August 22, 2025 • 34 mins
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What’s the one area of your life that feels messy, frustrating, or chaotic right now? Your money? Your body? Your relationships? Your job?
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💫 Why your self-concept shapes every glow-up in your life
💫 Tangible action steps to shift your energy today
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(00:08):
Welcome to the Money, Mindset, and Manicures podcast, the
ultimate guide to building a life you're obsessed with.
I'm Samantha Kazuch, and I'm here to empower women just like
you to script your dreams into reality and create the life
you've always dreamed of. Get ready to be inspired,
motivated, and empowered as we elevate our lives together.
(00:37):
Hey babe, welcome back to another episode of the Money,
Mindset and Manicures podcast. I'm your host, Samantha Gazooch.
And before we dive in, I just want to let you know that this
episode specifically is a prerequisite episode to kick off
my annual manifesto Dream Life challenge that is starting this
coming Monday, August 25th. So if you have not yet signed up
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for this challenge, go ahead rundown to the show notes and click
on the link to sign up and get access.
It is completely free. But if you're listening to this
after I wanna say August 30th, we're gonna go with the 30th.
So I'm gonna you might be listening to this episode this
next coming week. But if you listen to it after
August 30th, it's going to be $22.00 for you to get access
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because this challenge is 4 daysof 90 minute.
Usually we go to actually do 2 hours of live master class
trainings with me all on helpingyou just completely up level
shift your identity, shift yourself concept to help you
upgrade and evolve and really tohelp just lock in all of those
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desires that you have been wanting to accomplish this year.
And maybe you've fallen off the bandwagon since we're coming off
the summer heading into fall, finishing out the year.
I want you to feel freaking amazing before this year ends.
And that's what I really love about the Manifesto Dream Life
Challenge now happening in the fall.
Usually we call it the media reset, but we are doing it in
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August because I had my breast explant surgery in July and I
was recovering and knows no way that I was in any way, shape or
form able to host this type of achallenge with full 100% energy.
So that's why we're doing it nowand sign up.
If you don't, you can catch the replay as a mini course.
It's going to be all beautifullyorganized and lessons and
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everything for you to go throughit.
Trust me, it is so worth it. So I wanted to record this
special episode for you because it's going to get you in the
exact mindset that you need to prepare for what's coming inside
the challenge. So I want you to think of this
as your warm up. It's your pep talk.
Like you know me. I know you come to this podcast
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for pep talks from me, but basically I'm your bestie
sitting you down and saying, girl, let's get it together
because your glow up is overdue.And that's exactly what we're
going to do today. So let me ask you something.
What's that one area of your life right now that feels that
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feels really heavy, annoying, a frustrating, cringy, or even an
area that you're actually ignoring and you're just like,
let's just put this in the closet and let's just not look
at it. And I'm, I'm talking about like
a, you know, metaphysical closet.
Like, you know, the things that are just, you're ignoring them.
You know, they suck, they're terrible, they're bad, they're
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frustrating, whatever that is. Maybe it's your money, maybe
it's your body in the way that you feel and you look in the
mirror. Maybe it's your job that drains
you. Maybe it's your relationships,
whether it's romantic or maybe friendships, Maybe they're
starting trying to feel more like drama than joy.
We all have that one area right now that feels chaotic.
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Or maybe you don't. But if you do, you got to keep
listening to this episode. And I want you to know
something. The fact that there's something
that's really bothering you, that's annoying you, that's just
like yelling at you. Even if you're trying to ignore
it, it's not an accident. That frustration that you feel,
that annoyance that you feel, that's not the universe
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punishing you. That's the universe guiding you.
And I really want that to land for you because if you are
experiencing or fall into the victim mentality ever.
And as humans, yeah, we sometimes have that reaction to
things. But if you've been in my world
long, long enough, you know thatthings don't happen to you, they
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happen for you. But I just want you to remember
and really lock this in that theuniverse is never punishing you.
It's literally guiding you to where something really needs
attention. And I want you to think of this
thing. So hopefully by now you've
thought of this thing. You got it in your mind, that
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thing that's been annoying. You think of it like a flashing
neon sign. That part of your life that
feels really messy right now, it's literally screaming at you,
Hey, babe, give me attention, fix me, upgrade me.
Because on the other side of this, your next level is
waiting. That's literally what it's
saying. And it's so interesting that for
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us, whenever things get hard or uncomfortable, whether we have
to have an uncomfortable conversation or do something
that's out of sight of our comfort zone, right?
We just want to kind of like, ignore it for a minute.
But then what does ignoring it do?
It just grows bigger, right? We start resenting it even more.
Maybe the drama gets even worse.You start feeling shittier about
yourself. And then what happens?
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It completely drains our energy,and then it starts to lower our
frequency. And then we wonder, even though
there's other aspects of our lives that are doing really
well, but at the same time, it'slike you have this anchor that's
holding you back, right? That's just holding you back and
creating this friction in your life.
So instead of avoiding it or numbing it out, right, a lot of
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us too, we tend to, you know, wework really hard during the week
and then we go party on the weekends or we get home from a
hard day's work and then we sit on the couch and drink wine and
eat a bunch of junk food and watch reality garbage TV to kind
of numb it out. This is all numbing out
behavior. And then we just also got into a
tendency to just convince ourselves that, you know what,
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it's fine, you know? And especially as women, we
like, oh, no, I shouldn't speak up.
I shouldn't make it a big deal. Like, no, I I shouldn't, right?
But I want you to lean into it because what you resist will
persist. But what you face, that's what's
going to set you free. So I want to use this episode to
really get practical with you because that's what I really
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love about listening to podcasts.
It's like, OK, what is the action step that I can take from
this so I can make my life better?
What can I learn from this? Because at the same time, you
don't need a five year plan right now.
All you need is momentum. The universe loves speed.
Speed equals trust. And how do we gain speed and
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momentum? We just have to take the first
step. And I know a lot of times when
it comes to taking that first step, we like to tell ourselves,
I'm not ready yet. I'm going to take this first
step when, you know, I have moretime, when I have more money,
when I'm done with this job or maybe when school ends or when
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the kids are doing so and so, orwhenever I have time.
But when it comes to being ready, you're never, ever going
to feel ready. Being ready is such a freaking
lie. Let me ask you that.
Whenever did you feel ready for anything, right?
You're always a little bit nervous.
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You're always a little bit scared.
You're always a little bit hesitant, right?
Especially when you're doing something new or outside of your
Cumber Zone. Readiness is a lie.
But the way that you actually become ready is you take the
step, take that first step, thatfirst action, and from there you
start getting that momentum and the readiness comes with you
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taking that next step. And then when this momentum
begins, you start signaling to the universe, hey, I'm ready,
I'm taking action. Come work with me.
Please. Come show me the way.
Come give me opportunities. Show me what I need to do next
because I'm trusting you. I know you got me right.
This is the little pep talk thatyou need to give yourself when
you're doing these things. Or at least tune into this
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podcast series and or open up the Elevate Her app.
If you don't have the Elevate Her app yet, the power
activations, the pep talks in there.
Oh my gosh. If you are ever feeling stuck,
doubting yourself, feeling overwhelmed, open up that app
and press play. I know in the beginning it might
feel dumb or weird or just silly, but I promise you babes,
(08:55):
if you saw how many times I opened up the elevator app from
the guided meditations to the pep talks throughout the day,
This is why I created this app. And if you don't have it, you
can click down in the show notes.
There's a 7 day free trial. You got to do it.
You got to do it at least. Try the seven days.
Try the seven days. Use it every day and tell me it
doesn't work for you. When it comes to having these
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glow up tangible action steps, Iwant to dive in and I'm going to
cover all different areas for you so that we cover everything
no matter what right now is frustrating you.
So we're going to first start with body and health.
So when it comes to your body and health, the easiest way to
start blowing up is getting really real with yourself.
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And the one thing that I really dislike about our current, I
guess heartbeat of the world right now when it comes to body
positivity is like, yeah, I really love that.
Everyone's like, yes, love your body, appreciate yourself, like,
love the way that you are. But also if you are not treating
your body well, if you are not feeding it right, if you're not
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working it out, if you're not being healthy, if you're
treating it like a garbage dumpster right?
And then you're layering body positivity on that.
That's not body positivity, that's toxic body positivity.
So if you everyday are treating yourself like crap and then
you're trying to look in the mirror and tell yourself, I love
my body, I love myself, but youraction is not matching up with
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what you're saying, then you're never going to have the glow up.
So the one thing that I always do whenever I'm in a season of
change or I want to getting sickof the way that I look or the
way that I feel and I want to upgrade or change whatever, I
actually dive into TikTok and over the last couple months.
So I got my breast X planted 2 months ago now and that changed
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the way that I look physically big time, right?
I had my implants for 10 years and I went through a drastic
change psychological. That's a whole another different
story in episode. But because of this, I had an
opportunity to now quote UN quote like glow up my identity,
the way that I look, what do I wear?
And when I went down this rabbithole on TikTok like seeing like
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oh, what kind of style should I wear now now that I have a way
smaller chest. Like what are the girlies
wearing these days? I also went down the rabbit hole
like looking at different makeuptips.
I'm a person that is very habitual.
Like my makeup routine I think has been the same since my early
20s. Like literally the same type of
foundation, same mascara, same eyeshadow, all of it.
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And as I kind of started scrolling on TikTok and looking
for different makeup tips, I learned I've never used
concealer before. You guys, like it's crazy.
I finally just bought some concealer.
And not that I need it, but I'm like, oh, I want to kind of have
some fun with doing my makeup. So I bought some new concealer
and I bought this like new mascara.
But I was doing my eyebrows the same for years and I actually
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hated them. And I bought like new stuff
because I was like watching these different tutorials.
So I highly recommend when it comes to whether it's taking
care of your body or workouts oreating or makeup, like go scroll
Tiktok and just go in the searchand be like, how do I do my
makeup or how should I work out if I want to lose weight or how
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do I work out for a busy mom or something like that.
I really love using Tiktok to find cool tutorials and to
follow creators that are really inspiring that like help also
motivate me. So when it comes to your body
and health, it's all about just starting simple.
It's not about going on some crazy crash diet or starting to
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work out a million hours a week.It's just like, what's actually
an action step that you can do that's actually going to make
you feel better? Maybe it is cutting out alcohol
during the week. Maybe it is cutting down on the
processed foods. Maybe it's replacing processed
foods with healthier alternatives.
For example, I have a really bigsweet tooth and I'm also a
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person like I don't need any foods or anything like coloring
or dyes or whatever. But recently I was really
missing Swedish Fish or I used to like love Sour Patch Kids
back in the day. Oh my gosh, I used to eat those
in like high school and stuff all the time.
And then I came across this brand called, I think Smart
Sweets. And I tried them and of course,
they're definitely not as sweet as the original candies, but I
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have been like loving the eatingthose every now and then.
And the ingredients are so much healthier.
So I'm still able to treat myself, but not completely, you
know, destroy my gut and destroy, you know, my diet by
eating foods that are just goingto wreak havoc in so many
different ways. So when it comes to your health
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and your body and how you look, what's one thing that you can
do? And this can also include, is it
time for a haircut? Is it time to color your hair?
Is it time to wear it a different way?
Is it time to maybe buy a new couple workout pieces?
And I know when it comes to shopping and stuff, yes, that
can start getting expensive, butI mean, Amazon, right?
And I don't know about you, but I'm the type of shopper where I
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keep my clothes for a really long time, even if they were
cheap. Like I'm very particular on what
I buy and I make sure I use themto death.
But before I donate them, I've always been really good about
that. And I pride myself about that
because just because of like thefast fashion industry and
everything. So it's like, what can you do to
just help yourself glow up and feel better on a daily basis
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without covering it with toxic positivity, but actually taking
the action to actually feel better, to actually look better
too? OK babe, I know we're deep in
this episode right now, but I need to interrupt it for a quick
moment because I need to ask you, Have you been craving a
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Have questions? Send me an e-mail or DM.
OK, go do that. After you're done listening,
let's get back to the show. So now if you are having the
struggle and frustration with money, I'm going to tell you,
and I told this on multiple podcast episodes, which if you
just search through the podcast listing, if you just search
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money, there's going to be so many episodes on money and how
to treat it and how to create a better relationship with it.
But you have to stop ignoring it.
So my challenge for you right now is after this episode, like
open up your bank account, take a look at it, tell it you love
it, tell it you're grateful for it.
Start really training yourself to create this positive
relationship with it. And what I also want you to do
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is write down a number that you'd love to manifest maybe
this month or maybe before the year ends.
And then I want you to ask yourself, what's 1 action I can
take today to bring that money in?
Isn't it cool when you ask yourself a question, your brain
is going to start to come up with solutions, with ideas.
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And if you reply with, I don't know, I challenge you to ask it
again and really, really get into a good conversation with
your brain on how you can bring that money in.
And I'll give you some ideas. Maybe you're a business owner
and you can send an invoice to aclient or potential customer.
Maybe it's applying for that opportunity.
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Maybe it's a job. Maybe it's a gig.
Maybe it's something where you know you can make some extra
money. Maybe it's, I don't know,
babysitting. Maybe it's walking dogs.
Get creative, depending on what your skill is.
Maybe it's selling that one thing that's been collecting
dust in your closet. I know we all have some stuff
that we can put up on Facebook Marketplace right now or maybe
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clothes that you can put up on Poshmark right now that you can
get some money for. One, that's clearing out crappy
energy from your house and your home, which opens up space for
more to come in. But two, hello to Chang.
Let's get that money coming in. I feel like there's like no
excuses to be able to make some sort of money.
You all have a phone and Internet, and I know the phone
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has a camera. So take the picture, post it up
on Facebook Marketplace, Craigslist, you know, of course,
be careful, but there is always some sort of way that you can
creatively make some money. But the biggest part of this is,
is you can't continue to ignore it.
Because if you continue to ignore it, what's going to
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happen? It's going to ignore you.
And if we're frustrated with it,it's just going to continue to
be frustrated with you. So now moving on into career and
business, just coming off of money is kind of sometimes
overlaps. But in your career business, do
the thing that you've been procrastinating.
Do the thing that you've been procrastinating.
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I know there is something in theback of your head that you've
been needing to do. Maybe it's updating your bio on
Instagram. Maybe you're a content creator
or you want to be. Maybe it's pitching yourself.
Maybe you're a business owner and you know you can sell
yourself on on Instagram like with your services.
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Where can you upgrade and glow up your business or career?
It could be sending out an e-mail to somebody that you
know, maybe you have a communitydo something that your future
self will thank you for that youhave been putting off.
When it comes to our Korean business, right?
A lot of times we do the basics and then we just kind of
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sometimes let it be. But I know if we just put that
little bit of action every single day, that action just
amplifies our way to be able to normally build the business.
But similar to the universe thatwe are ready, whether it's a
career move, whether it's makingmore money at your job, whether
that's making more sales in yourbusiness.
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Like there's a lot of times evenfor me, it's like I've had the
manuscripting journal for many, many years now.
And this was like before, like when did I start doing this?
Maybe like 3 months ago. I feel like the first half of
the year I kind of like didn't talk about the manuscripting
journal that much because I was really focused on my coaching
business and I went through thishuge kind of like a hot
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awakening over the summer. And it kind of also came with me
getting my X pods. Like there's this whole thing
that happened for me during the summer, which was so cool, but I
realized I was like, Oh my gosh,I never really talk about the
manuscript in general. I don't share it that much.
Like what the hell? Like, why not?
And now I'm like obsessed. If you follow me on Instagram,
you probably see the manner scripting Journal at least
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multiple times a week. I'm always promoting it,
promoting a link. I'm talking about the community,
I'm talking about the elevator app.
I'm doing this, that and the other.
And what that has done is that is like increased revenue in our
company by 80%. It's crazy just because I'm
talking about it a lot. And to you, for those of you
that are business owners, we sometimes feel like, oh, I don't
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want to bother people. Oh, they already know about it,
they're sick of it. No, people have the attention
span of a fish. Less than that probably.
Now people forget. They need to be reminded all the
time. So do something today that your
future self in business is goingto thank you for.
And in turn, I am sure that that's also going to reflect in
your money area, which then is of course going to make you feel
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even better. So do something for that in your
current Business Today. The next one is your
relationships. So right now, if you are someone
that's experiencing maybe drama or you're just not happy,
whether it's with a friendship circle or a friend or maybe it's
a romantic partner, if there's something going on, I want you
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to either one address it or let's start with the friends
first. Actually, we'll start with the
friends. We'll go into the romantic, but
there's something that I learnednot too long ago because I had
just moved to Austin, TX, so I only knew a few people here and
I've been kind of bopping in andout of groups.
I also live about 45 minutes outof the city, so I'm kind of out
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of the scene. I kind of honestly keep to
myself. Like I feel like I have more
virtual friends. I actually do.
What am I saying? I have way more virtual friends
than I do in person. 100%. I feel like I don't have many
real life friends at all. But with that to say is as
you're like meeting people and growing friends and maybe things
go South or you don't like the way you're being treated or
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you're feeling left out, that kind of stuff, I want you to ask
yourself, because even though your feelings might be hurt, I
want you to ask yourself, do I actually like them?
Do I actually want to be their friend?
And that's a really powerful question to ask because a lot of
times we're seeking validation. I want them to like me.
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I want them to invite me. I want them to do XY and ZI want
to be their bestie. But at the same time, it's like,
do you actually want to be theirbestie?
And are your feelings getting hurt because they're not
reciprocating? Or are your feelings getting
hurt because they're not validating you?
And when I learned this, I was all like, damn, damn, that's so
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real. And it helped me really check
myself with so many people that I thought I really wanted them
as my friends. But then when I really looked at
them and I'm like, well, I don'treally like this about you.
We don't align here. This doesn't really not really
into that. I'm like, what am I doing?
I was just seeking validation. And then I got butt hurt when
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like they didn't invite me to something.
So I thought we were friends. But you know, it's like at the
same time, I don't even really want to be their friend.
So I want you to think about relationships like that as well.
And you just have to understand that as you go through life,
people are going to come in and out.
They're going to come in and outand I watched this one TikTok
the other day and it was talkingabout how there's going to be
people in our lives that this like the five year stranger.
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It's like, think about five years ago, you probably had so
many different friends. Maybe it was different Co
workers. You had neighbors or different
friends because you lived in a certain area or you went to a
certain workout class and you were really close because you
saw each other frequently. And then all of a sudden, it's
like five years go by and maybe you moved or maybe you stopped
going to that gym or whatever. And then all of a sudden you're
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like strangers, right? So people ebb and flow into our
lives, and that's OK too. And now when it comes to the
relationship side of things, youknow, I'll be the first one to
tell you after being single for so long and not meeting my
husband until I was 32 years old, I can tell you one thing.
Relationships do not need to be hard.
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They shouldn't be hard. If you have a gut feeling that
you know something's wrong, something's not right,
something's not going on, trust it and exit out.
I know a lot of times we can give people benefit of the doubt
or give them second chances or stuff like that.
But honestly, I went through that shit.
I went through that so much in my 20s and making excuses for
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guys and you know, just dealing with it because you know, I
should just I should just settleand I should just take what I
can get. But when you finally do meet
that love of your life and that person that you are meant to be
with, I'm telling you, it is easy.
Not saying you're not going to go through struggles with that
person, but that struggle shouldn't be the relationship.
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It should be you 2 against the world, you 2 fighting for the
same thing against other things,right?
It could be you 2 doing stuff inbusiness and business is a
struggle, right? Or you 2 are doing something and
maybe it's financial that you'redoing something together or
maybe it's moving or family or whatever.
But it it should be so, so easy and it gets to be easy.
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And it breaks my heart to hear story after story of how it's so
difficult and hard and you want them to change and they're
acting out. Girl, bye.
Like tell them bye because life is too short and there's someone
out there for you that is going to, I was going to say fill your
heart, but I'm like, no, you arealready meant to be whole and
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that person is going to be addition.
It's not your other half, it's your joint, it's your partner.
I want you to just know that if you are in some sort of
relationship where things are 100% and you know that they have
broken your trust and all that, like it's in my opinion, life is
too short. Life is too short, so take from
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that what you want. And I know with relationships
it's the hardest part because there's so many feelings and
emotions and so many wounds thatstart popping up about
worthiness and will I find the right person or not?
But I'm telling you, when you stick to what you desire in a
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relationship and you do not waver, I promise you that person
will come in at the most perfecttime.
Work on your boundaries, work onyour desires for what you want
in a relationship and do not settle for anything less.
And then lastly, if your struggle and everything right
now going on is just your mindset overall, and I know I
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talk about journaling, write it down, meditate.
But seriously, seriously, what Iwant you to do is write down not
just what you don't want anymore, but first make that
list. What do you not want anymore?
Write that down. And then on the opposite side of
that, write down exactly what you do want instead.
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Because I think sometimes it's hard.
If you do one or the other, thenit's like, OK, well, what do I
want or what do I not want? But if we can get really clear
on both of those things, it makes it so much easier to
create a plan for what action you need to take.
Because when you shift your focus, when you shift literally
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what you're focusing on, right? You're going to shift your
energy. And I want you to right now just
like think about like look around if you can, and I want
you to look or find something blue, find something blue.
Right now. Just look around.
You find something blue. OK, great.
I'll tell you what I found. I have a blue pen right here.
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I'm looking out across. I live in Lake Travis.
I see a blue roof out there. I see.
Oh, a blue boat. I see a blue.
This is like a hard drive thing on my computer here.
So those are the blue things I see.
What do you see? You see blue.
OK, great. Now what did you see that was
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pink? You probably didn't see anything
pink because you weren't lookingat pink.
But is there pink somewhere out there around you or a shade of
pink, Maybe a little red? I have a pink lip gloss right
here. I have a pink reddish pen as
well in front of me. I see a reddish roof out in the
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distance, but see what happened there.
You were so focused on the blue that you didn't see the pink,
but the pink was always there. It's still existing even though
you paid no attention to it. And that's exactly what's going
on when we focus on the things that we do not want.
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So if you're, you know, with your mindset, if you're walking
around and saying, well, I don'twant to be broke anymore, or I
don't want shitty friends anymore, or I just don't want to
feel like crap anymore, your brain is going to constantly
pick out the things to prove youright.
And that's thanks to the reticular activating system.
If you want to shift your energyand your focus, we need to start
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focusing on the things that we do want.
So the clarity needs to be thereright down.
If you're stuck with mindset right now and you just feel
overwhelmed, exhausted, you justdon't even know what to focus
on. You don't know what the plan is.
You don't even know what you want to manifest.
When you start to manifest your Dream life challenge this coming
week, write down the list of what you don't want anymore.
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Then write down what you do want.
And then here's a bonus action step.
Whether you're doing it on 2 separate pieces of paper or you
do it on one and you do, you know, draw a line down the
middle, RIP off the side of the things that you don't want, RIP
it up, RIP it up into a bunch ofpieces.
You can even burn it, throw it in the trash, doing something to
signal it that this is done, that this is done.
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Interrupting this episode for just a minute because I need to
ask you, do you want the easiestand most low effort way to start
manifesting your dreams and changing your life?
Like not putting another thing on your To Do List but literally
it's as easy as pressing play? Then you need to download the
Elevate Her app immediately. It's packed with quick, powerful
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audios, guide and meditation, subconscious reprogramming, and
power activations, all designed to shift your energy and unlock
your next level reality. I created this app for myself
when I needed to break free fromdoubt, fear and scarcity and
step into confidence, abundance and the belief that I can truly
have it all. And the best part is because
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you're listening to this podcast, you can try it free for
seven days. Just click the link in the show
notes below and start your Elevate Her journey today.
Your dream life babe is truly just one play away.
OK, let's get back to the episode with this, that thing
that you're avoiding right now. I want you to listen to this.
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That's the exact thing that's going to unlock your
breakthrough, I promise you. It's just weighing you down
right now, like an anchor. It's weighing you down.
And even though ignoring it can be fun for a minute, deep down,
when you lay down to go to sleepat night, you know, it's like in
the back of your head and it's so annoying.
You don't need to change your whole life overnight.
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You know me, we do baby action steps because if you try to
change everything overnight, nothing will change at all
because your brain cannot handleit.
Your brain loves incremental habits and steps and action over
time, so it can slowly reprogramthat subconscious mind of yours,
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that supercomputer that lives inside your brain.
We need to slowly reprogram it one little baby step at a time
so it doesn't panic and freak out.
But at the end of the day, you do need to take one small step
today because the universe rewards speed.
The moment you make a move, you create momentum.
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And the momentum is what takes you from chaos to clarity, from
stuck to glowing up. And again, This is exactly why I
created and we're doing the Manifesto Dream Life challenge
together. There's over 400 and 37 women
that have signed up so far as oftoday because I know how
powerful it is when you stop ignoring the chaos and actually
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start turning it into your breakthrough.
So I'm so excited for you to join me.
Make sure if you're ready for this glow up join link is down
in the show notes. Because your glow up doesn't
start next year, your manifestations don't need to
wait until January for you to kick them off.
It doesn't start when you have more time or more money or when
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someone else finally gets their act together.
No, it starts today with you deciding that you deserve
better. So do the thing babe.
Take the action. And I also would love for you to
either DM me, let me know if this episode resonated, or
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better yet, come on over to our brand new community.
This is the community for manuscripting, Elevate her, mine
in general. We just launched a brand new
community. Actually, when you sign up for
the challenge, you'll get instant access to this
community. So I just highly recommend you
do it that way because it'll be easier for you to just gain
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access. Come in there.
Come share what you're working on with these action steps.
Let me know your biggest take away from this and I'll see you
inside the challenge hopefully Monday.
And if again, you're listening to this after the challenge, I
can't wait for you to dive into the replay.
So you're going to be so freaking good.
And one last thing is if you love this episode and if you
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feel like you have a friend that's really in it right now,
maybe they're struggling with something, an area in their life
that we talked about today, sendthem this episode.
Just copy, share the link, text it to them and be like, hey,
girl, I was just listening to this episode and I thought of
you. I thought you might like this so
send it over to them. I love when you ladies share
these episodes. It really helps the podcast
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grow. And thank you so much for
listening and I will see you either in the challenge or
you'll hear from me next week for a new episode.
I love you so much and have an amazing day.
Welcome to the Money, Mindset, and Manicures podcast, the
ultimate guide to building a life you're obsessed with.
I'm Samantha Kazuch, and I'm here to empower women just like
you to script your dreams into reality and create the life
you've always dreamed of. Get ready to be inspired,
motivated, and empowered as we elevate our lives together.
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Hey babe, welcome back to another episode of the Money,
Mindset and Manicures podcast. I'm your host, Samantha Gazooch.
And before we dive in, I just want to let you know that this
episode specifically is a prerequisite episode to kick off
my annual manifesto Dream Life challenge that is starting this
coming Monday, August 25th. So if you have not yet signed up
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for this challenge, go ahead rundown to the show notes and click
on the link to sign up and get access.
It is completely free. But if you're listening to this
after I wanna say August 30th, we're gonna go with the 30th.
So I'm gonna you might be listening to this episode this
next coming week. But if you listen to it after
August 30th, it's going to be $22.00 for you to get access
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because this challenge is 4 daysof 90 minute.
Usually we go to actually do 2 hours of live master class
trainings with me all on helpingyou just completely up level
shift your identity, shift yourself concept to help you
upgrade and evolve and really tohelp just lock in all of those
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desires that you have been wanting to accomplish this year.
And maybe you've fallen off the bandwagon since we're coming off
the summer heading into fall, finishing out the year.
I want you to feel freaking amazing before this year ends.
And that's what I really love about the Manifesto Dream Life
Challenge now happening in the fall.
Usually we call it the media reset, but we are doing it in
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August because I had my breast explant surgery in July and I
was recovering and knows no way that I was in any way, shape or
form able to host this type of achallenge with full 100% energy.
So that's why we're doing it nowand sign up.
If you don't, you can catch the replay as a mini course.
It's going to be all beautifullyorganized and lessons and
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everything for you to go throughit.
Trust me, it is so worth it. So I wanted to record this
special episode for you because it's going to get you in the
exact mindset that you need to prepare for what's coming inside
the challenge. So I want you to think of this
as your warm up. It's your pep talk.
Like you know me. I know you come to this podcast
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for pep talks from me, but basically I'm your bestie
sitting you down and saying, girl, let's get it together
because your glow up is overdue.And that's exactly what we're
going to do today. So let me ask you something.
What's that one area of your life right now that feels that
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feels really heavy, annoying, a frustrating, cringy, or even an
area that you're actually ignoring and you're just like,
let's just put this in the closet and let's just not look
at it. And I'm, I'm talking about like
a, you know, metaphysical closet.
Like, you know, the things that are just, you're ignoring them.
You know, they suck, they're terrible, they're bad, they're
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frustrating, whatever that is. Maybe it's your money, maybe
it's your body in the way that you feel and you look in the
mirror. Maybe it's your job that drains
you. Maybe it's your relationships,
whether it's romantic or maybe friendships, Maybe they're
starting trying to feel more like drama than joy.
We all have that one area right now that feels chaotic.
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Or maybe you don't. But if you do, you got to keep
listening to this episode. And I want you to know
something. The fact that there's something
that's really bothering you, that's annoying you, that's just
like yelling at you. Even if you're trying to ignore
it, it's not an accident. That frustration that you feel,
that annoyance that you feel, that's not the universe
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punishing you. That's the universe guiding you.
And I really want that to land for you because if you are
experiencing or fall into the victim mentality ever.
And as humans, yeah, we sometimes have that reaction to
things. But if you've been in my world
long, long enough, you know thatthings don't happen to you, they
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happen for you. But I just want you to remember
and really lock this in that theuniverse is never punishing you.
It's literally guiding you to where something really needs
attention. And I want you to think of this
thing. So hopefully by now you've
thought of this thing. You got it in your mind, that
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thing that's been annoying. You think of it like a flashing
neon sign. That part of your life that
feels really messy right now, it's literally screaming at you,
Hey, babe, give me attention, fix me, upgrade me.
Because on the other side of this, your next level is
waiting. That's literally what it's
saying. And it's so interesting that for
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us, whenever things get hard or uncomfortable, whether we have
to have an uncomfortable conversation or do something
that's out of sight of our comfort zone, right?
We just want to kind of like, ignore it for a minute.
But then what does ignoring it do?
It just grows bigger, right? We start resenting it even more.
Maybe the drama gets even worse.You start feeling shittier about
yourself. And then what happens?
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It completely drains our energy,and then it starts to lower our
frequency. And then we wonder, even though
there's other aspects of our lives that are doing really
well, but at the same time, it'slike you have this anchor that's
holding you back, right? That's just holding you back and
creating this friction in your life.
So instead of avoiding it or numbing it out, right, a lot of
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us too, we tend to, you know, wework really hard during the week
and then we go party on the weekends or we get home from a
hard day's work and then we sit on the couch and drink wine and
eat a bunch of junk food and watch reality garbage TV to kind
of numb it out. This is all numbing out
behavior. And then we just also got into a
tendency to just convince ourselves that, you know what,
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it's fine, you know? And especially as women, we
like, oh, no, I shouldn't speak up.
I shouldn't make it a big deal. Like, no, I I shouldn't, right?
But I want you to lean into it because what you resist will
persist. But what you face, that's what's
going to set you free. So I want to use this episode to
really get practical with you because that's what I really
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love about listening to podcasts.
It's like, OK, what is the action step that I can take from
this so I can make my life better?
What can I learn from this? Because at the same time, you
don't need a five year plan right now.
All you need is momentum. The universe loves speed.
Speed equals trust. And how do we gain speed and
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momentum? We just have to take the first
step. And I know a lot of times when
it comes to taking that first step, we like to tell ourselves,
I'm not ready yet. I'm going to take this first
step when, you know, I have moretime, when I have more money,
when I'm done with this job or maybe when school ends or when
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the kids are doing so and so, orwhenever I have time.
But when it comes to being ready, you're never, ever going
to feel ready. Being ready is such a freaking
lie. Let me ask you that.
Whenever did you feel ready for anything, right?
You're always a little bit nervous.
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You're always a little bit scared.
You're always a little bit hesitant, right?
Especially when you're doing something new or outside of your
Cumber Zone. Readiness is a lie.
But the way that you actually become ready is you take the
step, take that first step, thatfirst action, and from there you
start getting that momentum and the readiness comes with you
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taking that next step. And then when this momentum
begins, you start signaling to the universe, hey, I'm ready,
I'm taking action. Come work with me.
Please. Come show me the way.
Come give me opportunities. Show me what I need to do next
because I'm trusting you. I know you got me right.
This is the little pep talk thatyou need to give yourself when
you're doing these things. Or at least tune into this
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podcast series and or open up the Elevate Her app.
If you don't have the Elevate Her app yet, the power
activations, the pep talks in there.
Oh my gosh. If you are ever feeling stuck,
doubting yourself, feeling overwhelmed, open up that app
and press play. I know in the beginning it might
feel dumb or weird or just silly, but I promise you babes,
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if you saw how many times I opened up the elevator app from
the guided meditations to the pep talks throughout the day,
This is why I created this app. And if you don't have it, you
can click down in the show notes.
There's a 7 day free trial. You got to do it.
You got to do it at least. Try the seven days.
Try the seven days. Use it every day and tell me it
doesn't work for you. When it comes to having these
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glow up tangible action steps, Iwant to dive in and I'm going to
cover all different areas for you so that we cover everything
no matter what right now is frustrating you.
So we're going to first start with body and health.
So when it comes to your body and health, the easiest way to
start blowing up is getting really real with yourself.
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And the one thing that I really dislike about our current, I
guess heartbeat of the world right now when it comes to body
positivity is like, yeah, I really love that.
Everyone's like, yes, love your body, appreciate yourself, like,
love the way that you are. But also if you are not treating
your body well, if you are not feeding it right, if you're not
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working it out, if you're not being healthy, if you're
treating it like a garbage dumpster right?
And then you're layering body positivity on that.
That's not body positivity, that's toxic body positivity.
So if you everyday are treating yourself like crap and then
you're trying to look in the mirror and tell yourself, I love
my body, I love myself, but youraction is not matching up with
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what you're saying, then you're never going to have the glow up.
So the one thing that I always do whenever I'm in a season of
change or I want to getting sickof the way that I look or the
way that I feel and I want to upgrade or change whatever, I
actually dive into TikTok and over the last couple months.
So I got my breast X planted 2 months ago now and that changed
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the way that I look physically big time, right?
I had my implants for 10 years and I went through a drastic
change psychological. That's a whole another different
story in episode. But because of this, I had an
opportunity to now quote UN quote like glow up my identity,
the way that I look, what do I wear?
And when I went down this rabbithole on TikTok like seeing like
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oh, what kind of style should I wear now now that I have a way
smaller chest. Like what are the girlies
wearing these days? I also went down the rabbit hole
like looking at different makeuptips.
I'm a person that is very habitual.
Like my makeup routine I think has been the same since my early
20s. Like literally the same type of
foundation, same mascara, same eyeshadow, all of it.
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And as I kind of started scrolling on TikTok and looking
for different makeup tips, I learned I've never used
concealer before. You guys, like it's crazy.
I finally just bought some concealer.
And not that I need it, but I'm like, oh, I want to kind of have
some fun with doing my makeup. So I bought some new concealer
and I bought this like new mascara.
But I was doing my eyebrows the same for years and I actually
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hated them. And I bought like new stuff
because I was like watching these different tutorials.
So I highly recommend when it comes to whether it's taking
care of your body or workouts oreating or makeup, like go scroll
Tiktok and just go in the searchand be like, how do I do my
makeup or how should I work out if I want to lose weight or how
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do I work out for a busy mom or something like that.
I really love using Tiktok to find cool tutorials and to
follow creators that are really inspiring that like help also
motivate me. So when it comes to your body
and health, it's all about just starting simple.
It's not about going on some crazy crash diet or starting to
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work out a million hours a week.It's just like, what's actually
an action step that you can do that's actually going to make
you feel better? Maybe it is cutting out alcohol
during the week. Maybe it is cutting down on the
processed foods. Maybe it's replacing processed
foods with healthier alternatives.
For example, I have a really bigsweet tooth and I'm also a
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person like I don't need any foods or anything like coloring
or dyes or whatever. But recently I was really
missing Swedish Fish or I used to like love Sour Patch Kids
back in the day. Oh my gosh, I used to eat those
in like high school and stuff all the time.
And then I came across this brand called, I think Smart
Sweets. And I tried them and of course,
they're definitely not as sweet as the original candies, but I
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have been like loving the eatingthose every now and then.
And the ingredients are so much healthier.
So I'm still able to treat myself, but not completely, you
know, destroy my gut and destroy, you know, my diet by
eating foods that are just goingto wreak havoc in so many
different ways. So when it comes to your health
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and your body and how you look, what's one thing that you can
do? And this can also include, is it
time for a haircut? Is it time to color your hair?
Is it time to wear it a different way?
Is it time to maybe buy a new couple workout pieces?
And I know when it comes to shopping and stuff, yes, that
can start getting expensive, butI mean, Amazon, right?
And I don't know about you, but I'm the type of shopper where I
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keep my clothes for a really long time, even if they were
cheap. Like I'm very particular on what
I buy and I make sure I use themto death.
But before I donate them, I've always been really good about
that. And I pride myself about that
because just because of like thefast fashion industry and
everything. So it's like, what can you do to
just help yourself glow up and feel better on a daily basis
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without covering it with toxic positivity, but actually taking
the action to actually feel better, to actually look better
too? OK babe, I know we're deep in
this episode right now, but I need to interrupt it for a quick
moment because I need to ask you, Have you been craving a
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Have questions? Send me an e-mail or DM.
OK, go do that. After you're done listening,
let's get back to the show. So now if you are having the
struggle and frustration with money, I'm going to tell you,
and I told this on multiple podcast episodes, which if you
just search through the podcast listing, if you just search
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money, there's going to be so many episodes on money and how
to treat it and how to create a better relationship with it.
But you have to stop ignoring it.
So my challenge for you right now is after this episode, like
open up your bank account, take a look at it, tell it you love
it, tell it you're grateful for it.
Start really training yourself to create this positive
relationship with it. And what I also want you to do
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is write down a number that you'd love to manifest maybe
this month or maybe before the year ends.
And then I want you to ask yourself, what's 1 action I can
take today to bring that money in?
Isn't it cool when you ask yourself a question, your brain
is going to start to come up with solutions, with ideas.
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And if you reply with, I don't know, I challenge you to ask it
again and really, really get into a good conversation with
your brain on how you can bring that money in.
And I'll give you some ideas. Maybe you're a business owner
and you can send an invoice to aclient or potential customer.
Maybe it's applying for that opportunity.
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Maybe it's a job. Maybe it's a gig.
Maybe it's something where you know you can make some extra
money. Maybe it's, I don't know,
babysitting. Maybe it's walking dogs.
Get creative, depending on what your skill is.
Maybe it's selling that one thing that's been collecting
dust in your closet. I know we all have some stuff
that we can put up on Facebook Marketplace right now or maybe
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clothes that you can put up on Poshmark right now that you can
get some money for. One, that's clearing out crappy
energy from your house and your home, which opens up space for
more to come in. But two, hello to Chang.
Let's get that money coming in. I feel like there's like no
excuses to be able to make some sort of money.
You all have a phone and Internet, and I know the phone
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has a camera. So take the picture, post it up
on Facebook Marketplace, Craigslist, you know, of course,
be careful, but there is always some sort of way that you can
creatively make some money. But the biggest part of this is,
is you can't continue to ignore it.
Because if you continue to ignore it, what's going to
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happen? It's going to ignore you.
And if we're frustrated with it,it's just going to continue to
be frustrated with you. So now moving on into career and
business, just coming off of money is kind of sometimes
overlaps. But in your career business, do
the thing that you've been procrastinating.
Do the thing that you've been procrastinating.
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I know there is something in theback of your head that you've
been needing to do. Maybe it's updating your bio on
Instagram. Maybe you're a content creator
or you want to be. Maybe it's pitching yourself.
Maybe you're a business owner and you know you can sell
yourself on on Instagram like with your services.
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Where can you upgrade and glow up your business or career?
It could be sending out an e-mail to somebody that you
know, maybe you have a communitydo something that your future
self will thank you for that youhave been putting off.
When it comes to our Korean business, right?
A lot of times we do the basics and then we just kind of
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sometimes let it be. But I know if we just put that
little bit of action every single day, that action just
amplifies our way to be able to normally build the business.
But similar to the universe thatwe are ready, whether it's a
career move, whether it's makingmore money at your job, whether
that's making more sales in yourbusiness.
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Like there's a lot of times evenfor me, it's like I've had the
manuscripting journal for many, many years now.
And this was like before, like when did I start doing this?
Maybe like 3 months ago. I feel like the first half of
the year I kind of like didn't talk about the manuscripting
journal that much because I was really focused on my coaching
business and I went through thishuge kind of like a hot
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awakening over the summer. And it kind of also came with me
getting my X pods. Like there's this whole thing
that happened for me during the summer, which was so cool, but I
realized I was like, Oh my gosh,I never really talk about the
manuscript in general. I don't share it that much.
Like what the hell? Like, why not?
And now I'm like obsessed. If you follow me on Instagram,
you probably see the manner scripting Journal at least
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multiple times a week. I'm always promoting it,
promoting a link. I'm talking about the community,
I'm talking about the elevator app.
I'm doing this, that and the other.
And what that has done is that is like increased revenue in our
company by 80%. It's crazy just because I'm
talking about it a lot. And to you, for those of you
that are business owners, we sometimes feel like, oh, I don't
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want to bother people. Oh, they already know about it,
they're sick of it. No, people have the attention
span of a fish. Less than that probably.
Now people forget. They need to be reminded all the
time. So do something today that your
future self in business is goingto thank you for.
And in turn, I am sure that that's also going to reflect in
your money area, which then is of course going to make you feel
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even better. So do something for that in your
current Business Today. The next one is your
relationships. So right now, if you are someone
that's experiencing maybe drama or you're just not happy,
whether it's with a friendship circle or a friend or maybe it's
a romantic partner, if there's something going on, I want you
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to either one address it or let's start with the friends
first. Actually, we'll start with the
friends. We'll go into the romantic, but
there's something that I learnednot too long ago because I had
just moved to Austin, TX, so I only knew a few people here and
I've been kind of bopping in andout of groups.
I also live about 45 minutes outof the city, so I'm kind of out
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of the scene. I kind of honestly keep to
myself. Like I feel like I have more
virtual friends. I actually do.
What am I saying? I have way more virtual friends
than I do in person. 100%. I feel like I don't have many
real life friends at all. But with that to say is as
you're like meeting people and growing friends and maybe things
go South or you don't like the way you're being treated or
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you're feeling left out, that kind of stuff, I want you to ask
yourself, because even though your feelings might be hurt, I
want you to ask yourself, do I actually like them?
Do I actually want to be their friend?
And that's a really powerful question to ask because a lot of
times we're seeking validation. I want them to like me.
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I want them to invite me. I want them to do XY and ZI want
to be their bestie. But at the same time, it's like,
do you actually want to be theirbestie?
And are your feelings getting hurt because they're not
reciprocating? Or are your feelings getting
hurt because they're not validating you?
And when I learned this, I was all like, damn, damn, that's so
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real. And it helped me really check
myself with so many people that I thought I really wanted them
as my friends. But then when I really looked at
them and I'm like, well, I don'treally like this about you.
We don't align here. This doesn't really not really
into that. I'm like, what am I doing?
I was just seeking validation. And then I got butt hurt when
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like they didn't invite me to something.
So I thought we were friends. But you know, it's like at the
same time, I don't even really want to be their friend.
So I want you to think about relationships like that as well.
And you just have to understand that as you go through life,
people are going to come in and out.
They're going to come in and outand I watched this one TikTok
the other day and it was talkingabout how there's going to be
people in our lives that this like the five year stranger.
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It's like, think about five years ago, you probably had so
many different friends. Maybe it was different Co
workers. You had neighbors or different
friends because you lived in a certain area or you went to a
certain workout class and you were really close because you
saw each other frequently. And then all of a sudden, it's
like five years go by and maybe you moved or maybe you stopped
going to that gym or whatever. And then all of a sudden you're
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like strangers, right? So people ebb and flow into our
lives, and that's OK too. And now when it comes to the
relationship side of things, youknow, I'll be the first one to
tell you after being single for so long and not meeting my
husband until I was 32 years old, I can tell you one thing.
Relationships do not need to be hard.
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They shouldn't be hard. If you have a gut feeling that
you know something's wrong, something's not right,
something's not going on, trust it and exit out.
I know a lot of times we can give people benefit of the doubt
or give them second chances or stuff like that.
But honestly, I went through that shit.
I went through that so much in my 20s and making excuses for
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guys and you know, just dealing with it because you know, I
should just I should just settleand I should just take what I
can get. But when you finally do meet
that love of your life and that person that you are meant to be
with, I'm telling you, it is easy.
Not saying you're not going to go through struggles with that
person, but that struggle shouldn't be the relationship.
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It should be you 2 against the world, you 2 fighting for the
same thing against other things,right?
It could be you 2 doing stuff inbusiness and business is a
struggle, right? Or you 2 are doing something and
maybe it's financial that you'redoing something together or
maybe it's moving or family or whatever.
But it it should be so, so easy and it gets to be easy.
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And it breaks my heart to hear story after story of how it's so
difficult and hard and you want them to change and they're
acting out. Girl, bye.
Like tell them bye because life is too short and there's someone
out there for you that is going to, I was going to say fill your
heart, but I'm like, no, you arealready meant to be whole and
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that person is going to be addition.
It's not your other half, it's your joint, it's your partner.
I want you to just know that if you are in some sort of
relationship where things are 100% and you know that they have
broken your trust and all that, like it's in my opinion, life is
too short. Life is too short, so take from
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that what you want. And I know with relationships
it's the hardest part because there's so many feelings and
emotions and so many wounds thatstart popping up about
worthiness and will I find the right person or not?
But I'm telling you, when you stick to what you desire in a
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relationship and you do not waver, I promise you that person
will come in at the most perfecttime.
Work on your boundaries, work onyour desires for what you want
in a relationship and do not settle for anything less.
And then lastly, if your struggle and everything right
now going on is just your mindset overall, and I know I
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talk about journaling, write it down, meditate.
But seriously, seriously, what Iwant you to do is write down not
just what you don't want anymore, but first make that
list. What do you not want anymore?
Write that down. And then on the opposite side of
that, write down exactly what you do want instead.
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Because I think sometimes it's hard.
If you do one or the other, thenit's like, OK, well, what do I
want or what do I not want? But if we can get really clear
on both of those things, it makes it so much easier to
create a plan for what action you need to take.
Because when you shift your focus, when you shift literally
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what you're focusing on, right? You're going to shift your
energy. And I want you to right now just
like think about like look around if you can, and I want
you to look or find something blue, find something blue.
Right now. Just look around.
You find something blue. OK, great.
I'll tell you what I found. I have a blue pen right here.
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I'm looking out across. I live in Lake Travis.
I see a blue roof out there. I see.
Oh, a blue boat. I see a blue.
This is like a hard drive thing on my computer here.
So those are the blue things I see.
What do you see? You see blue.
OK, great. Now what did you see that was
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pink? You probably didn't see anything
pink because you weren't lookingat pink.
But is there pink somewhere out there around you or a shade of
pink, Maybe a little red? I have a pink lip gloss right
here. I have a pink reddish pen as
well in front of me. I see a reddish roof out in the
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distance, but see what happened there.
You were so focused on the blue that you didn't see the pink,
but the pink was always there. It's still existing even though
you paid no attention to it. And that's exactly what's going
on when we focus on the things that we do not want.
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So if you're, you know, with your mindset, if you're walking
around and saying, well, I don'twant to be broke anymore, or I
don't want shitty friends anymore, or I just don't want to
feel like crap anymore, your brain is going to constantly
pick out the things to prove youright.
And that's thanks to the reticular activating system.
If you want to shift your energyand your focus, we need to start
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focusing on the things that we do want.
So the clarity needs to be thereright down.
If you're stuck with mindset right now and you just feel
overwhelmed, exhausted, you justdon't even know what to focus
on. You don't know what the plan is.
You don't even know what you want to manifest.
When you start to manifest your Dream life challenge this coming
week, write down the list of what you don't want anymore.
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Then write down what you do want.
And then here's a bonus action step.
Whether you're doing it on 2 separate pieces of paper or you
do it on one and you do, you know, draw a line down the
middle, RIP off the side of the things that you don't want, RIP
it up, RIP it up into a bunch ofpieces.
You can even burn it, throw it in the trash, doing something to
signal it that this is done, that this is done.
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Interrupting this episode for just a minute because I need to
ask you, do you want the easiestand most low effort way to start
manifesting your dreams and changing your life?
Like not putting another thing on your To Do List but literally
it's as easy as pressing play? Then you need to download the
Elevate Her app immediately. It's packed with quick, powerful
(30:26):
audios, guide and meditation, subconscious reprogramming, and
power activations, all designed to shift your energy and unlock
your next level reality. I created this app for myself
when I needed to break free fromdoubt, fear and scarcity and
step into confidence, abundance and the belief that I can truly
have it all. And the best part is because
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you're listening to this podcast, you can try it free for
seven days. Just click the link in the show
notes below and start your Elevate Her journey today.
Your dream life babe is truly just one play away.
OK, let's get back to the episode with this, that thing
that you're avoiding right now. I want you to listen to this.
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That's the exact thing that's going to unlock your
breakthrough, I promise you. It's just weighing you down
right now, like an anchor. It's weighing you down.
And even though ignoring it can be fun for a minute, deep down,
when you lay down to go to sleepat night, you know, it's like in
the back of your head and it's so annoying.
You don't need to change your whole life overnight.
(31:35):
You know me, we do baby action steps because if you try to
change everything overnight, nothing will change at all
because your brain cannot handleit.
Your brain loves incremental habits and steps and action over
time, so it can slowly reprogramthat subconscious mind of yours,
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that supercomputer that lives inside your brain.
We need to slowly reprogram it one little baby step at a time
so it doesn't panic and freak out.
But at the end of the day, you do need to take one small step
today because the universe rewards speed.
The moment you make a move, you create momentum.
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And the momentum is what takes you from chaos to clarity, from
stuck to glowing up. And again, This is exactly why I
created and we're doing the Manifesto Dream Life challenge
together. There's over 400 and 37 women
that have signed up so far as oftoday because I know how
powerful it is when you stop ignoring the chaos and actually
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start turning it into your breakthrough.
So I'm so excited for you to join me.
Make sure if you're ready for this glow up join link is down
in the show notes. Because your glow up doesn't
start next year, your manifestations don't need to
wait until January for you to kick them off.
It doesn't start when you have more time or more money or when
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someone else finally gets their act together.
No, it starts today with you deciding that you deserve
better. So do the thing babe.
Take the action. And I also would love for you to
either DM me, let me know if this episode resonated, or
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better yet, come on over to our brand new community.
This is the community for manuscripting, Elevate her, mine
in general. We just launched a brand new
community. Actually, when you sign up for
the challenge, you'll get instant access to this
community. So I just highly recommend you
do it that way because it'll be easier for you to just gain
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access. Come in there.
Come share what you're working on with these action steps.
Let me know your biggest take away from this and I'll see you
inside the challenge hopefully Monday.
And if again, you're listening to this after the challenge, I
can't wait for you to dive into the replay.
So you're going to be so freaking good.
And one last thing is if you love this episode and if you
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feel like you have a friend that's really in it right now,
maybe they're struggling with something, an area in their life
that we talked about today, sendthem this episode.
Just copy, share the link, text it to them and be like, hey,
girl, I was just listening to this episode and I thought of
you. I thought you might like this so
send it over to them. I love when you ladies share
these episodes. It really helps the podcast
(34:28):
grow. And thank you so much for
listening and I will see you either in the challenge or
you'll hear from me next week for a new episode.
I love you so much and have an amazing day.
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