September 11, 2025 • 24 mins
Have you ever scrolled through Instagram, seen someone living your dream life, and thought… “That could never be me”? If so, this episode is for you.
In today’s bestie pep talk, I’m diving deep into the question that can shift everything: Why not you?
In this episode, we chat about:
💫 The sneaky ways victim mentality keeps you stuck and doubting yourself
💫 How to flip your inner dialogue from “life is happening to me” → “life is happening for me”
💫 A simple mindset exercise to rewrite the beliefs holding you back
💫 Why your desires aren’t random…they’re proof of what’s possible for you
💫 The small daily action that builds confidence and momentum toward your dream life
This isn’t just motivation, it’s a reminder you didn’t know you needed: your dreams are for you, bestie. The only question is… are you ready to start believing it?
🎧 Press play, take a deep breath, and let’s shift you from doubt into possibility.
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(00:08):
Welcome to the Money, Mindset, and Manicures podcast, the
ultimate guide to building a life you're obsessed with.
I'm Samantha Kazuch, and I'm here to empower women just like
you to script your dreams into reality and create the life
you've always dreamed of. Get ready to be inspired,
motivated, and empowered as we elevate our lives together.
(00:37):
Hey babe, welcome back to another episode of the Money,
Mindset and Manicures podcast. And I don't know about you, but
my energy in September has been through the roof.
And I think it's a combination of everything that I've been
doing the last week since September started, especially
with the lunar eclipse that we just had on the 7th.
(00:58):
Today that I'm recording this, it's the 999 portal.
And over the weekend, I've been doing a lot of clearing out and
releasing of things that are no longer serving me.
So if you haven't been paying attention to maybe my social
media, whether it's TikTok or Instagram or just in the Elevate
her community or the manuscripting community, you
need to jump in there because the last four months of the year
(01:22):
are going to be super transformative and powerful.
For those who are actually doingthis work on releasing this
stuff, that's really not servingyou.
And I can tell such a big difference.
Like even last night, I was up till 4:00 AM in the morning
working on this project because I just had so much creativity,
(01:43):
so much flow. The downloads were coming into
my brain and landing on my heart.
And I'm like, Oh my gosh, what is happening?
And I'm even feeling the same way right now.
Like I'm it is 8:30 PM and I'm recording this podcast instead
of going and hanging out with mydog.
My husband is actually out with some friends right now.
But I just have so much energy. And I wanted to record this
(02:04):
episode because I know that at some point you have asked
yourself recently, why not me? Like, why not you?
Even if the odds are not in yourfavor right now, why not you?
And you're probably been questioning or asking yourself
like, why does it feel like other people are getting all the
(02:25):
opportunities, the dream relationship, the business
success, the body, the lifestyle?
And you're just sitting there wondering when it's your turn,
even though you're manifesting, even though maybe you're super
clear on what it is that you want and you're doing all the
things, but you're just like, why not me?
And you keep asking yourself this over and over over.
Well, First off, I want to say I've been there too.
(02:47):
And secondly, I want you to knowsomething that the only thing
standing between you and the life you want is the belief that
it's not for you. That is it.
And the good news is beliefs arenot permanent and that you can
change them. And I feel like I can literally
just stop the podcast right herebecause like that, that's
(03:09):
literally it. But let's dive a little bit
deeper on this. So the best things about your
beliefs is that they can be changed.
So that is the good part right here is that when you're telling
yourself, why not me? No, no, no, good thing that we
can change them, but only if youswitch your mentality from
(03:32):
playing the victim and saying that everything is happening to
you to believing that you are the creator of your reality and
that everything is unfolding foryou in your best and highest
timeline. I'm going to call it out with
love right now for you is that you're just sitting in this
victim mentality because when you say things like things never
work out for me, it's just harder for me than everyone
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else. If only I had what she has.
If only I had better lighting ora better iPhone or a computer or
the skill, the talent, the looks, then I could do it.
Then it will work out for me. Then it will manifest.
And I know you've thought these things before, and I have too,
100%. But the truth about all of this
(04:16):
is, is those beliefs that you keep telling yourself over and
over and over. And that's what's keeping you
stuck. That's what's locking you in
place. That's what's pushing away those
things that you were trying to call in when you're either
manifesting or when you're trying to write down your goals
and trying to achieve them. But if you have this belief
system running in the back of your mind, it's never going to
(04:38):
happen for you because you cannot trick and full universal
laws. Now, if you haven't heard much
about universal laws, it's literally basically like the
most basic, basic version of it is to think about it in a way of
whatever you put out, whatever you're thinking, like that's
what's going to be reflected back to you.
And you cannot trick universal laws.
You know how you like kind of downplay yourself hoping that
(05:00):
someone will come in and like say, oh, no, but you look great,
girl. Oh, no, this is really good.
But really you're just like looking for them to like give
you that validation. Well, when it comes to
manifesting, it doesn't work that way because when it comes
to laws of attraction, laws of reprodosity, all of these
different ones literally like what you're putting out there is
(05:24):
going to come back. So instead of saying life is
happening to me, nothing's ever going to work out for me, I
really want you to try on and start saying to yourself, and
you will hear me say this over and over and over in master
classes and challenges on socialmedia, but you need to start
telling yourself life is happening for me.
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This is possible for me. I know I can have this.
This is my desire. And I know it is a desire
because it is meant for me. Even when things feel hard, even
when things are messy. Even when challenges are the
rise and you just have to start switching it.
First of all, write it down on apost it note.
Put it as a phone screensaver. Text it to yourself.
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Put it up on your wall that lifeis happening for me.
Because what if every challenge is just pointing you towards who
you're meant to become? So here's a little challenge.
For the next 24 hours, I want you to listen to your inner
dialogue and when you hear yourself say something like this
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always happens to me or I'm never going to make this happen.
This is never going to happen for me.
It's always just being everyone else.
Or when you're looking others with jealousy and all that, I
want you to pause and flip it. This is happening for me and
this is guiding me closer to my next level.
Because you weren't born into this life just to let it play
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you. You're here to create, you're
here to play in this life. So think of your desires as an
invitation. They're not random.
And in my recent challenge, I had said this one sentence and
I'm like, Oh my gosh, I've neversaid it in this way before, but
how I look at desires, right? They're like the, the things
that just pull on your heartstrings, that the things
(07:11):
that you just cannot stop thinking about, those are golden
bread crumbs from your future self.
Like imagine her just like throwing golden bread crumbs at
you to like show you, to signal to you, because obviously like
you can't quote UN quote, she's not a real person, right?
Like she is in the ether. She is already out there living
in this other timeline where everything that you desire
(07:31):
exists. But imagine her just throwing
these golden bread crumbs back to you telling you by desire,
hey girl, like this is for you. We are going this direction.
This is meant for you. Keep taking the action, keep
doing the things, keep believingin yourself.
Like we are already living this.You just have to catch up.
Imagine if you would just look at everything in that way.
(07:53):
If you feel pulled towards something, whether it's more
money, a certain career path, a dream partner, a lifestyle, it
is literally proof that it is meant for you.
Otherwise you wouldn't even havethat desire.
So just think about that. Like there are certain things
out there in the world I see, right?
Like maybe it's a certain car ora career or someone really
(08:15):
successful in some other niche. And I'm like, oh, that's so
cool. But I there's no charge.
Like there's no, there's no desire.
Oh, I really want to be that too, right?
There's so many things that you can think of right now that cool
people doing really cool things that are really successful and
you're just like, that's so cool, good for them, but you
feel nothing. That's kind of like proof of
(08:35):
when you have this desire or even when that little tinge of
jealousy pops up, right? That is literally a signal that
it is meant for you, and your only job is to choose beliefs
that support it. Interrupting this episode for
(08:55):
just a minute because I need to ask you, do you want the easiest
and most low effort way to startmanifesting your dreams and
changing your life? Like not putting another thing
on your To Do List, but literally it's as easy as
pressing play. Then you need to download the
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(09:17):
and power activations all designed to shift your energy
and unlock your next level reality.
I created this app for myself when I needed to break free from
doubt, fear and scarcity and step into confidence, abundance,
and the belief that I can truly have it all.
And the best part is because you're listening to this
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(09:40):
Just click the link in the show notes below and start your
Elevate Her journey today. Your dream life babe is truly
just one play away. OK, let's get back to the
episode. Here's a really simple exercise
that I like to do. I would write down one desire
that I've been doubting. So do that.
(10:01):
Write down a desire that you've been doubting.
Now write the belief that you'vebeen carrying around about it,
and then flip it into something that actually supports you.
So for example, if your desire is I really want a six figure
business. But if your old belief is or
your current belief is, gosh, that's unrealistic for me.
(10:21):
Oh my gosh, there's just no way.Like I can't even bring in
$1000, let alone 6 figures. The new belief is if she can do
it, I can too, why not me? And that's really great
scenario, especially when you see proof and it happening.
You know, you see on social media, you see someone having
(10:41):
what you already want, right? And that's when that little bit
of jealousy sometimes pops up, which Oh my gosh, I need to do a
whole episode on jealousy. But if you have the elevate her
app, please go in there after listening to this episode and
listen and just search in the search bar.
I forget what the video is called, but listen to the mini
master class on jealousy. It will literally change the way
that you look at jealousy even though it is known as like a
(11:04):
negative thing in our lives, right?
If you're jealous, it's like a bad thing.
No, you can use jealousy to literally supercharge your
manifestations. And when you see that there is
proof out there of someone having what you have, that's
literally proof for you that it can be for you too.
Like for example, today I was listening to this podcast
episode and there was this woman.
(11:25):
She was talking about her success and wearing very similar
niches. And she was talking about how
she grew her business and how much money that she's made.
And I was telling my husband about it.
I texted him because I was like,Oh my gosh, I'm listening to
this podcast and this woman likewe do really similar things and
I hadn't really heard of her before.
And I literally started crying writing this text message to
(11:47):
him. And I'm kind of almost choking
up right now thinking about it because it is proof that what
she is doing that is very similar to mine, that she has so
much success. And I was crying from this
place. Like my body just had this
energy of holy crap. Like you are on the brink of
(12:07):
creating something massive that is going to change so many
lives, that is going to make an impact.
And I'm talking about the elevator app.
And there is a literal proof outthere that someone is really
successful doing it. Because I feel like with the
elevator app, there isn't many apps out there like it.
And it's almost like kind of almost harder to sell it because
it's almost like, oh, well, like, what is it?
(12:29):
It's meditations. It's just an app, you know, that
kind of a thing. But the fact that there was this
proof and my body just had this reaction and I could just
totally feel my future self, my higher self literally like
showing me like I came across this episode randomly.
It's almost like proof to keep going because we have just
launched the app. And you know, whenever I launch
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anything, it's it's literally from a downloaded idea of making
this product to put it out therein the world.
Like, I don't know if it's goingto be successful.
I'm just following the golden bread crumbs literally.
And I had this reaction of thesetears and I haven't had that
kind of a reaction I think ever in my life.
And I was just like sobbing because I'm like right there.
(13:11):
And it's going to happen. And even though sometimes like,
especially with the app growth, like we've had great slow
success so far. Like it's great.
We have over a couple 100 members right now in the app and
it's so amazing and I'm getting the feedback and everything.
So I know I'm on the right path.But when you're not, you know,
hitting, especially in business,if you're an entrepreneur, you
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understand this a little bit more.
You know, if something's not taking off as fast as you had
thought or if the money isn't coming in as fast as you had
thought, right, what starts to happen?
You start to doubt yourself. Is this good enough?
Why don't the people like it? Why aren't more people signing
up for it? And at the end of the day, on my
end, I know I don't share about the app enough with the world
and you'll start seeing me go more ham about about it on
(13:54):
social media and getting the word out there and everything.
But it was just such a cool moment for me just sitting in
that and then reflecting on it, which literally created this
episode for me to record. But just sitting there in that
energy of I wasn't jealous. I wasn't like, Oh my God,
whatever. Like she is just probably making
(14:14):
up some, you know, like some fake news about her of why she
got so successful. I was literally in awe of, Oh my
God, this is possible for me too.
So I want you to flip the scripton anything right now where you
have these doubts, especially when you already see proof of
it. Like girl, I just want to like,
(14:35):
I have my hands on my forehead on my face right now because I'm
just like, girl, I just want to like shake you and show you
like, this is literal proof thatyou can do it too, that it is
possible for you. And it's just following those
golden bread crumbs and actuallytaking the action to do it.
Here's the magic phrase I want you to take is why not me?
(14:56):
Like why not me? It is going to be me.
This is for me. So every time doubt creeps in,
say it out loud, like when you're scrolling and you see
someone living your dream life, say, well, why not me?
That's possible for me too. And when you feel that fear of
taking action, say why not me? Like this is so possible for me.
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I know I can do this. These desires are on my heart
because this is the mission of my soul in this reality to do
it. And something else that I said
in the challenge last week or two weeks ago when we had it, is
when you have these desires, these downloads, these thoughts,
these everything that you want to create, but you have this
fear and it's holding you back. It is selfish for you to hold it
(15:40):
back. It is selfish because there is
someone out there waiting in theworld for you to deliver the
message. Because I have heard different
things so many different times from so many different people
and it never sticks. But then I come across this one,
whether it's a mentor, a coach, just a person and on social
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media and I hear it from them and it finally freaking glance.
So there are so many different ways to learn, right?
And you might be thinking, well,my market is saturated.
Oh my gosh. Well, everyone is doing this.
What's going to make me special?It's you, it's your essence,
it's your power, it's the way that you deliver things.
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It's your magic. Nobody has that.
That is not duplicatable. So I really want you to change
this perspective of your belief system.
And I know this is going to be hard, right?
Because our beliefs are so deeply rooted.
And that is why even with the Elevate Her app, like use the
pep talk activations, go in there, listen to that every
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single day. The reason I created it is
because I had these audios created for myself before I even
launched this app. This is the stuff that got me
out of my own way. This is the stuff that powered
me through the doubt, the fear, the overwhelm.
It got me into action because I know and I learned.
What you have learned now in thepodcast is that when you have a
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desire, it is meant for you to bring to life.
And you have this one life. So why waste it?
Literally why waste it? Because let's be real,
manifestation isn't just a belief, it's also action.
So you can't just sit on the couch and hope that everything
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falls into your lap. But I also don't want you to
overcomplicate this. Baby steps count.
Like literally that's how it starts.
The baby steps, it's just by every time you catch yourself,
right? When you say, well, you're not
saying it to yourself, odds are not in my favor.
But when you have that feeling of, gosh, it's never just going
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to happen. It's never going to happen.
It happens for everybody else, right?
But when you start showing up and doing the baby steps,
whether it's posting the video, sending the e-mail, having the
conversation, applying for the thing you need to walk into the
room that you're scared of, and confidence isn't built before
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you take action. That's another thing.
I know you're probably not confident now.
Shoot, I have confidence, but there's so many things that I do
every single day that I'm not fully, 100% confident in.
But over time, because I take the action to do the scary
thing, confidence starts building.
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The reason I can now pick up my phone and just shoot a quick
TikTok or Instagram Reel video or get on Stories, it's because
I've been doing it for over a decade.
But you better believe when I first started this 10 years ago,
when you know social media just came out and the first live
function happened, you better believe I was so freaking
scared. I was fumbling my words.
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My video sucked, but I just kepton doing it because I had this
desire that I knew I had to start showing up in the world
with whatever it was at the timethat I was doing it.
Every single business, every single pivot led me to where I
am today to equip me with what Ineeded to learn what I needed to
do to have what I have today. So it is all built through
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action. OK babe, I know we're deep in
this episode right now, but I need to interrupt it for a quick
moment because I need to ask you, Have you been craving a
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(19:35):
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(19:57):
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OK, go do that. After you're done listening,
let's get back to the show. So tomorrow morning when you
wake up, I want you to ask yourself, what's one small move,
one small task, one small habit that my higher self would take
today and then just start going to do the thing.
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Don't overthink it because the momentum compounds.
And the other secret to this allis consistency.
We have to be consistent. We have to be repetitive,
repetitive with our thoughts, with our feelings, with our
actions and stay consistent withit.
And that's when you're going to see that momentum.
That's when you're going to start seeing the shifts in your
reality because your reality does not change first.
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If you're waiting for everythingto change in your life, your
circumstances to change, for more money to come in, for you
to land that dream career, all if you're just waiting for that
to come in, it's never going to happen because you have to go
first. You weren't put here to live a
small life. You're not listening to this
podcast because you don't dream bigger.
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I know you have a lot of desires.
I know you have big goals. I know you have manifestations.
You're not meant to be stuck in these old beliefs.
You're not meant to doubt yourself every step of the way.
You were put here to freaking shine.
You were put here to create. You were put here to make an
impact. And when I say impact, I'm not
saying you're going to be, you know, the next influencer with a
(21:44):
million followers. You don't need millions of
followers, even thousands of followers, even hundred.
You don't need all that to create and make an impact.
The impact starts at a ripple effect.
It starts in your home. It starts in your community.
It starts with whoever you're coming into contact with, and
that's how you start truly living in your soul's purpose.
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So the next time doubt creeps in, I want you to hear my voice
saying Bestie, why not you? Because it is you.
It has always been you. So if you're ready to go just
deeper into this work, I have torecommend this guided
meditation. I feel like all of my
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meditations are like activationsin a way, guided visualization
activations. But if you have the elevator
app, I want you to go in and bookmark and schedule this audio
for yourself. And it is called Get Out of Your
Own Way. Go listen to that.
Put your headphones in, press play, and let me guide you into
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the energy of becoming her. And you can find that obviously
inside the elevator app. But that's it babe.
Remember, when the voice of doubt comes up this week, your
only job is to answer it back with why not me?
I love you so much. Let me know if this episode
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resonated with you. My DMS on Instagram are always
open and I'm always willing to chat and hear how you are
processing this, how this is landing for you.
So go ahead and send me Adm. And if you found this episode
impactful and life changing, well, life changing is a big
one. But I mean, it literally is life
(23:30):
changing because sometimes we just need to be told by somebody
else to snap the fuck out of it,right?
So Dang it, I did so good not cussing in this whole episode.
I'm really working on that rightnow, but if you found if you
love this episode, I would love love, love for you to leave me a
five star review. We don't run ads or anything
like that on the podcast. And this is a way for our
(23:53):
podcast to get on out there to the masses because I know a lot
of the stuff a lot of people arestruggling with.
And maybe you can even share this with a girlfriend that, you
know, has maybe had some lower frequency beliefs about herself.
So copy the link, send her a text message, tell her, hey,
babe, I was thinking of you. I think this could really serve
you right now. I would love for you to do that.
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So OK, babe, let's do this. Let's get out of our own way and
I'll see you in the next episode.
Love you so much.
Welcome to the Money, Mindset, and Manicures podcast, the
ultimate guide to building a life you're obsessed with.
I'm Samantha Kazuch, and I'm here to empower women just like
you to script your dreams into reality and create the life
you've always dreamed of. Get ready to be inspired,
motivated, and empowered as we elevate our lives together.
(00:37):
Hey babe, welcome back to another episode of the Money,
Mindset and Manicures podcast. And I don't know about you, but
my energy in September has been through the roof.
And I think it's a combination of everything that I've been
doing the last week since September started, especially
with the lunar eclipse that we just had on the 7th.
(00:58):
Today that I'm recording this, it's the 999 portal.
And over the weekend, I've been doing a lot of clearing out and
releasing of things that are no longer serving me.
So if you haven't been paying attention to maybe my social
media, whether it's TikTok or Instagram or just in the Elevate
her community or the manuscripting community, you
need to jump in there because the last four months of the year
(01:22):
are going to be super transformative and powerful.
For those who are actually doingthis work on releasing this
stuff, that's really not servingyou.
And I can tell such a big difference.
Like even last night, I was up till 4:00 AM in the morning
working on this project because I just had so much creativity,
(01:43):
so much flow. The downloads were coming into
my brain and landing on my heart.
And I'm like, Oh my gosh, what is happening?
And I'm even feeling the same way right now.
Like I'm it is 8:30 PM and I'm recording this podcast instead
of going and hanging out with mydog.
My husband is actually out with some friends right now.
But I just have so much energy. And I wanted to record this
(02:04):
episode because I know that at some point you have asked
yourself recently, why not me? Like, why not you?
Even if the odds are not in yourfavor right now, why not you?
And you're probably been questioning or asking yourself
like, why does it feel like other people are getting all the
(02:25):
opportunities, the dream relationship, the business
success, the body, the lifestyle?
And you're just sitting there wondering when it's your turn,
even though you're manifesting, even though maybe you're super
clear on what it is that you want and you're doing all the
things, but you're just like, why not me?
And you keep asking yourself this over and over over.
Well, First off, I want to say I've been there too.
(02:47):
And secondly, I want you to knowsomething that the only thing
standing between you and the life you want is the belief that
it's not for you. That is it.
And the good news is beliefs arenot permanent and that you can
change them. And I feel like I can literally
just stop the podcast right herebecause like that, that's
(03:09):
literally it. But let's dive a little bit
deeper on this. So the best things about your
beliefs is that they can be changed.
So that is the good part right here is that when you're telling
yourself, why not me? No, no, no, good thing that we
can change them, but only if youswitch your mentality from
(03:32):
playing the victim and saying that everything is happening to
you to believing that you are the creator of your reality and
that everything is unfolding foryou in your best and highest
timeline. I'm going to call it out with
love right now for you is that you're just sitting in this
victim mentality because when you say things like things never
work out for me, it's just harder for me than everyone
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else. If only I had what she has.
If only I had better lighting ora better iPhone or a computer or
the skill, the talent, the looks, then I could do it.
Then it will work out for me. Then it will manifest.
And I know you've thought these things before, and I have too,
100%. But the truth about all of this
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is, is those beliefs that you keep telling yourself over and
over and over. And that's what's keeping you
stuck. That's what's locking you in
place. That's what's pushing away those
things that you were trying to call in when you're either
manifesting or when you're trying to write down your goals
and trying to achieve them. But if you have this belief
system running in the back of your mind, it's never going to
(04:38):
happen for you because you cannot trick and full universal
laws. Now, if you haven't heard much
about universal laws, it's literally basically like the
most basic, basic version of it is to think about it in a way of
whatever you put out, whatever you're thinking, like that's
what's going to be reflected back to you.
And you cannot trick universal laws.
You know how you like kind of downplay yourself hoping that
(05:00):
someone will come in and like say, oh, no, but you look great,
girl. Oh, no, this is really good.
But really you're just like looking for them to like give
you that validation. Well, when it comes to
manifesting, it doesn't work that way because when it comes
to laws of attraction, laws of reprodosity, all of these
different ones literally like what you're putting out there is
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going to come back. So instead of saying life is
happening to me, nothing's ever going to work out for me, I
really want you to try on and start saying to yourself, and
you will hear me say this over and over and over in master
classes and challenges on socialmedia, but you need to start
telling yourself life is happening for me.
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This is possible for me. I know I can have this.
This is my desire. And I know it is a desire
because it is meant for me. Even when things feel hard, even
when things are messy. Even when challenges are the
rise and you just have to start switching it.
First of all, write it down on apost it note.
Put it as a phone screensaver. Text it to yourself.
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Put it up on your wall that lifeis happening for me.
Because what if every challenge is just pointing you towards who
you're meant to become? So here's a little challenge.
For the next 24 hours, I want you to listen to your inner
dialogue and when you hear yourself say something like this
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always happens to me or I'm never going to make this happen.
This is never going to happen for me.
It's always just being everyone else.
Or when you're looking others with jealousy and all that, I
want you to pause and flip it. This is happening for me and
this is guiding me closer to my next level.
Because you weren't born into this life just to let it play
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you. You're here to create, you're
here to play in this life. So think of your desires as an
invitation. They're not random.
And in my recent challenge, I had said this one sentence and
I'm like, Oh my gosh, I've neversaid it in this way before, but
how I look at desires, right? They're like the, the things
that just pull on your heartstrings, that the things
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that you just cannot stop thinking about, those are golden
bread crumbs from your future self.
Like imagine her just like throwing golden bread crumbs at
you to like show you, to signal to you, because obviously like
you can't quote UN quote, she's not a real person, right?
Like she is in the ether. She is already out there living
in this other timeline where everything that you desire
(07:31):
exists. But imagine her just throwing
these golden bread crumbs back to you telling you by desire,
hey girl, like this is for you. We are going this direction.
This is meant for you. Keep taking the action, keep
doing the things, keep believingin yourself.
Like we are already living this.You just have to catch up.
Imagine if you would just look at everything in that way.
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If you feel pulled towards something, whether it's more
money, a certain career path, a dream partner, a lifestyle, it
is literally proof that it is meant for you.
Otherwise you wouldn't even havethat desire.
So just think about that. Like there are certain things
out there in the world I see, right?
Like maybe it's a certain car ora career or someone really
(08:15):
successful in some other niche. And I'm like, oh, that's so
cool. But I there's no charge.
Like there's no, there's no desire.
Oh, I really want to be that too, right?
There's so many things that you can think of right now that cool
people doing really cool things that are really successful and
you're just like, that's so cool, good for them, but you
feel nothing. That's kind of like proof of
(08:35):
when you have this desire or even when that little tinge of
jealousy pops up, right? That is literally a signal that
it is meant for you, and your only job is to choose beliefs
that support it. Interrupting this episode for
(08:55):
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(09:17):
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(09:40):
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just one play away. OK, let's get back to the
episode. Here's a really simple exercise
that I like to do. I would write down one desire
that I've been doubting. So do that.
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Write down a desire that you've been doubting.
Now write the belief that you'vebeen carrying around about it,
and then flip it into something that actually supports you.
So for example, if your desire is I really want a six figure
business. But if your old belief is or
your current belief is, gosh, that's unrealistic for me.
(10:21):
Oh my gosh, there's just no way.Like I can't even bring in
$1000, let alone 6 figures. The new belief is if she can do
it, I can too, why not me? And that's really great
scenario, especially when you see proof and it happening.
You know, you see on social media, you see someone having
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what you already want, right? And that's when that little bit
of jealousy sometimes pops up, which Oh my gosh, I need to do a
whole episode on jealousy. But if you have the elevate her
app, please go in there after listening to this episode and
listen and just search in the search bar.
I forget what the video is called, but listen to the mini
master class on jealousy. It will literally change the way
that you look at jealousy even though it is known as like a
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negative thing in our lives, right?
If you're jealous, it's like a bad thing.
No, you can use jealousy to literally supercharge your
manifestations. And when you see that there is
proof out there of someone having what you have, that's
literally proof for you that it can be for you too.
Like for example, today I was listening to this podcast
episode and there was this woman.
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She was talking about her success and wearing very similar
niches. And she was talking about how
she grew her business and how much money that she's made.
And I was telling my husband about it.
I texted him because I was like,Oh my gosh, I'm listening to
this podcast and this woman likewe do really similar things and
I hadn't really heard of her before.
And I literally started crying writing this text message to
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him. And I'm kind of almost choking
up right now thinking about it because it is proof that what
she is doing that is very similar to mine, that she has so
much success. And I was crying from this
place. Like my body just had this
energy of holy crap. Like you are on the brink of
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creating something massive that is going to change so many
lives, that is going to make an impact.
And I'm talking about the elevator app.
And there is a literal proof outthere that someone is really
successful doing it. Because I feel like with the
elevator app, there isn't many apps out there like it.
And it's almost like kind of almost harder to sell it because
it's almost like, oh, well, like, what is it?
(12:29):
It's meditations. It's just an app, you know, that
kind of a thing. But the fact that there was this
proof and my body just had this reaction and I could just
totally feel my future self, my higher self literally like
showing me like I came across this episode randomly.
It's almost like proof to keep going because we have just
launched the app. And you know, whenever I launch
(12:50):
anything, it's it's literally from a downloaded idea of making
this product to put it out therein the world.
Like, I don't know if it's goingto be successful.
I'm just following the golden bread crumbs literally.
And I had this reaction of thesetears and I haven't had that
kind of a reaction I think ever in my life.
And I was just like sobbing because I'm like right there.
(13:11):
And it's going to happen. And even though sometimes like,
especially with the app growth, like we've had great slow
success so far. Like it's great.
We have over a couple 100 members right now in the app and
it's so amazing and I'm getting the feedback and everything.
So I know I'm on the right path.But when you're not, you know,
hitting, especially in business,if you're an entrepreneur, you
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understand this a little bit more.
You know, if something's not taking off as fast as you had
thought or if the money isn't coming in as fast as you had
thought, right, what starts to happen?
You start to doubt yourself. Is this good enough?
Why don't the people like it? Why aren't more people signing
up for it? And at the end of the day, on my
end, I know I don't share about the app enough with the world
and you'll start seeing me go more ham about about it on
(13:54):
social media and getting the word out there and everything.
But it was just such a cool moment for me just sitting in
that and then reflecting on it, which literally created this
episode for me to record. But just sitting there in that
energy of I wasn't jealous. I wasn't like, Oh my God,
whatever. Like she is just probably making
(14:14):
up some, you know, like some fake news about her of why she
got so successful. I was literally in awe of, Oh my
God, this is possible for me too.
So I want you to flip the scripton anything right now where you
have these doubts, especially when you already see proof of
it. Like girl, I just want to like,
(14:35):
I have my hands on my forehead on my face right now because I'm
just like, girl, I just want to like shake you and show you
like, this is literal proof thatyou can do it too, that it is
possible for you. And it's just following those
golden bread crumbs and actuallytaking the action to do it.
Here's the magic phrase I want you to take is why not me?
(14:56):
Like why not me? It is going to be me.
This is for me. So every time doubt creeps in,
say it out loud, like when you're scrolling and you see
someone living your dream life, say, well, why not me?
That's possible for me too. And when you feel that fear of
taking action, say why not me? Like this is so possible for me.
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I know I can do this. These desires are on my heart
because this is the mission of my soul in this reality to do
it. And something else that I said
in the challenge last week or two weeks ago when we had it, is
when you have these desires, these downloads, these thoughts,
these everything that you want to create, but you have this
fear and it's holding you back. It is selfish for you to hold it
(15:40):
back. It is selfish because there is
someone out there waiting in theworld for you to deliver the
message. Because I have heard different
things so many different times from so many different people
and it never sticks. But then I come across this one,
whether it's a mentor, a coach, just a person and on social
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media and I hear it from them and it finally freaking glance.
So there are so many different ways to learn, right?
And you might be thinking, well,my market is saturated.
Oh my gosh. Well, everyone is doing this.
What's going to make me special?It's you, it's your essence,
it's your power, it's the way that you deliver things.
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It's your magic. Nobody has that.
That is not duplicatable. So I really want you to change
this perspective of your belief system.
And I know this is going to be hard, right?
Because our beliefs are so deeply rooted.
And that is why even with the Elevate Her app, like use the
pep talk activations, go in there, listen to that every
(16:45):
single day. The reason I created it is
because I had these audios created for myself before I even
launched this app. This is the stuff that got me
out of my own way. This is the stuff that powered
me through the doubt, the fear, the overwhelm.
It got me into action because I know and I learned.
What you have learned now in thepodcast is that when you have a
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desire, it is meant for you to bring to life.
And you have this one life. So why waste it?
Literally why waste it? Because let's be real,
manifestation isn't just a belief, it's also action.
So you can't just sit on the couch and hope that everything
(17:28):
falls into your lap. But I also don't want you to
overcomplicate this. Baby steps count.
Like literally that's how it starts.
The baby steps, it's just by every time you catch yourself,
right? When you say, well, you're not
saying it to yourself, odds are not in my favor.
But when you have that feeling of, gosh, it's never just going
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to happen. It's never going to happen.
It happens for everybody else, right?
But when you start showing up and doing the baby steps,
whether it's posting the video, sending the e-mail, having the
conversation, applying for the thing you need to walk into the
room that you're scared of, and confidence isn't built before
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you take action. That's another thing.
I know you're probably not confident now.
Shoot, I have confidence, but there's so many things that I do
every single day that I'm not fully, 100% confident in.
But over time, because I take the action to do the scary
thing, confidence starts building.
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The reason I can now pick up my phone and just shoot a quick
TikTok or Instagram Reel video or get on Stories, it's because
I've been doing it for over a decade.
But you better believe when I first started this 10 years ago,
when you know social media just came out and the first live
function happened, you better believe I was so freaking
scared. I was fumbling my words.
(18:52):
My video sucked, but I just kepton doing it because I had this
desire that I knew I had to start showing up in the world
with whatever it was at the timethat I was doing it.
Every single business, every single pivot led me to where I
am today to equip me with what Ineeded to learn what I needed to
do to have what I have today. So it is all built through
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action. OK babe, I know we're deep in
this episode right now, but I need to interrupt it for a quick
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OK, go do that. After you're done listening,
let's get back to the show. So tomorrow morning when you
wake up, I want you to ask yourself, what's one small move,
one small task, one small habit that my higher self would take
today and then just start going to do the thing.
(20:39):
Don't overthink it because the momentum compounds.
And the other secret to this allis consistency.
We have to be consistent. We have to be repetitive,
repetitive with our thoughts, with our feelings, with our
actions and stay consistent withit.
And that's when you're going to see that momentum.
That's when you're going to start seeing the shifts in your
reality because your reality does not change first.
(21:01):
If you're waiting for everythingto change in your life, your
circumstances to change, for more money to come in, for you
to land that dream career, all if you're just waiting for that
to come in, it's never going to happen because you have to go
first. You weren't put here to live a
small life. You're not listening to this
podcast because you don't dream bigger.
(21:23):
I know you have a lot of desires.
I know you have big goals. I know you have manifestations.
You're not meant to be stuck in these old beliefs.
You're not meant to doubt yourself every step of the way.
You were put here to freaking shine.
You were put here to create. You were put here to make an
impact. And when I say impact, I'm not
saying you're going to be, you know, the next influencer with a
(21:44):
million followers. You don't need millions of
followers, even thousands of followers, even hundred.
You don't need all that to create and make an impact.
The impact starts at a ripple effect.
It starts in your home. It starts in your community.
It starts with whoever you're coming into contact with, and
that's how you start truly living in your soul's purpose.
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So the next time doubt creeps in, I want you to hear my voice
saying Bestie, why not you? Because it is you.
It has always been you. So if you're ready to go just
deeper into this work, I have torecommend this guided
meditation. I feel like all of my
(22:27):
meditations are like activationsin a way, guided visualization
activations. But if you have the elevator
app, I want you to go in and bookmark and schedule this audio
for yourself. And it is called Get Out of Your
Own Way. Go listen to that.
Put your headphones in, press play, and let me guide you into
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the energy of becoming her. And you can find that obviously
inside the elevator app. But that's it babe.
Remember, when the voice of doubt comes up this week, your
only job is to answer it back with why not me?
I love you so much. Let me know if this episode
(23:10):
resonated with you. My DMS on Instagram are always
open and I'm always willing to chat and hear how you are
processing this, how this is landing for you.
So go ahead and send me Adm. And if you found this episode
impactful and life changing, well, life changing is a big
one. But I mean, it literally is life
(23:30):
changing because sometimes we just need to be told by somebody
else to snap the fuck out of it,right?
So Dang it, I did so good not cussing in this whole episode.
I'm really working on that rightnow, but if you found if you
love this episode, I would love love, love for you to leave me a
five star review. We don't run ads or anything
like that on the podcast. And this is a way for our
(23:53):
podcast to get on out there to the masses because I know a lot
of the stuff a lot of people arestruggling with.
And maybe you can even share this with a girlfriend that, you
know, has maybe had some lower frequency beliefs about herself.
So copy the link, send her a text message, tell her, hey,
babe, I was thinking of you. I think this could really serve
you right now. I would love for you to do that.
(24:16):
So OK, babe, let's do this. Let's get out of our own way and
I'll see you in the next episode.
Love you so much.
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