be a money queen, where you learn how
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to attract abundance, step into confidence in business.
And the transformations that have occurred throughout the
last six weeks with these women have just been absolutely
incredible. I had women manifesting
unexpected cash into their life.I've had women launch
businesses. I've had women relaunch
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businesses that were kind of puton hold for a very, very long
time for multiple different reasons.
And the one thing that I noticed, just like towards the
end of the Money Queen Academy, and this is a reflection on, I'm
not just trying to toot my own horn here, but there is no
better feeling that when you come to the end of a program and
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the women inside the container are like, Oh my gosh, can we
continue on? Does this have to end?
Can we keep this going? How can we further work with
you? And that just goes to show the
energy and what they're learning.
And the container that I've created was just so powerful and
potent. So these women in my world are
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just expanding to new levels. And I have just been so freaking
grateful to be a part of their journey.
And of course, they'll be continuing on with me inside LTA
Academy. Not sure what the next program
will be as far as what the next graduating course from Money
Queen Academy is, that will cometo me over the next few weeks.
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But if you are looking to jump into in a container where you
can expand your money, where youcan learn how to step into this
new level of yourself to have the confidence whether it's to
launch your business or not. We did have a couple women in
there that did not have businesses, but just if you are
looking to expand with a container where I lead you
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through different practices, different tools and give you
support in a way that helps you step into that higher self, I
urge you to get on the wait listfor Money Queen Academy.
The next cohort will be in the early spring.
Get on the wait list. I'll be opening up the doors
here in about a month to start taking, I guess not even
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applications, but even just to start having conversations with
who is a good fit because wow, my mind is blown.
And on top of that, we had just ended the Manifest Your Dream
Life challenge. And basically we opened up the
doors to LTA Academy. Not that they were ever closed,
but always after a big challengethat I run, we always get a huge
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amount of women joining. I think we've had now to date at
least 30 to 40 new members that have joined LTA Academy over the
last week and I'm just so excited to continue pouring in
to that membership. It is something that is always
evolving. I was, I am always adding new
classes, new guided meditations,new nervous system regulation,
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guided videos. It is literally the program.
It's not even a program because it's not like it's step by step.
It is an Academy and library of videos where you can dive into
to consistently be working on yourself to expand your vessel
to attract in even more greatness.
So I highly recommend that if you are not an LTA Academy.
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It is my lowest ticket offer andit is something that is worth
literally thousands and thousands of dollars that I know
will change your life if you arein this place of I need the
support. I want to know what to do next.
What can I be working on? What can I be listening to?
Because at the end of the day, in order for us to shift into
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our next level, this higher selflevel, to be able to have the
capacity to hold and receive everything that we are
manifesting, it is a self development journey.
There are links in the show notes for both of those things.
I highly recommend you you go atleast check them out.
Send me Adm if you have any questions.
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But all I know is when you join you will not regret it.
And in fact when you do join, just by clicking the button to
enroll, it activates this new level in you.
You signal to the universe that yes I am freaking ready.
I am ready for my next level of expansion.
So check out the show notes for those links.
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But I'm even more excited about this money attachment style
recording that I'm going to do right now because this is one of
the topics that I dove into withthe ladies in Money Queen
Academy. I then posted about it a little
bit on Instagram and that's whenthe DM started flooding in.
And also girls were asking me inside the manuscripting
community like what is money attachment style?
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I've never heard about this and I thought it was something, you
know, everyone kind of knew about.
But I'm really excited to talk about this because just like we
develop attachment 1000 relationships, we also form
subconscious patterns with moneythat impact how we earn, how we
spend, how we save, how we attract wealth.
So once you understand this, youcan actually start making mega
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shifts that allow money to flow to you with more ease and
confidence. So let's dive in.
Are you tired of copying and pasting the same picture on your
vision board over and over and over again every time you make a
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new one and you're frustrated and you're wondering why the
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I want you to join me because I want to help you manifest the
success that you deserve this year.
I'll see you there. Let's dive in.
So I want you to think about this.
Money is not just paper, correct?
You know this, I've talked aboutthis before.
Money is an energy and that's how we have to treat it.
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It's not just numbers in your bank account or something that
you chase after. It is a relationship.
And like any relationship that is shaped by your beliefs,
emotions, and past experiences, some people have a secure and
loving relationship with money. Is this you?
Do you have a secure and loving relationship with money?
Or do you find yourself stuck ina cycle of fear, guilt, or
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avoidance with money? Now, these patterns that you
have aren't random. They are rooted in your
subconscious programming, and they're often formed from
childhood messages about money, what your parents have said
about money, what your family's financial habits have been, and
the experiences that have shapedyour sense of security.
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But here's the kicker with all of this, the way that you
interact with money is not aboutthe money itself.
It's about how your nervous system has been wired to
receive, hold, or reject abundance.
I want to break this down for you by looking at the four main
money attachment styles. Just like the attachment theory
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in relationships, we have 4 coremoney attachment styles.
And trust me, once you identify yours, everything is going to
start making sense. So the first one is, and as I
explain all of these, I want youto kind of just listen and think
about which one you are because this is key to figuring out
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which one you are. Because towards the end of this
podcast, I'm going to teach you like how to shift it and quote
UN quote fix it in a sense, not that you need fixing, but just
how to shift your patterns and your mindset around it.
So the first one is anxious attachment to money.
You're the over giver and the over worker.
So if you have an anxious attachment style, you might find
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yourself constantly worrying about money, feeling like
there's never enough money. Even when there is, you check
your bank account obsessively. You overwork to prove your worth
and feel guilty when spending money on yourself, even if it's
for stuff that you really need. Like I really need to spend
money on this food that I need to eat for rent, those types of
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things. And it's like being in a
relationship where you're alwaysquestioning it.
Will they leave me? Can I trust them?
Except in this case, the they ismoney.
So for example, I want you to think of someone, maybe this is
you, who is always hustling but still feels broke no matter how
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much you earn, and you might even self sabotage by under
charging for your services. Or maybe you're the type that
gives away free work because deep down you fear that money
will leave if you don't constantly work for it.
This is the classic clingy moneyrelationship.
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So the shift here, the key to healing this step is to step
into trust. Money is energy.
And when you release the grip and allow yourself to receive
without proving or overworking, money starts to flow more freely
and more on the shift a little bit later.
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And the second one is the avoidant attachment to money.
This is you if you're the ignorer and the runner.
So people with avoidant money attachments tend to distance
themselves from money matters. So you might be the type where
you don't even want to check your bank account, you
procrastinate over paying bills,or you feel overwhelmed by
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financial conversations and you just want to avoid them.
And this type of person who earns well but somehow always
ends up broke because they avoidmanaging their finances all
together. And your relationship with money
is like a commitment phobe who goes their partner when things
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get too serious. So let me give you an example of
this one. Maybe this is you if you or just
think of someone who earns a great income but has no idea
where their money goes. They avoid opening the bills,
they ignore their financial statements, and when financial
stress creeps in, they distract themselves with impulse
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spending. Or you just check out mentally.
And avoidance don't want to feelcontrolled by money, so they
push it away. Is this you?
And the shift for this is like aquick shift for avoidance.
The work is all about facing money with confidence instead of
running from financial reality. You can start small.
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You can start by checking your bank balance daily, setting
financial goals, and creating a safe structure to interact with
money in a non threatening way. More on this in just a bit.
I promise. I promise.
These are just small little shifts and #3 is the fearful
avoidant or the disorganized attachment?
This is you if you are the moneyroller coaster.
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So this one's a mix of both anxious and avoidant traits that
I just mentioned. Sometimes you're chasing money,
other times you're running from it.
And this may be you if you are the type of person who might
attract big money but then lose it just as fast.
So this is an inconsistent relationship.
It's like being in a toxic love affair where one day you're
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deeply in love and the next day you're fighting or ghosting each
other. So an example of this is this
might be you if you are someone who manifests money
unexpectedly, like big business deals or clients signing on, or
even like a lottery wins or surprise bonuses at your job,
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but then you just lose it just as quickly.
You might just have deep rooted fears about holding on to money
so it slips through your fingersjust as fast as it comes in.
And the shift here with this attachment style is that it just
needs stability. It's just about creating
consistent money habits that build financial safety and
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reinforcing the belief that wealth can be secure and
lasting. And now the 4th one.
This is the secure attachment tomoney.
So you are the money magnet. So this is the ideal attachment
style. This is the style that everyone
strives to get to when it comes to manifesting money.
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And just because the other three, I'm, I'm not saying those
are bad. I just wanted you to use those
as a reference to where you are currently at and where you want
to kind of strive to get to, to have this beautiful relationship
with money. And one of the things that some
of the women inside of Money Queen Academy when I was
teaching this to them is as we are going this, they were like,
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oh, I used to be the anxious attachment style.
And now I know I'm more of the avoidant, but I know I'm getting
close to the secure because I have some of the secure
tendencies using this, what I'm teaching you today as kind of
use it as a scale, use it as, Oh, this is where I'm at.
Or maybe you're look, you're hearing this and you're like, oh
wow, I definitely used to be anxious and now maybe you're
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just a little disorganized. But the great part about all of
this is as you get to learn moreabout yourself, you're able to
see, OK, well, this is the goal.This is what I'm striving to get
to, being the money magnet. This is the person who is
secure, who has a secure money relationship, that trusts money
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that it flows in and flows out freely.
They don't panic when they spend.
They invest wisely and they makefinancial decisions from a place
of power and not fear. And you see money as a
supportive energy, not as something to chase or fear
losing. So for example, think of someone
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who is financially stable. They're confident in their
ability to attract wealth, and they make empowered decisions
without emotional turmoil. Like they're confident, they
feel safe, they're secure, and they don't attach their self
worth to their bank account balance.
Instead, they view money as a tool that helps them create a
really beautiful life. So the shift here is, like I
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said, this is the level we all want to reach, where money feels
like a trusted partner in life, not a source of stress or
insecurity, right? The key here is to rewire
limiting beliefs and consistently acting from a place
of financial self worth. How do you transform your money
relationship? You could have heard one of
those examples and you're like, Yep, this is where I'm at.
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So right now I want to go through each of them and give
you deeper insight into how to shift it.
Because now that you know your money attachment style, let's
talk about how to shift into thehealthier, wealthier
relationship with money. Because here's the truth.
Your current money patterns are not permanent.
Just like people can heal their attachment styles and
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relationships. I'm sure you can think of
relationships maybe in your pastwhere you were like the crazy 1,
the clingy 1. You know all of those things,
right? And as you grow older, you're
like, Oh my God damn, I can't believe I used to act like that,
right? That's the same thing with
money. You can rewire your nervous
system to feel safe with money, allowing yourself to earn more,
to manifest more, to save more and attract financial abundance
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without fear or stress. Let's break down all of this by
attachment style. I'm going to give you real
actionable steps to start shifting this today.
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I'm going to give you real actionable steps to start
shifting this today. Coming back to #1 if you have
the anxious attachment to money,you're the over giver and the
over worker. If you constantly feel like
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money is slipping through your fingers or you're always doing
more to prove your worth, your work is learning to receive and
trust that money is on its way to you without overworking for
it. So here are your money healing
steps. I want you to start practicing
to receive without guilt and youneed to start small with this.
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This isn't like an overnight shift change.
You want to start small. For example, when someone offers
to buy you a coffee, accept it without saying Are you sure or
I'll get the next one right. Just receive.
Notice that when you deflect abundance in your daily life and
when you start allowing it in, when you can start comfortably
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allowing it in, this is the energy that you want to be in.
Second one is to stop proving your worth.
By overworking. So I want you to ask yourself
like if you have a business or selling a product, if you're a
coach, ask yourself am I over delivering and undercharging or
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saying yes to work? That drains me.
Start setting boundaries and charging what you are worth.
I know this is a really tough one when it comes to having your
own business, especially or evenif you're working a corporate
job, right? Your boss is constantly asking
you to do more, do more, do more.
And we don't have those boundaries set in place, right?
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That's when we're going to get drained.
That's where we're going to get burnt out.
Because I want you to start thinking about money as an
energy exchange, right? Or even your product or service.
It's all an energy exchange. So when you start putting in the
boundaries and when you start tolearn how to charge your worth,
I promise you, it's like a muscle.
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You're going to start feeling more confident.
And this is how more money is going to want to start flowing
into your life. And you can also do this by
creating financial stability ritual.
So instead of constantly worrying every single week, like
start a weekly money date where you review your finances with
gratitude. And this might be tough to do
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weekly, but even just once a month, get yourself in the
highest vibrational state. Do one of the guided meditations
for abundance. I have a lot of those in Lt.
Academy. Light a candle, put on some of
your favorite music and approachmoney and looking at you know
your finances, whether it's bills or you know your spending,
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approach your money from a spaceof empowerment instead of
stress. And the mantra that you can use
to shift your energy is I am worthy of wealth even when I
rest and money flows to me with ease, not struggle going into #2
Now if you have an avoidant attachment to money.
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So you're the ignorer and the runner if you avoid looking at
your bank account, procrastinateon paying bills, or feel
overwhelmed by financial planning.
Your work is to stop running from money and start facing it
with confidence. So here are your money healing
steps. First one is make money feel
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safe to look at. And just like the previous
attachment style, start by checking your bank account every
day, even if it's just for five seconds.
Now, even before you go into opening your bank account, I
want you to get yourself into a high vibrational state because I
know you may be the type that like really avoids, like even
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just seeing the icon on your phone for your bank account,
your Chase account, your Bank ofAmerica, Wells Fargo, whatever
it is, right? I know It's like, oh, are you
feeling avoidant with that, right?
Do you not want to open it because you're not feeling good
with money? But by doing this in a way where
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you get yourself to a high vibrational state and with
gratitude and coming to that, seeing your bank account balance
and being like, wow, I'm so freaking grateful for the money
that is in this account. I am so grateful for the money I
have spent because when you lookat your transactions, all of
those things are things that youwanted or needed to survive,
right? Whether it's rent, whether it's
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food, whether it's clothing, whether it's the coffee at the
coffee shop, right in that moment, that's what you wanted
and needed. And coming to look at your bank
account balance with gratitude is key because this is going to
help you rewire your nervous system to feel neutral rather
than triggered by money. And another thing that you can
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do, especially with your finances, is to automate them.
So if making financial decisionsoverwhelm you, simplify the
process. Set up automatic savings bill
payments. Like look at what you can do to
like, especially throughout thisprocess as you are shifting and
rewiring your nervous system. If you can put bills on auto pay
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and set up an automatic savings account where you don't even
have to open up your bank account to do the transaction,
put it on auto. And that way your money
management happens effortlessly.And that way it's one less time
during the month where you have to kind of get triggered by your
money. So as you're doing all these
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other things, what can you automate and simplify so that
you can feel good on a consistent basis?
And then with this, it's creating a positive money
association. So instead of seeing money as
something scary, start associating it with safety, with
freedom, while like Wow, even ifit's credit card debt, like all
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the things that you've spent on again, like it's something that
you wanted and needed and it made you feel secure and it made
you feel free and it made you feel happy.
So shifting your inner dialogue to when you see money or think
about it, like think about it asthis is a tool for my expansion
and it's not something you need to fear.
And the mantra to shift your energy here is I am in control
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of my financial reality. Looking at my money makes me
feel powerful. Remember, at the end of the day,
we need to take money off of this pedestal that our entire
society has put it on. I know that money plays a huge
role in our life, right? It's what our entire reality
revolves around, right? We need it to survive.
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We need it to function, we need it to be safe, we need it to be
fed, we need it to be clothed, we need it to enjoy life.
All those things, right? But if we continue to fear it,
how can you expect more of it tocome in and then the third one
coming back to the fearful? Avoid and disorganize attachment
to money, the money roller coaster.
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So if you have a love hate relationship with money, where
you attract the big wins, you attract the big abundance, but
then lose them just as quickly. Your work is creating financial
consistency and rewiring your belief that money is safe to
stay with you. Your money healing steps include
creating a money home to stabilize wealth.
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So people with this attachment often believe money is
unpredictable. Unconsciously, you're going to
be creating instability. Start by setting up a money
home. So this is what I mean.
And some bank accounts, I have one with Ally where you can
actually rename your bank accounts to be certain things
like maybe a savings account. And I don't like to ever call
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anything an emergency fund. I feel like you're just a you're
just manifesting emergencies to happen.
But put like you can rename someof your bank accounts to be like
saving for XY and Z or this is, you know, your expansion portal.
Make it something fun and label it as even it like financial
stability, something like that where you deposit money
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regularly, no matter how small, how big the amount is, but set
up something for your money where it feels good to look at
and feels good to call it like amoney home where it is growing.
Now you also want to break this Easter famine cycle, the highs
and lows, right? Like if you tend to go through
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these financial highs and lows, practice managing money in a
steadier way. So instead of spending all of
your windfalls at once, try to start dividing it into
categories. Like maybe there's some for fun,
there's some for savings, there's some for investments,
there's some for, you know, yourbills and all that sort of
stuff. But when it comes in, see how
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long you can kind of hold it Because I know, and this used to
be me as well, where, you know, when I would get a really big
paycheck for selling. This was back in the day when I
was like mobbing and acting and it was a kind of feast or famine
cycle because that was just the nature of my business.
You know, it's, I could reflect back and be like, whoa, I got
like, you know, a 5010 thousand $12,000 check for a job that I
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did. And then immediately I was like,
Oh my God, I can't wait to spendthis.
I can't wait to buy all these clothes, take these trips, do
all this. And then it was back to like
literally being in debt again because I wasn't even using that
money to pay off credit cards. I was just using it to feel
good. I had such a bad toxic
relationship with money. So maybe for you it's just
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learning to just hold it and then question what you're going
to spend it on. Like, do I really need this?
But see how long you can actually hold on to it.
Not as far as like fear of spending, but just get
comfortable with seeing that money in your bank account.
You know what I mean? Like just get comfortable
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withholding on to that money, just hold it.
And if you can, and I mentioned this inside of my Money Queen
Academy, is one good practice that you can do is when you
start receiving any sort of money.
I know we don't really use physical cash in this day and
age. You know, everything's so
digital and we don't really holdmoney, but a practice that you
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can even put into play is getting some cash out of the
bank ATM, whether it is $51.00 bills or, you know, $20 bills
and hundreds of dollars and justhold that cash in your hands.
I did this a couple years ago. Mark had come home with like 20
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or $30,000 in cash. We're getting, we're using it to
pay a deposit for something. And he like handed it to me and
I immediately got so emotional and crying like, I don't know it
like we were, we were in a very happy place.
Like I was nothing. It was nothing for me to be
upset about. And he just like handed it to me
and he was all like, this is $30,000 cash.
Look what it feels like to hold this because everything in our
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lives to this point was very much digital.
Like we've been, you know, making millions in our
businesses. There's lots of money flowing in
and out on a daily basis, but I never actually really held
physical cash in like a really, really long time.
And when this happened to me, I was all like, holy shit.
Like why am I getting so emotional?
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Like I literally, I was shocked at my body's reaction to holding
this cash. And from there, I started doing
some more deeper money work and I had some money kind of
limiting beliefs popping up and blocks that I didn't realize I
had because at that point in ourbusiness, our business was
growing at a very rapid rate andthe money was coming down at a
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very rapid rate. And I was in this new level of
expansion of myself to be able to hold and receive more and
more money. And it was a really eye opening
moment for me to be able to justliterally sit with this physical
cash. And it just showed stuff to me
that I didn't realize that I washarnessing internally and with
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my nervous system. I really recommend this practice
the next time you can even, I'm telling you, even if it's like
something that feels good, stretchy big for you, go take
some cash out of the bank ATM and hold it and see what comes
up for you. And another way to really just
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heal your trust issues with money.
Because at the end of the day, right, like if you've got this
disorganized attachment, it's having trust.
So if you feel like money alwaysleaves you, like if you feel, Oh
my gosh, I just admit, every time I make money or every time
money coming in an emergency happens, an accident happens, I
have to spend it on this or blah, blah, blah, you know,
right? So reframe it.
I want you to know money is not abandoning you.
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It is responding to how safe youfeel holding it.
So like I said, and you can do this with the physical cash,
start practicing holding larger sums of money physically in your
hands, seeing it in your accountwithout rushing to spend it.
The soil mantra to shift your energy here and you can write
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these mantras down too. I highly recommend it.
Money is safe with me. I am responsible with wealth.
I trust that money flows to me and stays with me.
And if you want to develop a secure attachment to money,
right, this is the goal to be that money magnet.
This is where you feel safe withmoney, you feel confident and
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you're in control of your financial future.
This is where wealth building and manifesting even more money
becomes effortless because you're operating from a place of
trust, not fear. So your money expansion steps
here are make money a joyful experience using all of the
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other tools and steps to secure money that I just mentioned.
For the other three attachment styles, it's all about creating
positive rituals around your finances.
Again, instead of dreading financial tasks, celebrate them.
Make your money day a luxury experience and use money in a
way that feels good and aligned.A money magnet knows that money
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is meant to circulate. It comes in and out, it flows.
It's a currency, it is like water.
Spend it in ways that feel expansive, not out of guilt or
obligation. So this is where you need to
start checking yourself, right? I know there's certain things
that we need to spend on and they might not feel good, but at
the end of the day, if that's like, Oh my gosh, I have to pay
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this $100 phone bill. Oh my gosh, the electric bill
again, Oh my gosh, my rent. You got to switch that to
gratitude because one, this is something that you wanted, you
need and a lot of cases, right? This, that you need this to feel
safety secure to live, right? So we got to switch this energy
and this mentality to gratitude,give when it feels joyful, save
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because it excites you, and invest with confidence,
especially when it's with yourself and develop this wealth
identity. Ask yourself, what would the
wealthiest, most secure version of me do today?
Literally, it's like it's the question, what would my higher
self do? What would the wealthiest, most
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secure version of me do today? And no matter what attachment
style you are like, this is a great identity to start adopting
and start embodying that mindsetin every single financial
decision that you make. The mantra to shift your energy
into this is I trust money. I am a magnet from financial
abundance. I feel safe, I feel powerful and
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at ease with wealth. Here's a big take away and I'm
sure you've had a bunch of aha moments with this episode, but I
want you to just know this. Your money attachment style is
just a reflection of your past programming, but it does not
define your financial future. You have the power to rewire
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your relationship with money andshift into abundance at any
time. The ultimate key here is, is
awareness. You need to have this awareness
which you now have, which comes from listening to podcast
episodes like this, reading the books, consuming different
continent media. That helps you bring this
awareness to yourself and your habits and taking consistent
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action. That is huge, right?
Like if we do not change anything today, we cannot expect
our reality to change tomorrow or in the future.
And making money, you just need to make money.
A relationship that feels safe, supportive and empowering.
Money is a relationship and you can heal it.
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So I challenge you, can I challenge you to start doing
something that you heard on thispodcast episode that you need to
do for your attachment style? You need to start shifting
today. So I want you to pick one small
action from this episode and commit to it.
And if you want to dive deeper, I highly, highly, highly, like
I'm telling you, I cannot recommend LTA Academy enough to
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join it. It is a low monthly membership
inside there. This is the tools that you can
get to rewire your money beliefsand step into your financial
freedom, along with manifesting and stepping into your power
with so many other areas of lifeas well.
And I want you to remember, money is not something to chase.
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It is something you attract by who you become.
So if you do not like your moneysituation right now, you need to
change who you are so you can start attracting it and
magnetizing it into your life. And I know you are capable of
becoming the wealthy, the most powerful version of yourself who
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magnetizes abundance effortlessly.
You are a wealthy queen. Say it with me.
I am a wealthy queen. Want to thank you for tuning
into today's episode. If this resonated with you,
share it with a friend. This is the information that
needs to get out there because the more that we can have
awareness around who we are, whydo we act the way that we do?
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Why do we think the way that we do?
Why do we behave with money? All of these things.
The more awareness that you haveis how we're able to not only
change our lives, change other people's lives, which then in
turn raises the entire consciousness of this planet.
And if there was anything that you had questions on or that you
just loved, send me a DM on social media.
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Send me a DM on Instagram. Let's keep this money
conversation going until next time.
You will hear me in the next episode.
But keep manifesting. Keep trusting.
Because you deserve to step intothe most ultimate wealth.
Because wealth is your birthright and money is meant to
flow to you effortlessly.
Welcome to the Money, Mindset, and Manicures podcast, the
ultimate guide to building a life you're obsessed with.
I'm Samantha Kazuch, and I'm here to empower women just like
you to script your dreams into reality and create the life
you've always dreamed of. Get ready to be inspired,
motivated, and empowered as we elevate our lives together.
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Hello, hello gorgeous queen. Welcome back to another episode
of The Money Mindset, a manicures podcast.
Today we are diving into anothergame changing concept that might
just blow your mind, your money attachment style.
But first I just want to share with you the utmost bliss and
energy that I am in right now. We just completed our first
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cohort of the Money Queen Academy and I had 12 amazing,
incredible Queens in there whereover the last six weeks we have
shifted, we have reprogrammed, we have stepped into the power
of what it is to really be a money queen, where you learn how
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to attract abundance, step into confidence in business.
And the transformations that have occurred throughout the
last six weeks with these women have just been absolutely
incredible. I had women manifesting
unexpected cash into their life.I've had women launch
businesses. I've had women relaunch
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businesses that were kind of puton hold for a very, very long
time for multiple different reasons.
And the one thing that I noticed, just like towards the
end of the Money Queen Academy, and this is a reflection on, I'm
not just trying to toot my own horn here, but there is no
better feeling that when you come to the end of a program and
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the women inside the container are like, Oh my gosh, can we
continue on? Does this have to end?
Can we keep this going? How can we further work with
you? And that just goes to show the
energy and what they're learning.
And the container that I've created was just so powerful and
potent. So these women in my world are
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just expanding to new levels. And I have just been so freaking
grateful to be a part of their journey.
And of course, they'll be continuing on with me inside LTA
Academy. Not sure what the next program
will be as far as what the next graduating course from Money
Queen Academy is, that will cometo me over the next few weeks.
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But if you are looking to jump into in a container where you
can expand your money, where youcan learn how to step into this
new level of yourself to have the confidence whether it's to
launch your business or not. We did have a couple women in
there that did not have businesses, but just if you are
looking to expand with a container where I lead you
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through different practices, different tools and give you
support in a way that helps you step into that higher self, I
urge you to get on the wait listfor Money Queen Academy.
The next cohort will be in the early spring.
Get on the wait list. I'll be opening up the doors
here in about a month to start taking, I guess not even
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applications, but even just to start having conversations with
who is a good fit because wow, my mind is blown.
And on top of that, we had just ended the Manifest Your Dream
Life challenge. And basically we opened up the
doors to LTA Academy. Not that they were ever closed,
but always after a big challengethat I run, we always get a huge
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amount of women joining. I think we've had now to date at
least 30 to 40 new members that have joined LTA Academy over the
last week and I'm just so excited to continue pouring in
to that membership. It is something that is always
evolving. I was, I am always adding new
classes, new guided meditations,new nervous system regulation,
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guided videos. It is literally the program.
It's not even a program because it's not like it's step by step.
It is an Academy and library of videos where you can dive into
to consistently be working on yourself to expand your vessel
to attract in even more greatness.
So I highly recommend that if you are not an LTA Academy.
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It is my lowest ticket offer andit is something that is worth
literally thousands and thousands of dollars that I know
will change your life if you arein this place of I need the
support. I want to know what to do next.
What can I be working on? What can I be listening to?
Because at the end of the day, in order for us to shift into
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our next level, this higher selflevel, to be able to have the
capacity to hold and receive everything that we are
manifesting, it is a self development journey.
There are links in the show notes for both of those things.
I highly recommend you you go atleast check them out.
Send me Adm if you have any questions.
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But all I know is when you join you will not regret it.
And in fact when you do join, just by clicking the button to
enroll, it activates this new level in you.
You signal to the universe that yes I am freaking ready.
I am ready for my next level of expansion.
So check out the show notes for those links.
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But I'm even more excited about this money attachment style
recording that I'm going to do right now because this is one of
the topics that I dove into withthe ladies in Money Queen
Academy. I then posted about it a little
bit on Instagram and that's whenthe DM started flooding in.
And also girls were asking me inside the manuscripting
community like what is money attachment style?
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I've never heard about this and I thought it was something, you
know, everyone kind of knew about.
But I'm really excited to talk about this because just like we
develop attachment 1000 relationships, we also form
subconscious patterns with moneythat impact how we earn, how we
spend, how we save, how we attract wealth.
So once you understand this, youcan actually start making mega
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shifts that allow money to flow to you with more ease and
confidence. So let's dive in.
Are you tired of copying and pasting the same picture on your
vision board over and over and over again every time you make a
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new one and you're frustrated and you're wondering why the
heck it hasn't manifested yet? Well, I want to introduce you to
the LTA Academy. This is the Academy that I
created. It's not just another program or
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It is packed with so many different videos, tutorials,
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members inside side over the last few months have used it to
attract and manifest thousands of dollars in their businesses,
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I want you to join me because I want to help you manifest the
success that you deserve this year.
I'll see you there. Let's dive in.
So I want you to think about this.
Money is not just paper, correct?
You know this, I've talked aboutthis before.
Money is an energy and that's how we have to treat it.
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It's not just numbers in your bank account or something that
you chase after. It is a relationship.
And like any relationship that is shaped by your beliefs,
emotions, and past experiences, some people have a secure and
loving relationship with money. Is this you?
Do you have a secure and loving relationship with money?
Or do you find yourself stuck ina cycle of fear, guilt, or
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avoidance with money? Now, these patterns that you
have aren't random. They are rooted in your
subconscious programming, and they're often formed from
childhood messages about money, what your parents have said
about money, what your family's financial habits have been, and
the experiences that have shapedyour sense of security.
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But here's the kicker with all of this, the way that you
interact with money is not aboutthe money itself.
It's about how your nervous system has been wired to
receive, hold, or reject abundance.
I want to break this down for you by looking at the four main
money attachment styles. Just like the attachment theory
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in relationships, we have 4 coremoney attachment styles.
And trust me, once you identify yours, everything is going to
start making sense. So the first one is, and as I
explain all of these, I want youto kind of just listen and think
about which one you are because this is key to figuring out
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which one you are. Because towards the end of this
podcast, I'm going to teach you like how to shift it and quote
UN quote fix it in a sense, not that you need fixing, but just
how to shift your patterns and your mindset around it.
So the first one is anxious attachment to money.
You're the over giver and the over worker.
So if you have an anxious attachment style, you might find
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yourself constantly worrying about money, feeling like
there's never enough money. Even when there is, you check
your bank account obsessively. You overwork to prove your worth
and feel guilty when spending money on yourself, even if it's
for stuff that you really need. Like I really need to spend
money on this food that I need to eat for rent, those types of
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things. And it's like being in a
relationship where you're alwaysquestioning it.
Will they leave me? Can I trust them?
Except in this case, the they ismoney.
So for example, I want you to think of someone, maybe this is
you, who is always hustling but still feels broke no matter how
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much you earn, and you might even self sabotage by under
charging for your services. Or maybe you're the type that
gives away free work because deep down you fear that money
will leave if you don't constantly work for it.
This is the classic clingy moneyrelationship.
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So the shift here, the key to healing this step is to step
into trust. Money is energy.
And when you release the grip and allow yourself to receive
without proving or overworking, money starts to flow more freely
and more on the shift a little bit later.
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And the second one is the avoidant attachment to money.
This is you if you're the ignorer and the runner.
So people with avoidant money attachments tend to distance
themselves from money matters. So you might be the type where
you don't even want to check your bank account, you
procrastinate over paying bills,or you feel overwhelmed by
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financial conversations and you just want to avoid them.
And this type of person who earns well but somehow always
ends up broke because they avoidmanaging their finances all
together. And your relationship with money
is like a commitment phobe who goes their partner when things
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get too serious. So let me give you an example of
this one. Maybe this is you if you or just
think of someone who earns a great income but has no idea
where their money goes. They avoid opening the bills,
they ignore their financial statements, and when financial
stress creeps in, they distract themselves with impulse
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spending. Or you just check out mentally.
And avoidance don't want to feelcontrolled by money, so they
push it away. Is this you?
And the shift for this is like aquick shift for avoidance.
The work is all about facing money with confidence instead of
running from financial reality. You can start small.
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You can start by checking your bank balance daily, setting
financial goals, and creating a safe structure to interact with
money in a non threatening way. More on this in just a bit.
I promise. I promise.
These are just small little shifts and #3 is the fearful
avoidant or the disorganized attachment?
This is you if you are the moneyroller coaster.
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So this one's a mix of both anxious and avoidant traits that
I just mentioned. Sometimes you're chasing money,
other times you're running from it.
And this may be you if you are the type of person who might
attract big money but then lose it just as fast.
So this is an inconsistent relationship.
It's like being in a toxic love affair where one day you're
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deeply in love and the next day you're fighting or ghosting each
other. So an example of this is this
might be you if you are someone who manifests money
unexpectedly, like big business deals or clients signing on, or
even like a lottery wins or surprise bonuses at your job,
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but then you just lose it just as quickly.
You might just have deep rooted fears about holding on to money
so it slips through your fingersjust as fast as it comes in.
And the shift here with this attachment style is that it just
needs stability. It's just about creating
consistent money habits that build financial safety and
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reinforcing the belief that wealth can be secure and
lasting. And now the 4th one.
This is the secure attachment tomoney.
So you are the money magnet. So this is the ideal attachment
style. This is the style that everyone
strives to get to when it comes to manifesting money.
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And just because the other three, I'm, I'm not saying those
are bad. I just wanted you to use those
as a reference to where you are currently at and where you want
to kind of strive to get to, to have this beautiful relationship
with money. And one of the things that some
of the women inside of Money Queen Academy when I was
teaching this to them is as we are going this, they were like,
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oh, I used to be the anxious attachment style.
And now I know I'm more of the avoidant, but I know I'm getting
close to the secure because I have some of the secure
tendencies using this, what I'm teaching you today as kind of
use it as a scale, use it as, Oh, this is where I'm at.
Or maybe you're look, you're hearing this and you're like, oh
wow, I definitely used to be anxious and now maybe you're
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just a little disorganized. But the great part about all of
this is as you get to learn moreabout yourself, you're able to
see, OK, well, this is the goal.This is what I'm striving to get
to, being the money magnet. This is the person who is
secure, who has a secure money relationship, that trusts money
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that it flows in and flows out freely.
They don't panic when they spend.
They invest wisely and they makefinancial decisions from a place
of power and not fear. And you see money as a
supportive energy, not as something to chase or fear
losing. So for example, think of someone
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who is financially stable. They're confident in their
ability to attract wealth, and they make empowered decisions
without emotional turmoil. Like they're confident, they
feel safe, they're secure, and they don't attach their self
worth to their bank account balance.
Instead, they view money as a tool that helps them create a
really beautiful life. So the shift here is, like I
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said, this is the level we all want to reach, where money feels
like a trusted partner in life, not a source of stress or
insecurity, right? The key here is to rewire
limiting beliefs and consistently acting from a place
of financial self worth. How do you transform your money
relationship? You could have heard one of
those examples and you're like, Yep, this is where I'm at.
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So right now I want to go through each of them and give
you deeper insight into how to shift it.
Because now that you know your money attachment style, let's
talk about how to shift into thehealthier, wealthier
relationship with money. Because here's the truth.
Your current money patterns are not permanent.
Just like people can heal their attachment styles and
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relationships. I'm sure you can think of
relationships maybe in your pastwhere you were like the crazy 1,
the clingy 1. You know all of those things,
right? And as you grow older, you're
like, Oh my God damn, I can't believe I used to act like that,
right? That's the same thing with
money. You can rewire your nervous
system to feel safe with money, allowing yourself to earn more,
to manifest more, to save more and attract financial abundance
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without fear or stress. Let's break down all of this by
attachment style. I'm going to give you real
actionable steps to start shifting this today.
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I'm going to give you real actionable steps to start
shifting this today. Coming back to #1 if you have
the anxious attachment to money,you're the over giver and the
over worker. If you constantly feel like
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money is slipping through your fingers or you're always doing
more to prove your worth, your work is learning to receive and
trust that money is on its way to you without overworking for
it. So here are your money healing
steps. I want you to start practicing
to receive without guilt and youneed to start small with this.
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This isn't like an overnight shift change.
You want to start small. For example, when someone offers
to buy you a coffee, accept it without saying Are you sure or
I'll get the next one right. Just receive.
Notice that when you deflect abundance in your daily life and
when you start allowing it in, when you can start comfortably
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allowing it in, this is the energy that you want to be in.
Second one is to stop proving your worth.
By overworking. So I want you to ask yourself
like if you have a business or selling a product, if you're a
coach, ask yourself am I over delivering and undercharging or
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saying yes to work? That drains me.
Start setting boundaries and charging what you are worth.
I know this is a really tough one when it comes to having your
own business, especially or evenif you're working a corporate
job, right? Your boss is constantly asking
you to do more, do more, do more.
And we don't have those boundaries set in place, right?
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That's when we're going to get drained.
That's where we're going to get burnt out.
Because I want you to start thinking about money as an
energy exchange, right? Or even your product or service.
It's all an energy exchange. So when you start putting in the
boundaries and when you start tolearn how to charge your worth,
I promise you, it's like a muscle.
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You're going to start feeling more confident.
And this is how more money is going to want to start flowing
into your life. And you can also do this by
creating financial stability ritual.
So instead of constantly worrying every single week, like
start a weekly money date where you review your finances with
gratitude. And this might be tough to do
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weekly, but even just once a month, get yourself in the
highest vibrational state. Do one of the guided meditations
for abundance. I have a lot of those in Lt.
Academy. Light a candle, put on some of
your favorite music and approachmoney and looking at you know
your finances, whether it's bills or you know your spending,
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approach your money from a spaceof empowerment instead of
stress. And the mantra that you can use
to shift your energy is I am worthy of wealth even when I
rest and money flows to me with ease, not struggle going into #2
Now if you have an avoidant attachment to money.
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So you're the ignorer and the runner if you avoid looking at
your bank account, procrastinateon paying bills, or feel
overwhelmed by financial planning.
Your work is to stop running from money and start facing it
with confidence. So here are your money healing
steps. First one is make money feel
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safe to look at. And just like the previous
attachment style, start by checking your bank account every
day, even if it's just for five seconds.
Now, even before you go into opening your bank account, I
want you to get yourself into a high vibrational state because I
know you may be the type that like really avoids, like even
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just seeing the icon on your phone for your bank account,
your Chase account, your Bank ofAmerica, Wells Fargo, whatever
it is, right? I know It's like, oh, are you
feeling avoidant with that, right?
Do you not want to open it because you're not feeling good
with money? But by doing this in a way where
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you get yourself to a high vibrational state and with
gratitude and coming to that, seeing your bank account balance
and being like, wow, I'm so freaking grateful for the money
that is in this account. I am so grateful for the money I
have spent because when you lookat your transactions, all of
those things are things that youwanted or needed to survive,
right? Whether it's rent, whether it's
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food, whether it's clothing, whether it's the coffee at the
coffee shop, right in that moment, that's what you wanted
and needed. And coming to look at your bank
account balance with gratitude is key because this is going to
help you rewire your nervous system to feel neutral rather
than triggered by money. And another thing that you can
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do, especially with your finances, is to automate them.
So if making financial decisionsoverwhelm you, simplify the
process. Set up automatic savings bill
payments. Like look at what you can do to
like, especially throughout thisprocess as you are shifting and
rewiring your nervous system. If you can put bills on auto pay
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and set up an automatic savings account where you don't even
have to open up your bank account to do the transaction,
put it on auto. And that way your money
management happens effortlessly.And that way it's one less time
during the month where you have to kind of get triggered by your
money. So as you're doing all these
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other things, what can you automate and simplify so that
you can feel good on a consistent basis?
And then with this, it's creating a positive money
association. So instead of seeing money as
something scary, start associating it with safety, with
freedom, while like Wow, even ifit's credit card debt, like all
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the things that you've spent on again, like it's something that
you wanted and needed and it made you feel secure and it made
you feel free and it made you feel happy.
So shifting your inner dialogue to when you see money or think
about it, like think about it asthis is a tool for my expansion
and it's not something you need to fear.
And the mantra to shift your energy here is I am in control
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of my financial reality. Looking at my money makes me
feel powerful. Remember, at the end of the day,
we need to take money off of this pedestal that our entire
society has put it on. I know that money plays a huge
role in our life, right? It's what our entire reality
revolves around, right? We need it to survive.
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We need it to function, we need it to be safe, we need it to be
fed, we need it to be clothed, we need it to enjoy life.
All those things, right? But if we continue to fear it,
how can you expect more of it tocome in and then the third one
coming back to the fearful? Avoid and disorganize attachment
to money, the money roller coaster.
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So if you have a love hate relationship with money, where
you attract the big wins, you attract the big abundance, but
then lose them just as quickly. Your work is creating financial
consistency and rewiring your belief that money is safe to
stay with you. Your money healing steps include
creating a money home to stabilize wealth.
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So people with this attachment often believe money is
unpredictable. Unconsciously, you're going to
be creating instability. Start by setting up a money
home. So this is what I mean.
And some bank accounts, I have one with Ally where you can
actually rename your bank accounts to be certain things
like maybe a savings account. And I don't like to ever call
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anything an emergency fund. I feel like you're just a you're
just manifesting emergencies to happen.
But put like you can rename someof your bank accounts to be like
saving for XY and Z or this is, you know, your expansion portal.
Make it something fun and label it as even it like financial
stability, something like that where you deposit money
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regularly, no matter how small, how big the amount is, but set
up something for your money where it feels good to look at
and feels good to call it like amoney home where it is growing.
Now you also want to break this Easter famine cycle, the highs
and lows, right? Like if you tend to go through
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these financial highs and lows, practice managing money in a
steadier way. So instead of spending all of
your windfalls at once, try to start dividing it into
categories. Like maybe there's some for fun,
there's some for savings, there's some for investments,
there's some for, you know, yourbills and all that sort of
stuff. But when it comes in, see how
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long you can kind of hold it Because I know, and this used to
be me as well, where, you know, when I would get a really big
paycheck for selling. This was back in the day when I
was like mobbing and acting and it was a kind of feast or famine
cycle because that was just the nature of my business.
You know, it's, I could reflect back and be like, whoa, I got
like, you know, a 5010 thousand $12,000 check for a job that I
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did. And then immediately I was like,
Oh my God, I can't wait to spendthis.
I can't wait to buy all these clothes, take these trips, do
all this. And then it was back to like
literally being in debt again because I wasn't even using that
money to pay off credit cards. I was just using it to feel
good. I had such a bad toxic
relationship with money. So maybe for you it's just
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learning to just hold it and then question what you're going
to spend it on. Like, do I really need this?
But see how long you can actually hold on to it.
Not as far as like fear of spending, but just get
comfortable with seeing that money in your bank account.
You know what I mean? Like just get comfortable
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withholding on to that money, just hold it.
And if you can, and I mentioned this inside of my Money Queen
Academy, is one good practice that you can do is when you
start receiving any sort of money.
I know we don't really use physical cash in this day and
age. You know, everything's so
digital and we don't really holdmoney, but a practice that you
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can even put into play is getting some cash out of the
bank ATM, whether it is $51.00 bills or, you know, $20 bills
and hundreds of dollars and justhold that cash in your hands.
I did this a couple years ago. Mark had come home with like 20
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or $30,000 in cash. We're getting, we're using it to
pay a deposit for something. And he like handed it to me and
I immediately got so emotional and crying like, I don't know it
like we were, we were in a very happy place.
Like I was nothing. It was nothing for me to be
upset about. And he just like handed it to me
and he was all like, this is $30,000 cash.
Look what it feels like to hold this because everything in our
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lives to this point was very much digital.
Like we've been, you know, making millions in our
businesses. There's lots of money flowing in
and out on a daily basis, but I never actually really held
physical cash in like a really, really long time.
And when this happened to me, I was all like, holy shit.
Like why am I getting so emotional?
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Like I literally, I was shocked at my body's reaction to holding
this cash. And from there, I started doing
some more deeper money work and I had some money kind of
limiting beliefs popping up and blocks that I didn't realize I
had because at that point in ourbusiness, our business was
growing at a very rapid rate andthe money was coming down at a
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very rapid rate. And I was in this new level of
expansion of myself to be able to hold and receive more and
more money. And it was a really eye opening
moment for me to be able to justliterally sit with this physical
cash. And it just showed stuff to me
that I didn't realize that I washarnessing internally and with
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my nervous system. I really recommend this practice
the next time you can even, I'm telling you, even if it's like
something that feels good, stretchy big for you, go take
some cash out of the bank ATM and hold it and see what comes
up for you. And another way to really just
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heal your trust issues with money.
Because at the end of the day, right, like if you've got this
disorganized attachment, it's having trust.
So if you feel like money alwaysleaves you, like if you feel, Oh
my gosh, I just admit, every time I make money or every time
money coming in an emergency happens, an accident happens, I
have to spend it on this or blah, blah, blah, you know,
right? So reframe it.
I want you to know money is not abandoning you.
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It is responding to how safe youfeel holding it.
So like I said, and you can do this with the physical cash,
start practicing holding larger sums of money physically in your
hands, seeing it in your accountwithout rushing to spend it.
The soil mantra to shift your energy here and you can write
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these mantras down too. I highly recommend it.
Money is safe with me. I am responsible with wealth.
I trust that money flows to me and stays with me.
And if you want to develop a secure attachment to money,
right, this is the goal to be that money magnet.
This is where you feel safe withmoney, you feel confident and
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you're in control of your financial future.
This is where wealth building and manifesting even more money
becomes effortless because you're operating from a place of
trust, not fear. So your money expansion steps
here are make money a joyful experience using all of the
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other tools and steps to secure money that I just mentioned.
For the other three attachment styles, it's all about creating
positive rituals around your finances.
Again, instead of dreading financial tasks, celebrate them.
Make your money day a luxury experience and use money in a
way that feels good and aligned.A money magnet knows that money
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is meant to circulate. It comes in and out, it flows.
It's a currency, it is like water.
Spend it in ways that feel expansive, not out of guilt or
obligation. So this is where you need to
start checking yourself, right? I know there's certain things
that we need to spend on and they might not feel good, but at
the end of the day, if that's like, Oh my gosh, I have to pay
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this $100 phone bill. Oh my gosh, the electric bill
again, Oh my gosh, my rent. You got to switch that to
gratitude because one, this is something that you wanted, you
need and a lot of cases, right? This, that you need this to feel
safety secure to live, right? So we got to switch this energy
and this mentality to gratitude,give when it feels joyful, save
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because it excites you, and invest with confidence,
especially when it's with yourself and develop this wealth
identity. Ask yourself, what would the
wealthiest, most secure version of me do today?
Literally, it's like it's the question, what would my higher
self do? What would the wealthiest, most
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secure version of me do today? And no matter what attachment
style you are like, this is a great identity to start adopting
and start embodying that mindsetin every single financial
decision that you make. The mantra to shift your energy
into this is I trust money. I am a magnet from financial
abundance. I feel safe, I feel powerful and
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at ease with wealth. Here's a big take away and I'm
sure you've had a bunch of aha moments with this episode, but I
want you to just know this. Your money attachment style is
just a reflection of your past programming, but it does not
define your financial future. You have the power to rewire
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your relationship with money andshift into abundance at any
time. The ultimate key here is, is
awareness. You need to have this awareness
which you now have, which comes from listening to podcast
episodes like this, reading the books, consuming different
continent media. That helps you bring this
awareness to yourself and your habits and taking consistent
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action. That is huge, right?
Like if we do not change anything today, we cannot expect
our reality to change tomorrow or in the future.
And making money, you just need to make money.
A relationship that feels safe, supportive and empowering.
Money is a relationship and you can heal it.
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So I challenge you, can I challenge you to start doing
something that you heard on thispodcast episode that you need to
do for your attachment style? You need to start shifting
today. So I want you to pick one small
action from this episode and commit to it.
And if you want to dive deeper, I highly, highly, highly, like
I'm telling you, I cannot recommend LTA Academy enough to
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join it. It is a low monthly membership
inside there. This is the tools that you can
get to rewire your money beliefsand step into your financial
freedom, along with manifesting and stepping into your power
with so many other areas of lifeas well.
And I want you to remember, money is not something to chase.
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It is something you attract by who you become.
So if you do not like your moneysituation right now, you need to
change who you are so you can start attracting it and
magnetizing it into your life. And I know you are capable of
becoming the wealthy, the most powerful version of yourself who
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magnetizes abundance effortlessly.
You are a wealthy queen. Say it with me.
I am a wealthy queen. Want to thank you for tuning
into today's episode. If this resonated with you,
share it with a friend. This is the information that
needs to get out there because the more that we can have
awareness around who we are, whydo we act the way that we do?
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Why do we think the way that we do?
Why do we behave with money? All of these things.
The more awareness that you haveis how we're able to not only
change our lives, change other people's lives, which then in
turn raises the entire consciousness of this planet.
And if there was anything that you had questions on or that you
just loved, send me a DM on social media.
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Send me a DM on Instagram. Let's keep this money
conversation going until next time.
You will hear me in the next episode.
But keep manifesting. Keep trusting.
Because you deserve to step intothe most ultimate wealth.
Because wealth is your birthright and money is meant to
flow to you effortlessly.
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