You know I don't gate-keep, so in this episode I’m spilling the exact rituals I did to manifest the love of my life... the man I’m now married to. 👰♀️💍
These aren’t your basic “write a list” love rituals either… we’re talking unhinged, energetically potent, and quantum AF.
In this episode, I share:
✨ The 4 most powerful rituals I did to call in my soulmate
🛏️ How rearranging your bedroom can actually rewire your subconscious and signal the Universe that you're ready for love
🌀 Why setting up a second toothbrush, coffee mug, or nightstand is more than just symbolic — it's energetic coding
📿 The 40-day love mantra ritual I committed to (with a crystal mala and zero black outfits)
💋 The power of red lipstick, red nails, and red lingerie (yes, there’s actual psychology and chakra magic behind it)
💦 And why orgasm manifestation might be the most powerful manifesting portal you’re not using yet…
These rituals changed my love life forever — and the best part? They’re fun, intentional, and totally within your control.
✨ Manifestation is a lifestyle, and when you become the woman who already has it all, the Universe has no choice but to deliver.
🎧 Tune in now if:
You’re single and so done with dating apps
You want to manifest your dream partner with intention (and maybe a little sass)
You’re ready to try some powerful rituals that actually work
🎁 P.S. I even have a guided meditation for manifesting love inside the ElevateHER App that walks you through the exact visualization technique I used... including the O-Manifestation Method 👀
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Welcome to the Money, Mindset, and Manicures podcast, the
ultimate guide to building a life you're obsessed with.
I'm Samantha Kazuch, and I'm here to empower women just like
you to script your dreams into reality and create the life
you've always dreamed of. Get ready to be inspired,
motivated, and empowered as we elevate our lives together.
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Hey babe, welcome back to another episode of the Money,
Mindset and Manicures podcast. I'm your host, Samantha Kazuch
and Oh my gosh, I am feeling allsorts of ways right now.
I'm excited about this episode. I'm nervous if you can hear it
and my voice, I feel like I'm like cringing inside.
I'm feeling low key uncomfortable and it's because I
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feel like I'm sharing these likedeep dark secrets on how I
manifested a boyfriend, which spoiler alert, he is now my
husband. So just FYI, as you are
listening to this episode and learning all of my unhinged
manifestation rituals, just knowI did all of this right before I
met Mark and before we became official.
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And like literally, I swear doing all of these things and
there's only four, there's 4 unhinged manifestation rituals
that I did and now he's my husband.
So take what you want from this episode, leave what you don't
align with, but you can't judge me too hard because it freaking
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worked. So let's dive into the episode.
So I'm going to be covering 4 unhinged manifestation rituals
and these are in no particular order.
You do not have to do all of them.
However, I did because honestly,I was low key like desperate at
this point. I was 3132 years old, I'd been
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single. I had never been married before.
It had been a really long time since I was in a serious
relationship. And I feel like even though my
last serious, serious long relationship was when I was like
in my early 20s and honestly that didn't fucking count.
I was like ready. Like, you know, as as we grow
older as women, it's like the time is ticking.
I'm like, shit, everyone else isgetting married, pregnant, all
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of that. And I'm still breaking single
with no prospects. So I dove into the manifestation
side of things and learned more about quantum and energetics and
frequency. And I really started putting
trust in the universe and trust in myself and I started doing
all of these things. So pretty much all of these.
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You can almost start doing any of these today.
For some of them, you will probably need to buy some items
unless you randomly already havethem.
This one specifically, the firstone I'm going to tell you about,
you could literally do immediately today when you get
home or if you are at home afteryou're done listening to the
episode, go ham. So the first one is creating
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space. So this method, it's not just
some cute Pinterest advice, it'shonestly based on one powerful
universal truth and that is you receive what you're an energetic
match for. So if you're calling in a
relationship and a lover and mind you, please only go through
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and do these rituals if you are serious about finding love.
OK, if you are seriously, seriously, seriously looking for
love, but when you're calling inyour lover, your physical
environment needs to reflect that you're ready, open, and
already living in the reality where this love and partnership
exists. First thing that I did was I
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created space in my home and that means going straight into
the bedroom. And I set up my bedroom so that
my bed was in the center of the room.
So if right now your bed is pushed up against a wall, I feel
like a lot of single people likeyou just push your bed up
against the wall. Or maybe you don't have much
space, so you do that so you have more freedom to walk
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around. But having your bed up against
the wall is energetically signaling to the universe that
there's only room for one personhere.
So I want you to just imagine, right?
Like when you are in a relationship or if you've never
been in one or had someone like sleepover or stay the night or
whatever. But just think about it.
You get in and out on your side of the bed and then they get in
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on their side of the bed. So if you have your bed up
against the wall, you're literally blocking them from
coming in. So the first thing you want to
do is shift your bed so it's notagainst the wall so they can
also come in and out of the bed.The next thing you want to do is
now that your bed is moved to the center of the room or away
from the wall, you want to set it up with bedside tables on
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each side. Now you don't need to go out on
a shopping spree and remodel your whole room, but just
something that like signifies A bedside table or a little shelf
on both sides. Yours is 1, then his and hers is
on the other side, but in his and her side.
You need to empty it out and keep it empty so that
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intentionally shows the universeyou have space for them to come
in. That is space for their things
and their stuff. So do that.
And then the third thing you want to do in the bedroom is in
your closet. You could do this in the closet
or maybe even a dresser is allocate and intentionally
dedicate some space for their things.
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Now you don't need to clean out half of your closet, so half of
it is theirs. No, just like a little section
that is empty and clear, whetherit's a little space on the rod
or maybe a couple shelves or something like just keep it
empty. Just keep it empty.
And that is your intentional space for their things.
So all of this is just really signaling that there is space
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for love in your life that you are ready to receive and you're
aligning your actions with your desire, which is the key to
manifestation. And this all shifts you from I
want a relationship to I expect a relationship.
I demand and command a relationship.
It is safe to have a relationship.
This relationship is happening and I'm prepared for it.
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And then with moving all of these things around, this is
kind of like the Feng shui energy of it all.
You're literally just creating space.
You're decluttering as well. So just having that space for
energy to move around is also really, really powerful because
at the end of the day, your subconscious believes what you
do. So your subconscious mind
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doesn't respond to affirmations that you're going to say of how
much like, oh, I love my partnerand I'm in a relationship and
all that. It's going to respond faster to
what it can actually see and what there's proof of.
So if you can physically see in your reality, Oh yeah, there's
room for so and so, like, give him a name or her name and, you
know, do that. But when it can actually see, it
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makes it so much easier for thatreality to actually start
existing. And you're training your
subconscious mind to believe I'mnot single, I'm in a
relationship, there's someone else in my life.
And this literally rewires your identity to match the version of
you who already has love. And once that new identity is
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anchored in manifestation speedsup like crazy.
And then just one thing about the Feng shui of all of this, if
you haven't really figured it out yet, but the bed, if it's
pushed up against the wall, onlyone person has access equals
single energy. A cluttered closet means no room
for anyone else. That's energetic crowding.
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And then one night stand, right?This is why I say get to or get
something else to balance out each side.
There's no balance and there's no harmony for two people.
So by intentionally rearranging and clearing your space, you're
unblocking the energy flow of love.
And you're saying I'm not just wishing for them.
You've already made room and that's magnetic as fuck.
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And you can do this, obviously, in all other aspects of your
life. I feel like I've talked about
this on on the podcast when it comes to business and money and
decluttering your house and all of that.
But when you're doing this intentionally for love, Oh my
gosh, watch out, girl. Like, watch out.
He's got to pop it. He's got to come in because this
entire practice is a form of embodied surrender.
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We talk about embodiment a lot here.
You are literally embodying thisversion of you that is in a
relationship and you're surrendering because you're
you're basically saying it's already done.
I'm commanding it to happen. You're not begging, you're not
chasing, you're not forcing. You are preparing, you are
trusting, and you're anchoring into this certainty.
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It's like setting the table before your guests arrive for
dinner, right? You're not wondering if they'll
come, you're preparing because you know they're on their way.
See how that works? Like once you start shifting
this perspective and how you show up and act in your life, it
gets to be fun and easy and it'sless stressful.
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You're not worried about anyone because you know it's already
done. So aligning your energy with a
version of you who's already in love is key.
Signaling to your subconscious in the physical reality that you
are in a partnership like this is your new identity.
And now by doing these things inthe physical reality, you've
opened up your energetic field so the universe can deliver what
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they're ready for. It's love manifestation.
Screw this physical embodiment is what creates the magic.
So make sure you go do this one.I feel like everybody could go
do this immediately if you're willing to call it in.
OK, so the next ritual that I did, I consider this the love
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ritual. I feel like they're all love
rituals, but this is like the specifically the love ritual,
and I'm calling it this because if you have the manuscripting
journal, which is the life design journal and ritual
guidebook. This one I actually printed into
the manuscripting journal because I was like, this is such
a good anchor love ritual to foreverybody to know and
understand. So if you already have the
manuscripting journal that has the guidebook part in it, this
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is the love ritual that is in the journal.
If you don't have it, I highly recommend you go order a
manuscripting journal right now.So you have this all printed out
because there are a lot of stepsto this one.
But if you don't just listen along and you could probably do
this just by listening to this episode as well.
This ritual includes and, or what you need for this one is
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you need a crystal mala necklace.
So this ratio is so crazy because six years ago for my
birthday, one of my best girlfriends gifted me one of my
first crystal mala necklaces andshe had actually handmade it for
me. She was thinking about starting
a crystal shop business and everything she did end up going
through with it. But this was one of the first
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crystal mala necklaces that she made me and she made it for
love. So I had like green adventuring
and rose quartz and clear quartz.
And I still have this mala necklace.
So I looked it up. I was like, what do I use this
necklace for? Like what is this all about?
And I learned that this crystal mala necklace is basically like,
if you're familiar with like religion and like the Rosemary
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chain necklace, right? For like Catholics and stuff
like that. So it's very similar to that.
So basically by saying a certainmantra for 40 days and not only
40 days, a crystal mala necklacehas 108 crystal beads on it.
So what you do is you sit down and say this mantra on every
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single crystal beads. So 108 times for 40 days, but
you have to do this 40 days in arow.
Otherwise if you miss a day, youhave to start over again for it
to quote UN quote work. So I did that.
So I found this love mantra for attracting a man and there's
also one for attracting a woman.But this is in Vedic, an ancient
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Vedic. So it's like this saying, and
I'm, I'm going to try and pronounce it.
I remember when I did this six years ago, I actually YouTube
how to say the pronunciations, right?
So if you're a listening and you're like, Oh my gosh, Sam,
this is so wrong. Don't mind me, I just haven't
said this in a really, really long time, obviously.
But the mantra for attracting a man in ancient Vedic is SAT
Pat's team Daihi Pahram Aishwakhra.
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So that's one for attracting a man.
And then there's one also for attracting a woman, which is Om
shreem shriye Nah aha. I'm pretty sure I got close on
both of those. Actually, it like came back to
me, but these are printed in theguidebook.
This whole step by step process along with the saying and how to
pronounce it, all of that is in the ritual guidebook.
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So I started doing that immediately because remember,
I'm like Loki Desperado over here.
Also, I understand the desperateenergy, like we can't be
desperate. But also once I started these, I
let go. That's the thing, I surrendered
and let go because I just started doing these things and I
was trusting the process. So I started doing this mantra
every single night, didn't miss a day.
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And by the end of June, that is when I went out with a bunch of
friends and I knew, I knew of Mark, but he wasn't a love
interest. And if you heard my story about
Mark and our relationship, we knew each other.
He had never hit on me. He had never done anything to
signal anything that he was interested in me.
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Like truly, he was in the business box.
He was in the friend zone for business box.
Like never, ever, ever had he even inclined that he had liked
me. Anyways, we had gone out at the
end of June and that was the day.
And this was like pretty much like just after the 40 day
period where he made his move onme.
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He put his hand on my lap, we started making out and we
literally had been together eversince.
Literally not a like we were inseparable ever since we had we
didn't even have to go through the are you seeing anyone else
conversation like literally we just like that was from that day
on. We have been together ever
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since. So I thought that's crazy,
that's weird, That's strange that this worked.
So that is a really, really cool1.
And I was getting some questionsactually because I did share
this one already on TikTok and Ihad people ask me like where to
get a crystal model of necklace.I obviously had my maid and
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unfortunately my best girlfriendnever started the shop.
So I can't recommend obviously her or her items, but I do
always see them in crystal metaphysical stores like crystal
shops. You can obviously buy it on
Amazon too, but let me know maybe it's an item that I should
put in the manuscripting journalshop because there are so many
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different ones. Basically what I do recommend is
that you get a crystal mala necklace with crystals that
represent love, that help you manifest love.
And then also you can do mantrason these crystal mala necklaces
for anything else as well. You can do it for money, you can
do it for health, you could do it for literally anything.
And my only suggestion is depending on what you're
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manifesting, try to get a crystal mala necklace with the
crystals that help you amplify those intentions.
But highly, highly recommend this one.
This one does consider of coursemore dedication because it is 40
days and if you don't do it, yougot to start over.
But that's all the fun and just really surrendering and aligning
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and putting yourself in the vibration of manifesting your
partner. Interrupting this episode for
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episode. OK, This is the one where it
gets kind of, I don't know, maybe because of the topic it's
going to include and talk about which I feel, I don't know, I
feel a certain way always talking about this out loud, but
here we go. The next one is using a guided
meditation for visualization along with afterwards the O
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manifesting technique. And if you don't know what the O
manifesting technique it is the orgasm manifesting technique.
If you have not tried this, I highly encourage you to try it
and if you think it's weird or just like uncomfortable,
honestly just try it because I truly believe if you are
uncomfortable with doing this with your own body, how do you
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expect anyone else to get you there?
Like I always have that belief about this.
So I just think it's always justfun to experiment, even though
things can be a little weird andintimate with yourself.
But at the same time, I think this is so empowering to do.
So it's like don't knock it tillyou try it and you know, the
next time you're feeling a certain way, like try it out.
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But basically what I did for this is I started off with first
doing a guided meditation. And this story as well is just
so freaking crazy. I started doing guided
meditations for love and if you need a guided meditation for
manifesting love, I highly, highly recommend the guided
meditations for Love inside the Elevate Her app.
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If you don't have the app yet, what are you doing?
You are sleeping on something that's going to help you just
amplify your vibration. It's going to help you get into
your own personal power and helpyou manifest so much into your
life because it helps you rewireyour neural pathways in the
brain. So please, if anything else
after this episode, go download that app and start pressing play
on it every single day. The meditation inside the app is
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called Manifesting Love in a significant other.
Highly recommend it. So the first thing that I did
was I just started listening to this guided meditation every
day. And also when it comes to
visualization, right, you are going to visualize something.
So I don't know how I conjured this up in my brain.
I swear I always tell you guys, I always believe in like
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downloads that I get right? These random downloads that just
fucking stick. And this download that I got of
this visual in my brain was a image.
Like, right, an image. It's me, my husband, boyfriend,
whatever male figure, and a golden retriever.
And it's me on one side, the manon the other, the dogs in the
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middle. But you only see the backs of
our head. And we're standing on this
balcony that is overlooking the ocean.
And for some reason, every single time I would do this
meditation, that was what came in.
Like, I've never had this experience before with a man.
Like, I don't know why this keptcoming in, but keep listening
because you will know why in just a second.
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But it just kept coming in. And I'm like, this is so random.
OK, whatever, just keep going with it.
So I would do this meditation every single day and I would
have that visualization. OK, cool.
And then maybe like I don't know, maybe it was like once a
week, maybe once every couple weeks, maybe I don't know, I
don't know how long I was doing this for or like, I mean, not
how long, how often I was doing this.
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It wasn't like it was every day.I was not self pleasuring myself
every single day. But you know, when the mood
strike or when, when I like kindof thought about it, I would do
this. So what you would do is you
would orgasm. In order to create a heightened
energetic frequency. And when you orgasm, you are
visualizing that thing that you desire.
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So for me, I would visualize theman, the dog, me on this balcony
overlooking the ocean because that's what was always coming to
me in the sky to meditation. And it was so strong coming
through. I was like, OK, let it, let's
just manifest that. That looks amazing.
That's probably his house or ourhouse or something like that in
my future. I love it, let's do it.
Why orgasm manifestation works is because at the moment of your
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orgasm, your body is in a heightened energetic frequency.
Basically, just think of it as like a supercharged spiritual
antenna and your brain releases this cocktail of dopamine and
oxytocin and endorphins, right? Those are the pleasure and
bonding chemicals, right? I'm pretty sure everybody that's
listening to this episode, you have probably had this
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experience at least once. OK, so your heart opens, your
subconscious mind becomes more highly receptive, and your
energy field expands. This is such a big reason why I
now I'm a true believer and I wish I understood this when I
was younger, but no one ever explained it to me in this way.
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This is why it is so. You should be so protective of
your fucking pussy. Like, I'm not joking.
Do not just go have sex with anyone.
I wish I was more protective of it and I wish I didn't share it
with as many people as I did. I mean, not like I slept with a
fucking million people or anything like that.
But like, you know, those like couple people that you date and
you're like, yeah, I could have done without having sex with
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you. Yeah, definitely have some of
those. But if I knew this back then, I
probably wouldn't have either done that with them.
Like I just wouldn't have. I just because the power of our
vaginas and orgasm, like it's just crazy.
But you just get so intertwined with the other person's energy.
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And this goes so much further deeper, which I'll probably
cover in another episode becauseit's really interesting.
But basically through doing this, this is the exact moment,
like when you're orgasm, this isthe exact moment your thoughts,
your visualizations and intentions carry the most power
and they are launched into the quantum fields.
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Basically like think of it as like they're launched into the
quantum field with rocket fuel. So it's literally one of the
fastest ways to shift out of lack, fear and resistance and
into this pure magnetic receiving mode.
And another thing that happens when your orgasm is it activates
your sacral chakra. And the sacral chakra is the
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center of pleasure, creativity, emotional flow, manifestation,
feminine magnetism. So when you activate it through
conscious pleasure, you're literally tapping into that same
creative life force energy that brings things into the physical
world, whether it's a baby, right?
Like just think about it as women, right?
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By having that, we can make and have a baby manifest a business,
soulmate, love, like orgasm is creation energy.
So when you're able to direct itand be intentional with it, it
becomes manifestation energy. And when you climax, that veil
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between your conscious and subconscious mind becomes
thinner. Your subconscious is wide open
if you're thinking about your desires during this time.
So basically as you peek, like you want to just visualize that
thing, like visualizing your dream partner, right?
Like we're talking here about love.
So let's think about your love, your relationship.
Those intentions bypass your usual resistance and drop
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straight into the subconscious, which if you've been here a
minute, your subconscious is responsible for 95% of your
reality creating behavior. So imagine you can bypass that
straight into the consciousness.So you're literally
reprogramming yourself while you're in the most aligned and
receptive state. And when you are doing this
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right when you're orgasm, you'rein a natural state of surrender.
Manifestation isn't about tryingharder, it's all about letting
go and trusting that it's already yours.
So orgasm puts you in this natural state of letting go of
control. You're being fully present in
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your body. You're releasing that resistance
you're open to receiving, right?Like, just think about it.
You have to be fully all of those things in order to get
there, right? We can't be thinking about
something else. We can't be worrying about
anything. We can't be stressed about
anything. We have to be so fully fucking
present in our bodies, feeling safe, feeling open.
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And this is exactly the energy that allows your manifestations
to drop in with ease. How to do this is I highly
recommend do one of those guidedmeditations, right?
And of course, you want to kind of set the intention that you're
kind of like in the mood, right?Like you know, but set your
intention with manifesting this relationship, this partner.
What are you visualizing? And then visualize as you self
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pleasure, focus on the feelings and images of already having
that desire, of that thing that you want in this relationship,
that man, that woman, whatever that is.
And then at that peak of orgasm,let this vision explode within
you. See it, feel it, speak it if you
want. And then that afterglow state,
you know, the afterglimax state,ask in that energy of it's
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already done and just relax and let it settle into your cells,
right? Just like we all know that
feeling the afterwards, like, Ohmy gosh, OK, I could like take a
nap now. I'm so relaxed, right?
Let it be, let it sink in. Don't rush up and go do
something just like be there, allow it, let it go.
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This orgasm manifestation, it does really work.
Even though it's like weird to kind of like talk about you're
in that high frequency magnetic state.
Your subconscious is open and programmable, and then you
activate your creative life force energy and you embody
pleasure, presence and surrender.
This is the ultimate receiving mode.
So this is not just woo this is literally quantum and how I want
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to tie this all back to how thisplayed out in my life is OK.
Remember how I was telling you about this downloaded visual
that I had that I'm like where did this come from but OK, I'm
going with it of me and my man and this golden retriever dog
standing on this on this balconythat's overlooking the ocean.
Get this, When I went to Mark's house for the first time and I
had no idea where he lives. Obviously I lived in Santa
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Monica, CA at the time and he helived in Marina Del Rey.
I had never been to the Marina Del Rey area at all.
I honestly didn't even know anyone that lived there nor had
I even walked around in that area.
Like I had no idea really. Like I knew that it existed, but
I didn't know that it existed. So I go over to his house and I
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didn't realize this for a few months after dating when I saw
it with my own eyes when I walked into the living room and
he was standing outside on the balcony like, you know, arms
leaning over crossed and leaningover the balcony.
And at this point, we already had Milo, which is our golden
retriever. And he was, Milo was sitting
next to him looking out his balcony overlooks the ocean.
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And there he was. He's standing there.
Milo's like right next to him, which left me a room on the
other side of there. And that's when it hit me.
I'm like, holy fucking shit. This is the visualization that I
was having for months. And this is literally my fucking
reality right now. Because then ultimately I moved
in with him into that place. So I was just so freaking mind
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blown. And This is why I always say
your desires, these downloads, these visuals that you have are
not freaking random. They're not random, especially
when you keep getting the same one over and over and over
again. Pay attention because you never
know when that's going to pop into reality.
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But I swear from so many personal experiences, I've had
this happen, and I have one that's been happening lately,
which I am just like at the edgeof my seat waiting for this to
manifest into my reality of thisother visualization that I have,
which I hopefully get to share soon on on an episode.
I take these guided visualizations so seriously when
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they just drop in and they just stick in your head and you're
like, what is this? Why does this keep popping up?
It's for a reason. So pay attention to what you're
seeing because you never know. That's going to probably end up
in your reality at some point. So that's a really fun one to do
too. OK babe, I know we're deep in
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OK, go do that. After you're done listening,
let's get back to the show. Last but not least, this one was
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probably one of the quote UN quote hardest ones for me to do.
I stopped wearing black. I know I love wearing black.
I feel so sexy in black. I could wear like literally
that's like my that was that still is to this day, my color
palette. I love wearing it, but if you
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want to go through and do the crystal Mala ritual for 40 days,
I highly urge you to pair this manifestation with that as
you're doing that for 40 days and stop wearing black, black,
anything. This includes black tops, black
pants, black dresses. Do not wear black, especially on
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your chest, because that is the heart chakra, that is the sacral
chakra. So do not cover your body with
black, at least in the top half.Why is this powerful and why is
this important? That's because color holds
vibration. Colors aren't just aesthetic,
they each carry a frequency. And in manifestation, when we
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align our energy with the frequency of what we want, it is
so, so powerful. So if you're trying to manifest
love, love energy is what worn. It's open, it's magnetic, it's
heart centered. But black, the color and its
energy, is known as the color ofprotection, absorption, and
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boundaries. It can also absorb energy but
not always emit it. So it is often worn to shield or
create a sense of separation, which is why it's so popular in
grief and spiritual protection or even a different fashion.
Statements that say like, oh, don't mess with me.
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Like, you know, like wearing black.
I love wearing black because I feel very powerful in black,
right? But it creates a sense of
separation, like, right, you wear black, you wear the hot
dress. Like you were that girl, you
were that boss bitch, that queen, right?
Carries a different energy. So if you're trying to attract
love, wearing black could just symbolically and energetically
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be saying to like those around you, I'm protecting myself.
I'm closed off or even I'm not available.
What you want to start doing is wearing more pinks, Reds,
whites, pastels, colors that aretraditionally associated with
the heart chakra, self love, romance and this high vibration
because these colors are inviting and they signal I'm
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safe to approach. My heart is open.
I'm in my feminine loving energy.
And I know, yeah, like what guy is going to be like, Oh yeah,
she's wearing pink, she's wearing white.
She's going to be so open. Remember, this isn't about what
they know. It's about your energy with what
you are wearing. Why?
What energy are you exuding? So wearing these colors that
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energetically aligned with love helps your subconscious, your
aura, and your body language also send that same cohesive
signal. Love, I'm ready for you.
That's basically what you're sending out.
Everything that you do, from thewords that you speak to the
clothes that you wear, to the environment you create, you're
constantly sending a message to your subconscious mind, to the
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universe. And if you're saying you want
love, but you're addressing in away that vibrates like, you know
the boss bitch that doesn't wantanyone to speak to her because
she's up here, right? Like just think about what
you're putting out there. So just having this ritual in
mind really helps eliminate thatenergetic confusion.
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And then one thing I do want to say, because I'm sure you've
heard about like from the Matrix, like the woman in the
red dress or the red dress and why red is so irresistible and
powerful. And I challenge you to do this
experiment is I know when it comes to wearing red, a lot of
us, you know, we're kind of scared to wear it because, yeah,
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it's creates a lot of attention,right?
Like when you see that Lady in the red dress like, oh, girl,
she's hot, right? Like it is a very irresistible,
seductive, energetic, almost like look at me color, even
though that's like not what you're trying to say.
Like look at me. But it energetically just shows
that and vibrates that. But in research psychology, it
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has repeatedly shown that men perceive women wearing red as
more attractive, more sexually desirable and confident, and
that red is linked to passion, confidence, sex appeal, and
feminine power. My experiment for you is is
maybe at least once a week, put on that red shirt.
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Put on that red dress. If you're going out on the town,
wear something red. And I want you to see how people
start acting towards you, how they treat you.
Do they, you know, start coming up to you a little bit more?
Are they more friendly to you? Because it really does grab that
attention. It's the color of stop signs,
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right? It's stop signs.
It's danger, but it's desire allat once.
So subconsciously it also signals fertility, availability
and high energy. And some researchers that I read
on think that it's also linked to biological cues like flush
cheeks during arousal. So This is why wearing red, it
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activates something primal. And if you were seeking a man,
right, we all want that alpha man.
I mean, I don't know about you, but I fucking love my alpha man.
I would never want anything less.
But I'm, you know, I'm an alpha woman in business and I want to
be, you know, I'm just a baby with my man.
I want him to take care of me like right, I, I want that
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primal activation. So he comes after me, right?
He chooses me, right. So just think about next time
you're getting ready to go out, whether it's, you know, to work,
to the gym, out shopping, to grab coffee, throw in a little
red. And I know it can be kind of
intimidating to wear that color for yourself because it does
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carry that irresistible confident energy.
But girl, when you're going to be commanding this relationship
to come in, you need to step it up with your confidence game.
So the more often you do something like this, the more
confident you're going to be with it.
So I would love to know if you try this, please DM me on
Instagram. Let me know what happens when
you wear something red or start not wearing black because the
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the red is the color of the lifeforce.
And again, coming back to the chakras a little bit, red is the
color of the root chakra, right?We were just talking about
orgasm with the secret chakra. Red is the color of the root
chakra, which is your foundation, your primal
instincts, your sensuality and survival.
So grounds you in your body. It connects you to the earth and
to the physical realm. And it's really, I truly
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believe, like I think it would be really fun to do this.
So I did this a lot because I was going out so much during
this time when I was obviously single and always trying to meet
somebody wearing a lot of red. I was not wearing any black.
And that was like one of the hardest things that I could do
because I love wearing black. But also, if you also don't want
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to start with something bold andred, I forgot, you can also do a
red lipstick, even though that'sthat's something as well.
Red lipstick, red lingerie. Wear something red underneath so
maybe no one can see it, but youknow, you feel that you're
wearing it. You could also get your nails
done red. Basically, do what you can,
become this embodied form of this manifestation that you are
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powerful, desirable, grounded, and you are confident in your
freaking worth. Because by doing all this,
you're literally telling the universe and every single human
around you that you know what you want and you know you are
the one. Plus at the end of the day, go
try something on that's red. I know that's going to probably
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activate your main character energy.
And I think that's also the fun thing when it comes to clothing
is, you know, we could go from our sweatpants with our hair in
a messy bun and no makeup, and then all of a sudden we
transform into this main character energy and get dressed
up and dolled up and do that. So I think this is also really
fun in a way to activate a different identity, activate
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your aura in a different way. Because to this point, think
about it, if you are single right now, whether you've been
single a long time, freshly out of a relationship or you're just
in a dating slump or whatever, obviously what you have today
and what you've been doing hasn't been working.
So it's time to shake things up.So experiment, take yourself out
of your comfort zone. When we take ourselves out of
our comfort zone, that is where the magic happens.
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So those are the four. Oh, that feels so good.
So good to release and get out there into the world.
I cannot wait to hear what you thought of these four and also
share this episode with your single friends.
Because maybe just maybe by doing one of these things, it's
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just going to shift their entirereality with calling and love.
Or if anything, it's just going to shift how they energetically
approach love and manifesting a partner.
And maybe it will just help you or them just expand this
knowledge for and that you are the creator of your life.
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So please let me know what you thought of this episode.
Share it with a friend, send me Adm.
I love having conversations about these or or just take a
screenshot of it and post it on your Instagram and tag me and
let me know your biggest aha moment or like shock factor
moment or just like wow moment. I would love to hear it.
But thank you so much for listening to this episode.
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listening. Have an amazing week and you'll
hear from me next time. Love you so much.
Welcome to the Money, Mindset, and Manicures podcast, the
ultimate guide to building a life you're obsessed with.
I'm Samantha Kazuch, and I'm here to empower women just like
you to script your dreams into reality and create the life
you've always dreamed of. Get ready to be inspired,
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Hey babe, welcome back to another episode of the Money,
Mindset and Manicures podcast. I'm your host, Samantha Kazuch
and Oh my gosh, I am feeling allsorts of ways right now.
I'm excited about this episode. I'm nervous if you can hear it
and my voice, I feel like I'm like cringing inside.
I'm feeling low key uncomfortable and it's because I
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feel like I'm sharing these likedeep dark secrets on how I
manifested a boyfriend, which spoiler alert, he is now my
husband. So just FYI, as you are
listening to this episode and learning all of my unhinged
manifestation rituals, just knowI did all of this right before I
met Mark and before we became official.
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And like literally, I swear doing all of these things and
there's only four, there's 4 unhinged manifestation rituals
that I did and now he's my husband.
So take what you want from this episode, leave what you don't
align with, but you can't judge me too hard because it freaking
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worked. So let's dive into the episode.
So I'm going to be covering 4 unhinged manifestation rituals
and these are in no particular order.
You do not have to do all of them.
However, I did because honestly,I was low key like desperate at
this point. I was 3132 years old, I'd been
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single. I had never been married before.
It had been a really long time since I was in a serious
relationship. And I feel like even though my
last serious, serious long relationship was when I was like
in my early 20s and honestly that didn't fucking count.
I was like ready. Like, you know, as as we grow
older as women, it's like the time is ticking.
I'm like, shit, everyone else isgetting married, pregnant, all
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of that. And I'm still breaking single
with no prospects. So I dove into the manifestation
side of things and learned more about quantum and energetics and
frequency. And I really started putting
trust in the universe and trust in myself and I started doing
all of these things. So pretty much all of these.
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You can almost start doing any of these today.
For some of them, you will probably need to buy some items
unless you randomly already havethem.
This one specifically, the firstone I'm going to tell you about,
you could literally do immediately today when you get
home or if you are at home afteryou're done listening to the
episode, go ham. So the first one is creating
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space. So this method, it's not just
some cute Pinterest advice, it'shonestly based on one powerful
universal truth and that is you receive what you're an energetic
match for. So if you're calling in a
relationship and a lover and mind you, please only go through
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and do these rituals if you are serious about finding love.
OK, if you are seriously, seriously, seriously looking for
love, but when you're calling inyour lover, your physical
environment needs to reflect that you're ready, open, and
already living in the reality where this love and partnership
exists. First thing that I did was I
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created space in my home and that means going straight into
the bedroom. And I set up my bedroom so that
my bed was in the center of the room.
So if right now your bed is pushed up against a wall, I feel
like a lot of single people likeyou just push your bed up
against the wall. Or maybe you don't have much
space, so you do that so you have more freedom to walk
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around. But having your bed up against
the wall is energetically signaling to the universe that
there's only room for one personhere.
So I want you to just imagine, right?
Like when you are in a relationship or if you've never
been in one or had someone like sleepover or stay the night or
whatever. But just think about it.
You get in and out on your side of the bed and then they get in
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on their side of the bed. So if you have your bed up
against the wall, you're literally blocking them from
coming in. So the first thing you want to
do is shift your bed so it's notagainst the wall so they can
also come in and out of the bed.The next thing you want to do is
now that your bed is moved to the center of the room or away
from the wall, you want to set it up with bedside tables on
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each side. Now you don't need to go out on
a shopping spree and remodel your whole room, but just
something that like signifies A bedside table or a little shelf
on both sides. Yours is 1, then his and hers is
on the other side, but in his and her side.
You need to empty it out and keep it empty so that
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intentionally shows the universeyou have space for them to come
in. That is space for their things
and their stuff. So do that.
And then the third thing you want to do in the bedroom is in
your closet. You could do this in the closet
or maybe even a dresser is allocate and intentionally
dedicate some space for their things.
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Now you don't need to clean out half of your closet, so half of
it is theirs. No, just like a little section
that is empty and clear, whetherit's a little space on the rod
or maybe a couple shelves or something like just keep it
empty. Just keep it empty.
And that is your intentional space for their things.
So all of this is just really signaling that there is space
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for love in your life that you are ready to receive and you're
aligning your actions with your desire, which is the key to
manifestation. And this all shifts you from I
want a relationship to I expect a relationship.
I demand and command a relationship.
It is safe to have a relationship.
This relationship is happening and I'm prepared for it.
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And then with moving all of these things around, this is
kind of like the Feng shui energy of it all.
You're literally just creating space.
You're decluttering as well. So just having that space for
energy to move around is also really, really powerful because
at the end of the day, your subconscious believes what you
do. So your subconscious mind
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doesn't respond to affirmations that you're going to say of how
much like, oh, I love my partnerand I'm in a relationship and
all that. It's going to respond faster to
what it can actually see and what there's proof of.
So if you can physically see in your reality, Oh yeah, there's
room for so and so, like, give him a name or her name and, you
know, do that. But when it can actually see, it
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makes it so much easier for thatreality to actually start
existing. And you're training your
subconscious mind to believe I'mnot single, I'm in a
relationship, there's someone else in my life.
And this literally rewires your identity to match the version of
you who already has love. And once that new identity is
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anchored in manifestation speedsup like crazy.
And then just one thing about the Feng shui of all of this, if
you haven't really figured it out yet, but the bed, if it's
pushed up against the wall, onlyone person has access equals
single energy. A cluttered closet means no room
for anyone else. That's energetic crowding.
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And then one night stand, right?This is why I say get to or get
something else to balance out each side.
There's no balance and there's no harmony for two people.
So by intentionally rearranging and clearing your space, you're
unblocking the energy flow of love.
And you're saying I'm not just wishing for them.
You've already made room and that's magnetic as fuck.
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And you can do this, obviously, in all other aspects of your
life. I feel like I've talked about
this on on the podcast when it comes to business and money and
decluttering your house and all of that.
But when you're doing this intentionally for love, Oh my
gosh, watch out, girl. Like, watch out.
He's got to pop it. He's got to come in because this
entire practice is a form of embodied surrender.
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We talk about embodiment a lot here.
You are literally embodying thisversion of you that is in a
relationship and you're surrendering because you're
you're basically saying it's already done.
I'm commanding it to happen. You're not begging, you're not
chasing, you're not forcing. You are preparing, you are
trusting, and you're anchoring into this certainty.
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It's like setting the table before your guests arrive for
dinner, right? You're not wondering if they'll
come, you're preparing because you know they're on their way.
See how that works? Like once you start shifting
this perspective and how you show up and act in your life, it
gets to be fun and easy and it'sless stressful.
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You're not worried about anyone because you know it's already
done. So aligning your energy with a
version of you who's already in love is key.
Signaling to your subconscious in the physical reality that you
are in a partnership like this is your new identity.
And now by doing these things inthe physical reality, you've
opened up your energetic field so the universe can deliver what
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they're ready for. It's love manifestation.
Screw this physical embodiment is what creates the magic.
So make sure you go do this one.I feel like everybody could go
do this immediately if you're willing to call it in.
OK, so the next ritual that I did, I consider this the love
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ritual. I feel like they're all love
rituals, but this is like the specifically the love ritual,
and I'm calling it this because if you have the manuscripting
journal, which is the life design journal and ritual
guidebook. This one I actually printed into
the manuscripting journal because I was like, this is such
a good anchor love ritual to foreverybody to know and
understand. So if you already have the
manuscripting journal that has the guidebook part in it, this
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is the love ritual that is in the journal.
If you don't have it, I highly recommend you go order a
manuscripting journal right now.So you have this all printed out
because there are a lot of stepsto this one.
But if you don't just listen along and you could probably do
this just by listening to this episode as well.
This ritual includes and, or what you need for this one is
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you need a crystal mala necklace.
So this ratio is so crazy because six years ago for my
birthday, one of my best girlfriends gifted me one of my
first crystal mala necklaces andshe had actually handmade it for
me. She was thinking about starting
a crystal shop business and everything she did end up going
through with it. But this was one of the first
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crystal mala necklaces that she made me and she made it for
love. So I had like green adventuring
and rose quartz and clear quartz.
And I still have this mala necklace.
So I looked it up. I was like, what do I use this
necklace for? Like what is this all about?
And I learned that this crystal mala necklace is basically like,
if you're familiar with like religion and like the Rosemary
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chain necklace, right? For like Catholics and stuff
like that. So it's very similar to that.
So basically by saying a certainmantra for 40 days and not only
40 days, a crystal mala necklacehas 108 crystal beads on it.
So what you do is you sit down and say this mantra on every
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single crystal beads. So 108 times for 40 days, but
you have to do this 40 days in arow.
Otherwise if you miss a day, youhave to start over again for it
to quote UN quote work. So I did that.
So I found this love mantra for attracting a man and there's
also one for attracting a woman.But this is in Vedic, an ancient
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Vedic. So it's like this saying, and
I'm, I'm going to try and pronounce it.
I remember when I did this six years ago, I actually YouTube
how to say the pronunciations, right?
So if you're a listening and you're like, Oh my gosh, Sam,
this is so wrong. Don't mind me, I just haven't
said this in a really, really long time, obviously.
But the mantra for attracting a man in ancient Vedic is SAT
Pat's team Daihi Pahram Aishwakhra.
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So that's one for attracting a man.
And then there's one also for attracting a woman, which is Om
shreem shriye Nah aha. I'm pretty sure I got close on
both of those. Actually, it like came back to
me, but these are printed in theguidebook.
This whole step by step process along with the saying and how to
pronounce it, all of that is in the ritual guidebook.
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So I started doing that immediately because remember,
I'm like Loki Desperado over here.
Also, I understand the desperateenergy, like we can't be
desperate. But also once I started these, I
let go. That's the thing, I surrendered
and let go because I just started doing these things and I
was trusting the process. So I started doing this mantra
every single night, didn't miss a day.
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And by the end of June, that is when I went out with a bunch of
friends and I knew, I knew of Mark, but he wasn't a love
interest. And if you heard my story about
Mark and our relationship, we knew each other.
He had never hit on me. He had never done anything to
signal anything that he was interested in me.
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Like truly, he was in the business box.
He was in the friend zone for business box.
Like never, ever, ever had he even inclined that he had liked
me. Anyways, we had gone out at the
end of June and that was the day.
And this was like pretty much like just after the 40 day
period where he made his move onme.
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He put his hand on my lap, we started making out and we
literally had been together eversince.
Literally not a like we were inseparable ever since we had we
didn't even have to go through the are you seeing anyone else
conversation like literally we just like that was from that day
on. We have been together ever
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since. So I thought that's crazy,
that's weird, That's strange that this worked.
So that is a really, really cool1.
And I was getting some questionsactually because I did share
this one already on TikTok and Ihad people ask me like where to
get a crystal model of necklace.I obviously had my maid and
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unfortunately my best girlfriendnever started the shop.
So I can't recommend obviously her or her items, but I do
always see them in crystal metaphysical stores like crystal
shops. You can obviously buy it on
Amazon too, but let me know maybe it's an item that I should
put in the manuscripting journalshop because there are so many
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different ones. Basically what I do recommend is
that you get a crystal mala necklace with crystals that
represent love, that help you manifest love.
And then also you can do mantrason these crystal mala necklaces
for anything else as well. You can do it for money, you can
do it for health, you could do it for literally anything.
And my only suggestion is depending on what you're
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manifesting, try to get a crystal mala necklace with the
crystals that help you amplify those intentions.
But highly, highly recommend this one.
This one does consider of coursemore dedication because it is 40
days and if you don't do it, yougot to start over.
But that's all the fun and just really surrendering and aligning
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and putting yourself in the vibration of manifesting your
partner. Interrupting this episode for
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episode. OK, This is the one where it
gets kind of, I don't know, maybe because of the topic it's
going to include and talk about which I feel, I don't know, I
feel a certain way always talking about this out loud, but
here we go. The next one is using a guided
meditation for visualization along with afterwards the O
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manifesting technique. And if you don't know what the O
manifesting technique it is the orgasm manifesting technique.
If you have not tried this, I highly encourage you to try it
and if you think it's weird or just like uncomfortable,
honestly just try it because I truly believe if you are
uncomfortable with doing this with your own body, how do you
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expect anyone else to get you there?
Like I always have that belief about this.
So I just think it's always justfun to experiment, even though
things can be a little weird andintimate with yourself.
But at the same time, I think this is so empowering to do.
So it's like don't knock it tillyou try it and you know, the
next time you're feeling a certain way, like try it out.
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But basically what I did for this is I started off with first
doing a guided meditation. And this story as well is just
so freaking crazy. I started doing guided
meditations for love and if you need a guided meditation for
manifesting love, I highly, highly recommend the guided
meditations for Love inside the Elevate Her app.
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If you don't have the app yet, what are you doing?
You are sleeping on something that's going to help you just
amplify your vibration. It's going to help you get into
your own personal power and helpyou manifest so much into your
life because it helps you rewireyour neural pathways in the
brain. So please, if anything else
after this episode, go download that app and start pressing play
on it every single day. The meditation inside the app is
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called Manifesting Love in a significant other.
Highly recommend it. So the first thing that I did
was I just started listening to this guided meditation every
day. And also when it comes to
visualization, right, you are going to visualize something.
So I don't know how I conjured this up in my brain.
I swear I always tell you guys, I always believe in like
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downloads that I get right? These random downloads that just
fucking stick. And this download that I got of
this visual in my brain was a image.
Like, right, an image. It's me, my husband, boyfriend,
whatever male figure, and a golden retriever.
And it's me on one side, the manon the other, the dogs in the
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middle. But you only see the backs of
our head. And we're standing on this
balcony that is overlooking the ocean.
And for some reason, every single time I would do this
meditation, that was what came in.
Like, I've never had this experience before with a man.
Like, I don't know why this keptcoming in, but keep listening
because you will know why in just a second.
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But it just kept coming in. And I'm like, this is so random.
OK, whatever, just keep going with it.
So I would do this meditation every single day and I would
have that visualization. OK, cool.
And then maybe like I don't know, maybe it was like once a
week, maybe once every couple weeks, maybe I don't know, I
don't know how long I was doing this for or like, I mean, not
how long, how often I was doing this.
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It wasn't like it was every day.I was not self pleasuring myself
every single day. But you know, when the mood
strike or when, when I like kindof thought about it, I would do
this. So what you would do is you
would orgasm. In order to create a heightened
energetic frequency. And when you orgasm, you are
visualizing that thing that you desire.
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So for me, I would visualize theman, the dog, me on this balcony
overlooking the ocean because that's what was always coming to
me in the sky to meditation. And it was so strong coming
through. I was like, OK, let it, let's
just manifest that. That looks amazing.
That's probably his house or ourhouse or something like that in
my future. I love it, let's do it.
Why orgasm manifestation works is because at the moment of your
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orgasm, your body is in a heightened energetic frequency.
Basically, just think of it as like a supercharged spiritual
antenna and your brain releases this cocktail of dopamine and
oxytocin and endorphins, right? Those are the pleasure and
bonding chemicals, right? I'm pretty sure everybody that's
listening to this episode, you have probably had this
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experience at least once. OK, so your heart opens, your
subconscious mind becomes more highly receptive, and your
energy field expands. This is such a big reason why I
now I'm a true believer and I wish I understood this when I
was younger, but no one ever explained it to me in this way.
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This is why it is so. You should be so protective of
your fucking pussy. Like, I'm not joking.
Do not just go have sex with anyone.
I wish I was more protective of it and I wish I didn't share it
with as many people as I did. I mean, not like I slept with a
fucking million people or anything like that.
But like, you know, those like couple people that you date and
you're like, yeah, I could have done without having sex with
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you. Yeah, definitely have some of
those. But if I knew this back then, I
probably wouldn't have either done that with them.
Like I just wouldn't have. I just because the power of our
vaginas and orgasm, like it's just crazy.
But you just get so intertwined with the other person's energy.
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And this goes so much further deeper, which I'll probably
cover in another episode becauseit's really interesting.
But basically through doing this, this is the exact moment,
like when you're orgasm, this isthe exact moment your thoughts,
your visualizations and intentions carry the most power
and they are launched into the quantum fields.
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Basically like think of it as like they're launched into the
quantum field with rocket fuel. So it's literally one of the
fastest ways to shift out of lack, fear and resistance and
into this pure magnetic receiving mode.
And another thing that happens when your orgasm is it activates
your sacral chakra. And the sacral chakra is the
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center of pleasure, creativity, emotional flow, manifestation,
feminine magnetism. So when you activate it through
conscious pleasure, you're literally tapping into that same
creative life force energy that brings things into the physical
world, whether it's a baby, right?
Like just think about it as women, right?
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By having that, we can make and have a baby manifest a business,
soulmate, love, like orgasm is creation energy.
So when you're able to direct itand be intentional with it, it
becomes manifestation energy. And when you climax, that veil
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between your conscious and subconscious mind becomes
thinner. Your subconscious is wide open
if you're thinking about your desires during this time.
So basically as you peek, like you want to just visualize that
thing, like visualizing your dream partner, right?
Like we're talking here about love.
So let's think about your love, your relationship.
Those intentions bypass your usual resistance and drop
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straight into the subconscious, which if you've been here a
minute, your subconscious is responsible for 95% of your
reality creating behavior. So imagine you can bypass that
straight into the consciousness.So you're literally
reprogramming yourself while you're in the most aligned and
receptive state. And when you are doing this
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right when you're orgasm, you'rein a natural state of surrender.
Manifestation isn't about tryingharder, it's all about letting
go and trusting that it's already yours.
So orgasm puts you in this natural state of letting go of
control. You're being fully present in
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your body. You're releasing that resistance
you're open to receiving, right?Like, just think about it.
You have to be fully all of those things in order to get
there, right? We can't be thinking about
something else. We can't be worrying about
anything. We can't be stressed about
anything. We have to be so fully fucking
present in our bodies, feeling safe, feeling open.
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And this is exactly the energy that allows your manifestations
to drop in with ease. How to do this is I highly
recommend do one of those guidedmeditations, right?
And of course, you want to kind of set the intention that you're
kind of like in the mood, right?Like you know, but set your
intention with manifesting this relationship, this partner.
What are you visualizing? And then visualize as you self
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pleasure, focus on the feelings and images of already having
that desire, of that thing that you want in this relationship,
that man, that woman, whatever that is.
And then at that peak of orgasm,let this vision explode within
you. See it, feel it, speak it if you
want. And then that afterglow state,
you know, the afterglimax state,ask in that energy of it's
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already done and just relax and let it settle into your cells,
right? Just like we all know that
feeling the afterwards, like, Ohmy gosh, OK, I could like take a
nap now. I'm so relaxed, right?
Let it be, let it sink in. Don't rush up and go do
something just like be there, allow it, let it go.
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This orgasm manifestation, it does really work.
Even though it's like weird to kind of like talk about you're
in that high frequency magnetic state.
Your subconscious is open and programmable, and then you
activate your creative life force energy and you embody
pleasure, presence and surrender.
This is the ultimate receiving mode.
So this is not just woo this is literally quantum and how I want
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to tie this all back to how thisplayed out in my life is OK.
Remember how I was telling you about this downloaded visual
that I had that I'm like where did this come from but OK, I'm
going with it of me and my man and this golden retriever dog
standing on this on this balconythat's overlooking the ocean.
Get this, When I went to Mark's house for the first time and I
had no idea where he lives. Obviously I lived in Santa
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Monica, CA at the time and he helived in Marina Del Rey.
I had never been to the Marina Del Rey area at all.
I honestly didn't even know anyone that lived there nor had
I even walked around in that area.
Like I had no idea really. Like I knew that it existed, but
I didn't know that it existed. So I go over to his house and I
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didn't realize this for a few months after dating when I saw
it with my own eyes when I walked into the living room and
he was standing outside on the balcony like, you know, arms
leaning over crossed and leaningover the balcony.
And at this point, we already had Milo, which is our golden
retriever. And he was, Milo was sitting
next to him looking out his balcony overlooks the ocean.
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And there he was. He's standing there.
Milo's like right next to him, which left me a room on the
other side of there. And that's when it hit me.
I'm like, holy fucking shit. This is the visualization that I
was having for months. And this is literally my fucking
reality right now. Because then ultimately I moved
in with him into that place. So I was just so freaking mind
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blown. And This is why I always say
your desires, these downloads, these visuals that you have are
not freaking random. They're not random, especially
when you keep getting the same one over and over and over
again. Pay attention because you never
know when that's going to pop into reality.
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But I swear from so many personal experiences, I've had
this happen, and I have one that's been happening lately,
which I am just like at the edgeof my seat waiting for this to
manifest into my reality of thisother visualization that I have,
which I hopefully get to share soon on on an episode.
I take these guided visualizations so seriously when
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they just drop in and they just stick in your head and you're
like, what is this? Why does this keep popping up?
It's for a reason. So pay attention to what you're
seeing because you never know. That's going to probably end up
in your reality at some point. So that's a really fun one to do
too. OK babe, I know we're deep in
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OK, go do that. After you're done listening,
let's get back to the show. Last but not least, this one was
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probably one of the quote UN quote hardest ones for me to do.
I stopped wearing black. I know I love wearing black.
I feel so sexy in black. I could wear like literally
that's like my that was that still is to this day, my color
palette. I love wearing it, but if you
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want to go through and do the crystal Mala ritual for 40 days,
I highly urge you to pair this manifestation with that as
you're doing that for 40 days and stop wearing black, black,
anything. This includes black tops, black
pants, black dresses. Do not wear black, especially on
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your chest, because that is the heart chakra, that is the sacral
chakra. So do not cover your body with
black, at least in the top half.Why is this powerful and why is
this important? That's because color holds
vibration. Colors aren't just aesthetic,
they each carry a frequency. And in manifestation, when we
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align our energy with the frequency of what we want, it is
so, so powerful. So if you're trying to manifest
love, love energy is what worn. It's open, it's magnetic, it's
heart centered. But black, the color and its
energy, is known as the color ofprotection, absorption, and
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boundaries. It can also absorb energy but
not always emit it. So it is often worn to shield or
create a sense of separation, which is why it's so popular in
grief and spiritual protection or even a different fashion.
Statements that say like, oh, don't mess with me.
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Like, you know, like wearing black.
I love wearing black because I feel very powerful in black,
right? But it creates a sense of
separation, like, right, you wear black, you wear the hot
dress. Like you were that girl, you
were that boss bitch, that queen, right?
Carries a different energy. So if you're trying to attract
love, wearing black could just symbolically and energetically
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be saying to like those around you, I'm protecting myself.
I'm closed off or even I'm not available.
What you want to start doing is wearing more pinks, Reds,
whites, pastels, colors that aretraditionally associated with
the heart chakra, self love, romance and this high vibration
because these colors are inviting and they signal I'm
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safe to approach. My heart is open.
I'm in my feminine loving energy.
And I know, yeah, like what guy is going to be like, Oh yeah,
she's wearing pink, she's wearing white.
She's going to be so open. Remember, this isn't about what
they know. It's about your energy with what
you are wearing. Why?
What energy are you exuding? So wearing these colors that
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energetically aligned with love helps your subconscious, your
aura, and your body language also send that same cohesive
signal. Love, I'm ready for you.
That's basically what you're sending out.
Everything that you do, from thewords that you speak to the
clothes that you wear, to the environment you create, you're
constantly sending a message to your subconscious mind, to the
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universe. And if you're saying you want
love, but you're addressing in away that vibrates like, you know
the boss bitch that doesn't wantanyone to speak to her because
she's up here, right? Like just think about what
you're putting out there. So just having this ritual in
mind really helps eliminate thatenergetic confusion.
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And then one thing I do want to say, because I'm sure you've
heard about like from the Matrix, like the woman in the
red dress or the red dress and why red is so irresistible and
powerful. And I challenge you to do this
experiment is I know when it comes to wearing red, a lot of
us, you know, we're kind of scared to wear it because, yeah,
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it's creates a lot of attention,right?
Like when you see that Lady in the red dress like, oh, girl,
she's hot, right? Like it is a very irresistible,
seductive, energetic, almost like look at me color, even
though that's like not what you're trying to say.
Like look at me. But it energetically just shows
that and vibrates that. But in research psychology, it
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has repeatedly shown that men perceive women wearing red as
more attractive, more sexually desirable and confident, and
that red is linked to passion, confidence, sex appeal, and
feminine power. My experiment for you is is
maybe at least once a week, put on that red shirt.
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Put on that red dress. If you're going out on the town,
wear something red. And I want you to see how people
start acting towards you, how they treat you.
Do they, you know, start coming up to you a little bit more?
Are they more friendly to you? Because it really does grab that
attention. It's the color of stop signs,
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right? It's stop signs.
It's danger, but it's desire allat once.
So subconsciously it also signals fertility, availability
and high energy. And some researchers that I read
on think that it's also linked to biological cues like flush
cheeks during arousal. So This is why wearing red, it
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activates something primal. And if you were seeking a man,
right, we all want that alpha man.
I mean, I don't know about you, but I fucking love my alpha man.
I would never want anything less.
But I'm, you know, I'm an alpha woman in business and I want to
be, you know, I'm just a baby with my man.
I want him to take care of me like right, I, I want that
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primal activation. So he comes after me, right?
He chooses me, right. So just think about next time
you're getting ready to go out, whether it's, you know, to work,
to the gym, out shopping, to grab coffee, throw in a little
red. And I know it can be kind of
intimidating to wear that color for yourself because it does
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carry that irresistible confident energy.
But girl, when you're going to be commanding this relationship
to come in, you need to step it up with your confidence game.
So the more often you do something like this, the more
confident you're going to be with it.
So I would love to know if you try this, please DM me on
Instagram. Let me know what happens when
you wear something red or start not wearing black because the
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the red is the color of the lifeforce.
And again, coming back to the chakras a little bit, red is the
color of the root chakra, right?We were just talking about
orgasm with the secret chakra. Red is the color of the root
chakra, which is your foundation, your primal
instincts, your sensuality and survival.
So grounds you in your body. It connects you to the earth and
to the physical realm. And it's really, I truly
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believe, like I think it would be really fun to do this.
So I did this a lot because I was going out so much during
this time when I was obviously single and always trying to meet
somebody wearing a lot of red. I was not wearing any black.
And that was like one of the hardest things that I could do
because I love wearing black. But also, if you also don't want
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to start with something bold andred, I forgot, you can also do a
red lipstick, even though that'sthat's something as well.
Red lipstick, red lingerie. Wear something red underneath so
maybe no one can see it, but youknow, you feel that you're
wearing it. You could also get your nails
done red. Basically, do what you can,
become this embodied form of this manifestation that you are
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powerful, desirable, grounded, and you are confident in your
freaking worth. Because by doing all this,
you're literally telling the universe and every single human
around you that you know what you want and you know you are
the one. Plus at the end of the day, go
try something on that's red. I know that's going to probably
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activate your main character energy.
And I think that's also the fun thing when it comes to clothing
is, you know, we could go from our sweatpants with our hair in
a messy bun and no makeup, and then all of a sudden we
transform into this main character energy and get dressed
up and dolled up and do that. So I think this is also really
fun in a way to activate a different identity, activate
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your aura in a different way. Because to this point, think
about it, if you are single right now, whether you've been
single a long time, freshly out of a relationship or you're just
in a dating slump or whatever, obviously what you have today
and what you've been doing hasn't been working.
So it's time to shake things up.So experiment, take yourself out
of your comfort zone. When we take ourselves out of
our comfort zone, that is where the magic happens.
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So those are the four. Oh, that feels so good.
So good to release and get out there into the world.
I cannot wait to hear what you thought of these four and also
share this episode with your single friends.
Because maybe just maybe by doing one of these things, it's
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just going to shift their entirereality with calling and love.
Or if anything, it's just going to shift how they energetically
approach love and manifesting a partner.
And maybe it will just help you or them just expand this
knowledge for and that you are the creator of your life.
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So please let me know what you thought of this episode.
Share it with a friend, send me Adm.
I love having conversations about these or or just take a
screenshot of it and post it on your Instagram and tag me and
let me know your biggest aha moment or like shock factor
moment or just like wow moment. I would love to hear it.
But thank you so much for listening to this episode.
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And if you did and truly love it, please, I would love it if
you could leave a five star review on the platform.
We don't run any commercials on these podcast episodes and I
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So that is the best way to show that you are loving these
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episodes. And I could get some feedback
from you as well. So thank you again so much for
listening. Have an amazing week and you'll
hear from me next time. Love you so much.
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